Love Dorsey: Deconstructing Toxic Relationships

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  • čas přidán 14. 02. 2024
  • Love Dorsey: Deconstructing Toxic Relationships! In this discussion we will uncover the issues and concerns surrounding day to day relationship matters stemming from single mother households, absent fathers, and the lack of accountability.

Komentáře • 404

  • @promayes8186
    @promayes8186 Před 3 měsíci +62

    I stumbled across this show and I really love the fact that I did I've never heard of this guy that has this show but so far so good he's got a good thing going raising awareness to a very vital part of our black community I've never heard of this young lady but she is speaking facts and I like the fact that it was a nice constructive conversation with substance and purpose instead of a yelling match back and forth about two insecure people male and female yelling at one or the other saying how the black woman is to blame or the black man is to blame thank you brother for just having a nice adult mature conversation without power struggles thank you sister for presenting yourself as a young lady with class instead of male bashing I will black men but really just speaking in love for both black men and women so that we can get back to black family unit and work together with each other instead of falling for the tricks that have been thrown out for us to go against each other cuz that has been the problem for far too long. And thanks to the both of you for conveying this message in a way that everyone from Every Walk of Life in the black community can understand nothing went over my head or underneath me I understood exactly both points of view. The final thought I know a lot of what she touched on was difficult for black females to hear but it's nothing but the gut wrenching truth cuz we need to get to the bottom of it and fix it on our end cuz what we been doing is not working going against each other is not working and I'm with her I don't care nothing about being a modern woman I grew up with women allowing the man to be head of the household as nature intended I grew up with a wonderful father that my mom did not mind being submissive to because he was an excellent leader and she knew the order of things the same way he knew the order of things and he always treated my mom with the utmost respect and took pride and protecting his family and providing and guiding my brothers to know how to be men and they are excellent man because of it and I feel like I'm an excellent woman in my own right because of the example that I had in my mother is so important to have both in the house if all possible and I definitely Believe In traditional gender roles I don't care nothing about getting under no car fixing on a house. All of these Heavy Artillery jobs that men have to do most of the time I don't care to do it and do appreciate a hard working man so I definitely could understand what was being said about that . and the welfare system broke down the black family in our time.. this is a great show

    • @RelaxAndTakeNotesPodcast
      @RelaxAndTakeNotesPodcast  Před 3 měsíci

      🎉🎉🎉

    • @oliver25ster
      @oliver25ster Před 3 měsíci

      ​@RelaxAndTakeNotesPodcast you a smart brother man. You definitely good at interviewing. The other podcast that had love dorsey, didn't know how to interview, they were over talking her and interrupt her.

  • @victormuhammad1393
    @victormuhammad1393 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Grandma used to be 70 on assistance and helped raised babies. Now she’s 28 with the 14 year old daughter with a baby from a dude over 18!!

  • @J_Isabella
    @J_Isabella Před 3 měsíci +95

    One of the most powerful, constructive conversations I've heard in a while. Let's keep having these type of discussions 💯

    • @cookiesandpie4837
      @cookiesandpie4837 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Facts

    • @RAV24FAR
      @RAV24FAR Před 3 měsíci +1

      😊😊😅😊 19:34

    • @MidwestBrotha
      @MidwestBrotha Před 3 měsíci

      You need to watch "We need to Talk" podcast then...this & that are very much on the same level....

  • @Yesimchanel
    @Yesimchanel Před 2 měsíci +6

    I remember dating someone who said
    “I just love being with you because you’re part Korean and you know how to treat a man, y’all Asians cater to your men” that shit made me look at him so poorly because huh? Don’t do that! I am the way I am because I know the struggles we face in our BLACK community and I rather lift up and not drag down. We as a community really do need to come together & change our viewpoints because the same black women you look down on are the same ones who like Love said birthed us. We have to have more love and camaraderie for one another. I’m not your typical mixed girl. I will fight everyone I know tooth & nail to have these types of conversations because WE ARE LOST as a whole. I value our black men & women and it’s time we spread that. Ain’t no way we should be looking outside of our race. Let’s change our experiences PLEASE!!

  • @anitragilmore3239
    @anitragilmore3239 Před 2 měsíci +8

    This woman is anointed by God. May she always be blessed and protected !

  • @nokings92
    @nokings92 Před 3 měsíci +9

    Manhood is about doing what's necessary, without the expectation of being thanked, and being prepared for blame when things go wrong, even when blame is never productive.

  • @Bdoe19
    @Bdoe19 Před 2 měsíci +10

    I can listen to her all day. Dropping gems

  • @coroywheeler2958
    @coroywheeler2958 Před 2 měsíci +12

    Dope conversation she really understands both sides of the coin

  • @Coco_Love
    @Coco_Love Před měsícem +7

    We need each other
    …it’s that simple

  • @georgechambers8912
    @georgechambers8912 Před měsícem +5

    This is a great conversation for the black community. This lady is cooking and very attractive.

  • @BABBALUCCI315
    @BABBALUCCI315 Před měsícem +6

    Appreciate the maturity and honesty of this conversation 💯💪🏿

  • @Marywhite-pd1hw
    @Marywhite-pd1hw Před 3 měsíci +86

    A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

    • @Marywhite-pd1hw
      @Marywhite-pd1hw Před 3 měsíci

      @user-ul3px1ed9i Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @Marywhite-pd1hw
      @Marywhite-pd1hw Před 3 měsíci

      @user-ul3px1ed9i Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @mauricewiley7588
      @mauricewiley7588 Před 3 měsíci

      Time......gets your over things like this

    • @keithwisdom1663
      @keithwisdom1663 Před 3 měsíci

      Why did she leave? Examine yourself and do research.,. Maybe she is turned off by your strong desire to be with her
      Maybe you are not rich enough or maybe she thinks she can do better

    • @pauloskidane2819
      @pauloskidane2819 Před 3 měsíci

      Chronichles of judah

  • @desireeg1441
    @desireeg1441 Před 3 měsíci +12

    I wanna see her and Princella the Queen Maker have a conversation

  • @teachandinspire437
    @teachandinspire437 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Its refreshing to hear her not using profanity every other word.

  • @AJMac1
    @AJMac1 Před 3 měsíci +7

    Would love to watch Love and Dr Umar talk.

  • @2befrank101
    @2befrank101 Před 3 měsíci +5

    This is a incredible conversation!! Both men and women can benefit from this discussion if their willing to listen with a open mind 🙌🏾

  • @ah10t72
    @ah10t72 Před 3 měsíci +6

    She probably the only chick I still have the same type of respect for. She still speak 💯 3 minutes into the vid

  • @NellyMilligan
    @NellyMilligan Před 2 měsíci +6

    This was good, and honestly she needs a bigger platform so that the world can hear this!

  • @CarlLewis-xb4ce
    @CarlLewis-xb4ce Před 3 měsíci +7

    Let's just have these teachings flood the world. The understanding or lack of understanding can be simple starting with the understanding between MEN and WOMEN a lot of problems will be resolved

  • @ObserveStoicism
    @ObserveStoicism Před 3 měsíci +7

    I always love Dorsey, found her before KS, started talking to women. Always spoke light to darkness.

  • @mistamone
    @mistamone Před 3 měsíci +6

    Men have to understand to pick women that's in their lane. I love Dorsey because she keeps It real. Men have to teach other Men about hiarchy and where their actually position in the dating market.

  • @promayes8186
    @promayes8186 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Shout out to Queen Elder Miss Ali who was the pioneer of the very same message that this young lady is saying today much respect

  • @neteraunkh406
    @neteraunkh406 Před 3 měsíci +6

    First time listening to Love Dorsey. I must say today...she has a new fan!

  • @jmbarnes87
    @jmbarnes87 Před 2 měsíci +5

    I needed this! And I need to go apologize to my spouse. Thank You

  • @A_lady_alwyz
    @A_lady_alwyz Před měsícem +4

    She & Princella need to talk...that would be EPIC! #IYKYK

    • @caline626
      @caline626 Před měsícem +1

      Ohh that’s what I’m waiting on!

    • @Mrs.Yates0417
      @Mrs.Yates0417 Před měsícem +2

      Exactly! I would love to see that

  • @chavislawrence2465
    @chavislawrence2465 Před 2 měsíci +3

    This Is The Conversation OF THE YEAR So Far .... One That Can Save The Culture By Both Sides Being Accountable So WE Can Come BACK Together For The Future!!🦍👑

  • @akiria0628
    @akiria0628 Před 3 měsíci +4

    I adore Love Dorsey! She is so real and raw! This is one of THE BEST podcasts I’ve watched ❤

  • @tajefleming810
    @tajefleming810 Před měsícem +3

    You guys should have y’all on show. The best podcast out here… why?! Because you guys actually provide real solutions and hold men and women accountable. Unlike these other podcast who only fuel this gender war between men and women.

  • @keithwisdom1663
    @keithwisdom1663 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Problem is that we should invite the experts who have actually researched and documented these facts. We discount the scholars who can prove the truth.

    • @desireeg1441
      @desireeg1441 Před 3 měsíci

      Yes because what they’re saying sort of contradicts what scholars are saying about men and women biologically… what are these two backgrounds in education? Or are they just spitting opinions based off experiences?

    • @keithwisdom1663
      @keithwisdom1663 Před 3 měsíci

      @@desireeg1441 seems like the scholars don't want anything to do with talking heads. They stay out at work and at school. Or perhaps the masses don't like smart

  • @milliewinfield5919
    @milliewinfield5919 Před 3 měsíci +5

    What a phenomenal conversation! Powerful truths. They hit it from every angle!

  • @Dunbar_Dynamics
    @Dunbar_Dynamics Před 3 měsíci +3

    When I say I love me some Love Dorsey‼️ I am in her book club and mentorship program! Have done plenty one on ones and zooms ❤ she hasn’t let me down ever 🤞

  • @ishorneramsey4244
    @ishorneramsey4244 Před 3 měsíci +3

    She is a bad women! she is speaking facts!

  • @user-mr1mq8ge1q
    @user-mr1mq8ge1q Před 5 dny

    These Problems have Existed Far Before "Social Media"

  • @Thr33SixZer0
    @Thr33SixZer0 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Every possible relationship is not a plausible relationship.
    Meaning just because yall can be togethe doesnt mean you should.
    If you are the type of man that cant deal with a woman out earning you... then DONT deal with a woman out earning you... its just that simple.

  • @zackeryjasmine
    @zackeryjasmine Před 3 měsíci +4

    I love the conversation. I want to be clear when I say that men and women have to be accountable for relational issues. However, accountability starts 1st with men and then women. If you want to look at who raised the boy who became the man we see, you’ll find that there’s a mother who cannot do beyond what she knows (yet many do a wonderful job, considering the circumstances). you cannot look at the mother who raised a son without asking, “where’s the father”. You learn this even in the corporate world that part of leadership is assuming responsibility 1st. God said, “Adam where are thou”. Let’s deal with you first.

    • @mrskeeford
      @mrskeeford Před 3 měsíci

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @SouthernSingingKitchen
    @SouthernSingingKitchen Před 2 měsíci +4

    If you don’t know Shahrazad Ali please look her up and read her books. Love Dorsey is making strides for us as well

  • @MichaelRoberts-yo1hz
    @MichaelRoberts-yo1hz Před 2 měsíci +4

    She’s Holding women accountable

  • @abbysrl12
    @abbysrl12 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Love me some Love Dorsey ❤

  • @GemaiyeSelene
    @GemaiyeSelene Před 2 měsíci +5

    This is a beautiful interview!💛

  • @syddejbau
    @syddejbau Před 3 měsíci +3

    Excellent content… She is GODS CHOSEN ONE..

  • @carolynanderson1779

    OMGosh how I wish I had this guidance and correction when I was a child having children. Great conversation very much needed

  • @Bdoe19
    @Bdoe19 Před 2 měsíci +3

    I really hate that I am just now finding about this strong beautiful woman

  • @amilcargonzalez6794
    @amilcargonzalez6794 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Team love Dorsey for life

  • @roydwiggins
    @roydwiggins Před měsícem +1

    That comment 'they immitate what they precieve as power'. Deep.

  • @duanenonlyac
    @duanenonlyac Před 3 měsíci +2

    Fantastic conversation. I attended one of Love’s events last year and she is indeed in the trenches educating, motivating and inspiring people about real life issues so that we can one-by-one overcome the trauma’s our people have faced for decades. During that event I got the opportunity to meet her and she’s really genuine and down to Earth. Great video.

  • @8a8yBleu
    @8a8yBleu Před 2 měsíci +2

    Amazingly raw conversation that needed to be had publicly! Loved every moment of it.

  • @aririyqueens4150
    @aririyqueens4150 Před měsícem +2

    This conversation helps to bring change. I thank you both. I would love to converse and add to the wisdom. Beautiful!!

  • @mellads86
    @mellads86 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Can we talk about the adults that were raised by both parents and still have toxic traits

    • @victormuhammad1393
      @victormuhammad1393 Před 2 měsíci +3

      We should but let’s address the toxic parents first then the environmental influenced inheritance.

  • @MYCHELLE4EVA
    @MYCHELLE4EVA Před 3 měsíci +3

    Love this conversation. Thank both of you for having this hard conversation that nobody wants to talk about. Definitely an eye opener

  • @richbabe7836
    @richbabe7836 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Man I didn’t want this to end.

  • @poohtoo33
    @poohtoo33 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Great conversation very balanced!!!

  • @ItssTDuhh
    @ItssTDuhh Před 3 měsíci +3

    Brought tears to my ears this whole podcast I hope this buss like kat Williams did ❤❤

  • @ItsOkayToBeHappy
    @ItsOkayToBeHappy Před 3 měsíci +4

    A+ I loved this conversation, thank you everyone involved in this production for the work you are doing!

  • @user-mr1mq8ge1q
    @user-mr1mq8ge1q Před 5 dny

    We ALL Experience (have) Those Thoughts And Experiencees

  • @noillcallyou
    @noillcallyou Před 2 měsíci +2

    The part where he put his woman through law school is true. They be looking to leave when they make more money. Then she turn around and won't help you get to that level because you the man you suppose to pay for everything.

  • @KarenDelores
    @KarenDelores Před 2 měsíci +4

    I am so thankful that this podcast is "non-ghetto" the last podcast she was on was N this and B that and the whole platform was not relatable for me. This is a breath of fresh air to listen to.

    • @kimberlyb6522
      @kimberlyb6522 Před 2 měsíci +5

      You must not be familiar with her platform then 😅

    • @KarenDelores
      @KarenDelores Před 2 měsíci +3

      I am very familiar with it, she cleaned it up for this man and I appreciate the respect she has for him and herself on this one

    • @victormuhammad1393
      @victormuhammad1393 Před 2 měsíci

      Those words don’t water down the message . She knows who she’s talking to

  • @wallace245ful
    @wallace245ful Před 3 měsíci +2

    Every black woman needs to watch this

  • @rogerchamorro9127
    @rogerchamorro9127 Před měsícem +4

    She can be a modern woman in the business world and traditional at home.

  • @imdoinbttrthnu
    @imdoinbttrthnu Před 2 měsíci +2

    I adore Dorsey. Been listening to her for a couple years.. and she rap well. Straight fact checker all day long ❤

    • @lesmichele39
      @lesmichele39 Před 2 měsíci +1

      I’m just getting hip to her, I like her and will be checking out more of her content. I’m salty I never heard of her but better late than never

  • @HalosOrbit
    @HalosOrbit Před 3 měsíci +5

    I really enjoyed this conversation

  • @brownsugarmisha9936
    @brownsugarmisha9936 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Love doesn’t miss ❤ this was so good and the host added great value as well 💯

  • @AsAFather_TV
    @AsAFather_TV Před 3 měsíci +3

    This was a phenomenal conversation! Salute to the both of you! 🫡🙏🏾💪🏾

  • @a.j.7016
    @a.j.7016 Před 3 měsíci +8

    Modern men need modern women. And transitional men need traditional women. Those mindsets arent compatible. Its a waste of time.

    • @sekhemasaru5718
      @sekhemasaru5718 Před 3 měsíci

      Interesting because bluntly it seems very logical.

  • @mbrown7804
    @mbrown7804 Před 2 dny

    These conversations.
    Podcasts should be held in the schools....how can yall.reach these street kids in Atlanta???? These slots is needed on 107.9 and V-103 instead of those dumb ass challenges. .etc. Shout out to "Let Go" the side pieces....to capture the culture 😊

  • @shaysmith6577
    @shaysmith6577 Před měsícem +1

    I WOULD LOVEEE FOR DORSEY TO BE ON RAVEN SIMONES PODCAST or vice versa!!! That would be an interesting one.

  • @jazlaflor
    @jazlaflor Před 2 měsíci +2

    From a digital marketing standpoint, this is a great hook…

  • @skyrainna8332
    @skyrainna8332 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Love Dorsey speak 🗣️ on it sis ❤💯

  • @MikaAKAJada
    @MikaAKAJada Před 3 měsíci +1

    No man will ever lead me. Love, love Dorsey, saw me through the hard 2019-2021 changes and I grew up…watching the world fall apart and to see my dreams escape as the people have chose the wrong side of the tracks... Love her lives, respect😘

    • @robertcoker5086
      @robertcoker5086 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Are you crazy😂men built and established everything that enables you to make a living. Understanding is what most don't grasp.

    • @MikaAKAJada
      @MikaAKAJada Před 3 měsíci

      @@robertcoker5086are you this mean in person? Hope god, he or she, takes it easy on you. 👋🏽

    • @janushomer9111
      @janushomer9111 Před 2 měsíci

      @@MikaAKAJadayou need a therapist

    • @MikaAKAJada
      @MikaAKAJada Před 2 měsíci

      @@janushomer9111 delete this, you are mean and I was not addressed to you, only love Dorsey. Please and thanks.

  • @user-mr1mq8ge1q
    @user-mr1mq8ge1q Před 5 dny

    Our Choices Effect Their Future

  • @Prwttyleo
    @Prwttyleo Před měsícem +3

    Love Dorsey❤

  • @psalms91eva
    @psalms91eva Před 3 měsíci +3

    Deep! Thank you for this. Definitely sharing this on my FB page and sending to my children and family members. You two really broke this down. 🔥 🔥 🔥 ❤️

  • @Amorexsilium
    @Amorexsilium Před 3 měsíci +4

    She know she look good in that Orange.

  • @J.O.561
    @J.O.561 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Sista Ali and Love Dorsey 💪🏾❤

  • @marcusevans406
    @marcusevans406 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Love Dorsey is needed

  • @andrewroberts4666
    @andrewroberts4666 Před 3 měsíci +4

    I imagine why men have such a hard time with women hunting for food is because they have not yet realized that they are kings and should play the role of such

  • @pvnkpecan8106
    @pvnkpecan8106 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Amen ❤ We need each other!

  • @reallyrell8892
    @reallyrell8892 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Solid listen!

  • @alexismcaffee5658
    @alexismcaffee5658 Před 2 měsíci +1

    She is so funny but real I can listen to her all day! Thank you Dorsey!

  • @user-iu4vy1nc1i
    @user-iu4vy1nc1i Před měsícem +1

    Yes this is why I listen to love Dorsey been a fan for years ❤

  • @BrokeTruckerGyal
    @BrokeTruckerGyal Před 3 měsíci +5

    She is so on point.

  • @theblaqueowtpodcast
    @theblaqueowtpodcast Před měsícem +1

    I love Love Dorsey so bad!! She really helped me through a lot! ❤❤❤

  • @Private_Pookie
    @Private_Pookie Před 3 měsíci +2

    I've experienced a women seemingly display jealousy in my confidence when it came to decision making and problem solving. She was very indecisive and always dwelled in problems versus constructively trying to find solutions. Was always a victim too.

    • @technofilejr3401
      @technofilejr3401 Před měsícem

      Yep how dare you know who you are and what you want to do on your own.

  • @dirkezy
    @dirkezy Před 3 měsíci +3

    great interview!!!!!!!! i want love and charleston sit down too

  • @keeshawnpayne3692
    @keeshawnpayne3692 Před 3 měsíci +4

    This was beautiful

  • @kwekhu-ty7et
    @kwekhu-ty7et Před 3 měsíci +3

    Matters of important senses in common

  • @ron3864
    @ron3864 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I love everything they're talking about. And it's all real really good conversation.

  • @zackerypeterson9308
    @zackerypeterson9308 Před měsícem +1

    Sir, this was a REAL ass conversation. 💯

  • @AC-xz6wy
    @AC-xz6wy Před 2 měsíci +1

    Where is morals and integrity you should not store up riches in this decaying world store up riches in heaven praise Yah

  • @AuthenticallyThick
    @AuthenticallyThick Před 3 měsíci +2

    This was definitely needed. I appreciate yall for this one yall did yall big one came with facts knowledge and fawkin solutions I love it here❤

  • @derricadarling
    @derricadarling Před 12 dny

    Great building information for our community.

  • @kennedypayne9638
    @kennedypayne9638 Před 3 měsíci +7

    i love love dorsey 🫶🏾 so glad she’s been doing interviews lately

  • @ayisyenwa8531
    @ayisyenwa8531 Před 2 měsíci +3

    You earned a new subscriber.

  • @MSSINGFORGOD
    @MSSINGFORGOD Před 3 měsíci +1

    Love this ❤❤❤❤

  • @tanayiaanderson3379
    @tanayiaanderson3379 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I was today years old when I learned about the front part of men’s drawers 🤕

  • @VrenelliBabieV205
    @VrenelliBabieV205 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Greatly Appreciated 🥰 ~Namaste`💞

  • @user-mr1mq8ge1q
    @user-mr1mq8ge1q Před 5 dny

    Thanks for Acknowledging

  • @staceywilson5212
    @staceywilson5212 Před 3 měsíci +3

    The goat speaks ❤

  • @shomarimonroe150
    @shomarimonroe150 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Fantastic video and facts

  • @j-millz2x27
    @j-millz2x27 Před 2 měsíci +2

    43:20 She preaching golden nuggets

  • @waltdiesel
    @waltdiesel Před 3 měsíci +2

    I love this woman!!!!!