Men Go Crazy for a Woman Who Does THIS!
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- What are men looking for in a woman? What traits are men attracted to in women? What does the Bible say to godly men who are looking for a godly woman? Here are 4 things a woman can do that men really love.
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“Don’t date worldly guys, they are very confused” 🤣🤣
God bless!
This made me laugh too! Because it’s so true! 😂😂
@Anna Clare Serious Christians won't date heathen so don't worry about that.
@Anna Clare extremely legalistic religious? Yes, definitely. A man who respects God enough to not mess with a woman is very different from that.
Yeah, they want a pure woman yet won't date someone that don't sleep with them lol and they angry they end of with a toxic female
Yeah man my wife is all of these: agreeable, feminine, selective, and affectionate. It's so refreshing to be married to her!
Wonderful to hear that!
Amen 🙏
Aman brother
amen!
Praise the Lord.
I will say this: women don't want a Yes-man. We want and need men who have a good sense of leadership... men who aren't afraid to lead and wear the pants in the relationship/marriage while still respecting the woman.
Amen!
Thankyou my blk sister. Lol I'm not submitting to a man who cant do these things. Lol sorry it just doesnt work. Love to follow the man. Teach me something. Lol but this day n age is out of wak. Lol like if I'm the boss at work let me be a woman at home that enjoys doing these things life is already hard enough lol
@@crissibeatty2094 Yeah. Like give us a break. We spent too much time running things so much outside the home, that when we come home we don't wanna call any of the shots (except make home feel like home).
I agree. I'm not submitting and won't feel safe with a guy who doesn't even feel safe within himself. And it's not my job to show a man how to be masculine or wear the pants. He needs to figure it out himself.
100% men nowadays seem to be the two extremes over aggressive disrespect women to the want to be over polite non proactive weak
Sis this vid is about what qualities us brothers want in a woman. Why did you switch it and made it about men???🤔
I want a man with a Godly plan ✝️
Amen!
Amen 🙏
Amen
You got a point, me too
😂😂 I like that
If the man is loving a woman, truly love her as the Bible says. I think a woman would have no problem with respect or submit to her husband.
I agree, many men use a worldly view of leadership and love but expect a woman to have biblical submission. Both need to obey the Scriptures :)
Yes, I strive to love my wife as Christ loved the church.
I agree
That’s a big IF.
So true
As a woman, a man's past track record does matter to me, but if he is repentant for real and transformed by God for real, then a relationship would be totally possible
Yes I agree too. Past matters to me too. Atleast it gives me an idea if he is a serial dater, womanizer or cheater or something. I would be nervous of dating someone who had too many people in his past.
Bobbi Jo,we all have a past,and our all sinners
Smart, godly women absolutely look at a man's past. That will be her future. Equally yoked means similar backgrounds and similar sexual status too. so, a virgin marrying a virgin, etc, etc. a man who's had only one or two partners with a woman the same, etc. Sorry men !!! Men often think they can get away with more. Equally yoked means equally yoked. Especially with sexual history.
Absolutely. The man I adore is amazing in ministry and I’m often in awe of him. But he has a crazy body count and everytime he shows interest, I find his past messes with me. I didn’t even think I cared like that and I feel bad coz he’s repented and moved past it. Guess I’m not the one 😂
The thing is my sexual past is not great so whoever I date and one day marry will need to understand that I have had past verbal and emotional abuse from men(my dad/my mom at times and ex bfs) , past sexual sin, past trauma/grief, past mental health issues and I’ve worked very hard to over come them through therapy, support groups and repentance and getting to know God. I am a different person through Christ, of course I have my bad days but I’m not who I used to be, I’m a very strong christian, kind of like a Paul, David and Job story. Hopefully the right guy will see the pain and suffering I’ve endured in my past and love and respect me despite that. Well one can hope:(
HE WILL ABSOLUTELY RESPECT AND LOVE YOU no matter what has happened to you or what you decided to do in your life before you knew Christ. God bless you. The Lord loves you and the right man’s love for you will involve forgiveness and be a mere glimpse of the Lords love and forgiveness for you.
@@madisonmclendon7191 thank you, I will admit these things happened when I knew Christ too or was grieving the suicide of my sister and other bad traumas:(, not anymore though, these are all things in my past, me being a victim of crimes though was not my fault or choice:(
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She is a pastor's daughter who was raped by 7 men.
I pray God will bless You with the right Christian husband for You 💖 Don't doubt it, have faith, God has a plan! And He's got You and Your future husband in mind, like two puzzle pieces that fit together in Gods big picture 💖
@@lilyflower5576 AMEN AMEN 🙏
Dating in this day an age absolutely sux. Especially when you have standards and boundaries 🙄😒
Nothing worth having in this life comes easy :)
Lol…yep.
It will come! Just be patient and positive. 💙
Just think of it this way.. you can filter easier🙂
@Emily counts sheep Exactly. An there’s definitely pros an cons to being single, but I will admit I’m pretty happy comfortable with myself but geesh the more I evaluate how ppl move these days the more I think to myself maybe I’ll just stay to myself a lil longer to avoid the stress of potentially being unequally yoked.
"Men are more concerned w a women's past, and women are more concerned about a man's future."
Wow so true. I'm a woman, and that is very true for me.
lol true pockets vs beauty
I literally came to my husband when I came running home and realized he is without a doubt my future husband and started confessing everything as if I had to bc I needed him to accept me with everything even my past bc I was so guilt ridden and the moment I realized he was fine accepted me I felt so much better.
I'm a woman and I wouldn't want to date a man who had been around the block. I'm extremely concerned about a man's past because it can be indicative of character. Future is important too though. Our callings must align because since I would be his helpmate, I don't want me helping him to completely pull me away from my calling (I'm a missionary so I would never marry a man who didn't have a desire to serve in that way at all.)
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@@ambertorres4444 I agree. Smart, godly women absolutely look at a man's past. That will be her future. Equally yoked means similar backgrounds and similar sexual status too. so, a virgin marrying a virgin, etc, etc. a man who's had only one or two partners with a woman the same, etc. Sorry men !!! Men often think they can get away with more. Equally yoked means equally yoked. Especially with sexual history.
“Don’t date worldly guys. They’re very confused”. Brother Mark, 🤣🤣🤣 I know you weren’t intending to be funny, but that was hilarious! Oh my goodness 😅😅😅 That was just awesome. Love it.
On a serious note… great video. 100%! Always a huge blessing brother. May God continue to bless you. 😇🙏✝️⚓️🕊🤍
lol, I actually was attempting a bit of humor with the zoom in cut, I'm glad someone got it :) Glad you enjoyed the video!
@Talyah, I agree! 👍
So the videos are not for u these is all about voiding those people in live
Women were called to the position of helpers, while men to the position of providers (leadership). The truth is that most christian women especially those who had understood the spiritual demands of God for their lives and marriage, are willing to fully submit to their husbands. The problem lies on the fact that most christian man out there haven't understood their spiritual calling in marriage. And they input a heavy burden on their wives, constantly reminding them their need for submission. That becomes spiritual oppression. It's wonderful to have a wife that fits into all these traits and carries such qualities, however men should not diminish their roll while ignoring that they have another human being closer to them who has feelings, wants, needs and desires. The goal here is to figure out together how to cope to each person's demand and work together as ONE! Commitment requires effort from both sides for none is less nor better than the other. But knowing that God is there to help you, mold you and mature you in this walk together, is the greatest satisfaction of all.
May God bless you all in Jesus name!
A helper is a leader also. We lead by example through Christ.
You said this so biblically and beautifully! 😢
Real woman of the Lord, are not offended by this message. I am a Marine Corps veteran, military police, but I have no problem submitting to my husband as he submits to the Lord. I wasnt raised to think this, but learned this as I grew in the Lord attending women's conferences and hearing teaching. I love being fem, girly, looking to my strong man to protect and represent us. It was not easy to unteach that "I am woman-hear me roar" paradigm, but I love him opening the door, ordering for me, and making the final decison of key things. I feel safe and protected in that arrangement and empowered fully. I love a strong godly man who knows his role and allows me to operate in my role and gift.
“Look at the degrees on that woman” 😂 the way you said this statement made me laugh
that cracked me up too! 😂😂😂. oh my! look how far up that ladder she climbed!
I've never heard this topic explained so well. Thanks for breaking down the Word of God and bridging the relational gap of understanding between men and women. These videos are a tremendous help to those of us that want to do things God's way.
Yes, well said..❤️
I like how the attributes of women described in this video are NOT physical ones. They all have to do with one’s character. The world bombards women and men with physical stereotypes that are supposed to be attractive/desirable at every turn. It can be debilitating, especially if you are dealing with a physical problem. For example, I suffered for years with scalp challenges that caused hair loss. This started happening when I was excited about putting myself out there in Christian circles to meet people-Christian men to be exact. The Enemy capitalized on my pain and used it-and still uses it-to keep me withdrawn from socializing. I really had to be intentional about prayer and Bible study to understand what God’s description is of a Christian woman. I also wanted to know the truth about Christian men. I discovered that for Christians-those who genuinely pursue the heart of God-are not “stuck” on outer appearances, but biblical characteristics. I mean at the end of the day, I can have hair like Repunzel😂, but if I am not biblically agreeable, feminine, affectionate, and selective, Christian men are not going to be interested. Ruth had a godly character and Boaz noticed that before any physical attributes.💯🔥💯🔥💪🏽
Wise and comforting words. Thank you for sharing this.
Powerful message. Women, we must understand that what most of us are looking for in regards to the man’s traits will not be that same as what most men are looking for.
Amen, both want love and respect but those will be expressed much differently!
Exactly
I felt it when he said "a man is not called to make a woman submit it is her choice to be that woman"
I had to keep pausing and clap!! Thank you so much Mark for this.
Glad you enjoyed it!
I agree 10000000% I just want a woman who always considers Christ in her decisions especially when it comes to "exploring your sexuality" by grace I can say I am courting the King's daughter my Love and we plan to get married very soon
God bless!
❤❤❤
I so thank GOD for you I know my husband is on his way and the LORD is using you and others to help me prepare.
I really am guilty of all the do nots. Makes a lot of sense why my ex just decided he wanted to cut ties from me and I honestly didn’t know why? So I’ve got to let this pieces of information sink deep in.
God bless as you seek to follow the Lord, by grace alone
@Anna Clare thanks for your words of encouragement sis
@Anna Clare don’t do that sisters. How come you sisters never hold each other accountable??! You tried to shove it off to her ex. While she admitted she the one with issues. Sisters, hold each other accountable in order to grow. Just Godly brother supposed to do among each other.
This was more like an episode of "Coffee With Uncle Mark". I like the different background shots and props! 😄 ☕📝🤝🏼
Good video, Mark. I hope God will bring willing women along to hear and receive these messages because they must grow in understanding of men if they wish to marry them, retain their feminity, not be his competition and raise sons and daughters who will be a testimony to godliness.
Take care!
Glad you enjoyed it! And thanks for the positive feedback Matthew :)
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Actually sir, we should call you "uncle Mark". That name suits you very well.
@MCharlery Smith.......😂😅😂 Yeah I love that title. "Coffee with Uncle Mark" . That's creative
@@giraffes_empire. Maybe he doesn't drink coffee ☕ 🤔
Amen brother! I wish I would have had this advice before I married. We both loved God and ended up in the Ministry and then divorced after 28 years of marriage. I love your advice....it is all based on God's Word and super nuggets of wisdom. KEEP ON KEEPING ON! God Bless You!
Very great video !! Agree with all he said !! Facts All The Way !! God Bless you so much !!
Amen in agreement this witnesses to my spirit. Thank you for this. ☝️🔥🕊🔥☝️
You’ve explained thus very well, a perspective that doesn’t dismiss women’s as autonomous beings, and critiques both male and female under the word of God. Wow!!
Beautiful, rich video!! Very thoughtful all around 👏🏼👏🏼
Thank you for breaking it down for us. Seriously. Praise the Lord.
Absolutely the best video on CZcams right now. Well done Sir, keep it up.
Wow this is the best video I have ever watched on this topic. Thanks for your honesty.
Really good video. Not an easy or popular topic to tackle now a days but very necessary to address. Very helpful
Thoroughly and well advocated!! Thank you!
I appreciate your honest advices it’s helping grow in so many ways God bless 🙂
Wow!You have scriptures to validate your teaching. I love this!
Great content, Mark. This is a complex topic in that there are a lot of variances with the 5 things. God made us so unique! What I hope single women realize is that if they are all these things, but aren't married yet, that is to do with God's plan. And He helps us filter the rejections. Blessings!
Great advice, thank you😊
Wow explained so well! We submit.
Not leading the relationship and acting like we’re the man. I see it all the time.
So glad it was helpful!
Excellent post. Thank you. 🙏
This was really great advice! I enjoy this video. Thanks!
Your videos are very helpful. Thank you! May the Lord bless you. I pray that God prepares not just me, but for whoever is reading this also.
YOUR CHANNEL IS GOLD! SO GLAD I AM LEARNING ABOUT ALL THIS. THIS IS STUFF EVERY RESPONSIBLE PARENT SHOULD TEACH THEIR KIDS INSTEAD OF TRYING TO THEIR BE THEIR “COOL“ FRIEND. THEY WOULD BE A LOT MORE PREPARED FOR THE WORLD, AND ALOT HAPPIER.
Mark, God has blessed you with a lot of wisdom.
Great teaching. I haven't heard all of this or explained this way before.
I like how all of your videos that I've listened to is very clear, you are a great speaker
Thanks for sharing Mark. You are very gifted. Thank God for giving you this gift. In a world where the opposite of these things you mentioned are promoted, you keep reminding us of biblical principles that are needed in times like these. God bless you.
So glad this was helpful, all glory to God!
Thanks Marc! Good Advice!
I loved your video Sir Mark. That is so true. A man loves a woman that is agreeable, cooperative, and friendly.
Excellent video♥️. God bless you Mark🙏🏾
Glad you enjoyed it! May the Lord bless you too!
Thank you for telling us what we women needed to hear, Mark. It must take a lot of boldness for doing this.
Just what I needed to hear and receive. Perfect timing from the Holy Spirit. Hallelujah
‼️AWESOME AWESOME
Video‼️ 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Thank U 🙏🏽 Brother Mark!!! Great CLARIFICATION!!!
Stay Blessed Always
Peace ☮️
🙏🏽🙏🏼🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️‼️‼️‼️
So glad it was helpful Diana! God bless you too!
Thank you for this video and making many videos. I have been following you for a while and may God bless you 🙏🏽
Great message
This is sooo good!! Thank you for sharing!
You are so welcome!
Thank you so much. This gives me lots of hope and I am honoring God with my body and I'm so grateful for that. As it is the temple of the holy spirit
This video was spot on brother..God bless you
Glad you enjoyed it!
Such a greatly needed video, thank You so much! Such a whole lot of more and more masculinely behaving Christian women wonder why...
God bless You for making this video!
So glad it was useful!
Another great video. I especially like the new background.
Thanks for the feedback :)
Your perspective is so refreshing
Best message !!! Agree with all this
So glad it was helpful Jean Mi!
Thank you so much for the insight!
I love the title! Very grabby for people of other worldviews as well!
Thank you so much for this advice
Thank you for this beautiful message and reminder!
God is a God of order. Submission is letting a man take the lead in matters. I was married for almost 31 years before God called my husband home. Submission was never a dirty word in our house. I never felt lower than my husband because I always knew if he made the wrong choice, God would hold him accountable for it. The secret is just to love one another like Christ loves us.
If I ever found another godly man to submit to, I would truly be blessed.
Thank you! I really appreciate it. Your videos are helpful.
Glad you like them!
Thanks for sharing this ❤❤
Thank you:) this really is helping me!
I agree with this message wholeheartedly. ❤️🔥
I'm so glad to hear that!
Well thats one tuff topic . Thank you Mark
Oh my goodness it's CRAZY how many clarifications are necessary to say what you're saying. I'm 100% grateful because it can be confusing with how many messages there are out there and how different the message is that our culture promotes. In this video it was navigated well but wow! I pray that each woman who watches this really believes she's beautiful and worthy and that there are good men out there and that God is good and has a plan. I pray any misconceptions about feminity and beauty be penetrated by the Holy Spirit of truth. ❤️🔥🕊️
YES men love those things and I feel very strong as a woman even/ESPECIALLY being those things. I'm proving I'm selective at the moment lol 🤭☺️
Blessings!!
God bless! So glad this video was helpful, all glory to God!
Mark, you are a grace from God🙏🙏✨✨
Such a marvelous video. God bless
So glad it was helpful Jennifer!
Great lesson! Another powerful message, thank you! ❤️🔥🙏
God bless! So glad it was helpful Luba!
I agree you ,hit it on the nail.
#3 reminded me of something one of my professors told me! Hilarious!
Thank you Mark, God bless you
You are very welcome Musical Lady!
How agreeable should you really be in a dating relationship?
Also on the topic of being affectionate I didn't understand why my ex said he didn't feel he was for me because he didn't feel he could make me happy and that just sounded like an excuse to me until now. So this brought some clarity and begun allowing me to process things better. Thank you!
It’s his way of saying you deserve better. Run and never look back! God bless
Amen!!! To all of these facts!!
This is invaluable Info (should be in all churches)--Xtremely important in these times! Thanks so much Mark, God bless.
Mark, you have definitely started the year on a roll 👏👏👏👍👍
Thanks! So glad you are enjoying the content!
Rite!
Really nice biblically based dating advice 💖 Thank You
So glad it was useful!
That last one is so on point👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
So glad it was helpful!
Best. Video. Yet!!!!!!!!!!!
GOD is absolutely good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
All glory to God!
Prayerful & Hopeful for a godly man, who follows after godliness.
MARK...THIS IS THE VERY BEST VIDEO I'VE EVER ENCOUNTERED ON THIS SUBJECT. I'm so tired of sinful men and it's difficult to find a Godly man that I honestly have stopped looking but I know like a peacock finds his hen, the right person should display the right traits consistently and from the beginning and I wont settle anymore. I'm going to be like the pea hen and be so selective because i deserve it. How do you feel about affection prior to marriage and how much do you feel.a Godly man should expect??? THANK YOU And also what behaviors do you feel label a Worldly and a Godly man?
Helpful and clear.
Thanks for the video.
my pleasure!
Best line, and delivery, in the video, "Don't date worldly men. They're very confused." Had to laugh at that. True description.
So, out of a 16 minute video about what men desire in a woman that is the best line in this video? Me confused
I have been praying for this man for 3 years now. It is so hard when Men seem to want the Woman to pursue them.
I'm a man, and I don't want a woman to pursue me. That's a quick way for her to be rejected and ghosted. I'm a confirmed bachelor, and I deliberately pursued lifelong singleness.
I'd try and forget him. If he's not pursuing YOU in courtship, he's probably not your man.
Nicely explained!! 😊
Glad it was helpful!
Mark you explain yourself so well so that people don't get confused, make assumptions, worse case scenario thoughts, etc. So much patience and wisdom in your teachings. Trulyfrom God. I personally love this one is one my favorites.
Thank you for always seeking to bless others with your gift of expounding on the wisdom of God and His Word, Mark.
I have been thoroughly edified by your videos.
God bless!
I'm so glad they have been edifying
Great message, Pastor Mark!
The beautiful Gospel of Christ does not offend me in any way.
You are 100% correct. Women are looking for a GODLY man, different from a passive man.
Love this post! 😎🏆👍🏾
So glad it was helpful!
Brilliant, thanks so much
So glad it was helpful! All glory to God!
Best christian dating/marriage video on the internet!
Great video.
Thank you for explaining this! Yes, the Song of Solomon is a perfect book to use as an example. Yes, Preach! Respect, honor, value, love, loyalty, purity, affection, yes, happiness. I'm looking for my Ruth! Proverbs 31 wife/help mate. Thanks, Bruh! Also, a Proverbs 17:17a wife!
Mark, I agree with your points, and you did a great job explaining. Ephesians 5:21 says to “submit to one another out of reverence for Christ”. I am not offended by the word submit, because it is a beautiful thing to have a man worthy of that type of respect! However, I am so over men using 5:22 to prove their point, yet conveniently “overlook” the verse right before it. Why is this? We have been beat over the head with this verse, when the Bible teaches the principle of being submissive to each other. Please respond. Thank you, kindly.
we must not interpret the Bible through one verse rather one verse through the whole of the bible. When you have questions, it's always helpful to look at other Scriptures to help you understand the full context. My understanding is that verse 21 relates to Christians in general (which is why it is often edited into a different section in the ESV) and then verses 22 is about marriage. Throughout the Bible we are told to submit to one another (Like in Philippians 2) but we are also told to submit to our leaders (like in Hebrews 13). So does this mean we leaders should submit to those they follow? My point is, I think there is different context for each of these statements in Ephesians 5:21-22 because it would be contradictory to say husband submit to wives and wives to husbands in 21 but then specifically highlight a husband's leadership and a wife's submission in the next section (Ephesians:5:22-33). The bible emphasizes a wife's submission and husband's sacrifice for the wife rather than co-leadership and co-submission. But as Christians in general, we should all be "submitting" to one another, but that is different than the specific marriage roles
Yes you nailed it