How to keep her interested in you
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- čas přidán 6. 12. 2020
- It always used to puzzle me why a woman would leave certain guys and stay with others. The answer I am going to give you may surprise you but I have found to be very true. Any guy who understands this will agree wholeheartedly. Its a dark truth that we are often told too late. As usual this is not an excuse for you to treat a woman poorly. Even if you have this and can get away with it, your relationship and you will be much better off treating those around you well.
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If she wants to stay she WILL stay...if she wants to LEAVE she WILL leave don't waste your life on her...do whatever you wanna do and keep achieving your goals
You think what you do has no effect on whether she'll wanna stay or not?
@@synergyrevolution2332 it does but at the end of the day, if she wants to stay she will and if not she will leave. If she wants to talk to yu then she will, if she wants to fuck with, you she will. If not then what the fuck are y’all doing, what’s the point in continuing what y’all got going on if it ain’t benefiting yu
@@tcrayola9576 I think you’re underestimating the power and say you have in these situations.
You’re definitely right but most women leave because men have lost themselves and women of coarse. We definitely have little power in life but at the same time we have much power in certain situations.
You definitely wrote that in a pessimistic manner which isn’t wrong at all. But a pessimistic person will definitely have more trouble with keeping women than a charismatic powerful man.
I trought the same as u bro... but naah is not true.. if u are to needy or u give her to much attention... or I dont know... such thinks.. u will lose her interest and after this... u will lose her, cuz nobody stay .. they meet another peoples..
Lol you sound like someone who is afraid to grow. Doesn't mean you have to lose your identity
Even if you have this, don't use it as an excuse to treat your woman or women poorly. If you treat those that are close to you and care about you poorly, what does that say about you?
Hey Lloyd, just curious, how come you're saying you're not the single guy? Took yourself off the market?
If you are dating a girl, take her around other girls that you know that are into you. This will give her both the idea that she won, and that she has to stay on her game at the same time.
How can you do that?
So you're telling me you are making girls stick around because you make them jealous? I don't think you'd be happy if a girl did that to you, so why not stop with the mindgames and treat people how you want to be treated.
@@KPR0308 if a girl did that to you just don't give a Fuck about her
Don't be insecure and just be cool
Even if she goes with other guys she will think abt you only.
Always remember
You can't control a girl's body
That will get u in a #Metoo case.
But you can control her mind
Make her think about you and she will not leave
Women want what other women want
Seen & been with a lot of women
Trust me,
They all are the same in this one😂🤭
Facts
What if u don’t know any girls that are attracted to you
This is probably the most attractive traits of a men, being desired by other women.
Yes its like buying a car. If you know people will think your whip is really cool you will want it even more.
I mean would you rather drive a Fiat multipla or a Mercedes AMG
You have to be aware of her backing off. It's in this phase that it happens. If she shows signs don't chase don't text her or call her, just wait. Women never want full disclosure, never let her know she's got you.
That's all fine and dandy for a 5 or 6 that I could take it or leave it. But what about a 7 or 8 that I wanna keep that's slipping away? Those ones are always the most difficult to hang on to 😫
@@makingmoneywithmj7752 Your mentality comes from a scarcity mindset. You will always appear needy if you have that mindset.
@@makingmoneywithmj7752 That's cos you have to realize that ranking it's in your head. I opened my eyes with a girl that I didn't like that much, let's say she was a solid 7 to me, I was still fishing, then I start to know her, enjoy with her and I start getting attached. Suddenly Im acting completely beta and she was disgusted by me. The 6 or 7s, 9s or 10s that's your head man, you can check with your friends too, you'll see they don't put the girls you fucked in the same order of value.
Defınıtely I agree.
Listening to the vid and reading your comment, made me realise even more that you can't put women first or pedestalize them.
Women attract more women and that creates competition anxiety in her, motivating her to be on her best behaviour also. When we don't keep/establish boundaries with her behaviour, you make her believe that she isn't replaceable. That can lead her to valuing you less and thus pull away.
During a breakup recently I was telling the girl how I was trying to do things to please her... she told me that maybe if I did things to please myself, then that would please her. We are not together anymore, but I found that to be valuable insight, as I has began to slack off on my purpose and grind and the things I was doing when I met her. This stuff is actually true. Thanks for the video.
"You cannot negotiate with desire."
Absolutely brilliant.
Focus on yourself is not selfish. It means you value your life. A woman needs a man of value.
Damn, that was deep. Those are some beautiful dynamics...
100%. Good video brother.
Thanks homie!
Isnt he great
Perfect video bro...✌️perfect psychology
Thank you bull dog I learnt so much from you. This guy sounds alot like you too
Thanks for the video, feeling even more motivated! 💪🏼 stay strong bros.
2:24 "cooks them bed in breakfast" :')
Cooks them bread, bed in breakfast
Ah, motivation time again.
Thank you so much! Love your video as always 👍👍👍
You’re like my life coach. Not a lot of new info for me specifically but your continual motivation is what I need.
Awesome vid. This is so true! It’s the ugly truth people don’t like to admit
My boi gyrados spitting facts
This is 100% on point.
Great advice and fellas ain’t no way around it either we gotta be the best version of ourselves and keep it 🅿️ not nice 🅿️ you’ll be undeniable
This is legit the best advice, it's really the only advice
Awesome advice! This actually works!
I have found out in my experience it varies from woman to woman to be honest. But regardless of that, good video dude
It's great how your content is so easy to consume. Not too long and draggy, easy to understand terms, and very relevant and interesting topucs. Subscribed and followed! 👌
he probably studied comunication
I just want to say thank you for fixing your hair and the new mustache is cool. I find with the mustache I really lock into what you are saying. Your takes are spot on with helpingsocially awkward people. Thank you
The moustache really adds more value to the message
1:30 was actually funny Lloyd 🤣! Thanks mate I needed this.
You nailed this!!! This is exactly how I’ve been in the past, I slacked on the gym and tried to be the “good boyfriend”. Awesome video! Thank you so much!
Great advice, but in the long run a woman like this will eventually leave, because it's all a game for her. My experience tells me that if she wants to stay she'll stay and if she doesn't, she'll leave.
Omg... Hat's off bro..😎perfect one
This opened my eyes, damn
New to your channel but I loved your advice ❤💥
Real rap no cap Straight facts
You are amazing mann!!!!
Don’t fold stay bold don’t simp remain a pimp guys‼️🧏🏽💎
Just what I needed
This is %100 accurate. Speaking from experience lol
Well spoken!
Truee, mainstream shit sucks mostly not accurate, for an example no contact doesnt work always
Very entertaining video and great content.
My version is similar. SHE WANTS TO RIDE THE LIGHTING,
What that means is she wants to be excited. She wants to ride the lighting. How? Be the best version of yourself and have a life that is fun and entertaining.
Your level of fun is higher than her level of fun. Your level of adventure is higher than her level of adventure.
And with that impression she will feel lucky to be in your life and will chase after your attention. She'll know someone will fill her spot quickly with a guy like that.👍
🎯 on point!
Congrats on 100k!❤️
Salam
Excellent content dude
im watching this as a woman and i never even knew that about other women
great video!
Bro you are the truth
I've seen all of his videos and the only thing to keep in your mind is that you gotta be prioritizing yourself first, your work second, your family/friends third, and then her only if you really like her, as in this video he says you gotta keep your head up and aim for prioritize you first, get you work, go to the gym and be a better man in general get the small small achievable things, you might have a bad day but you still have to do some work so that you can say that yeah was a pretty horrible day but i was not at zero i did my tasks and duties and then you give her kisses and text her be the winner every single day and swear to god no one going anywhere.
Keep working on yourself, and be the best version of youself everyday, the rest will follow
This is really good
It's all about confidence.
Thanks steph hey but btw you should you go to the nets you’d probably win another ring over there with KD
Lloyd I have been watching you since your channel had around 6k subscribers. I am so proud to see how much your reach has grown, also the comment sections would be 1-5 comments while now you have so much more activity. Thank you for all the content you have been putting out consistently, hard work pays off! This video its topic is a great thought for us subscribers being in a relationship currently.
So true 100%
Learned this the hard way
U r the best bro
You've gotta become the king that you are before you find a queen
Thank U!!❤
Jealousy when played in a careful manner can be powerful. Women are generally possessive and when they see there's is General attraction with other women towards you it triggers that.
Slacking off was my biggest mistake..
The mustache counter balances the eyebrows..
The initial dopamine rush screws with our judgment. Don’t give her free anything. Allow her the opportunity to earn you and your time.
My ex said “it just didn’t feel natural or organic anymore” I was simpin way too much!
thanks lloyd
this is the truth, i learned this from future lol (the rapper)
The realest advice out there
Textbook video of what every dating advice video tells: focus on yourself!
Love thyself and if you feel good in your skin then you radiate a confidence aura that others feel compelled to be attracted to. A beautiful flower attracts bees.
@@aeroloco4352 The bee example opposed to wilting flowers that follow bees back to their hive 😆
"Cooks them bed in breakfast" XD
Lmao😂😂😂
Never say Never.
Holy shit this video hits it on the head
Valuable
Hi Lloyd,
The I am not the single guy line is pretty scary.
I hope you hadn't been forced to say that by a tyrant woman who told you :
-Either you say this or I am out.
😂😂
To be honest, if she finds you replaceable, she's probably not someone you want to be with for life. You can be attractive to her eyes but not others. So just be yourself, which is the man she wants.
I dont think we need manipulation at all. If a girl likes you as you are, she will stay. If she only likes you bc of manipulative tactics, as soon as you start revealing your true self she'll leave. That'd be a fucked up kind of relationship. So my tip is be yourself, dont be too straightforward and dont show too much if you arent in a relationship yet, and thats it. Ive seen plenty of dudes dating girls w never trying games or shit like that, they both liked each other genuinely
Typical beta attitude... 'just be who you are'. Its never enough to be who you are, you have to try to be better, to be the best. I just want to sit at home all day, and play videogames, thats how I am, but thats not gonna be enough for a quality girl. You have to try to be better every day. Not for her, for yourself.
@@Guzuuuu im talking about personality dude, but thats fine, if you want go ahead and play games w her, fake a persona, thats on you man. Just keep in mind that if she likes you, she wouldnt actually. like you, she would only be amused by your little psychological games. I know plenty of friends in great relationships were everything happened naturally. But i guess youre not ready to know that yet, i was like you once, You cant find nothing real unless YOU are real...
@@Guzuuuu time will show you what its really like... when you lose an amazing girl bc you were faking an "attractive" attitude and being an asswhole bc thats what you think was right, you'll get me bro
@@Idk-xi1tr dude is right lol let’s be honest
@@Idk-xi1tr I agree with you bro
That devilicous smile hahaha..
A cartoon character of the single guy would resemble a young cheech from Cheech and Chong type of character who could also be a model with those eyebrows. All love and respect ✊!! Haha
This shit makes so much sense
Do a zodiac sign series
Awesome
Yeah You're clearly not the single guy. Nice new intro hahaha
beautiful eye brows dear,,,
It sucks when you mightve found this video a little too late😞 I kind of already knew to not do too much or show you’re too interested in her but damn is it hard sometimes😅
Knowing there is a possibility that the man will pursue other women is going to turn a woman off and get her to start playing games to judge his reactions. She might do something to get your attention and keep your attention on herself, but that does not mean she respects you. Women rarely test men but they will test men who are hinting at attraction toward different women.
Those kind gestures are what will keep a woman in the relationship despite her feeling a low level of physical attraction. The goal is to find a relationship where men do those things for us, while we are also physically attracted to them!
Lloyd, I can't agree with this approach because there is still neediness in unconscious.
Everything revolves around women - Be the best version of yourself because of women. Don't let her know that she is the only option, again because you want to keep her around... The mature man should do everything because he feels so, not because of fear him loosing her...
does this also apply if you get friend-zoned by her?
HOW to show her that she is replaceable?
Always staying on your purpose no matter if she is or not with you
Maintain and develop your confidence, social skills, popularity/grow your social circle/connections, continue to get better at what you do, continue to exercise, groom and dress really well, continue to have more experiences and become a more interesting dude, etc. Essentially, be the guy that tons of women wanna fuck.
how do you do this whilst in a relationship though?
Sounds tiring to continuously trying to be the best version of yourself. I say be the version of yourself that makes you feel confident. There will be times where you will be down but if you can get back up and push ahead in life that is something admirable. A woman whose relationship material will not leave you like that. She will appreciate the true you and be by your side. Women who flake on you when something ain't right is just someone who belongs in the streets.
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The real game starts when you actually get her. Few
I came here a few months after she seemed distant then a week later we broke up now I’m back again 😭
I’ve been talking to this girl did 2 months and she has texted me good morning at least 50 times but she has a bf
Interesting
Women don't need reminders that our men are attractive to other women, it only takes a girl-only event for us to be reminded of how many women are attracted to whatever man seems available to her. Gifts are good but the wrong gifts are what bite you guys in the butt. There is no more obvious way to say "I care about knowing who you are" vs "I am ignoring who you are" than with a gift.
More often than not, if a woman knows that her friend is attracted to you, she will back off and shut off herself off from being attracted to you, because women know how important it is for us to feel secure and not like we are sharing a man with anyone else. I married the man I married specifically because none of the other women in my circle were attracted to him. No woman wants competition unless she is in need of psychiatric help. If you want a woman who is revved up by jealousy don't be surprised if she is the type to destroy your personal property at the end of a relationship. Good faithful kind honest women do not compete, we don't like competing with eachother at all, we want to support eachother. During a time when I was single I found this one guy to be very very attractive but didn't say it out loud. My friend mentioned that she thought he was hot. Naturally, the next time I interacted with him, I put the focus on her good qualities and I friend zoned myself without him even having a chance to flirt with me. Its the girl code, good-person thing to do.
how do u change the platonic state
I got my ex girlfriend back after I started focusing on my hobbies again and getting a real career plus now she knows a lot of women want me lmao especially when a model wanted me remember fellas don’t slack off this video helped me so take what this guy says seriously
All these girls wanted you but you still got back with your ex who dumped you… your ex sounds toxic
I got a question sir how to not be sensitivd
4:25 mark. He talks about how this guys takes care of some other man’s kid and it’s not enough for the girl
This was my mentaly when I was in my 20's. This kind of dupery may have worked back then. But I am close to 40. Petty schemes like this are completely pointless. At my age thing's have changed. Your sorry strategies have been exposed. This is when you need to work hard at correctly keeping an elite women. We have no time for your gambit way's.
Your words... "If she knows there's other women that want you, and makes her replaceable. She gets this feeling of dread. It makes her desire you more"... Oh honey you'll be out the door faster than a dog with a bone.😂That so called feeling of dread no longer exists in a strong woman.
😯😯 I should tell her somehow that she is replaceable will tell you how it goes
2:23 is where u fk up my friend
Silence is how you punish women