When she loses attraction, how to attract her again

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  • Don't chase her and avoid women that are always hot and cold with you.
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Komentáře • 544

  • @TheSingleGuy
    @TheSingleGuy  Před 4 lety +525

    I also find a lot of guys start to act needy once they find out a girl likes them.

    • @turo007
      @turo007 Před 4 lety +6

      Hey i really like the content!
      i have a friend i like we have some mutual friends and we get along pretty well we got to talking a bit at a small party. She asked so many questions and genuinely seemed interested but then I asked her out to eat before the whole corona deal and she said she had just gone through a break up and some stuff and she wanted to work on herself i said fine and that was that. after that shes been liking every post and replying to some stories unlike before she didnt really acknowledge me on social media but then i message her and its like i cant get much feedback. We text eachother every week nothing too serious but i dont know if shes texting me cause there is some interest or because shes bored.. my question is should i still keep her as an option or should i move on?

    • @SiriusLeeMusic
      @SiriusLeeMusic Před 4 lety +12

      Arturo Gonzalez keep her as option and move on find other women out there.

    • @TBrianOnline
      @TBrianOnline Před 4 lety +60

      Once you catch feelings it's hard to control yourself. But I like that things like this happen, it teaches us to work on ourselves and become stronger as people.

    • @John-ul9sy
      @John-ul9sy Před 4 lety +10

      @@turo007 If you already threw your shot its on her now to keep you interested. For now take what she is doing as a rejection and find someone else. Always keep moving forward

    • @feggyfo
      @feggyfo Před 4 lety +3

      Can anyone give me a good response to what I'm about to say. So I've been trying to stay of instagram. I only log in when I post dance videos. I was reading about instagram saying you have to engage in people's content in order to grow yours. I have this policy where I stopped liking or commenting on hot girls post just to keep me focused and to prevent given attention to girls that don't need it. I really don't want to like posts at all because it messes with my mind seeing a lot of posts. So what do you think I should do?

  • @ixplain
    @ixplain Před 4 lety +938

    If she loses attraction then just move on and look for other Options. If you cant forget about her then that is an indicator for a lack of selfworth and selflove. Trust me if a Women wants you then she will make the obvious signs and be easygoing for you.

    • @alvekcdeshton4085
      @alvekcdeshton4085 Před 4 lety +14

      True

    • @yongamamtsali4127
      @yongamamtsali4127 Před 4 lety +15

      Yesssss sir this man is spitting bars

    • @epicvibration1759
      @epicvibration1759 Před 3 lety +22

      Some of em do pullbacks as tests and you need to be strong and give them space but still persist a bit, just not latch right on and go go go just because you find out they like you.

    • @Rclsllh
      @Rclsllh Před 3 lety +9

      Am a girl and this is not true. Sometimes we worry what if he is toxic? Did you raise any red flag? Whatever you do, NEVER EVER send a dick pick, if you do you’ll make it to the blocked list:

    • @mattiasthenotoriousnilsson7375
      @mattiasthenotoriousnilsson7375 Před 3 lety +5

      but i dont get that many chances with new girls thats why i have hard to just move on

  • @johng2706
    @johng2706 Před 4 lety +805

    The fastest way to re-attract a girl is to completely disappear from her life. She backs away, you back away twice as hard. Two can play that game.

    • @mosesmelo5535
      @mosesmelo5535 Před 3 lety +19

      Bingo!!!!!!!!!

    • @victoriaross3263
      @victoriaross3263 Před 3 lety +59

      Lol no. If I'm not interested in a guy and he decides to disappear it's a relief.

    • @johng2706
      @johng2706 Před 3 lety +156

      @@victoriaross3263 What I said only works if she was actually attracted in the first place or the possibility or re-attracting her is still there. But if she was never attracted to begin with or has completely moved on then yes it won't make a difference.

    • @worksahara3127
      @worksahara3127 Před 3 lety +58

      @@victoriaross3263 who cares about you

    • @elrox007
      @elrox007 Před 3 lety +25

      @@victoriaross3263 noeone cares about you

  • @KGHoffy
    @KGHoffy Před rokem +103

    You just gotta have the “at one point in my life i didnt know this girl and i was completely fine” mindset.

    • @HashBandicoot356
      @HashBandicoot356 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Hard when you have known them 25 years....

    • @drs2257
      @drs2257 Před měsícem

      The thing is that I wasn't completely fine. Before she entered my life, I was suffering from personal issues. When she did enter, my life became more positive

  • @austins7721
    @austins7721 Před 4 lety +692

    The best advice with a girl who isn't showing interest is to do the same thing to them. We have a short life to live and shouldn't spend it worrying about people who aren't interested in us. Take control of your life and have confidence that everything will fall into place.

  • @SanaxUltd
    @SanaxUltd Před 4 lety +369

    1) build your body 2) exert dominance 3) say what you want

    • @sammassey5587
      @sammassey5587 Před 3 lety +2

      @@futureboyy4422 best of luck.

    • @rockhaze
      @rockhaze Před 3 lety +8

      That's the Chad method.

    • @krishnair4642
      @krishnair4642 Před rokem +1

      What if she doesn't give what i want??

    • @notting2640
      @notting2640 Před 9 měsíci

      @@krishnair4642stop being indian 😂

  • @titoslounge1946
    @titoslounge1946 Před 4 lety +366

    Damn dude your hair looks way better like this.

  • @dustinmagallanes3510
    @dustinmagallanes3510 Před 4 lety +461

    Me spending less time worrying about girls and spending more time focusing on my podcast and school. Ironically I get more girls!😂

  • @wandersonbarros2597
    @wandersonbarros2597 Před 3 lety +52

    When we love we care... If you care for someone and that person doesn't appreciate that, VANISH! That person doesn't deserve you!

  • @archicube
    @archicube Před 4 lety +85

    when SHE loses attraction just turn around and go your way

  • @elsquibbs
    @elsquibbs Před 4 lety +100

    Walk away and don't look back. If she contacts you and you're still interested at all, reciprocate whatever she does. Don't initiate.
    Work on yourself in the meantime.

  • @paulsaik3568
    @paulsaik3568 Před 4 lety +246

    The secret is, this. Meet other women to get over other women. You’d be surprised how much value another woman could bring you than the one that you thought was the one. Funny enough, you’ll start to get out of being emotionally invested with ole girl and see you don’t like her lifestyle as much u thought u did. People are gunna do what they want to do. Being controlling is not a good idea. Work on you homie! Most important, focus first on Christ. Prayer helps. ...make money (saving money) setting goals, and see a psychologist that works with you. It may not be for you, but man it helps keep me straight.
    Quick tip: get a girl to massage you. It’ll ease your mind.

  • @thomasdiep3524
    @thomasdiep3524 Před 3 lety +20

    “You chase, she replace”

  • @rickmuc089
    @rickmuc089 Před 4 lety +150

    Happened to me, worried a lot, was sad, really got to me. Now I met someone new and she is interested. It seems that she is like genuinely interested in me, my life and what I care about.
    My advice would be: always try to pursue in the beginning and if you notice that she stops texting/responding, that she is "being strange" and all that stuff - leave it like that. There is nothing to gain in the long run. I mean sure, if you just want to hook up you can keep going but you probably won't achieve a healthy longtime relationship.
    People that are seriously interested and care about your life and values, they will stick around.

    • @rickmuc089
      @rickmuc089 Před 4 lety +17

      And of course, don't stop dating just because you met someone. I'm still seeing other girls right now and it feels good. Makes me less needy and I don't get attached too soon. I would only stop seeing other girls once it gets serious with someone or I get the impression that she wants me to be in a relationship with her.

    • @zipper_1
      @zipper_1 Před rokem +1

      @@rickmuc089 Its been 3 years what happened

    • @rickmuc089
      @rickmuc089 Před rokem

      @@zipper_1 😄 Moved to a different city, met someone knew and now ive been living together with her for about half a year. So it worked out pretty Well i guess 😅

    • @zipper_1
      @zipper_1 Před rokem

      @@rickmuc089 So there is no hope i can get her again😭 damn bro
      I hope you guys continue with each other

  • @memegenarator632
    @memegenarator632 Před 4 lety +185

    Anyone loosing girls attraction because you guys cant date because of quarantine?

    • @thecowboy9698
      @thecowboy9698 Před 4 lety +64

      They did you a favor. If they were really into you, they would be understanding, and still try to communicate even though you cannot physically see each other.
      Sometimes not getting what you want is really a blessing, even though it seems the exact opposite in the moment. Sometimes the thing you want most is not always the best thing for you.
      There's a quote from Mr. Spock in the old Star Trek series and it says: “After a time, you may find that having is not so pleasing a thing after all as wanting. It is not logical, but is often true.”

    • @Booster_Gold115
      @Booster_Gold115 Před 4 lety +1

      The Cowboy That's very well said my friend.

    • @ikhwanafiq4834
      @ikhwanafiq4834 Před 4 lety +1

      Me

    • @tenzo2575
      @tenzo2575 Před 4 lety +8

      My ex broke up with me 4 days ago and its because of our relationship getting toxic during quarantine😞 we had absolutely no problems when we would used to see each other in real life.😕

    • @Prodsacul
      @Prodsacul Před 4 lety +2

      @@thecowboy9698 this straight facts right here

  • @ElPatron42069
    @ElPatron42069 Před 3 lety +60

    Sadly in the age of social media, relationships are a thing of the past and marriages are ancient history.

    • @sidvyas9810
      @sidvyas9810 Před 2 lety

      It's not the social/digital media, it's the typical female nature. We just got to know about it now

    • @Mrgreen2558
      @Mrgreen2558 Před rokem

      Yep you are right, go to Asia you will find a good wife willing treat you like a king

    • @innavision1920
      @innavision1920 Před 9 měsíci +1

      It’s depressing. I just want someone to spend time with, laugh and enjoy the simple things in life no drama or complicated needs/desires. Just basic appreciation and affection for one another

    • @stinkyfish8357
      @stinkyfish8357 Před 3 měsíci

      Your treating her with respect caring about her while some douch bag is in her DMs trying to smash and she’s entertaining it , that’s the reality we live in

  • @Peacefull__Warrior
    @Peacefull__Warrior Před 3 lety +12

    Hats off to you Lloyd. You’ve got intelligent, well-balanced, and actionable content for days. Your advice is honestly helping to remind me of my value to others as a man.

  • @nattiemania
    @nattiemania Před 4 lety +13

    Thank you for the tips. Finally got my kind of girl. She met a better version of me and i'm grateful for who i've become in the last 6-7 months. The self value thing you once talked about is very crucial. I hope other men out there can focus on being better, relaxed, taking good care of themselves and thoughts. I'll keep following and watching more of your videos.

  • @thebluethunderbunny2324
    @thebluethunderbunny2324 Před 4 lety +103

    If you're in a setting where you see each other everyday, one of the best ways to recapture her attention is to start openly showing interest in another girl. If you're getting less attention for no discernible reason, and you're sure that she was interested before, there's a good chance she's putting you in her back pocket. While you're tucked away there, she won't put much thought into being with you, but she'll feel safe knowing that she has you benched as an option. But if she witnesses you putting your energy into someone else, she'll realize that you aren't actually tucked away in her back pocket at all, just waiting for her to finally come around. This will cause her to put thought priority into reevaluating her interest in you, and you might find yourself getting more attention from her as a result. It's still not a guarantee, but it's a great way to make a girl think twice.
    It's a lot like going to the Best Buy and seeing the last copy of that game you had your eye on. If you think it's gonna be there tomorrow, you'd be more inclined to let it sit. But if you see someone else picking it up and looking at it, that's when you'll want it even more.

  • @damariuswingfield2144
    @damariuswingfield2144 Před 4 lety +13

    This is basic psychology, let alone dating. They distance makes the heart grow fonder.

  • @RJ-ox3gi
    @RJ-ox3gi Před 4 lety +18

    First comment. Your advice really has helped me past few months, and I’ve been getting a lot more girls.

  • @krazylegz11
    @krazylegz11 Před rokem +3

    I've watched a ton of other videos on this subject from other CZcamsrs and your advice is so down to earth and simple and it also gives me confidence when things don't work out or I'm not feeling like myself. Thank you for everything.

  • @thornodell8680
    @thornodell8680 Před 4 lety +8

    Thank you. I needed to hear this, my gf who I have been with for a year has started to text less and want to hang out less. I will definitely utilize this information to gain respect and attraction back

  • @royb3152
    @royb3152 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Awesome advice!! Being ok no matter what! Original and a leader.

  • @drmanhat4483
    @drmanhat4483 Před 3 lety +49

    I'm literally in this exact boat. This chick at work was deff showing me alot of interest so I asked her out after two months of getting to know her and flirting. We went on the date and I literally saw all the signs that she lost attraction or interest. I made the decision to just pull back and not chase or giver her attention at work or over text (P.s: the only time I've texted her was to go on the date.) Things are still a bit flirtatious but idk how things are gonna be long term, it's only been two work days. I can tell she's not use to a guy not chasing or try harder after she is was the one to show less interest. I'm focusing on my purpose, school, work and feels pretty good. Tbh I feel more respect for myself for not chasing validation.

    • @YOFACE9999
      @YOFACE9999 Před 3 lety +2

      Update?? Having the same problem.

    • @drmanhat4483
      @drmanhat4483 Před 3 lety +13

      @@YOFACE9999 it didn't turn into anything because I didn't chase at all after. In my situation it didn't look like she regained attraction. Mainly because she was kind of hot and she was already getting a lot of attention elsewhere. I simply just left it alone . P.s she doesn't work at my job anymore, but we still interact on social media once in a while. My advice is I should have let her leave the job before asking her out. No point in creating that vibe at work. If you decide to pull back just stay pulled back.

  • @chocolatechip8281
    @chocolatechip8281 Před 4 lety +4

    That’s some fire & relatable advice!!

  • @kerryfoster1
    @kerryfoster1 Před 4 lety +3

    Yes I agree with this. Go out with someone else or show interest in someone else and make sure (not obviously) she gets to hear about it. If there is no reaction from her, YES WALK AWAY! Don't waste energy on those who don't have an interest in you....

  • @charlestan6999
    @charlestan6999 Před 3 lety +4

    Nice advice sir!
    If you think that she still has feelings for you even if it's just a little bit, then continue on pursuing her. Make her feel that you're always there for her. But worst case scenario, If she has moved on or doesn't have any feelings for you anymore, then just move on. You should spend more time with your friends and family to make you feel better. Continue on doing your hobbies or if you have a job/ business just focus on that. Besides, there's a lot of women out there. It's better if the feelings are mutual and if she values you as well. Always remember that you will never be too much for the the right person. I know it's easier said than done, but trust me guys it will work! Cauz I've experienced it before. Time is the BEST medicine to move on. Who knows? Maybe someday she'll regret it. 💯

  • @imovies20
    @imovies20 Před 3 lety +2

    I love this content from Loid, and it is true that we just have to do the things we do the best, follow the perpouse and other stuff, when you meet the girl u like just be cool as u always are, if they like u as u are, they will like u always.

  • @_mcknight
    @_mcknight Před 4 lety +14

    God, I love this man.

  • @Jdog305Cubanito
    @Jdog305Cubanito Před 3 lety +1

    Much needed to hear 👂🏾 this one fambam your a gem 💎 of a person 💯

  • @Buggy2hot
    @Buggy2hot Před 4 lety +3

    Nice haircut, brother. Keep up the great video content!

  • @Elder-Uriel
    @Elder-Uriel Před 3 lety +1

    Appreciate this one bro needed to hear this one:

  • @CalvinJamesJr
    @CalvinJamesJr Před 4 lety +59

    Pull back ASAP

  • @seanwright2363
    @seanwright2363 Před 2 lety +7

    Chasing girls and you coming across 'if you have her then she will make you complete' then she would not find you attractive. The key is to let women 'choose' you! Focus on your goals, be busy with life, never chase, workout and be calm and cool. That's attractive and manly for women. Women are needy and dependant in nature, so let them be needy for your time and attention not the other way around. If you chase a butterfly then the butterfly will fly away, but if you stay still the butterfly will land on your shoulder!

  • @TBrianOnline
    @TBrianOnline Před 4 lety +55

    This is actually a pretty awesome video on the topic, I hope you will get more views, man.
    I'm actually in the situation when there was a girl who wanted to hang out, even make evening calls, promised me to give feedback on the book I had written but then she started making more and more excuses and for the past 2 weeks I haven't heard from her at all (I know she's not seriously busy).
    It's only because of these videos that I'm staying cool and focusing on myself, trying to accept that she lost interest and push forward in what's good for me. But I won't lie, I'm often tempted to write to her or post something on social media to impress her or get her attention but so far I'm resisting.

    • @urafudgehead
      @urafudgehead Před 4 lety +15

      It’s tough man. In my experience, it often means there’s another man, or she’s going through things in her life, or both. Truthfully, I only give girls this benefit of a doubt now if we haven’t been dating too long. If we’re getting somewhat serious and this happens, it almost always ends up meaning the girl did not value integrity to begin with. I’ve learned this the hard way dating multiple people...

    • @shib7571
      @shib7571 Před 4 lety

      One tough situation u r in dude, especially in this lock down time it will increase ur stress

    • @rolexflex
      @rolexflex Před 4 lety +2

      im in a similar situation but we have to resist mate. if we dont chase after them they might come to us. if not, we wouldn't have wasted our time. so it's a win-win for us :)

    • @870Slager
      @870Slager Před 2 lety +1

      Delete your social media. Seeking validation from your peers through vacuous posting is unhealthy and demotivating.

  • @dimex3362
    @dimex3362 Před 4 lety +58

    No one will read this anyways so ill keep it brief without explanations, how to get her attracted to you after she loses interest:
    She liked you because of something you did or how you were... lets say you were funny. If she lost attraction to you, you wont get her back by being even more funny... she has friendzoned that piece of your personality. You now have to show her something different, then when she is re attracted, make your move and dont hesitate this time, because thats what got you friendzoned the first time.

    • @freddylimpster7137
      @freddylimpster7137 Před 4 lety

      how do u know that's what got the man friendzoned the first time? it could be many things that caused her to lose attraction, depends

    • @dimex3362
      @dimex3362 Před 4 lety +9

      federico B generally speaking, not moving fast enough is what causes loss of attraction in someone that is already attracted. Yes there are other things to it but going by his explanation and without fully extrapolating, myself i gave the generic advice. Its still good advice... like buckle up when you drive. If one part of your personality got friendzoned... you have to show another part to make hee re evaluate you. Remember that “word” RE EVALUATE, once she has done this... dont make the same mistake as the last time.... does that work for you?

    • @joaostvn
      @joaostvn Před 4 lety +2

      She backed away when we had a little "talk". But before she was always "suggesting". Now I don't know if I can regain her attraction. I really like that woman.

  • @markizzleg9785
    @markizzleg9785 Před 4 lety +146

    Just keep it cool man, keep it cool. Greatest advice, JUST LEAVE HER ALONE lol. Do that early, and i guarantee you will last longer. If you keep messaging or talking to her and showing attention every time. Mate she's gonna erase you from her head and start going for the other guys. And also always keep in mind that she is messaging another guys. But if you keeo it cool consistently. She may be talking to them, but she will go for you out of those guys. Just keep it cool, and work on your GOALS AND MAKE YOUR BED TIDY! lol

    • @jcm2789
      @jcm2789 Před 4 lety +9

      Same situation right now and I realize if I'm being needy to her I will lost my attraction so right now I gave her what she wants and I'm on one week of not chatting her and I also understand that she needs some time for herself so I'm just chilling and waiting for her to come back at the moment.

    • @vlekje34
      @vlekje34 Před 3 lety +1

      @@jcm2789 buddy! How did it went? Im in same situation. She lost interest. Didnt talk for 7 days now. First she was really into me. Dont know how long it take she will reach out?

    • @qoriiismaris7462
      @qoriiismaris7462 Před 3 lety +8

      @@vlekje34 they never do boss just move on & find your purpose which is self betterment. Trust me its been 1 month n no contact although shes always the 1st person to view my snap story lmao

    • @vlekje34
      @vlekje34 Před 3 lety

      @@qoriiismaris7462 hahaha buddy same here 😂😂

    • @njumesnowl1328
      @njumesnowl1328 Před 3 lety +1

      Hi man, what if it was a distance relationship. Every thing was ok but but she suddenly change and moved on

  • @elijahflorence6245
    @elijahflorence6245 Před 3 lety +2

    Wow. This video is an eye opener for me. Ive been living with a mattress on the floor for almost five years........

  • @curtishomer1418
    @curtishomer1418 Před rokem +2

    APPRECIATE THE ADVISE👍👍👍

  • @serajeslami8484
    @serajeslami8484 Před 4 lety +1

    Thanks man nice vid mah boi

  • @TheBix8257
    @TheBix8257 Před 4 lety

    Great advice bud!

  • @sonofnun7803
    @sonofnun7803 Před 3 lety +1

    Great advice loved it.

  • @gambit_toys6554
    @gambit_toys6554 Před 4 lety +48

    Don't go for Hot and cold chicks.

    • @therealjag
      @therealjag Před 3 lety +5

      Just experienced this myself and you're totally right it doesn't work out cos they're never fully invested emotionally.

    • @innavision1920
      @innavision1920 Před 9 měsíci

      If she tells you about her daddy issues and abusive ex, the red flag has been planted. Be graceful of her rejection if she does, and if she doesn’t, make sure to reject her (respectfully of course)

  • @thornbeats4581
    @thornbeats4581 Před 4 lety

    Really solid advice 🔥

  • @111Feu
    @111Feu Před 4 lety

    You're right about it pushing her away

  • @JohnM...
    @JohnM... Před 4 lety +72

    She now has a boyfriend, probably.

  • @oldfridayboy5597
    @oldfridayboy5597 Před 4 lety +2

    I like your new haircut!

  • @GAZDA_DMM
    @GAZDA_DMM Před 4 lety

    Who knew you had curly wavey hair haha. Thought it was straight with the ponytail. I think what you talked about here was the underlying theme to abundance mindset. This guy is worrying about one chick instead of taking the journey of self growth within himself to know when he reaches a place where he is emotionally satisfied with himself he will see there are many options!

  • @deepakarya.4607
    @deepakarya.4607 Před 4 lety +1

    Lot's of Love for India. 🇮🇳😍 To my brother

  • @legolas0029
    @legolas0029 Před 3 lety +8

    If she sees that you are more interested in her than she in you ... you are screwed.

  • @roguefive512
    @roguefive512 Před 3 lety +7

    Great advice. Have an abundance mindset.

  • @TheodorusRex
    @TheodorusRex Před rokem +1

    Words of wisdom.

  • @TheJazzax
    @TheJazzax Před 3 lety +10

    Had a girl distance herself and always gaslight me whenever I tried to bring it up. Bringing it up was a mistake, even entertaining this girl was a mistake. Months of my twenties totally blown on being obsessed with some 🐱. I was legitimately happier and more motivated before when I had no sex lol

  • @neilazeez101
    @neilazeez101 Před 3 lety

    Thanks Llyod!

  • @nvesk
    @nvesk Před 4 lety

    i like your new look !!!!

  • @awesomechannel3986
    @awesomechannel3986 Před rokem

    Broo I just followed ur rejection video by parts and followed every single detail and I went to her again but with nice gesture after that next day she proposed me by herself😂 thx mate appreciated for ur work

  • @fransklopper1179
    @fransklopper1179 Před 4 lety

    You give good advice...thanks

  • @henrycoldrain8151
    @henrycoldrain8151 Před 4 lety +23

    My boy LOYD cut his hair. Means he's getting laid again bros

  • @xmsmxxmsmx3650
    @xmsmxxmsmx3650 Před 4 lety +1

    topppp video!!!!

  • @mokemeister81
    @mokemeister81 Před 3 lety

    This is a refreshing perspective vs the ones women offer for regaining their attraction

  • @loyalarcher
    @loyalarcher Před 4 lety +2

    Focus on you, and the women will too.

  • @najibelaoufi2221
    @najibelaoufi2221 Před 4 lety +2

    Nice hair cut bro

  • @allmenanswers4208
    @allmenanswers4208 Před 4 lety +2

    I have an idea with the up & down women, Lloyd's magic 8 ball to get answer to women that don't act normal.

  • @Madmax-fe7qo
    @Madmax-fe7qo Před 3 lety +2

    If your Talking to girl and it goes really well try meet up within 2 weeks, wait any longer and most likely fades out or some other guy moves in PLEASE LADS DO THIS!

  • @Tilnaor
    @Tilnaor Před 4 lety +48

    If she loses attraction I always start to figure out what changed in me or in her that caused that. If I changed, I try to fix it, if I kmow I did not, then must be her, with I could not do anything.
    Just found your channel btw, but far the best in any lifestyle/dating/whatever channels.

    • @josueconiff2775
      @josueconiff2775 Před 3 lety +3

      Thats the worst thing to do. She should be the one trying to change. You changing means your chasing her.

  • @scotchbeer
    @scotchbeer Před 3 lety +4

    You want to lose the girl, chase. Chasing only chases women, or this can really be applied to pretty much anything, out of your life. If you’re in a state of lack (chasing) you’re telling the universe that you don’t want this person, or goal, or thing in your life. Take a step backwards, breath, gather yourself, get into self improvement (I discovered Buddhism during my step back) and go about your path.

  • @braydencummin
    @braydencummin Před 3 lety +2

    if she moved on too fast she is not the one she did not really like u if she moved on in a short amount of time than that means she just wants to be friends

  • @tullyfranklin2099
    @tullyfranklin2099 Před 2 lety +3

    Could I get some advice: talking to a girl for a while she started to loose interest so I became a bit more distant and the she started hitting me up instantly responding and trying to catch up, I acted slightly more interested, she’s always had her snap map off but she turned it on before she left me on delivered, do you reckon I should show a bit more interest or keep being distant

  • @Ben-fm1qi
    @Ben-fm1qi Před 4 lety +7

    Hey Lloyd, would be interested to know how you feel about two friends getting involved into a relationship? This recently happened to me with a girl I’ve been close with for over 2 years, but if things don’t go well I’m afraid of losing her as a friend, would appreciate the insight!

    • @youtubesucks2755
      @youtubesucks2755 Před 4 lety +2

      That's the risk you have to take. She is probably thinking that as well. Don't let her think about that and move fast.

  • @dannymacoi2287
    @dannymacoi2287 Před 4 lety

    Nice hair style

  • @mikato6497
    @mikato6497 Před 2 lety

    much love

  • @kiloart1043
    @kiloart1043 Před 4 lety

    Your beautiful hairrrrrrr

  • @sneakykamon
    @sneakykamon Před 2 lety

    This may or may not relate to the topic but the funniest thing that happened to me 3 years ago was there was a girl that I was into for a while, met her through some mutual friends but she was always hot and cold with me. Then one day when we met up for lunch, she told me “I don’t know why you like hanging out with me because I feel like we have nothing in common” and she kept saying that a few more times. Then a year later, I moved away and one time, we spoke on the phone and I told her that I liked her but started to realize that she may have been right about us not having anything in common so I was fine with just staying friends. Two days later, she texted me saying she was “mad at me” for telling her that I liked her and I was like “no you’re not because you wouldn’t have waited two whole days to tell me that. Idk what or who you’re mad at but it doesn’t sound like it has anything to do with me.” I haven’t heard from her since and I’m cool with it lol

  • @eddie054
    @eddie054 Před 2 lety

    Always got a good share of trim when I was a bartender without even trying.

  • @thomasdiep3524
    @thomasdiep3524 Před 3 lety

    Focus on you, and the women will too

  • @ImBlaze_
    @ImBlaze_ Před 4 lety +1

    Hey love the videos, I talked to this woman for a 2 week and she responded very quickly. We even went out 3 times, we hooked up. And suddenly she started to took more time to reply and give one word answers. I didn't wanna play that game so after 2 days of she replying like that I didn't text her for 5 day. What should I do next because I like the girl

  • @manny3332
    @manny3332 Před 4 lety

    Don’t text as much, if you text, try to meet up with her

  • @joaostvn
    @joaostvn Před 4 lety +16

    I was having an affair/hanging out with a woman that I really liked for many years but she was dating in the passed. So we were going great... Then her interest started to drop and because one simple mistake. It's more than 90d no contact and I never chased her. bro it's hard when you have aspects in common with that person... I'm focusing on myself but I'm still missing her.

    • @thewebdev8928
      @thewebdev8928 Před 4 lety +1

      It's time to move on bud. Missing the person you liked is human stuff but don't be stuck there you know. Move on. It's good for you

    • @rolexflex
      @rolexflex Před 4 lety +1

      J J let her go mate. if things were meant to be, she would and will come back to you sure as hell. if not, move on. find women who's worthy of your time and attention ALWAYS.

    • @daniellele9634
      @daniellele9634 Před 3 lety +2

      what was that mistake that cause her to lose interest?

    • @njumesnowl1328
      @njumesnowl1328 Před 3 lety +1

      That's very true. Its takes time to free your mind totally

    • @rolexflex
      @rolexflex Před 2 lety

      @@xysx-o3s abundance is no BS stop being delusional. or continue simping on a scarcity mindset if that seems better for you.

  • @rc2487
    @rc2487 Před 8 měsíci +1

    When you understand that women don't love men for who they are. Women love men for what they can do for them. It makes it easier to just walk away and pretend that they don't exist. You will occupy her thoughts and she will think about you more. You need to learn to control your sexual urges and not get emotionally attached to them. They only care about you when you don't care about them.

  • @sagiralam2508
    @sagiralam2508 Před 4 lety +2

    Hi, Luis every-time I meet a girl she seems pretty cool she gives me her phone number when it comes to text girls don’t respond to me what should I do next?

  • @LalboiHangsing-zr9zj
    @LalboiHangsing-zr9zj Před měsícem

    I was in this situation right now but for me i think the best thing is that even if she cant love u anymore if you really love her go after her help her out spend time with her if youre still contacting each other so that she can feel more about your love and cares and can change her mind again, whats the point of not going after or chasing after something you love or like the most??? Thats pointless and useless fr go after her if she calls you to come over or hang out still,just he available and she can realised or renew her mind again

  • @Steliosgiagkou
    @Steliosgiagkou Před 4 lety +1

    Bro i really want to subscribe your channel but how can i subscribe a channel named TheSingleGuy when i dont want to be single?

  • @cashmoney6935
    @cashmoney6935 Před 4 lety +18

    Girl I reconnected with was really into me when we first started talking. She would always want to call me and replied to my texts really quickly. This lasted about 3 weeks then almost overnight she started to pull back. Making excuses to not get on the phone. Taking hours to reply to my texts. After about a week and a half of this I decided to just pull back completely. She contacted me again after 5 days and was back to being hot. Spoke on the phone again and replying quickly to messages like she used to. That lasted maybe 3 days and now shes back to being cold, making excuses to not speak on the phone and taking even longer to reply. A couple of days ago she left me on read and I still haven't heard from her. Is this a lost cause? Long distance situation too btw

    • @TBrianOnline
      @TBrianOnline Před 4 lety +16

      From my experience and what you could see in these videos, you are much better moving on. There are plenty girls out there and you have the power within you to attract them.

    • @davidabrahamtx
      @davidabrahamtx Před 4 lety +6

      Maybe its cuz you couldn't escalate the situation? Long distance talks mean she messaging multiple people. Unless you two are super in tune and love the same stuff, or you can get her to talk in deep about things to get her to emotionally invest in you. It's gonna be hard to keep her attention. If you are in person you can escalate physically. There's a reason why so many low valued guys are with high valued girls irl... its cuz they initiATE convos, don't hesitATE cuz they afraid of sounding stupid, ask her out on a dATE, then most importantly escalATE! Escalation is necessary for maintaining interest.

    • @rolexflex
      @rolexflex Před 4 lety +3

      dont waste your time on her, find someone who's interested in you and worth your time, effort etc.

    • @cashmoney6935
      @cashmoney6935 Před 4 lety +5

      I deleted her number. If she hits me back in the future, she is getting the "Who's this?" text.

    • @rolexflex
      @rolexflex Před 4 lety +4

      Cash Money i'm in a similar situation like yours mate. i did the same thing and the girl deleted my number as well lol. it seems as she's not gonna reach out from now on. btw we still friends on instagram tho. anyways, i got no time for these games and bullshit. remember mate if a girl really likes you, things are still easy even if you fuck up, cheat etc. why put so much effort to women when they can make things really easy for you?

  • @nicklaskristensen5484
    @nicklaskristensen5484 Před 3 lety +4

    When i was a teen i met this Girl... i fell in love at the first moment, we snapped 2 years, then “nothing” we started chatting again and we were talking about types she wanted one Who trained, i didnt train at all... so i started training when she started ignoring me again when i became pretty fit she wanted to talk again, i rejected her and ignores her too... i guess i should thank her cuz i didnt know if was so fun to workout

    • @hajaraibrahim4999
      @hajaraibrahim4999 Před 3 lety

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      @hajaraibrahim4999 Před 3 lety

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      @hajaraibrahim4999 Před 3 lety

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  • @AmirZ1
    @AmirZ1 Před 3 lety +4

    My girl just broke up with me today saying I was immature and that she wanted someone that was mature, plus she wanted me too be stable furthermore, she such a good lady, I feel I said a lot of things badly not deliberately she has anxiety and ptsd which I like to joke around in general, like banter but enough of that she said that j was stressing her out a lot so I dont know what to do.. she said she wants to focus on her education and that she wanted to have a man not a child im 22, lol I look after all the time I dont know what to do

    • @wellingtonrodrigues7654
      @wellingtonrodrigues7654 Před 3 lety +2

      Lol, my ex said the same thing. She's projecting their insecurities in you. Just be confident, agree and exaggerate with everything she says about you

  • @ErickCervantes12345
    @ErickCervantes12345 Před 4 lety +2

    Dude you look tired! everything ok?
    I follow you a lot so thanks for the advice.

  • @Kashifnasir89
    @Kashifnasir89 Před 3 lety

    Preach 👍👍

  • @KingJuls.
    @KingJuls. Před 3 lety +5

    This literally just happened to me today, I got the friend zone text, it’s most of the time she slowly pulls away cuz another guy is involved, she told me “I’m starting to have feelings for someone else” it hurt me to c that text while I was at work, but I’m not gon stop jus cuz of that, I’m stronger than that

    • @hajaraibrahim4999
      @hajaraibrahim4999 Před 3 lety

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    • @hajaraibrahim4999
      @hajaraibrahim4999 Před 3 lety

      massage him on WhatsApp

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  • @reginachigona957
    @reginachigona957 Před 2 lety

    Let's be real..your handsome bro

  • @stephanoewilks1908
    @stephanoewilks1908 Před 3 lety

    I’m in that situation now

  • @gtamekill1242
    @gtamekill1242 Před 3 lety +1

    what should you do if your girl friend looses interest in you

  • @dylankelley455
    @dylankelley455 Před 3 lety +1

    Literally so close to my situation

    • @frankrose4541
      @frankrose4541 Před 3 lety

      Do not let anyone come in between you and your relationship goal. Get them back to you and make their love strong like the ocean

    • @frankrose4541
      @frankrose4541 Před 3 lety

      I can connect you to someone who helped me attract my ex partner back to me after separston

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      @frankrose4541 Před 3 lety

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    • @frankrose4541
      @frankrose4541 Před 3 lety

      What.xap

  • @jasondowling9296
    @jasondowling9296 Před 3 lety

    Thank you

  • @jamesholden823
    @jamesholden823 Před 4 lety +8

    So lets just say, in quarantine, you guys are texting but the texts just keep getting shorter. Since you can't ask her out due to stay-at-home, is it best to keep trying to text her or just let it go and hope she chases you?

    • @vlekje34
      @vlekje34 Před 3 lety

      Same situation... what did you do?

    • @joash6345
      @joash6345 Před 3 lety

      Yeap

    • @TheCentennial4
      @TheCentennial4 Před 2 lety

      Bit old, but if you know this girl somewhat, only text her to set up a facetime date or some shit. Don't be texting girls to just chat with them.

  • @Domcreator
    @Domcreator Před 3 lety +1

    What if she comes around but is indirect about it through social media should I play along

  • @HayleyAnjuna
    @HayleyAnjuna Před 3 lety +1

    Does this work if you are a girl going after another girl?? like all the stuff on this channel.

  • @jcm2789
    @jcm2789 Před 4 lety

    Same situation here right now :(. I need this advise.

  • @KOEKIELC
    @KOEKIELC Před 4 lety

    Ronaldo imitating your haircut bro

  • @CutTheKam
    @CutTheKam Před 4 lety

    bro the haircut is looking NICEEE