Anjelah Johnson-Reyes: Our Pregnancy Journey and Why We Changed Our Mind About Having Kids
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- In 2022, I released my first book and launched a massive tour but in this video, we talk about a new adventure. One of creation and wonder. After years of not wanting children, everything has changed course. Why did we change our mind about having kids? What has our pregnancy journey been like? Did we have second thoughts? You'll find these answers and many more in this video!
0:00 Introduction
01:02 The Instagram Video Misleading?
02:53 Career Goals and Dreams.
07:35 Second thoughts
08:40 Exploring My Options
10:36 Beginning IVF
17:55 Fertilization
18:30 Manny Goes to the Doctor
21:37 The “Mystery Surgery”
28:22 Trying Naturally
25:01 Call From the Doctor
30:23 Taping and Back on the Road
31:02 I’m Late!
36:20 Taking a Test
40:00 Show in Hawaii
40:59 That is My Story
42:43 Beginning Q&A
42:42 Are you wishing for a boy or a girl?
43:43 Do You Have Any Weird Cravings Do You Have Any Weird Pregnancy Cravings?
45:04 Did Tia Mary Get to Find Out?
47:16 When You Think of a Mini You, What Do You Think of and What Are You Most Excited For?
49:00 Are You Going to Move Back to LA?
49:36 I Thought You Already Have a Son?
50:51 What Concerns Do You Have About Having a Child in Your 40s
52:10 How is Banzo Handling All of This?
53:46 How Are You Doing as a Couple?
54:35 How Is Your Mother Doing?
55:22 What Are Your Fears if Any?
55:52 Have You Had Any Crazy Dreams?
57:11 Are You Going to Let Banzo Near the Baby?
58:11 Have You Encountered Any Parental Philosophies Yet That You’re Like, I’m Totally Not Going to Do That”?
59:04 Are You Planning on Touring With a Baby?
59:40 How is Your Mental Health Doing?
1:00:09 What Surprised You About Pregnancy
1:02:17 What Can Your Fans Do to Help?
1:03:09 How Does Manny Feel About You Making This Video?
1:04:18 So… Will the Baby Be a Raiders Fan?
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Anjelah Johnson-Reyes was born and raised in San Jose, California where she grew up with four siblings in a large extended family to which she remains close. Anjelah found herself an internet sensation and pioneer in viral CZcams videos when her notorious “Nail Salon” bit from a local comedy show was posted and received over 100 million views! Shortly thereafter she was added to the cast on the original MADtv where she trademarked her legendary character, Bon Qui Qui. Similar to the nail salon video, the Bon Qui Qui sketch caught on and have been viewed by over 75 million people. The multi-hyphenate’s popularity has translated into four successful comedy specials: That’s How We Do It” (Comedy Central), The Homecoming Show (NUVO TV), Not Fancy (Netflix) and Mahalo & Good Night (Epix). She has displayed her acting prowess both on TV and film. Some of her credits include “Curb Your Enthusiasm,” “Superstore,” “Moms’ Night Out,” and “Alvin & the Chipmunks: The Squeakquel.” Her first book was published in 2022, Who Do I Think I Am: Stories of Chola Wishes and Caviar Dreams, a hilarious and touching memoir full of memorable anecdotes on how a Latina dynamo was able to forge ahead and become successful. - Komedie
I have a 4 mo old baby boy... I'm 43.
He wasn't planned, but he is so very wanted. Much love.
God is good
I went to the Dr at age 42 thinking something horrid was happening. She laughed when she told me I was pregnant but not only that, I was 5 months along 😳😳😳 Baby boy is healthy and happy 💗
Congratulations!❤🎉
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Enjoy your Blessings! Happened to us also😮😅
@@gigimine69 thanks for sharing cuz it feels like a small group 😅💗
Congratulations!💙💙💙
Congrats! Your baby is going to be BEAUTIFUL! My daughter miscarried last year and her blessings came back in double. She is expecting twins (1 boy 1 girl) this fall!
Wow. My heart goes out to the family for your angel baby, and also send many blessings for the little ones that are on their way. May they arrive safely & live a long, healthy, happy life. 💜
Congratulations!! I also never wanted kids. Then in 2019 I had an intense urge to become a mother. We started trying without success and was then diagnosed with fibroids. I had my myomectomy in March 2020 and unexpectedly became pregnant at the end of April 2020. My daughter just turned 2 in January and it has been the most exciting, fulfilling time of our lives!
I know you didn’t owe us an explanation but we do love and care about you so much that most of us want to make sure you’re happy and healthy and are praying for a good pregnancy!
I had my son at 43. Such a blessing and I'm so proud of him. He is a 25 year old man and in law enforcement. He makes me part of his life and his babies lives. My husband, his dad, passed away 13 years ago and I don't know what I would have done without him. God blessed me with this wonderful man. I'm a big fan of yours and I will be praying for you and your family. God bless you. Tia Mary knew!
Congratulations!
My friend had all 3 of her babies in her 40’s! She has no regrets!❤
Wow!!! ❤
I’m 43 and still hoping for my positive test 😔🙏🏽🙏🏽
Praise God🙌🏼 Gives me so much encouragement as I’m 42 & we’re praying for a miracle baby!!!
WOW🤯💞
I’m 46 and if I’d gotten pregnant three years ago I would have died or freaked out !!!!
I had my daughter at 40 and my son at 43, they are my life! We are so blessed ❤ all healthy and me too, I was super careful taking care of myself, no gestational diabetes. I never wanted kids out of wedlock and I wanted a family man that would be there, I meant my second husband and it all fell in place. It was meant to be. ❤
My Mom had her first baby girl at 20. Her last baby girl at 40. There were 5 of us in between. It was the 50s n 60s. Birthcontrol was still taboo. She enjoyed her babies she had at 37 and 40 more than the other 5 of us. She didn't have time to enjoy us. She was too busy teaching us and worrying where the next meal would come from. With my baby sisters they had the resources so they didn't have to worry. The rest of us were gone by the time the baby was 6. So they only had the two girls and the money to do things for them and with them. There's definitely something to be said for having children in your 40s.
Had my first at 19, my last at 41.
Your story just shows that this baby is meant to be here with you, Manny and Banzo now. What a blessing! God is good!
After Going through my miscarriages and ivf process along with my faith I changed my mind on abortions. I’m not afraid to say it, but I am a pro lifer. Life is so precious and I see it’s a miracle for God.
So reliable, I´m an OBGYN and this helps me so much to understand patients going through the process, and in some time it will help me in my own journey
I had my first child a boy at age 18, I had my baby at 41. God wanted me to have my girl. It was an easier pregnancy then my first at 18. Congrats!
Great story… thank you for sharing.
I have a friend who got pregnant at age 46 after almost 20 years of trying to get pregnant naturally.
They didn’t do any IVF or any interventions, they had basically given up and accepted their lives without children.
Until one day, she started throwing up a lot, her menstruation was off but she just thought it was perimenopause due to her age.
Went to doc eventually because the nausea wouldn’t subside…did blood test, and boom.
Shocked everyone in the family and they are soooooo overjoyed!
There is NOTHING like parenthood. Nothing.
I woke up @ 41 saying..." Shut, i forgot to have children. So i went to the GYN to ask if it was too late and we did a blood test and he said ur eggs are like a 23 year old congratulations to u and ur husband...i laughed and said i need one on those so I'm leaving right away cause i need to have my child by next year ... My son is now 16 i had him at 43...i don't regret one min...and have encouraged many to consider having a child or adopting because it's a Beautiful experience.
They say that same sh!t to everyone. If you haven't gone through menopause you can get pregnant. Are women somehow unaware of this... i don't doubt it.🤦🏽♀️
I recently had a customer who had an adorable baby boy and when I got to talking to her she told me she had been with her husband since 2001 and was never able to get pregnant and out of no where she was pregnant after 20 years of waiting. Amazing.
Wow! It's possible. Gives me hope.
i ve heard miserable people r easier to get knocked up :P not sure how real it is but...maybe was some tragedy or even the 2020 drama...? the ukraine thing?(what if ww3 went physical etc etc....
Out of nowhere? 😂
Omgosh I stumbled on to this post. My first reaction was totally surprise, I mean, I remember seeing your show when you said no, I'm not having kids. I'm so excited for you and your hubs. How exciting!!!! I was so happy to hear that you changed your mind. Kids change your life, soooo much. It's a love you just can't explain to anyone.
I'm so so so happy for you!!!!!
Congratulations Anjelah!! You are my favorite female comedian. I am Christian, 34 and waiting until marriage and you definitely make me feel better about having children later on in life.
Many blessings to you and your husband and the new baby girl 🎉
Please remember that before aged 38 on you really have to be in the relationship you like to be in to be able to have kids. Windows start to close with our bodies around that time frame... I waited around to meet the right man and now I am in menopause. I can't have kids unless I adopt. I wanted my own child.
Trust God. He is the one who gives life. Waiting is worth it.
Hurry it up girl. No rush lol
@@moonglow7303 well Da Brat is having a baby at 48 so just never know.
I have 6 children ❣️ my last 2 girl at 41 and boy at 43 he was the surprise went to Dr thinking flu well flu is now 17 and just graduated God bless you and your little family you got this ❤️
I had my one and only child at 41!! six months pregnant and did not know about it. You will be great Angela!! I just started following you. You are great!
I love the idea that Bonzo is there processing the pregnancy results with her!
Huge congratulations! I was 41 when I delivered my beautiful daughter! My pregnancy was smooth and my delivery was perfect! 7 hour induction. I think the process was so wonderful as I was in great shape! I was working with a trainer 4 times a week and eating a healthy diet! Fun is that at every pediatric visit I would tell the doctor I kept her alive for another visit. It was a running joke. My daughter is 18 now and healthy and happy! 41 year olds can have a healthy pregnancy, delivery and child birth.
I can’t wait to hear the material that comes out of this ❤
Me too!
I was thinking the same thing. It's going to be good. I can't wait.😊❤
As a 68yo man married 38yrs to the mother of 2 daughters (32 & 27yrs old) & a retired nurse, I’m so excited for you & your husband. We are big fans & appreciate hearing your blessed story of becoming pregnant. Remarkable & miraculous for sure. We wish you, your husband, & baby girl on the way, all the best. ❤
You are truly blessed. I am 69yr old woman married for 54 years. Graduated at 16. Always wanted children. ♥️
Hi Angela! CONGRATULATIONS to you & Manny! My Mom was 42 when she had me 58 years ago, and I had a wonderful childhood, not lacking anything due to her age. The ONLY downside is I only had her for 42 years (she died at the age of 84). But they were wonderful years, and I’m grateful for every one of them. May God continue to bless you both as you venture into parenthood! Sending much love your way💕💕💕
Thank you for sharing this. My oldest son is 18 and I had my last 2 sons at the age of 40 and 42 and they are 7 and 5 right now. Without expressing so many things my heart has been worried about lately, your words about you not lacking and getting to be with your Mom for 42 years - has given me peace! Thank you so much for this blessing of peace in my heart. God Bless You! ❤🙏🏼🤗
@@emartinezpacheco1424 You are so very welcome! Your kind words have blessed me today! ❤️❤️❤️
The look on your face when you saw the pregnancy test was positive made me cry. I remember that feeling. I wasn't supposed to be able to be pregnant. Scared, hopeful, tired (waiting is like holding your breath for so long and you don't realize that you're doing it). Congratulations to you and Manny. You're going to be the funnest Mom out there. Your daughter is going to be smart, sassy, very verbal and observant. The fun part is when you realize they're smarter than you are and you kinda throw your hands up and roll with it. I have a 26 year old son and it's a great ride. You'll be in my prayers every night.
I had my son at 38 seriously it felt like Christmas every day after he was born. He was always an old soul. Take care of yourself.😇
I'm 34 and have been getting anxious about my "clock" because I want children but idk if I'm "ready" right this moment. You really make me hopeful. So, thank you for sharing your story. It means a lot to a lot of people. :) Congrats on your pregnancy!
If baby isn’t talking yet (I would guess he/she might be around seven months now) I would highly recommend learning some beneficial words in sign language. I did this with my youngest, words like up, down, hungry, thirsty, all done, all the things a little one might need to communicate. She was the least frustrated of my three children because she could communicate needs before she could articulate them. I believe in the depths of my souls that teaching her sign made all the difference in her young years.
Thank you for sharing your experience. My husband and I got married at 30yrs old. We were in agreement- no kids. We love kids but we personally didn’t want to have children. I lost my mom just two years before my marriage. 3 1/2 years into my marriage, 5 years after my mom died, I woke up one morning thinking about how much I loved her and how much I missed saying “mom” and the love behind me calling her that. I then realized I didn’t want to live my life with never hearing that word “mom” said to me! The love that is within that word is overwhelming. I loved my mom so much and I then realized that the connection I had with her was something I didn’t understand until that moment. That connection we have with our parents is never-ending. We can remarry if we lose a mate, but who is able to replace our mom or dad? No one! That’s when I knew that I wanted to have children and that having them would be a blessing I didn’t deserve, but needed and more importantly, wanted. Hey, it’s not easy being a parent by no means. And truly no one should ever guilt someone into having children. It is a very personal decision. The fact that you didn’t rush into it shows great wisdom on you and your husband’s part. You both will enjoy parenthood with all its ups and downs. My boys are now 18 & 15 years old and I swear to you I fall deeper in love with them with every passing day! I wish you and your husband all the best. Enjoy each day of your journey. It’s precious and it flies by. Much love to you both ❤
Congratulations Anjelah, you and Manny will be amazing parents. it was totally worth the wait 🤰
When you touched your belly after getting that positive I nearly cried! We needed to try for about as long to get pregnant and it brought me back to that moment. Thank you for sharing your story. I love how open you are with not making plans and seeing how you feel once the baby comes. That's the healthiest thing you can do honestly.
My only "advice" is to trust that God is giving you the child you NEED not the child you WANT.
May God bless you in the remainder of your pregnancy!
I’m currently 10 weeks pregnant and this really resonated with me. Thank you for highlighting the part about not making plans and God giving us the babies we NEED rather than our “dream child.”
It’s helping me to cool it with the unrealistic expectations and to just take “baby steps” at a time lol with making plans and going by how I feel rather than exhaust myself.
I can’t believe this is happening, but at the same time I can because last year God was preparing my heart for it.
I’m so excited for our little one.
🙌❤️🤰
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@@kristenlandon1538 We are given the child who needs us and that is a huge responsibility.
Thank you for sharing your story. I had my twin boys at 37 and now they're 26. Best time of my life.
I love how articulate you are and still stay true with your Latina Flare. You are also bringing a lot of info to light that others can use. God bless you all.❤🙏🏼
I’m SOOOOOO happy for you!!!!
And girl, my husband and I went through 7 yrs of infertility. I unexpectedly got pregnant w/my first baby, and told my husband via text, while he was at work!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
I can relate. I cannot keep things like that to myself for long. 😂
"Y'all got a coupon?" Too funny. Love her humor.
Blessings on your baby.
My husband and I have two boys. When they were young, the days were long and the years were short. Now they are both college aged and are easily the most meaningful and rewarding part of our lives (next to our relationship with Jesus). They are decent, nice people and we are so blessed that God chose us for them. Having children is really hard when they are small, but the older they get, it gets easier. You won't regret it. If they are raised properly, they will bring you more joy than you could ever have imagined. Congratulations.
So beautifully said 🥰🙏🏽
I had the same revelation at age 37. Had my son when I was 38. Best decision I ever made!
I AM SO EXCITED! I've seen Angela twice now, live in Austin, Texas...now I can't wait to hear all about the pregnancy and baby jokes! I had my son at 38 and 3 weeks later turned 39. Kiddo perfectly healthy and handsome, so for those of you in your mid-30s (such as my BFF) thinking that having a baby after 35 is too late....THINIK TWICE. Humans are now able to live longer and healthier than ever. Once I had come to terms with not having a baby, BAM..it happened.
I envy you. God called my first born home at just 6 months old. He blessed me with a daughter a year later. Finding out I had Cancer at 7 months they wanted to terminate. I chose to keep her. My only child is now 43. I wanted more. Good luck with being a mom. Your going to be great. ❤❤
I’m so happy you have your daughter!!
I'm excited for you Hun. I'm a 67 year old new great grandmother now. I found the Green Store. It is a toy store where their toys are made from recycled milk jugs. The colors are made from soy. This means they are safe for children to put into their mouth. The tea set can be used like real tea sets. I also bought a small wagon, so cute. My Granddaughter uses diapers and clothing made from bamboo. They are so soft.
i find that covid and the world slowing down really helped a lot of us find new wants and needs ❤
Although you don’t owe anyone an explanation, I’m glad you wanted to share with us your journey to changing your mind & becoming parents soon. As a 54 yr old woman, it was never in the cards for me to have a child so I was interested in the change. You & Manny will be great parents & this will give you tons of new material lol. Blessings to you & Manny & baby Reyes!!
Sometimes when you're talking, I hear a sneaky sneak of Bon Qui Qui coming through, and I love her. She's so funny! So so happy for you with your little one coming.
It's awesome that you guys were able to conceive and now have your baby. Many blessings to your family.
Woman to woman. Thank you for sharing. It’s so relieving to hear that we all have different experience that can be relatable. We are not alone. ❤
Congratulations 🎉💙💖
I cannot wait for your standup as a mommy and daddy… prayers and blessings for you both 🥰
OMG!! I’m SOOOO EXCITED FOR BOTH YOU & MANNY!!!! I have 3 boys and now 2 grandchildren (both BOYS)!! There is absolutely nothing like being a parent or a grandparent! Life is about to change in the VERY BEST WAY POSSIBLE!!!
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!
Anjelah, I definitely had no idea what you and Manny went through during trying to get pregnant. Getting pregnant naturally was obviously God's beautiful plan. I'm sorry you experienced the pain of surgery, IVF and the disappointments of the setbacks. I'm so happy you're having a baby. I adore you and thank you for sharing your brave story.
Good for you! ❤ So proud of you for sharing your story, it is important. Not always easy but you never know who needed to hear this. Love your comedy and your faith, “ Let go,let God!” Is a fabulous message. Trust…
Aweee thank you for sharing your story!! I’m so happy for you and your new little family!! 🙏❤️
You know that old saying - “We make plans and God laughs”?? He’s always in control. 😇 As a 55yo cancer survivor, I’ve learned that with every disappointment in life, there’s a Blessing right around the corner. 🙌🫶❤
Virtual kisses and hugs from Lulu (my grandma name) 😁😁😁
Thank you for sharing your fertility journey with us. 💖🙏🏽 I'm 35 and will be starting IVF in the next few months. Congrats on your miracle baby. Rainbow after the storm!
The vulnerability with the pregnancy stuff is unreal. You’re so strong and powerful and an inspiration sharing this with us all. I can’t even tell you how amazing that is…but it truly is.
My son and daughter-in-law had the same story. My son just turned 41 and my grandson Levi just turned 1 in August. I thought they were never going to give me a grand baby…..surprise! I am so happy for you guys.
Anjelah, I just want to say that you look so pretty. Pregnancy agrees with you. What a blessing the Lord has bestowed upon you and your hubby. ♥️
Thank you for sharing your journey to pregnancy! It's crazy how God works... Christian rappers, babies, friends trying to get pregnant... what else will He pull from your jokes to stop you in your tracks!? So glad you were able to let Tia Mary know, that made me tear up a bit. And I agree, Banzo will be a great big brother! Blessings to you, Manny, and Banzo!
Listening to your story, I can recall the moment I found out I was pregnant, after 8yrs of trying, specialists, treatments, IVF then decided to stop two years later we get pregnant, I took so many tests 7 to be exact, then it was confirmed. Best feeling ever. Now I have two babies under 2.
What a Beautiful Story! I can't wait to enjoy the Journey
I know MANY moms that had their babies in 40's and it's AMAZING! Your very unselfish and ready to raise a Precious child! Your gonna be Outstanding parents
This is a beautiful video about something that hits hard. Most people are running after something(goals,career, money) and missing the everything(family) around them. I pray people have that kind of awakening if they need it. Anjelah thank you for sharing your story!
You give me hope that you can become pregnant at 40 and be happy! I'm 40 too!
Aw, Anjelah! I’m so happy for you and Manny! Having a child adds to a person’s life. I’m a 75 year old retired OB RN and I have seen so much in all my years. You and Manny are going to have a richer future, experiences, adventures and a whole lotta love ❤️. Boy or girl doesn’t matter. Just the love and follow your instincts. You will know what to do for your baby. God gives us that as women. OB nurses have the ability to know how to care for their babies and a patient’s baby. Believe me. God gives us all we need. Embrace it and keep smiling!
If someone you know does not know the answer to the now question ''What is a WOMAN'' show them this video. Thank you Angela for sharing your amazing story God bless you and your family you got this you are so strong and your faith in God is so rooted there is no stopping you, Dios te bendiga mami besos y abrazos
True confession: I prayed you would change your minds and want children. This made my day!
You are such an awesome story-teller!! Congrats on your pregnancy, I'll be praying for you and your family. Very exciting!! My mom was 39 when she had me (planned/wanted) and she is the best mom. I don't know what I'd do without her. She's also the most fantastic grandma to my babies and my brother's kids. I've known others to have healthy babies in their mid-40's. Whatever God has planned for you, I'm sure it's going to be amazing. Lots of love!
I had my first three children before turning 28 and then unexpectedly welcomed a baby at 37. My mom had me when she was 42, and I disliked when people mistook her for my grandma. Now, with my older kids grown, we often hear that we look like siblings, which I find amusing. However, I find the greatest joy in parenting my youngest. Age has brought maturity, patience, and resilience, allowing me to overcome childhood trauma. My marriage is now stronger and less chaotic. While there's a tinge of guilt regarding my oldest, I like being a young mom and we have a great relationship but being an “older” mom is the best 😊
Anjelah & Manny, I am so happy for you two. Your faith, humor, and courage are inspiring. I am a grandpa so I am happy for your mother. I am looking forward to entirely new comedy routines after your child arrives into this world. Godspeed.
All the best to you! Becoming a mother is the single most important thing I have done in my life! No regrets!
Fun watching this ❤️ Looking forward to both of your journeys! You got this! My advice: when kids don’t get a phone that occupies all their time on social media before the age of 15, it encourages them to learn an instrument, poetry, another language, to write music, create art, etc. My 17 year-old daughter does most of the above 💪🏽🙏🏽
To go through IVF twice, it's obvious that you want a baby. Congratulations. I'm sure you will be a fantastic mom.
Thank you for sharing your pregnancy journey. I'm a labor & delivery nurse in Southern California and hearing my patient's stories about their pregnancy story, how they met, how they got to the baby's name are all my favorite parts of my night at work. Enjoy this time! Take care! Wishing you a safe labor & delivery! 💜🙏
Congratulations!!!! Same thing happen to my husband and I! I had a Myomectomy and a few months we were pregnant. God is good and hears our prayers. ❤
Girl I feel you! My husband and I have been working with Infertility since 2020. I’ve had 7 IUIs since 2020. I have diminished egg reserves. Congratulations on your baby girl!
So many resemblances of my pregnancy (aside from the superstar hustling). Age, fibroids, surgeries, worrying, prayers, all of it. Had my daughter two months earlier due to health complications. God bless your triangle family!
So happy for y’all! My mom had me at 42 and all was well lol
Was on the same journey but my fibroids (and Adenomyosis) were too big and I had to have a hysterectomy. Devastated but out of intense pain, so I'm still thankful. My dream was to be where you are, but things turned out different for me. Love following your journey! Thank you for sharing so vulnerably. Appreciate your honesty.
I’m so happy for you and Manny ❤ I know the struggle of trying to get pregnant. I was in tears watching this video
I feel you on so much of your story, Anjelah. I'm 37 and have PCOS and have known since I was young that I'd more than likely have issues. Got married at 27, got pregnant at 29 after getting oral med treatment, then stopping when it didn't work. Got pregnant after a couple months of giving up along with being diagnosed with diabetes t2, had a miscarriage at 8 weeks and have not been able to conceive since then and tried IUI last month, unsuccessfully. My A1C went up after having to stop one diabetes med for possible pregnancy. And now I have to get it back down so I can try again. Asking for prayer for myself and hubby (Joe & Ronnie). I have faith God is in control, as He made this all possible from the beginning (won't go into all those details). But, I pray for everyone going through infertility! May the Lord strengthen you, keep you at peace, and provide for the finances as it can get TOO expensive. I pray that IVF gets approved for insurance one day! ❤
Anjelah and those who have the means to do IVF are SO BLESSED.
❤ I am beyond grateful to hear your story. I am 39. My husband and I are trying. 😂 I had a UFE so now I am very on track with my period and now we are just trying and hoping for the best.
Prayers to you. There is a child who needs a Mommy and Daddy!
You’re glowing girl! Congratulations to you and Manny! ❤🎉
I love listening to you it makes me happy. I have been a midwife for 48 years and have 9 kids 24 grandkids and 3 great grandkids all born at home and delivered by me. I'm so happy for you God created you perfect so have a blessed journey, have faith in your body and don't let anyone rock your belief in your self. Congratulations 👏
How did you balance 9 kids and a career?
God laughed when you told him you didn’t want kids. He knows what’s best for us better than we do. Congrats! 💐
Well said 🎉🎉😂😂😂. Been there done that 😂😂😂
🙏❤️🕊Blessings & Prayers
So happy for you!! Nothing is impossible for God!
Praying for a healthy mama & baby! Excited for the new parent/mommy material that may be coming! Parenthood be crazy, we need some good laughs! 😅❤
Anjelah - no words can truly capture how great this is. So very appreciative of your honesty. Welcoming baby Johnson Reyes when they arrive ❤
We were going to be the Double Income No Kids couple DINKS but.. Now we have two honors students and the mailbox is full of colleges wanting them to attend. Best move we ever made
Felicidades 🍼🎊🎉🤰you will be a great mother. Is a huge transformation spiritually, physically and emotionally.
Dogs can tell when you're pregnant. The dog, Blue, was guarding you. Dogs are amazing! Congrats on your baby! Its a new, fun, scary, magical chapter in your life. Its all worth it!
I’m so happy for you and Manny. You’re an awesome Person and you’ll be a terrific Mom and good friend to your baby girl! Congratulations on your new bundle of joy! ❤
AWEEEE!! ¡Congratulaciones!
“You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother’s womb.”
Psalms 139:13 NLT
Praying for blessings throughout your pregnancy!!! I do believe your tía blessed you! The last time I saw mi abuela before she past away, my mom asked her to pray over me. None of us really understood what she was saying, but just like your story, 🙊😭 the blessing poured out of her and I felt something from God 🥹
The best part about the journey you've started is that everything you think you're learning now you'll throw it all out the first moment you hold your baby. ❤ There will be nothing in this world you will ever love more from that moment on. And every high and low is worth the ride! Best wishes to you all!!
I loved hearing your story. It was beautiful. My daughter is pregnant and due June 26. But, she says her baby is measuring a week early. She thought she couldn’t have kids. And was blessed this year with a baby. Congratulations, can’t wait to see your journey.🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
My favorite female comedian!!!! Congratulations!!!
Personal choice is what we all deserve!!! Congratulations, blessings and love to you!!!
I will be turning 40 next year and part of the reason why I haven’t had kids is that as a woman I feel we sacrifice more than a man to have kids. Don’t get me wrong, I love kids, but I know that my life will change drastically if I decide to have kids. I have worked so hard to get to where I am professionally and I have never been sure that I want kids. I’m at a point in my life where I am also running out of time biologically, if I do want to have kids, so we this thought is crossing my mind more and more. I’m still unsure but it was so interesting to see what you went through with your decision to have kids. Thanks for sharing!
I am the same age as you and feel the same way. It's hard. Not an easy decision at all.
"I feel we sacrifice more than a man to have kids." This is one of the greatest concerns for me too. It seems that adoption would be the best way to become parents. The sacrifice would be equal.
Ladies if you feel this way def. Don't have kids. When I had my kids I didn't want to go back to work. There is something in you that wants to be there for every moment everyday. If you are married become a house wife take care of your kids, home, and husband. If you want to have kids and just take them to daycare don't have them. We all know if we were asked when we were kids would you rather have a stay at home mom or daycare you would choose the MOM or DAD. Stay at home dad works too!!
Kids make you forget about all your problems with a smile . They are worth every decision I’ve ever made . Your journey is a blessing 💕 thank you for sharing it .
I cannot wait for her stand up about raising a child. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 love you Anjelah. ♥️♥️♥️♥️ I was told I would never have a child. Was working the summer school lunch program and bought a test and found out I was pregnant while cooking for the kids and you could have knocked my husband over with a feather. That was almost 30 years ago and I have a beautiful red haired blue eyed daughter whom I love very much.
I am so happy for you Both. And I was rooting for you and your husband for whatever you wanted whether it was to be parents or to just enjoy your nieces and nephews and God children!
God is most certainly good, and nothing takes Him by surprise! ❤❤
I just found you after watching a few of your stand up comics. You are the first comedian that I enjoy who is not vulgar or woke and I’m so happy for you because Children are truly a blessing. It may not feel that way at times but the good far out ways any of the bad. I did hear the nail joke before but didn’t realize that was you until today. Lol
😄🥰🎉 Over the moon happy for you and Manny. Thank you for sharing your journey to having a baby. All in God's perfect timing. I had my little girl at 42. She was born healthy and beautiful. She's now 13 and looking forward to her Quinceanera. Enjoy your pregnancy, take lots of pictures and go on lots of dates before baby comes.
Excellent video! I am your newest fan! My daughter was a third attempt IVF success 33 years ago! I am so happy for you and Manny! Your Fan in Fort Walton Beach, Florida
Congratulations first off!! Being a mama is such a sweet blessing!! It can be difficult at times but it’s so rewarding! I’ll be praying for you and Manny!!
Her joke about trying to have a baby made me laugh. I always thought it was weird for my mom to say she wants us to have another. I’m like ewwwww she’s encouraging us to “do it” often😂 But on a serious note. My husband and I struggled for many years. To anyone having a hard time I want you to know to continue to have faith. I had two daughters after my struggle. One with the help of drugs and the other was a complete shock. All natural when I thought it was impossible.