Can a toxic relationship be saved
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- čas přidán 4. 06. 2024
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Toxic Relationships:
1. Emotional Abuse
2. Manipulation
3. Gaslighting
4. Control
5. Codependency
6. Boundaries
7. Narcissism
8. Verbal Abuse
9. Isolation
10. Power Dynamics
Trauma:
1. PTSD (Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder)
2. Emotional Wounds
3. Healing Journey
4. Triggers
5. Coping Mechanisms
6. Flashbacks
7. Trauma Response
8. Resilience
9. Therapeutic Interventions
10. Trauma Recovery
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2. Mental Health
3. Mindfulness
4. Positive Psychology
5. Holistic Wellness
6. Stress Management
7. Emotional Regulation
8. Self-Compassion
9. Growth Mindset
10. Support Networks
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Your videos are very helpful! Always refreshing to know that there are people out there that totally get it even when it's hard to explain!
In my experience and personal observations of others who are going through or have gone through toxic relationships, there appears to be no chance for recovery, reconciliation, or rebuilding anything.
My answer will always be NO ❤️🔥
It's hard because communication with them is a one way thing, there's no room for discussion, you can't even give opinion on things, to narcissists, giving opinion = you are attacking them, they take it very personal, so it's near impossible, in my opinion.
At one point I wanted to save a toxic relationship. Trying to learn to trust him again but I have gotten to the place afew months ago where I was like I cannot do this any more (after being broken up at that time for 11 months ). I told him straight we are not going to get back together ever - he had ago I made this discussion without involving him ( I said to him I don't need ur permission to do what's best for me - ur toxic for me and I never feel emotionally safe around u).
The last few months I have been in the gooey stage - Rage, depression and sadness but I have decided to ride the wave and acknowledge how I am feeling and will be for a while, because I know I will be better after this passes.
Over the last 13 months therapy and videos like urs has helped me so much in growth and being able to see things differently 😊
Thank u
The fact that narcissists WILL NEVER EVER CHANGE, and upon seeing the relationship cycles they have gone through, and still going through, apparently the answer in my opinion is a BIG NO.
Without divine intervention, it won’t be saved
My wife was possessed; she actually glared in my face and snarled, "I am evil!!!" When she wasn't being evil, she was the woman I loved and married, but I could never predict her behavior. THere were two people living in there. I had spoken with both of them.
I know that God has ultimate power and grace; he loves all of us. I always feel His love. I have seen God heal people like this, but they have to want to be healed. I reached the extent of my experience and skills; I could never pursue the person which God had removed from my life. I will be available if I'm needed, but the call would have to be unquestionable. I'm much happier by myself.
@@dougretter Thank you for sharing your experience, may God bless you and hope you'll overcome this. I had my own struggles too
I really needed to hear this, thank you. My therapist doesn't seem to understand these issues.
Hi, you need to change therapists my friend. I experienced the same thing. Many therapists have little or no knowledge of the intricacies of narcissism. My therapist actually acknowledged that she was limited in her understanding of it. It was a waste of time pouring my heart out to her. She actually seemed sympathetic to my wife who could be the poster girl for narcissism. Good luck , I hope you find some inner peace.
First of all, if your mate is diagnosed and understands they have a disorder, then weekly therapy with a psychologist or social worker for several years is going ot help, no missing appointments. Also treating the physical health issues is important, if the person has hormone imbalances thyroid, blood sugar, Anemia and illegal drug abuse or alcoholism all that needs to be treated properly too, it affects mood and thinking. antidepressants or anxiety medication is optional but not mandatory, as they do not work the same for everybody, it's up to the patient. as long as the mate patient wants to change and willing to seek help, then find a therapist they can connect with, preferably an attractive one with deep empathy maybe of the opposite sex :)
It was impossible for me to grasp that the one I loved and had spent to many years watching over, could be confronted with overwhelming, undeniable proof of their need to improve, and still blame everyone but herself. She told me she would rather die than live how she was living; she just could; accept her need for change.
A compulsion hoarder can save anything.
I can't believe how i can relate to what you're saying ! I never thought a man could be the one to get abused ! It would never fail that I'd be at my ex-girlfriends apt , the 1st three days would be really good . Out of nowhere the 4th day she would get upset and she would tell me to leave and i never understood what happened ! The minute she would call no matter what time it was , I'd be an idiot too go back so the toxicity would repeat itself all because i loved her ! I haven't talked to her in a few months and recently I've been thinking and missing her so much . I don't know why i can't get passed this !
She is repeating a cycle of abuse and you are developing a trauma bond. If you keep going back, it will only get worse; both in the abuse from her and in your bond to her. Eventually, it could even change you, resulting in reactive abuse on your part towards her.
Move on and find someone healthy. Don't waste your life away.
What if he is gaslighting you because he is autistic and in his head he is right and don't mean to treat you bad? Should you give the relationship a chance?
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Long story short. NO. Get a fucking new lawyer and run.