HOW TO THRIVE AS A SINGLE MOM! TIPS FOR SINGLE MOMS + CHANGE YOUR MINDSET

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Komentáře • 102

  • @Chastidee
    @Chastidee Před 3 měsíci +62

    Society makes it a shame to be a single mother but honorable to be a single father.

    • @trophiedouglas
      @trophiedouglas  Před 3 měsíci +7

      Girl! 🙄

    • @lolitamichael6939
      @lolitamichael6939 Před 3 měsíci +1

      So true!💕🥰

    • @sixteen.candles.4644
      @sixteen.candles.4644 Před 3 měsíci +5

      This and you have a lot of women that bash single mothers as well and want to shame them to he'll and think their kids shouldn't be celebrated bc it out of wedlock. I never understood why you'd shame the person that's taking accountability. Crazy.

  • @shyabell2485
    @shyabell2485 Před 3 měsíci +38

    I know my situation isn't the same as many Mothers or people, but these tips also help with "single married" Mom's as well. Moms who deal with it all even tho they could have someone help but the person just is there not helping at all 🤦🏾‍♀️These definitely helped and made me feel motivated thank you Trophie! 💖

    • @trophiedouglas
      @trophiedouglas  Před 3 měsíci +3

      Girl! Cuz alot of people are in that situation! Smh, i’m glad they helped ❤️🥰😘

    • @felicia_rm
      @felicia_rm Před 3 měsíci +3

      Ladies… is marriage still worth it anymore??? Why are there single married moms?!!! Like?!

    • @Jessmo2543
      @Jessmo2543 Před 3 měsíci +2

      I’m in this situation, but mainly because he works long hours. His time at home is spent resting.

    • @niccenikki4898
      @niccenikki4898 Před 3 měsíci +4

      Don’t worry it will all get Better! I’ve experienced a similar circumstance. Unfortunately I had to separate and the divorce is pending! He was very lazy, didn’t want to work, left all the expenses and rent for me to figure out, mind you I was in school and working part-time! He was also abusive! Praise God I’m here and I made it through by faith! Guys he still makes little effort to assist with his daughter! Even in the marriage I was a single mother ! I did it all❤️ my daughter will be 5 soon and he still hasn’t built a proper relationship with her.. he still doesn’t work… I take care of my daughter alone!

    • @princesskitkat7061
      @princesskitkat7061 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@Jessmo2543he could still help

  • @kishaward1992
    @kishaward1992 Před 3 měsíci +26

    Not a single Mom , but I support Single Moms. Get it Trophie!

  • @andrea1fabmama951
    @andrea1fabmama951 Před 3 měsíci +5

    So true and that’s how I found you looking up them exact things about a single mom. Glad I found you. ☺️

    • @trophiedouglas
      @trophiedouglas  Před 3 měsíci

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @blckqueen6002
      @blckqueen6002 Před 3 měsíci

      Same I’m a single mom of 3 . It’s been 14 days . I feel I failed my boys 3 times smh . Feel nobody will ever take me serious . I would love marriage in the future but scared

  • @joybsun
    @joybsun Před 3 měsíci +1

    Yes please ,,,loved it ❤❤

  • @kedra626
    @kedra626 Před 3 měsíci +27

    Single mother of a now 18 year old son. Just some advice for the single mothers….ENJOY the craziness and love on your child as much as possible. One day the school drop offs stop and that little human that depended on you for everything will go off to live their own life. I have no regrets, but I do miss my son being a kid sometimes. Enjoy it, the struggle don’t last always and when it’s gone you’ll miss all the times. I look at my son now and have random breakdowns like man this crazy I have an adult now😢 but in the same token I’m so excited for him to go live his life. Okay, I’m going to go cry again now😩 lol

    • @trophiedouglas
      @trophiedouglas  Před 3 měsíci +2

      Haha thank you for your input! That’s so true! It’s hard when you’re in the moneny, but ai agree to just slow down and enjoy all the sweet moments ❤️

    • @sixteen.candles.4644
      @sixteen.candles.4644 Před 3 měsíci +2

      The struggle is real but I hear what you're saying.

    • @kedra626
      @kedra626 Před 3 měsíci

      @@sixteen.candles.4644 It’s going to be okay I promise! Best of blessings to you❤️

  • @KayWeezy317
    @KayWeezy317 Před 25 dny

    Your video was excellent. Loved it. I also have my children help with chores that are age appropriate. Children are capable of cleaning and keeping house. I have my children fold their own laundry and keep their own bedrooms clean. I don’t make them clean their rooms everyday, but they know when they finish eating to clean the table and discard of their waste, plus put their plates in the sink. Also, utilize charts they can check off to keep themselves on track, or schedule and a reward system for when they achieve something or are “caught with great behavior”. Loved your video

  • @alwaysjohns
    @alwaysjohns Před 3 měsíci +18

    Congratulations on the job! You are always a class act. Keep growing and thriving!

  • @IamTeyonaJ
    @IamTeyonaJ Před 3 měsíci +5

    Single mom of 3 here. I think the transition was easy for me since I was a single married mom but my one regret is that my kids won’t grow up in a two parent household.

  • @dellareesetaylor2243
    @dellareesetaylor2243 Před 3 měsíci +7

    Being a single Mom it's not easy but pray prayer changes things

  • @Prayerful247
    @Prayerful247 Před 3 měsíci +8

    I love you and the boys! I've been here since TJ was a baby. You're a great mom!! Congratulations on your new home and job.I believe this phase is your reward. I pray, more blessings 🎉💕💙💙

  • @fashion609
    @fashion609 Před 3 měsíci +12

    I like these type of videos def need a part 2. Im a single mom my son is 2 and his dad went ghost during pregnancy and it took a lot for me not to un alive him frfr but im a better person than I was each year and im getting better managing this mommy thang

    • @trophiedouglas
      @trophiedouglas  Před 3 měsíci +3

      Yea it can be so frustrating, cause its out of your control smh

    • @sixteen.candles.4644
      @sixteen.candles.4644 Před 3 měsíci

      Lmaoo not unalienable him 😂

    • @fashion609
      @fashion609 Před 3 měsíci

      @@sixteen.candles.4644 nah frfr that’s the best way I can put it😐😅

  • @Sonya77353
    @Sonya77353 Před 3 měsíci +9

    Hey Trophie you are a great mom continued to be strong 💪🏾

  • @patriciarobinson5172
    @patriciarobinson5172 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Hats off to you girl 👏🏽👏🏽💪🏾💪🏾 I congratulate you on a fantastic job 💯 I’m older but I loved watching you care for the boys 🤗 keep strong as always 😊

  • @ericajackson7277
    @ericajackson7277 Před 3 měsíci +8

    Im also a single mother (of a 4 year old) and all these tips are helpful! They have helped me pull through some dark times to continue thriving as a mother.

  • @D.Milton-Husaw6819
    @D.Milton-Husaw6819 Před 3 měsíci +4

    There is this stigma when it comes to single moms.I know that we only see a small portion of your life as a single mom but from what I can see you’re doing an amazing job with your boys. love your content.

  • @Nicole77890
    @Nicole77890 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Always watch your videos and relate to them as a single mom with two boys. This convo is needed. Thank you! Keep doing more of this. It’s therapeutic and let moms know you are not alone.

  • @Debra-OK1955
    @Debra-OK1955 Před 3 měsíci +8

    This is crazy, today I had a thought, that you need to give classes on this topic. I was thinking about the break-ups on CZcams. You are the most positive.

    • @trophiedouglas
      @trophiedouglas  Před 3 měsíci +10

      Thank you!❤️ like I said I always think about my kids first and I don’t ever want them to see me in a bad light on the internet etc. As much as I want to air it all out😂

  • @trenareynolds6146
    @trenareynolds6146 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Hey girl hey🙋🏾‍♀️ as a single mom you gave great tips💗💗💗💗

  • @roxybys
    @roxybys Před 3 měsíci +3

    I'm not a single mother, but your message is talking to all of us❤. Thanks for sharing

  • @tamikomcgee-conley2055
    @tamikomcgee-conley2055 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I’ve been a single mom for about 10yrs now. I’ve kept my kids busy with sports, activities, etc., GOD was ALWAYS first in our household.
    I’ve always told my kids “Never Settle” always stay positive and education. My son went to college after high school, but decided to make a different path, and I’ve always told him i was proud. Today he’s working on his own business.
    My daughter is now graduating from Spelman College, class of 2024, Suma Cum Laud, made all A’s in High school and college now she’s on her way to Law School.
    No one can tell me a single mom can’t do it.

  • @ItsCherry504
    @ItsCherry504 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Not a mother yet but is working on it (send baby dust my way) this is amazing advice for all the moms out there and done sho want to be mothers because you just never know what life throws at you. This is extremely helpful and very thoughtful of you to share your journey with us and provide your wisdom along the way ❤ much love to you girly💕

  • @doritthblake6355
    @doritthblake6355 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Hey, trophie! I remember those days with big T, and I must say I am really proud of you always being there for your kids, which is not easy .you are bless , you are a strong black woman. Continue to do your best one day it will get better

  • @skyej8074
    @skyej8074 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I needed this. My ex was ready and available when we were together but when I didn’t see a future in him he cut our kids off cold turkey. Thanks for sharing this ❤️

  • @_johnnylee3681
    @_johnnylee3681 Před 3 měsíci +6

    As a black single mother, I approve this video because I too am experiencing the same things. But having a positive attitude it does make like much more better. ❤

    • @niccenikki4898
      @niccenikki4898 Před 3 měsíci

      I definitely agree !! I definitely had to work on my relationship with God and work on building back myself after all I went through!! I’m so grateful for this video here!! 🥰🥰❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @shaunajames3238
    @shaunajames3238 Před 3 měsíci +1

    That quote is perfect☀️

  • @violakatende2306
    @violakatende2306 Před 3 měsíci +1

    You are a fantastic mom!!! Ive been watching you for years and have seen your struggle and you always come through! Blessings❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @trophiedouglas
      @trophiedouglas  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Thank you so much!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @violakatende2306
      @violakatende2306 Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@trophiedouglas blessings! Your boys will turn out great. Don’t worry! God got you

  • @jg1luvm3
    @jg1luvm3 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Troph squad 🎉🎉🎉 you’re so inspiring. Thank you Trophie for being you 💙

  • @kimberlysanaa25
    @kimberlysanaa25 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Thank you for doing this!

  • @LondonB_0fficial
    @LondonB_0fficial Před 3 měsíci +3

    Im a single mom of two boys 3 and 6 and have been for a little over 2yrs. There Father passed away. I have a harddd time asking for help! Im getting better lol but man i struggle with that! Good video Trophie! ❤️

    • @trophiedouglas
      @trophiedouglas  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Hey, i’m sorry for your loss. 💔 yes, definitely lean on your family, this may be a tough time for you and your children. I’m sure you’re overwhelmed. Take it a day at a time 😘

  • @niccenikki4898
    @niccenikki4898 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Single mother here !! Love all these tips! I really like this content Trophy 🥰🙏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I’m looking forward to the next video ❤️❤️❤️

  • @marydawkins2673
    @marydawkins2673 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Hello Trophie 👋 great video thanks for sharing!! You're a great mother keep thriving!❤ ❤

  • @feliciaeskridge7898
    @feliciaeskridge7898 Před 3 měsíci

    You go, girrrl😊. To be so honest and so perfect as a single mother is a matter. You have done everything for your boys, and so do I. I hear people talk about single mother!

  • @suencarey2477
    @suencarey2477 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Hi Trophie, Im a single mom of a 3 yrs old. Great topic. 👍

  • @cynarrasjourney5018
    @cynarrasjourney5018 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Hey Trophie 😊

  • @beebeautybri
    @beebeautybri Před 3 měsíci +1

    I agree

  • @shelocsher2396
    @shelocsher2396 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Trophie, I discovered your channel about 2yrs ago when I was expecting my first baby 💛. If I remember correctly, the boys’ Dad worked on the road so he spent a lot of time away. 1. Do you think that was a plus in adjusting to being a single Mom? and 2. Were there signs from your Ex that you overlooked that might’ve indicated he wasn’t going to stick around? Wishing you and your boys happy and healthy lives!

  • @tessa2019
    @tessa2019 Před 3 měsíci +1

    This was an amazing video trophie as a single mom I am going to take some of these tips ❤

  • @ashleygoudreault9706
    @ashleygoudreault9706 Před 3 měsíci +1

    In the process of leaving a 7 year toxic relationship. And will be the single mom life. Will be out of our home at the end of May. And will be moving 2 states away with my family. Thank you for the tips.

  • @teeandhoney7198
    @teeandhoney7198 Před 3 měsíci

    I'm not a single mom but this was very helpful for all moms. I'm def going to share this with my single mom friends. I must say Trophie you are doing an awesome job. 😊

  • @oncloudbarnes7037
    @oncloudbarnes7037 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Not a single mom but as a mom, I love this❤❤❤ #GoTrophie

  • @Lenora0724
    @Lenora0724 Před 3 měsíci +2

    This was EXTREMELY helpful! I swear you spoke to EVERYTHING I go through and needed guidance on getting through! Thank you and yes yes yes to these videos and a part 2❤😊

    • @trophiedouglas
      @trophiedouglas  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Glad it was helpful! It’s definitely coming!❤️

  • @meshap4166
    @meshap4166 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for this video. Im a single mom of a 3 year old girl and its been rough. I'm hanging in there though. I also have that book, peaceful parent, happy kids. Have yet to read it, but im gonna start it this week.

  • @derricahathaway5362
    @derricahathaway5362 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Single mom of 3 ❤❤❤Love this sm!!!

  • @sweetlondon6659
    @sweetlondon6659 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for this video my kids father made me feel like crap for ending the relationship (abusive) He told me I was going to be a single parent etc. he was good dad to his oldest son and I at least though he would show up in that way, boy was I wrong! I had a hard day today and snapped because kids were misbehaving and had been in my room crying all evening for loosing control. Needed this to snap back and move forward positively, self loathing is the devil!

  • @tashou17
    @tashou17 Před 3 měsíci

    I’ve been following you for a long time, natural hair vids until now. I’m not a mother but I can’t see that you are a good mother and doing everything you can for your boys. Some days may not be easy but you got this ❤❤❤ @trophie douglas

  • @Debra-OK1955
    @Debra-OK1955 Před 3 měsíci +3

    ❤❤❤

  • @NOLIFEWITHOUTMUSIC1
    @NOLIFEWITHOUTMUSIC1 Před 3 měsíci

    Hey Trophie! Have you watched Gracie's Corner on CZcams with the boys? My neice and I love to dance to this. She learns, and I can work out to it.

  • @Mrs.Spencer
    @Mrs.Spencer Před 3 měsíci +1

    Single mom of 2 toddler boys here✍️. Couldn't wait to get off work and put this video on

  • @dellareesetaylor2243
    @dellareesetaylor2243 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Just Love your kids, because they are a Gife from God

  • @Ashley-dt2gz
    @Ashley-dt2gz Před 3 měsíci +2

    Heyy!

  • @YasminDan
    @YasminDan Před 3 měsíci +1

    your videos are soo good! id lovee to be youtube friends :D

  • @lavish169
    @lavish169 Před 3 měsíci +1

    You are so amazing inside and out! Didn’t watch the video yet. But I’m ready for you to be scooped up. Open yourself up to love and find you a DADDY for the home.

    • @trophiedouglas
      @trophiedouglas  Před 3 měsíci

      Girl, im ready!!!

    • @fall3nable
      @fall3nable Před 3 měsíci +1

      ​@trophiedouglas becareful sis. Hopefully u find a man with good intentions cause too many predators prey on "ready" single moms 😢

    • @trophiedouglas
      @trophiedouglas  Před 3 měsíci

      Very true!

  • @sexynicolew
    @sexynicolew Před 3 měsíci +3

    Trophie thank you so much for this. I’m a single mom with my first kid (3 y.o) and it’s a struggle and overwhelming.

    • @trophiedouglas
      @trophiedouglas  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Girl I totally get it, take it a day at a time and try to find the positive in everything❤️ I know its hard, but we got this!

  • @lolitamichael6939
    @lolitamichael6939 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Troph, you’re a wonderful mom and it’s so nice of you to encourage other moms!♥️🥰🌹

  • @myrnaj4502
    @myrnaj4502 Před 3 měsíci +3

    ❤❤❤