Manipulation In Relationships: Love Bombing, Gaslighting, Isolation and More!

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  • čas přidán 29. 05. 2024
  • Are you worried that your relationship might be manipulative? In this eye-opening video, we delve into the insidious tactics used by manipulators to control their partners. From love bombing to gaslighting and isolation, we uncover the signs and effects of manipulation in relationships.
    Love bombing, the excessive showering of affection and attention, can seem like a dream come true at first. However, it often masks deeper intentions of manipulation and control. Gaslighting, a form of psychological manipulation, makes the victim doubt their own perceptions and reality, leaving them feeling confused and powerless.
    Isolation tactics, where the manipulator limits their partner's contact with friends and family, further cement their control. These tactics erode self-esteem and independence, leaving the victim feeling trapped and isolated.
    But fear not! Knowledge is power, and understanding these manipulation tactics is the first step toward breaking free from their grasp. Join us as we explore these dynamics and empower ourselves to build healthy, respectful relationships based on trust and mutual support.
    Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more insightful content on relationships and personal growth! Let's create a community where love and respect thrive, free from manipulation and control.

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  • @pastorAdrion
    @pastorAdrion Před měsícem +85

    I love “we can disagree but let’s not disconnect” that’s real talk 🔥🔥💯💯💯🎯🎯🎯

  • @Bdoe19
    @Bdoe19 Před měsícem +56

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  • @Mr.Jones41
    @Mr.Jones41 Před měsícem +30

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    @tracygibson6901 Před měsícem +57

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      @2pumps1swirl82 Před měsícem +1

      Right idk about other men but i LOVE that deep raspy voice on a woman

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    @FreeGameDame Před měsícem +58

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    • @RelaxAndTakeNotesPodcast
      @RelaxAndTakeNotesPodcast  Před měsícem +10

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      @bcarter5730 Před měsícem +3

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      @focusedsmitty9325 Před měsícem

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      @kawantilisby2563 Před měsícem

      Nice24

  • @user-er9hv4pl2u
    @user-er9hv4pl2u Před měsícem +184

    Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it.

    • @DavidVelasquez9
      @DavidVelasquez9 Před měsícem +2

      there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

    • @user-er9hv4pl2u
      @user-er9hv4pl2u Před měsícem +2

      its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.

    • @DavidVelasquez9
      @DavidVelasquez9 Před měsícem +1

      this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.

    • @bigtruss1111
      @bigtruss1111 Před 24 dny

      @@user-er9hv4pl2u who was your spiritual advisor?

  • @1111spiritualone
    @1111spiritualone Před 28 dny +5

    There describing narcissistic people and that half of the world now. Stay close to God and keep moving forward

  • @victormuhammad1393
    @victormuhammad1393 Před měsícem +18

    We don’t have a true culture anymore. Just points of interest and behavior that appeals to our impulsive desires

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    @jeanitasykes4421 Před měsícem +14

    Yesss, grown women don't mind being checked respectfully. My daddy never yelled at us but he checked me and my sisters smooth like.

  • @thetruthteller33
    @thetruthteller33 Před 13 dny +2

    Omg im 5 minutes in and baby these are the conversations we need to have. Raw and real

  • @chanie06
    @chanie06 Před měsícem +10

    If I like “INTELLECTUAL CONVERSATIONS” was a person, it’ll be this DUO ❤️❤️❤️❤️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @khalidelshabazz4020
    @khalidelshabazz4020 Před 21 dnem +4

    I’ve been watching Love Dorsey for years and I’m still listening to her now
    I’m 54 and still learning and listening, she is so intelligent and she has gotten me through a hard time when I was in love with a woman and she taught me to love myself and stop being so emotionally invested in people when it’s not reciprocated

  • @sherineofficial7851
    @sherineofficial7851 Před měsícem +14

    This is the perfect collaboration for this very necessary conversation. Our people need this so bad..💯

  • @denib4677
    @denib4677 Před měsícem +4

    "Don't go up!" Yes ma'am, because I have no problem with a man saying he didn't like something, but you're NOT gonna do is yell or insult me. Now I'm gonna get into my masculine and match your energy

  • @aerialbarber5077
    @aerialbarber5077 Před měsícem +13

    I love how this has been a series. Love the conversation and this duo.

  • @CarlLewis-xb4ce
    @CarlLewis-xb4ce Před měsícem +7

    This going right into my psychology collection of videos and audiobooks

  • @chenicerogers5928
    @chenicerogers5928 Před 11 dny +1

    Boundaries are definitely the root to a healthy marriage/relationship💚🍃

  • @hankjr017
    @hankjr017 Před měsícem +6

    Part 3 of a much needed conversation. Big ups to all who made this possible.

  • @msshaunamosley
    @msshaunamosley Před měsícem +6

    Y'all did not have to read me my rights like this!!!!! I appreciate being gathered by my people. When you know better you do better!!!

  • @victormuhammad1393
    @victormuhammad1393 Před měsícem +7

    Sometimes we are genetically in the same family but not on the same team.

  • @TheOpinionatedGent
    @TheOpinionatedGent Před měsícem +3

    Play Games, Play Alone...... Come Correct, Get Blessed.

  • @brenyelldelk6932
    @brenyelldelk6932 Před 26 dny +2

    Her platform and what she stands on, is such a blessing to my life as a mom and business woman, THAT accountability hits home for me.

  • @c0cochan3l29
    @c0cochan3l29 Před měsícem +11

    Yall do a very good breakdown and virtually no interruption between the two

  • @cliftonwhite108
    @cliftonwhite108 Před měsícem +11

    Thank you!!!! Been following Love for a minute. Only female whose content is better than most. Thanks again

  • @milliewinfield5919
    @milliewinfield5919 Před měsícem +7

    What a thought provocative conversation, truly insightful! They went deep into the psychology, and pathology of who We are...as we continue to take notes. ❤

  • @designzbyjulez9838
    @designzbyjulez9838 Před 18 dny +2

    Love This Program. Talking real subjects on what's going on in a relationship

  • @ttucker0979
    @ttucker0979 Před měsícem +5

    Love this conversation so much. It’s very important to stay self aware. Healthy relationships with others start with self

  • @AlphaCentauri260
    @AlphaCentauri260 Před měsícem +7

    Love Dorsey is a diamond. She needs to be protected 🙏🏿🔥

  • @jim_doles410
    @jim_doles410 Před měsícem +5

    This a different level of grown folk talk right here! I luv this for us 🕺🏾

  • @tanyaatkinson9682
    @tanyaatkinson9682 Před měsícem +11

    I’m at church right now 😂😂😂❤❤❤

  • @NellyMilligan
    @NellyMilligan Před měsícem +8

    Love never fails! Loved every second of this. Finding her videos after my last breakup was one of the best things 🙏🏾

  • @Thingstheywontteach
    @Thingstheywontteach Před měsícem +2

    This guy is good at listening and putting in his commentary at the right time and letting Dorsey speak . A lot of podcasters lack that skill

  • @Chaunisehill
    @Chaunisehill Před měsícem +4

    At this point, it’s the Love Dorsey show 😂😂😂❤

  • @syddejbau
    @syddejbau Před měsícem +5

    WOW!! This conversation was WELL NEEDED

  • @SolelyYounique
    @SolelyYounique Před měsícem +3

    Love Dorsey AKA my fairy godmother ...your'e amazing💯

  • @Dunbar_Dynamics
    @Dunbar_Dynamics Před měsícem +4

    I will always follow Love 💗 she doesn’t miss and speaks on things we need to hear.

  • @c0cochan3l29
    @c0cochan3l29 Před měsícem +7

    Love the looks you giving on this pod Love

  • @MizzWiggy
    @MizzWiggy Před měsícem +3

    Sharing “war stories”
    Soooooooo deep ma’am.
    Speak!!!!!!

  • @khalidelshabazz4020
    @khalidelshabazz4020 Před 21 dnem +1

    Thank you for this message because I got my heart broken yesterday on my birthday

  • @De90000
    @De90000 Před měsícem +1

    My heart and my skin literally jumps every time I listen to her. She is so AMAZING and so inspirational ❤

  • @amazingamy1218
    @amazingamy1218 Před měsícem +4

    Love Dorsey don’t miss! So proud to be in her book club. I support this message ❤❤❤❤

    • @CookWithStephh
      @CookWithStephh Před měsícem +1

      What’s her book club ? Would love to join

  • @sydneyrenaie8279
    @sydneyrenaie8279 Před 18 dny +1

    loveee the conversation between these two , very intellectual

  • @Uniquely_Mario
    @Uniquely_Mario Před měsícem +1

    Love don’t ever miss. She been talking about this for 8 years

  • @cleigh378
    @cleigh378 Před 6 dny

    Connect, Construct, Convey, and Communicate your message in an effective way, which will ultimately Convince me of your issue. Don't yell at me and insult me because that will put me in masculine energy to defend myself. Some men don't like a woman with a backbone, but hell if we don't stand for something, we will fall for anything. It's not what you say, it's how you say it. Tone, attitude, and body language. At this time, Im embracing my solitude, forgiveness, and healing all while changing my mindset. ❤

  • @Dee_slimfine
    @Dee_slimfine Před měsícem +1

    I LOVEEEE me some Love Dorsey 💐 this was sooo good and needed. I hope this goes viral and millions view this bcuz the community needs healing.

  • @JessRhymes
    @JessRhymes Před měsícem +1

    Watching with my husband & it’s bringing up great points that can help our marriage real talk

  • @shaysmith6577
    @shaysmith6577 Před měsícem +1

    WE NEED MORE!!!!! Love to see Dorsey still chugging and going at it! Love that woman. Been watching her in silence for many many many years. Thanks to the both of you!!!

  • @Thelandscapemagician
    @Thelandscapemagician Před 28 dny +1

    Pure facts! You guys keep up the great work. You'll have 1 million subscribers in no time.

  • @dlrowadkcuf
    @dlrowadkcuf Před 13 dny

    Maaaan hold up!! 😅 Yall went 0 to 100 real fast,No brakes all gas lol! Great Job, Pure Pressure. I'm only 15 minutes in,I need to Pause & Process!! Lol

  • @crystalmcdonald760
    @crystalmcdonald760 Před měsícem +1

    You guys should collaborate and do this weekly pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!! We need this type of feeding to our brains ❤

  • @jennapherhoward1693
    @jennapherhoward1693 Před měsícem +1

    Sometimes the tribe your born in isn't your tribe! I felt that!

  • @janeene215
    @janeene215 Před měsícem +2

    She sooo aware love her perspective

  • @PITT492
    @PITT492 Před měsícem +1

    I love this keep dropping the knowledge of elevation and self love,self observation,self and emotional control for feminine and masculine male and female awareness/betterment….

  • @In10tionalJay
    @In10tionalJay Před měsícem +4

    I learned so much thank you to you both this should be in schools

  • @jasbland528
    @jasbland528 Před 13 dny

    😮 these folks are AMAZING!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Omg.! I resonated with this entire episode…. Just subscribed to the channel because chile y’all know what y’all talking about. My family caused so much trauma, I thought I was the one crazy for a minute. “Sometimes the tribe you were you born into ain’t yo tribe” whew, hit si hard.

  • @ItsOkayToBeHappy
    @ItsOkayToBeHappy Před 19 dny

    I thank you both sincerely for this series. Listening to this conversation is so satisfying. Gives me faith that sane & rational people truly are out there.

  • @if.i.dusse_somyself7683
    @if.i.dusse_somyself7683 Před měsícem +1

    Yall really got deep with this conversation

  • @jdstuntguy3
    @jdstuntguy3 Před 26 dny +1

    Y’all snapped 🔥🔥

  • @ymsg1577
    @ymsg1577 Před měsícem +1

    Love it here. Thank you both!!

  • @thecallylee
    @thecallylee Před měsícem

    Amen to every topic you touched upon.

  • @JLoveee29
    @JLoveee29 Před 27 dny +1

    This was soooooo GOOD ❤

  • @chavontacollins9305
    @chavontacollins9305 Před 26 dny

    I love this discussion it is so raw and real. I left for college thinking I knew it all and was ready for the world and I came back a different person that was not for the better. I was not prepared to be on my own. I didn’t have a sense of responsibility. I didn’t know who I was. I had very low self esteem and I fell for it all. I had to learn the hard way for everything. I didn’t know how to be a young lady and even a woman when it came to the time. I am in my mid 30s now and I am just now learning about being a woman and taking care of your home and cleanliness. What I want out of life and my likes and dislikes. It is a lot and I wish I was prepared earlier but I know if I have an offspring I will change that and prepare my child for the world. School is secondary to me. School did not prepare me for life either.

  • @Roxkis
    @Roxkis Před měsícem

    Man, these podcast wit love be hittin everytime! Keep up the good work.

  • @Mr.Jones41
    @Mr.Jones41 Před měsícem +1

    I love this show… a lot of wisdom!!!

  • @michaelsevillerealestate977
    @michaelsevillerealestate977 Před měsícem +3

    Awesome job

  • @IamJasmineJenae
    @IamJasmineJenae Před měsícem

    Love helped me snap out of that stuck mindset few years back. Nice seeing her again.

  • @WesRainer-go6zx
    @WesRainer-go6zx Před měsícem

    Great conversations. I love the content. You two with well together. I like how you all build off each other.

  • @carmenkim5467
    @carmenkim5467 Před měsícem

    I love big sis ❤ great video yall

  • @A-electricAura
    @A-electricAura Před 16 dny +1

    She’s the realist

  • @rudirolle2317
    @rudirolle2317 Před měsícem +1

    Great conversation topics
    Growing up in a household where there certain needs has not been met from the parents or guardians
    And one of the biggest impactful trauma that a lot of people has been involved in neglection.. so just like what love said in order for ppl to survive they had to use certain mind skills in order for them to get a hot meal that day…
    People had to manipulate certain situations so they wouldn’t get abused by their father or family member it was a way to survive that now as they become an adult it became habit for them when they get into relationships

  • @TshiroMifune
    @TshiroMifune Před měsícem +2

    Salute...

  • @tyfannimade7010
    @tyfannimade7010 Před měsícem +1

    I can listen to Love all day! She like my internet aunty.

  • @KhalCrochet
    @KhalCrochet Před měsícem +5

    I'm not getting married and I'm not having kids I refuse to let these things dictate how I live my life

    • @him37404
      @him37404 Před měsícem +1

      Marriage is for suckers … lol.. all we need is us … and god… nobody’s that special to that point we should tie ourselves to them “ forever “

  • @Calonpersonal
    @Calonpersonal Před měsícem +1

    I love this Lady❤❤

  • @thewholeyou
    @thewholeyou Před měsícem +2

    love this speak more on this

  • @foreverskyznails2933
    @foreverskyznails2933 Před měsícem +2

    Love it!…

  • @jermainemclemorejr3555
    @jermainemclemorejr3555 Před měsícem

    3 out of 4 . Everyvideo is different . She can go all day . LOve this Queen

  • @user-mr1mq8ge1q
    @user-mr1mq8ge1q Před 2 dny

    There's Strength In Majority so Even Creating A family There still must Exist Union

  • @ChickenNKoolaidFoodie
    @ChickenNKoolaidFoodie Před 21 dnem +1

    This was the one right here...

  • @naetoopretty5620
    @naetoopretty5620 Před měsícem +3

    amazing video 🔥🔥🔥❤‍🔥

  • @tonytone6806
    @tonytone6806 Před měsícem +1

    🔥🔥🔥Powerful

  • @jjhane
    @jjhane Před měsícem +1

    Conversation 🔥🔥

  • @user-rh5os6bo9o
    @user-rh5os6bo9o Před měsícem +1

    Why this Don't have a million views ?? 🤔🤔 because they dove into some heavy subject matter. I'm talking about deep space 9 deep

  • @triaschools8451
    @triaschools8451 Před 27 dny +1

    He cuts her off mid thought often in this conversation. If she has the relationship knowledge; let her seek and complete a thought.

  • @BruceAlmightyMuzic
    @BruceAlmightyMuzic Před 2 dny

    she really is perfection👸🏾all around beautiful inside/out from head to toes

  • @rickbeastrandolph
    @rickbeastrandolph Před měsícem +1

    Organic breakdown

  • @montanajames9144
    @montanajames9144 Před měsícem +1

    I love her.

  • @kamrijones9057
    @kamrijones9057 Před měsícem

    Forever My Role Model ❤️❤️
    Love Dorsey changing lives In REAL LIFE 🔥

  • @marisastokes3793
    @marisastokes3793 Před měsícem +1

    Please both of you do a conversation on the dilemma young girls have with boys. If you stay celibate you might get a boyfriend but you get embarrassed when everyone knows you’re getting cheated on. And then if you have sex you still get cheated on. If you don’t have sex you might not get a boyfriend and you want a date like everybody else. So by the time you get out of high school you’re confused as hell and not prepping to be marriageable because no boy you met approached a relationship as if he was looking for quality because he’s being told to buss down as many girls as possible. And he’s confused and has no clue how to look for a woman that is wife material or what his goals should be to take on the responsibility of being a husband.

  • @Lockycocky
    @Lockycocky Před 5 dny

    Love this video but growth is having integrity so I’m not getting over on someone just because I can that makes me a low vibrational person I’m all about having grace 🙏

  • @RebeccaPurjin1
    @RebeccaPurjin1 Před 29 dny +1

    🔥🔥🔥

  • @AlwonDomz
    @AlwonDomz Před měsícem +1

    21:11 No reasonable person is going to sign up for bad behavior in a partner… If you sh-t test, the relationship is over, whether they pass the test or check you correctly or whatever…

  • @layythomas720
    @layythomas720 Před 24 dny +1

    🔥

  • @RM-cb8vc
    @RM-cb8vc Před měsícem +1

    🎯

  • @donnachatham1335
    @donnachatham1335 Před 26 dny +1

    He has to let her talk

  • @victoriawilliams6070
    @victoriawilliams6070 Před měsícem +1

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @kariescandyland5151
    @kariescandyland5151 Před měsícem

    ❤love this 💯💯💯but please I beg of you with no offense please can we cut back on the word “yup”😂😂

  • @StephanieEno-st6xf
    @StephanieEno-st6xf Před 15 dny

    It’s a awful thing to do to another human

  • @janeene215
    @janeene215 Před měsícem +1

    👏 👏 👏 👏

  • @thereviewer2494
    @thereviewer2494 Před měsícem

    me scrolling and seeing that was Love in the seat! Immediately clicked👏🏾
    To the interviewer: Let the guest talk! You interrupted Love way too much.