Dating - The good, the bad & the ugly | Episode 131

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  • čas přidán 28. 05. 2024
  • For all those dating put your hands up 🙌🏽 and for those who aren’t, do you remember how your dating experience was ?
    In this episode we will be talking about all things relationship mostly DATING 🥰 as we look at both the good side and ugly side through our eyes 🫣
    Be sure to share with us your dating experience below in the comments and also let us know can you relate with some of the things we’ve talked about? 👀
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Komentáře • 188

  • @beatriceamundi4000
    @beatriceamundi4000 Před 2 měsíci +111

    I'm here to remind the babes who download to watch later...lets appreciate that we are able to do that but also as you download remember to like and on the process of download let them ads run so our girls continue to bring us all these rich episodes...Ameeeen sambarry?

  • @princess_keri_precious
    @princess_keri_precious Před 2 měsíci +97

    Imagine because of watching tmi I feel so matured in my twenties. No way im people pleasing ...im extremely intentional about the dating. Its about my self worth on the line😑no wasting any bit of myself 💯😐😐

    • @ashleynganga
      @ashleynganga Před 2 měsíci

      Righttttt

    • @user-rj6po5dy4f
      @user-rj6po5dy4f Před 2 měsíci

      Me to gosh I feel like I know everything, 😂I love tmi😢

    • @user-qt6wr4pf4k
      @user-qt6wr4pf4k Před 2 měsíci

      Ikrrrrrr tell me about it. I feel so mature for my age and mind you I'm just 20

  • @nalwovie954
    @nalwovie954 Před 2 měsíci +36

    One thing about Murugi, “I feel like we should do an episode on….” is always at the tip of her tongue!😂 I love it!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @alycemuigai3769
    @alycemuigai3769 Před 2 měsíci +30

    Im I the only one who has noticed Lyds jeans have one thigh looking like the African continent? Anyway I digress, real conversation here. Dating in your 30s is definitely very different. Especially when one has done the internal work and understood themselves and what they want.

  • @mitchellmaina83
    @mitchellmaina83 Před 2 měsíci +15

    Shiv and shiku met in their 20s and it still worked , so did most of our parents. You can meet the love of your life at 21 . There's no age limit for finding a lifetime partner, it just takes a lot of work and understanding each other.

  • @lornahbuffy2201
    @lornahbuffy2201 Před 2 měsíci +45

    Okay, u have prooved your point..you were right singing is better!! Lets do that. Let's go back to singing...we apologize

  • @maremboke
    @maremboke Před 2 měsíci +153

    Now I really miss the singing tmi 😂

  • @flonya1334
    @flonya1334 Před 2 měsíci +34

    I love your shows ladies! Good job.
    Being a single lady, never dated, very financially stable and own my own house in a gated community....I can't imagine sharing my beautiful space with a man, with all the inconveniences that would come with that.

    • @edinahkendi9871
      @edinahkendi9871 Před 2 měsíci +4

      gurlllll tapping into that financial stability

  • @Augenia
    @Augenia Před 2 měsíci +15

    There is something about Lydia's honesty ❤❤❤

  • @patriciatum1677
    @patriciatum1677 Před 2 měsíci +41

    Met my man on bumble, marrying him in a month 😌

  • @mercythairu2943
    @mercythairu2943 Před 2 měsíci +9

    Is it just me or I feel like Murugi is always targeting Lydia for things that she thinks Lydia "should" have. Lyd is so matured and has grown and I love to see that about her😍

  • @richardjoelweaver6949
    @richardjoelweaver6949 Před 2 měsíci +25

    Murungi whoever does your make up does phenomenal job!

  • @paulinekwamboka121
    @paulinekwamboka121 Před 2 měsíci +12

    This episode is eye opening.
    Take home message:
    1.) Don't assume. Define who you are to each other early on in the relationship.
    2.) Ask those difficult questions like are you going to marry each other.
    3.) Date other people as you wait to find a suitable partner for you to marry .
    4.)Meet family and friends of each other early
    5.) If you removed money as a factor, would you date the person you are with now?

  • @muthonimwirikia
    @muthonimwirikia Před 2 měsíci +32

    Loving Lyd's blazer😍🔥🔥🔥

  • @missinjairu1448
    @missinjairu1448 Před 2 měsíci +17

    I think Ivy's point was pretty much clear, most of us just got triggered 🤣🤣🤣.

    • @petronillahmueni7577
      @petronillahmueni7577 Před 2 měsíci +2

      That woman is really triggering intellectually,very wise,she leaves me with panick attacks anytime I listen to her😂😂

    • @missinjairu1448
      @missinjairu1448 Před 2 měsíci

      Foreal foreal 💯💯​@@petronillahmueni7577

  • @marythuo8404
    @marythuo8404 Před 2 měsíci +16

    did @Lyd say she's dating 🎉🎉 yaaaaay.. congratulations big sis..

  • @maryirungu8521
    @maryirungu8521 Před 2 měsíci +24

    I really love this conversation cause i really need it as a single 27yr lady

  • @herb_a_day
    @herb_a_day Před 2 měsíci +8

    About the cheating, it's rampant. I personally turn down more married men than single ones. And running into people's husband's on dating sites is what got me to leave dating sites 😂. I am not saying there are no good men, I am saying majority are vile and don't even think they are.

  • @franciscaampratwum8397
    @franciscaampratwum8397 Před 2 měsíci +47

    Naaaa...let's go back to singing 😂

  • @wanjiku805
    @wanjiku805 Před 2 měsíci +10

    Not 62 tomorrow 😂. Lyd you have a way with words.

  • @sellahchabe1248
    @sellahchabe1248 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I agree with Lydia 💯.Dating in your 30s is totally different from the 20s.What I know and what now at 32 is totally different from what I wanted when I was younger.And about the high level of prostitution on dating apps it's totally true aswell.Its so sad when all men see their on the sites is a booty call.I am a high value woman I have my boundaries and men get shocked when I tell them am not on the app for prostitution.And all yes its raining everywhere even here in Zambia the dating pool stinks.

  • @yourstrulyKe
    @yourstrulyKe Před 2 měsíci +5

    Y'all are preaching!!!
    These are the good old days❤🎉

  • @MinPatience
    @MinPatience Před 2 měsíci +6

    Dating in my 30s and YAS! No time to dwell on what’s not working 👐🏽

  • @vivianrono6287
    @vivianrono6287 Před 2 měsíci +1

    This is really the best episode. I'm definitely making wiser dating decisions.❤❤

  • @sheyogutu
    @sheyogutu Před 2 měsíci +3

    I have been sleeping on this channel😮 time to set camp ❤😂

  • @_mumbinjenga
    @_mumbinjenga Před 2 měsíci +6

    It's definitely TMIIIIIIIIIII❤🎉

  • @faithmwanda9818
    @faithmwanda9818 Před 2 měsíci

    I love you addressed the issue from last episode. And I get what Ivy was saying

  • @user-mz6zm9oe5i
    @user-mz6zm9oe5i Před 2 měsíci +5

    In love with this already ya'll look stunning ❤

  • @buyisilembatha3854
    @buyisilembatha3854 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Another beautiful episode...Related so much ❤

  • @mercypeter402
    @mercypeter402 Před 2 měsíci +9

    I'm at work but I can't miss watching your episodes among the first people😍

  • @akiinefaexperiencinglife
    @akiinefaexperiencinglife Před 2 měsíci +4

    Happy new year ladies🎉

  • @beloncekamz2821
    @beloncekamz2821 Před 2 měsíci +15

    Yaaay! It's Definitely TMIIIIIIII 💃🏿. Happy belated birthdays Queens 🎂🎂🎉🎉. Aki mapenzi wewe😅🤭.

  • @sherrynjoroge5467
    @sherrynjoroge5467 Před 2 měsíci +2

    You should now start doing movies or documentaries. Its such a joy listening/watching you guys i need waaaaay mooooore tiiiiiimmmmmeeeeee lol

  • @scovie6926
    @scovie6926 Před 2 měsíci +6

    Belated Happy Birthday, girls..and yes, it's definitely Tee-Mmm-Iii
    Let's keep it at singing, ladies ❤

  • @user-wo8tn1cm4k
    @user-wo8tn1cm4k Před 2 měsíci +3

    Its Lydia's Hair For me 🤩🤩

  • @thehkc.collection
    @thehkc.collection Před 2 měsíci +3

    i can hear your whispers lydia☺

  • @tendokaren4418
    @tendokaren4418 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Wonderful wonderful wonderful intro 🎉🎉love it love it .... we're back to it😊I won't stop reminding you guys 😭❤

  • @Sherri997
    @Sherri997 Před 2 měsíci

    I always resonate with Lydia's POV, especially on relationship matters. Every time she speaks, I'm like, yaass! Giirl same, that's something I would say /do.

  • @hakayi9130
    @hakayi9130 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Lyd, your outfit is it hunny!🔥
    Sometimes i worry am just too healed 😂😂😂 it will take a miracle🙏🏽😜

  • @deemb5284
    @deemb5284 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I'm happy with the intro it's giving 35

  • @thiccrich
    @thiccrich Před 2 měsíci +1

    ❤❤❤❤ love the TMI talks

  • @maureenndinda3001
    @maureenndinda3001 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Congratulations Lydia 😊

  • @perismkala4275
    @perismkala4275 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Happy birthday to you my loves though it's late 💞💞💞 nawapenda sana

  • @joyceyugi9266
    @joyceyugi9266 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Lyd you look amazing in this episode. Love the fit.❤

  • @mercythairu2943
    @mercythairu2943 Před 2 měsíci +5

    😊 I love how Lyd had grown

  • @eshycmwangi
    @eshycmwangi Před 2 měsíci

    Great 💎💎💎 on the GREEN Couch🌟⭐️🌟

  • @baddieszn5599
    @baddieszn5599 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Happy birthday guyss ❤😊

  • @sibagumede1469
    @sibagumede1469 Před 2 měsíci +2

    We can download now again🎉 am I not a happy subscriber, I've been missing episodes cause of work buuut now we back!!!

  • @olivianorah4742
    @olivianorah4742 Před 2 měsíci +1

    In my introspection about dating I was thinking of the same thing..... extending grace. Literally a few minutes ago 🤯

  • @dewpew4714
    @dewpew4714 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Yes I would still get married to my husband if he didn't have money. Because that is not what attracts me to him. I am attracted to his genius mind, maybe because I am a sapiosexual. Never met a man like him. Then couple it with he is kind, composed, honest, good in...🤭many years later, I still look back and smile that I landed him😍

  • @odufaikogho5674
    @odufaikogho5674 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Love you ladies!!! ❤

  • @rhodesmugo
    @rhodesmugo Před 2 měsíci +1

    Happy 😊 birthday 🍰 hunnies ❤❤❤

  • @alicewambui3420
    @alicewambui3420 Před 2 měsíci +4

    I'm heree🎉🎉 Wednesday made check☑️

  • @faithwambui2641
    @faithwambui2641 Před 2 měsíci +1

    It was an awesome episodes🥺❤

  • @melissamay6974
    @melissamay6974 Před 5 dny

    True true, what you focus on grows... that's why I am always a fan of kina Wajesus and Dominion fam for being loud with their working marriages and relationships... they are fr standing in a gap, and despite any drama, they're being brave.
    Loved this episode❤

  • @sharonwanja7303
    @sharonwanja7303 Před 2 měsíci

    Hi thanks for this episode,,
    How long should talking stage last?

  • @josiegacau
    @josiegacau Před 2 měsíci +9

    met my fiancee on ok cupid cheers to finding our people!!!!

  • @juligamineofficial734
    @juligamineofficial734 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Inlove with Lydia's dangaree

  • @rizikiokumu
    @rizikiokumu Před 2 měsíci

    Yes Lydia the good, are few. That is for sure

  • @edinahkendi9871
    @edinahkendi9871 Před 2 měsíci +4

    am like lyd rightnow...more intentional..im on bumble and the experience is nice,,not yet gotten anyone compatible like that but am more vigilant and not just dating

  • @suzannembithe9221
    @suzannembithe9221 Před 2 měsíci +6

    I was used to 'its definitely tmiiii... ' I'll get used to though 😭😂😂

  • @shelmithmuthoni3841
    @shelmithmuthoni3841 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I feel like the chances of a woman staying unmarried after they hit 30 are very high cos they are soo much aware

    • @ichooseviolence2532
      @ichooseviolence2532 Před měsícem +2

      It's not about them being aware.. it's about many men's preferences as they age. Her age mates and even older will always go for the younger babes

  • @TheUgandancook
    @TheUgandancook Před 2 měsíci +1

    Lydia, that BLAZER, 🔥 🔥🔥

  • @user-wo8tn1cm4k
    @user-wo8tn1cm4k Před 2 měsíci +1

    We hate change😂😭😭 you've changed everythingg

  • @shanicemumbi6993
    @shanicemumbi6993 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Can we sing please 🥺😢😢 eeeey!

  • @adventureswithphi405
    @adventureswithphi405 Před 2 měsíci +5

    imagine saying the intro with you guys and there's no singing!!! please bring it back. Hii ya sahi haibambi!

  • @SunshineVickie
    @SunshineVickie Před 2 měsíci +3

    Why do I usually envision Eli as Lyd's match!? 😂😂😂 y'all tell me it's not just me please

  • @princess_keri_precious
    @princess_keri_precious Před 2 měsíci +8

    The conversation about removing money from the equation 🥴🥴

    • @royalusala8527
      @royalusala8527 Před 2 měsíci

      pertinent indeed.. Ladies need to ask that question... And be willing to humbly listen to the answers

  • @brighterdays1322
    @brighterdays1322 Před 2 měsíci +2

    That men are not capable part, weh. Felt it to the core.

  • @andabwarosekiarie5477
    @andabwarosekiarie5477 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Lyd you look amazing 😍

  • @carolynemuthoni8813
    @carolynemuthoni8813 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I met my fiance on tagged. It's been 10months n going strong ❤

  • @Monicahkabaria
    @Monicahkabaria Před 2 měsíci +1

    Topic on how to get feminine/femininity energy back😅..am on my masculinity energies ever

  • @fareedmatovu4336
    @fareedmatovu4336 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Funny thing if you wanna search it up there is a trend called gwababa which is the fear of approaching women so when you talked about are men still approaching women sometimes you don't to be put in a humbling experience

  • @vanessalusi2590
    @vanessalusi2590 Před měsícem +1

    My biggest question has been ..What would you do if your boyfriend was asking another lady for a chance to date them and even named you a bestie?

  • @abbykykys4586
    @abbykykys4586 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Hapana hapana I shiver when you do the compromised TMI statement/song 😢 it's good to compromise on some things but somethings are just good. Plz go back to singing not singing feels boring like an intro to a boring lecture 😭😭😭😭

  • @graceguya1682
    @graceguya1682 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Interesting episode as usual. However the ending was abrupt, Lydia was cut off mid sentence and there was no montage after the episode. Error during editing in post production ? 🤔.

  • @andabwarosekiarie5477
    @andabwarosekiarie5477 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Murugi I love your top❤

  • @rizikiokumu
    @rizikiokumu Před 2 měsíci

    People underate marriage. Its a lifetime commitment and it has little humans involved that need you more. I wish People do it by choice and not societal pressure.

  • @ayikiriizemartha4640
    @ayikiriizemartha4640 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Can we bring back the singing?

  • @deekmuninga
    @deekmuninga Před 2 měsíci +1

    Sasa now that you’ve removed the singing part, what I am I supposed to do with my life?🤔 Please bring it back abeg.😀 Much love from Uganda.🇺🇬

  • @shelmithmuthoni3841
    @shelmithmuthoni3841 Před 2 měsíci

    My hubby and I were born a day apart 5yrs diff❤ we think we were aligned to be

  • @janiceaoko4586
    @janiceaoko4586 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Why are we not singing "it's definitely tmiiiiii," 😢😢now there goes one of my underated pleasure of life 😂😂

  • @carrielmike
    @carrielmike Před 2 měsíci +2

    Waaaa. .we stopped singing TMIiiiiiiiiiii😢

  • @banterwithqueendess7376
    @banterwithqueendess7376 Před 2 měsíci +7

    Lydd that wig hairstyle looks perfect on you.

  • @noellaliz5911
    @noellaliz5911 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Just to add on, the ugly in dating, when money is involved. You've gotten to a point you are comfortable with one another and you lend him money out of goodwill then hapo kwa malipo!!!Yooh!sh*t becomes the ghetto 😢

    • @lianawangari1586
      @lianawangari1586 Před 2 měsíci

      A man who loves you will never ask you for money hunnie... Run!

  • @winniewixakiror
    @winniewixakiror Před 2 měsíci

    Aah dating in 30… talk about the struggle for of meeting people because of our schedules.. like after work all I can think about is getting home

  • @nisamusyoka9917
    @nisamusyoka9917 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Personally I miss the old old intro, the sass in its DEFinitely Tmi was it!😂

  • @naomisheezy
    @naomisheezy Před 2 měsíci +2

    I met my husband on Bumble 🐝🥰

  • @janenjoki500
    @janenjoki500 Před 2 měsíci

    The way you mention my name Jane!!! 😂

  • @natashamuronji102
    @natashamuronji102 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Not lydia pushing it even further from 40 to 62 for Murugi😂😂😂😂

  • @mwangi_mweru_9599
    @mwangi_mweru_9599 Před 2 měsíci +3

    I need the song😢😢

  • @mwanjiku6744
    @mwanjiku6744 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Me in the comments section…. Mtangaze msimamo in betweers, are we singing or doing the news stance 😂 or we can have half of both worlds😄

  • @paxliviacherono7157
    @paxliviacherono7157 Před 2 měsíci +4

    We can call it a Wednesday

  • @veronicahwekesa4845
    @veronicahwekesa4845 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Now am left singing alone

  • @julietbonaya9556
    @julietbonaya9556 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I missed the part when you started dating

  • @TumpeineMapenai
    @TumpeineMapenai Před 2 měsíci +4

    I love you guys so much 😫❤️

  • @isabelomolo8853
    @isabelomolo8853 Před 2 měsíci

    Please bring back the singing😂😂

  • @anzalbabe
    @anzalbabe Před 2 měsíci

    Several questions were asked, I'll answer one a big NO!, iykyk😂

  • @yolz555
    @yolz555 Před 2 měsíci +2

    How do you change your mind about those beliefs of men you have seen around you growing up .

  • @muthonimbugua8867
    @muthonimbugua8867 Před 2 měsíci +1

    When Lyd mentions ' Lizard'😂😂😂