Marriage Expectations vs. Reality ft. Anjelah Johnson Reyes & Manwell Reyes

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  • čas přidán 20. 11. 2022
  • What advice would you give your single self prior to marriage? On this weeks podcast episode of @thespicylife Relationship Expert @spicymari sits down with actress/comedian/author @anjelahjohnson and her husband, real estate investor/musician/coach @manwellreyes to discuss “marriage expectations vs. reality.”
    𝗧𝘂𝗻𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗮𝘀 𝘄𝗲 𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗲 #𝗦𝗽𝗶𝗰𝘆𝘁𝗶𝗽𝘀 𝗼𝗻:
    . Redefining success and prioritizing love
    . How to coach your partner towards growth
    . Having traditional values with nontraditional gender roles
    . Recognizing when your purpose-mate is in front of you
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Komentáře • 51

  • @kimladd5100
    @kimladd5100 Před 24 dny +2

    This was a great interview and a great couple. We have been married for over 30 years and I still learned something. Way to go and God bless.

  • @mariar559
    @mariar559 Před rokem +5

    The Way She Looks At Him…❤️❤️❤️

  • @CarrieSamons
    @CarrieSamons Před rokem +6

    This is such an incredible interview. I've been married for 21 years and I have to keep reevaluating myself in our marriage and whether whatever troubles we are going through, is it because I had this expectation of what I thought was supposed to happen vs. what is the reality, was my expectation a fantasy. AND, who am I comparing myself and my marriage to?
    One thing that really hit me was when he mentioned when he went to Bible college and asked the future preachers about their stance on finances and their incredibly negative reactions. I went to a Christian based college and there were many of the guys there that would have reacted the same way. This one situation wasn't even about finances but my freshman year of college I went bowling with a small group. I scored higher than all the guys. The next day, a guy that wasn't even there apparently heard about it and told me that if I ever wanted to get married, I shouldn't do that. I should let the guy win. Excuse me?! No, thank you. I want a real man that will encourage me to be my best self just like I would encourage my husband to be his best self. And, there's always the fact that not everyone is good at everything and it's awesome to find someone that can fill in your gaps.

  • @sandidicastri117
    @sandidicastri117 Před rokem +5

    So refreshing to see such an amazing couple for sooo many reason. The way She looks at him with respect. So nice to see it go both ways.

  • @aliciatai8083
    @aliciatai8083 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Even tho her Hunby is a Mr Talks-Alot! 😂 I am sooo grateful for finding this segment. God is the source for their relationship. They are a great couple 👭

  • @marylegarda4815
    @marylegarda4815 Před měsícem

    How ever he sounds like he makes his wife happy and talks with her and knows his place for her to make all the money.

  • @kayredeemed116
    @kayredeemed116 Před rokem +10

    All jobs can be stripped away. There is security to having "money" or making it but it can all go away and then what ? A hard working man with integrity and kindness are big winners. What profits a man if he gains the whole world but loses his soul mark 8:36
    Good things can be so distracting.

  • @amaragrace94
    @amaragrace94 Před rokem +6

    This was SUCH a great interview. I took so many good notes.

  • @debbieray8095
    @debbieray8095 Před rokem +3

    Amazing interview, so happy I found this podcast. I am an Anjelah Johnson fan, but will watch Spicy from here on out. Thanks for the persistence to get this interview, it was great.

  • @MandySilva189
    @MandySilva189 Před rokem +1

    I’m surprised this woman only 3.25k subscribers. She’s really good!

  • @tinacampos6762
    @tinacampos6762 Před rokem +5

    Easily one of my favorites, I got real info from the interview

  • @carrieparsley4394
    @carrieparsley4394 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Excellent interview! What a strong, loving, delightful couple! ❤

  • @japonesa5186
    @japonesa5186 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Whether or not, you agree to their relationship it’s their relationship and they’re being open to discussing things that we’re not gonna understand because we’re not them. If he happens to use money as a example for his storytelling of relationship dynamics, that’s OK. Many couples are experiencing this that are just dating and are not married yet and it’s still important to bring up as conversation. We don’t know the value that they have for each other in the day-to-day that gives each other joy. So to say that they have red flags is a bit superficial at best. We’re here to learn not just gossip.

  • @Usurpadora
    @Usurpadora Před rokem +2

    I just got that book on my Kindle, I can’t wait to read it!

  • @jessicacervantes2722
    @jessicacervantes2722 Před rokem +2

    I love them. They also have a great podcast together.

  • @ronnieblue3712
    @ronnieblue3712 Před rokem +6

    I loved his energy. I too expected Anjelah to be the extrovert/more outspoken but he has an amazing personality and his energy was AMAZING!
    I wish Spicy was a lot more encouraging of this non traditional role and respected his Self Awareness. The energy didn’t resemble it. It was like a unsure response followed by “but I love that”…. Do you really though??
    He explained everything well, he knew his wife, and he was comfortable in his position/role. I learned a lot from listening to him. 🫶🏾

  • @lupenunez6152
    @lupenunez6152 Před rokem +2

    Excellent interview!

  • @paulettemalekian1517
    @paulettemalekian1517 Před 3 měsíci

    💙❤️God bless you both. Loved every single moment of this interview and chitchat

  • @user-od3qi4ys2b
    @user-od3qi4ys2b Před 2 měsíci

    You guys are bomb. Awesome couple. May the Lord bring you many blessings. Angela U R awesome. BoriMex.

  • @ritadelitta424
    @ritadelitta424 Před měsícem

    I am very glad that he tells so much because l want to know ,,,,,l know her and know nothing about him ,,,,,,l love him,,,,he is perfect for her and she is perfect for him,,,,,great match👍

  • @ramonas.5410
    @ramonas.5410 Před 9 měsíci +3

    I like Anjelah very much, but I don’t see her husband as ok or a real man that keeps up with his family. If a man doesn’t do more than a woman is not ok. And if he takes full advantage of her money and still he puts the conditions in the family, as he cannot accept her put the conditions, that’s not ok either. If he sold 2 cars that she bought for him, it didn’t make him an entrepreneur or a person who earns. It was still a gift from her money.
    A man has to protect and maintain a family, that means to do more than the wife, not only to give affection!
    He is very confident, although he should not be until he makes more than her. I feel for Anjelah.
    That’s what happens when you choose the man for his physical appeareance, sorry to say, but is true.

  • @TraderChatPro
    @TraderChatPro Před rokem

    commenting to say cool episode. 14 min in

  • @Nursemomma7
    @Nursemomma7 Před 4 měsíci

    I would have liked to hear her more... but good podcast!

  • @sharonc9259
    @sharonc9259 Před 3 dny

    RE: how talkative Manwell is, he says he went to Bible College. He is someone who thinks and discusses the Bible, God, principles, ideas, expression of ideas, conversations, sermons, etc. It would be more surprising if he wasn’t thoughtful and open in a conversation on these topics.

  • @RevolutionaryRAYRAY
    @RevolutionaryRAYRAY Před 7 měsíci

    Question: Are you ready to utilize your senses beyond offense and defense in personal leadership and business within a contract beyond Religion, Business, Sports. One person on a team mean what, One assist brings the team together.

  • @CatWhiskerClaws
    @CatWhiskerClaws Před 7 měsíci

    Anjelah's so beautiful

  • @jhojho1981
    @jhojho1981 Před rokem +5

    I'm going to say that when Manwell said he loved Anjela more when he saw how financially sound she was was wack! She is sooo much more than her pocket book, she is a beautiful, boss who is also hilarious....sometimes you come off as arrogant Manwell, gotta check yourself...

    • @ktmualem
      @ktmualem Před rokem +6

      You totally missed the point. You might be throwing your pre-conceived notions/insecurities into the mix. He didn't say he loved her because of the money she had. He loved the fact that she was successful, independent and knew how to manage her money. There are plenty of people who make millions and end up broke because they don't know how to manage money. There are also people who don't make a lot of money but are smart about how they manage their finances so they end up doing really well. It is a total red flag when someone is in debt for making dumb or superficial choices. It is one thing to be in debt because of a medical issue, education, having a mortgage, etc and another one to be in debt because you are living outside your means (buying too many designer shoes, purses, cars, etc.) He even said he was ok with living on only $35K a year because he learned how to live within his means. I think it is a valuable lesson for people to live within their means, regardless of how much money they make. There is nothing wrong with admiring Anjelah for obviously being smart with her money.

    • @auntypc4791
      @auntypc4791 Před rokem +1

      @@ktmualem Exactly right.

  • @mariagodina1453
    @mariagodina1453 Před rokem +8

    Is it the manny interview tho? He talks so much

    • @sidewalksurf800
      @sidewalksurf800 Před rokem +4

      It literally is…

    • @karenalmansa7122
      @karenalmansa7122 Před rokem +4

      He would drive me crazy 😵‍💫. He’s so full of himself!
      He definitely looks more handsome when he’s quite. 🫢😂

    • @calisongbird
      @calisongbird Před 9 měsíci

      @@karenalmansa7122 *quiet

  • @oooops537
    @oooops537 Před 8 měsíci +1

    2 people who are CO dependent of each other, for their own self centered reason. I ve noticed most of the couples that over share their sacred intimates, ...break up.

  • @workoutmusic4209
    @workoutmusic4209 Před rokem +10

    I couldn't handle being married to this guy... He spends her money like it's his on designer shoes that in his own words can buy a house, but when she cares about spending on the wedding he's going to not talk to her for days until she changes her mind?
    He also never stops talking and comes across disrespect to her. Love her, not a fan of him sorry lol

    • @igorotaraki9928
      @igorotaraki9928 Před 11 měsíci

      ditto! thought i was the only one. he’s insufferable and entitled🫣

    • @calisongbird
      @calisongbird Před 9 měsíci

      That wedding budget story was like..... wow. smh

  • @michellesanchez741
    @michellesanchez741 Před 9 měsíci

    I think Anjelah was in early pregnancy 🤰 i remember her saying how sick she was.

  • @Ramblingrose-kj5yn
    @Ramblingrose-kj5yn Před 9 měsíci +2

    I love her but him all I heard was blah blah blah blah money money money !!! Hush man!! He talks in circles omg 🫣🫣🫣🫢🫢🫢

    • @ritadelitta424
      @ritadelitta424 Před měsícem

      She loves him ,,,,now for about 12 years,,,,,,by now they know , she knows, he knows ,,,,,they don’t need your approval

  • @calisongbird
    @calisongbird Před 9 měsíci +4

    He seems exhausting. Good for Anjelah, but I couldn't deal with this guy...

  • @osimeon00
    @osimeon00 Před rokem +4

    This relationship has red flags all over the place. But we'll play along and say nothing just like Mari.

  • @alejandromoreno5056
    @alejandromoreno5056 Před rokem +2

    Mari sounds like a hater, and she keeps calling Manwell a bum 🤣

  • @adri3681
    @adri3681 Před 8 měsíci +2

    How sad, some of the comments on here are so rude. Why watch through the entire video only to write such mean-spirited things.

  • @igorotaraki9928
    @igorotaraki9928 Před 11 měsíci +4

    i love her. dont love him. actually he just married her for financial stability? red flag!!! props to anjela for adopting a sugar baby. aw🤣

  • @karinadradecorazones6699

    This dude, either he talks too much or Anjelah is way too quiet. He is I, me, I, me, I , me. 🙄

    • @aliciatai8083
      @aliciatai8083 Před 9 měsíci +2

      Agreed. All I'm saying is, I find that people who are actually confident in their own skin and confident with themselves enjoy being laid back and chill vs “I, me, me, me, I…” She appears to be the perfect match for him as she's more chill =💝 great relationship, works for them 🎉

  • @deborahdaly7041
    @deborahdaly7041 Před rokem +9

    He's so insecure. Totally talks too much, sucks the oxygen out of the room with his confidence, which is his way of masking his insecurities.