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Relationship Killers | Episode 132

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  • čas přidán 19. 03. 2024
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    If you’re feeling like your relationship is on the edge then high chances it’s probably dead 👀
    In this episode we get to talk about the different relationship killers from lack of emotional support to possessiveness and it’s A LOT brothers and sisters 😮‍💨😂
    Whether you’re watching with your partner/girl squad let’s unpack together and also tell us what led to the death of your last relationship?
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Komentáře • 141

  • @catherinenjoki2636
    @catherinenjoki2636 Před 5 měsíci +75

    I actually love how Murugi communicates, gets to the point within shortest time possible. It makes listening to her very interesting
    I even find myself thinking "be like Murugi" whenever I watch other you tubers who take foreeeever to get to the point😓

    • @twentytwo3840
      @twentytwo3840 Před 5 měsíci +3

      It coz of her communication style. She's direct...most people are passive

    • @ashlee1142
      @ashlee1142 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Yeah, I love her concise way of communicating.

  • @BeatriceGithenya
    @BeatriceGithenya Před 5 měsíci +51

    I have learnt so many new English words from this podcast.My articulation and confidence has been influenced ❤.

  • @MwendeSchwinn
    @MwendeSchwinn Před 5 měsíci +196

    If you feel someone is lower than you, that's your body telling you you are misaligned and have no business connecting with them. When you call it contempt, you are essentially dismissing your own internal guiding authority. Religious conditioning makes us disobey ourselves by gaslighting us into condemning and dismissing our inner voice. I'm sure you thought thinking someone is lower than you is pride on your part thinking you are better than or superior. But no. If someone is below you, your body warns you, and asks you to keep off...they will drain you, and drag you down to their level. Only connect with people you feel you are on the same level

  • @dorineangulu2898
    @dorineangulu2898 Před 5 měsíci +18

    That part where Murugi said ' God has a sense of humor' got me. You really get tested with the thing you really yearn for mostly.

  • @teteyian3258
    @teteyian3258 Před 5 měsíci +32

    Thank you Lyd....its struggling with infertility Issues. Barren and impotent are no longer courteous words to use on people with child bearing issues

  • @margaretkanganga4882
    @margaretkanganga4882 Před 5 měsíci +14

    i totally understand when Lyd says about insecurity like literally you are in the office maybe something [popped up and you had to extend for few minutes but you HAVE to send them pictures for them to believe you are in the office or any other place if it's maybe 6 or 7 and you are not at the house yet. Wangu ady alieka whatsapp yangu kwa simu yake to monitor who i talk to.I lost weight upto 46kgs coz it was draining but i thank myself i left and few months later am happy, no stress and am at 54kgs.

  • @phy.Nyambura
    @phy.Nyambura Před 5 měsíci +43

    As an upcoming podcast babe ,this has to be the best channel .Also you guys have helped become so much better in grammar ,expression and articulation ....Ilysm

    • @EmmeGee_M
      @EmmeGee_M Před 3 měsíci

      right? absolutely eloquent

  • @celineogoye906
    @celineogoye906 Před 5 měsíci +59

    Would you mind inviting maurice matheka the sexologist..it could be such an exciting episode

  • @wambuimuthoni4221
    @wambuimuthoni4221 Před 5 měsíci +9

    I loved the part where Murugi said that they are looking for a good church and how she described her preference... I found it so funny 🤣

  • @JMandy
    @JMandy Před 5 měsíci +13

    Did not expect this conversation to get that deep into the roots of everything 😏🤓

  • @annkangethe3943
    @annkangethe3943 Před 5 měsíci +20

    For sure Lydia is great listener

  • @Spinkly
    @Spinkly Před 5 měsíci +38

    Lydia was so specific with the Japanese men with dreds. Is there something she wants to tell us 🤣🤣🤣

  • @mutaicherobon6550
    @mutaicherobon6550 Před 5 měsíci +6

    I love the sense of humour 😅😅 i laugh my heart out every time i watch TMI.Thank you ladies❤

  • @daisydeeh2860
    @daisydeeh2860 Před 5 měsíci +7

    God knows how much we love this channel 😂❤️always educating and enlighting us on real life situations

  • @user-su9br6zz7e
    @user-su9br6zz7e Před 4 měsíci +7

    Murugi gives how issues present practically and KM has a lot of theory 😂

  • @wanjiraschannel6931
    @wanjiraschannel6931 Před 5 měsíci +9

    Contempt, unmet needs (most stemming from unspoken expectations), misalignment... these definitely led to the death of my last ☹😭 taught me so much about myself though and what to keep in mind in my next one so yay 🤗

  • @wangarinyambura9797
    @wangarinyambura9797 Před 5 měsíci +10

    Murugi's outfit 🤩🤩🤩

  • @dandi.23
    @dandi.23 Před 5 měsíci +12

    You two are a blessing to us the young generation of women,your agemates and women.
    WE LOVE YOU AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU SO MUCH IN ALL WAYS ALWAYS❤

    • @dandi.23
      @dandi.23 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Tmi to the whole wide world🥹

    • @dandi.23
      @dandi.23 Před 5 měsíci +1

      🚀🚀🚀

  • @sherrynalwanga8928
    @sherrynalwanga8928 Před 5 měsíci +8

    Lack of communication is key killer because at times it could be a mis understanding

  • @greatness23FL
    @greatness23FL Před 5 měsíci +20

    Jamani I'm in a meeting mmesema earpod ni skio moja ingine meeting eee😂😂❤ consistency check❤

  • @anindomercy1238
    @anindomercy1238 Před 5 měsíci +5

    Postpartum depression lead to the end of my relationship. it's sad because now I'm struggling emotionally and financially

  • @pellacyber9561
    @pellacyber9561 Před 5 měsíci +8

    what led to my last relationship was lack of attention and toxic behaviours and emotional abuse

  • @hamelynmotika1807
    @hamelynmotika1807 Před 4 měsíci

    You guys have been making my day for a year now. I'm becoming a better version of myself every day. it's like you became my sisters, and it helps me not to miss home too much. Please don't break this union. Ensure this relationship ain't dying oooo. Cheers from SC

  • @agnesgeraldine181
    @agnesgeraldine181 Před 4 měsíci +3

    OMG..Lyd and Murugi I missed y'all so much🥺❤. I'm sorry I can explain😅I haven't been active much but I am glad to be here and having listened to this conversation,I can say that it makes me see so much growth within myself.My last relationship was a killer cos that man never respected me. He was disloyal,he destroyed my self esteem by body shaming me all the time,borrowing money yet I felt he would have been the one giving the money to me since I was 18 hustling and he was 25 at the time.I expected him to be more mature.Anyways,I have experienced so much growth and rynow I am in a relationship that I believe will lead to marriage.I loved this whole conversation and you look absolutely gorgeous❤

  • @lisamwajuma9892
    @lisamwajuma9892 Před 5 měsíci +14

    Favorite hour every Wednesday

  • @lorrecco
    @lorrecco Před 5 měsíci +5

    Great conversation as always. Joan today looks like a real mke mwema

  • @tetyootornado1598
    @tetyootornado1598 Před 5 měsíci +6

    The only negative tbing avout this channel is that it ends. 😢😢

  • @andabwarosekiarie5477
    @andabwarosekiarie5477 Před 20 dny +2

    Lyd looks beautiful in red❤❤❤🥺

  • @andabwarosekiarie5477
    @andabwarosekiarie5477 Před 19 dny +1

    This was such an exiting episode ❤

  • @user-mh4xq3mj8s
    @user-mh4xq3mj8s Před 5 měsíci +6

    I really struggle with expectations I really learnt a lot

  • @SLY-pz5yb
    @SLY-pz5yb Před 6 dny

    non communication. dude decided he wasn't going to talk to me and I'm not one to overcommunicate a guy. i let the ship sink

  • @annedeki1265
    @annedeki1265 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Hi besties, I believe 100%Lydia is purely me... How she think, decision making, How she look at life, How she treat others nd Her feeling, how sensitive she is ~She can talk on my behalf nd my arms are held nd I will be very comfy with her take**❤❤❤

  • @e.s.t.a.r
    @e.s.t.a.r Před 5 měsíci +4

    Codependency was it. Loved the episode🎉. So informative!

  • @The_Introverted_Pisces
    @The_Introverted_Pisces Před 5 měsíci +2

    Murugi is soo funny 😂😂... You also look fabulous. I love that skirt

  • @andabwarosekiarie5477
    @andabwarosekiarie5477 Před 20 dny +1

    Red just indicates loove 😍😍👏👏🎉

  • @constancemutua1070
    @constancemutua1070 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Johnny from Kiambu and Japanese men with dreadlocks took me out 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭. Lyddd!!

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya Před 5 měsíci +4

    Outgrowing each other

  • @karensquest
    @karensquest Před 5 měsíci +1

    uuuuhhh its definately TMI. Your are both my favs 💓

  • @missinjairu1448
    @missinjairu1448 Před 4 měsíci

    😅😂😂😂"for example when i talk to you and you pick up your phone...' Lyd😅 I love you.

  • @izziejames2994
    @izziejames2994 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Its definitely TMI🎉🎉🎉

  • @malusisarahmulola
    @malusisarahmulola Před 5 měsíci +2

    I think outgrowing each other and not really having the same beliefs about life..lack of communication in every way..no intimacy in the unsexual way.....etc...is what might end the Relationship 🤦

  • @TashaNjagi
    @TashaNjagi Před 5 měsíci +7

    Wednesday made so much better❤🎉

  • @RosaliaShiweva
    @RosaliaShiweva Před 5 měsíci

    The line you said .. wait I am not a Floating angel 👼… ? 😂😂😂 I get it Lyd 😊😊

  • @Kamesh338
    @Kamesh338 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I love my Wednesdays because of you girlies 🤌❤️

    • @Kamesh338
      @Kamesh338 Před 5 měsíci

      So I'm really the narcissist in my relationship 🙂‍↔️🤔 Y'all are our saviors as online Big sisters 🥂

  • @paxliviacherono7157
    @paxliviacherono7157 Před 5 měsíci +10

    We can call it a Wednesday ❤

    • @valentinengare3022
      @valentinengare3022 Před 5 měsíci

      Absolutely love this comment. I mean how else would you define Wednesday without these two beauties? ❤❤

  • @Med_learn33
    @Med_learn33 Před 5 měsíci +1

    looking stunning ladies!!

  • @wairimuuu
    @wairimuuu Před 5 měsíci +2

    From 38:03 to 38:55 ni ukweli mtupu 😂💯

  • @paulinekamau2575
    @paulinekamau2575 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Yeey! Its definitely TMI

  • @royalty_11
    @royalty_11 Před 5 měsíci +1

    It's TMI🎉my favourite part about Wednesdays

  • @RosaliaShiweva
    @RosaliaShiweva Před 5 měsíci +1

    Girls you went deep with this one ❤ wow 🤩

  • @JanetOgola-xb9nn
    @JanetOgola-xb9nn Před 3 měsíci

    The best podcast!❤

  • @missmuroti
    @missmuroti Před 5 měsíci +2

    @tmi ...you guys didn't tag the podcast on love lyd was talking about...

  • @elizabethwairimu9050
    @elizabethwairimu9050 Před měsícem

    Lyd❤ I love this girl

  • @MerryhopeNyagha
    @MerryhopeNyagha Před 5 měsíci

    Japanese men with dread got me on the floor😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @amazinglife266
    @amazinglife266 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I love it here❤

  • @cikunp9546
    @cikunp9546 Před 5 měsíci +3

    The link to the podcast on love that Lydia was talking about is not tagged

    • @tmipodcastke
      @tmipodcastke  Před 5 měsíci

      We’ve added it sorry about that 🫶🏽

    • @cikunp9546
      @cikunp9546 Před 5 měsíci

      @@tmipodcastke no worries thanks

  • @dorothyshee777
    @dorothyshee777 Před 5 měsíci +1

    My favorite podcast ❤

  • @annekaraba9691
    @annekaraba9691 Před 5 měsíci +1

    The co-dependency part reminds me of the show "why women kill" beth Anne's relationship with husband Robert

  • @Nyabokeonyonka
    @Nyabokeonyonka Před 5 měsíci +1

    Where’s that link ??😢😢 the one for we are real children

  • @sarahakinyi3879
    @sarahakinyi3879 Před 4 měsíci

    I wish the discount was also applicable to monthly subscriptions😅😢

  • @joyceyugi9266
    @joyceyugi9266 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Wednesday has officially begun ❤

  • @shalommirembe500
    @shalommirembe500 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I currently live in Japan. I literally died ati,the Japanese men with dreads
    😂😂

  • @shaniceamira4201
    @shaniceamira4201 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Inbetweeners ndio nadonjo ...kuko aje uku . 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @irenegitonga5368
    @irenegitonga5368 Před 5 měsíci +1

    All time favourites 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

  • @brendacarey9506
    @brendacarey9506 Před 4 měsíci

    A meme led to the death of a relationship😂

  • @mohshii6672
    @mohshii6672 Před 4 měsíci

    Lyd is not herself today...what's up hun? Sending love❤

  • @lovesoniah772
    @lovesoniah772 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Listening to you both always makes my day😊❤❤

  • @rizikiokumu
    @rizikiokumu Před 4 měsíci

    I agree with you lydia, my dad never paid attention to me for a child. When my husband assumes me. It hurts me to the core. I would love.him to be the opposite of my dad.

  • @evatwili157
    @evatwili157 Před 5 měsíci +1

    The link to the podcast that Lydia mentioned please 😊

  • @carolinemusila9748
    @carolinemusila9748 Před 4 měsíci

    I just left my 8 year relationship a month ago because apparently my ex 27 yr old guy realized that he wants a polygamous marriage unlike me who can NEVER be in one so I had to leave.

  • @charityndegwa2057
    @charityndegwa2057 Před 5 měsíci +1

    👏👏👏👏,I love it here❤

  • @cherrymakena
    @cherrymakena Před 5 měsíci

    Please link the podcast Lydia was talking about in the description box👀

  • @JoanJepkemei-zm6jw
    @JoanJepkemei-zm6jw Před 5 měsíci +1

    Consider featuring Kwambox

  • @annemwaura3910
    @annemwaura3910 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Tumefika🎉🎉TMI ❤

  • @KeziahKamau-qu9pe
    @KeziahKamau-qu9pe Před 4 měsíci +1

    Lyd u look amazing 😍 😍

  • @lynbee1238
    @lynbee1238 Před 5 měsíci +2

    ❤Love you girls❤

  • @TumpeineMapenai
    @TumpeineMapenai Před 5 měsíci +2

    I love you guys 😘

  • @teresiahnyokabi78
    @teresiahnyokabi78 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I'm always here

  • @wakazinyange
    @wakazinyange Před 18 dny

    A Japanese man with dreads?!😂😂😂🤣

  • @messymbigo6736
    @messymbigo6736 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Earlybird here 🥰

  • @beatricesloan7063
    @beatricesloan7063 Před 4 měsíci

    Loving the conversation but the Japanese men in dreads 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @muchain2985
    @muchain2985 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Who has Googled Japanese men with dreads 😂

  • @missw.4882
    @missw.4882 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Someone rephrase that 'bar' quote by Murugi's mom ..didn't quite get it

    • @wambuimuthoni4221
      @wambuimuthoni4221 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Me too I didn't get it

    • @splendouruzima3297
      @splendouruzima3297 Před 4 měsíci

      Like getting to the bar first doesn't mean you'll be the first one to get drunk i.e. you may be at a good place now but that doesn't mean you are the first one to win in life. I hope mnaniget. More like kutangulia si kufika

    • @missw.4882
      @missw.4882 Před 4 měsíci

      @splendouruzima3297 thank you!!! It makes sense

  • @Grandey38
    @Grandey38 Před 4 měsíci

    Lyd didn't tag the love podcast about us being kids in adult bodies

    • @faithnamu5063
      @faithnamu5063 Před 4 měsíci

      It's on the description box ..I hope you saw it

  • @Faith.m.m
    @Faith.m.m Před 5 měsíci

    What's the name of the podcast that lyd was talking about?

  • @tracybaraza174
    @tracybaraza174 Před 4 měsíci

    Stuck on Japanese men with dreads 😂

  • @dianamaina7530
    @dianamaina7530 Před 5 měsíci +1

    ❤️❤️

  • @perpetualjambi7011
    @perpetualjambi7011 Před 4 měsíci

    Japanese men with dreads 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @winnymwangi984
    @winnymwangi984 Před 5 měsíci +1

    💋

  • @ivynjoro1442
    @ivynjoro1442 Před 5 měsíci +2

    🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @ZippyKazi-Carzy
    @ZippyKazi-Carzy Před 5 měsíci

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @britneyG1837
    @britneyG1837 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I need to try schedule sex, it just seem boring from the outside

  • @perpetualwahu9769
    @perpetualwahu9769 Před 5 měsíci +3

    109th viewer ❤

  • @mercykariuki7463
    @mercykariuki7463 Před 4 měsíci

    Japanese men with dreads...really Lydia 😅😅😅😅

  • @shikuhadassah6550
    @shikuhadassah6550 Před 4 dny

    Someone said am a look a like so am here to see myself@Munyi