Sounds like My story when my salary was 5 lakh in Noida lot of working girls and their family rejected my marriage proposal because of my salary , I always wanted to marry with a working girl, finally I married with a girl who did not ask and even her family also , now I earn 1 crore a year in UK and my wife also earns well approx 50 lakhs . Lot of greed in marriage market
Not only that, now a days the boy is also scared of girl's demands in day to day life. The way the devorce cases are going up in India, leading to litigation.
My nephew is earning 25 lakh per year but girls families ke nakhre hi nahi kam.Pehle ghar chhota tha ab ghar bhi Janakpuri me 150 sqare yards ka liya pr 4 ,5 lakh wali girls milti hai.Girls families ko ghar,package sab puchhne ka haq hai pr Boys pay puchhe to girl me sath aaye relative kehte hai ghar to boy ki pay se chalna hai,girl ki salary kyu puchhi
Lol wtf kuch bhi market mein relatives bhi aisi ich hein.. thode toh aise hein ki, you want a housewife, but if I want to work, then however you dnt need a working woman I will work and keep my money with me and you shouldn't ask abt it but whatever guy earns the woman wants to control it. And everything should be buying paying emi everything from guy only and guy shouldn't ask her salary or salary slip to.
There is one more...a girl earns 20-25 lakhs per annum, and is ready to marry a boy who earns lesser than her bt then boy and his parents reject the girl, stating, girl would not be obedient
@@hashtagrahul15 seen most of them as same. Boys n family give importance to looks and girl n family give importance to money. This is how our society has been. No offense meant to anyone . Just the reality check ✅
I as a girl earns 50k per month and I was ready to marry a guy who is earning same or even less than me.. i only see the potential in the guy.. and despite being this okay with boys earning and his background… they demanded money for their house construction and to buy a car in dowry.
Exactly even I want a boy of same or less income than me but then their demand also high like bride's looks, money, fathers job, pension, own house and even dowry 😂. They r like beti de rahe he to itna to dena hi padega. Agar itna de paenge to kisi higher income man se rista karlenge
Got married in 2017 after just completing btech . Yes while searching groom I was non working and preparing for bank . And during search for good ristha who are 10 lkh boys rejected me because I was not working and they want working. But IIT and IIM or good government officer( army or railway ies level) were yes for the marriage. Because they wanted a housewife ( but she should be smart housewife like good in english, way of talking , beautiful and good in height,nice dressing sense, cooking skills, know driving, bank work and other household work . ) I was just 25 an IItian selected me his package was 15lkh that time. We completed 5 years of marriage. Currently I am living in France 🇫🇷 with a kid . But in future I would love to work. Once my husband says he rejected one working girl . (My husband is very smart now i got the point) 😂😂😀✌🏼
You have hit on the perfect mark...this is the reality....basically it is the ego that makes girls to demand a husband that earn 4-5 times more....more salary means easy life-style...there will be servants to perform daily house chores...no need to worry about other expenses, this also finishes the boundation for the girls to perform better in their careers...also a boy with a low package won't compensate for the insecurity generated by girls' careers...
I am a senior citizen I have a world view about the ancient culture or practice of marriage We're into information age. Many countries like Japan, France etc have younger generation not interested in starting a family Some old cultures have a practice where the girl never leaves her mother's home The pressure of package is substantially reduced At the end of the day happiness graph should be in focus
I earn around ~40 lakhs/annum. But at the end of the day. I Am getting judged based on where I stay as I don't stay have a big flat/Kothi and no girl family in the world is not okay with it. They said that if I am earning this much, then the expectation is I should stay somewhere in posh society in some big house. No one is willing to understand that a house can be built after a certain time. Even a person who is earning 4-5 lakhs/annum and has the same age as me is not willing to understand. That's the reality of today's world. Everyone wants everything and now only. That is the reality.
Bro... 40 lakhs per annum. Thats really good. I would suggest searching somewhere out of your cast. Thats what my mom has told me to look at. I have a flat in E Delhi of my own money but here in my case, they all look for stable job. Not wanting to marry Business Man, it sucks.
bro, stay strong...do not compromise for a greedy girl....wait for the correct match....it's better to stay single rather then marrying a wrong person....peace of mind is the most important thing on this earth.....shift the search to other castes or religions....
Just for your information guys, my sister married on 1st half of Dec 2022, she is earning 7-8 LPA after tax and the guy is earning more than her (definitely not more than 13 LPA after tax, probably around 10 LPA), both work at govt job at tier II cities(different cities, my sister will apply for transfer),met through online matrimony(arrange marriage); they are both decent looking; the best thing is that they are living in tier II city with that income which is cheaper and less traffic.
This is so true Sir. Kudos to you for highlighting this terrible issue going around our society especially in northern India. Although, this is not wrong but a woman giving up her career after marriage and depending on her husband financially and then expecting big dreams from husband is mean and silly at the same time. Why not make your future secure by finding an equal match or continue working hard if someone's salary is not that high.
I'm a mother with married son n daughter. I stay separate in the same city as sons n my DIL loves me.This money trend I was aware from many years. So my son n daughter married for love outside community with similar age / package spouse. Despite a few hiccups now n then they r having peaceful lives. I had guided them that we parents have enough properties to give them after we pass away. So to please enjoy their own lives in relaxed way. So they remain healthy to face world
Very true sir, lot of my cousins are still unmarried because of this same reason. Everyone wants everything as of yesterday . Amazing greed in society 😂😂👌
Bhai abhi b itne nhi h bss aajkal Galt k khilaf awaaz utha lete h otherwise jitni izzat ladke ko milti h in laws se & apne ghr Wale toh obviously,,ladki ko kbhi b nhi milti ,na apne ghr na sasural so don't worry Dear
@@heenabhardwaj318Ladki ko na kabhi ijjat milihe na milegi. Ye bas bolne ki bat he equality, equal treatment, education bla bla, agar behaviour wise dekhoge to aaj bhi ladki ko na maike wale puchte he na sasural wale 😢
Think like this. No girl with a sane mind will desire to be a divorcee. Being divorcee is not fun for woman. Why will they do fake cases? Only those woman do fake cases who are extremely cunning or have laadla parents who can justify her cunningness. Against such woman you can also file a case. Then see she will come to compromise and withdraw case. Fake filing is not easy. Also woman are not interested to be a divorcee and kill her chances. 99.9% woman think like this - accha huwa mujhe acche pati mil gaya isko mein sambhal lunga. They don't do fake filing on good husband's. It's their loss only.
Even what will women gain by doing fake filing? Nothing. She will be a divorcee and divorce man has more advantages than divorce woman. So no girl want that drama.
Sir, i have noted 1 more trend from my first hand experience. 25L kamaane wali ladki. 15-20 Lakh waale ladke se bhi shaadi karne to tayaar hain if Ladka is good looking/height/extremely fit. Yeh trend 20/25L+ waali girls pe hi applicable hain as then Girls feel secure with their own money. Everyone wanting something big so use it to your favor, So Brothers workout.
Bhai 4-5 lakh wali ladki ko uski aukaat pata h ki wo 20-25 nhi phochegi, isliye 20-25 wala ladka dekhti hai, and 20-25 wali ladki ko pta h 15 wala aage badega hi
I am your fan& commentor. Your each words is golden & true. I am 70 yrs. I see saw this trend long ago, now and in future. No solution. Girls BECOME unmarried, get divorced & ruined her life; main culprit are her parents specially mother's. Now no one bother No sharm, shame. Only Money money money money.
U didn't say a single thing about boys side. Why from ages they always prefer only fair complexion, beautiful ladies who knows all the chores both house chores and outside chores. The girl who has all the following qualities why should she marry an average person??? And what about the girls who r black and ugly but earning good, still not getting an average groom becoz average groom's demand also so high
Sir, there are truths to this though there is other side too which you forgot to mention. Hence, highlighting. Like boys and their family give importance to looks, girls have started giving importance to money. So money for boys is equivalent to beauty of a girl. If girl earns a lot and not that great in looks. She will not get matches as she should. This is also reality. Hence, untill these deep rooted society induced thoughts are prevailing, this will go on. Both parties need to understand the importance of intellect and other factors.
yes but there are laws which women can use as weapon against men .... like DV and 498 .... most of the women give up the Job after marriage . Now a days women marry and then file fale case against man for alimony and then they are staying with their boy friends
what to do if wife leave Job after marriage , what to do if she is not working nether doing house hold chores .... if man dont support financially there is law to put all financial burden on him but no law against women if she doesnot do her duties ...... if women want she can take child with her or she can dump on husband and go
It is all about valuation of money more than human beings. A contended girl/boy can be with you forever magar package oriented people ka bhagwan hi maalik hai ...you can very well judge by increasing divorce rates.
Your observations are quite realistic.I am searching a match for my son who is a BE from BITS,Pikani and MBA from MDI Gurgaon.He is earning 30 lacs plus even I am facing similar problem
Sir I am qualified CA earning around 10 lakhs but struggling to find working girl for marriage. Girls of my caste rajput with Equal qualification they demands 360 degree prosperity.
@@vickyAlways bhai abhi tumara ek comment dekha ki don't marry someone's second hand girlfriend And mai bhi agree krta is baat se . Pr jaisi ladki tum dhund rhe working wali, uske phle kayi bf reh chuke honge......and work pe jayegi to extra marital affair bhi honge hi Isko kaise tackle kroge?
I think dono parties ko ye sochne aur samajhne ki zaroorat hai ki aage jaake samay ke saath salary badegi bhi and career mai growth bhi hogi. Aaj jo 5 lakh kama raha woh saari umar 5 lakh pe hi thodi baitha rahega?!.. Both prospective Bride and Groom are in der 20’s toh abhi toh bahut time hai aage badhne ke liye. Jab aap kisi rishte ke liye mile toh Current Salary se zyada iss baat pe focus karein ki saamne wala kitna samajhdaar hai aur kitna ambitious hai.
Another bigger problem is that girls are not ready to relocate even if the package of the boy is good. I make 50 lakhs plus in Hyderabad but girls from gurgaon or bangalore are rejecting saying that they cannot look for a new job even if they are presently making only 7 to 10 lakhs. Giving excuse of job is our swabhimaan.
Sir jb main 6 lakh kmati thi tb ladke walon ko honda city chahiye the jo 10 lakh bhi kmate the .ab salary zada hogyi age bhi hogyi 30 plus ab bhi logo ko aur salary aur dahej chahiye bdi shadi chahiye ...aap ispe video bnao...jo ladke wale bolte ki" hume kuch nhi chahiye shadi acchi krdo ,,achi shadi ka india mein koi estimate nhi hota " ab kisi ke parents padhe likhe nhi ladkiyan pdha di loan leke dahej kha se de ...aur ldki bhi apni ctc jitna hi dahej degi kha se laye 20 lakh ...gold bhi itna mehenga hai...ladke walon ko bhi sab chahiye..koi shanti nhi hai kisi ko
Salary difference is an aspect. why the salary difference also should be looked at. Maybe if one person has a 2 yrs exp and other has 7-8 yrs exp then the salary gap could close over time. If someone is working in a field like arts or design that works in a certain way. if both are say in STEM and same exp level but the sal diff is 3-4X that could maybe point at a difference in cognitive abilities which in turn could cause frustration or joy in long run depending on the personalities.
All this is happening becoz girls parents are spending so much in marriage. Thats why they need a high earning groom. If this unnecessary spending in marriages stop then a balance can be created in society
I am of the opinion Sir every lady in India should go for a job specially in cities because one person alone cannot run a house in India as everything is very very costly in India.
But then such couples become detached to family values, they havee no time for procreation and for raising kids - as a result, they forever remain childless, all this couple has is money in their lives.
Pehle mai padhta nahi tha lekin ab inki baaton se lag rha padhna chalu krna pdega nahi toh aage bohot bhari padega Well I m in the end of my 11th and I will try my best to get admission in IIT ( Indian Institute of Technology)
If the girl is pressurised to get married at the age of 24 -25 when she has just started working. How can we compare her salary with a boy in his 30's earning obviously more. also the point of Gender Pay Parity should be considered. For same work men are paid more than women. In fact women are often considered as cheap labour in job market.
bullshit female model get more than male model ... why girls in 24-25 are looking for boys in 30ies ... go for boys in 21-22 .... marked do not discriminate based on gender ... it just want want profit and women are playing victim card
Sir I don't want to overburden my parents financially.....but when I think today's marriage minimum cost it seems will I be able to get married by my own finance??
Can any one guarantee about job security or financial crisis in middle ... It can be better solution when No dowry in marriage & no maintenance if separated or divorce.
Money is important and thr is no doubt in this but not at the cost of happiness n peace which shud be the ultimate goal....n yes today people hav become more practical in approach but in this they r missing most important aspects of life that one shud hav to lead a peaceful life i.e. understanding, someone with whom you can share things without fear of judgement, one who is conscious towards life.... although life is not black n white... eventually u will find out all this but even if u get to find a person who has some of these qualities thn one shudnt let go of this chance becz in few years down the marriage which will make it work is not only money but these qualities which will help u sustain n enjoy life...rest today's world is very unpredictable n so is todays generation
In a nutshell, marriage is not panipuri jo jab jesa ji chaha to bol diya "bhaiya tikha banana, bhaiya meetha jyada dalna, bhaiya ye bhaiya wo". People need to keep the dignity of the institution of marriage and control their Greed and Farmayishi program
yes ladke bale bhi dar rahe . i agreed with trend i am a groom searching for bride 100% agreed
Sounds like My story when my salary was 5 lakh in Noida lot of working girls and their family rejected my marriage proposal because of my salary , I always wanted to marry with a working girl, finally I married with a girl who did not ask and even her family also , now I earn 1 crore a year in UK and my wife also earns well approx 50 lakhs . Lot of greed in marriage market
There has always been greed in the marriage market. If not the girl it is the boy who is greedy. Dowry and the associated evils are common knowledge
share ur journey to UK
@@sheetala2423 don't justify anything nor dowry nor gold digger
@@sheetala2423 chal
@@vickyAlways you are saying the same thing that I said....just words are different. And by the way, tables do turn.
Bilkul phale bahu darti thi ki sasu Kesi milgi or ab sasu darti hai ki bahu Kesi milgi 😆
Not only that, now a days the boy is also scared of girl's demands in day to day life. The way the devorce cases are going up in India, leading to litigation.
My nephew is earning 25 lakh per year but girls families ke nakhre hi nahi kam.Pehle ghar chhota tha ab ghar bhi Janakpuri me 150 sqare yards ka liya pr 4 ,5 lakh wali girls milti hai.Girls families ko ghar,package sab puchhne ka haq hai pr Boys pay puchhe to girl me sath aaye relative kehte hai ghar to boy ki pay se chalna hai,girl ki salary kyu puchhi
Lol wtf kuch bhi market mein relatives bhi aisi ich hein.. thode toh aise hein ki, you want a housewife, but if I want to work, then however you dnt need a working woman I will work and keep my money with me and you shouldn't ask abt it but whatever guy earns the woman wants to control it. And everything should be buying paying emi everything from guy only and guy shouldn't ask her salary or salary slip to.
love marriage is the solution
@@sujalverma4326 career bnane me Love krne ka time hi nhi milta 😅 aur jb milta hai, to umar nikal rhi hoti, acchi ladki nhi mil pati
@@AnkitKumar-kk3iwsahi he
There is one more...a girl earns 20-25 lakhs per annum, and is ready to marry a boy who earns lesser than her bt then boy and his parents reject the girl, stating, girl would not be obedient
Exactly, also boys and their family give more importance to looks and then get offend when girl n family give importance to money 😀
Wese aise case bhot kam hain, but hain
@@hashtagrahul15 seen most of them as same. Boys n family give importance to looks and girl n family give importance to money. This is how our society has been. No offense meant to anyone . Just the reality check ✅
I as a girl earns 50k per month and I was ready to marry a guy who is earning same or even less than me.. i only see the potential in the guy.. and despite being this okay with boys earning and his background… they demanded money for their house construction and to buy a car in dowry.
Before marrying .high packages
See there liabilities...which are attached to his salary.
Exactly even I want a boy of same or less income than me but then their demand also high like bride's looks, money, fathers job, pension, own house and even dowry 😂. They r like beti de rahe he to itna to dena hi padega. Agar itna de paenge to kisi higher income man se rista karlenge
@@friendshiprocks8673😂😂
Interesting.
@@friendshiprocks8673so finally you are also kind of supporting it.
This is true, these guys don't even share house responsibilities.
Got married in 2017 after just completing btech . Yes while searching groom I was non working and preparing for bank . And during search for good ristha who are 10 lkh boys rejected me because I was not working and they want working. But IIT and IIM or good government officer( army or railway ies level) were yes for the marriage. Because they wanted a housewife ( but she should be smart housewife like good in english, way of talking , beautiful and good in height,nice dressing sense, cooking skills, know driving, bank work and other household work . ) I was just 25 an IItian selected me his package was 15lkh that time. We completed 5 years of marriage. Currently I am living in France 🇫🇷 with a kid . But in future I would love to work. Once my husband says he rejected one working girl . (My husband is very smart now i got the point) 😂😂😀✌🏼
Lucky you 😁😅😅
You have hit on the perfect mark...this is the reality....basically it is the ego that makes girls to demand a husband that earn 4-5 times more....more salary means easy life-style...there will be servants to perform daily house chores...no need to worry about other expenses, this also finishes the boundation for the girls to perform better in their careers...also a boy with a low package won't compensate for the insecurity generated by girls' careers...
I am a senior citizen
I have a world view about the ancient culture or practice of marriage
We're into information age.
Many countries like Japan, France etc have younger generation not interested in starting a family
Some old cultures have a practice where the girl never leaves her mother's home
The pressure of package is substantially reduced
At the end of the day happiness graph should be in focus
I earn around ~40 lakhs/annum. But at the end of the day. I Am getting judged based on where I stay as I don't stay have a big flat/Kothi and no girl family in the world is not okay with it. They said that if I am earning this much, then the expectation is I should stay somewhere in posh society in some big house. No one is willing to understand that a house can be built after a certain time. Even a person who is earning 4-5 lakhs/annum and has the same age as me is not willing to understand. That's the reality of today's world. Everyone wants everything and now only. That is the reality.
Will make a video on this
Bro... 40 lakhs per annum. Thats really good. I would suggest searching somewhere out of your cast. Thats what my mom has told me to look at. I have a flat in E Delhi of my own money but here in my case, they all look for stable job. Not wanting to marry Business Man, it sucks.
bro, stay strong...do not compromise for a greedy girl....wait for the correct match....it's better to stay single rather then marrying a wrong person....peace of mind is the most important thing on this earth.....shift the search to other castes or religions....
@@alphasynn5302 Same for me just bcos of freelance and business they don't want in my case
Just for your information guys, my sister married on 1st half of Dec 2022, she is earning 7-8
LPA after tax and the guy is earning more than her (definitely not more than 13 LPA after tax, probably around 10 LPA), both work at govt job at tier II cities(different cities, my sister will apply for transfer),met through online matrimony(arrange marriage); they are both decent looking; the best thing is that they are living in tier II city with that income which is cheaper and less traffic.
This is so true Sir. Kudos to you for highlighting this terrible issue going around our society especially in northern India. Although, this is not wrong but a woman giving up her career after marriage and depending on her husband financially and then expecting big dreams from husband is mean and silly at the same time. Why not make your future secure by finding an equal match or continue working hard if someone's salary is not that high.
I'm a mother with married son n daughter. I stay separate in the same city as sons n my DIL loves me.This money trend I was aware from many years. So my son n daughter married for love outside community with similar age / package spouse.
Despite a few hiccups now n then they r having peaceful lives. I had guided them that we parents have enough properties to give them after we pass away. So to please enjoy their own lives in relaxed way. So they remain healthy to face world
U are miracle of this 21 century just keep surveillance at them
Very true sir, lot of my cousins are still unmarried because of this same reason. Everyone wants everything as of yesterday . Amazing greed in society 😂😂👌
I’m boy and very scared of marriage, coz today’s laws are very anti men
Bhai abhi b itne nhi h bss aajkal Galt k khilaf awaaz utha lete h otherwise jitni izzat ladke ko milti h in laws se & apne ghr Wale toh obviously,,ladki ko kbhi b nhi milti ,na apne ghr na sasural so don't worry Dear
@@heenabhardwaj318Ladki ko na kabhi ijjat milihe na milegi. Ye bas bolne ki bat he equality, equal treatment, education bla bla, agar behaviour wise dekhoge to aaj bhi ladki ko na maike wale puchte he na sasural wale 😢
@@friendshiprocks8673 True
Think like this. No girl with a sane mind will desire to be a divorcee. Being divorcee is not fun for woman. Why will they do fake cases? Only those woman do fake cases who are extremely cunning or have laadla parents who can justify her cunningness. Against such woman you can also file a case. Then see she will come to compromise and withdraw case.
Fake filing is not easy. Also woman are not interested to be a divorcee and kill her chances.
99.9% woman think like this - accha huwa mujhe acche pati mil gaya isko mein sambhal lunga.
They don't do fake filing on good husband's. It's their loss only.
Even what will women gain by doing fake filing? Nothing. She will be a divorcee and divorce man has more advantages than divorce woman. So no girl want that drama.
Sir, i have noted 1 more trend from my first hand experience. 25L kamaane wali ladki. 15-20 Lakh waale ladke se bhi shaadi karne to tayaar hain if Ladka is good looking/height/extremely fit. Yeh trend 20/25L+ waali girls pe hi applicable hain as then Girls feel secure with their own money. Everyone wanting something big so use it to your favor, So Brothers workout.
Fit to theek hai.. height ka kya kare :P
Bhai 4-5 lakh wali ladki ko uski aukaat pata h ki wo 20-25 nhi phochegi, isliye 20-25 wala ladka dekhti hai, and 20-25 wali ladki ko pta h 15 wala aage badega hi
When expectations dies, peace begins 🤞
Asli sukh to apne level Wale ke sath shadi karne me hi hai.
Request to put date of video in subject line, to understand chronology
I am your fan& commentor. Your each words is golden & true. I am 70 yrs. I see saw this trend long ago, now and in future. No solution. Girls BECOME unmarried, get divorced & ruined her life; main culprit are her parents specially mother's. Now no one bother No sharm, shame. Only Money money money money.
True
U didn't say a single thing about boys side. Why from ages they always prefer only fair complexion, beautiful ladies who knows all the chores both house chores and outside chores. The girl who has all the following qualities why should she marry an average person??? And what about the girls who r black and ugly but earning good, still not getting an average groom becoz average groom's demand also so high
Ek dum sahi kaha sir. Aajkal latest trend yahi chal raha hai. Iss trend ke solution ke liye kuch upay batao sir.
Rightly said. A girl with a package of 10 lakh is expecting a boy with a package of 30 lacs or more
Sometimes 1 crore
Sir you are completely correct 😊 I have noticed the same in the marriage market about salary package. Great analysis sir
Sir, there are truths to this though there is other side too which you forgot to mention. Hence, highlighting. Like boys and their family give importance to looks, girls have started giving importance to money. So money for boys is equivalent to beauty of a girl. If girl earns a lot and not that great in looks. She will not get matches as she should. This is also reality. Hence, untill these deep rooted society induced thoughts are prevailing, this will go on. Both parties need to understand the importance of intellect and other factors.
yes but there are laws which women can use as weapon against men .... like DV and 498 .... most of the women give up the Job after marriage . Now a days women marry and then file fale case against man for alimony and then they are staying with their boy friends
what to do if wife leave Job after marriage , what to do if she is not working nether doing house hold chores .... if man dont support financially there is law to put all financial burden on him but no law against women if she doesnot do her duties ...... if women want she can take child with her or she can dump on husband and go
I am big fan of yours.. You raises real issue's which prevailing today's World.
It is all about valuation of money more than human beings. A contended girl/boy can be with you forever magar package oriented people ka bhagwan hi maalik hai ...you can very well judge by increasing divorce rates.
bilkul sahi baat hai sir. Sach bolne ke liye dhanyawaad.
Ab to sirf ladke wale hi darte h kyoni sare kanoon to ladki walon ko hi favour m h
Bhai teri kahe f** rhi hai..
To tumhe shaadi tudwane ke liye karni hai
Your observations are quite realistic.I am searching a match for my son who is a BE from BITS,Pikani and MBA from MDI Gurgaon.He is earning 30 lacs plus even I am facing similar problem
Perfect discussion/help to young...
Sir
I am qualified CA earning around 10 lakhs but struggling to find working girl for marriage. Girls of my caste rajput with Equal qualification they demands 360 degree prosperity.
Give me ur no
Bhai Working women hi kyu chaiye? Iske piche ka logic?
If Both will be earning then future expenses can be shared and with rising inflation...this is the need of the hour!
@@vickyAlways ghar ka kaam to kregi fir agar job ni kregi to
@@vickyAlways bhai abhi tumara ek comment dekha ki don't marry someone's second hand girlfriend
And mai bhi agree krta is baat se
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Pr jaisi ladki tum dhund rhe working wali, uske phle kayi bf reh chuke honge......and work pe jayegi to extra marital affair bhi honge hi
Isko kaise tackle kroge?
100% agree sir i too experienced this
honesty is the best policy, koi khass solutiin nahi ,balance n fairness is the keu
I think dono parties ko ye sochne aur samajhne ki zaroorat hai ki aage jaake samay ke saath salary badegi bhi and career mai growth bhi hogi. Aaj jo 5 lakh kama raha woh saari umar 5 lakh pe hi thodi baitha rahega?!.. Both prospective Bride and Groom are in der 20’s toh abhi toh bahut time hai aage badhne ke liye.
Jab aap kisi rishte ke liye mile toh Current Salary se zyada iss baat pe focus karein ki saamne wala kitna samajhdaar hai aur kitna ambitious hai.
Samajhdar baat kari apne. Can also connect via whatsapp 9911702005 for webinars
You r perfect, this trend is generating a lot of anxiety in the society. U r observation is perfect, realistic, keepi doing. Thanks
Its better to start searching globally in other developing countries
So true. Sounds like my story 😊
Another bigger problem is that girls are not ready to relocate even if the package of the boy is good. I make 50 lakhs plus in Hyderabad but girls from gurgaon or bangalore are rejecting saying that they cannot look for a new job even if they are presently making only 7 to 10 lakhs. Giving excuse of job is our swabhimaan.
Even 7-10lac is not small amount it takes hard work from anyone to build their carriers.
@@swagatabhoyar1098 they can do the same hard work in new location.
@@vickyAlways yes it is true
Job to swabhiman hi he bhai chahe kam salary ho ya jyada. Meri bhi govt job he aur dusre jagah se rista ata he me reject kardeti hu
@@friendshiprocks8673 aapki marzi hai but here we are speaking about trend in general
Bilkul exact issue pakda aapne.
Going through the same phase :P
Sir jb main 6 lakh kmati thi tb ladke walon ko honda city chahiye the jo 10 lakh bhi kmate the .ab salary zada hogyi age bhi hogyi 30 plus ab bhi logo ko aur salary aur dahej chahiye bdi shadi chahiye ...aap ispe video bnao...jo ladke wale bolte ki" hume kuch nhi chahiye shadi acchi krdo ,,achi shadi ka india mein koi estimate nhi hota " ab kisi ke parents padhe likhe nhi ladkiyan pdha di loan leke dahej kha se de ...aur ldki bhi apni ctc jitna hi dahej degi kha se laye 20 lakh ...gold bhi itna mehenga hai...ladke walon ko bhi sab chahiye..koi shanti nhi hai kisi ko
I dont want anything. I just want a polite/ not short tempered partner. I am younger than you. Are you ready?
@@arijayjain strange how can you think by reading my comment .you dont even know me as an individual
@@salonisethi6367 😂😂
@@arijayjain Matrimony pe connect ho jaona bhai.
We as parents are secure as our son lives close by and we r financially secure for our medical needs
Hello Sir
All your words are correct and I am experiencing past 3 years.
Salary difference is an aspect. why the salary difference also should be looked at. Maybe if one person has a 2 yrs exp and other has 7-8 yrs exp then the salary gap could close over time. If someone is working in a field like arts or design that works in a certain way. if both are say in STEM and same exp level but the sal diff is 3-4X that could maybe point at a difference in cognitive abilities which in turn could cause frustration or joy in long run depending on the personalities.
You are right
I think check the potential in job profile. Person can rise with time.
But everyone want risk free proven product who already achieved milestone
Yes sir, it is happening
Very much correct, sir.
All this is happening becoz girls parents are spending so much in marriage. Thats why they need a high earning groom. If this unnecessary spending in marriages stop then a balance can be created in society
I am of the opinion Sir every lady in India should go for a job specially in cities because one person alone cannot run a house in India as everything is very very costly in India.
But then such couples become detached to family values, they havee no time for procreation and for raising kids - as a result, they forever remain childless, all this couple has is money in their lives.
True sir.
Bilkul sahi baat apne bataya h.. maine bhi ye cases bahut dekhe h.
Sir aap bahut ache topic pr baat krte h
The initial explanation reminds me of the Kailash Kher song ‘Tauba tauba tauba’
Pehle mai padhta nahi tha lekin ab inki baaton se lag rha padhna chalu krna pdega nahi toh aage bohot bhari padega
Well I m in the end of my 11th and I will try my best to get admission in IIT ( Indian Institute of Technology)
Good topic. Yes definitely needs through debate. Agree with you on the trends.
Definitely, ladke wale bhaybheet hain...!
If the girl is pressurised to get married at the age of 24 -25 when she has just started working. How can we compare her salary with a boy in his 30's earning obviously more.
also the point of Gender Pay Parity should be considered. For same work men are paid more than women. In fact women are often considered as cheap labour in job market.
bullshit female model get more than male model ... why girls in 24-25 are looking for boys in 30ies ... go for boys in 21-22 .... marked do not discriminate based on gender ... it just want want profit and women are playing victim card
Han sar ham ladke wale hain aur dare hue hain ki Bahu kaisi aaegi pata nahin
Sir I don't want to overburden my parents financially.....but when I think today's marriage minimum cost it seems will I be able to get married by my own finance??
I earn more than one carore per annum, and yet keeps getting rejected every now and then... 😂
why nokri wali & house wife kis se marriage kerna best hoga positive & negative points per vedios banaye
I m agree with sir
it's the reality. thanks
Can any one guarantee about job security or financial crisis in middle ... It can be better solution when No dowry in marriage & no maintenance if separated or divorce.
Nice...mohan lal Mittal adv hisar
salary , ghar sab theek bhi ho toh bhi ladka sharukh khan bhi hona chahiye
😂😂😂
awesome, fantastically put.
Yes
Very true
U r right sir
Sahi baat hai
Totally agree
Great video sir
You are right sir
Very nice information sir..
sir ye bilkul sach hai
Money is important and thr is no doubt in this but not at the cost of happiness n peace which shud be the ultimate goal....n yes today people hav become more practical in approach but in this they r missing most important aspects of life that one shud hav to lead a peaceful life i.e. understanding, someone with whom you can share things without fear of judgement, one who is conscious towards life.... although life is not black n white... eventually u will find out all this but even if u get to find a person who has some of these qualities thn one shudnt let go of this chance becz in few years down the marriage which will make it work is not only money but these qualities which will help u sustain n enjoy life...rest today's world is very unpredictable n so is todays generation
aapne dukhti rag par haath rakh diya.
Ye cheez bahut comon hai.....
Everyone wants something big ...but no idea about it....
arrange marriage se jyada bachkane baat aajkal ke jamane main ho he ni sakti
Really letest trend hai
Hypocrisy of girl side....I mean The Salary of Girl is Also important
Awesome Inc
100 percent correct sir
Shatt pratishatt Satya..... 🙏🙏🙏
We need your advice Sir
Bilkul sir mai khud face kar raha hu is problem se,,
very very nice and beautiful
In a nutshell, marriage is not panipuri jo jab jesa ji chaha to bol diya "bhaiya tikha banana, bhaiya meetha jyada dalna, bhaiya ye bhaiya wo".
People need to keep the dignity of the institution of marriage and control their Greed and Farmayishi program
God bless you for this video 😂
😊very true
It is true
When it's gonna get played?
Sir ji Bahut he achha
Apne dusre channel ka link description may de dijiye.
Sir aap bilkul sahi bol rahe h yhi reality h aaj kal ki..
Finding good person is difficult.
Yes I'm scared, my parents also looking for a nice hard working girl
Working wife dhundne ke piche ka logic?
@@AnkitKumar-kk3iw I live in Canada so yhaan saare jobs krte hai
Sahi kaha h sir
Truth of life. These things need to be discussed
Me to apni shadi karke darti rehi ab bety ki shadi karky darti hu . Bikul sahi observation h
Arranged marriage is so strange - a trade off. Nothing is certain. I prefer checking personality, compatibility and feelings.