DEADLY ILLUSIONS is Stupid | Explained

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  • @AmandaTheJedi
    @AmandaTheJedi  Před 3 lety +4545

    Ha ha remember when this was uploaded 15 minutes ago with no sound? Me neither.

  • @thehillisalive
    @thehillisalive Před 3 lety +6620

    Considering the writers had the main character casually try writing a book within a week, it's a telling sign of how quickly this screenplay must have been written.

    • @oddeyes9413
      @oddeyes9413 Před 3 lety +308

      And how little they actually know about writing a book.

    • @celinahatton2653
      @celinahatton2653 Před 3 lety +206

      @@oddeyes9413 well, writing a good book anyway. You can certainly churn out a steaming pile of shite in a week should you so choose.

    • @bhvvlogs7814
      @bhvvlogs7814 Před 3 lety +146

      @@celinahatton2653 I don't know if I could even turn out a pile of shit in a week - most novels are above 40,000 words and the most I've ever written in a day was 2800. Granted, my writing isn't shite but still.

    • @oddeyes9413
      @oddeyes9413 Před 3 lety +11

      @@celinahatton2653 Oh definitely

    • @celinahatton2653
      @celinahatton2653 Před 3 lety +91

      @@bhvvlogs7814 you'd have to truly, genuinely not care about the quality of work at all, but it could be done. You would have to be completely committed to not caring. However, if you give even the tiniest amount of consideration to plot and character development, then no (or be some kind of writing genius - on that note, I wonder what the shortest writing time period was for what is generally acknowledged to be a good book?)

  • @adwoaadu-parko4329
    @adwoaadu-parko4329 Před 3 lety +6277

    An " Are you lost, baby girl?" might have saved this movie.

  • @ninaserafina823
    @ninaserafina823 Před 3 lety +3252

    This is what i feel like what happened:
    "Hey John did you send that movie pitch to lifetime?"
    "I thought we were sending that to Netflix"
    "YOU SENT IT TO NETFLIX?!"
    "was I wrong?"

    • @klcpesan
      @klcpesan Před 3 lety +147

      Yes, very much Lifetime movie vibes!

    • @curleyqreviews9793
      @curleyqreviews9793 Před 3 lety +173

      Netflix: Thanks already shot it.

    • @ddjsoyenby
      @ddjsoyenby Před 3 lety +228

      "at least we didn't send the draft with that dumb split personality twist........ our career would be ruined"
      "that wasn't the draft i was supposed to send"

    • @chetsirene3835
      @chetsirene3835 Před 3 lety +7

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @curleyqreviews9793
      @curleyqreviews9793 Před 3 lety +48

      Netflix: That twist is great. Everyone is talking about it.

  • @addieh6878
    @addieh6878 Před 3 lety +1387

    I hate the "young people don't read" sterotype, it's so stupid

    • @guillermodebaskerville7117
      @guillermodebaskerville7117 Před 3 lety +104

      We do, the fact that we don't read what boomers think is acceptable is another tune

    • @katherinealvarez9216
      @katherinealvarez9216 Před 3 lety +62

      We should go back to the old days when grown-ups criticize the kids for reading books. It'll hurt their memories I was told.
      But seriously, this is a cliche that's been around I think since the 60s.

    • @chadfalardeau5396
      @chadfalardeau5396 Před 3 lety +26

      @@katherinealvarez9216 tastes change over time, some people can't accept that. Hence why they won't stop teaching Shakespeare

    • @sephirothswh0re598
      @sephirothswh0re598 Před 3 lety +24

      I know right? I read all sorts of manga, hentai, Yaoi, smut, mature fantasy genres. 😒

    • @YayonoFOBaholicLife
      @YayonoFOBaholicLife Před 3 lety +78

      Young people DEVOUR books, when they aren't being criticized or tested on it :v Reading for homework? Removes the fun of reading :v

  • @katburgess5926
    @katburgess5926 Před 3 lety +4132

    Don't worry, you could post a video about the most outdated, overdone, and/or obscure movie and I'd still watch it

    • @AmandaTheJedi
      @AmandaTheJedi  Před 3 lety +773

      See outdated and obscure at least has the originality or renaissance potential

    • @vishthefish2078
      @vishthefish2078 Před 3 lety +19

      How is it obscure and overdone

    • @bobbivotson2529
      @bobbivotson2529 Před 3 lety +82

      @@AmandaTheJedi i'd watch you reviewing wall paint drying for 4 hours.

    • @audreym3908
      @audreym3908 Před 3 lety +37

      @@bobbivotson2529 @Amanda the Jedi While reading out fanfiction of AlicexBella

    • @theblackbaron4119
      @theblackbaron4119 Před 3 lety +8

      Yeah, who doesn't like watching female Axel rose yell at clouds :)

  • @iammoonchildlee9351
    @iammoonchildlee9351 Před 3 lety +2812

    The media needs to stop making a DID character as a villain. It's creating more stigma.

    • @ddjsoyenby
      @ddjsoyenby Před 3 lety +105

      yeah most did people are not dangerous.

    • @vampyrekyng_lex
      @vampyrekyng_lex Před 3 lety +271

      And at least if they’re going to do it they should present it realistically with an explanation for the trauma and not demonizing the person with DID. What they did with Josh’s schizophrenia in the game Until Dawn was pretty good. He wasn’t shown as just a villain but someone who was struggling and unwell.

    • @vampyrekyng_lex
      @vampyrekyng_lex Před 3 lety +91

      @@JP-et9hv Which is fairly accurate. He lost his friends because of it too

    • @Mecharnie_Dobbs
      @Mecharnie_Dobbs Před 3 lety +15

      Devil's-advocate: there are two characters with DID and a third who hears voices. Only one of these three is the villain. One is a hugely successful writer. That's positive representation.

    • @Maerahn
      @Maerahn Před 3 lety +194

      @@ddjsoyenby There is only one known case of a person with DID who killed people - and that was NOT because of his DID; he would've killed people even *without* the DID. That's why he was jailed, and his defence of having DID was thrown out - and rightly so. Anyone with an identity disorder will tell you there is such a thing as 'system responsibility.'
      Hollywood needs to fucking STOP with this outright *myth* of people with DID/OSDD having 'eeevil alters' just because they can't be arsed to think up a new way of making their killers 'quirky.' It literally makes ZERO SENSE for someone with an identity disorder to have alters that inflict violence on others - THAT'S NOT HOW THE DISORDER EVEN WORKS. It's a lie perpetuated by a section of the media who can't be arsed to do the proper research - I'm pretty sure by now that it's just the same, crappy crib sheet, barfed together by an intern in 1998 who did a ten-second Google search while high on crack, that gets passed around to all the studio execs in LA.
      And it does *huge damage* to the DID/OSDD community. It's hard enough for us to even persuade people to recognise it as an actual, real disorder at all - but now, when they do, they're supposed to think we've all got a token 'psycho alter' buried somewhere inside us, just waiting to be unleashed if someone 'pushes us too far?' If they maligned a whole section of society who WEREN'T already vulnerable and misunderstood, they'd get the ASSES sued off them for slander - but nooo, people with mental health disorders are fair game. I mean, who's gonna take THEM seriously, they're crazy already, amirite, ha ha..! IT NEEDS TO STOP.

  • @jclombardi8471
    @jclombardi8471 Před 3 lety +3898

    "She....seduced me" is the new "She's got shark strength!"

  • @GabbyGoggin
    @GabbyGoggin Před 3 lety +1982

    I am personally ashamed that I watched this movie on my own free will

    • @toryficarola
      @toryficarola Před 3 lety +61

      Same here and I can't believe I subjected my poor wife to it as well.

    • @elisal8693
      @elisal8693 Před 3 lety +64

      It is due to your and Amanda's sacrifice that we don't have to

    • @garlicslut8878
      @garlicslut8878 Před 3 lety +19

      Don't be, it's guilty pleasure stuff!

    • @MrAmansa12345
      @MrAmansa12345 Před 3 lety +5

      So did my sister and I 😂😂

    • @FreedaAnimals
      @FreedaAnimals Před 3 lety +1

      Lol me fuckin too

  • @rikuapologist788
    @rikuapologist788 Před 3 lety +1262

    taking shots during deadly illusions for:
    - stigmatising and BLATANTLY wrong depiction of DID
    - black best friend
    - black best friend is the first to die
    - bisexuality = villainy / mental instability
    - woman employee just, like, existing in the same space = "she was asking for it!"

    • @philtess3126
      @philtess3126 Před 3 lety +12

      @@user-leavemealone The only way to please people who complains about the black best friend trope is to make the whole cast "diverse" and the bad guy is white.

    • @instantmiso9921
      @instantmiso9921 Před 3 lety +123

      Wow a lot of backhanded racism in the replies, yikes

    • @minumeyli
      @minumeyli Před 3 lety +1

      @@user-leavemealone so you care more abt a career than accurately displaying the world as it is in film?

    • @roelin360
      @roelin360 Před 2 lety +15

      @@philtess3126 yeah that's exactly what people mean when they say that. It's not like what they're actually asking for is black characters to exist with independent goals/character development in stories and not needing to specifically serve the main white character as a flat 1 dimensional accessory.
      This has gotten a bit better over the years, but you're being an ass.

    • @emmyturner7385
      @emmyturner7385 Před 2 lety +37

      @@philtess3126 wrong. The best way is to not kill off your token black guys within the first act of the screen play.

  • @chetsirene3835
    @chetsirene3835 Před 3 lety +914

    This whole movie sounds like a fever dream of a 14 year old girl who's watched too many murder mysteries and Fifty Shades fanfics.

  • @angelinacurtis2129
    @angelinacurtis2129 Před 3 lety +1338

    Honestly, as a childcare worker this makes me so mad at the portrayal of childcare workers... and all the sexual harassment makes me so angry!

    • @Mayra9148
      @Mayra9148 Před 3 lety +58

      what about the extreme misrepresentation of DID

    • @LeoDBW
      @LeoDBW Před 3 lety +93

      @@Mayra9148 you're right but i think there are too much things to get mad at in this movie. Let's just throw it all in the garbage disposal.

    • @emmao6578
      @emmao6578 Před 3 lety +45

      @@Mayra9148 Everyone has issues that are more personal to them than others, no need to get caught up in one-upmanship games.

    • @greenangelynn5774
      @greenangelynn5774 Před rokem

      Free chair, Get your free chairs, for hitting bitches & creeps for sexual harassment!!!!

  • @somethingillregret
    @somethingillregret Před 3 lety +876

    Ah yes, because we all know that the only thing keeping couples faithful is a steady flow of schtoinking, and if you cease for even a week or two, your partner will go stick it in someone else. Sound psychological advice from the therapist friend.

    • @hannahb3786
      @hannahb3786 Před 3 lety +35

      As the girlfriend of an airman....this cracked me up 😂

    • @Xehanort10
      @Xehanort10 Před 3 lety +35

      I think that's a thing bad romances have made some people think. That if you're not banging your girlfriend, boyfriend, wife or husband from dawn til dusk they'll immediately cheat on you.

    • @Ziaberry
      @Ziaberry Před 3 lety +54

      There are people who genuinely believe this. I learned the hard way not to ask the internet for dating advice when you're not interested in sex, because people either accuse you of being a gold digger or they say "so you don't want love, you want a friend?" People are stupid.

    • @gabby3036
      @gabby3036 Před 3 měsíci

      Why are you guys commenting as if the word "schtoinking" *isn't* completely ludicrous? I can't be the only one who noticed.

  • @a2-2b-9s
    @a2-2b-9s Před 3 lety +2708

    Deadly Illusions isn't the bisexual representation we have been waiting for...
    ...Kidding we just want Amanda's Alice x Bella fanfic video

    • @BlindZubat
      @BlindZubat Před 3 lety +74

      YES! I...I mean. That’d be cool.

    • @safala
      @safala Před 3 lety +71

      I could say Amanda’s Alice x Bella video is the reason I wake up every morning and it wouldn’t be as much of an exaggeration as one would say it is.

    • @Mecharnie_Dobbs
      @Mecharnie_Dobbs Před 3 lety +3

      But you can't make money out of fanfiction so she couldn't read it out on CZcams.

    • @swagromancer
      @swagromancer Před 3 lety +30

      I would pay actual money to have this fanfic produced as an audio play.

    • @fromthelostdays
      @fromthelostdays Před 3 lety +23

      @@Mecharnie_Dobbs Tell that to E L James

  • @hotcocoandart
    @hotcocoandart Před 3 lety +1775

    A week for a novel is the most unrealistic thing about this movie. I've been writing like 1000-2000 words a day and it's been 12 days. And what I'm writing is NOVELLA LENGTH.

    • @AmandaTheJedi
      @AmandaTheJedi  Před 3 lety +373

      it ended up being a month I think. There was a 'three weeks later' title card after she finished the first draft so I feeeellll the one week was incase it didn't work out she could just let Grace go after the week

    • @hotcocoandart
      @hotcocoandart Před 3 lety +63

      @@AmandaTheJedi Okay that's more realistic.

    • @fightingmedialounge519
      @fightingmedialounge519 Před 3 lety +10

      Depends on your quality control Jackson.

    • @anniedangerface
      @anniedangerface Před 3 lety +18

      I feel your pain Jackson, I’m writing a novel that is just, it’s gonna kill me, I started in 2018. Please send help. What’s your novella about btw?

    • @AB2B
      @AB2B Před 3 lety +4

      @@fightingmedialounge519 That's what editors are for. ;)

  • @klcpesan
    @klcpesan Před 3 lety +559

    Hard ew gross to the mother character feeling both motherly and sexual towards the babysitter...

  • @gregbielski
    @gregbielski Před 3 lety +1718

    Is the sound working now or is it just a DEADLY ILLUSION?

  • @cheyenn3nic0le
    @cheyenn3nic0le Před 3 lety +618

    “you were gone for nearly 3 hours”
    “wow just enough time for a murder”

    • @SJ-dl6uc
      @SJ-dl6uc Před 3 lety +16

      change its delivery cadence and this totally could've been the husband's response.

  • @LittleDarkLies
    @LittleDarkLies Před 3 lety +256

    Some adults don’t realize that books can be read on your phone.

    • @theab3957
      @theab3957 Před 2 lety +6

      That's right! Honestly I always forget that. I must be the youngest boomer ever lol.

  • @Emma-zc5jm
    @Emma-zc5jm Před 3 lety +799

    Honestly I thought we were done with thrillers about people with DID who has a murderous alter...... Not only is it super harmful to real people with DID, but it also is just a bad, poorly researched writing cliche.

    • @NeloBladeOfRanni
      @NeloBladeOfRanni Před 3 lety +6

      I mean I thought we were done with presenting pagan and witches as evil satanic villains but oh look we ain't. Stop acting like people with DID are the only group who get misrepresented

    • @Emma-zc5jm
      @Emma-zc5jm Před 3 lety +72

      @@NeloBladeOfRanni when did I say they are the only people who are ever misrepresented?

    • @NeloBladeOfRanni
      @NeloBladeOfRanni Před 3 lety +2

      @@Emma-zc5jm because it's funny how y'all never get mad when pagans and witches are misrepresented but yet when any other gets misrepresented your so damn mad. Heck y'all deny the vile actions your ancestors commited towards pagans and witches during the witch trials

    • @Emma-zc5jm
      @Emma-zc5jm Před 3 lety +46

      @@NeloBladeOfRanni lol when the fuck did I deny anything that happened in the witch trials? Stop projecting holy shit

    • @TheKelsee11
      @TheKelsee11 Před 3 lety +5

      Hell no 🤣 They're just getting started got another hundred or so years of being exploited just like black ppl and gay ppl and witches and ppl with depression and ppl with psychosis and ppl with physical disability and people with an ever so slightly different culture or accent like when all the villains were British or Russian. Ahhh profiting off of the weak an intrical part of every culture

  • @Perinlyn
    @Perinlyn Před 3 lety +746

    Have a librarian in my family...yeah, that library scene would never, EVER happen. They can't even share library records with spouses, much less random ladies off the street with no relation whatsoever.

    • @curleyqreviews9793
      @curleyqreviews9793 Před 3 lety +50

      I was a librarian clerk. I would have been fired so fast

    • @audreym3908
      @audreym3908 Před 3 lety +3

      @Maddy McLean I'm guessing only parents can access it for their child(ren)? Or if their kids are older then no?

    • @rubinia
      @rubinia Před 3 lety +50

      Librarian here. A lot of times we don’t even keep a history of what people check out. Once the items are returned it’s removed from the record. That’s why the Patriot Act was strongly opposed by librarians. We take patron privacy VERY seriously.

    • @KaylaKasel
      @KaylaKasel Před 3 lety +6

      That's interesting. Is there a specific reason why? Like a specific historical case of information being leaked that led to tighter security being seen as necessary to prevent it happening again, or is it entirely precautionary to prevent that in the first place?

    • @megantvenstrup7687
      @megantvenstrup7687 Před 3 lety +27

      @@KaylaKasel Not from the country itself so my info might be wrong, but I heard it comes from the fact that the government can use that act to request information on users and the librarians can't do anything about it. I remember hearing that to protest that, librarians put signs on the walls saying 'you might be under surveillance due to the patriot act and we wouldn't be allowed to tell you, so please take precautions'. Confidentiality is very important to librarians.
      We want to prevent people from accessing our users history of checked out items because that information i no-one's business except the person who checked out the items.
      I learned the details of the patriot act while studying to become a librarian, but I live in another country and my memory isn't perfect so there might be things missing from my explanation.

  • @rgs8970
    @rgs8970 Před 3 lety +941

    there is no way the publishers would not just pay her for the rights and hire a ghost writer-- who doesn't Turn Into A Different Person while writing

    • @kristinakrzywonos1821
      @kristinakrzywonos1821 Před 3 lety +75

      That's what she thought they were gonna talk to her about when her publisher visited at the beginning. It made their insistence extra weird.

    • @samkathryn4825
      @samkathryn4825 Před 3 lety +13

      Well, I’m fairly certain she would have to agree depending on what’s in her contract. An author retains creative rights for their works unless otherwise stated (which is a contract which should never be signed) and the publisher usually just gets distribution rights. I could be wrong, but I’ve been researching this stuff for a long time.

  • @emilymoran9152
    @emilymoran9152 Před 3 lety +434

    So the screenwriters thought it takes somewhere between a week and a month to write a publishable book? That explains a lot...

    • @emma2884
      @emma2884 Před 3 lety +12

      Lmao that's what I was thinking

  • @glimmerhutcherson139
    @glimmerhutcherson139 Před 3 lety +299

    Sounds like those times when you tell a friend about a dream you had and they go "You should write it down, turn it into a movie."

    • @theab3957
      @theab3957 Před 2 lety +3

      It does not do to dwell on dreams.

  • @AdmiralKomodo
    @AdmiralKomodo Před 3 lety +649

    I feel like the person who wrote this said "Hail Mary, full of Grace" at some point and then got ~inspired~

  • @jessiel.9961
    @jessiel.9961 Před 3 lety +401

    I'm just gonna go with a "bad self-insert fanfic written by someone who REALLY likes Mary's books" and call it a day before I get a headache.

  • @Alyss93
    @Alyss93 Před 3 lety +250

    I'm a librarian. I'm screaming. Our patrons' privacy is our most important priority. That should never happen.

    • @IvoirePunk
      @IvoirePunk Před 3 lety +10

      Librarians would sooner chuck all records in a woodchipper then set fire to the confetti.

    • @Alyss93
      @Alyss93 Před 3 lety +13

      @@IvoirePunk I honestly wish that was how we destroy records now 😆 Instead it's just a boring old shredder :/

    • @IvoirePunk
      @IvoirePunk Před 3 lety +1

      @@Alyss93 🤣

    • @machine-shopbilly6584
      @machine-shopbilly6584 Před 3 lety +3

      Didn't know librarians could scream

    • @coffeepowered6033
      @coffeepowered6033 Před 3 lety +2

      I've always wanted to do this.
      Oh boy, here I go......
      SHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

  • @edgarallenhoe3518
    @edgarallenhoe3518 Před 3 lety +480

    Wait, grace actually existed? You had me thinking for a minute that Mary made her up entirely

    • @GoldenXBoots
      @GoldenXBoots Před 3 lety +42

      That would have been better!

    • @mybittersweetme
      @mybittersweetme Před 3 lety +30

      Yeah, I thought she was grace the whole time kinda like in the fight club. But maybe she is and she's imagining visiting herself in the mental facility?? Idk...

    • @blaah9999
      @blaah9999 Před 3 lety +11

      I think that is what the producers wanted you to think. 🙄

    • @yukinofairytail7137
      @yukinofairytail7137 Před 3 lety +1

      same 😂

    • @TF2Fan101
      @TF2Fan101 Před 3 lety +13

      Funnily enough, there's a story about DID I read that does something like that. It's called The Eighth Girl, and a big twist in the story...
      *SPOILERS*
      Is that two characters the main character is close to (Her stepmother/mother & best friend) are actually alters in her system. It's an effective and incredibly DEVASTATING twist for the protagonist (On top of everything else going on in the story), and it almost drives her to suicide.

  • @chiefkeef247
    @chiefkeef247 Před 3 lety +1457

    Did I already watch this movie on Kennie J.D's channel? Yes. Will I watch it again for Amanda's commentary? Yes

    • @okokbuthearmeout...
      @okokbuthearmeout... Před 3 lety +244

      what's up, fellow home skillet biscuit?

    • @marydarko3380
      @marydarko3380 Před 3 lety +15

      samee

    • @MoonDust22951
      @MoonDust22951 Před 3 lety +62

      I love both channels as well ✧◝(⁰▿⁰)◜✧ Watching reviews on B-rate/trash movies is one of my favorite things to do.

    • @audreym3908
      @audreym3908 Před 3 lety +8

      SAME HERE GIRL/DUDE/NON-BINARY!

    • @ablacklatina
      @ablacklatina Před 3 lety +2

      Same 😂

  • @stevegeorge6880
    @stevegeorge6880 Před 3 lety +372

    The bottom line is that the screenwriter hallucinated it all.

    • @anniedangerface
      @anniedangerface Před 3 lety +9

      **Black Butterfly theme intensifies**

    • @eoghanfeighery7383
      @eoghanfeighery7383 Před 3 lety +6

      I can only imagine the script writing process involved some weed.

    • @theab3957
      @theab3957 Před 2 lety +3

      Legit, it had to have started out as someone's weird ass dream.

  • @dorothygale9648
    @dorothygale9648 Před 3 lety +189

    "Leaves a lot up to interpretation" = "the director couldn't come up with good answers so they half assed it."

    • @Mecharnie_Dobbs
      @Mecharnie_Dobbs Před 3 lety +1

      Some viewers like being able to interpret things.

    • @dorothygale9648
      @dorothygale9648 Před 3 lety +21

      @@Mecharnie_Dobbs Yes, when it's a good story that has a lot of thought put into it. This is not that.

  • @addieh6878
    @addieh6878 Před 3 lety +1476

    Amanda using twilight characters as censors are the bane of my existence lmao

  • @CallMeKes
    @CallMeKes Před 3 lety +402

    The problem is most people confuse DID with some types of Schizophrenia where you will hear voices or even conjure another sort of personality that you can converse with. Media does this A LOT. Like...so much.

    • @thirdprince4028
      @thirdprince4028 Před 3 lety +74

      The problem is people have incredibly misinformed, stigmatizing ideas about both DID and schizophrenia spectrum disorders. People confused about DID are just as incorrect about schizophrenia at the end of the day, speaking as someone with a schizospec disorder and partners who are both plural and schizospec.

    • @Xebelan
      @Xebelan Před 3 lety +43

      Most people also don't realize epilepsy also causes auditory hallucinations like voices. They're generally non-violent and rarely say the same thing twice, however.

    • @sorayaalcyone2726
      @sorayaalcyone2726 Před 3 lety +6

      DID has very few documented cases also, many mental health] professionals question its validity period.

    • @CallMeKes
      @CallMeKes Před 3 lety +10

      @@sorayaalcyone2726 That's actually not the case so much anymore. On both points but mostly the latter. You should check out DissociaDID on youtube. It's very informative. If I remember correctly, most professionals accept it as a valid diagnosis now and it's about as common as natural red hair (roughly 3% I think).

    • @mophead_xu
      @mophead_xu Před 3 lety +8

      @@CallMeKes dissociadid is a horrible source lmfao. she doesn't (or at least didnt, when i still watch her) cite her sources properly, as they're often would have little to do with the topic supposedly being discussed (or no relation at all, just linked for the sake of being linked) or from some shady org with questionable credentials. there's no real data or paper backing up the claim that DID is as common as people with red hair, especially bc one reason DID diagnosis is so hard to get because it shares a lot of symptoms with shit ton other disorders.
      criticisms for dissociadid aside, honestly for heavy and complex topics like mental disorders people shouldn't turn to pop culture (including youtubers) for explanation. go to the actual studies, read the actual papers. even if someone does suffer from something, that doesn't make them an expert, reliable to pass on correct information. the only reliable info they can pass is their own personal, subjective experience living with X; not necessarily the science behind X.

  • @asamiichan9909
    @asamiichan9909 Před 3 lety +528

    I watched this movie with my partner and he joked about Mary and the babysitter and ... well, we sat there for the rest of the movie just incredibly awkward and wondering what the hell was happening. It was ... a movie for sure.

    • @staceyann1180
      @staceyann1180 Před 3 lety +19

      But was it, though?

    • @rose191991
      @rose191991 Před 3 lety +33

      or was it just a dream...

    • @audreym3908
      @audreym3908 Před 3 lety +27

      @@rose191991 or DEADY ILLUSION.... I'll go back to studying now...

    • @dottyorange7270
      @dottyorange7270 Před 3 lety +1

      @@rose191991 A fever dream, sure.

  • @batlrar
    @batlrar Před 3 lety +232

    It seems pretty clear that the plot to this is that the producers had a bunch of porn scripts that they couldn't get the clearance to make so they just wrote in some lazy author narrative device and a mystery that they didn't have an answer to in hopes that it would tie it all together.

    • @Mecharnie_Dobbs
      @Mecharnie_Dobbs Před 3 lety +3

      People don't get murdered in porn films so what did grace do to the therapist originally?

    • @batlrar
      @batlrar Před 3 lety +16

      @@Mecharnie_Dobbs Sounds like you have a very narrow window of stuff you search for. Or that's the mystery stuff they tried to throw in. Pick your poison.

  • @baileyblight3867
    @baileyblight3867 Před 3 lety +122

    If I see one more goddamn movie showing DID portraying an alter as a murderer I'm gonna LOSE IT.

  • @RandomRetr0
    @RandomRetr0 Před 3 lety +342

    The writer has to be a straight woman trying to imagine lesbian fanfic 😂 it’s SO bad 😂 smdh

    • @musicf3b
      @musicf3b Před 3 lety +23

      Mormon lady...big Stephanie Myers energy

    • @cupidsick
      @cupidsick Před 2 lety +12

      watched one lesbian p0rn0 and thought that’s just how it works?? lol

    • @blackwingsofdead4492
      @blackwingsofdead4492 Před 2 lety +32

      Feels more like a man writing lesbians to me tbh but I could be wrong

  • @defiantaichi
    @defiantaichi Před 3 lety +112

    So it’s basically a WASP suburban wine mom fan fiction who want to explore the ‘dark forbidden side’

  • @clarinamascarenhas7499
    @clarinamascarenhas7499 Před 3 lety +131

    Its the demon voice, the vulnerability of the young girl working for an older woman and somehow being the villain, and the misrepresentation of DID for me.

  • @naomimiller5636
    @naomimiller5636 Před 3 lety +190

    Being called a bestie gives me serotonin

    • @catelynh1020
      @catelynh1020 Před 3 lety +9

      Callmekevin starts his videos with "hey there friends" and i'm never not happy to hear it. It's amazing how little it takes sometimes

    • @lilywest9552
      @lilywest9552 Před 3 lety +2

      ok bestie :)

    • @naomimiller5636
      @naomimiller5636 Před 3 lety +3

      @@lilywest9552 THANK YOU BESTIE

    • @lilywest9552
      @lilywest9552 Před 3 lety

      Bunny Farmer np ily bestie

  • @Rosesimanimefreak
    @Rosesimanimefreak Před 3 lety +126

    i saw the title and i clicked immediately because. i watched this movie and am in dire need of seeing someone tear it apart. it was so. bad. and not even in a good way but in a "you've just been hatecrimed luv" way

  • @nonoticarly8778
    @nonoticarly8778 Před 3 lety +209

    It's very very not allowed to share patron information, even just the books they checked out. I'm a librarian and can attest to that

    • @IvoirePunk
      @IvoirePunk Před 3 lety +2

      Yeah, my best friend is a librarian and I used to volunteer at the library and no library is giving out information on anyone.

  • @labbaby189
    @labbaby189 Před 3 lety +33

    Looks like someone tried to write some 50 Shades fanfic, got drunk off Four Loko and fell asleep watching The Shining.

  • @IzzabeesLittleWorld
    @IzzabeesLittleWorld Před 3 lety +87

    Also about the 'kids don't read these days' thing, plenty of kids are reading they're just reading on their phones. It could be anything from published books to Wikipedia articles/articles to fanfiction and other stuff. Just because they're not reading a physical book doesn't mean they're not reading, I haven't read from an actual book in like 2 years but I read almost everyday from my phone

  • @GamerJules_
    @GamerJules_ Před 3 lety +187

    This reminds me of a made for TV movie from the 90's.

  • @feferis
    @feferis Před 3 lety +283

    Yay, we're back with sound!!

    • @feferis
      @feferis Před 3 lety +4

      I wonder if it was copyright claimed?

    • @AmandaTheJedi
      @AmandaTheJedi  Před 3 lety +83

      Nah, no idea what happened, something with my export messed up and I didn't notice

    • @feferis
      @feferis Před 3 lety +9

      @@AmandaTheJedi I'm glad you were able to get it working!

    • @addy_gaming
      @addy_gaming Před 3 lety +2

      @@feferis yeah

  • @dollbasaur8465
    @dollbasaur8465 Před 3 lety +57

    my sister and i watched this when it came out, we were both convinced it was the "predatory bi/lesbian preying on an unsuspecting hetero woman" trope. i can say it at least didn't disappoint in that aspect.

  • @DeathBeeWillGetYou
    @DeathBeeWillGetYou Před 3 lety +341

    The villainization of D.I.D. makes me really uncomfortable. Like even systems that do have persecutors very very rarely hurt people, at most they will harm the body. The reason being (at least the reason for my system) is that they feel that it's the host's fault that they went through their trauma. They internalize that anger and instead of taking it out on other people, they take it out on the body and/or other alters.

    • @hybrid09
      @hybrid09 Před 3 lety +60

      Agreed. Our ex-persecutor never went off on **anyone** except me, not even verbally. Instead he would actively hide from people outside of the system. During our hardest times, he and I (the host) would have a difficult relationship seeing as he would hurt me in our headspace, it was the only way he knew how to keep me from harming the body. He never was hurtful for the sake of hurting me. It's just the only way he found to protect us.
      Ultimately, systems are born to protect. Why so many people picture systems as dangerous is beyond me.

    • @jacklyntree7752
      @jacklyntree7752 Před 3 lety +3

      What exactly is a system? Ik I can Google it but I don't want to be fed misinfo

    • @DeathBeeWillGetYou
      @DeathBeeWillGetYou Před 3 lety +31

      @@jacklyntree7752 A system is the term we use to refer to our headmates, because ultimately it's a system of personalities who protect the host/body. Some people have large systems (20 or more personalities) and others have rather small systems (10 or less, like me. though I was diagnosed last year so we're still finding out about new headmates). it's easier to say "our system" than it is to say "me and all the others in the head space." It's the most widely recognized term for it and is the easiest to understand.

    • @jacklyntree7752
      @jacklyntree7752 Před 3 lety +7

      @@DeathBeeWillGetYou Oh okay, thank you

    • @DeathBeeWillGetYou
      @DeathBeeWillGetYou Před 3 lety +11

      @@jacklyntree7752 No problem! I'm always happy to clear things up even though I may not always be right just because of how new my diagnosis is.

  • @emilyau8023
    @emilyau8023 Před 3 lety +97

    Wow Charlotte from Sex and the City is having a wild life now.

  • @mafiacat88
    @mafiacat88 Před 3 lety +51

    God, the "young people don't read anymore" trope drives me up the wall.
    Partly because I read, partly because it just smacks of older generations talking down to younger generations as if they're unintelligent, and partly because it's just flat out wrong!
    According to statista, people 18-29 are the *most* likely to have read at least one book in the last year!
    If anyone is curious, it's 81% of the 18-19 group, compared to 72% for 30-49 y.o, and then 67 & 68% respectively for the 50-65 and 65+ groups.

  • @melware1372
    @melware1372 Před 3 lety +27

    "This is one of those sensual thrillers, that means PEOPLE DO IT!"
    This literally sums up every sensual thriller

  • @No1PlutoSupporter
    @No1PlutoSupporter Před 3 lety +61

    😭😭 the gif of Jim asking “what is going on ??” Was so random I cracked up

  • @hioiij
    @hioiij Před 3 lety +98

    This movie is 100% a LifeTime movie but just on netflix and that was the saving grace while watching this. I knew it was gonna be bad but MAN.... did they overachieve in that department 🤭

  • @autumn_equinox
    @autumn_equinox Před 3 lety +224

    A topic on which I am not well-versed?
    A piece of media I have not seen/do not intend to see?
    Amanda makes a video talking about it: I’m in! 👍🏻
    Edit: Ohhhh noooo 🤦🏼‍♀️ more (potentially ?) stigmatisation about DID in shoddy media. Gd it.
    “There’s just too much going on in all the wrong ways.”
    Yes, Amanda. Yes.

    • @jenitoten2212
      @jenitoten2212 Před 3 lety +5

      Amanda is where I get all my Twilight info. She translates str8 into lesbian lol.

    • @autumn_equinox
      @autumn_equinox Před 3 lety +4

      @@jenitoten2212 lol 😂 same! I’m obsessed with how much she ships bella and alice... and I didn’t even know who or what an alice was until her twilight vids 😆

    • @jenitoten2212
      @jenitoten2212 Před 3 lety +3

      @@autumn_equinox I always thought it was Alice as in Alice in wonderland till my spouse showed me her Twilight Video. And Belle from, ya know Beauty and the Beast. LoL

    • @autumn_equinox
      @autumn_equinox Před 3 lety +1

      @@jenitoten2212 Really? That’s great 😂 Though not sure I like the idea of the age difference between those two, I confess I’m always here for some disney femslash! You might say I’m “femslash trash” 🗑 Just toss me in the bin lol

    • @jenitoten2212
      @jenitoten2212 Před 3 lety +2

      @@autumn_equinox what Alice is 15 in the cartoon and Belle can't be 17. LoL

  • @Hanbl-ip1tn
    @Hanbl-ip1tn Před 3 lety +99

    The acting looks like they filmed the rehearsals and nothing else!😂

  • @SuperWolfman9
    @SuperWolfman9 Před 3 lety +60

    'Grace' doesn't exist. 'Margaret' = Mary - Mary can literally be a short form of Margaret. Notepad with PTSD etc with Mary's name, 'Grace' supposedly had PTSD from abusive parents. Mary = Grace = Margaret etc.
    Dude said 'I don't want to play these games with you anymore' - he wasn't talking to 'Grace', he was talking to Mary, dude was financially irresponsible but loved his wife who would 'pretend' to be crazy to get into the head space to write her successful horror novels so he would play along, but she was especially extreme with this one (as she was actually cray-cray) and he didn't want to play along anymore + Elaine growing worried about danger Mary posed to herself/other people and so Mary killed her to silence her but also to recreate her book to get even more into the head space.
    The whole Mary/Grace sex stuff was basically narcissism etc. - she had boobs like that when she was younger etc.
    I mean, pretty sure the only time we see Grace interact with other people was Tom and the kids and in visions/memories/dreams in Mary's head, ergo Tom was playing along while everything else Mary's imagination.

    • @alexisnicholson8815
      @alexisnicholson8815 Před 3 lety +3

      That’s what I was getting from it and I kept thinking of the movie Hide n seek.

    • @Angelique688
      @Angelique688 Před 2 lety

      🙌🏼

    • @chechiing6295
      @chechiing6295 Před 2 lety +1

      That's exactly it! There's no Grace in that story. Even if they do a sequel, it will be some bull crap to make people believed there was a Grace just to ease the minds.

  • @sophiaquinn1742
    @sophiaquinn1742 Před 3 lety +21

    I remember working as a hostess (you basically greet and seat everybody who walks in) at a restaurant and my go to activity when it was not busy and I had no other work to do was to read only because customers and management would not get mad at me for it. They would be super impressed especially if I told them it wasn't for school.

  • @lorettabes4553
    @lorettabes4553 Před 3 lety +18

    Ok, but why does Grace look so cute though? Her hair, tied up with the ribbon and the cute light blue dress. Massive Belle from Beauty and Beast vibes.

  • @desertdogscalifornia
    @desertdogscalifornia Před 3 lety +38

    "I'm..not..young.." I felt that in my soul. 😭🤣

  • @kalynneb4437
    @kalynneb4437 Před 3 lety +105

    omg you reminded me of wendy from gravity falls😭

    • @MaddyPerez128
      @MaddyPerez128 Před 3 lety +16

      I knew she looked familiar when I first started watching her and I think that is why

    • @archaeoamelia5235
      @archaeoamelia5235 Před 3 lety +3

      Holy shit, THAT’S who it is!! I couldn’t put my finger on it!! Hard agree, esp in this outfit lmao

  • @Oskanwhitchfather
    @Oskanwhitchfather Před 3 lety +22

    "I'm not... young..." Amanda, you still look 16. You've looked 16 since I started watching you. Share your secrets of immortality with us!

  • @childhoodshour
    @childhoodshour Před 3 lety +154

    I can’t believe I let tiktok convince me to watch this.

    • @zm138
      @zm138 Před 3 lety +10

      Yo, the same thing happened to me. I'm sad now

  • @Feverm00n
    @Feverm00n Před 3 lety +40

    As a multiple myself, Amanda: THANK YOU for calling out bad representation of dissociative disorders and multiplicity. Thank you so so much. Movies gotta stop. Movies REALLY gotta stop.

  • @Dustbinlid1
    @Dustbinlid1 Před 3 lety +29

    This really is just Basic Instinct meets Fight Club

    • @IvoirePunk
      @IvoirePunk Před 3 lety +3

      Minus the good writing and actual answers.

  • @mistyduke880
    @mistyduke880 Před 3 lety +12

    I thought we were seeing Mary’s book being played out. When in reality none of it was actually happening. I was so confused by the bike tire scene and the crazy waves by the cave scene. Also, when Mary’s husband said she had been gone for three hours, where did she go? The cigars drove me nuts because they didn’t seem to fit the character. And the bra shopping scene was so cringy. All in all this movie is all over the place and confusing.

  • @chauncley
    @chauncley Před 3 lety +27

    Amanda constantly introducing me to movies that I will never have to suffer through because of these videos...thank you.

  • @dogskulls
    @dogskulls Před 3 lety +22

    I really like the idea of it being Mary's writing exercises. Would love a good movie that utilizes that idea.

  • @lyrang
    @lyrang Před 3 lety +21

    The worst part about getting to the end of your videos is realizing that I'm at the longest point in time until I get to watch your next video.

  • @just_resa
    @just_resa Před 3 lety +30

    Young people don't read...
    Me, a 20 year old bookseller who works in a children and young adult book store: sure

  • @efoxkitsune9493
    @efoxkitsune9493 Před 3 lety +53

    ...Of fucking course. Of COURSE it's DID. Because the horrific damaging representation so far is NOT ENOUGH, RIGHT?? Because it hasn't been said enough times that this is NOT WHAT DID IS, and how much damage this kind of (persistent) media portrayal does to actual people--
    God DAMMIT.
    ...man this is getting real old... :/

    • @theab3957
      @theab3957 Před 2 lety +4

      It's really annoying. I don't have DID, but I do suffer from various mental disorders, and it gets so annoying when we get demonized.

  • @Lemonadder
    @Lemonadder Před 3 lety +18

    Damn, I wish I could make my own self-insert fanfic and turn it into a Netflix movie. Because this is essentially what this movie is: a self-insert fantasy of the creator that just happened to become an actual script for a movie.

    • @sportsjefe
      @sportsjefe Před 3 lety

      the writer/director is also a producer along with 2 of the actresses (Grace and Elaine)

  • @TshepoMohasoane
    @TshepoMohasoane Před 3 lety +36

    “Guys, it’s only been a week” 😂

  • @izabellecfreitas8592
    @izabellecfreitas8592 Před 3 lety +14

    i somehow always forget the Ms Jedi has a Lucy Hale thingy in the background so it's save to say that it is always a unplesent suprise to see her again

  • @audreym3908
    @audreym3908 Před 3 lety +10

    I think it would've been interesting that if Mary imagined how Grace looked compared to a regular nanny because she's imagining how her MC character looks or the villian/killer looks. And she goes crazy stalking her and obsessed with her till she calms down and out of her zone to realize "Grace" wasn't her Grace when she's over her dead body.
    Oh and her therapist isn't a friend but a relative/family friend that she goes to to talk while her regular therapist is on vacation. And Mary does have friends but none that close she can talk about her "writing style".
    Idk if that has been done before, but it's much better than this advil induced mess.

  • @Jess1Dude
    @Jess1Dude Před 3 lety +2

    About at 10:50, when you say “there’s alot of options and everything is stupid “ is where I had to pause to write thanks. I’ve already laughed out loud several times, and you’ve also saved this whole movie by turning it into a 20 minute 🎭(I don’t have Netflix). Now I’m going back for the second half!

  • @NatIsANerd
    @NatIsANerd Před 3 lety +44

    I absolutely *hate* mental disabilities and related issues being used as a horror trope, as well as physical disfigurement and stuff like that. It's horrible, disrespectful, and just adds to the stigma. Thanks for covering this Amanda!

    • @greenangelynn5774
      @greenangelynn5774 Před rokem

      You know what they should’ve done. Mary should have DID, don’t worry, it’s a good altar (like detective reporter when she’s in writing mode bc She writes thriller novels) and Grace good girl and bad girl side should’ve been an act. Sure It wouldn’t fix the story but It make a such a great spin on it.
      Did I do good? Or did I offend more? Because I didn’t wanna demonize it. please let me know and I’ll delete it if it’s negative 🥺

  • @shirandawilliams
    @shirandawilliams Před 3 lety +19

    I love how Lucy Hale just be chillin in the background 😂

  • @GummyDinosaursify
    @GummyDinosaursify Před 3 lety +3

    Librarians are bound by law to NEVER disclose information about a Patron, ESPECALLY what they checked out. We don't even keep a record of what someone checked out without them expressly opting in to having a record, and we can't even see it. There's even a stipulation that says we're not allowed to disclose what a child checks out to their parents, that's how strict library privacy is. So someone randomly wandering in and asking who had the book last is not only stupid, no Librarian would ever do that.

  • @happilyhadesbound
    @happilyhadesbound Před 3 lety +34

    4:24 I'm a young person so I'll back you up on this: I'm 16-years-old and I read 20 books last year :)

    • @claranadine1086
      @claranadine1086 Před 3 lety +1

      Awesome! 👏 I wish I could find the time to read that many books haha

    • @theab3957
      @theab3957 Před 2 lety +1

      I read 1 book every 2 to 4 days when I was about 10, and now that I'm older I read less than ever.

  • @ms_cartographer
    @ms_cartographer Před 3 lety +30

    Anyone else watch these videos, without any intention of watching the movies just because Amanda is so funny and cool? ❤ Much love from the Midwest! 🇺🇲

  • @ELatimerWrites
    @ELatimerWrites Před 3 lety +8

    I let out an actual shriek of laughter when she said she can write a novel in a week. I think my neighbour's must be wondering what's going on

  • @ceilinh6004
    @ceilinh6004 Před 3 lety +17

    What even???
    I convinced myself that Mary=Grace because I liked that idea better than any of the other interpretations, and clearly we don't have a reliable narrator, but... IDK.

  • @SuperWolfman9
    @SuperWolfman9 Před 3 lety +37

    A video on "But I'm a Cheerleader!" please. :)

  • @alexforce9
    @alexforce9 Před 3 lety +4

    This seems like a movie version of a book that was wrote for a week, and sell to boring houswifes for 5 dollars on the sidewalk. Its even have the title for that.

  • @annelipietersen2287
    @annelipietersen2287 Před 3 lety +29

    Dermot Mulroney is too good for this nonsense😭😭😭😭 why'd they have to do my man like that?

  • @RagenNikole
    @RagenNikole Před 3 lety +5

    A theory i came up with is: Mary disassociates when she writes due to the trauma she suffered at her husband cheating and blowing their money all while she was writing her first or second book. As they state a past "issues". Now I also think the babysitter had issues too but the battle of the two "others" eventually cracked mary out of her issue for her to be ok 1 year later and writing without mental breaks.

  • @heatherrose2436
    @heatherrose2436 Před 3 lety +14

    I've just noticed the framed Ellie and Dina art in the background 🥺

  • @I_tried_to_be_emo_and_failed

    As someone with a dissociative disorder (possibly osdd but I'm still in the process of getting a diagnosis) I refuse to believe this was anything but a dream cause I don't want this representation that's for sure

  • @remybug4015
    @remybug4015 Před 3 lety +38

    Who else was introduced to this by Kennie J.D

  • @thevexprojecthd7620
    @thevexprojecthd7620 Před 3 lety +15

    Me: "Is this still a movie?"
    Still Me after watching: Did I just have a stroke? Is this a fever dream? What the hell is happening? WHAT WAS THE PLOT!?

  • @SamuraiMujuru
    @SamuraiMujuru Před 3 lety +7

    "I've got it. What if we took the psychological breakdown of Perfect Blue, glued it to the reality writing becoming reality of In the Mouth of Madness, and then remove everything good that made those films the classics they are?"
    -The writer's room, probably.

  • @Jenazad.
    @Jenazad. Před 3 lety +14

    I felt some kind of Deja Vu while watching this, then I realized I already watch the Foundflix video on this movie 6 days ago.

  • @kiarya7939
    @kiarya7939 Před 3 lety +21

    Yay! Audio fixed! Great to see you again Amanda!

  • @marelle422
    @marelle422 Před 3 lety +12

    Ah I love that feeling of something stuck in my throat and tightening my chest when I realize the plot twist is a fucking murderer with DID! Do wanna say thank you though, your defense against that shit trope actually eased the feeling a lot. So tired of my childhood trauma disorder being used as a failsafe for when you can't explain why your character is fucking awful. Maybe they should try character development instead?

  • @viviantompkins7925
    @viviantompkins7925 Před 3 lety +4

    Yooo that part about her getting Grace’s info at the library!! As a library science student I am horrified 😅

  • @jeremiahcole964
    @jeremiahcole964 Před 3 lety +16

    It sucks that someone that has DID, it’s always painted in a bad light. But another great review from you regardless!

  • @katherinealvarez9216
    @katherinealvarez9216 Před 3 lety +15

    2:17 Yeah, not only that but it's not like she's putting people out on the streets and stop writing. She wanted to compromise by getting a ghostwriter and that continue the cash cow series and free her up to raise her family and maybe pursue other things. What the heck?
    Edit: So they're trying to guilt her into writing because they did their jobs wrong.

  • @sr2505
    @sr2505 Před 2 lety +5

    I’m not the most dedicated writer, but I think it would take anyone longer than a fuckin week to write a book. Like, even a bad book would take longer than a week

  • @Rikrobat
    @Rikrobat Před 3 lety +4

    So, going into the movie, I thought it might have been a similar trope as "The Hand that Rocks the Cradle," which is still one of my favourite movies of all time.
    It wasn't until the end of the movie when I realized the plot path was very similar to the anime movie Perfect Blue.

  • @suneblommie4549
    @suneblommie4549 Před 3 lety +11

    I remember watching this and ended up contemplating my time management. Like I honestly wasted actual time on this movie