What does a husband offer when he's broke

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  • čas přidán 4. 12. 2023
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Komentáře • 95

  • @IAmWizdom1000
    @IAmWizdom1000 Před 5 měsíci +87

    lol Uzi getting cuddles to listen to Beleaf’s stomach is hilarious!😂😂😂😂

  • @johndomhodge8947
    @johndomhodge8947 Před 5 měsíci +42

    “I thought it was Yvette “ 😂❤ Precious

  • @Daughter.of.Yahweh.
    @Daughter.of.Yahweh. Před 5 měsíci +77

    Baby girl is soo stinkin cute and very well spoken she’s going to be so emotionally intelligent when she’s older love that❤

  • @ronjelaberaud7087
    @ronjelaberaud7087 Před 5 měsíci +59

    “Marry the mission not the plan “ I love that!!! This statement can be applied to any situation.

  • @Akilahh
    @Akilahh Před 5 měsíci +187

    “You know me, I love love” is my new motto for 2024 😭🥹 loved this episode 🥰

    • @OMGitsTEETEE
      @OMGitsTEETEE Před 5 měsíci +10

      That was so precious!

    • @GodsChildLtd
      @GodsChildLtd Před 5 měsíci +9

      I was now coming to type this 😂

    • @delle3955
      @delle3955 Před 5 měsíci +7

      ❤😂 Seriously, I’m taking this with me for life!🥰

    • @JasmineaJoseph
      @JasmineaJoseph Před 5 měsíci +3

      SAME. 😂😂😭🤍

    • @yolz555
      @yolz555 Před 5 měsíci +1

      ❤❤❤❤

  • @shawnacieh7156
    @shawnacieh7156 Před 5 měsíci +36

    She is so confused about your name 😂 So cute

  • @PatriciaPatricia_
    @PatriciaPatricia_ Před 5 měsíci +29

    “You know me. I love love” was so incredibly profound we NEED shirts. I’ve never felt so seen in my big ole age !❤❤❤

  • @handmade2718
    @handmade2718 Před 5 měsíci +10

    Mrs Melanin's singing voice❤. What?!🎉

  • @Wintersno
    @Wintersno Před 5 měsíci +20

    period, a word! the babies are soooo wise, "I can't stop growing!"

  • @alanakemp7664
    @alanakemp7664 Před 5 měsíci +10

    There is no such thing as a broke husband... only a broke married couple. Marriage merges funds. It is refered to as household earnings, heads of household, etc. A broke husband is an ex husband

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Your finances aren't merged unless you merge them.

  • @TheHarrisFour
    @TheHarrisFour Před 5 měsíci +9

    Liability was a good word. Children are a blessing but also a liability.

  • @godislove3593
    @godislove3593 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Niya is so pretty. Just like her mom.

  • @jadenmitchell8367
    @jadenmitchell8367 Před 5 měsíci +37

    Thankyou so much for responding to our email and for the advice ! This video really made our day. We love y'all and pray the best for y'all ❤!

  • @kwbnsika
    @kwbnsika Před 5 měsíci +5

    Why am I ROTF at the thumbnail? 😂

  • @recipebandit3563
    @recipebandit3563 Před 5 měsíci +21

    😊. Enjoyed having Anaya join the pod. She's the sweetest little girl. Blessings

  • @KISSwithNatty
    @KISSwithNatty Před 5 měsíci +9

    19:37 Not me rewinding this part 3x to catch the spelled out words lol 😅🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @webarmceachnie3382
    @webarmceachnie3382 Před 5 měsíci +17

    Blessings from Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹

  • @natashacampbell1768
    @natashacampbell1768 Před 4 měsíci +4

    I miss Glen doing ‘food for thought’ in season 1 BiF because the meals looked amazing and we could reflect 😅😂. Please keep cooking!

  • @OMGitsTEETEE
    @OMGitsTEETEE Před 5 měsíci +12

    Ngl I appreciate y’all reminding us to “like” the videos bc I legit forget 😅😮‍💨

    • @JustShannaBE
      @JustShannaBE Před 5 měsíci

      And seem I am not there in the video yet, lol but this comment made me remember to do it 😂

  • @whenyouwishuponastar6643
    @whenyouwishuponastar6643 Před 5 měsíci +25

    The couple on the email is on great path. Their Hearts are both in the right place. Im in this position, my husband is getting his masters degree in a great field. Now, he still works and pays bills, but right now I am able to make more, I don’t mind contributing more because I know my husband is working hard to provide for us in a better capacity, I’m looking forward to only working part time when we have kids 😊. My advice for this young man is to try and treat his wife even if he can’t spend money. Offer her a back rub, cook her dinner. Make her feel appreciate and remind her that the roles will reverse. And like beleaf said, don’t be afraid to take breaks because you’re working hard as well. You and your wife are a team.

    • @maiamiimaiam4343
      @maiamiimaiam4343 Před 5 měsíci +4

      When you have children, his children all the money you're contributing to y'alls house should start being invested in you guys children. Do not let him make you feel like he is doing you a favor by paying bills he'd have either way. Lol unless he changes his mind about children cause girl he will be saving

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Před 4 měsíci

      Be sure to have that post-grad plan in writing or something (record the conversation... something!)

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Also, it is almost 2024... Why does a man who's married need to be told to cook & serve? 🤨🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @lexxlovelyness
    @lexxlovelyness Před 4 měsíci +5

    15:52 this is a good opportunity for him to push through and show his wife all tht his manhood has to offer . Finance is one aspect but there are endless ways for you to show up for your wife in your own manly way. Again, this is an opportunity for you to curate/show up/BE.. the best, greatest, provider (in other ways). Do ya thing keep ya head up and focused on who you are. Not sure though.. kinda lost it lol

  • @dillonhall3344
    @dillonhall3344 Před 5 měsíci +4

    God bless daughters nothing like a daughter.

  • @mstmklry
    @mstmklry Před 5 měsíci +2

    “You know me, I love love”💕☺️

  • @cyberbunny-hj9ii
    @cyberbunny-hj9ii Před 25 dny

    I struggle with a lot of these concepts because all of this SOUNDS good but the bills is due now? 😂 I as a fiancée have always been ready to do whatever for mine - I can’t relate to the “Whatever he wants to do. When he desires…at his pace. His wife is probably fine.” Lol

  • @deb5thmitch
    @deb5thmitch Před 5 měsíci +3

    Don’t believe in what he or she can do. Have faith and trust in what God has for you. Seek his wisdom for your life’s journey first.

  • @marybrown6185
    @marybrown6185 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Engineering can be really hard. Tutoring and joining campus clubs e.g. NSBE, IEEE, etc. helped tremendously. Networking with classmates and going to office hours to get a handle on the material goes far.

  • @LouLou-ti1yc
    @LouLou-ti1yc Před 5 měsíci +5

    Anaya(spell check lol) is so cute. Thank you for the prayer Yvette. I've been praying for things I want for him or things i THINK he wants, I think a more effective prayer is for what is in his heart, what will make him excited for the day.

  • @Monique-py5ny
    @Monique-py5ny Před 5 měsíci +3

    Anaya is a beautiful child!

  • @teflon1920
    @teflon1920 Před 5 měsíci

    Great episode, as always! Happy Holidays!

  • @Anekablooms
    @Anekablooms Před 5 měsíci +1

    This episode is goooold !

  • @hoodhippie7117
    @hoodhippie7117 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Awwwwwww we deserved this !!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @tamikamorrisonokeleke5328
    @tamikamorrisonokeleke5328 Před 5 měsíci

    Great episode! I needed this perspective. Very insightful! 👏🏾 ❤

  • @TDBee09
    @TDBee09 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Hello from Colorado! 💕

  • @tracy-annrobinson4559
    @tracy-annrobinson4559 Před 5 měsíci +8

    Love listening to your podcast

  • @lashawn369
    @lashawn369 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Checking in from the DMV.

  • @Faithy100
    @Faithy100 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I thoroughly enjoyed this episode!!❤

  • @tameka3760
    @tameka3760 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Very sound advice you guys.

  • @joyfullychosen1771
    @joyfullychosen1771 Před 4 měsíci

    What an amazing family. My, my, my.

  • @JaieElizabeth
    @JaieElizabeth Před 5 měsíci +1

    😂 “I can’t stop growing.”

  • @ABCampbell7
    @ABCampbell7 Před 5 měsíci +5

    Insightful, entertaining and encouraging conversation and content as always!

  • @julieulreich2156
    @julieulreich2156 Před 4 měsíci +1

    You are both so wise! I love your podcast. ❤

  • @vee2times628
    @vee2times628 Před 3 měsíci

    Awww I love her being in with y’all ❤❤😂😂😂😂 she’s to cute

  • @julietcapito8312
    @julietcapito8312 Před 5 měsíci

    Love it that its the guy asking for advice. That's not common.

  • @crystalphillips696
    @crystalphillips696 Před 4 měsíci

    Love your glasses Yvette.

  • @duduzilekelem5712
    @duduzilekelem5712 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Water is life. Mac n cheese are calories😂

  • @Chloe.84collins
    @Chloe.84collins Před 5 měsíci +2

    HI! FROM DETROIT ❤

  • @LiyaZuluM
    @LiyaZuluM Před 3 měsíci +1

    I love Anaya's hair

  • @shaquitaburke8592
    @shaquitaburke8592 Před 3 měsíci

    Yvette has a beautiful voice!

  • @nathancarter1082
    @nathancarter1082 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Beautiful family.... love drips from your family. May God bless and protect your family forever

  • @KenDEE447
    @KenDEE447 Před 3 měsíci

    You have a Beautiful voice Ms. Melanin

  • @AnyasHeart
    @AnyasHeart Před 5 měsíci +4

    One of my favourite couples I have your family up on my vision board ❤❤❤

  • @user-ix3qp9gy3c
    @user-ix3qp9gy3c Před 3 měsíci

    Uzi my guy. I just love him 😂

  • @AlieshiaTV
    @AlieshiaTV Před 5 měsíci +1

    lol she said that’s your name 😂😂😂

  • @arleneliftschrist6240
    @arleneliftschrist6240 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Haahhahaha the beggining 😂

  • @rasta487
    @rasta487 Před 5 měsíci

    Wow so talented and cool 😎

  • @monetismymiddlename
    @monetismymiddlename Před 5 měsíci

    I’m kinda grown 😂 IM CRYING

  • @Trisha81
    @Trisha81 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Water can't really compete with mac & cheese though 😂

  • @IncorruptibleSeedpodWithE
    @IncorruptibleSeedpodWithE Před 5 měsíci

    Marriage vows say it all,

  • @tammieyancey13
    @tammieyancey13 Před 5 měsíci +4

    I feel like it depends on the age of the couple.

  • @everlastingjoypodcast
    @everlastingjoypodcast Před 4 měsíci

    Y’all got that baby so confused 😂

  • @thelaolueffect
    @thelaolueffect Před 5 měsíci +1

    5:54 electric car?

  • @DR.WISDOM444
    @DR.WISDOM444 Před 5 měsíci

    SUCCESS FOR THE CHICKEN WAS CROSSING THE ROAD:)

  • @msnola915
    @msnola915 Před 4 měsíci

    I love your podcast‼️ I listen me there‼️

  • @DR.WISDOM444
    @DR.WISDOM444 Před 5 měsíci

    ITS SIMPLY SUCCESS FOR THE INJURED PERSON IS RECOVERING:)…

  • @arleneliftschrist6240
    @arleneliftschrist6240 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Hahahahaha she needs to be a regular hahaha

  • @723BossLady
    @723BossLady Před 5 měsíci

  • @lexxlovelyness
    @lexxlovelyness Před 4 měsíci

    Look at how older and beautiful Anaya looks on that thumbnail

  • @marioanalevy
    @marioanalevy Před 2 měsíci

    I miss all the adilibs you used to add on the intro

  • @Wintersno
    @Wintersno Před 5 měsíci

    kind grown! lol

  • @justaservant8120
    @justaservant8120 Před 5 měsíci +2

    How do you follow God and your ancestors?..

  • @thejones222
    @thejones222 Před 5 měsíci +4

    16:55 the camera is switching angles a little too much 😵‍💫

  • @jmladygodsgrace2788
    @jmladygodsgrace2788 Před 5 měsíci

    😂❤😊

  • @mitchellword7837
    @mitchellword7837 Před 5 měsíci

    Why are our greatest black symbols two things completely outside our control? Money and institutional education.

    • @doll.ov.poetrii4682
      @doll.ov.poetrii4682 Před 4 měsíci

      Very true!

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Před 4 měsíci

      They're in our control enough for us to have more men taking advantage. Otherwise, you should be in the front lines of a socialist organization

  • @victorianameneverner6271
    @victorianameneverner6271 Před 4 měsíci

    Hi Anaya

  • @DR.WISDOM444
    @DR.WISDOM444 Před 5 měsíci

    & THE KEY 3KEYS TO A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP =GOD1ST =PASSIONATE LOVE & SAME MISSION FOUNDATION/SIMULAR INTEREST:)…BONNY/CLYDE

  • @lindaf6274
    @lindaf6274 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I LOVE this couple!!! Reminds me of me and my late husband’s relationship🥹, working things out logistically. Good convo, good stuff! God continue to bless and increase y’all.❤❤❤❤