Anjelah, my wife wanted to see you Live so bad. You were our next comedian to see. Sadly she passed from leukemia unexpectedly very quickly. Every time I see you , its difficult not to tear up. I look forward to having a chance to see you on your next visit to L. A.
My husband and I have gone with Manwell’s rules for 25 years and we couldn’t agree more! Each person MUST check their own families & there will never be an issue with over stepping boundaries.
Anjelah, I am glad that God called you to be a comedienne. Your talking about your culture, I believe, has brought understanding to those whose exposure to Hispanic culture is limited to Mexican foods from a local restaurant. Please keep up the good work, as you are definitely promoting peace.
Angelah, the reaction you had when you thought bonzo was going to get attacked is probably how motherhood is going to be when your baby girl is born. Liked how your hubby calmed you down. Y’all are already a great parent team 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Such a cute couple... I have been married for 40 yrs now.. I am 60 yrs old. I have to say communication is the first and only way to make a marriage work. Oh, along with having your own TV changer... 🤣🤣👍
I find your advice to be spot on. My husband and I will be married 36 years this August. We lived together off and on for 5 years before we married. We are best friends. I can tell that you are too. And as the old song goes, communication is the problem to the answer. We are fortunate that our parents are amazing people and love us both so we've never had to address negatives in that way but, if we did, you can be sure that we would each stand up for the other and not let anyone drive a wedge between us. We are not perfect but we strive to create a life together that we both love and that means being united in mind, body and spirit.
Exactly always stand up for yourself no matter what if someone it doesn't matter if it's your in-laws but if someone is being disrespectful to you saying disrespectful stuff stand up for yourself. And remember say you mean and mean what you say never bite your tongue and let stuff that bothers you go because that will eat you up inside and you will hate yourself if you do that's why it's best to always speak your mind.
There is optically "traditional", whatever way the world wants to twist us into and then the right way. The right way is that marriage is a complete and total blend in everything. And money is a big one. It shouldn't matter who makes more in the long-run as it is no longer mine but ours.
Always glad my grandma set a good example of being a supportive mother-in-law. Some of my cousins married into families where the in-laws love them, but always felt that at every single holiday, they must be visited every single time. My grandma's view was that once you marry, your parents should expect to have to share you some with your in-laws and vice versa. She never once made anybody feel bad for going to visit their other family at a holiday, which is more than I can say for some of the families they married into. She also treated the spouse of every son, daughter, grandson, or granddaughter, as an equal member of the family. Although he never took her up on the invitation, my uncle was just as welcome at family gatherings after he and my aunt divorced as before. I'm blessed to have had a similar relationship with my (technically former) in-laws. People find it odd that we all remain family after the divorce even though he and I had no kids together, but the way we look at it, I divorced him, not them.
My husband always defend me if anything bad was said about me . He was such a great husband. He passed away 2015 from prostate cancer he is missed so much from many people. I don't have any relationship with his family they gave me so much drama when he was so sick . I did not leave his side when he was sick.
Since I've seen the historically epic nail skit ( that honestly when I just need to laugh ..I put on her nail sketch... Her comedy ALWAYS Cheers me up... How can it not? 😂. It's one of my very favorites l) but all of her comedy is amazingly funny as heck.. she's definitely my favorite comedian everrrrrrr. I need to see her comedy live. Pls tour the northeast of the USA. 🙏❣️🎀 Gotta say.. no no no Aunt Celia. 😂
Great advice! This should not even be an issue. ....you would think. I left my ex-husband for this reason. I was not respected by him or his family. Our families are from the same country but my mother is African American. My skin color was an issue. I was always treated less than.
I’m a man who is a traditional in my way of thinking, that doesn’t mean that I’m trying to get anyone used to that being the norm . Nice for my lady to spring for xy and z every once in while . For her to make an attempt is all I ask for .
Turning 10yrs married on June 28th and since day one, hubby and I have decided to combine all income and it has worked for us. I've always made more than him and it did sting his ego for a while at the beginning. But, now, we just see the combination of income and assets. I saw married couples argue/dispute in front of us who was paying for ice cream and dinner on certain occasions and I'm like, yeah, that's not going to be me. It seems weird that a marriage would have separate finances. Aren't we one, now?
I always find the financial expectations interesting. If one partner makes significantly more, then evaluate the numbers and of course, communicate and establish a happy medium. I told my partner that if I end up making more money, then yes, I will contribute more. Look at the percentage in which you can contribute according to your income and your lifestyle. Right now, I communicate if I can't afford things or when I rather just save money instead of spending it. My bf understands my situation and is very respectful of it. He treats me the majority of the time but I also contribute when I can and offer every time I can and sometimes I treat him. Right now, it's a healthy balance. When we get married, or will get married, then we will revisit the situation and have another conversation about what to expect from one another.
This is the first time we have seen your husband and you doing a collaboration you two are so cute. Congratulations on your baby and your super careers. 💕
Got your "i love your comment" do you ever come to the midwest. You are one of the top comedians i have ever seen, and i have seen many. YOU SHOULD BE NATIONAL!!
Got a couple of dear friends, super talented both, who married when they were both professional ballet dancers and dance instructors at a college. His only dream and vision and goal was to have his own dance company, uniquely to bring glory to Jesus Christ. She supported it at first, even sang with him in a trio as part of the performance for a number of years, both of them teaching, they had 3 kids as well. Got the call to move to Nashville when after many years of financial hardship his company still was not making any money - he insisted on taking up love offerings rather than charging admission - slowly but surely her belief in his vision and her loyalty to it began to erode as she was having to do the bulk of the income earning work while he labored endlessly in his creative work which brought in nothing. Cut to 20 years later and finally his dance ministry is getting some attention. Alas, they are separated with not much hope of getting back together. This arrangement, the woman doing the bulk of the earning and the man concentrating on his creative endeavors when they aren't that successful, is really hard on a marriage. Just saying. I'm saying a prayer for you two. It isn't easy, what you've got going. But keep on loving each other and communicating with kindness and PRAY together daily. You'll make it.
I never disrespected my in laws, my husband at the time did not speak up for me to his mom she even attacked me on her living room floor and punched me in my face in front of her daughter and my kids. I didn't hit back because I might have been raised by wolves but I had a lot of respect for her so I held my head up high, and walked away. My mother in law never liked me since day one when I first meet her she told me I told her son we had to get married... Uhh no he asked me. Therefore to this day we are no longer together I'm in a better place because the relationship was very toxic , he even took full custody of our kids away from me, to this day I haven't seen them in 6 yrs. He lied cheated and I ended it.
Hiya kiddoes, have seen several shows, and just found your Q@A, relationships are a 50/50 , easy way to settle who pays. Lords blessings on Y'all, and thank you for the content🙏.
Uh, don't interrupt, rude. For a minute, I thought you were going to go Bon qui qui on the man. I totally love and dig your content 💯. I would love to see more of Bon qui qui. Will she be coming back?
My husband and I have been married for 22 years. We were 17 and 21 when we married. The ONLY way we got this far is JESUS. IMO Jesus has to be at the center of the relationship for it too work long term. When communication breaks down between my husband and I I always run to Jesus and ask him to help, to help speak to my husband’s heart, to speak to my heart if I’m in the wrong and being prideful or whatever…HE has always worked things out between us. If your obedient and willing to listen and are humble to listening to instruction from God your marriage will be blessed and successful
My husband never stepped up and I had to become confrontational. That screwed up my relationship ship with him. He believes in The ignore them factor and they are here for a short time. I have no regrets for defending myself even if it screwed up our relationship. The wicked witch is dead. Thank God!😂
You guys are great! 🎉🎉God bless! In-laws are complicated. 😝Just keep doing your own thing! 🎤🎤Oh, and love the IKEA Wine Racks; got 4 at home! 🍷Hmmmm. 😘
What foods do you prefer to eat. As a purtorrican I find that people expect me to eat hot spicy food. Which I don’t like. But I like Mexican. So many people don’t know there is. Difference between the countries cuisines
What about if your the parent and the girl who's about to marry your son is a rude, spoiled disrespectful person who doesn't like you . Every one in my family got their wedding invitation but me.. Supposedly it got lost in the mail... But either way She's just mean and rude. I'm not even going to their wedding because I totally don't feel welcome and it's clear over seas .. and way too expensive for me. They couldn't even provide a place for me to stay . Weird. ????
Lol true. I'm pretty sure for all the DILs who complain about their MIL, there is an MIL complaining about their DIL. I love my MIL and hope she loves me.
How about the joint account where you both have a card….. who gives a shit “who pays”??? What does that mean in a marriage???? Totally an EGO ISSUE SOMEWHERE People who have money don’t sweat this shit! 💥🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Love you both but when I hear young people say things like "in this new age of equality", it makes me laugh. This is not a new concept people. We women have been fighting for equality since the 60's and the progress you see today is a result from that.
My mom, after her divorce to my gringo dad, identified as Chicana, my g-parents were Mexican. I’m married to a Beautiful Puerto Rican woman for 19 years and other than some machaca burritos I had yrs ago in LA, Puerto Rican food rocks. Pernil? Don’t get me started. What is wrong with me as a half Mexican food that I like Puerto Rican food Better? Thoughts and prayers just aren’t enough.
There is something wrong you. However, there is nothing wrong with eating arroz con gandules once in a while. Be careful though with arroz con pollo. The pollo could have been left over from a santaria ritual.
Unfortunately, it seems the closest she ever gets to Dallas is one of the casinos, so apparently the only way I will ever get to see her perform live is by driving to one of the other Texas cities so I can enjoy her humor without supporting the gambling industry.
How should an in law address (if at all), when their child’s partner is taking advantage of their child? Even after your child has (supposedly) has called it out, the selfish behavior continues.
It’s not uncommon where the woman makes more these days. A good man is fine with that. Our money is spent jointly. You have to be on the same page together as a married couple.
Anjelah, my wife wanted to see you Live so bad. You were our next comedian to see. Sadly she passed from leukemia unexpectedly very quickly. Every time I see you , its difficult not to tear up. I look forward to having a chance to see you on your next visit to L. A.
I’m so sorry for your loss. 🙏🏼
My condolences to you sir.
She's at peace now, you'll see her again some day 🙏✝️
Sorry for your loss
sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry for your loss. Take care
My husband and I have gone with Manwell’s rules for 25 years and we couldn’t agree more! Each person MUST check their own families & there will never be an issue with over stepping boundaries.
Anjelah, I am glad that God called you to be a comedienne. Your talking about your culture, I believe, has brought understanding to those whose exposure to Hispanic culture is limited to Mexican foods from a local restaurant. Please keep up the good work, as you are definitely promoting peace.
LOVE YOU LADY!!! ❤🎉
Angelah, the reaction you had when you thought bonzo was going to get attacked is probably how motherhood is going to be when your baby girl is born. Liked how your hubby calmed you down. Y’all are already a great parent team 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
So true!!! They will be awesome and I hope baby will be part of her stories in the future :)!
Such a cute couple... I have been married for 40 yrs now.. I am 60 yrs old.
I have to say communication is the first and only way to make a marriage work. Oh, along with having your own TV changer... 🤣🤣👍
I'm 54 and have been with my husband 28 years. We dated 4 years before we got married. Always keep God first place in your lives
Amen.
And TV.
I have no TV by choice.. don't miss it.. you'll be more engaged.
I love you guys. Y'all are the cutest couple! I hope you stay together forever and ever 😊😊
She is definitely the queen. You are a lucky man. And she's a lucky lady. Id love to hear how y'all met.
I find your advice to be spot on. My husband and I will be married 36 years this August. We lived together off and on for 5 years before we married. We are best friends. I can tell that you are too. And as the old song goes, communication is the problem to the answer. We are fortunate that our parents are amazing people and love us both so we've never had to address negatives in that way but, if we did, you can be sure that we would each stand up for the other and not let anyone drive a wedge between us. We are not perfect but we strive to create a life together that we both love and that means being united in mind, body and spirit.
Exactly always stand up for yourself no matter what if someone it doesn't matter if it's your in-laws but if someone is being disrespectful to you saying disrespectful stuff stand up for yourself. And remember say you mean and mean what you say never bite your tongue and let stuff that bothers you go because that will eat you up inside and you will hate yourself if you do that's why it's best to always speak your mind.
I agree about calling out the in-laws including the outlaws aka siblings.
There is optically "traditional", whatever way the world wants to twist us into and then the right way. The right way is that marriage is a complete and total blend in everything. And money is a big one. It shouldn't matter who makes more in the long-run as it is no longer mine but ours.
No excuse for In-laws to make the couples life more difficult. They should be supportive
Always glad my grandma set a good example of being a supportive mother-in-law. Some of my cousins married into families where the in-laws love them, but always felt that at every single holiday, they must be visited every single time. My grandma's view was that once you marry, your parents should expect to have to share you some with your in-laws and vice versa. She never once made anybody feel bad for going to visit their other family at a holiday, which is more than I can say for some of the families they married into. She also treated the spouse of every son, daughter, grandson, or granddaughter, as an equal member of the family. Although he never took her up on the invitation, my uncle was just as welcome at family gatherings after he and my aunt divorced as before. I'm blessed to have had a similar relationship with my (technically former) in-laws. People find it odd that we all remain family after the divorce even though he and I had no kids together, but the way we look at it, I divorced him, not them.
I just love these two 😊
Y'all are awesome. I've looked my whole life for a relationship with communication like yours. And your beliefs are spot on.
My husband always defend me if anything bad was said about me . He was such a great husband. He passed away 2015 from prostate cancer he is missed so much from many people. I don't have any relationship with his family they gave me so much drama when he was so sick . I did not leave his side when he was sick.
You guys are a breath of fresh air🥰 love your interaction and y’all funny as heck!!🤪
Since I've seen the historically epic nail skit ( that honestly when I just need to laugh ..I put on her nail sketch... Her comedy ALWAYS Cheers me up... How can it not? 😂. It's one of my very favorites l) but all of her comedy is amazingly funny as heck.. she's definitely my favorite comedian everrrrrrr.
I need to see her comedy live. Pls tour the northeast of the USA. 🙏❣️🎀
Gotta say.. no no no Aunt Celia. 😂
Great advice! This should not even be an issue. ....you would think. I left my ex-husband for this reason. I was not respected by him or his family. Our families are from the same country but my mother is African American. My skin color was an issue. I was always treated less than.
Relatable to many
I miss the characters u did when u first started. 😂bon qui qui needs to come back
I love that he didnt call you out when you interrupted him. He just treated as conversational flow. Impressive.
Love that I'm not the only one that noticed that
my favorite is nail salon!!❤😊
Brilliant advice and explanation as to how you got to that reasoning! Would have saved my marriage of 20yrs!
"ROOO-ude". Good one! Hey Anjela, I really appreciate your humor. Super funny without getting gross, and foul mouth.
"Brag about my parents." Haha.
I’m a man who is a traditional in my way of thinking, that doesn’t mean that I’m trying to get anyone used to that being the norm . Nice for my lady to spring for xy and z every once in while . For her to make an attempt is all I ask for .
I just recently found you on CZcams. I appreciate your clean humor. You are the funniest comedian out there.
What a lovely couple!
In-law advice is spot on
Inspirational talk! I'm going to be forthright in my pursuit of love and good memories
Wow, I like how relatable your content is, will follow you two...
Omg that first answer about the inlaws was right on the money , don't take that shit.... respectfully of course first ....
Agree !❤
Turning 10yrs married on June 28th and since day one, hubby and I have decided to combine all income and it has worked for us. I've always made more than him and it did sting his ego for a while at the beginning. But, now, we just see the combination of income and assets. I saw married couples argue/dispute in front of us who was paying for ice cream and dinner on certain occasions and I'm like, yeah, that's not going to be me. It seems weird that a marriage would have separate finances. Aren't we one, now?
Love you Two sharing the life ❤️
I always find the financial expectations interesting. If one partner makes significantly more, then evaluate the numbers and of course, communicate and establish a happy medium. I told my partner that if I end up making more money, then yes, I will contribute more. Look at the percentage in which you can contribute according to your income and your lifestyle. Right now, I communicate if I can't afford things or when I rather just save money instead of spending it. My bf understands my situation and is very respectful of it. He treats me the majority of the time but I also contribute when I can and offer every time I can and sometimes I treat him. Right now, it's a healthy balance. When we get married, or will get married, then we will revisit the situation and have another conversation about what to expect from one another.
This is the first time we have seen your husband and you doing a collaboration you two are so cute. Congratulations on your baby and your super careers. 💕
Got your "i love your comment" do you ever come to the midwest. You are one of the top comedians i have ever seen, and i have seen many. YOU SHOULD BE NATIONAL!!
I enjoy you both so much and find your outlook on life and relationships very refreshing.
The in-law advice was so good and 💯
Got a couple of dear friends, super talented both, who married when they were both professional ballet dancers and dance instructors at a college. His only dream and vision and goal was to have his own dance company, uniquely to bring glory to Jesus Christ. She supported it at first, even sang with him in a trio as part of the performance for a number of years, both of them teaching, they had 3 kids as well. Got the call to move to Nashville when after many years of financial hardship his company still was not making any money - he insisted on taking up love offerings rather than charging admission - slowly but surely her belief in his vision and her loyalty to it began to erode as she was having to do the bulk of the income earning work while he labored endlessly in his creative work which brought in nothing. Cut to 20 years later and finally his dance ministry is getting some attention. Alas, they are separated with not much hope of getting back together. This arrangement, the woman doing the bulk of the earning and the man concentrating on his creative endeavors when they aren't that successful, is really hard on a marriage. Just saying. I'm saying a prayer for you two. It isn't easy, what you've got going. But keep on loving each other and communicating with kindness and PRAY together daily. You'll make it.
I never disrespected my in laws, my husband at the time did not speak up for me to his mom she even attacked me on her living room floor and punched me in my face in front of her daughter and my kids. I didn't hit back because I might have been raised by wolves but I had a lot of respect for her so I held my head up high, and walked away. My mother in law never liked me since day one when I first meet her she told me I told her son we had to get married... Uhh no he asked me. Therefore to this day we are no longer together I'm in a better place because the relationship was very toxic , he even took full custody of our kids away from me, to this day I haven't seen them in 6 yrs. He lied cheated and I ended it.
Were they a family of narcissists?
Lawyer up, no excuses.
My dad's mom took a while to get used to my mother, but by the time I came along, it was as if she got along better with Mom than with Daddy!
I like both of your views and answers to the questions. Great job
I very much enjoy this. Love ❤️
You are now in my top 3 comedians along with Iliza Schlessinger and Nikki Glazer
Hiya kiddoes, have seen several shows, and just found your Q@A, relationships are a 50/50 , easy way to settle who pays. Lords blessings on Y'all, and thank you for the content🙏.
Uh, don't interrupt, rude. For a minute, I thought you were going to go Bon qui qui on the man. I totally love and dig your content 💯. I would love to see more of Bon qui qui. Will she be coming back?
Pool it… no one has more, we are a team.
Kid you not, my dad dated my aunt before he dated and married my mother. My aunt married my uncle Tom.
Family drama girl it ain’t ever easy!!
Good information
My favorite thing about this podcast is the entro dance....
My husband and I have been married for 22 years. We were 17 and 21 when we married. The ONLY way we got this far is JESUS. IMO Jesus has to be at the center of the relationship for it too work long term. When communication breaks down between my husband and I I always run to Jesus and ask him to help, to help speak to my husband’s heart, to speak to my heart if I’m in the wrong and being prideful or whatever…HE has always worked things out between us. If your obedient and willing to listen and are humble to listening to instruction from God your marriage will be blessed and successful
Amen!
My husband never stepped up and I had to become confrontational. That screwed up my relationship ship with him. He believes in The ignore them factor and they are here for a short time. I have no regrets for defending myself even if it screwed up our relationship. The wicked witch is dead. Thank God!😂
you are the best comedian..please come to Arizona
Good job guys
iT COMES down to communication
Angela, you are absolutely a great comedian. And I think that you wear the pants in this relationship. L, o, l, keep it up.
Congrats on your daughter. Hi from Canada.
Yesssss
You guys are great! 🎉🎉God bless! In-laws are complicated. 😝Just keep doing your own thing! 🎤🎤Oh, and love the IKEA Wine Racks; got 4 at home! 🍷Hmmmm. 😘
That’s exactly how it went, husband tried speaking to his parents - didn’t go well, there is now no relationship with them.
Crap, i meant the Palace theater. We have the second largest Theater district in the country, only second to New York
My favorite couple....❤❤
Luv you guys😀🔥💯%...
Yes, I think more men are insecure when the woman makes more. I agree, it's communication.
I can’t with you got to abuse it a little with the meat!!!!😂😂😂😂😂
Chassing purpose, not money. Yes Sir! (reminded me of Pr. Michael Todd)
I agree with THE MAN.
Such a cute couple.
Very good answer about both topics.
Oooh my dad also had a sister that picked my moms man before they all were married.
Beautiful couple
What foods do you prefer to eat. As a purtorrican I find that people expect me to eat hot spicy food. Which I don’t like. But I like Mexican. So many people don’t know there is. Difference between the countries cuisines
Marshall Rosenberg helps me with others in general 😊
They don't hate you...THEY just Don't LIKE YOU!!!
Most beautiful woman i have ever seen
Fabulous
Anjelah love you. You are so funny. I was checking out your tour schedule. No New York dates. 🙁 Any chance you'll ever get to Buffalo?
U r kidding me.ur a rock star!!., there is nothing not to love about u.
I have to be that way with my own Dad. I think my dad only reacts with confrontation. He's selfish.
BINGE WORTHY
WHEN WILL YOU COME TO CLEVELAND, OHIO. YOU WOULD DEFINITELY SELL OUT THE PALCE THEATER 300 SEATS. CAPITAL OF COMEDY!!
Sooo funny
What about if your the parent and the girl who's about to marry your son is a rude, spoiled disrespectful person who doesn't like you . Every one in my family got their wedding invitation but me..
Supposedly it got lost in the mail... But either way She's just mean and rude. I'm not even going to their wedding because I totally don't feel welcome and it's clear over seas .. and way too expensive for me. They couldn't even provide a place for me to stay . Weird.
????
Lol true. I'm pretty sure for all the DILs who complain about their MIL, there is an MIL complaining about their DIL. I love my MIL and hope she loves me.
i meant 3000 seats
When will you both do a show the both of you here in El Paso TX?????
Would love to see your show near or in sc.
How about the joint account where you both have a card….. who gives a shit “who pays”??? What does that mean in a marriage????
Totally an EGO ISSUE SOMEWHERE
People who have money don’t sweat this shit! 💥🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Is this a podcast? Or a clip from a podcast? Are there full episodes somewhere? What is this?
Love you both but when I hear young people say things like "in this new age of equality", it makes me laugh. This is not a new concept people. We women have been fighting for equality since the 60's and the progress you see today is a result from that.
Boy, I'm confused! Why would they hate you because of that! They should be admiring of you!
Seven years...........................................
No east coast dates outside of Boston and Pensacola :(
My mom, after her divorce to my gringo dad, identified as Chicana, my g-parents were Mexican. I’m married to a Beautiful Puerto Rican woman for 19 years and other than some machaca burritos I had yrs ago in LA, Puerto Rican food rocks. Pernil? Don’t get me started. What is wrong with me as a half Mexican food that I like Puerto Rican food Better? Thoughts and prayers just aren’t enough.
There is something wrong you. However, there is nothing wrong with eating arroz con gandules once in a while. Be careful though with arroz con pollo. The pollo could have been left over from a santaria ritual.
Are you scheduled for Dallas anytime soon?
Not Dallas but Choctaw
Unfortunately, it seems the closest she ever gets to Dallas is one of the casinos, so apparently the only way I will ever get to see her perform live is by driving to one of the other Texas cities so I can enjoy her humor without supporting the gambling industry.
Are you scheduled to come to Stockton, CA
How should an in law address (if at all), when their child’s partner is taking advantage of their child? Even after your child has (supposedly) has called it out, the selfish behavior continues.
Are you scheduled for Tucson ?
Nevermind....they wouldn't get it.
So weird to hear Anjelah cussing.
It’s not uncommon where the woman makes more these days. A good man is fine with that. Our money is spent jointly. You have to be on the same page together as a married couple.