7 Signs Someone is Worth Fighting For
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- čas přidán 16. 06. 2024
- Conflict and difficulty are inevitable in any kind of relationship. Frustrating circumstances can make even the strongest and happiest of couples start to second guess their relationship and ask themselves whether or not it’s even worth it. Are you in a situation where you're unsure about your relationship but you don't want to spend the rest of your life regretting your decision and pining over “the one that got away”? Would it be better to stay with this person or break up now? To help you answer that question, here are a few definitive signs that can help you realize whether or not someone is worth fighting for.
If you are single but you have the same problem with a friend, we also made a video talking about the signs you should not end your friendship: • 7 Signs You Shouldn't ...
#friendships #relationships
Writer: Chloe Avanasa
Script editor: Morgan Franz
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Drean Bacatan
CZcams Manager: Cindy Cheong
References:
Demir, M. (2008). Sweetheart, you really make me happy: Romantic relationship quality and personality as predictors of happiness among emerging adults. Journal of Happiness Studies, 9(2), 257-277.
Yamada, M. (2012). Honesty as a mediator for relationship satisfaction and conflict. Journal of Personality and Individual Differences, 39(11), 281-294.
Appel, I., & Shulman, S. (2015). The role of romantic attraction and conflict resolution in predicting shorter and longer relationship maintenance among adolescents. Archives of sexual behavior, 44(3), 777-782.
Mills, J., & Clark, M. S. (2009). Viewing close romantic relationships in adolescents: Implications for maintenance and enhancement. In Close romantic relationships (pp. 21-34). Psychology Press.
Dargie, E., & Blair, K. L. (2017). Predictors of positive relationship outcomes in adolescent dating relationships. Journal of social psychology, 41(2), 181-202.
Do you have a personal story that you would like to share relating to this? Email us at editorial@psych2go.net
“You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep, because the reality is finally better than your dreams.” Dr Seuss
My dream is to live a dream...
@Jazzier Man To become a Gang-STAR
Meanwhile me: dreams about a universe where ppl actually love me😂
@Jazzier Man is that a jojo reference 😳
@Jazzier Man I know of another man who bragged about having a dream...
...it didn't go so well. ;o)
When they help you heal rather than judging you.
Yes, rare to find!
@Max Mustermann Absolutely
That’s really rare for me.
Exactly ❤
I just want to share this facebook.com/101827208385425/posts/103370824897730/
1- They make you happy
2- You can talk to them about anything
3- You love spending time with them
4- You can be yourself around them
5- You agree to disagree
6- You share the same core values
7- You help each other grow
Thanks
Ty
Thank you so much!
thank youuuu!
Thank you so much! ^^
I’d like to add to the conflict part please.
Someone once told me “you can get as mad as you want at someone, but only as long as you’re willing to spend the same amount of energy resolving the problem”
~Chelsey (My sister)
I this is a really good advice. Thank you for sharing!!
your sister is wise
❤
This is amazing! We talk about all the good things in a relationship, but the “bad” or hard things in a relationship isn’t given enough credit. What makes a relationship work is effort and arguments!
You need to spend more than twice the effort to rebuild the relationship and help mend the hurt in the other person.
This perfectly described my relationship with one of my ex's. He made me want to be a better person and because of him, I started following my dream of rebuilding old cars. I lacked a lot of confidence and self worth before I met him. He pulled me out of my shell and built me up when others tried to tare me down. Every day, I'm thankful for the time he and I had together. May he rest in peace.
I'm so sorry for you. He seemed like an amazing person
❤️
His worth is still there.
If I may ask, why did it end? Feel free to ignore me if you don't want to answer!
@@simonedesabata9538 He passed away due to heart failure in 2017. His aortic valve was replaced when he was 13 and it only lasted him seven years before it gave out after he caught that strain of the flu that was going around in 2017.
I'm so, so, so sorry, somehow I didn't read your last sentence in the original comment and thought you two just split up... it's great how he's left you to this day such a wonderful effect on your life.
Is it just me or is her voice the most relaxing thing ever like wow
It isn't just you
I find it to be extremely relaxing.
Sykkuno. Check him out ,I swear.
@@diamonddog3736 sykkuno eyy
Ngl it is...
The older I get, I see #6 is more important than the rest. If someone you just met doesn’t share the same core values, just move on. The other signs are important but can be worked on developed with time
Thanks I needed to hear this
Facts
@@janeowen573 Why would I want my ex come back begging for a second chance? That sounds kinda toxic
My thoughts exactly
@@Zwerggoldhamster so your ex got the same core values or no? All the other signs could be worked on as he said, or turn toxic n unhealthy
My girlfriend and I broke up for 2 weeks. Neither one of us reached out to each other during those 2 weeks out of respect for each other. After talking my therapist I decided to reach out to see how she was doing. It turns out that neither one of us wanted to break up and we just had a serious communication issue. We make each other feel everything in this video and fighting for our relationship was worth it. I hope we can avoid any major miscommunications in the future because life would be lesser without her
Need advice here;
What if the one you love for 8 yr breakup with you? Because of growing apart, my inconsistency, and separated single for a year, but somehow txt civil. Like
On occasion.
And then one day that one has with someone new?
Is it ok to still share your feelings to her?
And win her back with marriage, if she wills it?
And wait for her decision atleast 9 months?
Note: She wanted marriage in our 6th yr.
good luck! I believe in you!
I feel the same way but how my break up went i dont think we can get back together... but we both are very sad..😔..i would like to but im scared..
So, 1 year later, how did it go?
@@Asto508 it’s going great! We moved in together about 6 months ago, we’ve been discussing any issues before they blow up into some big thing, and right now we’re planning a trip to Seattle to celebrate our 2 year anniversary in a few months. I’m glad I decided to reach out to her 😁 Thanks for asking
When you're so early that nobody summarised the points yet
Somebody summarised the points a minute before you posted your comment. The person’s summary comment is a comment under yours, by the way 👍
Well lucky you the summary is right under your comment lmboo 🤣
You just didn’t lookat the comments i already found two before you wrote that
Hello early bird. You get a
@@Psych2go Hey, I am a huge fan of yours. You get me through life easier than if I had to do so myself and struggle. Thank you for everything you have done for all of us up to this point and beyond! 👍✊❤️
how could someone dislike this--they probably fought for the wrong person...
Sometimes Person A is willing to do everything to fight for Person B but Person B might not feel like Person A is worth fighting for 😥
@@CrazyGamerDragon64 yeah ://
@@CrazyGamerDragon64 it hurts :(
@@CrazyGamerDragon64 then someone send that random person B this video i guess-
Admit it. We all did that atleast once in our life
My therapist said “Equal partner, worthy foe.” That is the best. Someone who shows up equally but also pushes/motivates you to expand yourself.
I like that, I am going to tell my partner that. Such a good way to phrase it.
That is beautiful.
I was that person for my partner. I wasn’t worth fighting for. He took me for granted. I was way better off on my own. It’s a two way street both parties should be all of the things that are mentioned in the video. It’s sad when the other person gets the short end of the stick, which in my relationship was me. Everyone deserves equal love and appreciation. I hope everyone who sees this video is either being treated as they should already in their present relationship or that this kind of relationship will find it’s way to you.
did u yell at him a lot?
@samantha take a look at attachment theory. You might be anxious preoccupied. I am and I’ve been where you are.
I might be wrong, but I’ve had a lot of healing from knowing that, and understanding the opposite personality type (usually dismissive avoidant)
@@jamesnguyen7069 she had to
I hope that for you as well!
Maybe you are just not fun to have around.
Well- this video just made me feel like I can trust humanity again
I'm glad to hear that!
Wait that possible because the way I see it is the government is stupid like every government especially the American government
Satan’s Wife
Damn... that’s all it took? Lol
Also... you’re “Satan’s wife.” Why the hell do you care about humanity? 😆
@@Jdabomb93 Lol, nice.
@@Jdabomb93 I was a mortal once, I care about my people
I want to hug these little characters - the cutest expressions ❤️
Thank you!
Me too！！( ´ ▽ ` )！！
@@chriskuni9308 they are like little marshmallows ❤️
@@TracvM320 ikr and their cute
I want to grab them and squish them!! ♥
What hurts the most is that I shared all of these with my most recent girlfriend except for #6. You can share all of these traits but if you don't have the same core values the relationship just isn't going to work.
When I’m at my most insecure, I want to run away, but after watching this I realize that the person I’m with is really great for me, and our relationship is strong. It feels really good to realize that from a rational mindset, when usually I have to come to terms with the opposite :)
This made me realise that there are people I don't need to fight for. Just gotta let them go.
Thanks for sharing. Is there at least one person in your life who is worth fighting for? :)
@@Psych2go oh there are plenty! I have amazing friends and family, just drop the ones who are not a nice influence on my life
@@Psych2go mom
When you think about it, this applies to most if not all kinds of relationships not just romantic ones.
That's true :) Do you have someone in your life who is worth fighting for?
@@Psych2go not really. I'm still looking for one.
Every psych2go video is about all relationships if you think about it.....
Exactly!!
@@aartisharma864 as an aromantic I took this like the real purpose since I won't have a romantic partner but I care about the platonic ones.
Shared it with my partner, just now, and we both agree that our relationship checks all 7 of those boxes. Thank you for the guidelines. They are very helpful
Having recently broken up with someone who I really didn’t want to break up with, this was a particularly painful watch. I really wanted to make things work but you can’t make someone feel something they don’t
No one:
Absolutely no one:
Me: “A GIRL WORTH FIGHTING FOR!”
~Mulan
I expected so much more of this
Omg I commented that lol
Was waiting for this comment lmfao
Sorry, but I don't understand.😕
@@hrituvarn1307 watch the original Mulan. It’s good , this song shows up as well
I stopped texting you not because I want to, because I am respecting your decision. You told me to give you space and not to text you because you are ignoring people. But please know that even if we are not speaking rn I am silently supporting you through my prayers. I pray you heal, I pray you fall in love with yourself and with life. I pray you are always safe. I know you think that no one cares, and everybody hates you, because that is what your mind telling you. But I just want you to realise that the love that you are looking for is within you. I LOVE YOU. But I have to let you go, in order for you to experience life and heal on your own. You have given me the courage to be all that I am and I truly feel your heart will lead you back to me when you are ready to land. I have much to do, and you my darling even more. I'll see you in a couple of years. Be safe my Love, MGTB! 🙂🙏💞🐘
He needs to be on his own in order to know who he really are. I don't expect him to come back because I know if he will, he will lose himself again. He should be alone to find happiness within himself.
Aww you are a verryyy wonderful Person. .. I love that but it's sad too
@@alicemuller8299 it is sad and painful too, knowing that my Love for her is not enough, because the love that she is yearning for is within her . But I am trying to understand her because she's in deep pain. And she is battling her mind every day. But it is also her responsibility to heal. I can only pray for her right now and love her from a distance. I pray we see each other one day. 🙂🙏💞
Thx for your comment.. I know the feeling ❤️
I'm the one in the relationship that had to go away to heal and learn to love myself. He's a very proud and egocentric person. I really expected to hear from him what you wrote. I guess when I'm ready and healed, I won't come back. I'm sure that person in your life would love to hear what you just wrote. If you ever have the chance to let that person know, do it.
This all perfectly described my relationship with my ex. We're both currently not speaking and taking time to heal from the breakup and it's all thanks to me that we're where we are. I'm determined to fight for a chance again and to make things right.
This is me. I hope your journey is serving you well.
Good luck. Been there,done that. Didn't work. It's very rare that people actually work out their issues after a break up.
Hoe are you doing?
Any update?
@@m.l.7558😂
Ever since watching this vid for the first time, I have occasionally watched it again, to clear my head when I'm frustrated and allow me to think more rationally. Specifically, it helps remind me that, yes my "its complicated" is worth the patience and working through the smaller frustrations that come from her stubbornness. In the end, she and I share every point listed here and we both want the same thing when time is kinder. And if I'm honest, I'm stubborn too and we wouldn't have fallen for each other if we didn't appreciate our imperfection. As I often say, god she can be frustrating sometimes, but damnit I like her!
Sorry but when you said, "it's complicated", it sounds like she's not taking you as an exclusive partner but just dragging you along, but you're convincing yourself that you should stay on and hold on to her.
A situation like that, is usually not worth it. Until she leaves a relationship she's in and give your relationship a chance. Otherwise, you need to value yourself more and walk away.
It's been 1 month since your comment. I'm not sure of your status, but definitely hope you're doing better...
Hahhahah I love the last phrase
Woo I get to write one of these:
1. They make you happy - 0:48
2. You can talk to them about anything - 1:21
3. You love spending time with them - 1:48
4. You can be yourself - 2:20
5. You agree to disagree - 2:47
6. You share the same core values - 3:28
7. You help each other grow - 4:11
Thanks Psych2Go for the upload!
Haha! Thank you for doing that!
I actually love to take screenshots. So these comments are very helpful. I don't have to take screenshots point by point. I can take it all at once. Thank you so much 😊
Aww dang I don't have these points with an important person in my life... Guess that says something about our relationship
@Valentín Freymóðsson are you okay
I think I found one but he's not into me :>
im in an awful place right now. my girlfriend just left to a psych ward for a month. she wasnt allowed to take her phone and i wont be allowed to visit or call her. i havent seen her in two months because of quarantine and i wanted to see her once last time before she left but her parents wouldnt let me. im really praying she’ll be alright. i think shes really worth fighting for so in this month that shell be at the psych ward, ill work on better self care habits and self love so that i can be a better person once shes back. this all really sucks and i cant believe its happening.
it will get better, neither of you are to blame.
mental stuff is never easy.
you can overcome.
she can too.
Focus on your own mental health, you can only help if youre healthy.
you'll get through it even if you're sure you won't, i did.
thank you guys so much 🥺💕💗
hey! u posted this a month ago so things may be different now but I read what u had to say and I really hope you're doing alright. If the situation hasn't turned up yet please please be patient. Time may seem like your enemy at the moment but in situations like these, time can actually be ur safety when u realize each passing second is moving forward whether ur stressing about it or not. Sit up, take a deep breath, know u are alright now and you WILL be alright soon. remember that if it hasn't worked out it's not over yet
This applies to my relationship right now, but I guess it’s just not the right time. We decided that we needed to go our own way and work ,focus and help ourselves to achieve our own goals . Maybe one day, if he’s really the one, Only time will tell. For now I just have to suck it up, be strong like He told me and move forward.
how are you guys now? are you back together?
Same happened to me but she is the one who said this so tell me are you guys got back together?
This perfectly describes my current relationship with my girlfriend!
I have been travelling overseas recently and started to have doubts about our relationship, especially since our timezones are way off right now. But everytime I do get to talk to her, all my worries fade away.
After watching this video, all my doubts disappeared!
"I want something more
A life worth fighting for..."
A GIRL WORTH FIGHTING FOOOOR🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶
@@chadpowell1832 THAT'S WHAT I SAID! A GIRL WORTH FIGHTING FOOOOOR!
@@chadpowell1832 beat me to it!
@@JillofTrades I WANT HER PALER THAN THE MOON, WITH EYES THAT SHINE LIKE STARS
I was trying to start another song but ok whatever 😂
You.
Yes you.
You are worth fighting for.
Stay safe.
I love how this described my relationship with my friend! She's just like me and I'm so grateful for her, after all, she was the one that helped me in my worsts times and makes me happy just by staying by her side! ☺. Ofc just friends, after all, we are both straight, but that's what make us even close! 😊
This girl, my ex, became insecure and wanted to grow independently, but she is everything to me and fills me up with joy everytime we hang out. We dated for a couple years but I don't know how to get her back now.. She's worth everything to me, there's nobody who understands me on this deep of a level.. Please don't let her give up on us
Oh my guy, this me brother, the same thing happened to me, she broke up not because the love is gone or something, no, we still love each other and want each other and she just told me that she is tired and it seems like she wanna grow independently, and yeah she has mentall illness, ocd,depression, but I adore her and I just wanna be besides her not to give up on her and not to leave her alone so I understand what you are in buddy
Just know that love continues and if you are both destined to each other,things will work out and you both will be with each other again
I am doing this rn just loving her from far and letting her know that I am by her side and I am not going to leave her alone and just it waiting for her to come back because I believe in our love because what happens with us when we are together is truly worth the believe and fighting for
@@funnypython3190 Damn bro I’m in the same boat. It really fucking hurt because she said it felt like she was settling with me and I was really great guy but that she just had a gut feeling to let me go. We were together for 6 years and it’s so hard to accept that it’s what she wants.
Praying for you and everyone in the comments
This makes me tear up. I have moved on from a 5 years engagement . He didn't meet all of those . Sadly but its life . It's ok . Im ok.
I hope that, 7 months on, you're doing better. I've just broke up from a 7 year engagement. We're still in the "maybe we can fix things" stage but, I really don't know. I want to believe, but I don't want to get my hopes up.
I might have these things ahead of me. But I guess it is doable, seeing you guys here ❤️
@@CplBurdenR Need advice here;
What if the one you love for 8 yr breakup with you? Because of growing apart, my inconsistency, and separated single for a year, but somehow txt civil. Like
On occasion.
And then one day that one has with someone new?
Is it ok to still share your feelings to her?
And win her back with marriage, if she wills it?
And wait for her decision atleast 9 months?
Note: She wanted marriage in our 6th yr.
5 years gone 😅 so sorry for you
@@daddada2984 Dude, run away. If she moved on already with someone else, you have nothing to gain by trying to please her and instead you will lose even more than you already have.
Signs Your Relationship is Worth Fighting For👍
Your partner is one of your most favorite people.
You both know how to communicate and express how you feel.
You don't want to be with anyone else.
Boredom is not in your vocabulary.
Your differences complete your relationship.
You still feel giddy whenever they do something sweet.
It feels good when you're together.
Yes all of these but he still left.
All of these. Except we're both pretty emotionally immature and don't know how to communicate emotions.
@@yellowishgreendragon.-. you can always create that and grow together
@@yuvanshi2171 but what if the other person didn't want to?
@@farwarter yes thats why he left, but ppl r immature sometimes, he came back and now wants to do all of these u think its worth all the trouble and chance?
My best friend and I are still caught in between a place of love and fear because of the distance that separates us. Honestly everything mentioned in this video makes me realize that I can’t give up on her. Honestly more than anything I just want to be with her in Germany right now and she knows that I’m willing to sacrifice so much to be with her. I just hope my best friend and I can talk more about it because I don’t want to lose her.
I managed to be very lucky and unlucky at the same time. I have found someone who fits perfectly to everything on this list, and I know that I deeply care about them. The problem is that neither of us is ready to start a serious relationship. But I know I'm willing to wait for us to get better. I hope everything works out.
Hello dear I recommend you Dr Ezekiel,he was the one who helped me restore back my 6 years broken 💔 relationship,he can make your ex come back begging for a second Chance, Also Dr Ezekiel always keep to his promise, I will advice you seek his help,thanks.
Good luck, whenever that is/was
"At the end of the day, you can either focus on what’s tearing you apart or what’s keeping you together.” - Anonymous❤️🙏selfhelpchampion
One of the core rules in our relationship is: no matter how mad we are at each other or how much we disagree, we never ever fall asleep still angry. We might go to bed still mad, but then we still argue and argue until we argue everything out of our heads and hearts and we never fall asleep still mad with each other.
7 signs someone is worth fighting for:
1. They make you happy 0:50
2. You can talk to them about anything 1:21
3. You love spending time w them 1:48
4. You can be yourself 2:20
5. You agree to disagree 2:47
6. You share the same core value 3:29
7. You help each other grow 4:12
i broke up with him a while ago and i've started realizing these past few weeks, he is so worth fighting for. i have NEVER been treated better by anyone else other than him, he always cared about how i felt, never got upset or angry at me, never argued and always comforted me when i was upset. i miss you evan and i hope you will take me back some day, we are still close friends and i hope you know that i still love you and i always will. im sorry for lashing out.
I going exactly through this and this is just what I needed, unfortunately our current relationship doesn't check almost any point, so I guess breaking up is for the better of both, thanks for the video 💙
To people reading this ....
You are worth fighting for ! You are special ❤️❤️❤️❤️
1. they make you happy
2. you can talk to them about everything
3. you love spending time with them
4. you can be yourself
5. you agree to disagree
6. you share the same core values
7. you help each other grow
all of these are real!!! 😊💛
ps: I'm a small ytuber :))
Huge props for having actual references in a youtube video! You're AWESOME!
My relationship with my partner is very much described in this video. I'm so grateful to have him in my life. It is definitely worth your while to keep looking until you find the person who meets the criteria set out in this video.
1. They make you happy
2. You can tell them anything
3. You love spending time with them
4. You can be yourself around them
5. You agree to disagree
6. You share the same core values
7. You help each other grow
So does this mean I should chase her ?
Letting go is the hardest part...
This proves that I didn't commit a wrong decision. 🙂
Thank you for this! 🙂
This is me and my best friend.
We talk about our problems and tell our deepest secrets. We don’t judge each other and give each other advice.
Were not partners. We are both young males. We are just really good friends.
Work on each other separately and then together because a committed and long term relationship takes more work than I was taught growing up and watching how families interact. 👪
Who is wondering about a friendship and not a relationship
🙋🏻♀️
Yes...but do you have a crush on your best friend? 😁😁
@Triccs_k1_ Mufasa yeah same :)
I am wondering about a toxic grandparent.
I mean, a friendship is a relationship. I feel like this. After the split, do you feel relief or does it stay with you? I lost two friends at the same time. A very supportive guy that had some personal issues that came between us and a girl that had the exact same problem.
Leaving the girl does not bother me. She barely crosses my mind, but the boy has been on my mind for the past year, and it looks as if he has been experiencing the same thing.
I think we both know that we're worth fighting for, but we don't really know how to start the reconciling process.
Everything listed in this video is true about my relationship except there are a few core values that we don't share and I find we have been able to get past or work around. His family is very religious and though he doesn't live his life as they do, there are times when he finds himself falling back on those early beliefs. That is not a bad thing because we teach each other different things from this difference.
Thank you this info.
this describes me and my girl accurately but unfortunately we're going through a rough patch. keep us in your prayers. hope we can come back stronger than ever.
Such a beautiful concept, but a Man truly worth fighting for has to enter my life & path first.
Until the day he comes along, I will continue to be the one I fight for!...
😌 I would fight for him but in my case, im the only one that enjoyed the relationship so i dont think it's worth fighting for it anymore.
Great video as usual. If only i've seen this much much earlier, maybe we could've worked it out.
thank you. this made me realise that i am only overthinking the purpose of love. cause I am always not sure what exactly love is and if misinterpreted our relationship... but every single reason that was mentioned in the video made me smile cause it applied to us.. thanks
I’ve recently felt pressured to try new things with my partner, as this apparently “maintains the spark”. But after watching this video, this makes me realize that I always love spending time with my partner, Even if we’re not doing anything really exciting. My partner is definitely worth fighting for. But being an anxious person, I worry and overthink way too much, hence why I have relationship anxiety. Because I don’t want to lose him and he means the world to me. I can’t bare the thought of him not being in my life. 🥺❤️❤️
Same!!
+2348073317460⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.
Comments: omg it was just posted and there's comments from weeks ago!
Me: yeah they give ppl early access
They can be found in our unlisted videos! :)
@@Psych2go Oooo, Awesome!
This made me realize even more how special my current partnership truly is, thank you
Beautiful animation, thank you for the advice.❤️
I really appreciate the content you create! You make tricky concepts more understandable in a non-judgmental way and that benefits more people than you can ever know ❤
The first thing I thought after seeing the title: Wh- WHAT AM I FIGHTING FOOOOOR?!
i should have been the one to fill your dark soul with LIIIIIIIGGHT
A masterpiece that only Zero himself could deliver
These... seems tah be enahgy wesources.
anyone else having Girl's Frontline flashbacks here?
I am being Brutally Honest, Me & My Girl had every single thing. I Mean Every Single Thing.
But still we broke up. It felt so weird & so disturbing. But the reasons were She was not willing to implement just a few changes for her own good, as she felt that it would change her personality But I swear there was nothing that could lead to this.
Though sometimes The Two are perfect but not meant to be Together ❤️.
Though Great Video guys Keep Working ❤️ It was Super relatable & Super Informative ❤️
@Devansh Shah Just 2-3 changes to Simply inform me Whenever she felt Bad or like not In a cheerful mood.
Plus.
There was an incident That we had an argument (because of her Repetitive neglecting about Few imp things) then we were on a call She was trying to asure me That it won't happen again (this assurance was about the 5-6th time she repeated the same)
And I was almost Getting fine but She had a call from one of her friends who was kind of Feeling Sad due to her household disputes So my girl put My call on hold (P.N.I never objected her from talking with anyone But Atleast inform me If she was busy) then it was for about 2/3 an hour With no replies of Msgs or Calls.
My only requirement was Just a Plain Text like "I just got a call from My friend she is Very sad so I'll call you back".
But what I got was "I was unable to Even reply You back".
@Devansh Shah Really sorry for another Long one
But the Matter was a bit complicated 😓
It's kinda same for me and my ex... We are perfect for each other but not meant to be, it hurts
@@shashwatkhobragade6375 Yaa it really hurts Dude..
@Devansh Shah Thanks Brother.
I've thought about it from this view too and Only thing I got hit with was That ONLY MY EFFORTS DON'T COUNT. IT'S A GAME FOR TWO & NOT ONE.
Yeah we kept eachother happy and Everything did perfectly but Then why to lack in anyother important point. Even after explaining so much & giving tons and tons of chances every time The Return Gift was just a Quarrel.
So it's better to End it If The happiness is gradually been undertaken by Lots of quarrel & arguments.
By far, may fave YT channel. Keep up the good work!
Just started seeing someone I meet at work, and she fits all these spots. Definitely a lady worth fighting for. Your videos definitely help make things clear.
Basically this video is another sign that I move on from my current relationship. None of whats on here is there anymore. We both deserve other people, not each other like we thought. Thank you for your videos. Helps us alot.
Update I left and they got to their senses. We are working things out. We have setbacks but my partner has really working on themselves and knows his priorities. I've worked on my faults as well in terms of reacting. Thanks again for the videos.
How is it working out now? I’m in the same situation rn but she left without working it out. She’s wants to give another try however,
How you guys doing?
Hearing your voice is already enough for a therapy session
Thanks this helped me to continue on with my relationship amongst the difficulties ❤️
These videos are really well made, and some just perfectly describe what is going on in my life. This video quite literally perfectly described my relationship.
the difference between a winner and a loser is one thing, they dare to face the whole world for what they stand for and more important stay patient no matter what it costs, showing imperfections, saying no, staying alone, people who put this into practice are living the best of their lives knowing it's not easy or it comes overnight.... while others who let that in theory are blaming now the society and others, thank you for stopping please stay safe..
I agree
I hope I'm one of those winners
Well I thought I was making a mistake with my relationship because of what people say about him but after watching this, I know I made the right choice.
Great videos guys they really help me when no one else will
I love the Voice Over of Amanda ❤️😍 , these 7 signs are accurate and complete 👏👍
we broke up 3 weeks ago for a reason outside from our relationship, and i swear to god this days have been hard as hell. she literally makes me the happiest girl in this world. we were both the first girlfriends of each other and i stg it’s gonna be hard to fall in love with someone else like i am in love with her, i don’t even think that it will be possible. the world could be falling apart but knowing that she exists is more than enough to bring me a smile. she fits perfectly in every category in this video. i wish i could spend my whole life at her side :( let’s see what the universe will bring for the future…
I'm sure the universe will bring you something better
This is a great list of signs. But people need to know that people also change and those characteristics may fade over time. That's how you know it's NO LONGER WORTH fighting for
we had all of this yet he dumped me twice now for being “unequally yoked” yet the look in his face says otherwise...
no one is perfect; we’re all sinners and thus unequal. it was the only major disagreement we’d have; we were vulnerable with each other, made each other be better people. i thought it was worth it but now there’s too much emotional pain.
I really like seeing these kind of videos. Helps me look at things in a more simple way. Break it apart and understand it. Figure things out. I always want to apologize to someone who things didn't work out with. I understand we both weren't at our best. It makes me sad still. I really wasn't all that great. And I regret it all the time. My proof for it ig is never wanting to go back down. I was doing my best and doing a lot better. When I decided to go farther I did. Hope they're okay and growing still. They probably know how I feel. They completely moved on from me but I'm just glad I did my best and still am because of them. Sometimes I think you can take some moments in your life and still keep them as long as you do the best with what you have. And I know I never want to hurt and make someone feel negatively like the ways that made my ex and me feel before. Glad I got to come out strong during and after it all.
I come here to cry.. Her voice and what she says honestly soothes my soul
Nailed the timing again, how do they do it?!
Maybe it's that time of the month? Oct is nearing the end of year and people want to start next year right?
@@Psych2go Mhm!! I have a theory that 2021 will be a good year b/c all the bad things happened this year. Also, love the vids!!
@@abby8490 I agree!
@@abby8490 maybe this year is the first level of bad things . . Wait untl we reach the final level 🤣 . Lol jk
@@abby8490 damn you jinxed it
When all your important person in your life are exactly opposite from the list
Yes it hurts...
Time to let go and begin a new chapter.
You can be in a whole other place in your life and youll get there soon.
@@jo.k.4210 aww thank you dear sir
I'm in the same place and we're on a break. I almost cried watching this, I really love him and wish things had gone better
Heheh yeah 😅
I share all these with my best friend. He's an amazing person, and I'm lucky to have it. Thank you for helping to confirm I should always stick with them.
I am unsure if they feel the same... but after this.... I have realised I want to continue fighting...
Thank you soo much, you always make me feel better!
Thanks. I needed this. ❤️❤️❤️
1. Make you happy
2. Talk about anything
3. Love spending time together
4. Be yourself
5. Agree to disagree
6. Share same core value
7. Help each other grow
So basically,
Don't let go-
The fact I come across this when I need it, means something. I've just hit a really rough patch with a friend. I've known how much they meant to me. Over the time we've been friends. We've pushed each other and made each other grow into better people. I told them the other day it has been wonderful seeing them spread their wings and not let their hardships keep them down. This video shows me I chose the right choice opening up to them. I'm going to keep fighting to keep this friendship. 😄
I actually laughed when I heard this. I have given and put my everything into this relationship, however I do now realise after analysing the situation, he has tunnel vision and controlling, his way or no way at all. Thank you for making me see things in a better light.
This is the only channel I can infinitely share whats happening in my life without being afraid, since so many other people share their lives too I feel comforted
Wow these traits perfectly describes the partner I'm blessed to have right now. I love this. It's a great gauge of how things are going in my personal life.
This year I've come out of a nearly 3 year relationship and it was a messy ending based on her actions and how she went about things, after watching this video I've realised that she actually didn't meet any of the points that were made in this video and its only now I'm starting to realise how toxic she really was.
Right now I'm talking to someone else, I haven't even met her yet but she meets every one of the points made in this video, it's crazy how the best things that are waiting to happen to you can just be around the corner, to anyone reading this that's going through any sort of breakup or heartache, it gets easier I promise ❤️
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Ok CZcams, this time you must be drinking more than you imagined
:v The videos are early updated for members xD
@@elisabeth9951 Yeah, but it was a joke
@@ikeepscreamingbutgodwontan3132 Ohhhh, I'm sorry xd
@@elisabeth9951 That's alright :-)
I feel like these things generally apply to the relationship my best friend and I have. We're not in a relationship but a lot of these things are still true.
Soulmates ??
My 2 best friends and I meet all these criteria and I know that they are worth fighting for. Unfortunately I keep chasing that same closeness and ease with romantic partners but I haven’t found it. I do have an avoidant attachment style and this contributed to my last relationship ending but I never felt authentically myself or was as happy with my partner. He had a lot of great qualities but I couldn’t laugh with him and fell at ease like I did n with my friends.
This was really nice to see from both a romantic and platonic standpoint. I can confidently say that my best friend (platonic) has all of these qualities and its a good physical example of what I'm trying to find romantically.
thanks for helping build up my confidence, courage, and determination!
Wow this video came out at the perfect time. My boyfriend and I just broke but it was completely mutual and there are no bad feelings whatsoever. I resonate with all of these for us, but the one we do struggle with is having same family values due to cultural differences. However, I am working on strengthening that value because it's something I've always wanted to value. Timing isn't on our side right now and we need to focus on ourselves for a bit. We still talk everyday and love each other, so I can only hope we will be together again one day.
I can understand ur feelings coz this is exactly what I'm going through right now🥲🥲🥲
Did you get together again?
Need advice here;
What if the one you love for 8 yr breakup with you? Because of growing apart, my inconsistency, and separated single for a year, but somehow txt civil. Like
On occasion.
And then one day that one has with someone new?
Is it ok to still share your feelings to her?
And win her back with marriage, if she wills it?
And wait for her decision atleast 9 months?
Note: She wanted marriage in our 6th yr.
this just happen to me too it’s been three weeks since the brake up and we don’t talk any advice?
Im very happy right now...my partner and I of almost 5 years have gone through some rough patches but he qualifies with everything on this list ☺️ It’s very reassuring to know that it’s worth it to keep fighting for what we have
Thank you for your videos, this gave me a lot to think about, and my relationship is definitely worth fighting for, going through the epic growing pains, and giving into working things out with my partner, who is determined to make it work, this gave me a lot of clarity and hope for our relationship. Thank you and blessings to you.
Good Stuff!
Currently not in a relationship, but I met someone, with which everything feels right and every aspect of this video is just 100% fulfilled, so much that i even say, even if it dont end up in a relationship, i will never give up on him. I will be there for him all the time and help him in all ways i am capable of because it just makes me so happy to be around him and see, that he's happy and sees, what he is worth
This helps me get motivated to work through my troubles and issues with that someone 🙂 thank you for this.
1. paler than the moon with eyes that shine like stars
2. marvel at your strength and adore your battle scars
sorry but one of the first things that sprang to mind was that song
I’m watching this video thinking about a close friend that I haven’t really spoken to for almost a year. There was one night during last summer that changed everything between us. She said something out of anger (not to me, directed at someone else) but it was so over the line that it made me question her entire character. It truly shocked me to my core how bad it was.
She texted me randomly last week. After us not speaking for like 8 months. She apologized and she says she is working on herself, getting therapy and all that. I miss her a lot. I don’t make close friends easily. But I just don’t know if I can move on from it. Sometimes I’ll resolve to let the friendship go, until I start thinking about all of the great times we had. Irdk.
I hope by now you and your friend are good friends again . A person cannot give up a good friendship over one incident.,if I had done that with my best friend we would not be friends more then 20 years. She has my back and I have hers . We are ride or dies . Even her husband says he could not wish for a better friend . Did we say things? yes , but we always agreed to disagree and move on . Literally we would say after discussing it « ok that was not cool, but let’s agree to disagree, and move on! You forgive and move past it . One Incident is not worth questioning an entire personality .And what she said was not even directed at you !she is a wonderful person for reaching out and apologizing and it’s also because she misses you . Judging a friend over one incident and not moving past it is saying you want your friend to be absolutely perfect with no flaws . So you would be putting yourself in the category of the friend who cannot accept someone as they are. As long as your friend never made you feel worthless , strip you of confidence and make you second guess who you are, you need to move past it . Also give them a chance to explain why they said what they said to the other person. The answer may surprise you and you may kick yourself for having wasted almost a year of a good friendship.
I truly hope it all worked out well!
I recently met someone who I’m really into…I’ve always had an issue with letting people in my life, especially in an intimate type of way. This video couldn’t have come on my recommendations at a better time.
I feel so lucky that I got blessed and now I can finally relate to all these points and my bf feels the exact same way. Its a really great feeling to feel secure and to know how strong we are together. Its really rare to have. I never thought I would be experiencing this either. I certainly don't take it for granted 🥺💖