MICRO-CHEATING | Episode 133

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  • čas přidán 26. 03. 2024
  • Micro-cheating ; something that your partner may be doing that isn’t necessarily sleeping with someone but could be considered as cheating 🫢
    In this episode, we get to navigate the fine line between “innocent gestures” and relationship red flags as we lay open some actions that could erode trust and bring a lot of insecurity in relationships 🫨
    Let’s all gather in the comment section as you give us other examples of micro-cheating you may have experienced or cannot condone.
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Komentáře • 127

  • @kirimikajuju
    @kirimikajuju Před 4 měsíci +117

    I'm so sorry Lydia and Murugi too for losing a loved one. The fact that you have continued to show up and give us engaging content ,at a time when it might feel easier to step away shows your commitment to your craft and audience. Please know that you have a supportive community of in-betweeners standing behind you, I offer my heartfelt condolences and unwavering appreciation for continuing to show up.❤❤❤

  • @peruthmwenkanya2508
    @peruthmwenkanya2508 Před 3 měsíci +16

    It's the ''are you drunk?'' for me.. Lydia can be really funny😂

  • @sellahchabe1248
    @sellahchabe1248 Před 4 měsíci +55

    Lydias hair is giving ❤❤.You look good ladies .

  • @hildamaloya5214
    @hildamaloya5214 Před 3 měsíci +7

    Your friendship guys is so beautiful I really like it it's my prayer that you guys must remain friends forever.
    I think the other example of micro cheating is saving your X's photos in your phone,like taking them from social media and be saving them in your phone so that you can keep seeing them

  • @sherismith8361
    @sherismith8361 Před 4 měsíci +28

    I went through micro cheating but I was too lazy to break up. He was texting some girl he had met and he was venting to her about our relationship. (We were in college). I saw the messages aka shed some fake tears and we continued. We broke up the next year tukiwa long holiday. They're now married so ni Mimi I was standing in the way of true love 😅😅

    • @brie2545
      @brie2545 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Wueh😂😂😂! Girl how did you reach acceptance stage (like for real this is smne else's man) hugs though 😊

    • @ImmaculateIsaboke
      @ImmaculateIsaboke Před 4 měsíci

      🤣opps .

    • @hossie101
      @hossie101 Před 3 měsíci

      Ouch😳

  • @angelayez9114
    @angelayez9114 Před 4 měsíci +27

    Had to pause at 41:36 for a short story, a guy I was going on the date with for the first time came with his friend who was more funny, charming, and was attentive to me. Guys, I was confused!!😄😄😄 Let’s just say I chose not to go out again with the guy I had initially come to see.

  • @joyceyugi9266
    @joyceyugi9266 Před 4 měsíci +6

    I'm sorry for your loss Lyd. On other news, you both look so good. Also the amount of self - awareness and growth I've experienced ever since I began listening to this podcast is so profound. I'm so grateful ❤.

  • @angelinematina7049
    @angelinematina7049 Před 3 měsíci +23

    Not lydia shouting Jezebel at murugi😂😂😂

  • @user-lv6se9jg1o
    @user-lv6se9jg1o Před 4 měsíci +54

    I'm gonna have to disagree, emotional cheating should not be excused, it's actually worse than physical cheating.

    • @akiinefaexperiencinglife
      @akiinefaexperiencinglife Před 3 měsíci +9

      I agree,it shouldn't be excused(it'sjust (un)fortunate that someone can get away with it)..I do not think it is worse than physical cheating,it's a step towards the physical cheating if one is not consciously aware of it...and I would say that we should evaluate our emotions to learn more about ourselves and our behaviours,for our own well being and those closest to us.

    • @oliviakadesa2754
      @oliviakadesa2754 Před 3 měsíci

      Llllllllllllllllllllolllllllllllllolllol9lllll😊llllllllllollol

  • @royalusala8527
    @royalusala8527 Před 4 měsíci +52

    Even this thing of He/She is not my type/standard is skewed sana... Everybody is better than you in something.. Everybody has something you don't have.. Its a large Ego statement!

    • @sheeireri3716
      @sheeireri3716 Před 4 měsíci +6

      King betweener in the buildiiing 🔥🔥😊.

    • @lindaawuor1446
      @lindaawuor1446 Před 4 měsíci +2

      For sure

    • @hellenirungu8542
      @hellenirungu8542 Před 4 měsíci +3

      The type thing doesn't always refer to where one is in life or what they are good at it. It is just a preference thing. For instance, I don't like mouthy guys, and if I notice you talk too much, you def aren't my type.

    • @royalusala8527
      @royalusala8527 Před 4 měsíci +4

      @@hellenirungu8542 It's still the same.. My point is, that mouthy guy may have been better for you 8n the long run compared to the one u chose instead of him, coz of the mouthy thing.. He has very many other great qualities!

    • @dorahmulinge3800
      @dorahmulinge3800 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Somebody tweet this❤❤❤. So true

  • @faithnjoki1471
    @faithnjoki1471 Před 3 měsíci +5

    "Are you drunk?"
    I'm still on the floor 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @NyandengAGarang
    @NyandengAGarang Před 4 měsíci +13

    Pole sana kwa msiba, Lydia KM.

  • @lizznjeri9231
    @lizznjeri9231 Před 4 měsíci +20

    Lidya I am like you,I roll with the punches in almost all situations, until my daughter recently accused me of toxic positivity

    • @wambuigorgeous
      @wambuigorgeous Před 4 měsíci +7

      Daughters keep us in check 😂 I was told I'm always on my phone and I insist she limits her screentime, I was told start with yourself 😂

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 Před 3 měsíci +1

      That.sounds like something my daughters would say 😂😂😂

  • @Young_Techiez
    @Young_Techiez Před 4 měsíci +7

    😂😂loved Lydia's point on 'things are easier said than done'

  • @Shanshan-fe6cw
    @Shanshan-fe6cw Před 3 měsíci +1

    This was such a beautiful episode. Loved every minute of it babes❤!

  • @danielmiyaba8816
    @danielmiyaba8816 Před 4 měsíci +36

    I might not be the first here .. but atleast I'm here... Denims I love ❤❤❤❤❤.
    And the buns both the neat and messy ate ... I love you guys
    Kenya kingbetweener

  • @esthermulu1229
    @esthermulu1229 Před 4 měsíci +11

    However if its my man's friend who is funny,, there's always a limit😂😂" Lyd that limit laughter" 😂am down on the floor

  • @faithwanjiru6927
    @faithwanjiru6927 Před 4 měsíci +5

    Loved this episode, Lyd's fire today 💯

  • @margaretkanganga4882
    @margaretkanganga4882 Před 4 měsíci +8

    always here thanks for reading my comment Lyd😍

  • @annmumbi5693
    @annmumbi5693 Před 4 měsíci +3

    I just learnt alot from this episode…and am better for my next man…thank you TMI🥰🥰🥰

  • @bennykimanibk
    @bennykimanibk Před 3 měsíci

    I really learn alot from you awesome people. Much appreciated.

  • @annewacuka
    @annewacuka Před 3 měsíci +1

    This was such a fun episode🤩. It's micro cheating if him and his female friend call each other babe, hun and darling on texts.
    PS: I was the female friend in this case 😭, and he did set a boundary so at least he's not a lizard😂

  • @Peacine
    @Peacine Před 4 měsíci

    22:28 😢 losing an Ex taught me everything about disenchanted grief
    So many questions in your head, basically grieving alone and longer

  • @julietmwaniki8349
    @julietmwaniki8349 Před 4 měsíci +6

    Loved this episode so much! The phrase 'emotional crutch' is staying with me for a while! I'm wondering if you could do an episode on setting boundaries with friends and partners. As someone approaching my mid-twenties, I'd love to hear your perspective and experience!

    • @faithnairuko7351
      @faithnairuko7351 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Hey love
      There's an episode on boundaries.... It's called "Setting Boundaries and Sticking to them"

  • @DeDollyshow
    @DeDollyshow Před 4 měsíci +1

    I live for the affirmation and love between Jo and Lyd is so beautiful to watch❤❤❤

  • @esthermulu1229
    @esthermulu1229 Před 4 měsíci +17

    Lyd ,,your Hair is incredible babe

  • @marciajames9434
    @marciajames9434 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Sorry Lydia for you and your family's loss; God's peace surround you all. One more thing, yet another episode where you (Lydia) was extremely funny/hilarious; thank you ladies.

  • @esthermulu1229
    @esthermulu1229 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Big siz come this side,,It's wed and surprise 🎉🎉🎉 against Definitely TMI

  • @bettiekym
    @bettiekym Před 4 měsíci +2

    My condolences dear,may Guks rest well.

  • @faith.adeyaa
    @faith.adeyaa Před 25 dny

    Thankyou for reminding us about the healthy boundaries

  • @mercykiaritha350
    @mercykiaritha350 Před 4 měsíci +4

    I needed a pick me up today so seeing TMI has posted is exactly what I needed today🎉

  • @giftyalfa2460
    @giftyalfa2460 Před 4 měsíci +6

    I found it soo difficult to move past that demonstrative laugh by Lyd😅😅😂

  • @nkathapamela5703
    @nkathapamela5703 Před 3 měsíci

    I had so much fun watching this,,,😂😂😂you 2 are adorable 😍 mich love

  • @naomiwaithera5820
    @naomiwaithera5820 Před 3 měsíci

    your history keeps score there's no running away from it...very thin line na intuition

  • @claranyaga8984
    @claranyaga8984 Před 4 měsíci +1

    beautiful set

  • @glorykinyua1669
    @glorykinyua1669 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Its definitely TMI...among the first ❤..my Wednesday are always lit 🔥🔥big sisters 💯

  • @lilyankamau3111
    @lilyankamau3111 Před 4 měsíci +4

    It's definitely TMI ❤️ 🎉🎉

  • @DeDollyshow
    @DeDollyshow Před 4 měsíci +2

    It's definitely Tmiiii❤❤❤

  • @MohandMpymWorld
    @MohandMpymWorld Před 4 měsíci +4

    TMI❤ .
    Nipitieni leo guys

  • @Its_at.ieno12
    @Its_at.ieno12 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Tmi team...tuko kwa sanaa!!!😊❤

  • @andabwarosekiarie5477
    @andabwarosekiarie5477 Před dnem +1

    Murugi you look wow 😍I love the blue and white dress code..Lyd ❤hugs

  • @hopewangari5970
    @hopewangari5970 Před 3 měsíci +1

    The double tap part lol!!!

  • @ImmaculateIsaboke
    @ImmaculateIsaboke Před 4 měsíci

    the background is beautiful 💗💗💗

  • @annemwaura3910
    @annemwaura3910 Před 4 měsíci +3

    TMI🎉❤

  • @YouAreMyFavoritePodcast
    @YouAreMyFavoritePodcast Před 3 měsíci +3

    Murugi Munyi Murugi Munyi Murugi Munyi !
    ❤🌹

  • @Empress_Hellena
    @Empress_Hellena Před 4 měsíci

    These queens are Gorgeous!!❤❤❤

  • @BrendanyamburaJosephinelenny
    @BrendanyamburaJosephinelenny Před 4 měsíci +40

    Can we now sing please?😭😭😭 thank you😂

    • @danielmiyaba8816
      @danielmiyaba8816 Před 4 měsíci +1

      I second this thought.... I will be seconds in to the podcast ( the intro bit) and then I'm singing the TMIIIII and my girlies are like pulling an Oprah kind of unison TMII... please sing in some episodes

    • @estherdeborahnakitende1537
      @estherdeborahnakitende1537 Před 3 měsíci

      Please sing in all episodes.🥺 I begun watching this podcast when they were singing so its all i know and sounds best.

  • @magdalinekinyanjui404
    @magdalinekinyanjui404 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Love the tops ladies😊👌

  • @mwendenyaga91
    @mwendenyaga91 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Ehh woow!Fayaa fayaa

  • @msnique406
    @msnique406 Před 4 měsíci

    Very interesting 👌 👍

  • @joycemuthoni4011
    @joycemuthoni4011 Před 4 měsíci +2

    You look lovely Murugi😊

  • @joycewamari1116
    @joycewamari1116 Před 4 měsíci +10

    It's the "aaaah Jezebel ndio huyu"😅😅😅 for me

  • @dorothyshee777
    @dorothyshee777 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Tmi ❤❤

  • @e.s.t.a.r
    @e.s.t.a.r Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you lyd and murugi for this! As usual, very informative🎉. So sorry for you loss, lyd. May he rest well

  • @yvonne355
    @yvonne355 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Murugiii your jeans ❤❤❤❤

  • @hinesightmind
    @hinesightmind Před 3 měsíci +1

    Sending money to female friends 😢 I've been telling you, sina pesa no Kinuthia No.

  • @gracedaniel726
    @gracedaniel726 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I am more of a Lidya i guess, every time she said to Murugi are you drunk ?? I was like yeah Murugi are you???

  • @yvonnemurugi6795
    @yvonnemurugi6795 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Lydia pole even i got to know your grandpa is my neighbor cant believe you normally come to our neighbor hood .

  • @Vlicky_05shotta
    @Vlicky_05shotta Před 3 měsíci +2

    I love these two, your content is amazing.Also can we talk about boundaries between friends who are dating.So my bf has male friends who happens to be dating a certain chic.My problem is this chic is very close to my guy.I once saw some pics she took in my bfs bedroom and was like😮😮😮

  • @norahkaranja4054
    @norahkaranja4054 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Murugi what has bloating got to do with a ring??😂😂

  • @rastagirl758
    @rastagirl758 Před 3 měsíci +1

    My micro cheating behaviour is a man who sends a woman snaps on snapchat,it feels illegal to me and worse placing the messages to delete after view

  • @valokumu3880
    @valokumu3880 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Liking every photo in their feed pls🤦‍♀️front door is there 🚪

  • @JoanJepkemei-zm6jw
    @JoanJepkemei-zm6jw Před 4 měsíci +4

    Its Lyd hair ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @bettykubai927
    @bettykubai927 Před 4 měsíci +9

    Kucheka nayo nitacheka😂😂. If your friend is funny? I will laugh. I will not be denied laughter. Is it not the best medicine? 😅

  • @shanicemumbi6993
    @shanicemumbi6993 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Wednesday dose😊😊😊

  • @jessenanette7958
    @jessenanette7958 Před 4 měsíci +5

    First.....love from Rwanda

  • @TashaNjagi
    @TashaNjagi Před 4 měsíci +1

    TMI day 🎉🎉❤

  • @amandawambui8063
    @amandawambui8063 Před 3 měsíci

    Am sorry Lydia for loosing your Granddad❤

  • @joyesther5916
    @joyesther5916 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Given a case you are dating a guy and some other guy approaches you and asks for your number,what do you do?
    Do you give them your number or your boyfriend's?

    • @annmumbi5693
      @annmumbi5693 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Your number

    • @juniorkibuthu6928
      @juniorkibuthu6928 Před 4 měsíci

      You don't give out your no/his , respect your partner,, why are you giving out your no in the first place if you are in a relationship

    • @risperbevalyn9670
      @risperbevalyn9670 Před 4 měsíci +1

      if you are not married ...yes

  • @patriciasharon3053
    @patriciasharon3053 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Elderly sexuality matters!!🗣🗣😅😂

  • @GirlThatVlogsKE
    @GirlThatVlogsKE Před 4 měsíci +2

    This is the 20th comment, i love being here

  • @nyamburakimani3726
    @nyamburakimani3726 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Does my ring hurt your finger by Charlie Pride

  • @lydiaawk
    @lydiaawk Před 4 měsíci +3

    Best thing about my Wednesday today🥺❤️

  • @faithchepngetich8033
    @faithchepngetich8033 Před 4 měsíci +5

    One of the guilty people who totally believed I have subscribed but hadn't😰 fixed it though..
    Making it up by subscribing on my work account too🤓
    Keep repeating the "subscribe" message to us, looks like the 99th time's the charm😩

  • @EuniterMumbua
    @EuniterMumbua Před 4 měsíci +6

    They are so self aware, this year I wanna focus on my self awareness journey, anyone to help me with tips on where to begin please?

    • @giftyalfa2460
      @giftyalfa2460 Před 4 měsíci

      Therapy please
      The sermon's been on for long💃🏽

    • @letstalkkenya2
      @letstalkkenya2 Před 4 měsíci

      Check the Stoic philosophy... really helped me

    • @EuniterMumbua
      @EuniterMumbua Před 3 měsíci

      Thanks ​@@letstalkkenya2

  • @winniepere
    @winniepere Před 4 měsíci +2

    What's the name of the book Murugi was talking about?

  • @user-ij4tu6zz2s
    @user-ij4tu6zz2s Před 3 měsíci

    Are you drunk!!!!😂😂

  • @maman_moon
    @maman_moon Před 4 měsíci +1

    A man sending money to almost all his exes and somes females friends. That’s my experience

  • @danielmiyaba8816
    @danielmiyaba8816 Před 4 měsíci +5

    Sorry for your loss Lyd😢❤

  • @Verracheryl254
    @Verracheryl254 Před 4 měsíci +3

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @mercykitolo6871
    @mercykitolo6871 Před 3 měsíci

    I am triggered😭😭😭

  • @evelynmbithe
    @evelynmbithe Před 4 měsíci +7

    Love how you've styled your hair Lyd. Currently twinning that style will definitely try.
    May your Guka's soul rest in peace.
    Thank you both for showing up more importantly, for showing up for each other.
    ❤️❤️❤️