The Azonwus Talk Conflict w/ the Perrys

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  • čas přidán 14. 04. 2024
  • Take a jouney with the Azonwus and the Perry's as they navigate the difficult conversation of navigating conflict as friends and couples,
    Please bear with the audio. We had faulty equipment.

Komentáře • 277

  • @Weneed2talktv
    @Weneed2talktv  Před měsícem +668

    Please forgive the audio, it was due to faulty equipment. We were faced with either dumping this episode and the last one, but we chose to post because we thought the convos were worth it. Sorry again. Thx for watching ☺️

    • @AllAboutYve
      @AllAboutYve Před měsícem +43

      Thanks for putting edification above ego. This was such a good convo and so needed!! Thank you ❤

    • @mrschosen
      @mrschosen Před měsícem +12

      You all made what you were saying so much louder than the issues! Powerful Session! 🖤🖤🖤🖤

    • @tayshiemharperify
      @tayshiemharperify Před měsícem +6

      Thank you for this and your hard work ❤️💪🏽

    • @angied7206
      @angied7206 Před měsícem +13

      We're okay with ya'll sounding like you're in the school hallway or in the restroom😂 I so enjoy when my faves colab and have a great convo!! Much enjoyed❤😊

    • @WilliamsPinch
      @WilliamsPinch Před měsícem +4

      Made the right decision! We rock with y’all regardless 🫶🏼

  • @sovlspiceec4013
    @sovlspiceec4013 Před měsícem +395

    Naaaa. Everytime we see Jackie she gets more & more beautiful. God is so good! It’s amazing to see Him restore her femininity within each passing year. Thank you Jesus!! 💖

    • @AllAboutYve
      @AllAboutYve Před měsícem +20

      She definitely has a glow to her. That Holy Spirit shine! 😍

    • @Miss_DaniD
      @Miss_DaniD Před měsícem +17

      Amen. I noticed that too.
      I see God's beauty in everything, and one day I was watching With Perry's and thought to myself, "It's heart-warming to see Jackie embrace her beauty and femininity" She's a naturally beautiful woman. May the Lord continue to bless her ministry, her, and family.
      As well continue blessing the Azonwu Family

    • @godschild2432
      @godschild2432 Před 29 dny +6

      She looks like Lauren hill too. Black beauty

    • @cynthiabeard2016
      @cynthiabeard2016 Před 29 dny +1

      Lauren Hill & Jackie Hill Perry share some of the same spirit, and could be related!

    • @Camille-st6mz
      @Camille-st6mz Před 27 dny +6

      I agree with feminity. She has literally evolved

  • @camb2810
    @camb2810 Před 28 dny +88

    Preston is so gentle with Jackie.

    • @lenalee5939
      @lenalee5939 Před 25 dny +3

      Very ❤

    • @Miss_DaniD
      @Miss_DaniD Před 17 dny +8

      I see that too. Isn't so beautiful to see how God writes people's love story, and we are able to see the physical embodiment of it, by the way they behave with and treat one another?
      This is so heartwarming ❤

    • @Dawn-vx9dh
      @Dawn-vx9dh Před 17 dny +3

      I love Preston!!! He gives it up straight, no chaser.😅

  • @lois8194
    @lois8194 Před měsícem +162

    When Preston said people try so hard to be peace keepers instead of peace makers, Yh that was 🔥

  • @priscillamarcia4081
    @priscillamarcia4081 Před měsícem +282

    Honestly the audio didn’t even bother me. I was into the conversation.

  • @lawrencemanley4401
    @lawrencemanley4401 Před měsícem +40

    "Getting something off of your chest for you vs getting something off your chest to create peace"
    Wow

  • @zakiaamos6564
    @zakiaamos6564 Před měsícem +68

    A WORD: “For us to allow people to move in error alongside us, are we not in agreement?” 😮‍💨

  • @nicolechavez6981
    @nicolechavez6981 Před měsícem +119

    Im paying attention, but The top of Preston’s hat reminds me of a baby bottle pop for some reason, If ykyk .

  • @4LADYSWEET
    @4LADYSWEET Před měsícem +66

    I love to hear GODLY couples who are young and relatable, but are truly SAVED. May you all please continue to come together and share your stories and experiences about relationships and being vulnerable with others ❤

  • @WilliamsPinch
    @WilliamsPinch Před měsícem +66

    Jackie’s new ring is 🔥
    Preston did so well!
    And my God, all y’all are so beautiful.

    • @debbie3996
      @debbie3996 Před měsícem +4

      That ring is shining!!! Preston did well

  • @nothandomagagula6462
    @nothandomagagula6462 Před měsícem +114

    They are aware of the sound... they did put a disclaimer 🫠🫣.... I don't think it's helpful to keep saying it😬.... I come in peace🙌🏾
    I loved the conversation ❤

  • @nursed.porchae990
    @nursed.porchae990 Před měsícem +79

    I love this because at my big big age I'm still navigating how to properly deal with conflict.

  • @makeupmyday5276
    @makeupmyday5276 Před 16 dny +8

    Jackie is so WISE!! The wisdom God gave her is just wow !

  • @deirdres.thomas7913
    @deirdres.thomas7913 Před 25 dny +18

    Rely on the Holy Spirit for boldness because if you rely on yourself you'll either be a fool or a coward and God rejects both of them. 🔥🔥🔥

  • @charmingxx4988
    @charmingxx4988 Před měsícem +25

    I just love how the women are listening and admiring their men 😍

  • @AbbiePeaceMaker
    @AbbiePeaceMaker Před 25 dny +21

    This is so so good!
    We are not called to be nice. We are called to be righteous (that envelopes kindness and gentleness and patience and all the good stuff that God gifts us).
    Not trying to be a peace keeper, trying to be a peace maker! 🎉

  • @teresanunn3793
    @teresanunn3793 Před 19 dny +15

    I enjoyed hearing this conversation. I think friendship is important in a marriage. I was married for over 20 plus years, I thought we were friends. He left me for someone else that he felt a closer friendship towards. Even when you have a strong friendship, if The Father is not at the center of the marriage, and someone is trying to get their needs met apart from the Lord, the marriage cannot sustain. We make our needs idols, and thereby, making them a “god”. He left for a stronger friendship, someone that he felt he had more in common with but in order to get that, he disposed of his faith and turned his heart from the Lord. It’s heartbreaking. Marriage requires a lot especially when trying to do it Gods way.

    • @lmichelle80sbaby
      @lmichelle80sbaby Před 6 dny +2

      Im so sorry to read this. I cant imagine the grief. I just pray you believe that God is still GOOD & "Broken Crayons Still Color", forreal 💗🤗

  • @Ittakes365
    @Ittakes365 Před měsícem +21

    I’m glad there are black married couples that are going strong and have these insightful, informative conversations. I love to see it and hear what you have to say about not just the recycled versions of marital questions 🙌🏽 guidance to health relationships 😍

  • @LuCALIFORNIA-ou8ze
    @LuCALIFORNIA-ou8ze Před měsícem +34

    I saw a side of Preston I never saw before in this video. I like his languages

  • @GodFirstInallthings
    @GodFirstInallthings Před měsícem +27

    Peace keepers vs. peace makers.....wow!!! I never heard that point of view.

  • @missm3993
    @missm3993 Před měsícem +55

    The whole thing was great and I enjoyed it thoroughly! Excellent questions! (The audio didn't bother me at all and wasn't even distracting. People are too finicky - it's really not that deep.) The conversation was helpful, edifying, and enlightening and the added humour was the icing on the cake. Thanks guys!

  • @jssberry
    @jssberry Před měsícem +10

    "Are you getting something off your chest so that YOU can feel better? Or are you getting something off your chest so that we can have peace?" #OUCH 👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾
    Let me tell you something--Jackie is going to get some Word in there SOMEWHERE! I LOVE it!!

  • @latifahosho6869
    @latifahosho6869 Před měsícem +13

    Jackie is so beautiful. The love is real in this podcast between couples and friends. I really enjoyed this podcast.

  • @lifeofannbianca
    @lifeofannbianca Před měsícem +23

    The end had me in tears 🤣🤣
    Also I love how Jackie femininity is coming out lately.. I here for it.
    This podcast was everything and more.

  • @crazedlovve
    @crazedlovve Před 26 dny +6

    Most people want to be peacekeepers but not peacemakers 🔥🔥

  • @LadyDami
    @LadyDami Před měsícem +18

    Preston is such a great guy!!! God bless you and Jackie!! Jackie ❤️ is equally awesome❤

  • @solutions.03
    @solutions.03 Před 15 dny +6

    22:40 This segment on conflict in relationships and dissolving conflicts is something that isn't emphasized enough especially in the Christian community.
    It's hard, it's messy, it's uncomfortable but it's needed... Because growth always arises regardless of the way the conflict is solved (i.e. Either you grow together or you grow apart)
    As for The Perrys, I love their dynamic as a couple and i think that this is a result of allowing themselves to grow through conflict as One Flesh (and separate characters/personalities as well). May GOD give them more grace🙌
    GOD bless y'all (@TheAzonwus) for this timely and wholesome interview 🥹❤️

  • @loretta4693
    @loretta4693 Před měsícem +60

    This is how I know I like all of your content generally. I’m travailing through this audio.

    • @MarisJanette
      @MarisJanette Před měsícem +2

      Right lol idk if I can finish it. The sound 😅

    • @loretta4693
      @loretta4693 Před měsícem +8

      Travail 😂. It does improve. Also, the content in the improved part is worth the battle. I took a break & came back.

    • @A.isforAmara
      @A.isforAmara Před měsícem

      😭😭😭

    • @Debonairful
      @Debonairful Před měsícem

      eyooooo that's hilarious. hahaha

  • @tamara35758
    @tamara35758 Před měsícem +31

    @JackieHillPerry please don’t say you’re going to get rid of your beautiful gap?

  • @QueenZsWorld
    @QueenZsWorld Před měsícem +17

    I'm digging this new background! I spy a fiddle leaf fig behind Jackie & it reminded me to water my plants lol thanks for sharing this episode with your friends 😁
    edit: the "LIAR" part CRACKED ME UP!!! I really appreciate how all of you really just laugh together. Sending some love to Jackie, your personality is similar to mine so I definitely end up taking your side in the podcast lol but all of you are wonderful. I'm learning through watching all of your content. I also love how warm the Azonwu's are to ALL their guests. they're like two rays of sunshine, I'm sure all of your kids are mini-sunshines because of it. and Preston is cool too! You're all spending time with the Father, I can tell. The tenderness you all look at each other with, the respect, the love, assuming good intent of each other, trusting each other with this convo... it's clearly a friendship where the Holy Spirit resides. Maybe I'll be more vocal about my appreciation of your personalities, I didn't realize that Jackie feels she gets dragged in her comment section a lot because I genuinely see both her & Preston as loving, hilarious, imperfectly perfect HUMAN people. Much love.

  • @Dr.AlexandriaWatson
    @Dr.AlexandriaWatson Před měsícem +8

    Thank you for still posting this! 😊

  • @dejaxleigh
    @dejaxleigh Před měsícem +12

    Lol I am like Preston. I like to take “confrontation” head on. I want to make sure we’re on the same page as I am often misunderstood. Which is annoying. Lol

  • @blissfulmom21
    @blissfulmom21 Před měsícem +2

    Absolutely amazing! Thank you all for your vulnerability and authenticity! ❤

  • @faddtayo
    @faddtayo Před 26 dny +2

    This is such a powerful conversion. I needed to hear this rn

  • @ashdontwearprada
    @ashdontwearprada Před měsícem +15

    I truly enjoyed this conversation! The Azonwus & The Perry’s…amazing combination💕
    side note:audio was not that bad.

  • @Xbox3133
    @Xbox3133 Před 29 dny +4

    Its so crazy that we only think of false peace in the way of temptations being satisfied. But I’ve never thought of false peace in the way of avoiding conflict and being a “peacekeeper”. Grea✝️ podcas✝️ yall🫶🏾

  • @aliciahill2801
    @aliciahill2801 Před měsícem +2

    This was sooo good! Thank you.

  • @lafemmefabrice5031
    @lafemmefabrice5031 Před 27 dny +4

    It’s so important to have friends in Christ… wewww child

  • @faithwambui9283
    @faithwambui9283 Před měsícem +12

    Thank you for this!!I love that you still chose to share it despite the audio issues. We know you are excellent people so even though the audio is not perfect...The message and lessons are well received❤

  • @TylynnMusic
    @TylynnMusic Před měsícem +2

    Great discussion! Thank you all once again for your honesty and vulnerability

  • @fiyinaladesuyi9830
    @fiyinaladesuyi9830 Před 29 dny +3

    Just found this channel, and I'm thankful I did. This was gold, audio quality bad or not, so thank God you posted regardless. ❤

  • @reneejackson5461
    @reneejackson5461 Před měsícem

    This was such a great talk! I learned so much and just at the right time in my life. Definitely worthy of a rewatch with my notebook!

  • @janey_oge8865
    @janey_oge8865 Před měsícem +4

    Yaay!!! All my favorite people in one room ❤❤
    God bless and keep you all

  • @commonsensetoyou
    @commonsensetoyou Před měsícem +7

    This was so good and edifying. The last parts were hilarious. Two of my favorite internet couples. Thank you for letting God use you.

  • @c.j.promiseland6456
    @c.j.promiseland6456 Před měsícem +10

    I listen with earbuds and the content was so helpful, I didn't trip over the audio.

  • @djquill3303
    @djquill3303 Před 29 dny

    Great conversation! Thank you for posting!

  • @jashawndathompson5059
    @jashawndathompson5059 Před měsícem +5

    This was so good and wholesome 🫶🏽

  • @mrschosen
    @mrschosen Před měsícem +1

    I SO love this with all you guys. This is like the cutest thing I've seen all year! ❤ All of your wisdom and well-formed Godly love for each other❤️‍🔥🖤

  • @kimerapatricia3371
    @kimerapatricia3371 Před 29 dny

    Thank you for this insight

  • @adebolaakindele6115
    @adebolaakindele6115 Před měsícem +34

    Been waiting on a feature with the Perrys!!!😂🎉

    • @latashalewis873
      @latashalewis873 Před měsícem +1

      Me too

    • @4LADYSWEET
      @4LADYSWEET Před měsícem +2

      Same! I love hearing God’s word honored and blessed from relatable people. May the world be drawn to a closer relationship with Jesus Christ and salvation be restored before his return 🙏🏽❤️

    • @kressten
      @kressten Před měsícem +1

      Both these couples are wise❤️ worth taking a listen!

  • @yamielbell
    @yamielbell Před 28 dny +1

    Im just minutes in and this is excellent information already!

  • @SumayaUnveiled
    @SumayaUnveiled Před měsícem +3

    I love this channel! Great convo 🎙️🔥🔥🔥

  • @jamiehigh924
    @jamiehigh924 Před měsícem +4

    This is so good. It is not peace to cover up everything in order to keep the peace.

  • @LeeAnnHawkins7
    @LeeAnnHawkins7 Před 22 dny

    This blessed my whole soul!!!!! Been a disciple, from a distance, of the Perry’s for a while and I love them! Now a subscriber of the Azonwus! I appreciate and am thankful for the vulnerability, boldness, love and wisdom in this conversation.
    I can’t wait to see more!
    I need those question cards too please!!
    ❤️

  • @nataleeparkes7878
    @nataleeparkes7878 Před 29 dny

    I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation. Very insightful

  • @MiriamA22
    @MiriamA22 Před měsícem +5

    So good!

  • @thezencare
    @thezencare Před měsícem +2

    Wow!!!! This!!!...thank you so much JESUS❤❤

  • @chrisanderson5342
    @chrisanderson5342 Před měsícem +2

    First 13 minutes of this is 🔥 I am in my second year of marriage, God centered marriage, and I agree fully with Preston! My wife has 3 different autoimmune diseases and day to day she is often in a sour mood or just kinda having a sore look on her face as she should, she has it pretty rough with the different things. But me I’m very happy go lucky, the grace of God is so special and I feel it every day from how far I’ve come from my passed life. So when I see her upset I struggle seeing her “moody” or whatever it looks like when I’m always on a weird high. That mood she is in radiates to my mood and to put it into perspective I know it’s hard for her and I get selfish that it spills over into my mood. It is such a weird dynamic. But thank you so much for these talks! My brother in law and I traveled to New York and took a train to Philly and walked to your we need to talk your! I’m blessed by your content, God is moving through you guys! Keep it up!

  • @Peace.Harrison-O
    @Peace.Harrison-O Před 29 dny

    Loved this!!!!

  • @winnienyameba
    @winnienyameba Před měsícem +10

    Did anyone notice when Jackie started to get comfortable?

  • @paf2587
    @paf2587 Před měsícem +5

    Jackie’s ring is BEAUTIFUL. Good upgrade Preston!!!

  • @nyambolillie4284
    @nyambolillie4284 Před měsícem

    Love it here ❤

  • @BLKButterflyByLarz
    @BLKButterflyByLarz Před 27 dny +1

    Completely here! Psalm 1 has been a serious conviction for me! I like the idea of in love asking/talking about deficiencies biblically in terms of fruit bearing it’s very healthy 👏🏾

  • @panatsolo2432
    @panatsolo2432 Před 5 dny

    I can never get tired of listening the Perrys

  • @MiriamA22
    @MiriamA22 Před měsícem +13

    Beautiful hat Jackie you look great

  • @summerreign044
    @summerreign044 Před 12 dny

    ❤ WOW! This whole conversation is just wow. I'm here for it and Preston; all the gems. 😊 🎉

  • @leeleelove4159
    @leeleelove4159 Před měsícem +3

    just 30 mins in.
    This is so good 😩🔥✨

  • @nancyelonga7519
    @nancyelonga7519 Před 28 dny +3

    Powerful convo ❤ God bless y’all

  • @vernelldees6056
    @vernelldees6056 Před 10 dny

    Great conversation, wonderful insights! Lovin’ your hat Jackie.

  • @tawandamickens6983
    @tawandamickens6983 Před měsícem

    I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS 🤞🏿

  • @alysiamarion
    @alysiamarion Před dnem

    Watched this right after watching the power of agreement where Sarah Jakes talked about conflict. And the way that the spirit is on the same page is wild! Grateful for this convo

  • @victorianwakaegonwachukwu3856
    @victorianwakaegonwachukwu3856 Před měsícem +1

    Kaiyana speaks so softly. Thanks for sharing this.

  • @savagebull9183
    @savagebull9183 Před 19 dny

    This was so good❤️ this was authentic and raw!

  • @reneejackson5461
    @reneejackson5461 Před měsícem +2

    Ooooo *pauses clip• rolls into comments* yallll!!! when Jackie leaned in and acknowledged mommy hurt!! It’s not talked about enough. Love this bold woman of God! *play

  • @shantaatkins
    @shantaatkins Před měsícem +2

    Loving this podcast so much thus far.
    Being defensive is not love, it’s arrogance.
    🔥🔥🔥

  • @annmarieparisi276
    @annmarieparisi276 Před měsícem

    Excellent conversation....I also think that discernment in all cases is key because there are people in our midst--who we will ultimately find we are not equally yoked with and the door needs to shut...not everyone is coming to the table with a pure heart and there are peopkle who label themselves as friends who have deep rooted jealousy

  • @dianewashington505
    @dianewashington505 Před měsícem

    I loved this ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @simonesherron7921
    @simonesherron7921 Před měsícem +3

    I was waiting for Preston to say the scripture yesssss but I got yall it was Apostle John who was writing about Jesus and His love for people!
    John 15:13
    "Greater love has no one than this: lay down ones life for ones friends"
    Sooo good 🔥🔥🔥 I had read this scripture by myself and said Jesus wants us to lay down our ego our self esteem essentially everything yall were saying "die" in order to truly love our friends as Jesus did for us and as Jesus says ""you are my friends so do as I command." So good 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @barbaracarey2464
    @barbaracarey2464 Před 29 dny

    Both couples are absolutely beautiful❤ I love to glean and take wisdom from both couples. This was a great podcast.

  • @sugwilliams6257
    @sugwilliams6257 Před 25 dny +1

    19 minutes in & want you guys to know I thank you for sharing your lives and testimonials, also I'm proud of you all for being God seekers and pleasers, His wisdom is evident and it's encouraging 😘😘😘😘

  • @pdavis795
    @pdavis795 Před měsícem

    This was a good conversation. At the end of the day, we are responsible for how we respond. We can’t control another. Applying the lessons of Yeshuah definitely helps. The Bible is a great manual.

  • @marhamdezigns5981
    @marhamdezigns5981 Před 22 dny

    I just love the honest and open conversation, the level of vulnerability is so refreshing to see. I pray that more Christian , open up and have just basic and honest conversation like this👏👏👏.

  • @medicineandlife-zs1fe
    @medicineandlife-zs1fe Před měsícem

    I love these four ❤❤❤❤, may God keep you all.

  • @MsHoneyBeezShop
    @MsHoneyBeezShop Před měsícem

    I love this convo 💯

  • @KashJ7
    @KashJ7 Před dnem

    Really enjoyed this podcast and enjoying the channel

  • @rachelletheoc531
    @rachelletheoc531 Před 21 dnem +1

    I almost screamed laughing 🤣 🤣 🤣 when Jackie's husband said she was shocked to see a hood dude interested in animals

  • @iamtaqui
    @iamtaqui Před 29 dny +4

    I clicked on this bc I’ve haven’t seen both couples together in a minute but what I got was so much more. Literally am dealing with how to handle conflicts right now in my family! So grateful for all the points that was made so far .
    -Aroggnace with people addressing conflict with you and you responding back with retaliation
    -Choosing to kill yourself to hear how others feel
    -Not running from the hard but towards it and having vulnerability because that’s actual intimacy and love!
    It’s just so funny cus I posted all of this on threads before clicking on video😮39:55

  • @bettywright4338
    @bettywright4338 Před 29 dny

    I really enjoyed this interview, it was authentic, especially Jackie's demeanor and her ability to be serious when needed, even though everyone was good ❤

  • @evelynkissi884
    @evelynkissi884 Před 20 dny

    Thank you. Just thank you. Persons in love with God, Jesus, Holy Spirit and loving each other. Thank you.

  • @Clemarhin
    @Clemarhin Před 22 dny

    This conversation is very fruitful because you can tell their advice is coming from experience of how the Holy Spirit has shaped them over the years. I heard someone say that when you pray for patience , God is not going to supernaturally gift you with patience, He will put obstacles in your way to train you on how to be patient. Thanks for this! It’s a blessing to witness this Goldy example in these times.

  • @melodyellysse4377
    @melodyellysse4377 Před 28 dny

    “That’s so good”. I learned that phrase from you all🤗.. It’s Sabbath & this has served as my sermon for today…😇😇👏
    Until the game… I’ll def. watch it later though.

  • @nonny4291
    @nonny4291 Před měsícem

    My fav, the Perrys and the Azonwus ❤

  • @MatthewFayson
    @MatthewFayson Před 18 dny

    So good! We can take the way our spouse “is” personal

  • @almmason7
    @almmason7 Před 29 dny +1

    Great convo! 😊

  • @abbasgem
    @abbasgem Před 28 dny +1

    I’m watching this video and really loving….. THE INTIMACY FROM BOTH COUPLES

  • @roselynglover8927
    @roselynglover8927 Před 24 dny

    Always be led by the one that made us ALL.

  • @truthseeker4460
    @truthseeker4460 Před 25 dny

    When I see beautiful people talking Godly I stay and listen

  • @loveafrica97
    @loveafrica97 Před měsícem +4

    Jackie is truly loved! I love her, but man she’s a lot 😂😂😂

  • @ms.jackson9349
    @ms.jackson9349 Před 24 dny

    Excellent discussion!!!!

  • @kailahbrown4887
    @kailahbrown4887 Před měsícem

    I loved this so much 🥰😂…. LOL @ the end 😂🙏🏾 this is the best 😂