Making Relationships Work | Dr. John Gottman | Seattle Rotary Club

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  • čas přidán 17. 09. 2015
  • Dr. John Gottman speaks to the Seattle Rotary Club on 9/9/2015.
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Komentáře • 47

  • @theDanDeleon
    @theDanDeleon Před 5 lety +31

    7:52 NOW GIVE ME DEM LYKES

    • @_jordanhayles
      @_jordanhayles Před 4 lety +1

      Dan Deleon We appreciate your service, Dan. Lol

  • @harryaldieny7697
    @harryaldieny7697 Před 4 lety +49

    John Gottman has got to be included in our schools curricula!

  • @peternorthrup6274
    @peternorthrup6274 Před 4 lety +56

    Marry your best friend. I did. That was 33 years ago. We never wanted kids. It was always about us. And always remember. She is right. Whatever the problem is. Most of the time it's not that important. I got lucky. And listen.

    • @miriamwebster2169
      @miriamwebster2169 Před 3 lety +1

      P

    • @SS-dp7lt
      @SS-dp7lt Před 2 lety +1

      This is cute. I know my soulmate is on his way to me / energetically we are already together. We too shall not have kids.

    • @msay4596
      @msay4596 Před rokem +5

      Took me twice to find my best friend. My 1st husband was my best enemy, my 2nd husband is my best friend. I am thankful to my 1st husband bc he taught me so much about what I didn't want, that I found what I did.

    • @johnnmusic
      @johnnmusic Před 7 měsíci +1

      Have kids. Can’t describe how “worth it” It is.

  • @brandomiranda6703
    @brandomiranda6703 Před 4 lety +31

    Amazing! Most couples fight about the failure to connect emotionally...so amazingly and terrifyingly true. Nearly seems to predict any fight Ive ever had.

  • @janethomas78
    @janethomas78 Před 6 lety +10

    People want to be loved. Loved. Connected? Just be honest- LOVED.

  • @timothykang5729
    @timothykang5729 Před 2 lety +3

    The woman at the beginning has a great radio/narrating voice.

  • @leopoldhuffer1207
    @leopoldhuffer1207 Před 6 lety +22

    John Gottman has achieved more for couples then anybody else in our time. Thank you, John! It's so wonderful that you did all this research. Study his masterpiece nonfiction book "What makes Love last?" that sums up most of his recommendations.

  • @davidmossholder3610
    @davidmossholder3610 Před 3 lety +3

    This is excellent. So practical. Thanks for posting.

  • @peterarakkakudypeter9262
    @peterarakkakudypeter9262 Před 2 lety +2

    Wonderful speech, Dr: John Gottman thank you

  • @80zBabee
    @80zBabee Před 8 lety +3

    Great seminar

  • @orijit
    @orijit Před 7 lety +5

    what a brilliant and funny man!!

  • @alty07
    @alty07 Před 2 lety +2

    I enjoyed this

  • @WishfulFarmers
    @WishfulFarmers Před 2 lety +1

    At 18:00, Dr John G. starts describing successful couples and their, I'd say, humble responses to critical feedback.

  • @powermarriage9823
    @powermarriage9823 Před 5 lety +9

    Great research. Dr. Gottman has helped many marriages with his work. Certainly has helped my marriage.

  • @joshlarsen4123
    @joshlarsen4123 Před 4 lety +1

    Wow, this is such an awesome video!!

  • @c.kevinwall3117
    @c.kevinwall3117 Před 5 lety +4

    So enlightening!

  • @AndreaCairella
    @AndreaCairella Před 8 lety +7

    I enjoyed Dr. John Gottman's speech and research about relationships. As a therapist, I admire his strategies to creating healthy and healthy relationships. I would love to interview John and Julie on my radio show on the keys to a happy and healthy marriage. Let me know and we can coordinate a good time to have them on the show.

  • @illmeeillmee9373
    @illmeeillmee9373 Před 3 lety

    20:33 yess!!!

  • @illmeeillmee9373
    @illmeeillmee9373 Před 3 lety +3

    Some ppl are so good at being victims that they attack while being a victim

  • @natalie9884
    @natalie9884 Před 4 lety +9

    Husband dead set on divorce and I cannot accept this. I need serious help and need to take action somehow. Feel so helpless.

    • @jaquelineguardado6503
      @jaquelineguardado6503 Před 4 lety +5

      I hope these kinds of videos help you & your husband! Sending you love .

    • @natalie9884
      @natalie9884 Před 4 lety +4

      Jaqueline Guardado thank you for that! Hope you’re holding up okay as well......💜
      I’ve accepted that I can’t do anything to change his mind.

    • @jaquelineguardado6503
      @jaquelineguardado6503 Před 4 lety +4

      Natalie Gaylard sometimes things that we don’t understand are for the better. Stay strong

    • @khushandepatel8252
      @khushandepatel8252 Před 2 lety +2

      How are things now between you & husband??

    • @maboo736
      @maboo736 Před 2 lety +1

      You’re gorgeous. Let him go…if it’s meant to be he will be fighting to stay

  • @frawldog
    @frawldog Před rokem +1

    💜

  • @nv7287
    @nv7287 Před 4 lety

    29:24 39:38

  • @rhapsodicchimera9768
    @rhapsodicchimera9768 Před rokem +1

    Anyone know the name of the apps at 27:20?? Wow, this was insightful. It's small things like doing little activities your partner likes just to make them happy and complimenting on the little things that help them feel seen......... KISSING is big, I often need the kissing to be good and often before I can get to the deeper part of relations. I've ended relationships over bad kisses 😅. It was turning me off. Now I feel validated for that lol.

  • @glasshousefuture6836
    @glasshousefuture6836 Před rokem

    I always wondered what happened to Bob 😅

  • @zensvlognotapro
    @zensvlognotapro Před 2 lety +1

    Wow wonderful romantic relationship ❤️.

  • @charliechuck8994
    @charliechuck8994 Před 7 lety +9

    Wow too late for me

  • @zephyr2427
    @zephyr2427 Před 7 lety +2

    Overall I really enjoyed his speech but I felt like he got a bit defensive about the "wrong reasons" question and through that and other comments I feel like he doesn't understand childhood trauma

  • @descentralized
    @descentralized Před 6 lety

    Só to aqui por q a moonkase gostou desse video

  • @jameshendrickson4845
    @jameshendrickson4845 Před 3 lety

    No need to dig on the south.