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  • WHY WOMEN WHO REJECTED YOU TRY TO COME BACK // Ever wonder why women reject men or how to act when a girl rejects you? The reasons why women reject men may not be obvious but knowing why a girl rejects you and how to deal with rejection are skills you need to know. Today’s video will help you know how to not get rejected, how to avoid rejection and the reasons why you get rejected. If you want to know what to do when a woman rejects you then stay tuned! Let’s get started with Why Women Who Rejected You Try To Come Back 💪
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Komentáře • 826

  • @CoachMelannie
    @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety +23

    FREE MASTERCLASS - LEARN THE SAME 5 STEP FRAMEWORK I TEACH MY PAID CLIENTS TO GET THEIR IDEAL GIRLFRIEND 🙌
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    P.S. Have you ever had a girl reject you and then try to come back? Tell me about it in the comments! 👇

    • @brianbcpryor112
      @brianbcpryor112 Před 3 lety +3

      COACH🌹🏆👑MELANNIE....

    • @stedbetts5432
      @stedbetts5432 Před 3 lety +1

      Yes

    • @ahmadalhussein3107
      @ahmadalhussein3107 Před 3 lety

      You're my dream girl ;)

    • @14kurtismiller
      @14kurtismiller Před 3 lety

      Women try to come back because the man may owe her money Melannie.
      I got friend zoned early in the morning. I was watching the news and this beautiful lady was doing the weather forecast. A'lls I could recall saying was, "this one fine lady right here." I wonder whats her name? All of a sudden she pulled out a remote and changed the channel on my T.V.

    • @charlieswank8820
      @charlieswank8820 Před 3 lety

      Please let me know thank you

  • @captainkekistan8396
    @captainkekistan8396 Před 3 lety +409

    She didn't want me in her prime.
    I don't want her when she's a single mom with multiple kids from multiple dads.

    • @mansamusa2012
      @mansamusa2012 Před 3 lety +30

      Checkmate

    • @deepdiver849
      @deepdiver849 Před 3 lety +17

      I am a woman and in the same situation as you. He didn’t see my value in my prime, now he wants me when he has a baby with an ex narcissist.
      Although I am still very attracted to him, I just can’t handle the situation he is in now...

    • @danielanderson2324
      @danielanderson2324 Před 3 lety +6

      If they know the dads.

    • @keesaa3588
      @keesaa3588 Před 3 lety +2

      You’re toxic

    • @JesusHernandez-ty2su
      @JesusHernandez-ty2su Před 2 lety +4

      @@keesaa3588 How?

  • @williebeaman652
    @williebeaman652 Před 3 lety +578

    Women come back because they don't have the same value or their options have dried up. Continue to build yourself into the best version of you.

    • @leviathandiabolo6296
      @leviathandiabolo6296 Před 3 lety +36

      And never settle for any woman! 🔥 Good on ya, bro!

    • @hennylo68
      @hennylo68 Před 3 lety +11

      The problem is she's so much younger. She's only 24, she's not hitting the wall anytime soon.

    • @robbieanderson227
      @robbieanderson227 Před 3 lety +26

      Henny Lopez it’ll happen .. sit back and watch the show :-)

    • @hennylo68
      @hennylo68 Před 3 lety

      @@robbieanderson227 what will happen?

    • @robbieanderson227
      @robbieanderson227 Před 3 lety +15

      Henny Lopez her hitting the wall

  • @richardjfromthebay9156
    @richardjfromthebay9156 Před 3 lety +492

    Womens logic:
    Reject a guy because hes too much of a nice guy
    Then gets jealous and enraged when that man finds a new woman.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety +41

      This is true if you are talking about toxic women. Real women don't act this way at all. Here are some videos that will help you czcams.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html And these czcams.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-XV9YGvxOR5T79CbwLhJBKM.html Thanks for watching!

    • @makotonarukami7468
      @makotonarukami7468 Před 3 lety +7

      Men on Strike brought me here.

    • @cipryan96
      @cipryan96 Před 3 lety +17

      @@CoachMelannie they all do the same😂

    • @anthonylamphier5289
      @anthonylamphier5289 Před 3 lety +2

      True story. Been there.

    • @steveboone1498
      @steveboone1498 Před 3 lety +13

      @@CoachMelannie here's another woman's logic for you: turns down a man simply because he never lost his virginity and gets enraged when another woman offers to be his first.

  • @I_am_Raziel
    @I_am_Raziel Před 3 lety +345

    Have a little self respect. Never take back someone who cheated or rejected you. Never ever

  • @tevinlim9123
    @tevinlim9123 Před 3 lety +140

    Woman logic: doesn't want to hurt a man's feelings by rejecting him so she leads him on with a false promise of giving him a time of day.

    • @barreldbarclaskking2808
      @barreldbarclaskking2808 Před 2 lety +13

      Real women /toxic women y'all jus choose to be toxic when you young and pretend to be be real women when you old and no more Chad's are available

  • @michaelkeudel8770
    @michaelkeudel8770 Před 3 lety +238

    Sorry, once you walk away the trust and respect is gone, theres no coming back.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety +25

      That's pretty much what I say. Thanks for watching! 🙏

    • @thevanman4498
      @thevanman4498 Před 2 lety +6

      And why would you want to go back anyway? Once you and your ex split especially if you have no kids the break is easy. You should have nothing else to say to her. She will try and return, BUT DON’T ACCEPT HER!

  • @muttilainenakseli6764
    @muttilainenakseli6764 Před 3 lety +91

    If she friendzones or rejects you. Work improve your self and become man she wants but can not have.
    So do not take her if she have rejected you before. You do not need her.

    • @AB-zo9it
      @AB-zo9it Před 3 lety +7

      You've just spoke my mind....I agree100%😄🔥🔥

    • @alanguages
      @alanguages Před 3 lety +4

      When a person has no self respect for herself or himself, then that person will constantly be treated with disrespect.
      What you tolerate becomes the standard norm, and you allow to continue.

    • @zOption85
      @zOption85 Před 3 lety +8

      Yes, that. Exactly. Once rejected or friendzoned by a female and she comes back at you when you have evolved, do not concern yourself with her. It will not help you grow.

  • @l.siestador7248
    @l.siestador7248 Před 3 lety +240

    Those girls that friend zoned me when I was younger are still single. They're still waiting on Mr. Perfect to come along. It's too bad. I feel sorry for them now.

    • @bomajesty9526
      @bomajesty9526 Před 3 lety +73

      Don't feel sorry for them...laugh at them

    • @thulasmash2195
      @thulasmash2195 Před 3 lety +40

      Don't feel sorry for them. Show them a bit of you that they missed out on. 😂

    • @EmilyGloeggler7984
      @EmilyGloeggler7984 Před 3 lety +2

      You have an ego problem. No wonder those girls rejected you.

    • @l.siestador7248
      @l.siestador7248 Před 3 lety +29

      @@EmilyGloeggler7984 It happened 20 years ago, darlin'. It's called perspective.

    • @soapking5478
      @soapking5478 Před 3 lety +9

      @@EmilyGloeggler7984 u have an insecurities issue

  • @leroyhudson3877
    @leroyhudson3877 Před 3 lety +70

    Any women who has rejected and tries to come back doesn't get a second chance with me. If I'm not what they want, that's not on me. I don't have time for head games.

    • @r.g6170
      @r.g6170 Před 2 lety +1

      you need to watch pride and prejudice lol

    • @wo4091
      @wo4091 Před rokem

      Yes, women are indeed the masters of playing games.

  • @akholienoho
    @akholienoho Před 3 lety +72

    the moment i get that she is not interested, i just walk away n why not when there r lots of women out there who will n can treat me right? why stick with someone who shows no interest n be friend zoned? its better to walk away

  • @xawidcowak9903
    @xawidcowak9903 Před 3 lety +210

    She rejected me because she wasn't ready at that moment , after 2 years she is trying to come back but it's too late now
    She said she wanted to make it up with me , but there was NOTHING between us because she rejected me LMAO

  • @mreighthunnid
    @mreighthunnid Před 2 lety +15

    If she pushed you away MAKE her stand on it 💯

  • @robertogonzalez1332
    @robertogonzalez1332 Před 2 lety +10

    Once rejected never go back value your self worth don’t give someone who hurt you happiness

  • @sergiosolis4538
    @sergiosolis4538 Před 3 lety +62

    If the gal reject me, why would I want to get with her when she tries to come back. She had her chance, but she let it go.

  • @dragonlord1689
    @dragonlord1689 Před 3 lety +58

    I think of the Rick and Morty quote: You miss the old me. You miss someone that loved you so much you never had to love 'em back.

  • @jamesdunning8650
    @jamesdunning8650 Před 3 lety +41

    Had this happen by girls I knew in highschool. They came sniffing around about ten years after graduation. I was in peak physical condition and had a fantastic job. Let's just say, the answer was no.

    • @ralph4370
      @ralph4370 Před 2 lety +8

      Bro, I had a friend in High School tell on the girl I had a crush on. She turned around and said "EWWW GROSS!" that was a sophmore in High School. 5 years later after college and job I run into her. I have my first fulltime career job and bought a car. She was working at Staples taking time off from school to save money but take a break. Here she is trying to remember who I am, hitting on me, flirting on me, telling me her schedule to drop on by. I smiled and paid for my items and never returned and ordered online. Karma.

    • @jamesdunning8650
      @jamesdunning8650 Před 2 lety +3

      @@ralph4370 men are born poor and die rich.

  • @havatampajewels5945
    @havatampajewels5945 Před 3 lety +30

    I cant even begin to explain how 100% spot on you are about toxic women. All they care about is drama and bullying. Im going through it right now. Thank you for opening my eyes!!!

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety

      I'm sorry to hear that you are going through this! Have you seen these videos? czcams.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html They will be very helpful to you. Let me know if you have any questions! God bless! 😀

  • @rkp61158
    @rkp61158 Před 3 lety +67

    Yes almost all my past girlfriends and wives have tried to come back after a break up , unfortunately for them I am neither that desperate nor that stupid to forgive and forget . There are far to many available women for anyone to put up with cheaters and mind games . Ex's turning up again after walking out is about as welcome as a dose of the flu

    • @ronjones2435
      @ronjones2435 Před rokem

      Richard, did your wife(s) cheat on you?
      How long before they tried to return?
      Have to stay strong for whats to come

    • @rkp61158
      @rkp61158 Před rokem

      @@ronjones2435 Yes and it took about 2 weeks for the excuses to start . It really isn't a matter of staying strong it's a matter of how bad do you want a disease , a repeat of the same thing later down the road , and the complete loss of self respect because you accepted the worst disrespect possible

    • @ronjones2435
      @ronjones2435 Před rokem

      Absolutely thanks
      She moved out left and moved in with him she left 7 months ago so its been awhile so she hasn't tried to return as of yet.

  • @Pauli-dg2yv
    @Pauli-dg2yv Před 2 lety +15

    I rather have a woman see me at my worst and stay with me than just a woman suddenly likes me because I am developed. I want her to be a part of that journey

  • @garciaR159
    @garciaR159 Před 3 lety +50

    A woman shouldn't try and come back if she rejected you, specially if you're doing good because it's not convenient for us, if she tries and comes back it tells me that she's not doing too well and if I'm doing good. I'm not trying to get somebody to knock me off my track to where I'm getting at, to complete my accomplishments, if she had a chance before she shouldn't have a chance again, no contact means no contact forever that'll make her realize you're worth and teach her a lesson to accept someone for who they are.

  • @wo4091
    @wo4091 Před rokem +6

    If she rejects you, don't give her another chance!! This is a huge mistake! Move on. You have more options.

  • @4yajustblazin
    @4yajustblazin Před 2 lety +15

    Soooo, she failed at replacing you and the grass wasn't greener after all? Got it

  • @chrisbunka
    @chrisbunka Před 3 lety +18

    Yes. There can never be too many videos on how to deal with rejection better.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety +1

      Sounds great! Thanks for letting me know! 😀

  • @bradstewart2206
    @bradstewart2206 Před 3 lety +17

    Been out of the game, and dating is a whole different game now. I have this major sense of urgency to make up for lost time. So rejection is brutal

  • @clarkkent6035
    @clarkkent6035 Před 3 lety +51

    She rejects you in her 20s then comes back sniffing around for your 401K in her 40s.

  • @SasquatchWithStyle
    @SasquatchWithStyle Před 2 lety +8

    A girl that rejected me after I asked her out on a date in high school came to my work and tried to ask me out after she became a single mom. I shook my head no and went back to work.

  • @grumblesa10
    @grumblesa10 Před 2 lety +7

    Frankly, I don't want her back. SHE made the decision NOT ME. I see this as part of the abundance mentality: she had her chance (sometimes more than 1).

  • @mjhstyl5364
    @mjhstyl5364 Před 3 lety +6

    No more letting them come back. Thk U Coach❗️

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety +2

      You are very welcome! I'm so glad it helped 😀

  • @mh5854
    @mh5854 Před 3 lety +3

    Don't be needy, and be yourself don't change urself just to make them laugh, be the best version of yourself and prove that you are the one who loves her forever.

  • @juancarlosshannonmelendez538

    that is true.. good video. it happened to me. i wanted this woman, and I acted needy, so she rejected me harshly. she went off with another guy, whom I told her that he was giving me a bad vibe. she said I just said that because I wanted her. I told her part of it is true, but he still gave me a bad vibe... after two or three months, he used her up and dumped her... later, she tried to come back to me.. but it was too late.. I had moved on.... her loss...women have to remember the bad boy isnt gonna stick around.. if she hadn't done that, we probably would have been married...

    • @Flamingboy100
      @Flamingboy100 Před 3 lety +3

      Such a shame and yet at the same time a tragedy. I guess she'll have to live with that for the rest of her life. Time can be measured by her imput. I moved on with dating multiple girls and then she tried to come back after she went off with another dude. Her loss - totally. This video talks about toxic women and sadly she was. Some girls sadly just never learn. I don't think she ever will.

  • @justbeingjake
    @justbeingjake Před 2 lety +8

    Great video and just discovered your content. Guys just be yourself and if they reject you..well it's their loss. Be the best you and don't accept anything you don't deserve. When you meet the right woman they'll put effort.

  • @Johnwickslittlebrother

    Great video CM! Some good advice! Thanks so much

  • @rafaelclemente5175
    @rafaelclemente5175 Před 3 lety +3

    Yes my friend Melannie and have an amazing day!!

  • @diamonddave16
    @diamonddave16 Před 2 lety +1

    76.1K Subscribers! On to 100K. It’s because of the content. And the brilliant, likable person delivering the great stuff. The infectious laughs & snickers also don’t hurt

  • @elleryhorton8434
    @elleryhorton8434 Před 3 lety +4

    "worked on himself" = got rich
    "the traits I'm looking for" = 💰

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety

      Money is very important to men and women. It takes money to live and a lot of money to live well. Those are facts. However, if you find that the women you are attracting want only your money, you are probably attracting toxic women. Here are some videos that will help you. czcams.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html I hope that helps. God bless!

    • @elleryhorton8434
      @elleryhorton8434 Před 3 lety +5

      @@CoachMelannie I don't care about a woman's money. Never have. Never will. That's the difference.

  • @abubakarahmad9647
    @abubakarahmad9647 Před 3 lety +6

    This is so true coach melanin i can relate

  • @Bwh-rm3py
    @Bwh-rm3py Před 3 lety +11

    Seems so complicated, I'm going to just put the effort into being comfortable alone.

    • @vaughnamir.6457
      @vaughnamir.6457 Před 2 lety +1

      You’ll get all the girls you want when you’re comfortable with being alone:

  • @benw3290
    @benw3290 Před 3 lety +3

    Lol Peanutbutter Cheesecake!!
    Soo... #3 is very true! I've learned the old saying "talk is cheap" and untill she shows me my worth my heart is locked!❤ good video

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety +1

      I'm so glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏

  • @melitsyt9322
    @melitsyt9322 Před 3 lety +1

    Actually I'm in this situation thanks alot coach i really appreciated these 😌

  • @intergalactic11
    @intergalactic11 Před rokem

    That's amazing Melannie!

  • @bruht9921
    @bruht9921 Před 3 lety +43

    I love how her stories always end up with them being married in the end

  • @skywalker847
    @skywalker847 Před 3 lety +16

    Embrace rejection, you will come to know yourself as others do.

  • @abrockman61
    @abrockman61 Před 3 lety +3

    Melanie, I watch all of your videos till the end, you made me laugh out loud with the Mario theme song!!
    Your blush is so cute!!

  • @josedess8823
    @josedess8823 Před 2 dny

    If she goes it’s finished forever NO return back. That’s my motto. Thanks.

  • @paulmarsy1041
    @paulmarsy1041 Před 3 lety +6

    I am so glad of this, as I really need it right now, and why they accept us back.

    • @gazza2933
      @gazza2933 Před 3 lety +1

      Me too Paul.
      Good Luck! 👍🏻

    • @WillS.TheSuperReds.
      @WillS.TheSuperReds. Před 3 lety +3

      Same here. I was stupid and didn't realise i was being to weak and needy with my crush at work , trying to talk to her with too many texts, writing her a note telling her , i just want the best for her , i will support her always , i would like to get to know more about her on a personal level because she matters to me e.t.c.
      I just didn't and still don't want her to get hurt by some arsehole.
      So i apologised as she said "you made me a little uncomfortable and can we please stop with the messaging". I know you have good intentions.
      I think she blocked me on Instagram , because i came across as needy / weak and scared her accidentally. I have learnt my lesson , that is why i will still support her , but just not bother her though.
      So to hopefully win her back , i have to make sure i respect her wishes , which is wanting more space , stop being needy / weak and work on myself again because when you mess up like this and you concentrate on you then more than likely the women will too.

    • @williebeaman652
      @williebeaman652 Před 3 lety +7

      You should only do self improvement for yourself only, when you make it about the woman you develop a scarcity mindset. Continue to work on you and more options will come your way.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety +3

      Thanks! So glad you liked it! 🙏

    • @abrockman61
      @abrockman61 Před 3 lety +2

      Just make sure she isn't settling, speaking from experience.

  • @tennisfrk123
    @tennisfrk123 Před 3 lety +16

    Another major reason why a girl will come back around is because she sees you with a hotter girl then her. That is your best chance at getting out of the friendzone/turning a rejection around

    • @williebeaman652
      @williebeaman652 Před 3 lety +2

      Facts!

    • @Richard.Hybels
      @Richard.Hybels Před 3 lety +2

      I agree. I’ve been hit on when with a woman. Very rare if I’m alone. Once in the midst of a break up I criticized a guy she had a date with and she said “At least he has the chicks”. Of course that meant something obvious.

  • @PhotoLabMP
    @PhotoLabMP Před 2 lety +3

    If any woman rejected you for not having your career yet or money together but later you became successful and well off and now she wants you, you dodged a bullet. You don't want someone that's that shallow. Never accept a woman that rejects you.

  • @dennisanderson7176
    @dennisanderson7176 Před 3 lety +1

    Great topic 👍

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety

      I'm so glad you liked it! Thanks for watching! 🙏

  • @raymondhartono
    @raymondhartono Před 3 lety

    real good advice, thank you

  • @TheOneKurisu
    @TheOneKurisu Před 3 lety +1

    My comment is: Melannie why is your smile so perfect??

  • @JohnJones-nq6pi
    @JohnJones-nq6pi Před 2 lety

    This video was helpful. I would like to see more videos like this.

  • @rolandmeza8703
    @rolandmeza8703 Před 3 lety

    Thank you, you have good advice. I’ve come to the conclusion that I’ll just be myself, cause if me being a nice guy isn’t what she’s looking for, so let it be.

    • @14kurtismiller
      @14kurtismiller Před 3 lety

      Every woman likes a nice guy. Some just like the nice guy to buy them things so don't slip up for Christmas, New Years and her birthday, and, and, and, and, and.

  • @mgw4205
    @mgw4205 Před 3 lety +2

    Women created the game, you won't lose if you dont play.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety

      If you have been in relationships with women who play games, you are most likely attracting toxic women. These videos will help you to avoid them in the future. czcams.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html Good women, and they are out there, will never play games. I hope that helps. Have a great day 😀

    • @mgw4205
      @mgw4205 Před 3 lety

      @@CoachMelannie I've loved em big little short or tall was married for 17yrs and here is my perspective.
      czcams.com/video/J6nRnxqrWrQ/video.html

  • @alexflips393
    @alexflips393 Před 3 lety +1

    Ooh great topic

  • @manofsteelgoodmanll7925
    @manofsteelgoodmanll7925 Před 3 lety +2

    Some feel terrible and some usually to apologize to you at times or maybe do it because they want stuff from you in my opinion..

  • @hanzlee5173
    @hanzlee5173 Před 3 lety

    love your energy

  • @The7dioses
    @The7dioses Před měsícem +2

    If she rejects you, never look back. If you are a decent man, with higher education than her, higher social status, good looking and financially stable and STILL she rejected you, she is NOT worth giving her a second opportunity. Let her delude herself into thinking that she was above you. Never take her back after she rejected you unless she is a woman of virtue. 99% are not.

  • @omarimorisho7138
    @omarimorisho7138 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for opening our mindset, please make more videos on rejection

  • @hamiltontyler4252
    @hamiltontyler4252 Před 3 lety

    Good job thank you for being honest,, just so u know bloopers are so funny,,

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety

      I'm so glad you liked it! Thanks for watching! 🙏

  • @johnnaphier2823
    @johnnaphier2823 Před 2 lety

    Yes. What surprised me the most was 1st instance the scare away.

  • @paulsanjurjo4390
    @paulsanjurjo4390 Před 2 lety +2

    If I wasn't good enough when she rejected me, I'm not good enough when I either improve myself or when I move on. I've been in both situations before and I subsequently rejected the two different women who had initially rejected me. I'm personally not into the Elizabeth Taylor/Richard Burton type of relationships. Once and done.

  • @th3atomu555
    @th3atomu555 Před 3 lety

    I love your videos!

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety

      Thanks for your kind words! I'm so happy you like my videos 🙏

  • @rexharvey1745
    @rexharvey1745 Před 2 lety +1

    I give a positive response to my well being when I get rejected, that also identifies the excuse / game/ response I have received. Example : I want to get your number to set up a date for next week ? No I am not dating now. A easy let down . My favorite response to rejection is : Thanks for letting me know, someone attractive is just around the corner of time, waiting for me. Live your day. And I walk away. Many times it turns their interest into a reply of oh wait a minute. The choice is yours "MAN" to keep walking or turn around to engage the moment.

  • @derekpeterson3999
    @derekpeterson3999 Před 2 lety

    You are a inice person,with a great Intention.I really enjoy listening to your videos ,and watching you teach us.

  • @airforcemarkmg
    @airforcemarkmg Před 3 lety +7

    I have a story to tell 😂
    I spent 5 years being friends with this girl I knew. We had a lot in common and we spent time going out for lunch or hanging out. Spent hours on the phone and called me when I got off of work.
    But in the last year she recently became single and I didn’t wanna force myself on to her after she had a long term relationship so I kept my distance. But after a few months she started to talk to other guys. Guys that maybe were better options.
    I tried to maintain the friendship but my feelings got the best of me and I couldn’t bare it. I told her how I felt and she just told me to get over it. The worst part is I felt like she was a completely different person and I was just something to pass the time. Once she became more serious and started dating one of the guys, our conversations stopped. We still text her and there but honestly I feel like I holding on to someone I’ll never have. I tried my best for 5 years and it got me no where.
    I fell into a deep depression and a loneliness that I can’t shake. And I hate that when she starts talking to me again I get excited but for what :/

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety +1

      If you’d like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ God bless 🙏

    • @jotansun4357
      @jotansun4357 Před 2 lety

      Exactly! They only want validation! Nothing more! I've been working on myself when she left town for two weeks + with her bf.
      The purpose I was on during her absence made me feel I am worth more. The time I spent being her simping and tailoring to her just dwindled.
      I was the fixer upper guy whenever she needed help. In other words, an emotional doormat.
      Be strong my frd, you are worth way more. Walking away is thr healthier option

    • @user-yv1fh3fc8y
      @user-yv1fh3fc8y Před 2 lety

      Marco, take offense of her antics and games. How can you desire that kind of behavior 🤨

    • @prashanthb6521
      @prashanthb6521 Před 2 lety

      Please go to Reddit pages of Intermittent Fasting and Keto Diet. There are many who have come out of depression successfully and gone on to build better quality lives. Please dont ignore it for your own good. My stroy is similar so I feel like helping you out. All the best.

    • @billbrown288
      @billbrown288 Před rokem

      Marco Did her boyfriend know you were spening so much time with

  • @brianskol5213
    @brianskol5213 Před 2 lety +1

    You are smart and insightful. You have a soothing voice. No wonder you are successful. Congratulations.

  • @olusegun.b.olofin5278
    @olusegun.b.olofin5278 Před 3 lety +2

    Amazing video.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety

      Thanks! So glad you liked it! 🙏

    • @olusegun.b.olofin5278
      @olusegun.b.olofin5278 Před 3 lety

      @@CoachMelannie I appreciate it coach .
      In case I want to reach you via email
      How can I do so

    • @olusegun.b.olofin5278
      @olusegun.b.olofin5278 Před 3 lety

      @@CoachMelannie I have been gaining do much from your teachings and will need more guide

  • @einherjar8585
    @einherjar8585 Před 3 lety +2

    No means no. I only need to hear it once. Never let them do it twice. I dont need a dream girlfriend, I dont need a partner. I have made my own life, made my own way. While a good partner might be nice, a bad one is a total disaster and who wants to deal w the learning curve?

  • @tabarnakopoulos
    @tabarnakopoulos Před 3 lety +3

    4:04 this story reaches out to me because that's what's happening to me right now! Except we're far from the wedding part, because, we started dating about 13 weeks ago and we are officially a couple since 2 months ago ( in fact 2 months tomorrow )
    But I was the one who rejected her, because I didn't feel ready to be in a relationship at the time ( 2 years ans 2 months ago ) and I knew I needed to work on myself for a time before being ready.
    And in fact I had given up on finding love and was perfectly fine being single and doing my own stuff solo, but fate put her back on my road again and I won her over without even trying and I wasn't looking for a relationship. I was just happy spending time with her again.

  • @kxngkxtzgamerboy9627
    @kxngkxtzgamerboy9627 Před 3 lety

    this really helped me

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety

      I’m so happy it was helpful! Thanks for watching! 😀

  • @ronaksaxena8913
    @ronaksaxena8913 Před 3 lety +1

    You deserve way more subscribers mam

  • @FebiOnTheGo
    @FebiOnTheGo Před 3 lety

    Thank you so much for this wonderful video. Actually just 2 days ago I sketched something for my crush. She really appreciated the drawing but then after I gave it to her, she asked me " Is this how you flirt?" i said no. I can really sense that she has feelings on me but maybe she just scared because of her past relationship.

    • @FebiOnTheGo
      @FebiOnTheGo Před 3 lety

      She told me to not even start to make a move. Because she doesn't want it. She didn't reject me but she does not want to give false hope on me.
      It's kinda hurt somehow but it gives me courage to slow down a bit and take time being a friend for her. Hahahahaha. i am good coach. There is a joy inside my heart even she have said those things..

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety +1

      I'm glad you have such a great attitude.There are plenty of great gals out there looking for that. You got this! 💪

    • @KingComp67_-io3iz
      @KingComp67_-io3iz Před 2 lety

      @@FebiOnTheGo Don’t take her as your friend because you giving her the attention she wants and the masculine energy she wants without you being her boyfriend. Women will play games to make you think you have hope but deep down inside the woman knows she doesn’t want to be with you

  • @pointuout2020
    @pointuout2020 Před 2 lety +7

    Yes, make more rejection videos. It makes me feel worse. So keep them coming!

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 2 lety

      Will do! While I work on that here are some that are similar! 😀 czcams.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VOYPpi4UjSjCpKDxJAS6g3.html

  • @xameszou2945
    @xameszou2945 Před 3 lety

    Nice one😊😊

  • @idanwillenchik3050
    @idanwillenchik3050 Před 3 lety +1

    That never happened to me. A woman who rejects me once will never be my friend and she can go to hell and stay there.EFFING C**T!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @MrAth69
    @MrAth69 Před rokem

    Been married for 30 years, we're separated, she has new friends, but still keeps me hanging around, can't totally step back as I have family! It's a killer situation! I'm now cutting as much contact as I can!

  • @r.r.villegas
    @r.r.villegas Před 3 lety +1

    Yes, I was twice rejected for the same girl.

  • @finsantos4630
    @finsantos4630 Před 3 lety

    I love your curly hair. It looks good on you. Also that red long sleeves. Have a great day coach. 😉

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you for your kind words! Have a great day 😀

    • @finsantos4630
      @finsantos4630 Před 3 lety +1

      @@CoachMelannie Thank you for replying back in spite of your busy schedules. That's sweet.. Be safe coach!

  • @jeremyhall1646
    @jeremyhall1646 Před 2 lety +1

    Thing to remember is funny how women say men need to change but never that they need to

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 2 lety +1

      I would never suggest you change for another person. However, it's very important that we always improve ourselves.

    • @jeremyhall1646
      @jeremyhall1646 Před 2 lety +1

      @@CoachMelannie I agree. But you seemed to encourage men to take back a woman who pulled away. What about the woman's accountability,or that's how I took that video, sorry if I misinterpreted. May I recommend a 20/20 video Nora Vincent "self made man" a feminist who lived as a man for 18 months she discovered a lot about both genders. Thank you for replying to the comment have a wonderful day and God bless

  • @ddyodaman5515
    @ddyodaman5515 Před 2 lety

    Your pretty spot on!

  • @nickmarsala3787
    @nickmarsala3787 Před 3 lety +6

    I've come to the conclusion that it just isn't worth it at all. Pursuing a woman is a waste of time, money, resources and effort when you could being using all that towards something else that is more productive. Also as time goes on it just becomes less and less valuable. If you are over 35 why bother?

    • @Feber2001
      @Feber2001 Před 2 lety +1

      I'm a little younger than you but I already gave up and I absolutely have no intention of going back to the "Market."

    • @sagarurs8133
      @sagarurs8133 Před 2 lety +3

      @@Feber2001 Yes, our goals are more important.

  • @ScotmanUK2000
    @ScotmanUK2000 Před 3 lety +9

    Why women come back? Its happened to me twice were women came back but one who came back only done so after 3 of her boyfriend she was seeing over 6 years left, cheated or had health problems. When she did come back. I lost all my feelings for her. The other person who came back after rejecting me was other a few months. I got dumped by email and I chose not to reply to her. She was on my FB and I moved on with my life and forgot about her but she was possibly following what I was doing beciasebfast foward about 9 months later she messages me to get back to me. Its also happned to a couple of my friends but I found out most came back because all their other options were bad or just dried up.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety

      I'm so sorry. Sounds like they may have been toxic. Take care!

    • @alexanderdelarosahidalgo3092
      @alexanderdelarosahidalgo3092 Před 3 lety +1

      Brother that's right they only comeback when they run out of options!

    • @mickeymcfly4692
      @mickeymcfly4692 Před 3 lety

      @@CoachMelannie is “toxic women” your standard go to excuse?

  • @jomarp2623
    @jomarp2623 Před 3 lety +2

    This is why you just let them leave and never look back

  • @shanemcateer1162
    @shanemcateer1162 Před 3 lety

    I need to learn more about this.

  • @josueaguirrealvarez6941
    @josueaguirrealvarez6941 Před 3 lety +1

    Yes love this topic please do more about rejection

  • @samuellecroix700
    @samuellecroix700 Před 3 lety

    Worst part about rejection IMO is feeling bad for putting her that situation, where she has to let me down

  • @gregoryjanczak7013
    @gregoryjanczak7013 Před měsícem

    There is a girl I asked several times in the past but she said she had a boy friend, which she did. Then I found out she broke up with him. I gave her time to recover so to speak and so I asked her out again but this time I said, "so when are we going out?" As soon as I said that, I knew I screwed-up. This video gave me answers that I actually scared her to "back off." However, she kept being flirty with me. For several weeks now I just seem to want her more and I get the feeling she does too, but just didn't know until now if she was just playing me or really interested. I will watch your next video on toxic women to gain even more clarity. Thanks again. I know I am close to either making another move on her or just moving on. Thanks again and God bless.

  • @mikioni
    @mikioni Před 3 lety

    Very nice, thanks 🤗😊🤗

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety

      Most welcome 😊 Thanks for your kind words!

  • @sven4627
    @sven4627 Před 3 lety

    Well, who you are as a person comes after physical appearance, in the beginning atleast, some would say that is superficial thinking, but appearance is an opener to be able to show the other person who you are, it is what it is ;)

  • @brucety1949
    @brucety1949 Před 2 lety

    YES!! Please
    I've been rejected my whole life 😭😭 and friend zoned since 1995

  • @Royal_G80
    @Royal_G80 Před 3 lety +14

    I got rejected by a girl and she came back! She texted me happy birthday, congrats on your job interview and said she wanted to hang out sometime. So I just "GHOSTED" her!!!! Ghosting is a great way to hurt a woman's ego!
    I mean, why would you take someone back if she didn't see any value in you in the first place?

  • @stevemansfield2757
    @stevemansfield2757 Před 10 měsíci

    Yes, want more on how to avoid rejection

  • @williamjones7589
    @williamjones7589 Před 3 lety +4

    this girl ghosted me for a week after telling me she always have fun with me. She texted me back a week later my teeth messed up and I stink when I just took a shower before seeing her the final time. She told me I just "doesn't care to have a friendship". 2 month later she comes back texting me. I haven't responded and I wont. I talked to this girl for a year and she came on to me saying she wants to be my friend I really liked her but im not falling for that trick again.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety

      Sounds like you made the right decision! Have a great day 😀

  • @Royal_G80
    @Royal_G80 Před rokem +1

    I got rejected by a girl and she came back! She texted me happy birthday, congrats on your job interview and said she wanted to hang out sometime. So I just "GHOSTED" her!!!!
    A year and a half later she sends me a friend request on social media. I ignored her and moved on and she decided to block me after I didn't respond to her. WTF is wrong with some women? Can't they get a hint?

  • @ramoneprimous1450
    @ramoneprimous1450 Před 3 lety

    It was a really great video....
    But my absolute favorite part was about the cheesecake....😋
    And the Mario brother reference..🤣

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety

      Thank you so much 😀 I’m happy it helped you. Cheesecake is the best!

  • @RandyRedington
    @RandyRedington Před 3 lety +2

    Hi Mel, I really enjoy your silliness at the end of your videos. Makes me smile 😁.
    I'm a 61 year old guy recently divorced from a 20 year long bad marriage. I'm struggling with whether I even want to date or not. It all feels so forgein to me.
    Add to that the stigma (I put on myself) about being Christian and divorced.
    Having come from a difficult situation makes me a bit gun-shy. And yet, I would like to meet someone... Who is not toxic.
    At my age, the girl of my dreams kinda sounds like a fantasy. But your videos give me hope. Thanks for presenting these. I'm glad I found your youtube channel.

    • @RandyRedington
      @RandyRedington Před 3 lety

      @@manilynreichelt5050: you are correct, - a woman 😉 - thank you.

    • @RandyRedington
      @RandyRedington Před 3 lety

      @@goddessshella664 thanks but I have no interest in getting my ex back. I am grateful to be out of that oppressive relationship.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety

      Hello Randy, thank you for your kind words! I'm so sorry to hear about your divorce. That's a very tough thing to go through. Let me assure you there are SO many good women out there! It's just about knowing how to stop attracting toxic women and instead get a good one. I had a client who was close to 70 and had in 5 toxic marriages. He was able to turn it around very quickly though. I promise there is hope! Feel free to email me at melannie@coachmelannie.com if I can help!

    • @rickcope3226
      @rickcope3226 Před 2 lety

      @@CoachMelannie my ex came back to me after 3 months. Lasted 4 days. Them she left again. Now she is with someone else. I told her we are done. No regrets. Thank you

  • @brandonstillwell9405
    @brandonstillwell9405 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I’d have to disagree with something you said here. If a female really want you, she will keep waiting for you if your moving slower or even faster. And that’s the female you want. That’s the girl that’s gonna give you the world and make your life easy

  • @asiandude8361
    @asiandude8361 Před 3 lety

    This happened to me. Someone at work told me that one of the other girls liked me. When I told her about it, she rejected me. After that I gave her the silent treatment for sometime and I noticed she was upset. I felt bad and I started to talk to her again. Everything's fine now but we're not dating. But I can't stop thinking on how she really thinks about me.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety

      That doe sound confusing. These video might help you a lot with this. czcams.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN.html Best of luck!👍

    • @asiandude8361
      @asiandude8361 Před 3 lety

      @@CoachMelannie I'm not gonna stress out anymore on how she really feels about me. We spoke to each other yesterday and everything's fine. We talked to each other as if we're friends again. We even had a big laugh. The only thing that matters to me is that we're in friendly terms again.

  • @gorann
    @gorann Před 3 lety +1

    This is an interesting video. Can you make video with topic what are signs or behavior patterns women shows when regret rejecting guy, or when it is not clear that she really rejected a guy because they sometimes give hazy responses?

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Před 3 lety

      I'll see what I can do. Have you seen these videos? czcams.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN.html They will give you some insight on this. Thanks for watching! 🙏

    • @gorann
      @gorann Před 3 lety

      @@CoachMelannie I will check these videos. These are interesting topics. Thank you. :)