Getting Left on Read

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  • čas přidán 10. 12. 2020
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    Everyone gets left on read, but the guys who succeed with women don't let it affect them emotionally and the guys who don't succeed let it get to them. In this video I talk about some quick tips to get them to respond more but more the mindset to have when getting left on read. Hint: it doesn't mean its a rejection.
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Komentáře • 489

  • @TheSingleGuy
    @TheSingleGuy  Před 3 lety +72

    I don't know why the last post of this did not show the thumbnail so I uploaded it again

    • @jyoti61948net
      @jyoti61948net Před 3 lety +1

      Glad you did.

    • @MS54905
      @MS54905 Před 3 lety +1

      Don't worry Lloyd, I already did leave my like again to show my support!
      You're helping me so much and the least I can do is help you in this way. 😁👍

    • @__loafy__
      @__loafy__ Před rokem

      Are you, by chance, an octaroon? Or, perhaps, a African American? You have the appearance of one😁. Let me and everyone else know!

  • @dontwatch1398
    @dontwatch1398 Před 2 lety +246

    Men leave women on read: “he’s an asshole”
    Women leave men on read: “stop crying and move on bro”

  • @HassanPoyo
    @HassanPoyo Před 3 lety +617

    Getting left on read works in your favour. It means you don’t need to waste your time on her. Instead you can focus more on the other girls that make your life easier or devote your time to bettering yourself.

    • @NsIX3
      @NsIX3 Před 3 lety +24

      Facts.

    • @brown_recidivist
      @brown_recidivist Před 3 lety +37

      My nigga

    • @MegaXtc11
      @MegaXtc11 Před 3 lety +14

      I suppose this also includes girls you did meet up but after the initial meetup they ignore your messages.

    • @NsIX3
      @NsIX3 Před 3 lety +2

      @@MegaXtc11 of course

    • @leeturner8023
      @leeturner8023 Před 3 lety +11

      No, it means you don’t look like prime Dolph Lundgren with the salary to match. That’s the harsh truth.

  • @vxrcxtti2x219
    @vxrcxtti2x219 Před 3 lety +855

    You left her speechless that’s all

  • @jaymedalbeth6962
    @jaymedalbeth6962 Před 3 lety +492

    Being left on read is just as annoying as dry texting to be honest

    • @oobibab9572
      @oobibab9572 Před 3 lety +56

      nah don't let it affect your emotions my guy. Those are just irrelevant actions which will not matter in the long run. Focus on your own shit don't let this senseless external actions of women affect your overall state of wellbeing.

    • @BrownTownShiznitBass
      @BrownTownShiznitBass Před 3 lety +9

      And my Ex's wonder why I didn't consider them for marriage. Your on your 60th guy and I'm on my 20th girl. Your 25, I'm 30. The first time I talked to you hella rude and ignorant. And your going to cry when I leave. . .Theyre just bodies to use for temporary emotional and physical completeness.

    • @jaymedalbeth6962
      @jaymedalbeth6962 Před 3 lety +2

      @@oobibab9572 When this happens or conversations are one sided, I just ignore them

    • @jaymedalbeth6962
      @jaymedalbeth6962 Před 3 lety +3

      @@BrownTownShiznitBass They don't want to commit. Saddens me woman wanna use men for personal gain

    • @oobibab9572
      @oobibab9572 Před 3 lety +1

      @@jaymedalbeth6962 Then don't let them use you.

  • @ICEcoldJT
    @ICEcoldJT Před 3 lety +459

    IT IS WHAT IT IS 🤷🏽‍♂️ MOVE ON

  • @BarriosGroupie
    @BarriosGroupie Před 2 lety +87

    This guy knows what he's talking about: 1:04 "your ability to deal with discomfort, rejection, to deal with things not exactly going your way, will determine your success, not just in dating, but _in life_ "

  • @eddyecheverria5064
    @eddyecheverria5064 Před 3 lety +187

    You should look at rejection as a tool that reveals incompatibility instead of evidence of your unworthiness or inadequacy’s. My G, she didn’t deserve you in the first place.

    • @aaronflowers8881
      @aaronflowers8881 Před 2 lety +4

      Fact

    • @matt566
      @matt566 Před rokem +2

      The incompatibility could really be that you are problematic and it is putting them off. Don't lie to yourself. You won't change.

  • @brown_recidivist
    @brown_recidivist Před 3 lety +223

    If she leaves you on read,
    Move on to the next broad

    • @peterpunpkin6996
      @peterpunpkin6996 Před 3 lety +34

      I just got left on seen. We talked for an hour, and than, boom. It’s been over a day.
      First I’m asking someone out and this is what happened. She hasn’t left me any choice. I’m going to be a famous millionaire.

    • @markmolloy1381
      @markmolloy1381 Před 3 lety +2

      I watched another video and your man said it's ok to double text but you should wait at least a week before sending the second text to avoid looking desperate.

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 Před 2 lety

      @@markmolloy1381 I also saw it, it's wrong advice, never double text

    • @Maria-rq8gz
      @Maria-rq8gz Před 2 lety

      @@Sammie551 I replied to his story and then texted him and the thing is that he left me on delivered not even read. So should I delete the message?

    • @Maria-rq8gz
      @Maria-rq8gz Před 2 lety

      And what's funny is that he used to like me a lot

  • @AndrewMindHacker
    @AndrewMindHacker Před 3 lety +116

    - Hey wait, are you a gymnast?
    - Yes.
    End of conversation lolol 🤣

  • @ryantiz2427
    @ryantiz2427 Před 3 lety +228

    Girl after girl, I keep getting left on read even after they tell me I’m cute. Maybe I’m just born to be single for the rest of my life

  • @final58fant58
    @final58fant58 Před 3 lety +338

    I freaked out and got in my feelings and took it extremely personal because i was obsessed with her. 🤦🏻‍♂️ And went crazy over her because i didn’t want to lose her and started crying over her at night lol 🤦🏻‍♂️

    • @cengizandak4241
      @cengizandak4241 Před 3 lety +99

      Well, acting needy only ruins the relationship. Same happened to me too. At the end she ghosted me

    • @faithstumza1732
      @faithstumza1732 Před 3 lety +46

      Make your first million dollar, she will regret..

    • @matthiasmoers2799
      @matthiasmoers2799 Před 3 lety +4

      Yeah same

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 Před 2 lety +27

      It's hard when she looks very attractive lol

    • @playmakersmusic
      @playmakersmusic Před 2 lety +33

      @@Sammie551 Don't put her on a pedestal, treat her just like a friend. I used to do the same to a lady and she blocked me. I was so paranoid that she's talking to other guys.

  • @sofiapfister8083
    @sofiapfister8083 Před 2 lety +51

    My dude. I'm so in love with this one person who left me on read and your advice is healing my broken heart and my self-criticising mentality. Thank you so much.

    • @Indielizard711
      @Indielizard711 Před rokem +8

      It triggers your abandonment issues and makes you cling, it’s a typical mind game. You deserve better…

  • @whatifoundtoday5126
    @whatifoundtoday5126 Před 3 lety +23

    Me searching this after getting left on read😂😂😂🥺🥺😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @triplejudy
    @triplejudy Před 3 lety +25

    My advice:
    1. Send a a text that you have an interest in a phone conversation.
    In the meantime send the same text to many others.
    2. No response?
    3. Forget about it dude; it's her loss.
    4. Move on!

  • @Qalulla
    @Qalulla Před 3 lety +66

    It's annoying when I get left open on Snapchat and I found out the person that left me an opened posted a story

    • @Sarah.MuMu21
      @Sarah.MuMu21 Před 3 lety +35

      Or even viewe ur story but doesn't text bk

    • @sacrifice308
      @sacrifice308 Před 2 lety +15

      @@Sarah.MuMu21 this happened to me rn, ima just cut her off smh

    • @ttamcc.4674
      @ttamcc.4674 Před 2 lety

      @@Sarah.MuMu21 nah you just need to screw off with that mentality

    • @emanuel5944
      @emanuel5944 Před 3 měsíci

      That Lowkey be annoying though I be texting people on Snapchat and I get left on seen or delivered for days and days or months lol but they have the audacity to look at my story and shit lol but it’s crickets when texting them

  • @LuisArias-ui5dw
    @LuisArias-ui5dw Před 3 lety +134

    Never double text if ur left on read just move on dudes find another chick

  • @you122789
    @you122789 Před 3 lety +66

    you look like a 90s motorcycle cop 👮🏍️

  • @HassanPoyo
    @HassanPoyo Před 3 lety +145

    I hope Lloyd doesn’t keep my comment left on read :(

  • @adnaneothman2934
    @adnaneothman2934 Před 2 lety +13

    "If She Leaves You On Blue, Her Mother You Shall Persue"
    -Master Oogway

  • @dizaved6052
    @dizaved6052 Před 3 lety +53

    Another key point is that even a modestly attractive girl has so many options that by the law of Supply and Demand each one is of little value to her. So the opportunity cost of not responding to you when she is busy is irrelevant when YOU version 2.0, 2.1, 2.2, 2.3 is immediately available.

    • @ThehollyJesus041
      @ThehollyJesus041 Před rokem

      She left me on read so I left her on read irl 💀💀 she was like ignore me thrn

  • @joeblack7326
    @joeblack7326 Před 3 lety +18

    Hands down, best guy when it comes to dating advice for men. Been here since day 1 of quarantine. Thankful I found your channel.

  • @massimiliano_mogetta_bartolini

    I love the passion Lloyd puts in it 💯

  • @brendan594
    @brendan594 Před rokem +7

    I still prefer getting left on read than getting left on delivered

  • @Louis-hk7pm
    @Louis-hk7pm Před 3 lety +22

    My groupmates left me on read now we can't progress our group work

  • @Crazydanehede
    @Crazydanehede Před 3 lety +22

    I love the positive energy you have in your videos.

  • @noahhughes2580
    @noahhughes2580 Před rokem +9

    Hey, at least she read the text instead of not opening it haha

  • @empiricalfarming
    @empiricalfarming Před 3 lety +6

    Wow been waiting for this video for months

  • @outoftunepianist
    @outoftunepianist Před 11 měsíci +9

    using this as a girl who’s having problems with my friend. she leaves me on read all the time, and it hurts. i don’t think she realizes how much it hurts me, but i’m scared to tell her. we’re online friends, so we’ve never met in real life, but we’re really good friends either way. but it feels like she keeps getting annoyed by me just by trying to keep in contact with her. the only contact i have with her is my phone, so i have to text her to talk to her. not sure what her problem is, but i’m scared that i’m the only one making the effort in this friendship at this point.

    • @wotanmituns33
      @wotanmituns33 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Yep. Seems one sided and like she doesn't appreciate you. Don't feel bad, find friends that'll appreciate you. Her loss kinda thing. But if she changes course, great!

    • @Saujas
      @Saujas Před 2 měsíci +1

      Exact scenario
      It ended taught me
      What priority is:
      I should be my top priority
      Then parents

  • @ismaelbarrera2571
    @ismaelbarrera2571 Před 3 lety +8

    Makes sense to me. Good vid as always.

  • @cengizandak4241
    @cengizandak4241 Před 3 lety +13

    Hey lloyd, big fan of your channel. Can you make a video about when/how to ask for what girl is expecting from man during the meetup

  • @Indielizard711
    @Indielizard711 Před rokem +8

    There’s common decency, if I get a long text or if I can’t reply to it I say “hey, I’m kind of busy right now but let me get back to you later on…” I’m in my 30’s and met my husband on a dating up. Things that stood out to me were 1) distance, he was my neighbor! 2) availability- he had time for me to fit into his life and 3) he didn’t play any mind games and neither did I. In the beginning I felt he was ignoring me and I played mind games back, but it turned out he is a big video game nerd, so we started doing alone things together. I’m artsy so I would make art or read while he played video games.

    • @wotanmituns33
      @wotanmituns33 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Exactly. Taking a long time to read and reply can mean that the person is simply busy or not looking at their phone. But leaving on read permanently? That's just plain old disrespectful. Like, you took the time to open the message but didn't care to provide a reaction/reply for hours or even days? Come on... If someone does this to you routinely do yourself a favor and leave.

    • @wotanmituns33
      @wotanmituns33 Před 9 měsíci

      What are you even doing watching this video? Were you left on read? Well, then establish standards. You get what you tolerate.@@IntegraDIY

  • @deonambrose
    @deonambrose Před 2 lety +11

    I meet a Woman, we have a nice talk, we add each other on social media and I get left on read every time I try to text her. And I get a lot of excuses on why she couldn't text me back. I get less interested nowadays.

  • @CambiaAhora
    @CambiaAhora Před 3 lety +2

    Agreed, most times we project ourselves into people, and internal doubts come on.

  • @samjetson2971
    @samjetson2971 Před 2 lety +17

    Being left on read is a form of mental torture, in my opinion. I purposefully want to be left on read because I have no interest or trust in anyone, but my family and people I have to meet everyday who have jobs and have to serve me. Friends come and go.

    • @wotanmituns33
      @wotanmituns33 Před 10 měsíci

      Yep. When you grow up you learn that your only best friends are your parents.

    • @SunshineSuperstar
      @SunshineSuperstar Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@wotanmituns33Nope!

  • @sisterhoodwithchantel
    @sisterhoodwithchantel Před rokem +13

    3:33 This! I forget to text back all the time. Some just people don’t prioritize texting and it saddens me that ppl don’t understand this. Texting to get things done or make plans YES! Texting to have a full blown “ conversation “ NO! People have real lives and are not on their phones 24/7! Excellent video! Thank you!

    • @fredtide
      @fredtide Před 10 měsíci +5

      Forget to text back even peaople you like?

    • @wotanmituns33
      @wotanmituns33 Před 10 měsíci +2

      I used to be like this for years and always got complains about why I ignored people. I've now improved myself and learned that we are living in 2023 and texting back is a sign of respect and appreciation for the other person. It doesn't mean you need to engage in hour long conversations. But even if someone sends me just a meme, I will in the very least react with an emoji. It means the person remembered you and wanted to share something with you. I just don't have space in my life for people that are not reciprocal anymore. Yes, it is rude to leave people on read and/or have exchanges that are not balanced. Do better, don't excuse your bad attitute. Only low value people will accept that from you, and do you really want them in your life?

    • @SunshineSuperstar
      @SunshineSuperstar Před 3 měsíci +2

      ​@@wotanmituns33 yeah well said!
      Not responding to a text is trashy, low quality behaviour!

    • @emanuel5944
      @emanuel5944 Před 3 měsíci

      I mean yeah but if you can’t respond then at least let them know that you cant talk right now and that I’ll talk to you when you’re not busy instead of making them look clueless and not know when to text you or you feel annoyed when they hit you up cause that is annoying tbh

  • @Idk-xi1tr
    @Idk-xi1tr Před 3 lety +58

    Idk why people overreact getting left on read, trust me guys, girls wont get attached to you easily to the point of chasing you or making you a priority in the "talking stage". So its common for her not bothering to answer you back for som reason, she may even forget it. Just wait a few days and if she doesnt reply, text her again only if youre really interested and seem unbothered by it. But please dont react to getting left on read, its cringy

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 Před 2 lety +15

      Don't double text dude

    • @emanuel5944
      @emanuel5944 Před 2 lety +10

      Even when you do that it’s not gonna work

    • @Idk-xi1tr
      @Idk-xi1tr Před 2 lety +11

      girls take long to get attached fellas, dont expect to be chased thats just what im saying

    • @TheChaosblock
      @TheChaosblock Před 2 lety +9

      @@Sammie551 there’s no reason not to double text… wait a day or two approach again without reacting and carry on as if it didn’t happen. Girls aren’t the best at time management, in fact they’re god awful at it and aren’t trained to be the hunter in a relationship. Even if she’s interested she’ll end up procrastinating thinking about what to say and all other types of dumb shit. Waiting on her to chase you is like watching paint dry, not gonna happen anytime soon

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 Před 2 lety

      @@TheChaosblock Yeah they don't know what to say cause they can say dumb stuff if they try to flirt
      Example, she knew she wouldn't be able to afford my car started the conversation to ask if I'm selling my car, I said yes.. interested? And she went mute.

  • @neilhansel6519
    @neilhansel6519 Před 3 lety +7

    Brooo you made my frickin dayyy!!!

  • @georgepalaio3745
    @georgepalaio3745 Před 3 lety +33

    Next time she sends you a text you leave her on read

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 Před 2 lety +2

      Exactly, that's the point where she'll start phoning you and then you have to pick up and tell her it was disrespectful for her to leave you on read

  • @backpackprepper6658
    @backpackprepper6658 Před 3 lety +2

    Since this is my first rodeo in the love subject, I need this👏👏👏👏

  • @malpaca3045
    @malpaca3045 Před 3 lety +30

    Ive been trying to focus on my business to build more confidence and it does help

    • @mattkuliser1009
      @mattkuliser1009 Před 2 lety +2

      You’re truly right. Had the same experience too

    • @ttamcc.4674
      @ttamcc.4674 Před 2 lety

      Bruh ik that don’t help at all as dudes with testosterone. I can see right through that

  • @peterpunpkin6996
    @peterpunpkin6996 Před 3 lety +42

    I just got left on seen. We talked for an hour and than, boom. Left on seen. Been over a day.
    It took me over a week just to send her a dm.
    It’s my first time asking someone out and this is the result.
    Now, there is only one option. I’m going to a famous millionaire.

  • @danielalejandro2602
    @danielalejandro2602 Před 3 lety +20

    "they get left on read and didn't even ask a question" 😂

  • @jyoti61948net
    @jyoti61948net Před 3 lety +39

    I'm sure Lloyd read this and ignored it.

  • @Latino_Burrito
    @Latino_Burrito Před 3 lety +29

    It’s genuinely concerning how common it is for me. I swear every girl does it to me I don’t understand

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 Před 2 lety +12

      Don't worry about it, every girl has that mind game, best thing is not to overreact

    • @luisperez4297
      @luisperez4297 Před 2 lety +7

      You’re too nice buddy

    • @jonathanwilliams365
      @jonathanwilliams365 Před rokem +1

      @@luisperez4297 I have the same problem

    • @wotanmituns33
      @wotanmituns33 Před 10 měsíci

      The best reaction is to give them the same medicine, permanently that is. And then forget about it.@@Sammie551

    • @christiansnaturestudio6599
      @christiansnaturestudio6599 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Plus, a lot of women who do this are college educated 😂.

  • @hmhm856
    @hmhm856 Před rokem +21

    If a girl likes you and youre not a couple, then yes, she might leave you on read. However, if youre a guy, its very demoralizing to keep pursuing a girl who has left you on read
    Remmeber, girls always have tons of guys texting her at the same time on every app at the same time possible, so texting becomes a chore for her.
    While we man, we barely have any woman texting us since girls are too chicken to put themselves out there.
    I always say that if a woman who is not your girlfriend texts you alot, then it most likely means that youre in the friendzone
    Honestly, getting read is only bad if you ask her out on a date and she doesnt answer leaves you read.

    • @sty_nj9
      @sty_nj9 Před rokem +1

      We talked a lot in class
      I liked her i wanted to be freindly so i sent her a meme and a short text it was a joke about the video (meme) and she didnt replie
      What shes trying to do ?

    • @Masterofoppurtunity
      @Masterofoppurtunity Před rokem +1

      Or if she texts you alot and never intend to meet up lol I don't care leave me on read when it's time to meet up I'll see if you're really serious

  • @johngonzalezjg3529
    @johngonzalezjg3529 Před 3 lety +3

    Yooo bro thanks now i feel alot better

  • @KaoAsoni
    @KaoAsoni Před 3 lety +36

    Advice from a woman... if you're left on read ... she's just not that attracted to you. TRUST me! I have never left anyone that I was really attracted to, on read. However it doesn't mean that she's not attracted to you and there is always a chance. just don't double text. If she's busy she'll def hit you back, eventually

    • @wckiller30
      @wckiller30 Před 3 lety +38

      Advice from a man FOR men Never listen to a woman when it comes down to these things

    • @KaoAsoni
      @KaoAsoni Před 3 lety +2

      @@wckiller30 hahahaha okayyyyy... well if they want to know how women think.. maybe a woman's perspective is helpful. I'm just speaking from my own experience and interactions

    • @wckiller30
      @wckiller30 Před 3 lety +13

      Most dont think at all

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 Před 2 lety

      @@KaoAsoni You women generally don't know yourselves more than we know you lol

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 Před 2 lety +7

      @@KaoAsoni I've had women leaving me on read just to see how I'll react and then they hit me up later with attraction, so it depends

  • @Twi5tyxDxGSix5
    @Twi5tyxDxGSix5 Před 2 lety

    I needed the pep talk thanks

  • @jparcasm
    @jparcasm Před 2 lety +31

    She didn't leave you on read, you just left her speechless

    • @larrycollins4558
      @larrycollins4558 Před rokem +2

      She did 🙄

    • @YoshiSaikono
      @YoshiSaikono Před rokem +3

      Aint no way my Goodnight text left her speechless 💀

    • @wotanmituns33
      @wotanmituns33 Před 10 měsíci

      If delusion was a comment. Bro she left you on read and that's it. Move on.

  • @amari1368
    @amari1368 Před 3 lety

    Really digging the new hair style bro

  • @Duke_Desmo_888
    @Duke_Desmo_888 Před měsícem

    Keep things open, great tip

  • @Kisetai
    @Kisetai Před 3 lety +3

    Dudes giving the guys here the ass kick much needed. Cheers pal

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 Před 2 lety

      Imagine all the women coming in here thinking we need their perspective just because she's a woman lol

  • @smiteeboi0421
    @smiteeboi0421 Před rokem

    This is amazing advice thank you

  • @simbz194
    @simbz194 Před 3 lety +8

    Little secret, its all cat and mouse games. Remove yourself from that mentality and become the one who is in charge of the trap. Essentially focus on yourself, your goals, succeed in completing those goals, know that less is more, and do more than say, this way you become the "trap-holder" know why!?!
    Because you are in control of your own time, your own destiny, your own space(house), your own actions, and so on so forth. Which means, you've put yourself in a very particular position for which your life is stable, only a matter of time for something to come your way and you have everything that no one can easily run away from🤣 A mad analogy but love is a bit crazy and sensible at the same time.

  • @gambit_toys6554
    @gambit_toys6554 Před 3 lety +1

    Must approach consistently

  • @tristanherb49
    @tristanherb49 Před 9 měsíci +1

    just keep moving forward.
    Even if you are getting rejected even after rejection because you are worth more than they let you think.

    • @christiansnaturestudio6599
      @christiansnaturestudio6599 Před 3 měsíci

      How so? Does that mean I'll marry a supermodel in the future? I'll be a crypto millionaire next month

  • @voyagersmarch8776
    @voyagersmarch8776 Před 3 lety +8

    I don't think girls will be as busy as guys bro

  • @alectopot719
    @alectopot719 Před rokem +6

    My friends leave me on read often

    • @chadchad2144
      @chadchad2144 Před 10 měsíci +4

      Then they are not friends they only use you for your benefit

    • @alectopot719
      @alectopot719 Před 10 měsíci +3

      @@chadchad2144 True im just a useless third wheel to them

  • @samfdsd2134
    @samfdsd2134 Před 3 lety

    thank you really helpful! do you have a podcast? i hope you do!

  • @krishm16
    @krishm16 Před 3 lety +22

    Everyone wants someone who can hold a conversation. But it's incredibly difficult to do via texting as opposed to in person. How do you have a conversation with 6 word texts and keep substance. It's so difficult for me to keep someone engaged in text. I prefer phone calls and even then its difficult getting to that stage.

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 Před 2 lety

      Phone calls is another way of getting left on read

    • @krishm16
      @krishm16 Před 2 lety +4

      @@Sammie551 Not if they answer the phone...

    • @emanuel5944
      @emanuel5944 Před 2 lety +4

      @@krishm16 but sometimes if you want a call a person they sometimes don’t wanna pick up the phone and sometimes they make excuses to not talk to you I seen it before lol so

  • @alexxander1768
    @alexxander1768 Před rokem +3

    This is for online dating... still applicable to most girls via any text though.
    First off, pro hint here, if you are below a 9 or 10 out of 10, only start texting a girl on a Wednesday night or Thursday. This means if you catch her attention, she's likely to be down to hang out that weekend sometime. If the girl can't get free for 1 day out of the entire weekend, you are easily able to block her and move on. They still need time to 'process' you for a day and she's probably texting at least 3-5 other guys if you're lucky. You text her too early in the week, the chances she talks to a 'better man' are much higher, or she just changes her mind. Are you going to throw out your lure and bait in an area where a fish might bite in 5 days, or 2 days? It also devalues you to be texting early in the week, a man has things to take care of, or at least that's the image you want for first impressions.
    You shouldn't be trying to text back and fourth with a girl to begin with, other than basic conversation and greetings. If you think some silly joke or manipulation tactic is going to be the thing that pushes her over the edge, you're miseducated. You're just going to come off as some 'le redditor' or discord mod. They are either attracted to you online or not. If being witty or a clown was important to women, comedians would be considered sexy. I've never heard a girl say Chris Farley or Dave Chapelle or Eddy Murphy was sexy. I've never heard a girl say any comedian was sexy. If you are a 1-6/10, you may need to neg/insult the girl - in that case you can make a light joke at her expense to show her you are direct which makes you different than other men. But playing the negging game doesn't work long term and is toxic. If you're a 7-8 and you know it, you shouldn't need to neg a girl. You should be able to consistently get 5-7's by copy pasting messages and setting up meets. Always make sure the meet is within a short car ride or walking distance to your place or hers, so you can find a reason to leave the bar or shop and go solo with her.
    What they really prefer anyways is a man being direct. And at the end of the day, if she truly sees something in you, she's going to give you a chance. So there's no reason for you to play games. If she leaves you on read for more than a day if she's a 6 or below, just block and move on. If she's a 7 or higher, consider not blocking but clearing the chat and moving on. You can directly ask if she wants to meet you if she gets back to you, but you do not waste another text after that and you immediately block.
    Just get a notepad up, copy paste a few phrases like "Hi there, what's good?' "You seemed pretty cool, would you like to get a bite or drink sometime this weekend?". Do not ever compliment a girl before hooking up or dating them. The compliment is your time invested to begin with.

    • @Tilnaor
      @Tilnaor Před rokem

      this fucking chess game that I hate the most about the society. Not just in girls. This kind of mentality is everywhere.

  • @mariamayub212
    @mariamayub212 Před 2 lety +28

    I'm a girl and all my friends leave me on read when I send out happy Friday hug text messages just to be nice. Sometimes I think it's because I'm visually impaired and they don't really like me but they just try to be polite. I wonder if there's a video about that and if we should keep trying to be friendly when we never hear back from certain people and if they really are our friends or if we're just deluding ourselves LOL great video though!

    • @bobbyibitoye3978
      @bobbyibitoye3978 Před 2 lety +13

      Those aren’t your real friends then

    • @benjistylez4923
      @benjistylez4923 Před 2 lety +6

      Tf leave them

    • @persona8991
      @persona8991 Před 2 lety +1

      That’s sad. Hope your okay

    • @wotanmituns33
      @wotanmituns33 Před 10 měsíci

      Yep. Seems one sided and like they don't appreciate you. Don't feel bad, find friends that'll appreciate you. Their loss kinda thing. But if they change course, great!

    • @Jthhhhgghhhhi-xj5bj
      @Jthhhhgghhhhi-xj5bj Před 5 měsíci +1

      I got left on read from many girls i dont know what will happen with me

  • @sofia-ju8pj
    @sofia-ju8pj Před 2 lety +14

    i’m a girl and seeing all those stories made me feel better about being left on read by this annoying human being of a stupid guy i’m happy it’s summer vacay so i don’t get to see him 💀

  • @pabl0sauced0
    @pabl0sauced0 Před 3 lety +6

    I just had a girl knock on my door who worked for the city letting people know about water, we talked at my foor for like 30 minutes until she left and asked for my number, afterwards she said i was really cool and ask for my social media. After talking for about a day or so she seemed super interested. Once i told her how i felt, she left me on read.... Should've i played the rude asshole instead?? Thats seems to work🤦😭

  • @youngfinance6319
    @youngfinance6319 Před 3 lety +17

    dont wanna be left on seen? become a famous millionare and she will regret it LOL

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 Před 2 lety +8

      Or move on and find a girl who actually respects you
      She'll regret that too when she finds out

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 Před 2 lety +2

      @Richaroo It works if you better yourself and not be in the same physical/financial position you were last time.

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 Před 2 lety

      @Richaroo Talking about working out/ going to the gym

    • @benjistylez4923
      @benjistylez4923 Před 2 lety

      @Richaroo workout it makes you help with your face

  • @mr.boogie3631
    @mr.boogie3631 Před 2 lety +14

    I get left on read constantly it is what it is rather be alone mostly can’t do nothing back because if you complain about it you become annoying or in some cases a weirdo so it is what it is

    • @evarodriguez3831
      @evarodriguez3831 Před rokem +5

      Same here, I don’t understand why ppl do that.. mine has started to become a pattern Ive noticed.. mayb he really is busy, but I am too I’m moving on

    • @wotanmituns33
      @wotanmituns33 Před 10 měsíci

      Yes it is very disrespectful to do that. I don't think it is in the least acceptable. I know because I used to do that and saw how people got annoyed by it. And when people do it to me I also get annoyed. It's just not polite.

    • @christiansnaturestudio6599
      @christiansnaturestudio6599 Před 3 měsíci

      The women who left on read often are super weirdos

  • @haunteddreams7856
    @haunteddreams7856 Před 2 lety

    I had the honesty to be forward..... All I ask if for a simple yes or no

  • @maximtitov7103
    @maximtitov7103 Před 3 lety +1

    oh, I got scared by this outro music, started to think that my laptop is taking control over itself ohhh

  • @christianlee9360
    @christianlee9360 Před 3 lety +13

    Loyd, as a thin guy what do you say when girls comment on your small frame. I get it all the time and it makes me insecure. Things like “I would only date a guy that’s bigger than me”

    • @NsIX3
      @NsIX3 Před 3 lety +2

      Start going to the gym, deadass.

    • @eddyecheverria5064
      @eddyecheverria5064 Před 3 lety +5

      Research meal plans/weight training programs that are specifically geared for muscle mass and tonality. Otherwise, who gives a f..k what people think about your frame. Accept your current situation for what it is and be grateful that you can change it starting now. Your amazing The way you are.

    • @naomiealexandre9026
      @naomiealexandre9026 Před 3 lety +1

      ive dated men smaller than me. the right girl(s) are out there for you

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 Před 2 lety

      @@naomiealexandre9026 It's not even about that, it will be hard to find that one woman or even if he was dating one, she'll still have a problem with him and could be with him for other reasons, it's up to him to tell her to do something about herself too so gets a taste of her own medicine. But the best thing is to go to the gym or to not get bothered by it because women don't like dating a man who admits his insecurities!

    • @Icrshou
      @Icrshou Před 2 lety +2

      Then tell them “cool, then do it” and straight up reject them for being shallow.

  • @theqsanity5797
    @theqsanity5797 Před 3 lety +2

    Is he not single anymore? why did he say he's not the single guy?

  • @angelguttierrez6500
    @angelguttierrez6500 Před 3 lety +12

    I want to give up or end my life this is so stress full to deal with 😔

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 Před 2 lety +11

      Don't worry, every girl does it for different reasons including mind games, so it's best not to overreact

    • @christiansnaturestudio6599
      @christiansnaturestudio6599 Před 3 měsíci

      Same. I had lots of patience, and it's starting to run out eventually

  • @paulgoodwin4844
    @paulgoodwin4844 Před 3 lety

    Thank you

  • @Survitron7414
    @Survitron7414 Před 3 lety

    This had me alive again

  • @aboutmillions
    @aboutmillions Před rokem +3

    This chick dmed me randomly to tell me to feel better (I had the flu) and that she was coming to my city in a few weeks. Asked for my number, I sent it off. She then sends me flu meds thru door dash, and ghosts me shortly after that. Never using my number, that was the weirdest exchange I’ve had in awhile lol 😂

  • @squidballs
    @squidballs Před 3 lety +4

    My boyfriend keeps leaving me on read about just a minute after I message him. I say “hi” and he leaves me on read :/ I prefer that he leave me on delivered instead.

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 Před 2 lety +1

      Well there's a stereotype type about women being attracted to busy men instead of putting you first in his life by worshipping you, you have to do the chasing and he'll appreciate it by rewarding you his time, it's your boyfriend, not some dude you're dating

  • @CalvinJamesJr
    @CalvinJamesJr Před 3 lety +5

    🔥

  • @kasai5675
    @kasai5675 Před rokem

    Left on read since 3 month can’t stop thinking abt her (see her in my class) she ain’t knowing.

  • @chastitymalone105
    @chastitymalone105 Před 2 lety +1

    It’s okay not a big deal 😅

  • @bjarnieinarsson5469
    @bjarnieinarsson5469 Před 4 měsíci

    What about if you write like a semi long response to a question. Then end in a short question

  • @mkowboy13
    @mkowboy13 Před 3 lety

    My friend who’s a guy got left on read by one of our group of friends lol & was complaining about it

  • @user-yy4lv7pw6t
    @user-yy4lv7pw6t Před 3 lety +3

    Hey, so i need some advice. I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for over 2 years and its been great. But recently she leaves me on read for days, even weeks. Everytime we talk its short but we both are happy and have a nice time, but then its back to being left on read. Is this my fault? I feel guilty because maybe its my fault she doesn't respond to me hardly ever.

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 Před 2 lety +2

      Ask her about it, command your position as a man and call her out on things she does wrong. Women tolerate man who are capable of moving on to someone better, in this case it's different cause she's your girlfriend so show her that masculine energy cause it could be that she's testing you

    • @Tylerc4xAF
      @Tylerc4xAF Před rokem

      Buddy I wish I could explain to you how annoying that is. I had an ongoing relationship with this girl for 3 years and the happiness scale when we were in each other's company was great but she also left me on read for days on end. Do not even try to deal with her. Let her go. She is probably not over some of her past guys. Or she's talking to other guys. It was a huge waste of my time even trying to deal with it. Sorry that happened to ya

  • @pedrovara4712
    @pedrovara4712 Před rokem

    We started talking
    We hung out once. It went well
    When i suggested hanging out again, she said she didn't feel confortable hanging with men alone, even with her male friends, because she broke up in may with her boyfriend. They dated for 3 years.
    After a month, I sent a message again, we had a fun conversation, and she left me on read when I told her that Im waiting for her to invite me to her boat, playfully (because she recently got her boat driver license). She liked my last message (it was on instagram).
    Did I mess up? Should I move on? Or should I wait some time and ask her out again?

  • @mattiasthenotoriousnilsson7375

    but if i am left on read how long do i wait and what to do to give it one last chance?

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 Před 2 lety +2

      Wait until she texts you back even if it takes long, just make sure to leave her on read too
      That's the point where she'll phone you and you're going to have to pick up

  • @AudiomanDarkStories
    @AudiomanDarkStories Před rokem +1

    It all comes down to … does she like you or not.

  • @TheBamaPrinceable
    @TheBamaPrinceable Před 3 lety +1

    If I'm such an awesome guy then why am I still waiting for that awesomeness to pay off?
    @5:23

  • @fatsardine
    @fatsardine Před 3 lety +5

    I asked this girl about my crush and if she had any contacts of him because she sat next to him for the whole grade in our class and they talked here and there and I was just wondering.. and let me just tell you, right before I was gonna send the message, I was having a literal panic attack because I didn’t want her to think that I liked him because I didn’t want her to know .. and she left me on read 😂

  • @Retro-beat-em-up-games

    We if this is happening after a face to face interaction?

  • @callmeej8399
    @callmeej8399 Před 3 lety +3

    I know I’m supposed to move on but it hurts bad today I screwed up and now I’m just sad. I’ll move on and be a better man but god it sucks

    • @Sammie551
      @Sammie551 Před 2 lety +1

      Yeah, she probably looks very attractive

  • @mustangjack06
    @mustangjack06 Před 10 měsíci +3

    #1 text hack: leave the west and find someone with class overseas

    • @N0lRE
      @N0lRE Před 3 měsíci

      I do that and they still leave you on read

  • @Jdog305Cubanito
    @Jdog305Cubanito Před 3 lety +5

    Moral key 🔑 concept it’s legit not that big of a deal for reals y’all 🤌🏾💎💯

  • @racoonrugslayer4593
    @racoonrugslayer4593 Před 2 lety +1

    What do u do if u get left on opened on snapchat

  • @TYE2020
    @TYE2020 Před 2 lety +17

    She leaves u open? we do not care, move on life happens shit happens your a man there's plenty of girls u can talk to it's not a big deal. I get left open all the time who cares I dun wake up everyday to impress ppl

    • @Masterofoppurtunity
      @Masterofoppurtunity Před rokem +1

      Exactly now if you're asking her out and making plans with her and she's playing around and wasting your time then it's time to block

    • @TYE2020
      @TYE2020 Před rokem +2

      @@Masterofoppurtunity exactly

    • @Masterofoppurtunity
      @Masterofoppurtunity Před rokem

      @@TYE2020 yh I don't care if she leaves me on read when I call her for the meet up and all I hear is excuses, "NEXT"

  • @rsawhney22
    @rsawhney22 Před 3 lety

    What's up man! So you hit on a point where Im having trouble! Though it makes sense and exciting, I tend to get into my words and it becomes long block messages. Any advice on how to fix that?

  • @BG-xq9tj
    @BG-xq9tj Před měsícem

    Does it work the other way round, if a guy left u on read.😞

  • @ctmjay2783
    @ctmjay2783 Před 2 lety +3

    You can’t just move on if it’s the girl u really wanted even if you try to take her out yo mind are you really just gonna let her walk out your life 😐

  • @ermalmorina7917
    @ermalmorina7917 Před 2 lety

    I been left on read a lot but idk cause i leave them on read too

  • @kokichioma6773
    @kokichioma6773 Před 2 lety +1

    Ok so I said sorry to my bf and he just left me on opened. It's been ages and I'm crying what do I do

  • @oblivious108
    @oblivious108 Před rokem

    Yeah, when I get left in read, I just leave it alone and move on.

  • @whitex3898
    @whitex3898 Před 2 lety +2

    Added a girl on snap that I go to school with, stayed up past midnight talking to her, went pretty well I think, then… the next morning I’m on delivered and haven’t heard back for 16 hours now.
    (May be important to mention that for some reason she starts crying and I had no idea why so I was just like “I don’t wanna pry but if you need anything let me know”. She just thanks I will. So then we kept snapping back and forth for like 30 mins and I fell asleep.)

    • @AlexBamboo337
      @AlexBamboo337 Před rokem

      update?

    • @whitex3898
      @whitex3898 Před rokem

      @@AlexBamboo337 nothing ever came of it. Decided it wasn’t worth worrying about all the time and just found another girl to talk to. After some time I started dating this girl and it’s been great.