OVERCOMING MY SOCIAL ANXIETY ON OMEGLE
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- čas přidán 26. 05. 2020
- Today I am overcoming my social anxiety on omegle. This was actually really tough for me at first but I quickly warmed up. I am still incredibly awkward and cannot hold a conversation but at least I ain't stressin. Thanks for watching. Feel free to like and subscribe. I wouldn't mind. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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Good practice brother, you did better than me hahaa. I can't help but skip after saying hi.
haha i’ve been there man! just gotta push yourself! :)
i cant even say hi
@@Scagic lmao me
I don’t even show my face and even if I try to talk I fucking shake and tremble 😂
@@Yourmom-lq8qc same
Just tried this bro and already feel more confident after a week
ah that’s awesome man! keep it up! :)
my experience on omegle
girl: hey how are you
me: fine, wow you're beautiful
girl: thank...
me:SKIP SKIP SKIP (in panic)
HAHAHAHA I respect the attempt. that takes some courage!
@@GriffinMagleby did it really make you overcome your social anxiety in real world? because i searched online and they say it doesn't help and i don't know if i should continue or stop
It’s definitely very different from real world interaction since you can just skip and hide whenever you want but with omegle I was at least able to practice speaking and holding conversation which I think is definitely a valuable skill that will make real world interaction easier. It won’t eliminate your anxiety overnight but I think it is definitely a step in the right direction.
@@GriffinMagleby thank you so much for your advice i really appreciate it.
i feel like you did really great, you usually were the one leading the conversations :D ngl a lot of people on omegle just seem awkward or like they don't wanna be there, that's why i've never tried it, would be too much for my little anxious heart :')
aw thank you! it can definitely be an uncomfortable awkward place haha.
Not me watching videos of people overcoming anxiety using omegle instead of going on omegle to tackle my social anxiety XD
hahaha you can do it Kai! I believe in you!
That's really inspiring. You do really good. People skip me as soon as I try to start a conversation and if not I skip them out of anxiety
It's hard but I hope it'll be worth it in the end
aw thank you. there were definitely a lot of failures that I cut out of the video but every once in a while you can find a good person to talk to. wish you the best! :)
I have always had anxiety about talking to ppl on omegle, I was mostly scared of the men who do gross stuff on omegle. Thank you for helping me with my anxiety I appreciate it 😔🙏🏽
What kinda gross stuff 🤔
@@Joel-pg4yieating pickle with Nutella
I'm geting an anxiety watching you overcoming your anxiety xD
I also have social anxiety, I went to omegle as many popular youtubers were doing funny stuff on it, I also went in it, first I tried the chat only then I went to the video option, I regret it, first of all there where 2 girls, plus they where white( I am a brown Indian person) I got so nervous I froze like Mei and just shut down my laptop, but I will go again to the website to get over my social anxiety
ah man. talking to girls can be tough. I know exactly how you feel. You just have to take it one step at a time. Start small. You got this!
Dude same when I see these American people I feel they just gonna judge me for my accent or my skin colour idk bruh
literally this idea just popped up in my head for no reason so i did it and my hands were literally shaking the whole time and i couldn’t even say hi i kept skipping i feel bad for the people 💀💀💀
haha i know how u feel man but it gets easier with practice!
TONNES OF POTENTIAL not even capping. Keep the grind I can garuentee you'll make it
aye I really appreciate this! thanks for not capping haha. It’s grind time!
Me watching this video one year later… wish I could of found it sooner..😭
Tbh I’ve never went on Omegle, and scared to try it out. I really want to but end up not trying.
I am someone who doesn’t know how to hold up a conversation. It’s very stressful even in real life😅 I tend to blush very hard and stutter. Anyway Im very happy I came across your CZcams channel, there aren’t many CZcamsrs like you out there!!😊
Eh idk if u gonna read this but yeah new subscriber….
yeahhh omegle is a scary place haha. can’t say i recommend it. But i can definitely relate to you. I am not the best at holding conversation but I think i’m slowly getting better through practice. I just try to find things that people are interested in and let them do the talking haha. so glad you found me. thank you so much for subscribing kait! it really means a lot :)
Watching this 3 years later and I do have a social anxiety as well. Been trying to use websites like Ome TV and Omegle to talk to people and looking for some decent conversations, but it's been so hard for me. My social anxiety always went up when I was finally connected to talk to people on there. I'm constantly worrying of people's reaction when they see my face for the first time. I do think that myself isn't attractive enough to them so people tend to be less enthusiastic when talking to me (at least that's what I'm thinking when judging the atmosphere in the room). So, there was like a hidden task that I had to keep the conversation going to make this less awkward. In the end, I tend to fail to do so because I couldn't always maintain a flawless conversations and there were awkward silences. That contributes a lot to make my social anxiety up and I ended up being skipped or acted like I was about to be disconnected due to network errors. I'm a guy, but I do have a soft yet girly voice that when I talk to you using my normal voice by phone, you might be mistakenly thinking that I'm a woman. That part also keeps building my social anxiety up when talking to people because they see my face is less attractive and also hear my voice like that. So, people keep giving me odd reaction because they didn't expect to meet someone like me. They tend to think that I used some voice changer software or apps. In fact, my voice is still more girly than most boys trying to use voice changer or make their voice sound girly. Ahh, English isn't my first language as you can probably tell of me using some repeated words, grammatical errors, and inefficient sentences which also builds up my social anxiety because I'm afraid to make myself look even weirder to the people that I talk to. For this one, it doesn't contribute a lot to my social anxiety but still gets me sometimes. These long sentences is a solid proof how a social-anxiety-freak I am. Thanks a lot for this video Griffin. It made my day so far.
I tried Omegle today and I'm just gonna say it, I immediately logged out and just hopped up and down, feeling stupid
don’t feel stupid man! you are taking steps to a better you. i’m proud of you for even attempting
It's so hard first time on Omegle, I literally forgets English when I'm connected to someone, English isn't my first language but it's my strongest language outta em all.
ahhh that’s tough haha. but i can imagine you’ll get better with a but more practice. just have to get passed the fear.
Thanks brother i was searching for this kind of video
same… hoping he does more
Omg yesssss this is a good idea. Social anxiety is the worst.
it sucks... haha... but it can get better with some practice! :)
did u manage to improve it with omegle¿
Dude I really feel scared when ever I see someone on omegle and I just keep skipping them constantly. I don't feel like I have courage in me and I also feel everyone would skip me just because I'm an Indian. I've caught up with social anxiety first time in my life after all this corona shit and I'm not having anyone to talk to sadly :( . And my camera has a bad quality too so now I feel more impatient.
i’ve honestly been there before man. There are a lot of mean people on omegle and there will be a lot of people who will skip you but you don’t want to talk to those people anyway. there are also some genuine, good people on there who are nice to talk to. practice makes perfect
helo yor computer has virus
Im not scared to meet people on omegle its just im insecure about my looks, but ill keep tryin to overcome it
that can be tough. I struggled with that for years and to this day i still struggle but as you work on yourself it can get easier
Just tried this, had a bangin conversation with this high dude about music fr 20 mins.
hahaha that’s awesome!
i always skip after seeing the person or saying "hello" LMAO, im proud of u
hahaha i know what you mean
wish i could overcome it bro, all i encounter is weird people 💀💀
haha yeah there are better places to practice
@@GriffinMagleby Can you name those places? I’m thinking about starting to use Omegle rn but at the same time I know there’s mad weirdos 😂
It’s funny that I don’t have social anxiety in real life, but as soon as I meet random strangers on Omegle my mind just turns blank. Can’t come up with good questions and the convo just turns awkward after a few seconds. I’ma just keep it to real life to be honest 😂
hahaha real life is better anyway.
its honestly meant for quick interactions, however ive gotten people i talk to for a solid half hour plus on occasions
Honestly I feel like people have more respect for you because of looks, that’s why I lack confidence
that could be true but I still got roasted and my anxiety was still there. But you are right, developing more confidence in your self will help.
Girls don't skip you because you are handsome and i am not😔
keep your head up king 🙌👑
Ur kinda different from other guys. U seem true to self. ❤😂
You literally helped me overcome my anxiety, but then I met people who were like rude to me so I just stopped and got anxious again.
ah sorry to hear that man! there will always be rude people in life but taking these steps will help callus your mind so that you won’t be bothered by rude people.
It's weird, some days I go on and get some really chill people with successful conversations going, and even some compliments :D but other days it's roast after roast and I get off all anxious. It's people just being dcks for the sake of it though I'm pretty sure
Nah Man U a natural I just be spamming the skip button cause I don’t know how to start a conversation
hahaha nahh i’m not a natural. just had some practice. got to cut out the awkward stuff.
you did really good and I love that you have multiple hobbies.
aw thanks hahaha! I'm a jack of all trades but master of none.
@@GriffinMagleby I reckon that that is a strength. Makes it easier to relate to more people which does come in handy when one struggles with social anxiety. I speak from experience. I think I will try doing the same, going on omegle
awesome! I think omegle can be a great way to practice. Especially during this time of social distancing. My next challenge is to start improving in real life interaction haha.
@@GriffinMagleby I wish you the best of luck and I think the gradual exposure approach is a great idea
@@GriffinMagleby how do you laugh like, not awkwardly? Because whenever I’m in a awkward situation like you were in my laugh comes out weird, your laugh is like reassuring if that makes sense
Definitely loved this one and it gave me confidence to do the same
love it!
How you got social anxiety? You come off super confident. I combated my SA today with a similar webcam app. It turned out much better than I thought and the fear was pointless. Almost only cool people.
the confidence is an act. gotta fake it til you make it haha. glad to hear that man! It’s always easier than you think. just gotta take the first step.
I look really social and I'm good at conversation although I'm terrified of it.
SAME I WAS SO SCARED
it gets easier!
I wanna try this but I dunno how risky it is
May also help to hide my face
But I don’t know!
Guessing you edited a lot of parts out but how would you say it went for you?
yeah to be honest there will be a lot of people who will roast you or be mean to you no matter what. I edited lots of that out. and there is a lot of time just waiting for someone to finally stop and talk. but eventually you’ll find some genuine, nice people and have a nice conversation. if you don’t want to get roasted then hiding your face can help. people will still be mean but less directly. but overall I think it helped me learn some things. the mean people helped me to realize that words are just words and the only reason people are being mean is because they have their own problems and want to take it out on someone else. we’re all just people trying to survive in this crazy world.
Tried this and my social anxiety got worse
ah thats tough. It did get worse for me at first but I kept pushing through until I was able to realize that I was okay and things got a bit better.
yeah same here my guy, when i see the face just pop up my anxiety just goes through the roof.
@@ArottingPast making this video was actually extremely hard for me. I put it off for weeks because the thought of it alone gave me anxiety. But it gets better! Omegle is so easy for me now. If i’m uncomfortable i’ll just skip! :)
I will try it too but don't give up, i have social anxiety too. Take baby steps, don't expect to have a complete conversation at the start
Everyone here is talking about skipping, i cant even start a video chat 😔😔
lol i know what you mean. i put off filming this video for a solid couple weeks because i was too anxious. It get easier though!
lol ssame broo
bro i swear this is literally so difficult, any tip? i basically never talk to anyone, im tryna be confident but bro this is terrifyng
hahaha i feel you man! it just takes practice. just try to get people to talk about themselves or their favorite things and conversation will be easy!
Everyone says I have a baby face too that’s one of the reasons why I don’t like showing people my face anymore but im gonna finish your video then go to bed and face my fears of going on here
you got this! hahaha
I'm definitely trying this
haha yes! do it!
I'mma stick to text mode 😂😂😭😭
aww cmon you can do it! hahaha
Im always unsure what to say and always say stupid things
I want to try it and practice my English but it's too hard to start 😭
you can do it! I believe in you!
It helps to be attractive.
you are right but that doesn’t change the anxiety
I'm still stuck on the homepage... i feel like pressing the button to my death. but i really wanna do it but then again....
im sweating everywhere lol
Update: after an hour looking at the start button i finally did it ! lol
hahaha congrats man! You accomplished something difficult which will help improve your confidence in yourself and what you can accomplish!
I would never do this because I was bullied all my life. I'm afraid people will be mean to me.
aw I'm sorry to hear that! people on omegle are definitely not nice.
I got anxiety only to talk with rude people
aw i’m sorry man 😔 omegle can be rough
has this helped with your social anxiety at all? asking because i need to fix mine
I would say it helped a little bit. It gave me the ability to practice and develop confidence in conversation. Overall I think what has helped me the most is just working on myself and developing confidence in all areas of my life. Exercise, meditation, etc. I still have a lot of work to do but I’m I try to improve everyday.
i saw man strpping everytime lol
lolll
In the mirror i look much prettier than i look in the camera… and i feel im ugly and people used to skip me idk what should i do probably i gotta accept it screw it never gonna use omegle again
aw don’t let your self worth be based on what people on omegle think. there are lots of sad hurt people there and they have to be mean to feel a little bit of relief. you are amazing and perfect just the way you are!
I am trying to do the same rn but I can't even talk to them omg why am I so shy
it’s definitely tough at first but you’ll get better with practice! 😊
@@GriffinMagleby thank you!
@@diane7071 The key is that there is a filter in your brain that causes that dreaded awkward silence when you are failing to think of things to say, we all get it. A bit of filter is good, it stops us saying mean or harmful things to others, but too much filter is like cutting out all of one's personality. Whenevr you are in a situation or conversation your brain will have a reaction or comment about it, it's just about being able to to actually vocalise it and lower the filter. Ever notice when you are with your close family or really comfortable situation it's easy to say things, when you are in public or with people in school/work is where most people struggle to lower the filter as they care about saying the perfect thing or the most safe answer. Hope this helps!
i am super scared to go on omegle probably because im 11 lol
Why would you want to go there when your 11?
@@WLWLWLW idk but i once did and i was on there for HOURS
Bro i should try this
Yeah bro do it!
The Italian singer song might be il mondo
ah I will have to look that up!
It’s a great song
well at least you have the looks
ehhh looks are subjective. definitely got roasted plenty
it will be akward at first youll get there bro easy.
very true
how do you even put ur face in the camera, let alone say a word?? i feel sick just trying to do it
honestly it took a long time before I was ever comfortable in front of a camera. Just took time and work on myself.
Help me tooo 🥺🥺🥺. Man am so shy
I wanna know how much your social skills are increased till now.
i'm certainly not perfect and still struggle, but I would say i've definitely improved a lot since this video. Omegle was a good way to practice conversational skills and get ideas of what topics people like to talk about. but most of my improvement has probably come through just practicing in real life. small steps at a time.
@@GriffinMagleby that's amazing, everything can be easier by taking small, I'm glad to know that
You should add some background music to your videos.
Appreciate the advice Alejandro! I’ll try this!
I’m not done watching the video but do you write down questions why do you keep looking down just wondering not in a rude way
no hahaha i think it was just a nervous thing. i think i was just playing with stuff on my desk.
After this is it easy for you to talk to strangers?? Like not on omegele in real life
it’s not necessarily easy but i think it has definitely helped me to develop better conversation skills which makes me a little more confident talking to strangers
Have you run into Harry mack
damm you rlly look like srubby
lol I can see the resemblance
I am an introvert this website is not compatible with me
hahaha same... but it gets easier :)
Yeah omegle totally not using ome tv
yeah.... about that...
I wanna do this but I’m scared lmfao
hahaha i was scared the first time too!
So i will be trying Omegle after i get my new laptop....I'll be goin into it with a stone heart cuz i knew people will roast me cuz I'm an Indian.....Do filters work really nice?....To match people with common interest....Also should i roast them back if i got roasted...It's tit for tat
Another suggestion from me who may need it - If people skip you, it doesn't mean you are ugly.It's because they seeks a different kinda person or to find people with common interests.Trust me guys, you'll find one good person out of 50 who may try to give you a start if u feel a bit shy.Omegle is still great if u are brave enough to ignore the trolls
1:38 i thought u were 16 bruh
hahaha i’m actually 23 now
Also how the fuck you do you not stutter while you talk dude 😭😭😭
i definitely do haha. i just edit it out
You are super cute and you are confident so i dont think you really have social anxiety😢