13 Moments Every Lesbian & Bisexual Can Relate To
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Key moments every queer gal remembers! Memories of your first lesbian crush, coming out, dressing "gay", your first time etc...
Which moments did we miss?
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Alright, we know there are tons more! Which moments did we miss that you'll always remember? Which ones resonated the most?
Your first heartbreak while you are still in closet....
You can't share it with anybody...
Your parents talking mean about lgbt people and you sitting there pretending you didn't hear that...
Deep down i think, i always knew i liked women. There were many moments after which i could have known it. But i didn't really care about it at that time. The moment i met a women who completely overwhelmed me, was when i was sure. It was like: BOOM that is the true thing!!! That moment was so beautiful, and i will never forget it.
@@phe603 we know what are we talking about :)
When you find your childhood crush on Tinder
@Beata Estelle
When you've been out so long ... that even B4 you actually could get married ... they announced it on the loud speaker, at work, like ... "Hey Wendy, your wife is on line 3!!"
I remember the first time a girl called me sexy. I'd never felt like that before, it was almost like an out of body experience
This literally happened to me a few weeks ago at pride. It was in front of a big group of friends and I went bright red like I was 12 and everyone saw. We are now dating :)
The way Alexis and Lilian laugh in the same way at the same time🥺
I feel like if anyone introduced my girlfriend as my "friend" I would just kiss her right on the spot to make everyone feel even more confused.
First time realising not everyone finds women hot :D For some time I thought women were just inerently hot so finding them hot doesn't make me a wlw haha
Same lol
wait, not everyone finds women hot and attractive? what? how? are they blind?
Haha
YES
5 months ago I was in denial. 3 or 4 months later I accepted I'm bisexual. Now I have a crush on another girl and I just found out she is bi too!! I'm OBSESSED with your videos, today I subscribed and you guys are so relatable!!
I'll always remember the first time a person asked me if I had a boyfriend... or girlfriend. It was in the Netherlands, when I was doing a high school international exchange, and it felt so great!!!! Because it was an adult person who asked me this and when I was raised in Spain noone ever asked me that. At that time I was sure I liked girls and it felt so good to hear that!
The editing here is such a different, fresh vibe. I didn't feel like you guys needed to change it, but now that you did, this upbeat tempo is fun. You guys are looking happy and healthy.
I was just thinking how they look like they're having so much fun with this video!
totally agree!!!!
I thought the same thing!
I am from a small town, so there's not a lot of people out. One time this girl from my highschool came out and started to present more masculine and oh boy, I still remember the first time I saw her with short hair and baggy clothes, but I didn't think anything of it, at the time. Now I look back and I clearly had a crush on her...
Gaydar: That’s like my sense about jojo Siwa. She’s been trying to put it out there for so long, and everyone missed the signs and are now acting shocked and sending her hate messages. The world is so cruel.
I had the exact same feeling about Jojo too. My daughter and niece are obsessed with her,so I have watched many of her videos and just had that feeling she was going to come out sooner or later. I'm very happy for her but also heartbroken for her all the people being cruel to her for finally being herself, like some how thats going to change the great influence is she for kids .
I can't stop crying, I finally feel like someone understands me. I'm a new bisexual and still in the closet. Only my girl crush and 2 best friends know about my sexuality. However, my gaydar is SO ACCURATE and now I check everyone´s Instagram to see if they listen to a girl in red hahaha. This video called me out so much! I subscribed to you guys and I'm proud to be part of this community!
Hahaha yessss to first time seeing an androgenous woman.....deaaarrrr loaaarddd!!! First pride was a major one too 🙏 👌 🌈 can't describe that level of acceptance and pride!!!
Truee first pride!!
I've kinda come to the realization that I'm possibly into women haha. When I was like 14-15 I was pretty open about my sexuality, especially when it came to girls, like I'd online date girls alot (very cringe to say now haha). And after a couple years (I'm 19 now) I kinda thought "ah it was probably a phase" also I'm religious so it's very awkward (tho my mum said she doesn't care aslong as I'm happy- so I have a great home environment to come out in). But I came to the realization that... yes you're probably into girls and we are all just souls at the end of the day, gender means nothing when it comes to love. So here I am binge watching all your amazing and beautiful videos after finding a really nice gal on tinder haha xxx
The first time I looked into a girl's eyes thinking about pulling her closer and kissing her.
She was my best friend and I had no idea that anything except a mam-women relationship ever exists. 🙈 and Thats what made this moment so thrilling and memorable for me that it was just pure desire from my heart without having any idea that girl-girl 👯♀ can actually be anything real.
Same here with me even I had this desire to kiss my friend but I had to control myself thinking relation exists only between man and women and there is something wrong with me.
Literally my heart was broken when she said her marriage is settled, even now my heart skips a bit when I see her.
I remember my first crush clearly. I also remember how angry she was when she realised I had the hots for her.
So many good ones!
I personally have a bit of an issue with the eight orgasms trope as a survivor of sexual assaults who can't orgasm with another person at all, for me it really increases the pressure
What about the moment, when you are just bi but are in a heterosexual relationship and you somehow feel like you aren't supporting the lgbtq scene enough because of that or something? 😬
It's a little confusing.
The moment you've booked a romantic weekend away and the hotel receptionist is like "is a double bed okay" . Ummmmm yer cause we booked the couples special. So yes.
The moment when you have the Feeling that everyone in the room Knows or even a little Bit Knows you're different and you get super nervous and feel awkward.
14. The moment when you found Alexis & Lilian's channel 🤗
The topics of your movies are so great!
I love how Alexis makes laugh Lilian haha she makes me laugh too!
Part two please?
I love watching videos in which I think "Yees, it's so true!" all the time and can't stop relating and feeling understood.. :D
Great vlog. Everybody remembers their first time, no matter what first time you’re talking about...
Fun fact: "muschi" was the first german word i've searched in a dictionary. I got some german magazines from my friend, including a "Mädchen" issue, with a big "MUSCHI!" text on the cover. Wow, it's a funny and cute-sounding word, what it means? Let's check the dictionary....HELL YEAH! :D
😂 that's so funny, and haha I totally forgot about Mädchen, good times!
The first time you identify that that "crush" on a boy you had made it clear that you were gay. At some point, i only had "crushes" gay/androgynous men
you guys seem so good! your laughs made me laugh and smile
awwww guys i love you!!! my mood was kinda shite before i’ve watched your video!!! thanks) you’re both so charismatic and funny! and i liked new-level-up video editing, it’s awesome!
Omg I totally related to the "looking a girl up on Instagram" one, like last semester I had a crush on a girl in my Spanish class. It was all on Zoom because, you know, COVID, but as soon as she turned her camera on I was like "I have to look her up... just to see..." and sure enough, she was in a relationship. With a guy. With no signs of being bi or anything. 😭
Ahh hate that!! 😄
Love this so much I think I can relate to all your firsts and when I realised I then understood a lot about me and my awkwardness
The edits was already great but this is wow really good job from the cutter:)
you guys are precious 🥺
This channel is great!! Your channel is so underrated
I remember that moment when I first watched the movie Valentine's Day when I was 16 and a freshly out bisexual....when it turned out that Bradley Cooper was the boyfriend of the gay football player, I started screaming and shouting "omg that's so cute, I can't believe it, this is wholesome, wow!!!"...in front of my whole family....guess what, I NEVER reacted like this to ANY straight couples in movies, but I did it EVERY time when it's about a gay couple lol
Spot on!!! I can relate to most of them!
These were all so relatable! 😃🌈💯 Loved the video, it was really funny and I loved the editing!
was waiting for your next video.💞
You guys have been making me laugh all day x
thanks for this it was so relatable
Aw, this was such a fun video! Yes to so many of these! Also, realizing that not everyone thinks women are hot/has crushes on women...back when I didn't realize I was bisexual, and thought that other "straight" women had feelings like these too and just didn't act on them ahaha :P
The satisfaction of your gaydar being verified is real-My friend who I’ve suspected is gay for years just confessed that she thinks she is a “spicy straight” and I had to bite my tongue not to say that I already knew... we all start there sister 😂
I just love to see you both together 👍
Why you guys are so insightful and cute as hell...💕💕💕💕💕💕
Scuba checking in! I don't have a lot to say but I had a lovely time! 😃
So recognizable haha! 😂 that moment when you see another lesbian woman... or when your gaydar is right... hahah!😂🌈
HAHAHAHAHAHAaaa this video was just soooo funny and gooooood !!! :D
You’re hilarious guys! I love you❤️
PS: I know for a long time that I’m also into girls. I kinda was always ok with it. But I’ve only been in a gay relationship once (an amazing and serious one: we lived together for 2 years but I was way too young for it to last..) I recently fell in love for the first time after so long with an openly gay woman.. For now it hurts because she’s not exactly into me😔. But still: it feels good to feel love for a woman🥰.
Watching your channel gives me hope and keeps the dream alive.
Thank you for your amazing energy✨🙏
I think you guys are sooo cute together 💕
You guys are sooooo cute together. Awe....
I knew about Kristin Stewart since Panic Room when she was a kid. Very obvious, just as it was obvious Jodie Foster(who played her mom) was gay since childhood. I never bought the Robert Pattinson beard PR relationship. Not a fan of hers or Twilight, but yep always knew too lol
Love it ❤️❤️
Ya no prob
@Marilyn Alva ya sound
Hi👋🏼❤️ Thanks for your videos🌸❤️ Lilian could you make a video about bisexuality and how you knew you were bi ? And how to know if i’m gay or bi.
You are so cute together that makes me cry 🥺🥺😭
I can definetely relate! i remember looking at lesbian scenes on CZcams and showing my ex girlfriend (who´d come up way earlier than me) and being like omg looook at this- she being like - japp you are that MOMENT hahahah
My girl crushes started before I transitioned, and they have celebrities; Nicole Kidman (goddess!), Angelina Jolie, and of course you both, Alexis and Lillian!
First time dressing gay 😂😂😂😂😂😂 you had me there
Stick it yes!!! That scene when she takes an ice bath
OH MY! 😱 I remember my first girl crush. Bennita, we were in primary school. Man, how I wish we would cross paths again 🙄😂
RELEASE MERCH SO I CAN BUY IT ;///; I stan your channel so much
I had a crush on Missy Peregrym too😂❤️
Did anyone else have moments before you realized and people were like “if you ever bring home a boy OR A GIRL” and you were like “haha so funny, mom” because you thought that you would never bring home a girl?
hahaha, this is so funny and so relatable. I might not wholly experience it all but almost everything is so legit, especially the gaydar thing, and when you meet a fellow gay woman, like from my experience - our program/ course was known to have a lot of gay women (architecture), and whenever we meet in the hallway, even if we don't really know each other personally, we kind do a small nod to each other hahahah it's so funny bcoz some classmates would ask if I knew those people personally hahahah
U are a great couple
I'm not gay but you too are so cool and cute. Keep up the nice work.
my first bisexual friend became my first girlfriend hahahah
Awwww,, I know so beautiful 💖
Getting ready to go to my first gay bar: omg can’t wait to meet all the beautiful wlw folks!! maybe i’ll even meet the love of my life 🥺👩❤️💋👩
The gay bar: 100% gay dudes
Hahaha so true!!
Ouch! The first time I went to a gay bar, the landlord (who had invited me) asked me where my boyfriend was and I said "She's over there" pointing to the lovely 5ft1 blonde I was lucky enough to live with and be loved by at the time.
On first ever proper date with a woman recently and the restaurant 'got it' and lit the 'romantic candle' and bought 2 spoons to share the pudding. :)
5:07 sí soy jajaja
My guy crushes, before I transitioned, included two best friends: Mark, and later Steve. But also celebrities: Clint Eastwood, Brad Pitt, and others.
Can relate to all of your comments but the best for me was having a first gay conversation without having to edit myself. It was 'gay this' & 'gay that', gay, gay, gay, gaaaaaay!! Fabulous! 💕💕👍👍 🇬🇧 🇬🇧
I can't express how much excite i am ! i just kept staring at her beautiful white hair ! oh my gaaawd she rocked it sublinimally ! oh yeah and btw cool video thanks for that and i love ur hair alexis
I'm thirteen but i can relate a lot😀
A gay panic moment. After talking with a beautiful person and afterwards just Wanne grab someone's arm and tell them about it
XD truuuuuue. I am from german
lovely couple 👌❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😘🌈😘💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💞💖😘
5:21 one of my teachers really gives me gay vibes, although he doesn’t particularly “dress” gay. Plus I just don’t see him with a woman
Trans lesbian here. My hormone doctor gives me bi or lesbian vibes. She dresses femme but she had short nails the last time I checked. Didn't see any nail polish on them, unless she had on the clear stuff. And unless she's bi or pan, I don't see her with a guy. I also didn't see a ring on her hand so I'm thinking of making a move on her.
@@DarDarBinks1986 awesome! Wishing you the best of luck :)
@@Shae29 I'll probably ask said doc the "girl in red" question. I didn't even know that was a thing til recently.
How bout first gay kiss
I love you guys so fucking much
I always hated the fact that they is a chance of no acceptance from loved ones... Like my parents.
Oor when I remember Back to school Trip to Netherland when I Had a crush on a Girl there, but didn't know because I Just thought I'd admire her, but now it Makes sense why even eating Pommes with her was cool and why I hated when her boyfriend was around 😂😂🙈
I'm not Gay but I like you both.. 😉😉😉
i have an enormous giant crush on my "maybe a little bi" friend.
have u tried telling her that?
@@timidelle1127 no i'm trying my best to get over her and just stay platonic
@@victoriamiller4053 ah I hope you stay strong! I know it's extremely difficult being in love with someone and having to pretend you're just friends... But maybe don't give up just yet ;) maybe at some point, whenever you're ready, it would be good to tell her your feelings ☺
Does anybody know the girl on 2:09 name?😍😍
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Hey I know this is sorta irrelevant but has anyone else been forced to cut off contact with their significant other? If you have could you please let me know how you managed to cope and if you ever gotten back together and/or in contact again?? I'd really appreciate it
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Hello lovers
Why can I relate to all of these? But also, why am I here to prove to myself that I am a lesbian oof :(
Or when you have a crush on a Girl but you're Not Sure If she's really straight (she has a Boyfriend)..awkwaaard and you're Like that all the time: should I Tell her that I like her or better Not?🤔😅
Not a nice one but first time being catcalled/harassed with your gf :/
Like you guys..but keep yourself in shape will you ! Shape is attractive
Ohm 4 ex bfs are bi curious...
What does that say about me⚡️
Help me I'm in love with my friend
I am kinda having a crush on my 1st cousin who is a girl but don't know her Sexulaity. Even though, I don't care if shes gay or not. It's NOT RIGHT to have a crush. It would fade
I mean... First cousin is really close relative. How old are you? I'm no one to give an opinion, but maybe, if you're really young, you're starting to understand that you like girls (or also girls, depending on your sexuality, even though I think that sexuality is really fluid, it isn't still and can't be named. At least for me! Everyone is who they feel it's best for them) as I was saying... Maybe you're starting to understand more about yourself and you think that you have a crush on them while it's just your way to understand that you like girls. Don't force yourself to have a crush on somebody just to try to understand yourself more... Explore your sexuality, you can think that someone is beutiful or hot even without having a crush on them. Like maybe you think that your cousin is beautiful because they are but that doesn't mean that you have a crush on them.
I hope that you can understand what I said. English it's not my first language but I tried to be as clear and delicate as I could :)
Yeah, family is off limits. Too close. There are plenty of amazing people out there though that you don’t share DNA with. No use jeopardizing the health of a family relationship with incest.
@@layla2034I am 19 years old, it has been 4 years and months since then trying to understand my sexuality. Yeap you are right! The traits is what I like but probably yes I don't really have a crush on her which can be platonic. I have been guilty on your statement "Don't try too hard to crush somebody to understand..." that's why things go the wrong way always. I am not great at having a crushes because they always end up being as friends or gradually cut-off. Thank you very much now I understand. I mean I know it but seeing this makes more clearer. And, yes, I was able to understand it. Your English is great!
@@jsuisunarc-en-ciel3119 I don't wanna even do it and yes you are right. I have not explore other countries except our country and my world is still small. I need more exploration
P.S. I am a girl also to make things clearer
girl tell me why i just had an ad to a christian cult.........
My parents introduced my ex hetero partners as "friends" so... I'll be super out of luck with a girlfriend
balls
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