10 Things Every Baby Gay Should Know | Lesbian Dating Advice
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- čas přidán 6. 07. 2024
- Let's face it, dating as an LGBTQ+ person can be scary. Who pays the bill anyway? Here's my lesbian dating tips & advice, including things I wish I knew before my first wlw date. Whether you're a teenage LGBT person, or an older lesbian, use this as your guide to queer / LGBT dating & relationships.
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0:00 Happy Pride Month
0:25 Set clear intentions
1:13 Who pays?
1:37 Where to go?
2:14 LGBTQ safe places
2:42 Consent is sexy
3:29 Compliment her!!
4:00 Don't talk about ex's
4:38 Slay awkwardness
5:18 First date topics
6:02 Introduce ur friends
6:47 When to let go
SIGNS A GIRL LIKES YOU 🏳️🌈
• SIGNS A GIRL LIKES YOU...
HOW TO TELL UR CRUSH U LIKE HER 😳
• HOW TO TELL A GIRL YOU...
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Who pays the bill anyway? WRONG answers only. P.S. HAPPY PRIDE MONTH 🌈 whether you’re out of the closet or not, unlabeled, or still questioning, always remember that you are valid. You deserve love. I am proud of you for being who you are. I can't wait for the rest of pride month, I'll be uploading every week with a lgbtq+ themed video!!!
No one you just walk out. It's free
gays eat free
@@laurenelloise yes gays eat free sounds good to me
if you sit at separate tables, you'll get separate bills. problem solved.
The table pays
Today is the first pride month with me fully accepting who I am!!! I am so excited! Happy pride month y’all 🏳️🌈🌈🌈🏳️🌈!!!!!!!!
Same!!
Sameee
Same here and ever since finding out, I feel free and happy
I’m questioning myself still but happy pride month 🏳️🌈🌈🏳️🌈🌈
Happy pride month and welcome to the community!
When they said "There is no straight answer" I laughed 🤣
Yes I’ve been looking for this comment 😂
So today i finally decided to confess to my best friend that I love her I was so scared that I'll lose my only bestfriend but she actually accepted me this feels like a dream 😭💕
The wangxian pfp just elevates this. XD
Hope you worked out!
@@todeepinthefandomd1453 Her parents ain't cooperative 🥲 seems like even I got myself a Lan qiren 🙂 womp womp
@@serendipity955 at least she likes you back! ✨
I am a closeted lesbian and these videos are awesome. The make me feel like i am not alone and makes this feel a lot less scary. Happy pride month!🌈
I’m bisexual and have been in many straight appearing relationships but this is my first time being in a wlw relationship so this was very helpful! Im really nervous cause I don’t know how women work just yet 😭
This is my first Pride month- cause no one has told me about it until last year-
HAPPY PRIDE MONTH PEEPS 🏳️🌈
awww i am so excited for you!! HAPPY FIRST PRIDE 🌈
I’ve accepted I was lesbian for a little over 2 months now. I’m not new in knowing I like women but I’m new with the lesbian experience lol
One year ago today I found my true self. I’m bisexual. Today June 2nd is my Bi-niversary
I remember when I was first figuring my sexuality out in 2020, I looked for a lot of videos on how to tell it your a lesbian, and one of them was yours, I remember watching it and seeing how it all applied to me. You helped me discover myself, and now two years later I’m out and a proud lesbian. Thank you 🏳️🌈
Are you still single
@@beutyfulldrems8318hi I'm single are u
I don't know if you realise how helpful your videos are ! As a question super-baby newborn lesbian, this is just so cool to know some people are here to support and advise you, we need some education and it barely exists so thanks 😇🥰
This video was helpful for me as I was getting into dating girls a couple years ago! I came back to rewatch it in case there were any tips I forgot, but I don't think there were actually. I'm excited because I matched with a girl on a dating app, and we've been talking nonstop for two days, and I was about to ask her out but she beat me to it! So now it sounds like we're going on a coffee date and I'm looking forward to it!
I'm not gay, I'm a straight transgender girl! Also PRIDE MONTH!!!! LOVEEEEE
Happy Pride month to you! 🖤🏳️⚧️
Can we date
Happy pride month, Lauren!! I hope you enjoy the month and express yourself!! I’m a teenage Pansexual Trans man, and I’ll be attending my first pride parade soon! Thanks for always being there! Have a good day!! 💕🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️⚧
Thank you! and happy pride month to you to! also im so excited for you! you'll love it, there's nothing else that compares to the atmosphere 🏳️🌈
Been watching for a while now and I am so impressed how incredibly professional you've gotten. You almost seem like the mayor of gayness now lmao.
My first pride out of the closet, I’ve never felt so proud 🙂🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈
Awww yayayaya excited for you!
Video idea!! How to deal with unsupportive parents (in a safe environment). Would be really helpful tbh😅
My ex's mom is homofobic and we broke up bc I like girls and now she calls me sick and she things I'm not normal and when she sees me she looks at me like I'm a big mistake she brokes my heart... also I'm gonna come out to my crush next Monday and HAPPY PRIDGE MONTH!!!!!
2:00 i think this should apply to anyone, regardless of sexuality. Even though I've never dated/been in a relationship (i am still a baby gay + young), I never understood how that was a good idea for a first date. As you said, you want to get to know the person and see wether it works out or not. If I were to go on a date i would love to talk and get to know the other person...
Happy pride month to Lauren and everyone!!🏳️🌈So happy to have you back lauren🥺🌈🤍
This is my first pride month every and I am very excited!! I do kind of need ideas on what LGBTQ activities I should do (I am still in the closet). But for the first day of pride month the first thing I do is "YES Lauren has another video!" And watch it immediately. Great video and I will definitely use these tips!
This is my first too!!!!
Lauren made a video on that a while back about how to celebrate pride in the closet!
Yayyy!!! Happy Pride month Lauren! I am a young teen lesbian girl! Have an awesome pride month! Love your videos!
I am around 15 years old and i have been watching your videos for a year or two before i even found out i was bi. This video was great because i really wanna ask someone on a date. your advice was just the thing i needed tysm i hope to see more videos like this.
I just want to say thank you so much for these videos. I’m a newbie (literally just discovered and subscribed today❤). I don’t have a label as of yet as I’m very new to the journey. I’m 20 and at drama school and there’s a girl on my course I really really like and I’m debating whether to tell her before Christmas break (2 weeks time) ❤
Your videos are so helpful and valuable and I feel like I’ve found a community xx
Happy Pride Month Lauren, I honestly love you so much. You and Gal Pal are the cutest couple ever, all your videos are very creative and just amazing.
WOO glad ur back!! Very useful video 😊
Happy Pride, Lauren!
HAPPY PRIDE MONTHHHHH💜💜💜💜 (btw ur so pretty Lauren) e
Happy Pride Month my friend, Incredible video and much love ❤️🙏🌈
Same to you! 🏳️🌈
Just asked her on a date (movies) but we hang out before like we know each others very well flirt and everything but never were alone and am I nervous wish me luck yall
Definitely needed this video. I have lesbian friends but I haven't really dated a lesbian or bi woman myself. I am attracted to any gender as a pansexual but I also haven't been out for very long to really know what is expected or what to discuss. It'll be a group setting which takes some anxiety away but i also don't want to be my awkward anti social self either when first impressions count.
oh in the middle of wrath month and overthinking a first date this was really helpful!
Happy pride month!!! have been a trans non-binary bi sexual for a while and love the content just went to my first pride parade this year, and LOVED IT!! 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 love the education 4 the gays, keep it up
You are beautiful Lauren
Have a great day
Happy Pride ❤️
This video wasnt the best advice for me, but it's still really well written!! Great job!
Wishing you Happy Pride Month and this is a great informative video and you gave great advice and tips. This was a great video and thank you so much for sharing this advice video
1.20 "there's No straight answer" got me
ahahahah I’m so glad you noticed that 😂 I noticed when I was editing
Great tipy! Happy Pride Month!
Thanks Michael !!! 🌈
Thanks for mentioning about the awkward moments 😆 and tips on topics of conversation
consent is not sexy, it's mandatory. Saying it's sexy kinda makes it seem like it's a plus rather than a requirement.
Thanks so much for this video you hair looks so good btw😍
You’re welcome! And tysm!!!!
Happy pride month Lauren!
Happy Pride to you too! 🌈
I found this video super helpful. 🙂 (I’m a closeted lesbian)
I am very glad it helped you! 🖤
Yayyyy I missed you 💝 happy pride!!
I missed you too! Happy Pride 🌈
Happy pride month! 🌈
Happy pride month Lauren thank you for uploding
Happy Pride to you too! And ur welcome 🌈
This is my first relationship and I’m so insecure 😞 thank u for helping me 👌
You’re welcome 😊 wishing u the best
@@laurenelloise
Mmm
Happy Pride Month to everyone in this community 🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈. You deserved to be loved 🌈🌈💕💕
What a lovely Pride message 💜🌈 happy Pride month !!
Happy pride month Lauren 🥰💙💜💖
Btw you should see the owl house in your free time it is an animated LGBTQ+ series and just before some day's season two ended , and now I'm gonna rewatch it.
Happy pride month Lauren🏳️🌈. So glad you posted. You look stunning have a great day. Always stay you💜
Thank you! You too! 🌈 and look how early you are!!
@@laurenelloise yay for once I am early 😁😁
i almost was going to go to bed and upload in the morning haha glad i didnt!
@@laurenelloise so glad you uploaded now and did not wait till tomorrow 😁
🤗 me too! i didnt think anyone would be awake, i was wrong
i´m so happy, this is the second prode month i celebrate, still in the closet beacuse family and acceptance in society but so happy with myself
U are like the older sister I never had best gay sister ❤❤❤🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
@laurenelloise
Could you do a video on tips for dating your best friend, when you already know literally everything about this person
I literally just told her that I’ve liked girls before and she said me too
Happy pride month Everyone ❤🏳️🌈 Thank You For Your Vedio Very Helpful 😊 People Really Appreciate These Content 👏👏 .... Keep Shunning Lauren 🎀 And Congratulations For The 50k Sub Hope 100k Soon And Make Your Community Bigger And Bigger 🔥❤
HAPPYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY PRIDE MONTH,1 MIN AGOOOOO
oh heck you're fast! congrats on being super early and happy pride month!!!
Happy Pride month Lauren 🏳🌈🌈❤
I've been known from your channel maybe almost for 3 yrs now and I've known a lot of things about myself and You're contents still are helping me a lot but unfortunately in our its still illegal to even like other same sex ppl and I'm still a bit confused that I'm bisexual or a gay but yeah surly I'm planning to go out and study abroad to find my future wife and family there though I'm society is still not as opened as women that's why my parents didn't allow me to go out as without my clg classes so im on my carrier for now and trying my best as I can as a human to bit my family members and surrounding , Btw wish me good luck Love from my bottom of my heart 😊💝
Ty for the advicee
Noooo I didn’t even think of the lgbtq+ friendly venue part 😭. I’m going to the same place where tons of ppl from my mosque go for coffee/chai. We set the day much in advance and it’s next week. Is it weird to change locations if I suggested that place?
If you’d like to change places, and give enough notice, I don’t see a problem with that :)
HAPPY PRIDE MONTHHHH
HAPPY PRIDE 🌈🌈
HAPPY PRIDE MONTH EVERYONE 💐!!
happy pride month!!! 💕🌈🌈🌈
@@laurenelloise Happy Pride Month to you too queen!
:'))) tysm!
Where are your earrings from? Theyre awesome ❤🌈
This is some good advice. 🌟
Glad it was helpful!
Happy pride month 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ I hope you have a wonderful day 💕🌈
Same to you 🏳️🌈 hope you have a lovely day too!
can you please do a a video on how to find a gf as a teen? like I’m 17 and have 8 months to go before I can go clubbing or go on proper dating apps. I’m always in the talking stage with people I’ve found on teen “dating apps” (they’re friendship apps but lots of people use them for dating) but it never goes any further 😭 how do you suggest to find someone irl? would going to a pride event be a good idea to find a gf? x
This is my first pride of knowing I’m a lesbian, maybe I’ll come out! 🏳️🌈
And happy pride ❤❤!!!!
Eeeee happy first pride!!! 🌈 if you feel ready, go for it!
Happy pride month:D
HAPPY PRIDE TO YOU TOO 🏳️🌈
@@laurenelloise thanks :)
Your vids are coooooool!
eeeee thank you!
Me watching this knowing I am never gonna confess my feelings 😂
Btw HAPPY PRIDE MONTH GUYS!! 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
Just "came out" as a lesbian to my group of friends by using a lesbian icon in a game we played together and none of my friends cared and that was great but I still felt so stressed. And a friend of mine made a joke - tasteful, not misogynistic or prejudiced - that brought up me being a lesbian and I felt MAD UNCOMFORTABLE??? Is this my own internalised homophobia, just fear of being seen as a stereotype or... I don't know. Anyone have any advice?
It's a shame me and my girlfriend are just teenagers and we can't go where ever we want all the time. Or we just don't live close. Is there a few advice for those situations?
So i am new to the whole relationship thing(I have had relationships but they were not very serious.) I told this girl I liked her(btw I'm closeted to my parents but a few ppl know). I told her I liked her that's all and I'm how I could"go on a date" without raising any suspicion. Idk what to do but I really like her so 🙈👀
This is my first pride month(i didn't know i was a lesbian last year)
But anyway Happy pride month everyone🏳️🌈🎉🏳️🌈🎉
Same! Happy Pride Month! I 🏳️🌈
I AM FIRST AND HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🦆✨
aw yaaass ur super fast! congrats on being first and HAPPY PRIDE 🌈
@@laurenelloise your videos helped me figure out what I am and I will always thank you for that!❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤
And i'm still single- TwT
Love you girl, you seem fun and have a wild side 😘😏
This is my first pride month!!!!! (As an official gay lol) so excited 🌈 🏳️🌈 🌈 🏳️🌈 🌈 🏳️🌈 🌈 🏳️🌈 🌈
Aw I am so excited for you happy Pride month! 🌈🏳️🌈
hi my friends, I have a really important questions, how do you make dates go from friendly to romantic?? cuz I ask a lot of questions, interested in learning about this other person's life, but the dates always get stuck on a friend level?? like there's no chemistry spark feeling during. need help -- baby gay
What I need to ask is how am I going to tell my friend likes me if we are online( she is also a lesbian btw )
Hi, I'm 12 years old, and I'm questioning myself rn. I just want advice because I don't know what to do
I need that totoro Teddy in the back haha
Aw heheheh I remember getting him at the markets with my grandmother when she took me on a lil trip to the city (back during the last year of high school bc I was struggling )
@@laurenelloise awww, I have a bag of totoro, hope you are well
okay so, i’m farliy young and i think a girl may like me. the thing is we’re friends, we’re very young, we go to a christian school, my whole family is christian, and i don’t know if i’m ready to date yet. i think i may be willing to try it but i don’t want to ruin the freindship, i don’t know what dating would even look like, and because of being brought up christian i have a fair amount of internal homophobia i recently realized i had. i’m really scared and nervous and i don’t know what to do. also becuase we are so young should we even be dating?? is it weird if we do?? she’s been with a lot of girls and one guy before me, never for a long amount of months either. although she did stay freinds with her exes
🌈🌈🌈 I am binge watching these bc I am so scared to come out 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
HAAPPY PRIDE MONTH! 🏳️🌈❤️🧡🤍💗❤️
HAPPY PRIDE 💜💜💜
I just started dating my friend but I feel like we’re still young and this is the first time I’ve dated someone so i feel like it probably won’t be the only Time but I’m scared that If we do decide to break up one day we might not be friends anymore :(
Am single and patiently waiting
How to tell if a girl likes you? She leaves paper airplanes for you to find.
thats me 👀
I do care
I am real Original like Lesbian in my real most lovely that it's you so happy lesbian girl 🏳️🌈🌈
"There's no straight answer"
😂😂😂 no there's not! She's right!
I’m late to this video, I really want to buy one for your shirts, But I haven’t come out yet 😭😭😭😭😭
I feel u
I am fully gay now 2022 🏳🌈🏳🌈🏳🌈
my pfp is me when i forgor 💀to set my intentions with my now gf sinse yesterday… I want long term but wait what if she just wants to be casual this is so scary now
My girlfriend and I are happily together!!!!
Aw this is super cute!!!!
So there’s this SUPER cute Alt girl(she’s bi) and I’ve been crushing on her for months now…I don’t know if she likes me but she keeps smacking my butt and ?flirting? I don’t know how to flirt and she’s asked me multiple times to marry her? Is this friendship…???? I’ve never been flirted with??? I don’t think???
May i ask for an update? 😭
I love it
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@@laurenelloise 😊😊🏳️🌈
Well my gf is sad and idk what to do💔
Thanks!
i just realised you used the thanks on multiple videos and im sitting here liek :') this is SUPER KIND OF YOU thank you!!
I just got my first girlfriend today we haven’t told anyone and we are both aren’t out to our parents and our friends don’t know
Ok, I‘m just gonna use this comment section to get my current dating anxiety off my chest.
2 weeks ago I realized that I was open to try out more than friendship with one of my friends. That really overwhelmed me because I‘m over 20 years old and I had never had a thought like that ever in my life. And the thought of not knowing where she stands in all of that made it even worse, I felt nauseous, couldn‘t get my mind off of that thought, had trouble sleeping etc.
So, we met up a week later and I had to let her know, even though it was scary af. To my surprise, after I had told her, she told me that she too has been confused about her feelings for me and that she realized that she felt more for me than a platonic friendship. Which was an option I had talked myself out of happening, in order to not get hurt too much by the denial I was expecting. So 2 weeks ago I learned that I have the capability to develop more feelings than friendship and a week later the girl I was having those feelings towards told me she has feelings for me as well.
Now, I would love to just be happy and let things happen but as I‘m learning, that‘s not how emotions work. I‘m absolutely overwhelmed and tired. I can‘t think about anything else than how I‘m currently feeling, no matter how hard I try to distract myself, and what makes it difficult is that I feel like my emotions are tossing me around, into every possible feeling. First, there‘s happiness and calmness, then a bit later it shifts into anxiety and fear until I feel absolutely drained and then it tosses me into missing her or into feeling like all of this is too fast and that maybe I was wrong about my feelings.
I am going to talk to her about it but currently I‘m just feeling miserable and since I have no prior dating/relationship experience I have no clue what my takeaway from all those changing emotions should be. One thing I did actually realize is that I feel pressure, because she has had feelings for me for months. Whereas I am right at the bloody start. It feels like I have to catch up with a lot of feelings fast, however, that doesn‘t feel natural at all and I do know that it‘s not right. Still, I can feel the pressure of having to live up to her feelings. And then, no matter where this goes, there‘s generally a wonderful connection at stake. We have been friends for a few months and I‘m very glad to have met her because it has been unlike any other friendship I‘ve had. So, that also makes dating more scary because I don‘t wanna lose her.
Lastly, everyone I‘ve talked to tells me about their experiences from the perspective of being deeply in love with the s/o right away. That‘s not what I‘m feeling right now so it feels like something isn‘t going right. Would be nice if someone could confirm that not every relationship starts out with only positive feelings and that anxiety in the early stages can be normal :/ Anyways, it was good to just write it out. And Lauren, thank you for your advice! ❤
There is no rush, take things slow. If she cares about you she’ll understand.
@@racerxtreme Thank you! 🙏 Unfortunately my fears really wore me down to a point where I realized that I am not ready yet for a relationship 🙃 It was really embarrassing being the person that initiated everything and then having to backpaddle two weeks later and asking her if we could take it back to a friendship 😬 But she reacted really sweet and understanding so now we're friends again and both working through the "aftermath" of that situation 🙆♀️ At least now I know exactly what I have to work on to be ready for my next experience 🙇♀️
@@laurawe9055 That's amazing! happy to know you two are still friends :)
@@racerxtreme thanks a lot 🙏☺️