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I am always saying WE GOT THIS in real life and online. We all have our own struggles and I believe we can get through anything together. When I was diagnosed with cancer in September, I thought this was my own struggle but I realised my cancer has affected everyone around me. I am a daughter, a girlfriend, a sister, a friend, a cousin, a grand daughter & more. I know my journey has affected everyone around me and I know now more than ever that I have no choice but to get better. Whatever life throws at us, we are going to get through it together. We Got This
love you lots xxx WE GOT THIS - Jak na to + styl
hi my loving tiffanythinks family. I think I feel like myself again, I needed some days to recover (mentally & physically) & now I am ready for the next step in this journey - I get results tomorrow. I hope you’re all okay and just remember we got this💙always & forever 💙 IG, FB & TikTok: @tiffanythinks💙 Subscribe for more videos💙
Thanks for posting. Don’t be scared hun. Be open for your results.
@@jevaughnreynolds6075 💙💙💙
Tiffany wishing you so much luck for your results tomorrow. You have definitely got this ok!
@@sharondavies5100 thank youuu💙💙💙💙
Vous êtes admirable ♥️🌹 nous avons ça...
I had cancer when I was 49 - after a year of treatment and not having the loving family you have, I fought, not many people knew, i tried to do it alone and ask no advice - I put the reason I wasn’t competing with my eventing horses during the last 5 months of treatment on lame horses - husband found girlfriend - You are handling this much better by sharing 🥰 - so many people DO care, not only you are helping them but yourself by expressing yourself. I am now 75, you’re doing this right, love you and admire you and thank you for everyone. You’re going to make this 🥰🥰🥰🥰
I have been abandoned by family and ex husband whenever I needed them in moment of crisis ( nothin as drastic as cancer though) It indeed cushions the life challenges a bit if someone has our back.I am 39 now and I hope against hope that I will someday find a supportive community.
You were so brave to have dealt with cancer alone, I admire your strength. God bless you.
I think if I had shared my feelings more with my family it would have helped them also, and things might have been different. Don’t forget, this was 25 years ago and cancer was still considered ( not quite ? maybe not done !)
@@rhondanottage5281 my husband was there but needed his girlfriends support and I suppose she was in a hurry to take my place !
Its so king of you to share your story. I hope Tiffany gets some inspiration from you.
Tiffany is a master class of strength and humanity. Everyone could learn from her. How to struggle, how to overcome. How to get through a tough situation. All of us as people are mortal and facing trauma is something we all have in common so let's be supportive and kind and understanding. That to me is the greatest gift you can give anyone.
awww 💙 thank you for your kind words - you're so lovely💙💙💙💙
Well said.
How lovely this comment 🦋🦋🦋💙💙💙💙
Amen...well said. Bless you.
Beautiful ❤️
When I went with my sister to her oncology appointments I had my questions written down with spaces below to write down the answers. Fifteen years later, I still have my sister and the notebook! Good luck with you appointment, sending my prayers your way.
Tiffany- it's been ten years for me. In the beginning, I used to think the same thing- that the rest of my life would consist of scanxiety, scans, waiting and more waiting. Now, ten years out, I find that I hardly ever think about it at all. You will get through this and on the other side of all of this anxiety you will have a beautiful life. All of this will be a distant memory for you and for your family.
That is what im hoping and praying for her, im happy you made it thru and came out on the other side...
I agree I'm a 10 year survivor too and I can honestly say it does get better there will always be little issues that come up but nothing like being in active treatment
I have checked Tiffany`s sister insta account and she shared some stories in the restaurant three hours ago so I believe results are not bad since she shares story at restaurant and it might be celebration of good news who knows. I tried to think positive and wanted to inform you guys. Omg being Sherlock Holmes is enough for today 😁🙃
I sure hope you are right! 💙
oh I so hope that's the case! I've just seen the Instagram stories and they went to get cakes and had pizza 🤞🤞💙💙
@@chipsnotchunks2620 kinda nosy you be! You the merciless paparazzi? Give her time
@@marilynpalosaari2387 hahaha she's not paparazzi material, though she might wish. It's the fact she said chose not to read her own scans until the big results appointment that has people on a cliffhanger.... which could just be youtubery shenanigans... but we all care about her cancer story nonetheless! if following what people choose to post publicly on social media is now stalking, that makes us all pretty creepy. LOL.
Everyone is expecting either Good or Bad news. My guess is that it could be status quo. More waiting and watching. Tumour not gone but no immediate danger of progression? Needs monitoring as too early to pronounce her as NED.That could happen too.
It is ok to be afraid but getting results means you know exactly the status and take next steps accordingly rather than being in the dark. You have come a long way already with your Cancer journey and you have absolutely got this. If not you, who? 💙
aww thank you so much 💙💙💙
Meenu Iyer - this is SUCH a helpful post and I just wanted to tell you this, because everything you wrote in your message to brilliant Tiffany, helps me too, hugely, this evening. So thank you, thank you for these wise words. Just what I needed to hear this evening.
Tiffany decorating for christmas would be good for u it might cheer u up my dear ur a role model of strength hope ur one amazing person love ur smile pesonality is amazing we all could learn from u keep smiling pray and my dear ur so so blessed
@@dancebasedancer Thank you! I hope you have a good day. Stay positive always because that's the only thing in our control. Our response and attitude to tough situations helps us stay grounded and logical. In this respect, I find meditation of utmost use.
Oh that lemon cake looked so good. I buy an olive oil cake that is similar. You don’t taste the olive oil, you taste the lemon, but the oil makes it moist. I’m addicted to it. I’m so glad your sister is going with you. Let her ask everything. And maybe hit record on your phone too. I am anxious for you, but you’ll feel better knowing the results. And then you can move forward to the next step with all the info. ❤❤
I’ve been a quiet viewer here but just wanted to say as someone who suffers from health anxiety your strength going through something like this is amazing. You have been handling this situation so so well and it truly inspires me to stay grounded and grateful for the health that we do have. You got this! 💙
Hi Little Bee, I too suffer with health anxiety and I am in awe of Tiffany , she really puts things in perspective for me , she’s amazing . I wish you well with your anxiety I know how hard it is ❤️
I also suffer from help anxiety and some severe health issues as well. Sometimes my anxiety is much worse than chronic illness that I'm facing. Wishing you positive and healing vibes. Aloha
@@MarilynMayaMendoza you got this 💙
Me to little bee. Even anxious waiting for blood test results.
@@victoriaf3262 okay if you think she is then please stop watching 😊 us we’ll continue to watch.
Tiffany! You have managed to make me cry, laugh and speak out loud to the phone all from the same video!! I am alone in the office right now. Good thing no one is here or they would think I'm a bit off! 🤣
You are simply one of the sweetest people out there. The way you describe everything, good or not as good, is said tastefully with such authenticity. Your British accent is so beautiful! It makes everything sound nice!
So glad your sister will be with you for the results tomorrow. We, your loving TIFFANYTHINKS family, will be thinking of you, praying for you and will be anxiously waiting for the results.
Your lemon cake looked absolutely scrumptious! And yes! There can never be too much lemon!
Matt, it was so good to see you. You have been missed. I hope you had a wonderful time at home with your family. Next time you go for a visit, your beautiful Tiffany will be travelling with you!! 😍😍
Tiffany, I want to go to HomeSense now to buy Christmas candles!! 🤩🤩
I am so happy that we will be "stuck with you"!! Being part of your family and cheering you on is so important to so so many of us!!
Sending hugs to the 3 of you.
Love you guys.
WE GOT THIS 💗
I am thrilled that your sister is going with you to your appointment with your surgeon! There are so many questions that I think need to be answered. She will be a great advocate for you!
Your so correct x
Agree my dad went with my mum and her friend, my mum went with my sister
Tiffany...you are cheering us up with your hot chocolate, Christmas scents and baking! You got this! We all love you so much!
I’m so glad your sister will be there to speak out and ask those questions that you as a patient may be too overwhelmed and forget to ask. Encourage her to write a list of her questions down on paper to bring to your appointment.
Lots of luck Tiffany, for your results. It's so nice your sister wants to be part of that moment, and so moving to hear how you want to protect her and all your family, as they want to do the same for you. You've all got this.. we've all got this 💙💙💙
Just know you have a whole army of supportive people right behind you praying for you.
Wishing you the absolute best!
I hope you are getting some rest tonight but probably not i'm thinking. You did SO good today Tiffany. You were productive, you made your beautiful lemon cake, you spent time vlogging and sharing yourself. I really don't think I could do what you do. When I'm scared and/or stressed I just kind of freeze and can't do anything. I am going to strive to be more like you. I love how you embrace the holidays by doing just the little things. For example, your cute Christmas coffee mug, your hot cocoa you're going to try, etc...I'm going to buy a Christmas mug for myself tomorrow because, again, you have inspired me. I'm 62 and sometimes I feel like I'm a little jaded and have lost some of my "Fun". I'm going to change that this year. And everything christmasy I buy, I'll think a good thought/vibe for you!! Last year I didn't even put up a tree but this year I'm putting up TWO!! I know you try not to cry but I think crying is healing and relieves a lot of stress so I would say just go ahead and have a good hard bawl whenever you feel like it. It can be so cleansing. You and your beautiful family will be in my prayers and thoughts tomorrow. God Bless and Good Night.
You are amazing Tiffany, but I do empathise and understand what you are going through mentally. I'm also going through many episodes of low mood and anxiety everyday as I suffer from two chronic illnesses and also chronic grief. You are right to say let's take one day at a time. To look into the future causes too much overthinking and worry. I'm glad I'm not the only one who spends days in bed distracting myself with TV and also live in comfy pyjamas and dressing gowns. It really does make all the difference being cosy. You're not alone in your anxiety. One step at a time. We got this 💙💙
Hi Tiffany;
I am a cancer survivor for one year now. I’ve struggled all through treatments and have good days and bad days. I don’t want to be scared forever, but it is a constant worry. I will feel so good and positive and then it hits me suddenly and then I’m so scared and filled with so much worry and anxiety. When I feel like I don’t know what to do with myself, I pray to God to take the worry from me. God is up all night anyway, you might as well give it to HIM. I’m praying for you Tiffany. You got this. Give it to God and free yourself.🙏🏻💚🍀
Yes, read Philippians 4: 6 & 7 - “Do not be anxious about anything, but in all things, by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, make your requests known to God and the peace of God, that passes all understanding, will guards your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.”
Yes! So good to have your sister's support. And Amma of course feels like she wants to come. We are all rooting for you, Tiffany xxx
Hi Tiff, you are not alone in this. I did my ct scan on Monday and since that on edge waiting for the results. It’s normal to be scared and sometimes we allow our thoughts to go to worse results. It’s never easy waiting for these scans results. Just wanted to let you know so many are going through this. Finger crossed your results and mine turns out good ❤
i was diagnosed with breast cancer last february and i get so scared too dont feel like anyone in my family really understands you are so lucky having the support you have i feel so alone sometimes watching your vlogs really helps so thank you Tiffany xxx
I hope you're doing well! 🙏
You got this💙💙💙💙💙🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
You've got this 💙💙💙
Wishing you all the best Sharon xxx
I've had breast cancer and then it went in my lung, luckily they got it all and on weekly chemo till Christmas and then a tablet for 10 years, don't be alone if you want to talk msg me xxx
@@lynneosborne5200 thank you so much bless you i am in tears a lot of the time but got to be strong havent you pleased you are doing well now sending love to you xxx
It’s so hard to deal with the unknown, unfortunately we often think the worst and it is hard to stay positive. You are extremely strong to share your story and to deal with your fears publicly. Many of us dealing with cancer whether it be ourselves or family members can take its toll. My husband and l try to focus on just living so we don’t rob ourselves of it. Having so much support from your family and others is incredible to witness and will give you huge comfort and strength moving forward. ❤
💙🙏 Perfection! You're so much more than the disease that you're fighting... We all love to watch you just be you, Tiffany! Hair, makeup, fashion, baking, tea, gardening, decorating, family ... Deep spirituality and love. That's our Tiffany!
Tiffany, you are so strong! It's normal that you have anxiety in a situation like this. You are selflessly making the feelings of your loved ones your priority, which is really admirable, but please consider having counseling from someone specializing in supporting cancer patients. You should have a seperate space for your feelings to be heard and where someone unrelated to you can support you ❤
What a beautiful way to put things
You are simply amazing! Such a brave humble and kind woman. This list of some of your incredible strengths of character could continue never-ending, I'm 61 and have three boys and two beautiful grandchildren. Trajically I lost my youngest son Ned four years ago. It devastated me and I have not coped well at all . Drugs and alcohol. I,m getting better slowly but I'll never be the same person as I was......Watching how brave and strong you are with the very difficult physical, emotional issues you manage with such emotional intelligence shows me that it is possible to be positive in some hopeless situations. You are such a wonderful Big virtual hugs who helps many of us. You Have Got This! Virtual hugs and sending love and light back to you.
You look great, Tiffany. It's so good to see you looking so healthy. I can't imagine the "scanziety" you are going through! 😭 I would be a complete mess. Your feelings are completely valid. I'm so glad your sister is going to come to the Dr's with you. *I HIGHLY recommend* audio recording the visit (ask the Dr. if it's OK), because even with 3 people there, it is easy to miss something. It is very helpful to have the recording to go over to see if you heard something right or missed something. Wishing you all the best from Portugal! 💙
I’m so glad your sister is going with you to make sure you get all the information you need.
And I know this is so hard and stressful but it won’t be forever. But equally it’s important to be emotional if that’s how you feel in the moment and work through your feelings. It’s only natural to be scared.💙💙💙
Anybody else keep checking in to see if she has posted about her results? I'm growing more concerned. Tiff feels like family. Sending you extra love and prayers sweet Tiffany.
Maybe she wants to surprise us with the good news tomorrow. It would be nice if she wanted to share the news ASAP but I know she’s a stickler for only posting only on Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays.
How many of us wish we knew Tiffany in real life to give her a huge hug?
You got this and are so strong and caring. We need people like you ! Love that you are sharing so openly your journey. Praying for you and your family.
Hi Tiffany,
I’m in a similar boat with PET-CT in a fortnight and maybe major surgery early December for recuurent progressive ovarian cancer.
I tell you this as I just wanted to say I can see how happy you arecwhen you focus on baking a treat for Matt & Umma, spending time with Elody and her little ones etc. Don’t stress over “what ifs” as we can’t change our medical conditions and what will be will be as my late mother always reminded me.
Your lovely family surrounds you so just celebrate Christmas a little early this year. I am going to do so. Jesus will not mind if we wish him a happy birthday before 25th December just this once I know.
God Bless and enjoy decorating the house, it will uplift not only your spirits but Umma & Matt’s too.
God Bless,
Dr. Beth
Tiffany our little lion heart ! What a giant spirit in such a tiny package. We love you dear girl. We've got this. Kindness , a smile and a lemon loaf ! Bravo
That lemon cake looked so delicious, Tiffany! And, Matt really loved it, so good for you! You always have your house so organized and clean. I enjoy all that coziness that comes about with your mugs, teas, robe, candles, slippers, naps on the sofa, sandwiches, etc. I just love your videos. I'm so happy to know you and your family.
I love this girl! She is such a positive bright little spirit. You shouldn’t be facing criticism through this journey and at this time of wait and see. How terrifying for you and then have people complain of how you are handling your care or yourself, it’s just unkind! I’m sure it’s out of concern but when it makes you feel bad, it’s wrong💔 You just take care of yourself and thank you for sharing and letting us see your courage and fear. You are a positive light and praying for nothing but positivity and love to come your way
Tiffany, as much as you want to protect your sister, Matt and your mum from what is happening, they understand the reality of your cancer. I love how you said everyone handles results differently. It is so true. When my father’s scan days approach, some of the family is very pragmatic and calm while others are extremely anxious and upset. None of those feelings are wrong… There is no right way to manage cancer. I think everyone just tries to survive it. Praying for a positive scan results for you.❤️💙
We are so happy to be “stuck” with you. You make the world a better place. Sending so much love and prayers 🙏🏻🙏🏻
I just love how you light up when Matt gets home. You two have a very special, almost fairytale like love!❤
You are loved sweet Tiffany, and I am praying for you and your family. Please try to keep faith during this difficult time. The lemon cake looks absolutely delicious and might be nice with the addition of cranberries. Thank you for so generously sharing your recipes. Please consider setting up a post office address so that your friends from across the globe could send cards and small gifts ~ especially now that Christmas is fast approaching. You've got this Tiffany, and God has you. Be well.
Dear Tiffany.....the hardest part of any struggle is the unknown ! Once you get your results whether it be good or bad will be a relief. You will be able to plan your future whatever it may be. I have done this two times and now I am battling kidney disease. Your positive attitude and strong support from family and friends will get you through this. As hard as it is on Matt and Amma they are so important with your daily frame of mind and they would not have it any other way. YES , plan for Christmas get your decorations from storage and even if you only decorate a wee bit at a time it will cheer you up. Make Christmas present lists and of course ( let us know ) we won't tell. Lol Once again I implore you to stay positive it will carry you through your journey. You ARE allowed to have ups and downs. You are human sweetheart, you are braver than you think. We are here for you and your family and we are praying for you. I'm proof that prayers work !
Aww Tiffany...no wonder that you are scared, you have been on a very long emotional roller coaster for a whole year.
Oh.. how i wish i could reach out through the screen and give you a long comforting hug.
You are a strong,brave ,wise and beautiful woman and you are teaching this grandma many
valuable life lessons.I have my own health issues.. but watching you being so open and transparent
in your journey is a huge inspiration for me. Your smile alone can lit up an entire room!
I am praying that all your scans/test results/ will be good.
Glad that your sister i coming along being a strong support at this very important Dr.appointment.
Sending best wishes and blessings to your family.Much love and hugs to you and especially your
sweet Amma.
A lemon loaf sounds wonderful, Tiffany. Love your Christmas mug. You are the kindest, most thoughtful and dear person!! Continued prayers, love and strength!!!
Please let Matt know how you're feeling Tiffany, I think sharing we're scared helps and it's natural to be scared. Sending love and prayers 🙏 💙💙💙💙💙
Yes and he is scared too
I’m sooo sooo nervous! You haven’t posted yet. It’s completely ok if you don’t post though. I just pray you are ok. They’re people here who genuinely care and are interested in your journey. Take all the time you need. We’ll be waiting. We got this 🤞🤞💙💙💙💙
Hello sweet lady! I am kinda new with you. Found you a short while back and o am so glad I did. I am 76 years young and have been through a lot of living and struggles. Just want you to know that you are amazing, strong and wise beyond your years. As you always say "we have got this" and darling you have. God has you in his arms and he is with you always. I am praying for you and I want to be here for your VICTORY! Keep your eyes upon God always.💝
Tiffany, I've checked your site several times today for positive , encouraging news. Yesterday I dedicated my rosary to you. Just know God is watching over you no matter the outcome. You will deal with whatever comes your way. Keep the faith, positive attitude and love for your loved ones. Your CZcams family will continue to send only positive vibes. Many of us have been "living" with cancer for many years...me included. The roller coaster cancer ride us tough but doable. 🙏
Praying for good results on FRIDAY, we are all here for you sweet girl xxxx
I am glad your sister will be there with you. I am praying for you Tiffany! You are such a loving person and full of lots of life!!! My go to words I say when facing hard things is Faith over Fear. You got this Tiffany and more importantly, God’s got this!!! Love and prayers from across the ocean in Maine, USA. 💕 💪 🙏
I'm a lurker here but I can't get over how brave you are. I admire you and inspire you and I honestly don't know how you always put on a brave face. Tiffany I am wishing you all the strength in the world❤️❤️ I was watching this next to my husband and we both said WOW 🥰 your so inspirational I know I keep saying it but wow, just wow ❤️❤️ you will get through this xxxx
We are all happy to be “stuck with you” Tiffany! 💙💙💙💙💙 Write down any questions you have for the doctor tomorrow. You got this 💙
Haha thank you💙💙💙 yess questions all done ✅✅✅ I’m so glad my sister has questions too 💙💙
Yesssss we are ❤
Great idea to write down your questions and worries for the doctor ❤
Tiff, you have overcome and dealt with so much in the last twelve months and it’s still ok to have days where you feel life is shite and unfair. It’s really ok to cry, it’s our bodies way of releasing the anxiety built up within us. Never apologise for showing your emotions.
I really hope that the results are positive tomorrow, I will be praying for you and your family. Keep slaying my little warrior! Much love to you, Matt and Amma and all your family. Nx
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So glad we are stuck with you, Tiffany. You Got This 💙
We are all here for you ❤️
Thinking of you today, Tiffany. Whatever the results were, take time with your family, breathe and take in all of the love being poured out on you. ❤️
Thinking of you, you’re going to get through this! You really are so inspiring with your incredible resilience that I wish I had. Your family is amazing, your relationship with your mum melts my heart! ❤
It's so lovely that you are sharing all the ups and downs of your journey with us. We would so appreciate a short update if you aren't too tied up in it all. Thanks so much. Mwa.x
I think you are very normal in your feelings! My son has colorectal cancer stage 4! Before scans and after while he waits for results he changes too! I think everyone fighting this battle changes mentally during this waiting period! The day he gets the results you can not talk to him, he draws deep within himself and is quiet until he gets the results! So sweet lady, I understand where you are, you are normal, and should not feel guilty for your feelings!
Hoping for good results for your son. I, too, have a son with an inoperable brain tumor...it's agonizing every MRI....
I’m so glad your sister is going with you! Everything you are feeling is so valid, and I think you have an amazing mindset. It’s not always going to positive and that’s ok. I’m thinking about you and hoping for the best news possible. Even though it doesn’t feel like it some days, we’ve got this! 💙💙💙
I too am waiting on biopsy results. As much as you try to put it out of your mind it creeps up. Your right no matter the results we will know what we are up against. I've gone through breast cancer, 15 years later it found its way to my stomach. In between lots of biopsies. Tiffany do the best you can with your results and plan to enjoy everyday no matter what. You got this 👍
"is it better than last one or worse?" lmao matt 😅 straight and to the point 🤣🤣
we will all praying and sending so so so many good vibes your way tiff, we got this 💙💙💙💙💙
Hi Tiffany. I am so amazed at your positive, optimistic, mature handling of all you have been dealt with. You are my hero. You have so many prayers and heartfelt wishes coming your way. Your house looks so lovely. I really like the calming colors you have chosen to decorate with. Maybe you could give us a small house tour of some of the main rooms. I really like those twinkly lights that you have along that one
wall.
Dear Tiffany, I think it’s quite normal to be feeling the way that you are with what you’re going through. I’m fairly new to your channel and I love watching you and Ama. You are so strong. I was in hospital/nursing home for 3 years in my early 20’s from a rare illness and my mom was there for me as much as she could be and I can only imagine how hard it was for her watching me go through what I did. You are such a beautiful soul. Your lemon bread looks so yummy and the grinch hot chocolate sounded good! The grinch is also one of my favorite Christmas movies. Sending you so much love and light for a good outcome tomorrow. ❤❤
hi tiffany, i really related to your vlog. sometimes you have a nice and refreshing day but just stop for a second and experience so much anxiety. i want to encourage you that you are so so loved and whatever the results are, you won’t be alone. we will be with you and supporting you, matt, ama, and your family will be there for you, and God will never forget His plans for you 🤍. “for I know the plans I have for you” declares the Lord. “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a figure and a hope”.
ps i loved feeling like i was baking with you ☕️🍋 and the christmas decoration obsession is so real.
Keep yourself distracted tonight, baking seems like a good way to keep your mind focused on something else.
I have anxiety and honestly keeping yourself busy, even if it’s just doing fairly simple tasks like cleaning or something can really help in those moments where your mind keeps having anxious thoughts.
I’m glad your sister will be there to support you guys and to ask questions, often the best time to ask these questions is in the appointment and unfortunately most people get so caught up in the appointment they don’t remember to ask questions they wanted to ask before the appointment, so always good to have another person there who understands you and your situation.
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I have a diagnosis of generalized anxiety disorder and yep I try to do the same.when it becomes too much; palpitations, sweaty palms, i have to lie down and breathe and focus on the present.More power to you, more power to Tiff.cheers!
Hi Tiffany, I watch all your video’s and I must admit that the tears just stream down my face every time I see you poorly and scared. I hope and pray that Friday will be a good day for you and your loved ones 🙏🏼 I want to see you putting up your Christmas tree and enjoying the build up to Christmas. Sending lots of love to you xx
Hi Tiffany, the way you are feeling is so natural. Don't bottle up everything as emotions have to come out. It's good for you and sometimes thinking negatively is a build up of all you've been through. I think as someone who has had cancer I gave the impression I was positive but deep down was worried sick. Now 5 years on I'm still the same. Great your sister is coming with you. What one person misses another will pick up. I could taste that lemon cake! . Well done. Prayers, 🙏love and best wishes for good results Friday. We got this 💙
Oh, Tiffany. I’m sorry you’ve had so much suffering at a young age. I had cancer, but not til nearly 50. I’ve since lost a sister and both of my parents. Yes, life is very hard. But you’re going to get through this and have sooo much to look forward to.
hugs Karen xo
Doing these videos may help you....but you're helping others just by being you. You share so deeply of how you feel. And in so doing you help others who are in your shoes to not feel alone. You're beautiful inside and out. I pray for you every single day. ❤🙏🇺🇸
So glad that your sister will be with you. For situations like this it is very helpful to have a additional “eyes and ears”. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
You will get through this. One year ago you weren't sure how you would cope with chemo and you were a trooper! You're strong, beautiful, brave and have a TT army who are sending prayers and hugs your way.
Tiff, it’s important to be positive but it’s also completely ok to feel like life is unfair. Anyone who has to go through major medical stuff like this deserve the ability to say “this isn’t fair but I’m going to get through it the best that I can”. It’s important to feel the negative emotions as much as the positive. You are doing good!
Hello beautiful Tiffany! What a beautiful video yet again! I feel your words about waiting to hear results. I think the waiting part is the hardest because like you said, you want to be hopeful and optimistic but also cautious and prepared for bad news. It’s such a balance in the mind. The lemon loaf looked delicious. I also love that you’re teaching me new words like “jacket potato” and “caster sugar.” I know, I know, I’m so American. Lol! Best to you always! We got this! 💕💙
Being and feeling scared is absolutely normal. Feel whatever you need to feel, moment to moment. It's ok. Life is really hard, and unfair. Cruel too. Luckily for you, you have so much love to get you through those tough times. Saying a prayer of strength for you as I watch and a great outcome. Remember when this is over, get counseling to help you recover. You've been through so much. I'm in your corner, we all are! That cake looked yummy too! 🤗
Sending love and hugs! ❤❤
Tiffany its perfectly normal to be anxious and sad waiting for results, I am so glad that you’re sister will be with you tomorrow xx
You're such an inspiration, Tiffany. You're strong even when you think you're not being strong. Having moments of being vulnerable and scared is all part of being strong because you're letting it out so you can keep moving forward. That lemon cake looks DELICIOUS. I want some now. And I'm so happy your sister is going to the appointment too - she sounds feisty and firm which is definitely needed in the medical world (unfortunately). Your team around you is strong! 💙💙💙💙
She makes me understand what I look at.😊
I would like to say that you are just the nicest person I could imagine and I admire how you deal with everything you and your family have been going through. It's a good idea of your sister to come with you, she will ask the right questions and help you remember everything being said. I wish you best of luck for tomorrow and will be thinking of you all day!
Love the part at the end, the lemon cake reveal to Matt. He's a sweetheart and loves you so much, Tiffany. Young love is the best!
Hi Tiffany! I love to bake. I agree, it is very relaxing. Waiting on the results of scans is very scary. My dad recently had a biopsy because they found a mass on his kidney. We waited one week for the results. It was the worst week of my life. I tried to keep busy as much as I could, and not think about it but, I still felt very anxious. It turned out he has kidney cancer, stage II, and has to have his kidney removed. It’s been a very difficult time for our family. I pray that you receive good news tomorrow. Stay strong.
Tiffany - can you please provide your followers a concrete, detailed & succinct update in your next video? Your followers can best help you if they have a clear picture of where things stand & that has been lacking for some time.
I know how you feel, always waiting and waiting. It’s so hard, praying for a normal life for you Tiffany. You deserve good news.
Tiffany I have a sister just like your sister! She will ask the right questions and insist on a comprehensive answer. I am so glad your sister is going with you 💙💙💙
It's good to express how you are feeling and shed tears. Tiffany you are dealing with an awful disease, it's a tough road we are all praying for great results. We got this💙💙💙💙💙💙
Please don’t be so worried Tiffany ❤ … no matter what the results are - worrying will not change the outcome. And you will deal. As you have done from the very beginning. They haven’t thrown anything at you that you weren’t able to deal with - so think of it that way. Whatever it is, you will find a way. We love ❤️ you so very much in Toronto, Tiffany, as always our girl ❤ 😘
Reading this is what I needed to read today. My anxiety has kept me awake all night.
Worrying won’t change the outcome and whatever that is we go from there.
I know this comment isn’t for me, but thank you. ❤
@@lillyrose3545 Awwh 😍 that is so lovely Lily Rose 🌹 of you to say. I am so very sorry that your anxiety 😟 has you in its grip. It’s an awful feeling and I’ve been there as many of us have. It’s mind over matter dearest. Easy to say, but difficult. If only we could put as much effort into not worrying as we do the opposite - that’s about it really. I am so very happy I was able to give you some food for thought. You’re so very welcome LR - love ❤️ to you from Toronto 😘
Tiffany the fear is anxiety. When you have cancer, the battle is so hard and full of fear. I think you could use something for the anxiety. It will take away that feeling in your chest of pure panic. I guess I don't know how to explain it. The fear will still be there but not so intense. At your appointment, please ask the doctor. You could take something every day to help or just when you feel that panic/fear. Cancer is a long road and I do believe you can beat this. it is okay to need some help. You are so sweet and worry about everyone else, little sister, mom and your Matt. This adds to your fear. Please try and just worry about yourself. Unless you have been through it waiting for scan results has to be the toughest thing in the world. Everything is on hold until you know what is going on in your body. My disabled son fought for 7 years. He probably had 85 scans or more and waiting for those results took years off my life. It truly is unexplainable the fear and feelings. I see you and know exactly how you feel BIG HUGS from Wisconsin!
The waiting is the worst! It will be on your mind 24/7 but its good to keep busy. Last year i was diagnosed with cancer on my ovary and uterus, got it all removed, had chemo and every checkup has been good for the past months.. but 1,5 week ago i found a lump in my breast and now i have to wait until monday for a scan.. and the waiting is so hard!! But we can do it.. im keeping you on my mind Tiffany! ❤️
Tiffany - it’s always a joy to be seeing your vlogs on your journey. You have been through so much yet you still have such a selfless and positive attitude about you and have always managed to put others first before yourself. 💕 this altogether is commendable not to mention your honesty about the emotional roller coasters you’re going through. I hope you know the world truly needs more role models like you to continue sharing your journey and being honest about it all the way you are and have always been. 💕
I’m so honored to be traveling with you on your journey as a TiffanyThinks family member. I messaged you earlier through your Instagram page and hopefully you’ve received it (it’s okay if you’ve been offline or have not received it but hopefully we can be in touch there sometime. I’d love to know you more and hopefully meet you in person someday). I am always here for you and by the number of people who have commented on your work and fight through such a hurdle, you have a huge support system behind you.
It’s totally okay to feel scared about what the scan results will be. You’re not alone and you don’t need or deserve to go through this alone. Continue advocating for yourself and know that only you and your care team know what your body is like and how it works especially during such a long and difficult cancer journey. I pray to the Lord always that you become cancer-free and this hurdle will be history. 💕 hang tight Tiffany and don’t be afraid to be transparent about what you are going through. It’s always a joy seeing Amma and Matt helping you by just being there for you two and to know they’re going to be there on Friday (this Friday? Tell me if I’m mistaken), alongside your sister to find out the scan results because I know you mentioned your sister had questions that she wanted to ask your care team in regards to what’s going to happen after receiving the results - I hope you all get the answers and reassurance you guys need and deserve. 💜
God bless you all, always and I’m sending my regards to Amma and everyone in your family. Please remember, I’m also always a message away if you ever need a friend from the TiffanyThinks family, to talk to at anytime. We got this. 💕
With love and healing prayers,
Shreya 💕 XOXO 😘
Hello Beautiful Tiffany!💙 I think baking is very therapeutic and self gratifying for us all.
I’m also so glad that your sister is going with you to the doctor. Having another set of ears and also asking questions is always helpful. When you are feeling down, maybe being around your precious niece may help. Babies have a way of making us smile on the worse days. Sending so much love and prayers from Michigan always💙🙏💙
Whenever a person has a doctor where test results are gone over,I think it is important to take someone with you who can get info and ask info. You got this,awaiting sucks! Positive thoughts and prayers sent to you!
I am so saddened by the amount of anxiety and fear you are feeling. I have been praying for you. I hope you can find a way to distract yourself from worrying so much. You are such a lovely person. What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. Please don’t let this storm break you. Every storm is part of your journey. Yes you will make it through this one. You will come out stronger then you were before. ❤and prayers.
What a beautiful message 👵🌈💙
@@marilynsinger2821 i agree
Beautiful message. I love this quote - On the other side of fear lies freedom x
Dearest Tiffany....
You are such a strong and resilient young woman. It's absolutely normal for you to be feeling anxiety ridden considering all you're going through. Thanks be to God you have loving and supportive family & friends to lean on, as well as all of us here who have been praying for your healing. 🙏 Please stay strong my beautiful girl..and remember "WE GOT THIS!" 💙💙💙 xxooxo
Tiffany I know GOD has his arms around you! Just like he did with me when going through my cancer journey sending love and prayers 🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏
My sweet Tiffany, we are waiting with you for your scan results. I’m praying 🙏 that you get positive results. I hope we hear from you soon. Hang in there….😘🙏😘🙏😘🙏
YES! So glad your sister is going to your scan results appointment with you!
She had the appointment 1 day ago
Tiffany, you have every right to be scared and have hard moments. I have gone through a traumatic health diagnosis and, 24 years later, still suffer from some associated PTSD. HOWEVER, I distinctly remember wondering if a day would ever come where it wasn’t the first thing on my mind each morning, and the last thing before I fell asleep each night. Sweetie, that day DID come. Yours will too. Keep the faith.
Sweet Tiffany, I so empathize with you…I can only imagine what you’re going through, (my husband was diagnosed with stage 4 adenocarcinoma of the stomach in 2003). Waiting & not knowing is the worse! Please know that I’m sending you love & prayers & hope that the good Lord gives you the strength & courage to get through what ever happens…I feel your pain. “We Got This” 💙🙏from 🇨🇦
We got this Tiffany 💙💙 Everyone is praying for your healing. Keep your faith strong, you are doing amazing 💙
Tiffany I can so relate to how you're feeling I suddenly became ill in 2014 and I've been chronically ill since then and was diagnosed with cancer in 2018 and I know exactly how you're feeling right now it's a dissociated feeling and a feeling of impending doom and it happens sometimes when we're chronically ill and the reality of things sort of catch up with us all of a sudden and it almost feels like a nightmare but I've learned to sort of not let myself go there not that I won't let myself go there but I totally understand how you feel with just sitting in that house by yourself which is how I spend most of my life now and I can just so relate to you today and I just want you to know that you're not alone and I'm sending you a big hug❤
i am so sorry🤍💛, praying for you and tiffany ✝️
I can tell you are so strong. Thank you for sharing. I send you blessings.
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Hello Tiffany....I share the space with you in the "hurry up and wait" Waiting is the hardest part! There is such urgency....with scans ordered....dates and times...that shift ....it can feel so dehumanizing. ....as tho we are a number....I so empathize with how scary the "hurry up and wait " is. I am one to get a patient portal after a scan...so I check the portal every 30 minutes to find the results before my doctor receives it. I am glad to hear your sister is going with you. I am ten years out from stage three breast cancer, double mastectomy...and this past month have walked virtually with you thru your scans. I had a HUGE scare of cancer coming back.....right along the time you were going thru your biopsy and scans. I am now just on the other side and I am cleared...but it is SO scary! I know how the fear of the unknown can feel so isolating.....I just want to say thank you Tiffany...for being so real, transparent and sharing your journey with us.....at times like these...words can feel so hollow and cliche ....but there is so much comfort in the power of now. You are thought about, prayed for and loved by us , and so many! Hugs and love! XOXO
Tiffany, this is the first time I have left a comment, but I just need you to know just how amazing you are. Your infectious smile, your stunning beauty and strength makes you an incredibly special person.
Am praying - and I don’t pray, that you get some good news tomorrow 😊
Tiffany you are exceptionally beautiful not only on the outside but inside as well. You are a rare gem, one of a kind. You are a daily inspiration for me, and when I’m having a hard day I always think of you and say if Tiffany has a smile on her face today there’s no reason why I shouldn’t either. You are constantly on my mind, and always in my prayers. You’ve GOT THIS!!! Thank you for sharing your life with us, I can’t tell you how much you inspire me to do better and better on the daily. Thanks for making me appreciate every minute of everyday as none of us are promised tomorrow. Lots of love from the US. ♥️♥️♥️
Erinda ; What a lovely reply to Tiffany! I feel exactly like you do, having my own health struggles i am
so humbled an in awe of Tiffany's poise and grace being under such tremendous pressure.
She is indeed a beautiful and caring woman that inspires me and thousands more.
Sending blessings your way Erinda.
My thoughts exactly. I have one of Tiffany's "We Got This" T-shirts on my closet wall so that I can start and end my day with prayers for Tiffany and daily reminders of gratitude for all she has taught me. None of us is guaranteed even one more day. We love you Tiffany.
Love you Tiffany! You will be ok! We are all praying for you. Keep fighting girl! 🤍🤍
you got this waiting is the hardest part. I'm so happy your sister is going with you . Your mom , and matt are good to have but its also good to have someone who has a fresh perpective and another set of ear. I wish we could give you a hug . is there anyone that can convert the recipe to us measurements?
Tiffany I hope your results are all fine. My sister also has breast cancer. I know how difficult this journey is. God bless.
Philippians 4: 6 & 7 - “Do not be anxious about anything, but in all things, by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, make your requests known to God and the peace of God, that passes all understanding, will guards your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.”
I will have to refer to this when my anxiety flares up. Thanks.