6 Green Flags on Dating You Should Know
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- čas přidán 28. 05. 2024
- The truth is, a lot of us have experienced the big ‘no-nos’ of dating, like the little clues that key us into whether or not this person sitting across the dinner table from us is a keeper or not. However, we pay attention to the red flags so much, that we may miss out on the green flags - the good things about the person sitting in front of you. Is the person you're dating really the one for you? Let's take a look at some of the green flags on dating!
If you want to learn more about your relationship, we've also made a video on the red flags on dating you should look out for • 7 Red Flags In Dating ...
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If you both can be silent around each other and still feel good and not bothered, that is a huge green flag my friend.
Real shit here. It means that neither you or her have to demonstrate nothing more to prove your value as a partner. There's just one thing left to do: enjoy your time together.
I feel like you just inadvertently quoted Pulp Fiction
@@lifeaccordingtorizo Why do you think so?
Y E S !
Eh... I thought the same when I was with my ex. I've never been a guy that talks a lot, in fact I have very little to say... she on the other hand was (and still is obviously) a logorroic type of person, which is fine for me since I like listening to people talking. At the time we both thought it was great to be like this because I would've basically filled her desire to talk about things by listening to her. Spoiler: at the end she realized it wasn't exactly like that on her mind... she basically NEEDS to talk all the time, even for hours about little things just to not think (even for a second) how she feels bad with herself or other bad things that usually happen with her family... yeah basically she realized that we were incompatible... I don't want to get too much into detail but we broke up peacefully because we weren't talking anymore like the old times.. literally there wasn't much to say most of the time, I was still deeply in love with her but she wasn't anymore... so we had to broke up the relationship...
Don't get me wrong, we are still friends and all kind of things. We talk, play, watch tv series, films... the fact is that after a year and a half happened a few things (VEEEERY BAD THINGS) with our group of friends and we started to talk more after a very long time... and yeah, I fell in love again, but she didn't.. for well, obvious reasons. So here I am.. with my heart DEEPLY broken, so broken that I am now depressed eheh... these things always hurted me so much, damn. And to be honest she's even worried about me, since we are veeery close to each other... God I love her so much, I wonder.. I hope that in the distant future we will be together again... I hope...
"They aren't distracted by their phone."
Long distance relationships: I'll pretend i didn't see that.
@@saintmarybulicek567 no, do not ever give that man another chance. He’s been going behind the back of the woman who birthed his children. Im so sorry you’re going through this, but you’re so much better off without him. The fact that he even felt the need to look for someone new to flirt around with should tell you that HE is the one that turned his back on you. You’re not the one who turned your back at him, you’ll never be the one who let him down even in the process of filing for divorce. He made his bed, now he can lay in it. On his own.
I wish you and your children so much love, strength and happiness ❤️
@@saintmarybulicek567 That's horrible. I'd file for divorce or confront him first to find out why he's doing it.
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I don't know if this is a green flag, but most of my lasting relationships where those where I found myself being dorky around them and not feeling like I needed to hide that side of me from them.
^ YES THIS I was a total dork in front of my now-bf because I honestly never thought we'd date and so I didn't care what he thought, lo and behold he fell in love with my true self and tomorrow's our 8 month anniversary of dating 🥰🥰
Haha "most of my lasting relationships" is a logical contradiction.
@@onlinechaosgremlin I thought the same, but there is a possibility he/she refers to friends in general.
I feel like this is common sense, how could a relationship possibly last if you have to disguise yourself to maintain it? Are you going to lie for the rest of your life?
@@onlinechaosgremlin - Man, even the response to you about referring to friendships is missing something lmfao. Y'all, there are tonnes of people in non-mongamous relationships who this applies to just as much lmfao.
Natural flow of conversation is a huge green flag for me. I spent too much of my time with guys who would reply with one word or K and it felt like I was pulling teeth to get the conversation going.
I hate that! Also have way too much experience with guys just answering as lazily as possible ¨How was your day? or ¨How are you feeling?¨ answered with a plain ¨Good¨ while someone else might actually give a more nuanced answer that lead to a conversation
Yeah but then you get tinder matches like me who write an entire essay just to say hello lol
@@DenDarEmi You can't blame someone not to be interested in you, sometimes I get lazy answers too but that's it
some guys respond better through a video or voice call. i dont put a lot of effort into texts and dms because there is a very small window between too much and too little texting for women and it depends on superfluous shit like how attractive i am to them.
@@bonsoircestmoi.348 Sometimes they are uninterested sure
I've been in this situation with some ladies where I was catrying the whole conversation. All I would get for an answer was "ahah" "lol" and stuff like that. At some point I would stop answering, since I didn't know how to continue the dialogue.
They messaged me again to ask me "Why aren't you answering ? I miss our talk... Bah blah blah"
Some people are interested, but they can't hold a conversation maybe by fear of being ridiculous or saying a stupid thing. I don't know
“or, they’re secretly a spy”
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1. Talk for hours
2. Actively listen to you
3. Kind to waiter
4. Feel natural around them
5. Not distracted by phone
6. Find yourself smiling
thanks!
Thank you :)
Thanks
Sounds like the last girl I dated which led to nowhere 🤔
@MarianTheBeat Yeah I think I'll call the dating customer service and open a ticket 😂
Yeah…
I met someone with all those green flags, it felt like we were meant to be, everything seemed so easy and we just clicked as friends, lovers and partners….
Until I found out he was married and wasn’t planning on getting a divorce. Yup.
Dang I'm so sorry to hear that :(((
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Had us in the first half
Haha sike
Im sorry to hear that. Try to stay strong, you'll find someone better someday
One more thing that may be a good green flag is if they complement you out of nowhere. This should apply to all dates not just first. My boyfriend get me a complement when I needed and sometimes out of nowhere. I think this a good thing for both people should do in a relationship. It just shows the other person much you care for them and why you like/love them.
Yep. If you give and don’t get, walk away immediately
It depends. If it's a sincere one I'm in. But many guys tend to say cheesy stuff like 'hey pretty lady' when they don't even know you and I hate it
Compliment*. To complement someone means to complete them (i.e. "complementary"). I wouldn't have corrected your spelling if it didn't confuse me for a good minute lol.
@@nomoretwitterhandles Hi. I didn’t know it spelt wrong. I have dyslexia. I’m leaving it as is. It most for those who want to post but are scared; if their scared to be corrected for the bad grammar or scared of there’s spelling. I want other to share and speaker Knowing there’s others that make mistakes out there too. Thank you for letting me know it’s spelt incorrectly. Next time I will do better. Best wishes.
@@bellablue5025 No worries. I just wanted to let you know so you can know for next time! Education matters a lot, and I fully believe that education should be way more thorough. It's not your fault if you didn't know how to spell something, and especially not if you have dyslexia. That's why I also explained the difference and gave a relative word! It makes it so much easier that way imo.
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Me: Thank you
Me apologizing whenever the waiter makes a mistake- or overusing “it’s okay!!”
@@teatime7720 It does 😊 thank ypu for doing that
lmao SAAAAME
lol sameeeee
@@Zoe-cv1jo Hello Zoe ... to which reply are you replying to ? Be careful when you reply to a reply ... could get caught in a wormhole !
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LOL i love how she says, "if they actively listen to you then that's a green flag, OR THEY MAY BE A SPY!." XD
Are...you a spy? 😳
@@SupahSmashBrotha96 uhh-
*frantically throws milk and jars of piss at my dates just to be sure*
@@dcmonnie what kinda of milk u talking bout buddy???????????????
@@breadinabox1449 it’s a TF2 joke
I'm 100% sure I've found The One.
The things he did differently from all my exes during the "not yet dating but starting to get really interested"-phase included him being concerned how his actions affected me and not hesitating to show affection in public. Also being extremely transparent with me about EVERYTHING. All green flags in my book.
I'm in the same boat. He's lovely and all of my close friends refer to him as "a walking green flag" after some of the sweet and adorably well matched things hes done. He's an amazing match for me and watching videos like this help him understand what he's doing right and WHY it matters. Still, he'd do them either way. it's just who he is.
So happy for you both stay blessed
I feel like two of the main green flags that you should seek for is that they support you, and that they help you when you need them. My boyfriend has gone above and beyond for me, from things like buying my favorite drink and taking it to my house when I was upset (he loves like 30 minutes away) or that time when my bird got hurt, and he was willing to drive for almost two hours for me to get a vet that could see her
That guy is bending over to RIDICULOUS levels to the point most guys might think he's being used and you're going to financially abuse him later. DON'T screw him around because you've got an unbelievably good one.
@@OffGridInvestor I would never!! We have been together for 6 years, and hopefully will stay strong for a very very long time Xd
"Does it feel like everyone who asks you out has red flags?" You guys are being asked out?
yeah bold of them to assume that people are actually interested in me 🤣
I was about to say that lol. Must be nice lol.
TRUE
Bruh, my cousin had THREE boyfriends in the 1st grade
Bruh like I-
The moment I knew this vid wasn’t for me 😂
A green flag i noticed is that they don’t make you feel all excited and give you butterflies in your stomach like crushes do
They make you feel warm and peaceful and whenever you’re with them it feels like home
Yeah it's really nice when you feel all excited and are usually blushing like that in the first 4 or 5 months when the relationship is just blossoming, and then it's even nicer when you get to know each other a lot and you feel like you'll always have them to rely on, at that point they feel like ' home '. One of the best feelings someone can feel is that ^^
@@user-by1xj9uz3e Is it bad it didnt even take us 4 or 5 months to feel like home to each other?
@@lonesomeraineful of course not! That's a great thing, it just means you trust your partner a lot and that you two have genuinely put in great work for the relationship, but I feel like when you've been dating for a while, it really enhances the trust levels even more and you two know it'll last ( if it's a healthy relationship) 💗🏳🌈
It's been 2 years and I still feel like I fall for him over and over again
Feels like home 🥰
Number 5 is a bit of a funny case for me. My sweetheart suffers from ADHD and often multitasks and tinkers around. But she made sure to clarify that first thing when we started dating.
So if we're having a lazy moment or a casual talk, she'll often drift off and lose herself in her games or videos, and I know it's not out of malice.
Curiously enough, if we're hooked on a subject, we can talk for hours and retain that feel-good engagement. All in all, communication is always the key!
I'm AuDHD and my partner is ADHD and we'll just both play games while talking (parallell play anyone?) and it ends up leading to some really in depth conversations since there's no expectations between us regarding eye contact and visible engagement. He'll tell me if he's bored or distracted and vice versa, and that communication is what matters
Oh yes, I suspect I have ADHD and I feel the same way. Sometimes it's even easier for me to focus on a conversation if I'm doing something (not intellectually demanding) on the side. My family has always ruled it off as me being rude, not paying attention, not listening and not respecting those I listen to and that always felt unfair to me.
On the other hand, if I'm really engaged in the conversation, I often lose track of everything else around me.
Hmm. Seems like my family has trouble leading engaging (for me) conversations, now that I think about it.
These green flags are great because of how well these all tie into long lasting relationships, and they all help to communicate on the long journey of a marriage
Me being the most single person ever: interesting...
I can relate, it sucks being single, but it’s better than being with someone who doesn’t love you.
same omg
Same
I so agree with you, your not alone..
Same hahahah
IS THAT A TOKYO GHOUL REFERENCE AT THE BEGINNING?
yes I think lol
maybe? :D
RUN IF SHE IS A GHOUL
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THAT"S WHAT I WAS THINKING TOO
as someone who is in a long term relationship right now, this is definitely accurate! even after nearly 5 years they still make me laugh and smile all the time, and we never run out of things to talk about. never settle for less, you deserve someone who will listen and really respects and cares for you!!
May I ask you a question?
So you still love your partner as it was on beginning? Or feelings changed, transformed into something different?
Preach
Yes, but remember you need to be that for them as well. To find the right person you need to be the right person.
My crush has all the greenflags,she's so kind to everyone and she listens,she's caring, everything!
all manipulative sociopaths: *makes notes*
The first green flag difference between a narc or sociopath and a real green flag is if they just mirror all of your likes and opinions vs having a healthy mix of agreement, indeference, and disagreement.
@@PR0XIDIAN taking notes intensifies
@@PR0XIDIAN thiiiisssss
@@michaelsmusic3532 blow it out ur ass buddy
@@than9025 You have some serious issues dude, seek professional help would be my opinion
As someone who feels this way towards my best friend, I feel like these are green flags for any relationship, not only romantic ones.
Exactly! These are just examples of being a decent human being. This is NOT what should define a life partner.
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Was just gonna make this comment. This is how I am w/ my friends. They love it - I love it.
Exactly! :)
Agree! I always think about my twinsister while listening to the narrator.
We need more videos about green flags cuz people really be searching for the red ones only
yeah and the media is filled with he doesn’t like me back or he likes someone else, i wish i can see some more of these videos on social media:)
"Does it feel like everyone who asks you out has red flags?"
You're funny, thinking people ask me out.
2:44 Whoever animated this part deserves all the chicken wings they want.
Lol I don’t like chicken wings that much. But ur right I love this animation!
Chicken wing chicken wing hot dog and ballony chillin with my homies
No I want
@@iknowobamaslastname2674 no me
When they don't care about their cell phones when they are with me, that means everything...
When they exist, it means everything to me.
Agreed
Yes. If you mean that you can keep your phone out without any nervousness. But if you say “let me go through your phone” I’m out even if I didn’t really do anything. In my head that seems controlling. Now... if I hand you my phone without you asking when I want to show you something that’s fine. Different strokes for different folks.
Have you met someone like that yet?
Wish my wife would when we’re home.
I’m in a long distance relationship. We met when we were 14-15 yrs old. Something clicked and we were best friends since. We started dating in December. Best decision I’ve ever made. He’s my twin flame, we can look at eachother and just know what we’re thinking or feeling. We have a lot to learn about eachother but we can sit in silence and still be comfortable and happy. We smile and joke around with one another, so much we complain our faces hurt. We send super long lovey dovey and reassuring paragraphs to eachother. We always make sure the other is safe and eats/drinks water. We communicate and love everything about eachother.
I’ve finally found the one after all these years of dating the worst people.. 😭❤️
Ayeeee, i love how you made a video on something positive about dating. I feel like I havent seen a positive thing about dating in so long, everything is about people being unfaithful and red flags that it's getting discouraging. This was refreshing to watch, thanks.
A refreshing way to approach the “dating world”......so tired of hearing about all of the 🚩
amen!
No one's perfect you take the good with the bad unless those red flags are a bit too much
Couldn't have said it better myself ☺️ 🥰🥰🥰this comment and video - just mmm mmm mmm🤗🤗🤗
I swear I thought the same when it popped up.
YESSS
Green flag: when have a big disagreement, if they keep a good faith argument with you and can respect your thoughts without agreeing with them, they're a keeper.
@@michaelsmusic3532 mate can you please stop spamming those comments? It's annoying
Me and my best friend have done that before, and we're still close even though I had to transfer schools
@@bunheadsan1930 Ok, sorry if I upset you
Red flag: When you have a disagreement, they fail to realize that people can have different opinions and thinks you are personally attacking them
@@garrettlauderbaugh312 definitely. I was in a relationship like that and, soon after I ended it, I looked back and couldn’t believe I had actually put up with that level of immaturity.
Step 1: get a date
Yeah, I need a whole guide on that alone
Something I love about my current relationship is that if we have an assumption in our head, we seek clarity first before acting on that assumption. Even if we're like SUPER convinced of one idea, we've not once exploded on the other until we talked first. Hence.. we haven't argued once in our 10 months of dating, super proud of it B)
not distracted by phone, be kind to waitress, and actively listen are basic human decency i think
Tip your fedora to any ladies you see too.
Honestly it should be but in this day and age, more often than not people don’t care about strangers
Exactly
umm no? i don't feel obliged to give my time to any random stranger who asks for it
True that. But now how do you know if they doing it coz it's the right thing to do or if they doing it coz they trying to impress you? 🤔
Am I dating : No
Will I watch the video? : Yes
Same
Same lol
Same
I feel called out
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These types of videos give me hope. Thx for that
This is definitely one of you guys' best videos. The animation especially was really nice.
When my husband first met my cat, she bit him (she has never bitten anyone before.) He forgave her, and was patient getting to know her. He never held a grudge or said anything bad about the incident. When I saw how forgiving he was, and how he respected her space, I knew he would do the same for me. And I was right. When I’m in a bad mood, he doesn’t hold it against me or thing that I’m mean, he respects that I have bad days and supports me. And I do the same for him.
I kind of have a similar experience with one of my families older cats, his name is ironically cuddles and while me and him are not cuddly in the slightest we have grown a mutual respect over the past couple of years. he understands when I won’t budge on something and vice versa and we acknowledge our mutual understanding every so often by me making eye contact with him and then gentle patting his head. You sound like you got a keeper in your husband there Celby. Patience and understanding can be a rare trait these days
My hamster did this to my husband. Drew blood and everything. 😭 He was so cool about it, and still liked her after the incident.
Aww
“Mrs. Mittens can see higher on the aural plain and is an excellent judge of character. Your husband is a bad man.” - Cat/Dog ppl
But I have this believe that dogs & cats are good judge of character. So if dog is ever violent to a stranger I would stay clear lool just because normally she is always an attention seeker from everyone
On my boyfriend and I's first date we literally just talked for 9 hours straight, like we met at a park at like 6pm and both went home at around 3 in the morning even though it felt like we'd only talked for two hours maybe c:
bot replies are sad.
That's a sign of a good person, you can talk to each other and listen to each other without realising how fast time is going by
That was literally me & my boyfriend. We only planned the 1st date to be like 2 hours and we ended up being out til like 3am and talking :)
That’s so cuteee :D
I feel like this is what every partner should try to achieve with their beloved one. Not your general small silly first date talks. If I feel like she wants to talk to me about more deep things, I'll be reciprocating that feeling all day long. And because we can talk all kinds of crap, it's all good since we're doing this together.
This video made me feel so happy (and grateful) for what i have with my husband. It is possible to find *your* person, and remember that all of these behaviors go both ways. Active listening, nit checking phones, laughter, calm.
Just met them 3 days ago and we hit it off immediately, didn’t stop talking and giggling for hours, spent the night together 2 days in a row. I feel very comfortable around them like I’ve known them for a while… can’t stop thinking of them and I can’t wait to get to know them more. Never would’ve thought I would experience this at all this year. Wasn’t expecting it
There’s something really satisfying about this art style
I know right??
It’s simple and cute!
It's so calming
Green flag: when they fight with you to make relationship better not to win the fight..
This goes for all age groups.
🤔
5 is so big to me, I absolutely despise people who can't stop checking their phone during social activities cause it makes me feel like they are actively trying to waste my time.
Great video though, reminding us to look out for the positives and not only the bad.
Everything is so so on point. I'm really REALLY grateful for having Sid found. Thank you universe!
I went on a date once. Then I got a text from my dad so I asked if it would be okay for me to check it. I hadn't heard from him for a day (he was with his girlfriend), and my date said yes. I opened it. Smiled, responded, and then muted my phone. My date got pissed that I smiled and immediately guessed I was talking to another prospect. Yeah, red flag. Sorry, you said it was okay. I explained before I opened it.. And it's the first date. Chill
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Big red flag! Glad you didn't continue to date them! They've got serious issues.
Just imagine how jealous that guy would be in a relationship... I mean, I can see where it comes from, he's obviously got self-esteem issues. Very insecure. But that's his issue, he has to deal with that before he can be able to establish a relationship.
Yea, no. He’s an L
That happened to me once, but i just said "it was someone special?" and she showed me it was her mom, i felt amazing, that she had the confidence to show me that. We didn't work as a couple, but she's my friend to this day
And remember, you can have all of these qualities and still not be the one your crush wants.
Love can be a fickle and crazy thing.
Why do ya have to cut onions like dat?
Cmon why you gotta do dis?
I agree with you. And many people fail to realise this. If someone doesn't consider you physically attractive, then even if you do have these qualities they won't see you than more than a friend.
@@KPR0308 Sometimes it is like this and they'll find you physically attractive and have great sex with you, but they'll still choose to be with someone else! Life is a box of chocolates lol
this is exactly me and my ex. I treated him so well but he broke up with me anyway :v
somehow you always succeed on making me cry, psych2go😂💛 i’ve been anxious about getting into a long distance relationship, but now that i realized a lot of green flags in my relationship, i feel more optimistic now. thank you always for succinct, accurate, and thoughtful infos and calming words and voice. i also love the humor that is sometimes added. sending so much love
this absolutely helps me so much thank you
“Sometimes you’ll be the right person for someone who is not ready for the right person.”
Is that a good thing?
Man, in just one sentence you just made me realise i should let go, after maybe 6 months of thinking...
@@SupahSmashBrotha96 auch
Facts
Ouch.... I feel this.....
*Sees Rize.*
Me, shouting like a soldier: *"RED FLAG! RED FLAG!"*
I hope Kaneki watches this video for next time ❤️
Same
Looolz! The red flag I'd still ignore 🤦🏾♂️
Y E S
Yessss
This channel is very helpful i follow you from years! It helps me understand some of the situation in my life cleary, my compliments!
I feel like some of these are more signs of a good conversationalist. Even if I'm not interested in someone I actively listen to them, remember details, and don't pull my phone out while talking to them. To me it's more about good manners 🤷🏻♀️
On Valentine's Day a person on the street gave us a rose while we were eating dinner, and it was my boyfriend's idea for us to pass the rose onto our waitress from the both of us (in a completely platonic way) because she was sad about working such a long shift on Valentine's day. Very wholesome.
That is so lovely ❤
aww, thats so nice ❤
thats a keeper!
I feel bad that I can't remember things well, cause then it makes people think I don't listen or care, when In all actuality I just have a very very bad memory
Same bro. Same.
Nah, its just that you dont care
Im jokijg lol
What about writing some notes about people you love, mate? Good luck!
Same but a green flag from this could be if your partner knows and accepts that about you. Mine was a little worried at first but as he got to know me and see I did that with everything he realized it didn't mean I wasn't interested. Now he just laughs and says, "Babe we talked about this already, I said...." or he will poke at me with a, "I'm not telling you, should have remembered 😜"
Your voice and the topic you're talking about are soooo relaxing I love it
Thanks, I usually don't like this kind of videos because they are often not very subtle. BUT I think this one can help you realize that this is the right person when you don't really trust yourself
"It's a green flag. Go."
I legit cried. That was so sweet.
I can relate to what you wrote here, sooooo me too :) lol
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"...everyone who is asking you out..."
I think I need to work on this one first.
Same
I can relate to what you wrote here, sooooo me too :) lol
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All of these are literally my partner. We've been together for over 4 years, and we still have the same connection we had on the first date. On our first date, we went for a walk around campus and eventually decided to grab lunch at one of the restaurants that were around. We ate, then literally talked for hours. We had been talking for like 2 or 3 hours, when he realized his class was about to start, so I walked him there. We texted every single day nonstop after that, and went on more dates most days every week. I knew from that first date that there was something between us, and now I'm 100% confident I've found the person I want to spend the rest of my life with, and he's told me the same thing ❤️
I green flag I’ve noticed is when the other person goes out of their way to try and understand your interests if they don’t understand it initially and they have an open mind about it as well!
Why is the art so cute in theese videos
Thank you
omg right!! i think the cute animations plus the soothing narration also make it easy and fun to learn about this stuff and it makes me feel safe and like i'm not alone in wanting to learn about these things which makes it all even cuter🥺🥺🥺
She's a really talented Artist
I agree !!
Hi um, STOP LIKING THIS COMMENT
One green flag I have found is if you feel comfortable to open up to your partner. That while yes having fun should always take priority, that being able to speak about a serious topic or fear you have without being judged is also a great way to know a keeper
What when you're always the first to open up about stuff?
@@Picca65 You can always ask, if done properly. Something like "What do you think about hobbies? do you have one? Im thinking about starting to do something to occupy my mind, but I cant decide what and I would like your opinion". People are different, some will only open up if they feel like you really care about the information they have.
I have been watching your vids since i had my depression stage this is really the most helpful channel for mental health and other problems, now I'm struggling for love.
I love this art style, great work Sam Rain
There's nothing worse in a date than being with a person who is constantly checking their phone while you are talking or engaging with them...
So rude. I kinda dislike it when my friends do it too.
Stop talking and just look at them until they look up at you. Just stare for awhile, keep a serious face, as if to say, "I'm going to stand up and ditch you with the bill if you don't get off the phone. Pay attention or pay for your own food."
Or you can legit get up and walk away. Pay your portion of the bill at the bar. That’ll be a well-deserved lesson for people who think it’s ok to disrespect you.
My boyfriend does this when we hangout..
Do the same back to them. And they will get it, trust.
If we go grocery shopping and they put their cart back. I'mma start saving up for a ring.
Haha
People don't do that?
Go to Germany, almost everyone does that.
@@malas.7276 lol truuuue
it's not whether they have that 'value' or not, it's how youz manage it together. you can even end up disagreeing. They might not have considered putting the trolley away in their old family.
I am using this as a source in a speech I am doing on attracting positivity in relationships! This is awesome! Thank you!
Interesting video as are all the ones I binged watch the last few days.
And those little dancing people at the end are so cute !!!
When they have all these at the beginning of the relationship but then completely change toward the end of it
S i g h
Yeah I'll never get it.
Honeymoon stage, or they just wanted sex?
@@Z5Z5Z5 I feel 3 of these flags are based on how you feel which isn't a good call, when they touch your hand and you get full of warmth and good feelings they didn't do that, your brain did, by registering you wanted that touch on you so bad you wanted reward for it, when hours feel like minuets, that's your brain compartmentalizing your time into something -you- enjoy.
Also lets be all real here for a moment and the other 3 of these six flags use to be proper edict. Hell aren't the sociopaths that beat their wives really good to waiters and public workers? Are they not very attentive?
Yea especially when that tell you they have a girlfriend and they've been cheating on them
thats stressful but people change
Or, they’re secretly a spy
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Do you like who you are when you are with them is HUGE this is a great way to see if their behaviour and attitude is bringing out positive or negative characteristics in yourself and helping you be the best version of yourself
Thank you, this gave me a lot of clarity
The *NATURAL* one is so very true. I am a very verbal person, and by that I mean I squeak. I make a lot of noises (not just squeaks) but I tend to try and contain them more so when around people I am not comfortable or friends with. With my boyfriend, I don't feel the need to hold back my little sound effects; he actually finds it cute. I
I do this too and I feel like I have to work to not do it when around my peers who I'm not in a for real friendship with (sometimes I do it on impulse and I accidentally make some sound effect like "AGHGHK" and/or flinch if someone taps me to get my attention or something). But when your friends or crush find it funny then it's a good thing. My high school crush and I did this ALL the time and I think I got it from her lol. Some people will say it's cringy but screw it, it's just something we do. It's like saying ow.
I make little sound effects too that I can’t control and it annoys most people which I can see why but they always make a big deal about it.
Tokyo Ghoul in a nutshell
ThIs MiGhT bE tHe OnE.
I like the Reference
DUDE I WONT SIMP ON THAT ONE
YABA
#ruiningthecomment
Haha yeah lol
Your voice is so soothing I forgot to listen to what you were saying… had to rewatch
It's so funny that ALL of those green flags were there on the first date with my partner! We talked so much that we forgot time and ended up looking on the clock when it already was way past midnight 😂
It was such a good feeling being around him that we decided to go on our second date on the next day, because we found each other so interesting. Our relationship is the best I've ever had and I hope it'll last forever 🥰
Anyone else think the girl with purple hair in the beginning looks like that ghoul girl from Tokyo ghoul that wanted to eat the main character no just me ....ok
Yeah I think that's a reference, the cafe is also similar
Lol you’re right
I was thinking the same thing!!! And the plate of meat too....
@@MVPerry WEEB POWAH!
Bruh that was my first thought
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Green/red flag : the way they talk about their mother and how they treat animals
Yes!
All good, so long as you pay attention to WHY they talk about their mother how they do. I'm a survivor of child abuse, I won't pretend to love the person who abused and traumatized me.
@@lucienfortner841 of course, I'm entirely with you on this. General rules are only okay if you know how to identify the specifical cases where they don't apply.
hell yea
Bingo!
As someone with major relationship anxiety and anxiety all together, this really helped. My boyfriend, wyatt, is the biggest green flag ever. When I am stressed or mad or whatever, he validates everything and comforts me. He makes me smile. Rarely checks his phone around me, and we are going on another date today! He's amazing
“I got ten minutes, let’s chat on a phone!” and that is how I know it is gonna be at least an hour bc we love talking to each other. It’s always been the case. And I’m glad that is a very good sign!
I often have conversations with my father that last for hours and are very fun, we talk about everything and anything from justice to how we would have done a movie we didnt like.
One day after commenting how much I like those talks he told me:
"If you ever find a girl with whom you can have a chat like this, thats the one for you."
my heart is literally melting, “it’s a green flag, go!”
I can relate to what you wrote here, sooooo me too :) lol
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Thank you for this 😊
I remember went on a first date at the cafe with a man, first thing I notice was I felt extremely comfortable with him, we forgot the time whiling talking and sharing soo much about ourself until it evening though the date was afternoon. He even went on to ask me if I want to have dinner with him since it already evening 😅. But I refused, he’s okay with it and immediately ask for second date 🥰✨ i can’t stop smiling. It’s been 7 months now I’m still with him
"Has an odd obsession with cat outfits"
I- I feel called out-
“Cat girls are running my life” lol
@@jen7917 uwu
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SAME AHAHAH
When you fall in love you dont find the need to be on your phone.
Can you imagine someone other than your phone becoming your priority? That's what love is haha
Yeah exactly armyyy!!!
When you have social anxiety.. you need to see your phone when you go blank
Well damn haha i fell in love with dude who lives in another country so phone it is
@@lucylu5241 that's great😆☺
Best of luck❤
My girlfriend got nervous butterflies on our first date , and was giggling a lot even for no specific reason, it was adorable, i didn’t get that wrong , most likely took as green flags because she was so engaged with me and happy to talk and know more about me , and I think that is normal for girls to feel like that the first time , and personally I was pretty stressed , we’ve both communicated well about this , and when I was with her , man everything changed , I felt so great and chill with her , it did last 3 hours and I felt like it was only few minutes .. I really believe she’s my ultimate love. 💕💕💕
I love the details in the beginning, coffee shop looking place next to the window... spewing food everywhere... Rize Kamishiro definitely has some red flags for sure lol
Another green flag is that they’re willing to make sacrifices for you. Their time, their energy, and their preferences will be pushed to the side momentarily to do what you suggested to do. This means that they treat what you enjoy with respect, and are willing to do something with you that they may not enjoy as much. But make sure to return the favor, and ask what they would like to do on your next date!
Ponte en contacto con él ahora en WhatsApp y su nombre es Wilson Thomas, ese es el nombre del hombre poderoso, ok número de WhatsApp: +2347041592580.
@@petermoody9909 ¡Es peligroso poner su información en línea! (Especialmente tu nombre). ¡Ten cuidado!
or they are a simp
@@Finalizor haha funny simp word I’m laughing so hard 😐
*if they treat you right you should also treat them right*
“Chicken wings, does that anyone else hungry?” LOL
Did it make you hungry? :)
@@Psych2go made me hungry 😆
IT MADE ME HUNGRY LOL! I LOVE HUNGRY HOWIE'S CHICKEN WINGS!
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@@janellarogers1117 SIS, this comment made my day! Idk why. You just have a positive vibe! Thank you!💞
Being able to be yourself truly without acting, being able to enjoy each other’s company even in silence, and feeling open to try new things with them are all huge green flags in my book.
so cool to see a video on green flags for once!!
"Do you feel like everyone who has asked you out has red flags"
Me who hasn't had anyone ask me out for my entire life: *interesting*
I can relate to what you wrote here, sooooo me too :) lol
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People have always been the ones to ask me out, and it's usually only ever online. I've probably had 4 people ask me out in the span of a year and I've been hit on many times. I learned from psychtogo's other videos that I have a naturally attractive personality
I've never been interested in anyone before, until I began developing feelings for my friend. She's always so kind and funny and comforting, none stop she smiles and hugs and loves in an effort to make everyone happy and I can't help but fall in love with her.
Maybe I'll come back in the future to say if we ever get together
Awww I wish the best for you! ^^
glad I'm not the only one falling for my friends 😅
I wish I had friends like that...
@@naikou1633 I crush on my friends as well but they're all straight bruh
@@jichuturtlerabbitkimsaysya5223 yeah I have a crush on someone but she’s straight. She is also my friend lol
Quite a bit painful, even after over a year, that even the person showed all of the mentioned green flags, it still wasn't meant to be.
On the other hand, being aware of them is really useful to determine a genuine connection.
Ugh, this video is so wholesome and I'm blushing checking the boxes for each of these.
@Cody Welborn Thank you, the thought that someone I've never met cares is actually really comforting. It helps me feel hopeful for the world.
I'm doing much better, all things considered. A close friend of mine had passed earlier this year and when another friend told me they were feeling suicidal, it triggered some anxieties about losing another person, while also weirdly enough causing me to emotionally relapse into feeling suicidal as well.
Currently I have my rabbits (which, to be completely honest are complex and fragile, but awesome creatures), and in the comment above I mentioned beginning to talk to someone who I may end up being truthfully interested in. For me, it doesn't entirely matter how that relationship ends up, as life is more than the immediate gratification; I do have long term plans, although sometimes I lose sight of that. I want to become an army chaplain and help those who've struggled with the same things as me (since army chaplains tend to act more as extremely confidential counselors for soldiers going through hard times).
Talking to a counselor today, she mentioned a lot of things in my past which I struggled/still struggle with were out of my control. I think that can change over time, since I'm in my early twenties/becoming an adult now. :>
Green flag (if you're looking for a long term relationship): to have similar aims/values in life.
Wait.. am I the only one noticing the Tokyo Ghoul reference?
Yeah.. that date didn't end so well..
THATS WHAT I THOUGHT OMG
Legit, when i saw that i was like hell no don't date her kid.
What are you talking about? He just went through true mental and physical suffering for more than 2 years. I don't see any harm in that
Lamo
I smiled alot and felt the warmth and wholesomeness as if I'm in such a relationship, but I actually got ghosted and dumped by her for almost a year now. I need to come back to reality...ugghh.. I need some air...
Nice video by the way, really loved this. Take care.