10 Signs You've Found The Love Of Your Life

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  • Have you been on the lookout for your “One and Only”? Has your ‘The One’ been a subject of your curiosity for long? It is important to state that there is no right or wrong way of knowing whether you are in love or when you may have found ‘the love of your life’. So how do we truly know when we have found that special person whom we want to be with for the rest of our lives?
    Have you found the one? Here are a few signs: • 10 Signs You've Found ...
    Disclaimer: This is for educational purposes only and does not mean that signs like these mean indefinitely that somebody is or is not the love of your life. These examples were selected as they are supported by research and have been mutually agreed upon in references listed in the description box below.
    Writer: Jade Hamilton
    Script Editor: Rida Batool
    Script Manager: Kelly Soong
    Voice: Amanda Silvera / amandasilvera
    Animator: Tris Canimo
    CZcams Manager: Cindy Cheong
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    Aron, A., Fisher, H., Mashek, D. J., Strong, G., Li, H., & Brown, L. L. (2005). Reward, motivation, and emotion systems associated with early-stage intense romantic love. Journal of neurophysiology, 94(1), 327-337. doi.org/10.1152/jn.00838.2004
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Komentáře • 1,7K

  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  Před 2 lety +525

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  • @EricMcSheriff
    @EricMcSheriff Před 2 lety +2513

    I lost the love of my life two weeks ago to leukemia. She fought hard for 6 months. We had in all 3 and a half years together. Completely deviatited is an understatement. Hold on to those you love and don't take a second for granted.

    • @saria70
      @saria70 Před 2 lety +132

      i am so sorry. hang in there.

    • @iCookieChan1
      @iCookieChan1 Před 2 lety +85

      My condolences and heart goes out to you. May she be in a better place TT

    • @susanmeadows627
      @susanmeadows627 Před 2 lety +58

      I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending deepest sympathy and a prayer. 💔❤️

    • @chanez5567
      @chanez5567 Před rokem +34

      May she rest in peace ae may god heal ur heart! Sending a lot of healing energy towards you

    • @patchworkfarms5327
      @patchworkfarms5327 Před rokem +23

      I know I'm way late, but I'm so sorry for your loss. 😞

  • @nobi1113
    @nobi1113 Před 2 lety +126

    1. Your brain experiences changes.
    2. Your pronouns may change.
    3. Willing to fight for your relationship.
    4. Willingness to compromise in a relationship
    5. They support you.
    6. They share a growth mindset
    7. You're in sync with each other
    8. Goal+values are aligned
    9. You've strong physical chemistry
    10. They understand your love language

  • @maxwelldavis5196
    @maxwelldavis5196 Před rokem +98

    1. Your brain experiences changes
    2. Your pronouns may change (we/us)- not he/him- she/her
    3. You're willing to fight for your relationship
    4.willingness to compromise in the relationship
    5. They support you
    6. They share a growth mindset
    7. You are in sync with each other
    8. Goals and values are aligned
    9. You have a strong physical connection
    10. They understand your love language

  • @Akaashi040
    @Akaashi040 Před 2 lety +123

    1. 0:40 Your brain experiences changes
    2. 1:19 your pronouns may change
    3. 1:51 willing to fight for your relationship
    4. 2:28 willingness to compromise in the relationship
    5. 3:08 they support you
    6. 3:31 they share a „Growth mindset“
    7. 3:56 you are in sync with them
    8. 4:25 goals + values are aligned
    9. 4:54 you habe a strong physical chemistry
    10. 5:17 they understand your love language

  • @nanamikentostie
    @nanamikentostie Před 2 lety +113

    Here’s the signs for those in a hurry

  • @NathalieLazo
    @NathalieLazo Před 2 lety +1334

    The more we work on our own selves, the better we attract, in this case, a better partner and a phenomenal relationship. There’s no such thing as the “right person” (to an extend) we have to become the right person first! You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, future and lives overall! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️

    • @mrj4082
      @mrj4082 Před 2 lety +22

      Everything you said is 100% true. I've been working on myself to smile more at strangers when I'm on koncerts and I've met this girl last week and we flirted a bit and started talking but I wasn't able to ask her name or insta cos my friends found me when I've lost them

    • @karenwearit
      @karenwearit Před 2 lety +6

      YES QUEEN

    • @jasonlazuli2836
      @jasonlazuli2836 Před 2 lety +5

      Exactly!!

    • @NathalieLazo
      @NathalieLazo Před 2 lety +14

      @@mrj4082 Thank you for sharing your experience in smiling to strangers! At least you know now how to stand out from the crowd for pretty girls to notice you! 😁

    • @NathalieLazo
      @NathalieLazo Před 2 lety +6

      @@karenwearit THANK YOU LORELEI! 💜💜

  • @highliving-animatedvideos5831

    *10 signs you’ve found the love of your life*
    0:40 - Your brain experiences changes
    1:19 - Your pronouns may change
    1:50 - Willing to fight for your relationship
    2:27 - Willingness to compromise in the relationship
    3:06 - They support you
    3:31 - They share a growth mindset
    3:55 - You are in sync with each other
    4:24 - Your goals and values are aligned
    4:52 - You have strong physical chemistry
    5:18 - They understand your love language

  • @dipsikhadutta5013
    @dipsikhadutta5013 Před 2 lety +68

    1. Your brain experiences changes 0:42
    2. Your pronouns may change 1:19
    3. Willing to fight for relationship 1:52
    4. Willingness to compromise 2:30
    5. They support you 3:08
    6. They share a growth mindset 3:34
    7. You are sync with each other 4:00
    8. Goals and values are align 4:27
    9. Strong physical chemistry 4:54
    10. They understand your love language 5:19

    • @tonimachowdhury2463
      @tonimachowdhury2463 Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you dear❤️

    • @itzbianca347
      @itzbianca347 Před 2 lety

      Thx

    • @icysnow57cold64
      @icysnow57cold64 Před 7 měsíci

      I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other. I think humans should just ditch concepts like dating, marriage, and pair bonding. I feel like this world would be a much better place without romance than it is with it.
      In my opinion, romantic love should not be on the highest pedestal. In my opinion, parents and siblings' family love is the strongest. Family knows who you are. Romance is fake for lots of people, put on a false persona and romance on most parts gets ugly real fast. For the reality of romance is no Disney love story.
      Parents and siblings' family love is one of the strongest types of love there is. If romantic love is actually real, it would be one of the weakest types of love there is.

  • @athiya5722
    @athiya5722 Před 2 lety +151

    10 signs you 've found the love of your life
    1.0:42 your brain experiences changes
    2.1:21 your pronouns may change
    3.1:51 willing to fight for your relationship
    4.2:28 willingness to compromise in the relationship
    5.3:08 they support you
    6.3:32 they share a growth mindset
    7.3:56 you are in sync with them
    8.4:26 goals + values are aligned
    9.4:55 you have a strong physical chemistry
    10.5:17 they understand your love language

  • @sevtyanaadventure
    @sevtyanaadventure Před 2 lety +42

    What is love? Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more.

  • @hellogents8863
    @hellogents8863 Před 2 lety +78

    TL;DR
    1.) *Your Brain Experiences Changes.*
    2.) *Your Pronouns Change.*
    3.) *Willing To Fight For Your Relationship.*
    4.) *Willingness to Compromise in the Relationship.*
    5.) *They Support You.*
    6.) *They Share a Growth Mindset.*
    7.) *You are in Sync with them.*
    8.) *Goals & Values are aligned.*
    9.) *You have a strong physical chemistry.* (Wink wink.~)
    10.) *They understand your love language.*

  • @unusual2821
    @unusual2821 Před 2 lety +44

    1. Your brain changes
    2. Pronouns may change (us/we instead of me/i)
    3. Willing to fight for the relationship
    4. Willingness to compromise
    5. They support you
    6. Share a growth mindset
    7. You are in sync with them
    8. Goals + values are aligned
    9. Strong physical chemistry
    10. You understand each other’s love language

    • @amyrocks88ss
      @amyrocks88ss Před 2 lety +1

      I was so scared of reading this list and thinking she would match all of them or most of them but really...she doesn't ..so I guess it's good...

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před 2 lety

      Good point!

  • @noonegirl
    @noonegirl Před rokem +55

    1. Your brain experience changes (biochemical reactions)
    2. Your pronouns may change e.g. us and we
    3. Willing to fight for their relationship
    4. They'll show a willingness to compromise in the relationship
    5. They support you
    6. They share a growth mindset
    7. You are in sync with each other
    8. If your goals and values 🎉are aligned
    9. You have strong physical chemistry
    10. The understand your love language.

    • @abrahamleyva4692
      @abrahamleyva4692 Před 11 měsíci +1

      you fotgot the most important steps
      having the level of life your partner is searching to have
      having no matter how rough the contitions are enough money for them

  • @PsychologyRefresh
    @PsychologyRefresh Před 2 lety +23

    One of the biggest signs you've found the love of your life is when you want to share everything with them - the good and the bad!

  • @Ivemovedlmao
    @Ivemovedlmao Před 2 lety +25

    1: Your brain experiences changes (0:41)
    2: your pronouns may change (1:20)
    3: willing to fight for your relationship (1:51)
    4: Willingness to compromise in the relationship (2:28)
    5: They support you (3:07)
    6: They share a “growth mindset” (3:32)
    7: you are in sync with them (3:58)
    8: Goals + values are aligned (4:25)
    9: you have strong physical chemistry (4:54)
    10: they understand your love language (5:19)

  • @nygelpereira6540
    @nygelpereira6540 Před 2 lety +19

    1) 0:40 ur brain experiences changes
    2) 1:18 your pronouns may change
    3) 1:50 willing to fight for the relationship
    4) 2:27 willingness to compromise in the relationship
    5) 3:06 they support u
    6) 3:32 they share a growth mindset
    7) 3:55 u r in sync with eachother
    8) 4:25 goals and values aligned
    9) 4:54 u have a strong physical chemistry
    10) 5:17 they understand ur love language

  • @claudiaromellano23
    @claudiaromellano23 Před 2 lety +29

    Who else is single af but keeps watching these videos and getting their heart broken? 💀

    • @lovepeace9727
      @lovepeace9727 Před 2 lety +1

      I will forever love him. There's no way to forget and get rid of this obsession.
      I fucking hate my brains.

    • @popbat
      @popbat Před 2 lety

      @@lovepeace9727 I have never related to anything more in my life

    • @Ridwan_Ali2
      @Ridwan_Ali2 Před měsícem

      Me single I feel in love but girl just never really wants be with me it's hurts but I cope with it

  • @lafawnbelle4059
    @lafawnbelle4059 Před 2 lety +16

    I've found my one and we've been together for over 10 years and we still love being together like when we first met. We've had rocky moments but we worked through them together and we're stronger for it. We are now working towards taking the relationship to the next level and get married.

  • @sleepyli1573
    @sleepyli1573 Před 2 lety +25

    I find it scary cause i found all of this in my current bf, he really does feel like the one true love of my life but i say scary because now i dont wanna lose him even more 🥺

  • @kitsunesden8085
    @kitsunesden8085 Před 7 měsíci +28

    11. You took your meds and she's still there

  • @vinnzouiyt
    @vinnzouiyt Před rokem +18

    8 months ago I smiled at this because I believed I found the one, they’re not here anymore but I still believe with my entire heart that they’re the one, I’m just not the right person for them…

  • @Kakulukia
    @Kakulukia Před rokem +25

    Whenever I view any of your videos about love, relationships ect. I just get comfirmations about how my girlfriend and I are simply made for each others and I never take a single day for granted with her, and in December we've been together for 3 years.

    • @Tennessee17
      @Tennessee17 Před rokem +2

      same, I wouldn't lose her for anything, not even infinite money.

  • @ButterflyCreationss
    @ButterflyCreationss Před rokem +36

    We’re all watching this with that one person in mind 😂

  • @blasepumpkin764
    @blasepumpkin764 Před 9 měsíci +19

    Well, 9 out of 10 apply. The sexual attraction portion doesn't often apply to me. I've minor interest in it, however, to hold them, kiss them and snuggle them to death are extremely felt intentions. Been like that for nearly 3 years. She's been my rock ever since we met, never been one to judge me or criticize me, but is always there to help me. She was there during my struggle with alcohol addiction, substance abuse being legal or not, encouraged me as well as drove me to seek help and paid full attention to me when I was indeed administered into a psych ward for a week. She's been there in my good and bad times, and in the most recent events, she was there to hold me and dry my tears away after having my father pass away. She's a truly genuine person, and I know in my heart that I'll always be here for her.

  • @shanelljohnson5307
    @shanelljohnson5307 Před 2 lety +8

    I have no business being here but I'm here listening 😅

  • @nathi4377
    @nathi4377 Před rokem +32

    I've known him for almost a month and we already have this thing going. Both of us are not ready for sex and we want something serious. I love how he supports me and is always there for me, just as I am for him. We're literally the same person and we understand eachother, whatever it is we just get eachother and love eachother. I am falling for him more and more every single day, because of how kind, respectful and smart he is. He's a year younger than me but I can learn so much from him. The way he expresses himself, the way he looks at me and the way he tells me he's there for me and hugs me in critical situations. I had trust issues but I learn to trust thanks to him. I was taught that men treat women like an object but he proved me otherwise and I love every little thing about him. I am so thankful to have such a great person in my life and he IS the one. Thank you for reading this hihi

    • @Racegas
      @Racegas Před rokem +7

      This is EXACTLY how I feel about my girlfriend and she read this and said the same. Especially with the men treating women like an object thing.

    • @nathi4377
      @nathi4377 Před rokem +1

      @@Racegas it's really sad but I'm glad I'm not the only one!

    • @MaryMackori
      @MaryMackori Před rokem +1

      You are so lucky to have found a Keeper❤

    • @veragage
      @veragage Před rokem

      I am happy for you, Nathi 🤍🙃👎

  • @Cherryyyy8715
    @Cherryyyy8715 Před 2 lety +9

    Ohh, I'm so happy to have found my one. You guys have really helped me gain more self confidence and self worth.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před 2 lety +2

      Congratulations too! How did you guys meet?

    • @Cherryyyy8715
      @Cherryyyy8715 Před 2 lety

      @@Psych2go We met online, and our connection grew! We called regularly and as often as we can, and we both make sure we're doing okay when we aren't.

    • @Dev.Yadav.
      @Dev.Yadav. Před 2 lety

      Once a time I also have find my girl I tried being honest with her and everything is fine...but suddenly she ran away! When I showed her the bodies in the basement Shaking my Head🙃

    • @Cherryyyy8715
      @Cherryyyy8715 Před 2 lety

      @@Dev.Yadav. Partners who slay together, Stay together. Find yourself a girl who will help put more bodies in your basement.

    • @Dev.Yadav.
      @Dev.Yadav. Před 2 lety +3

      @@Cherryyyy8715 when silence isn't awkward. You can just be silent together, and it's comforting ;)
      And forgot about that bodies iam just kidding... :-)

  • @GothicZeek
    @GothicZeek Před 2 lety +10

    I went through some back break ups in my past. Last October, I got dumped by someone I thought cared about me. But from that, someone I didn't even realize had feelings for me, finally told me. We have been together ever since, taking it slowly, one day at a time. He helps me when my CPTSD, anxiety and depression start getting too high, and I constantly encourage him in everything. We both talk to each other every day, strengthening our bond each time. These are 100% true.

    • @ulomagift504
      @ulomagift504 Před 2 lety

      He helped me over a spiritual warfare,which I've been battling with over years,but thanks to him I'm healed and free

    • @ulomagift504
      @ulomagift504 Před 2 lety

      *w-asap him if you need his help⏬*

  • @accountsofsolon7598
    @accountsofsolon7598 Před 2 lety +12

    1. Brain experiences changes
    2. Pronouns change
    3. Willing to fight for the relationship
    4. Willingness to compromise in relationship
    5. They support you
    6. Share a growth mindset
    7. You're in sync with them
    8. Goals & values aligned
    9. Strong physical chemistry
    10. Understand you love language

  • @tomlinson1710
    @tomlinson1710 Před 15 dny +14

    Guess what? I’m in a relationship now!

  • @Aven_Aye
    @Aven_Aye Před 11 měsíci +25

    Just cried thinking about how much I love her

    • @aakhyasingh6443
      @aakhyasingh6443 Před 11 měsíci +4

      Hope you both are happy and healthy. Keep loving eachother. Never give up on love.

  • @bear2325
    @bear2325 Před 2 lety +16

    *Me watching this because I’m an author and have no relationship experience, not because I’m in a relationship*
    -crying in the corner-

  • @hbudson1248
    @hbudson1248 Před 2 lety +15

    I've been with this girl for a while now, and I'm feeling very sure she's the one for me. We know each other over a very long distance, but we're both very committed to the idea of moving in together once we're through school
    Honestly...? The idea that anyone could care this much about me, be this committed to something so big is- still a bit surreal. Love is crazy, powerful- it makes you see things about yourself you'd never notice or like otherwise.
    Everyone here in the comments, you can all be with someone incredible one day, don't give up! :D

  • @catramarrymepls2480
    @catramarrymepls2480 Před 11 měsíci +15

    Never thought I’d find love, especially not with her. But loving her is the best thing I’ve ever experienced and I wouldn’t trade it for nothing.

  • @artems9251
    @artems9251 Před 2 lety +22

    *closes book*
    "Like that's ever gonna happen."

  • @cebg1
    @cebg1 Před 2 lety +20

    I never was an expressive or emotional person, but when I started dating my now boyfriend, I became a very emotional person, I now easily cry and feel for others, especially happy emotions.

    • @emmay1122
      @emmay1122 Před 2 lety +3

      Me too! I used to not really show much emotion, I could talk about them qhen someone asks me for help about their issuses etc but never my own, But I'm in a near 2 year relationship and I'm a real soppy romantic n can show a lot of emotion just had to find the right person to express it to now , glad you have it too

  • @oscarmeza113
    @oscarmeza113 Před rokem +18

    I've experienced all of them x10. I'm madly in love with her. I feel so lucky to experience such an intense love. We are 1.5 years in, and I'm still falling deeper with time. I hope to one day call her my wife. Nothing would make me happier than to know we would spend the rest of our lives together.

  • @nightbrite2595
    @nightbrite2595 Před 8 měsíci +54

    I found him and we’ve been together over 4 years.
    Since meeting we’ve traveled, had many kisses and hugs, a ton of fun dates, and now I live with him (was and am willing to fight for our love against my family)
    We’re getting married in July❣️

    • @uni_voices
      @uni_voices Před 8 měsíci +1

      congrats!!!!! hope you live happily ever after^^ i hope i find mine too

    • @alyssag8146
      @alyssag8146 Před 7 měsíci

      Congratulations!!

  • @katzsan4614
    @katzsan4614 Před 2 lety +3

    The Ross and Rachel reference>>>>>

  • @wontgiveuponyou
    @wontgiveuponyou Před 16 dny +8

    Sign 11: You just know that they are the one💚🩷

  • @habunai
    @habunai Před 2 lety +8

    Such a huge difference to be in a relationship with "the one" after 4.5 years of being stuck in a toxic one. Didn't even think it would ever happen again but the better person I became, the better partner I attracted.

  • @curlyqv2467
    @curlyqv2467 Před 2 lety +26

    Why am I watching this? I’m single

    • @mol6094
      @mol6094 Před 2 lety +2

      Same

    • @irmaiz133
      @irmaiz133 Před 2 lety

      Same 😂😢🥺😉

    • @josegarza223
      @josegarza223 Před 2 lety

      To understand maybe if your ready

    • @puppycorn_editz7049
      @puppycorn_editz7049 Před 12 dny

      It’s because you probably crave a relationship that’s why.

    • @curlyqv2467
      @curlyqv2467 Před 12 dny

      @@puppycorn_editz7049 That was two years ago damn lmao. Same situation but still, damn

  • @mochii6785
    @mochii6785 Před 2 lety +63

    𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙚!!
    1. your brain experiences changes || 0:40
    2. your pronouns may change || 1:21
    3. willing to fight for your relationship || 1:51
    4. willing to compromise in the relationship || 2:31
    5. they support you || 3:07
    6. they share a growth mindset || 3:32
    7. you are in sync with them || 3:56
    8. goals + values are aligned || 4:24
    9. you have a strong physical chemistry || 4:54
    10. they understand your love language || 5:19
    (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*:・゚✧𝘩𝘰𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥𝘴 "𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘰𝘯𝘦" 𝘴𝘰𝘰𝘯~

  • @napoleonbonaparte5972
    @napoleonbonaparte5972 Před 2 lety +7

    Me who's most likely going to remain single my whole life - WHY MUST YOU HURT ME IN THIS WAY

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před 2 lety +2

      Your mindset will help! Repeat after me "I AM ALREADY IN A MEANINGFUL AND LOVING RELATIONSHIP" at least 1 time in the morning and one time at night.

  • @raven_chan3714
    @raven_chan3714 Před 2 lety +10

    Who else is watching this as a single Pringle?

  • @MaskedViolinist07
    @MaskedViolinist07 Před rokem +13

    There is nothing more painful than finding the love of your life and not ending up with them. 💔

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. Před 2 lety +6

    At this point I love the animations as much as I love the information and the soothing sound of her voice 🧡. Love your commitment to spreading awareness for common mental health issues and relationships ☺️

  • @Lauraabreu1528
    @Lauraabreu1528 Před rokem +14

    When even strangers can feel y’all love and connection, you’ve found the one ❤

  • @nayonikadhagat
    @nayonikadhagat Před 2 lety +14

    Here are the 10 signs! I hope this helps :)
    1) Your brain experiences changes-0:42
    2) Your pronouns may change-1:19
    3) Willing to fight for your relationship-1:50
    4) Willingness to compromise in the relationship-2:28
    5) They support you-3:06
    6) They share a “growth mindset”-3:32
    7) You are in sync with each other-3:55
    8) Goals and values are aligned-4:26
    9) You have a strong physical chemistry-4:53
    10) They understand your love language-5:17
    Stay hydrated, and have a great day ahead! You matter! ^_^

  • @rh9377
    @rh9377 Před 5 měsíci +18

    I don't know if he "is the one", but with him I feel safe, I feel heard, I feel like I can be myself fully, and I am. And he told me he feels the say with me, he says I have everything that he has ever looking for in a person, but he is engaged with someone else.
    Still, he doesn't take a firm decision, and I don't want to be the "other" woman...
    I don't know anymore

    • @samuelsommar8393
      @samuelsommar8393 Před 5 měsíci +6

      Damn, that must be so hard to deal with... I think I would ask him to choose, and if he really wants you - the same way you want him, he will choose you. Best of luck!

    • @J-02634
      @J-02634 Před 5 měsíci +5

      Girl you need to walk away and Ik it would be hard but at this point what comes around goes around and if he’s with someone else and did this to you that means you might be in his fiancée’s position next and if he’s willing to leave her for you or something it’s only a matter of time be history repeats it’s self sooner or later

  • @Joanna-tx1ss
    @Joanna-tx1ss Před 2 lety +4

    I‘m in a LDR rn and this video really encouraged me to keep on fighting! It‘s really hard to be in a LDR but I‘ve realized that he might be “The One” so I’m feeling a bit better now🥺

  • @jillbee_101
    @jillbee_101 Před 2 lety +6

    who watches the video just to see if you can be the love of your life with your crush? 💕

  • @DarkEmoNinja
    @DarkEmoNinja Před 5 měsíci +14

    I will always believe she is “the one” for me. She’s made me a better person and she’s shown me that there’s so much more to life than I thought. We are currently on a break due to adult life being difficult and we need to learn how to be individuals now…I’m still hoping for us to find each other again soon.

    • @Nicknero
      @Nicknero Před 4 měsíci +1

      Same dude, same. I've been together with my ex for a year and we are a perfect match in every way possible. We understand each other, compromise for each other, and support each other in every way. But she had to make the difficult decision to break up with me because she couldn't love me anymore and it didn't feel genuine. We remain in good contact (including intimacy) and I hope that some day when her emotional/mental state improves, she can find some love for me again. I truly believe that she is the one for me, and I will always fight for it.

    • @The_PaleRider
      @The_PaleRider Před 3 měsíci +1

      ​@@Nicknerosorry to tell you but u need to move on bro, she ain't worth ur time anymore

  • @alexandredias2010
    @alexandredias2010 Před 2 lety +8

    You may find the love of your life, but he/she may not see you as the love of his/her life

  • @SeaWitchUSN
    @SeaWitchUSN Před rokem +18

    I’ve said for years the most seductive words are “we/us/our”. 😔

  • @Technocratic_Crow
    @Technocratic_Crow Před 2 lety +11

    Me who's actually 18 and still single: Hahahaha.. *Cries in the corner*

  • @AngelsOfTheSea13
    @AngelsOfTheSea13 Před rokem +12

    Over 13 years of love and still going strong🎉🎉🎉 💪❤

  • @toxicrune8857
    @toxicrune8857 Před 2 lety +5

    That feeling when everybody else has a good partner but you messed up you're only good relationship 😅

  • @myahahaaa
    @myahahaaa Před 11 měsíci +19

    watching this while I'm single 🧍‍♀

  • @Hacke_123
    @Hacke_123 Před měsícem +10

    Damn
    She really is my one and only
    We're almost two months now and still going

  • @_c0rnholio_
    @_c0rnholio_ Před měsícem +17

    My boyfriend told me he’s not the ‘clingy cuddly type’ but always says with me he can’t help but snuggle upto me in bed and fall asleep watching tv with me. We both drift off and take a nap then wake up like wtf happened 😂
    I love that I make him feel that comfortable that he enjoyed essentially being out of his comfort zone with it still feeling so natural to him. We’ve only been a couple three months but we both just seem to be so in love with eachother, a feeling like never before kinda love

  • @graceparmeley8257
    @graceparmeley8257 Před 2 lety +13

    Nobody:
    Me after I watched this: yeah that boy at the grocery store is definitely my love life

  • @squeakssqueakers4905
    @squeakssqueakers4905 Před 2 lety +16

    I would just like to point out that while this video will not apply to every situation (trends exist for a reason but there are always outliers) it is fairly accurate.
    As an asexual who has poured my affection into my friends as opposed to a significant other, a lot of these apply to my closest platonic relationships. On the opposite side of the spectrum, a good number of these did not apply to my relationship to my current ex. So all in all, definitely a quality video Psych2Go team!

    • @Cherrycreamsoda1
      @Cherrycreamsoda1 Před 2 lety +1

      Agree with this... many of my romantic connections have been disappointing but my platonic relationships have so much love poured into them from both sides and it's amazing :)

  • @husky0098
    @husky0098 Před rokem +10

    I always become giddy and unfocused when around her. I regularly doubt whether I might be obsessed and need to stop but this video gave me confidence that it’s just my anxiety lying to me again, and I do, in fact, love this girl. Thanks!

  • @sFlapperGirl
    @sFlapperGirl Před 2 lety +5

    Already found my one 🥰 he told me that I was the love of his life

  • @ceciestunpseudooriginal9837

    There is never the one, there is the one you choose

    • @leonore3349
      @leonore3349 Před rokem

      You might also choose multiple ones consecutively. Most people do.

  • @cutepotato4670
    @cutepotato4670 Před 2 lety +14

    lol not me watching this tho I've never been in a relationship in my life

  • @zoey1890
    @zoey1890 Před 5 měsíci +8

    We've only been together for like 4 months but he understands my love language so well.

  • @nadadealer4435
    @nadadealer4435 Před 2 lety +21

    1. your brain experiences changes 2. your pronouns may change 3. willing to fight for your relationship 4. willing to compromise in the relationship 5. they support you 6. they share a growth mindset 7. you’re in sync with each other 8. your goals and values are aligned 9. you have strong psychical chemistry 10. they understand your love language

  • @Leo-cv8gi
    @Leo-cv8gi Před 2 lety +2

    U can Mess up having a crush with love have a crush on someone its for a period of time but love is eternal if u lose your love to someone that wasn't love it's just not

  • @kelleysussman8114
    @kelleysussman8114 Před 2 lety +10

    I was very lucky I was with the " LOVE OF MY LIFE" for 35 yrs, sadly I lost him to cancer in 2020

    • @bluefantasyz8980
      @bluefantasyz8980 Před 2 lety +3

      im so sorry for your loss ❤️

    • @elodieu8094
      @elodieu8094 Před 2 lety +3

      I am so sorry for your loss, I can't even begin to imagine the pain that it must cause. You are so brave.

    • @justalpha9138
      @justalpha9138 Před 2 lety +1

      WHEW that is rough. At least you did have those amazing experiences

  • @lizillusion2318
    @lizillusion2318 Před rokem +9

    So many of these I can check off for me and my boyfriend. The only few that aren’t are simply because we haven’t had the opportunity to make said compromises or interactions. (We’ve been together for 3 and a half months).
    Our determination and dreams for the future of our relationship is so strong, and we just adore spending time with each other (and vice versa will miss each other pretty quickly too).
    I used to be on the fence about marriage and also terrified of having biological kids, but now, I WANT both so much if I can have it with my current partner.

  • @pavithrabalasubramanian7344
    @pavithrabalasubramanian7344 Před 8 měsíci +12

    When you have not yet found the love of your life and you know in your heart that you won't find true love in your life but still your hopeless romantic self urges you to watch -

  • @Lauraabreu1528
    @Lauraabreu1528 Před rokem +12

    I love this video! I experience every single one of these with my hubby 😍 and its so mutual that even strangers feel the strong love

  • @foreignlovedreams
    @foreignlovedreams Před 2 lety +11

    Knowing you are in the right relationship changes everything. You no longer feel that you have to go over and above to win your partner’s affections - you still put in the work to make them feel loved and valued and appreciated but you don’t have to prove it. You fall into a space where you are comfortable with one another and each other’s quirks. Finding a partner that follows through on their words is an unmistakable sign that you are in the right relationship.
    At the end of the day, when the right relationship finally comes along, you will just know, and you will finally realize what you don’t want in a relationship.

  • @hestikleynhans4926
    @hestikleynhans4926 Před 2 lety +21

    As someone with depression, BPD, aspergers, anxiety and ADHD, my “the one” is someone who I can stand to be with for longer than 20 minutes at a time. Finding someone like that, must mean they are a keeper

  • @Ssn5881
    @Ssn5881 Před rokem +22

    I'm here after a break up

  • @Moreofashli
    @Moreofashli Před 2 lety +13

    That’s so scary me and my boyfriend literally have all these signs and yeah we’ve had our fair share of arguments and almost breakups (never ended in a breakup🤦🏾‍♀️😂) but we’re never afraid to fight for each other and speak on how much we adore one another which turns into a successful conversation on how we’re going to take the steps to solve our problems that we have within the relationship. Actions always speak louder than words and as much as you can have successful conversations they should not have to constantly be repeated, because one or both parties aren’t willing to change and take those steps! PSA: There are four keys in a relationship communication, COMPREHENSION, patience, and loyalty.
    Live life to the fullest, laugh and spend time with family and friends, and work hard to accomplish your goals. I promise the right person will come when you’re in tune with yourself. Blessings, love, and life to everyone!

    • @veragage
      @veragage Před rokem

      Good one! 😭🥺🤍

  • @booperdooper9762
    @booperdooper9762 Před rokem +6

    Eerily perfect timing as always

  • @sViviftie
    @sViviftie Před rokem +9

    Actually, this video makes me feel like now I know why the person I believed to be 'the one' for all those years turned out not to be

  • @cass1331
    @cass1331 Před 2 lety +3

    Its hard to see this when I'm with someone long term who doesnt act these ways. But I always come back to him cuz I love him, I just wish he wanted to make me happy instead of just feeling like he has to to keep me around

  • @bugkohl3292
    @bugkohl3292 Před rokem +4

    Everyone of these reminded me of her , this helped me a lot I had no doubts in my mind at all that she was the one.

  • @AuGrrr
    @AuGrrr Před 7 měsíci +20

    The person I'm talking to right now is almost the exact same as me with very similar taste, personality traits, mental states and anything you can think of but we differ very slightly and our main difference is being born in different places and living different but similar lives. Also any difference we have or opinion we have that is different is met with a shrug and we don't really care about what we are different in and just care for eachother. Also we both speak like every love language so it's fun.

  • @Cherrycreamsoda1
    @Cherrycreamsoda1 Před 2 lety +12

    I have faith that I will find "the one", but I am in no rush. I am very happy with my life right now; in fact I don't think I'm even ready for a relationship. But I know when the time is right there will be a person that I'm meant to be with. Heck, they could even be in my life right now but we're just not ready to be together!

  • @katrina561
    @katrina561 Před rokem +17

    I found the one i truly loved but i lost him. May he Rest in peace😢

    • @helenefrench4275
      @helenefrench4275 Před rokem

      So sorry Katrina. I sincerely hope he is in peace and watching over you wherever he is. Take care of yourself 🎉

    • @Nola5427
      @Nola5427 Před rokem

      I' m so sorry 😪💔

  • @VasilisaLois
    @VasilisaLois Před rokem +15

    I was thinking about breaking up with my bf because our relationship is starting to be one-sided and I’m the one keeping it alive, we’ve been dating for just a few days about almost a week, ever since we’ve been dating he has changed and wasn’t as happy or chaotic as he was back then, it’s probably a good time for me to let go of him before I get hurt even more... Sadly, nothing in this video was related to our relationship. I hope I find someone better in the future and you guys as well☺️

    • @turquoisephoenix6548
      @turquoisephoenix6548 Před rokem +1

      I know how that feels, good luck to your future relationships.

    • @SoundsSilver
      @SoundsSilver Před rokem

      Boyfriend for a few days? huh?

    • @lizillusion2318
      @lizillusion2318 Před rokem +2

      Sounds like for him the only fun was in the chase if his behavior changed that quickly. I’m so sorry that didn’t work out for you, and I wish you luck in your future relationships.❤

    • @VasilisaLois
      @VasilisaLois Před rokem +1

      aww thank you guys, good luck with your relationships too

    • @loriadam1752
      @loriadam1752 Před 9 měsíci

      lettuce spray

  • @ladyfl0wers
    @ladyfl0wers Před 9 měsíci +15

    Aren't those just normal strategies for a working relationship...i mean every relationship and not just "the one" ?!

  • @Legionnaire_625
    @Legionnaire_625 Před rokem +24

    Yeah. I definitely found her...... but then I screwed up and lost her

    • @RouillierDisguised
      @RouillierDisguised Před rokem

      It’s ok many many people to love

    • @Memer_Boiii
      @Memer_Boiii Před rokem +3

      Try to get her back budddy, true love is not easy to find, but don't get desperate as nothing in this world is more important that you and ur self respect (u should know to differentiate between self respect and ego)

    • @sViviftie
      @sViviftie Před rokem +1

      Feel you. Same thing. You never really recover from that kind of heartbreak...

  • @jjk1894
    @jjk1894 Před 5 měsíci +4

    This video is so true. I have yet to check his love language. Thanks for this video

  • @janaworld25
    @janaworld25 Před 2 lety +4

    Being alone tells a lot of answers 💔

  • @CenteredCircles
    @CenteredCircles Před 9 měsíci +7

    112. Your videos has helped me alot. Thank you.🙏🏻

  • @silentpoem
    @silentpoem Před 8 měsíci +12

    YES! I found him finally!! After lots of trial and error!

  • @eglelt219
    @eglelt219 Před 2 lety +3

    I am IN LOVE with these animations!!!😀🧡💜🤍

  • @williamfrieden1
    @williamfrieden1 Před rokem +4

    Great video, good tips as always!

  • @dianaaddison1
    @dianaaddison1 Před 4 měsíci +6

    I love himmm so much, we been dating nearly a year and trust me the best I ever come across… never met such men in my life … he genuine and very serious about our relationship….. love you babe , lucky to have YOU..

  • @RhodesAP
    @RhodesAP Před měsícem +8

    Eh. This video pretty much confirms that my crush does not like me back, though she used to.

  • @inyouall
    @inyouall Před 2 lety +5

    *A TIP* : To fully enjoy a relationship, you must first get to know yourself.
    Respect from a small CZcamsr❤

    • @ulomagift504
      @ulomagift504 Před 2 lety

      *Hello,you can get help from,Dr Odiboh where there seems to be no help*

    • @ulomagift504
      @ulomagift504 Před 2 lety

      *w-asap him if you need his help⏬*

  • @Rinajustdoingherhobbies
    @Rinajustdoingherhobbies Před 2 lety +3

    The drawings for this one is super cuuute!! 😍

  • @noaeyal
    @noaeyal Před 2 lety +9

    I honestly believe i found the one.
    Once you get to experience and express true and pure real love,
    you understand every bad / fake / lack of desire and friendship relationship you had was just a harsh lesson you had to go through to be stronger, mature and appreciate the good love the most. I finally could see rainbows after years of only dark clouds above my head and it means everything.
    Tell your true love every single day how lucky both of you are! Remind them it's not something you can just replace and easily find another.
    It's magic, it's a miracle, no matter how hard love can be as well!
    My bad life experiences with love led me to him exactly when i truly believed no one will ever love me like that. When you find it, never let it go! Love is everything.

    • @ravenstillwaters5195
      @ravenstillwaters5195 Před 2 lety +2

      Ty for writing this beautifully put information. It gave me hope in this dark nite of the soul experience. 💝

    • @noaeyal
      @noaeyal Před 2 lety

      @@ravenstillwaters5195 sorry for the delayed reply! You're very welcome!! There's lots of love .. even in the darkest places