TOP 20 LESBIAN STEREOTYPES (Which Ones Are True?)
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 14. 12. 2022
- Which of the TOP 20 LESBIAN STEREOTYPES are TRUE? Do lesbians move fast? All lesbians hate men? Lesbians love the L Word? Let's find out! đ
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In our chemistry classroom, someone wrote on the desk where I sit at: "Do you listen to girl in red?" and so many people wrote yes beneath it, I just find that so cute :)
OH MY GODDDD ROOM FULL OF GAYS
I don't know who girl in red isđ
@@laurenelloisehii lauren!!! ive been watching ur vids for a while and i need advice.(u dont have to reply btw)
sooo i (15 F) have a bit of a crush on my (also 15 F) best friend. sheâs legit the prettiest girl ever and matches my sense of humor perfectly, and weâve known each other for a few years now. sheâs been questioning her sexuality recently (btw im omni, found out last year and out to mostly everyone like my parents and friends, im glad to say theyâre very supportive) and iâve been helping her through that, but she knows she likes girls. every time i see her, all the stuff im worried about just.. vanishes. saying i have a âbit of a crushâ on her was a litotes. i love her. like, i know im young, but i legit love her. when sheâs around my face goes red. that kind of crushing. im thinking of telling her but im not sure yet, so iâve been dropping hints as of late, and i think sheâs starting to get it. Alana, if youâre reading this, i love you so much it hurts.
@@dcgamergirl2447 basically a gay singer who makes gay music. but even gay aside, her music is great. 12/10, would recommend.
i love girl in red (im lesbian)
As a demisexual lesbian, I always found it really strange how some people could just look at someone and say that they like them without getting to know them first. I have had two crushes in my life and they were both quite intense crushes. I also had known them as a friend for a few months before I started to catch feelings. I can acknowledge when someone is attractive but that doesn't automatically mean that I like them.
are we the same person
I literally have 5 crushes on different guys RN its like I'm making my own Herman lol I actually confessed to one of them though last month it happen in the library I told him I liked him and he SAID HE LIKED ME TOO!! I was literally shocked I never expected him to like me back I always thought if I confessed to either one of my many crushes they would have rejected me and honestly he's like my soulmate, there's things he likes that I also like and even though we're dating now I still have crushes on the other guys plus I told him I was bi and he doesn't mind he's so supportiveđ
@@applepie8308 that's great! happy for u !!
I am exactly the same, I am demiromantic, lesbian, and asexual. I've only ever had a crush/been in a relationship with 1 girl, and we knew each other for years before we started to catch feelings.
@@Zendarolin literally past me
i think the hating men one comes more from the realization that we no longer need to care about them. If we were attracted to men, we'd let some of it brush by the wayside, we'd let it hit a little softer, and we'd excuse it (perhaps subconsciously). But we don't have to care about them anymore, so we have no reason to do any of that. There's no reason to just let it go. We notice the bad actions more and we are more unabashedly vocal when we see them.
this is true! Since realising I was lesbian, I've cared for men less and less. I wouldn't say I hate them, but I have no reason to care for them, especially when I catch them doing something weird or gross. Like when I see guys talking to girls at bars/clubs, I know it's none of my business but I always look over once every so often to make sure the guys not doing something weird to make the girl uncomfortable and if he is, I'd more than likely go over there. Whether it's my place to or not, I wouldn't let some guy make someone else uncomfortable. I've been in situations like that and have wished someone would help me out. I'm always vocal about bad actions.
About "the urge to merge", I feel like people who have been in a relationship for a while start to look alike. Even in straight couples
I was told my partner and I look like siblings đ
I know right!? đ«ą also dang, me and Erin have this list going every time someone says we are sisters, maybe you need to start a list? Hahah
Taurus here lol. I personally think that many lesbians just tend to dislike men a little more because they don't have the blinders up from being attracted to them. They see them for who they are instead of being more forgiving because they're attracted to them.
So true, also they have a lot of experience regarding some sexist remarks or horrendous phrases from men like "I'll fix you" or "Can I be the third one with you two, girls" etc Lesbians hear those all the time unfortunately as well as many other frightening things. And straight girl would never hear that from her boyfriend or male friend. So if some lesbians have a bit of fear and dislike towards men I think this is the reason.
100%. And straight women still want to be wanted by men, so they deal with their dumb bullshit or are straight up socialized to think "well boys are better and so are their opinions and they are smart and wow look how tall and muscular! He may be a sexist but he can buy u a new bag!"
As a bi woman, i can take or leave men, and most of them are not worth taking, and I simply do not deal with their shit. I do not need them, I find plenty of joy in being single or with a woman. I talk crazy to them, no fucks to give. And i'm cute so it's hilarious watching them fumble trying to impress me with their lack of emotional intelligence and masculine lack of self awareness while I talk down to them lol
I totally agree with the part where you said that gay women are usually more aware when men are being sexist or bigoted. It definitely has a lot to do with the fact that we deal with homophobia. But from my experience, lesbophobia is never just regular homophobia, especially from men. Itâs usually misogyny combined with homophobia. So when combined, the misogynistic and homophobic comments from men, combined with the fact that most of us have little to no attraction to men, it makes sense how it could come off as us hating men.
"All lesbians like cats" is one stereotype that is kinda true because statistically queer women own most cats.
me with 6 đ„č well 2 where fostercats but a little over 2 years now I only have 4 so nobone gets in deep shock
You forgot the stereotype that lesbians fall for their best friend!!
AHHH THIS ONEEEEEEE DAMN SO TRUE
I am so different from a lot of queer girls because I like taking things slow, and I grew up very feminine despite being bi. About the teacher one, haven't really had a crush on an english or drama teacher, but in 11th grade I had a big crush on my chemistry teacher, because she was very pretty. Anyways another great video Lauren : )
âPut your hand up if you was a tomboy growing upâ I put my hand up straight away lol
Same đ
AAA MY GIRLFRIEND JUST TOLD ME SHE LOVED ME WHILE IM WATCHING THIS ITS NOT THE FIRST TIME BUT IT JUST GETS MY HEART EVERY TIME
I loved it when you yelled get your mind out of the gutter
HAHAHAH
Pisces here, cat lover, men hater, can't sit straight and I have short nails, I think I have more than 50% of the stereotypes
I fit a LOT of these stereotypesđ
I definitely had a crush on my englisch teacher, who, as a bonus, was also my teacher in the drama elective.
You get 200 points for that one đ«ą
This certainly is an interesting 12Gays series. I never have seen an episode of The L Word because it's unavailable in my country but I've always wanted tođ Also wearing over-sized clothes has become a stereotype for us Bi people too so the judgmental mentality is real. And as for me, I had a crush on both my English and Science teachers in High School.
Loads of Love đâ€ïž
A big belief in astrology is a red flag to me. Fine if you believe in it, despite it having no scientific back up. But if you judge people based on where the stars and planets are, it is a no from me
I feel this!! Itâs fun when itâs just playful and general but if youâre like âwe canât date bc our signs arenât compatibleâ then nOpE bYe đ
Every gay has their quirky differences but we all hv some things in common like lots of us watch girl in red and its so fun to get to know the cute things that we hv in common â€
I felt CALLED OUT when the âcanât sit in chairs properlyâ one came up. đ I thought I was just weird-
OH MY GOSH GIRL IN RED IS SO GOOD I ACTUALLY WENT THROUGH A PHASE WHERE I LISTENED TO A BUNVH OF SONGS ABOUT GAY RELATIONSHIPS WHEN I WAS ''STRAIGHT' AND I STILL TOOK ME AGES AFTER THAT TO REALISE I WASNT HAHAHA
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Hi! đ
@@LanaCookii hola!!
@@laurenelloise Bonjour
1 thing I love about your channel and just you in general is you break the stereotypes. Everybody thinks that lesbians are automatically manish looking and muscular. You break those stereotypes and prove not every lesbian looks like that.
aww thank you! I think itâs part of my subconscious mission, because I really struggled when I was first coming to terms with my sexuality, bc I was always taught that lesbian looked a certain way
Hey Lauren, my star sign is Pisces âïž. Thank you for another great video, Iâve been heart broken by a straight girl and it sucks. I wish if I could get merch from you because you are such an inspiration. Canât wait for another video from the 12 Gays of Christmas, but I donât want it to end. đ
Ahh I loved this đ„°
Also thank you so much for the effort your putting this series, I know it must take so much time but itâs honestly so appreciated. Your helping so many of us †xx
You're welcome đ and thank YOU so much for being here and watching đ€đ€đ€đ€
sagittarius âïž! itâs our season
as a bisexual this was fun to watch lmao i didn't know that many ppl had crushes on teachers personally i've never had a crush on a teacher
About the style one, my style has changed a lot since coming out. When I first came out, I was a lot more femme but now it's more of a combination. Coming out has given me a lot more confidence in myself, so I feel like my style is more me than it ever has been and I'm comfortable with it
My sign is sagittarius âïž
Iâve had crushes on soooo many female teachers! The most notable one was my first PE teacher in secondary school, but yes, some of the female drama, music, Dutch (my native language), English and biology teachers as well.
Love this love you BUT THE NATIVE PERFUME AD đ
regarding the having a crush on an english or drama teacher and why there were so many falses. At least in my case my english teachers were men and i've never had a drama class. so that would be a false by default.
My personality:
Q1 - No
Q2 - No
Q3 - No
Q4 - Yes
Q5 - No
Q6 - No
Q7 - Yes (I am a tomboy)
Q8 - No
Q9 - No
Q10 - No
Q11 - No
Q12 - No (I don't know her)
Q13 - No (I never did anything)
Q14 - No (I didn't watch it)
Q15 - Yes
Q16 - No
Q17 - Yes/No (I love the tomboy look)
Q18 - No
Q19 - No
Q20 - Yes/No
Sorry for the long answers.
How about not willing to date a bi girl? Bi phobia within the lesbian community. Ive literally been looking for a gf for two years and have been shot down so much by gay women.
yeah i've heard of this stereotype before, but i've never experienced it myself. i was in a long term relationship with a bi, girl, and also have dated bi girls. it makes me really sad to hear that you have experienced that. the right kind of woman would never judge you for ur sexuality đ€đ€đ€
Hi Lauren I just wanna say your videos are very helpful!! Btw I've never been this early to watch a video before (8 minutes after it was posted)!!
Ahhhh congrats on being so early!! And yay Iâm so glad theyâre helpful ! đ€
I watch all your videos but I often forget to comment lol. Anyway, been here for over three years now I think. Keep up the good work Lauren.
I remember ur icon/username! đ thanks for sticking around for so long! Appreciate you !!
@@laurenelloise Also, I'm from Eastern Europe. You were kinda my introduction to Australian life (you and Eurovision lol).
I actually do roll my dubok pants up for taekowndo. I also love to wear a flannel shirt on top of my short sleave shirt with fleece pants when it's actually cold out. plus my astrology sign is aries, and i am bisexual trans woman with Down Syndrome.
@That clone trooper in the back on the high ground because i love my name right now. I will change it when I am cleared for Gender Reassignment Surgery. It has been less than year with my therapist. Hopefully by march i will be cleared to actually wear women's clothes.
Girl in Red must be a generational thing
oh yeah totally! i think it only started a few years ago (maybe 3?) at the earliest
đ Also, I've always been a tomboy but I also love every chance I get to wear a dress (I'm a weirdo) but when you showed those hot wheels cars for a second, that very front silver car, I totally had. I also named all of my hotwheels, and that particular one was called "Silvery" lol
The cats.... the cats... Apparently that's me, because of a single stray.... I have too many cats. But still prefer horses, as my always favourite animal, and friend...
These are so true
I finally got a girlfriend her names laykn
And we had our FIRST KISS!!!
2 days ago
Ahhhhh this is so cute congratulations đ
yayyyyy she posted!!!!
yewwwww and ur early yaaassss
I love this series sm
ahhhhh tysm!!! ty for watching!!!
omg I am lesbian and I can relate to this soo much, also i'm newly out so ur channel makes be feel a heel of a lot better
2:24 I turned my straight girl crush bi and now weâre dating so I did pretty well đđ
10:55 the English teacher didnât teach me English but she did teach my friends English does that count?
@thatclonetrooperinthebacko3254 why thank youđž
I think when a lesbian kisses a straight girl they find out that girls are better kissers than men so they finally realise they're better off with the same sex. As a trans Male I'm aware that I still have a vagina but I identify as a male. But more femme and more understanding towards girls. Because ive been there.
No sexually but I get it.
Some if these questions i couldnât answer because i myself am Aromantic and the only lesbian I know but I can say that i have 8 flannels/button ups/plaid shirts. I personally would categories myself as Femme despite my collection of flannels and i am 100% a cat person. I also love the idea of owner birds but thats not a lesbian thing. I fully believe that you can be both a top and bottom and being a top doesnât necessarily mean your a dom and being a bottom doesnât mean you are a sub. I personally am a bottom and a sub but that doesnât apply to everyone and Iâm very passionate about that. I love Girl In Red and I donât sit in chairs properly. The closest I get is legs crossed and i can only do that for so long. But ill sit with my legs fully spread, one leg on the armrest, criss-crossed, on my knees, sitting on one if my legs, my legs laying on each other beside me.
I am also a Taurus and i can only roughly name the general month half the signs belong to.
Two times i asked a girl out and they said they were straight
As a bi girl I say almost all of these are probably true đđ
Itâs the Virgo in us, we donât care too much about astrology except for when you meet someone you really like
Ayyyy legit so true tho đ
About the crushing on English/Drama Teachers; Iâve only crushed on one of my French teachers before.
I love this video. I had no idea there were more stereotypes than just flannel and girl in red, though I am guilty of both.
Love the eye makeup đ€
Thank you!! I tried to make it like the lesbian flag!
Me: I canât help it but um I happen to love all females only , but my love for them is way too strong that I canât really control.
One of my highlights of these Christmases
Aww đ„° yayyyyyy
As you said these are stereotypes which might be true for some, but definitely not for all.
The only stereotypes I've experienced with wlw relationships I know is that they're interested in astrology and moved fas in relationships.
I've watched all the episodes of the classical L-Word and the first season of Generation Q. I know some who never watched it at all. I would say, however, that most lesbians who are currently in their 40's or 50's did watch it.
So many terms in this I get so lost
CHAPSTICK?
Phenomenal job with your series so far, great content, keep it up, you're an amazing lesbian, much love and support for you my friend â€ïžđđč
thanks so much for your support! and congrats on being so early!! rlly glad ur enjoying the series so far!
@@laurenelloise You're very welcome, appreciate you sharing the great Ltgbq content đ€đ
Same!!! I fell for a straight girl and found out years later she's bi.
I was a complete tomboy until 6th grade when I came out as enby
Hii so exited:))
omg congrats on being first comment!
As a non-binary person in a relationship with a bi man, the urge to merge is real, and least on my end, not sure about my bf
I took 3 months to understand that I loved a girl, and then it took us 6 months to say each other, and it makes 2 months since this day and I hadn't kiss her yet, so we might be an exception...
heya lauren Elloise ,hope its going good with you, im a new sub to your channel and had gone back on your channel and whatched alot of your vids and realy think your a great insperation ,love from Micayla Smit from South-Africa
I'm Libra and I really love atrology lol
It is on Netflix and they brought back new episodes called the L Word Generation Q season 3 just started
Hi Lauren im happy your a Virgo too because Iâm a Virgo as well and Virgos are the best đđ„°
No wayyyyyy best sign đ€đ€đ€
true , I agree
I have a cat and 2 dogsđ my cat is the only man who has never disappointed me lol
I'm a lesbian but I love watching gay movies, for example I am completely obsessed with the young royals, and all my favourite celebrities are gay men.
What's wrong with me đŠ
I can not sit at all oof- it's either i'm siting with my back down and legs on different ways or not siting at all XD
I don't even know "the l word "? owo
Yes đ I agree
In my life its:
1. Im lesbian and im not interested in it
2. Yes its fast also in my life
3. Yes tottaly
4. Yes=(
5. No i have lot of male friends I dont hate them
6. Im asexualXD so undecided
7. Yea people always mistaken me with personality and look for boy
8. Not really. Some people may have it like that but most of people are switching
9. It can happen in few things but not all
10. Not all. They may but not necessarily
11. Yes. I have short nails all lesbians i know have short nails so..
12. Most of us yes
13. I cant tell as asexual
14. I never heard about it. Most of people dont have them
15. I have short hair but i date lesbian with long hair
16. No. Its more like community socializing
17. Yes. I love them my gf loves them WE LOVE THEM!
18. I never had i dont know anyone with crush on teacher
19. No. All males i know are fine like everyone there is no gender difference
20. Most of yes but not all
Hi Lauren I love ur videos
ahhhhhh thank you anna!!!!
Bed death as people call it is true for everyone. It's not a gay or straight thing. People who are in relationships for long enough just get tired of the same things over and over. That's why you find open relationships more common now, a lot more poly is seen, etc.
Thanks!
Vee!!!! THANK YOUUUUU SO MUCH đ„șđđ I hope you have the best day today. sending hugs
No problem!
Wonderful birthday gift
Oh my gosh HAPPY BIRTHDAY đ„ł đ€
OMG GIRL IN RED YESSSS
âïž Capricornđ
niceeee, we would def get along well!!
I have a cat dog and Guinea pigs :)
I have not fallen for a straight girl. Didn't even have a crush on a straight girl.
1. I donât know much about astrology but I love it. Itâs my favorite part of science
2. Kinda, I move in relationships extremely quickly but I never get over past relationships unless Iâm in one
3. SO TRUE!!!!!
4. YES!!!!
5. Not at all, most girls get along with girls better as friends but only date guys and Iâm the opposite. I get along with guys better as friends but only date girls
6. Iâve never slept with anyone but from what Iâve heard, yeah
7. I was actually pretty girly as a kid but I grew up to be pretty androgynous now. I mean, toys didnât have gender to me at all. A kid at my Christian pre school got mad at me for playing with cars because they were âboy toysâ but I played with every toy
8. FALSE, I think Iâm a switcher
9. I donât think weâd be the exact same person but I feel like sheâll introduce me to some things and Iâll get interested in them and Iâll introduce things to her and sheâll get interested in them but it wonât always be the exact same interests
10. I love both cats and dogs. Iâm allergic to cats though
11. Yep, I have extremely short nails. Mainly because Iâm a nail biter though
12. YEP!!! Number 2 artist on Spotify wrapped 2022
13. Probably false, I feel like this happens to all couples once they get older
14. I wanna watch it but Iâve never seen any of it but I donât have whatever it is on
15. I mean, I want to cut my hair short but my mom wonât let me
16. I mean, it kinda is but shouldnât be
17. No, i do roll my jeans up and occasionally wear flannels but I have sensory issues with clothes and I prefer to just wear a t shirt and shorts
18. MaybeâŠ
19. No, I realized extremely young (I was 8, I had a crush on my best friend )
20. Nope, Iâm pretty androgynous
i think iâm more towards âbutchâ than femme đ đ (even tho iâm Bi)
âLove astrology, move quickly in relationships, but can sit properly, has fallen for a straight girl, wasn't really tomboy, do love cats, have long nails, do listen to Girl In Red, have long hair, I don't wear those outfits described though, did have a bad experience with a guy, I'm 100% femme, and of course I'm lesbian đ
actually I had a crush on my aerial teacher/science teacher, but she wanted to be an english teacher
... that is so interesting omgggg!! đ
i am a lesbian and a virgo leo cusp
im an aquarius and my sign fits me perfectly
oooof nice, my gf is also Aquarius
I personally am lesbian but am not into astrology. I mean itâs cool that people like it, but I just donât think itâs accurate at all. :â) I mean, Iâm the literal opposite of my sign. Iâm an Aries, a fire sign, and Iâm supposed to be âcourageous, extroverted, strong-headed, confident, fierce, pushy.â Meanwhile Iâm a lover of nature and earth, and I am extremely introverted and socially anxious. I hate my sign being aries
Why is no one talking about the elderly couple doing the rude finger đ
I know Iâm late to the video but you said leave your star sign Iâm a LEO âïž and I follow it to a T also I just found your videos like half a month ago already love you also Iâm a pansexual non-binary they/them but look fem also love you and gal-pals relationship yâall are so cute â€
Hey Lauren â€ïžâđ„â€ïžâđ„
hey!!! tysm for being so early! đ
I don't know if you'll see this now but heyy!
Tbh, some stereotypes are really true but to all the gays out there, you don't have to fit all of them!!
I see it!!! yeah, some fit me perfectly, and others donât. And thatâs okay! It isnât a checklist where you HAVE cross off everything to be gay
@@laurenelloise Yes definetly!
I never sit properly on chairs
I'm a capricorn â
You missed one statement: all lesbians wear silver jewlery and/or a ring in veery finger but the weddingfinger.
I'm a libra and my friend was like "you are definitely a libra ha ha your name might as well be libra"
Iâm a Scorpio but my mum and me both think I would be a better libra haha â€
Iâm a Virgo :)
I always hated stereotypes but some of them are true
yeah, I feel you!! Some of them just match me so well, but also thereâs some I just want to break
I'm a virgo too!
Yesssssss đ
đđđ€ŁI am an English teacher
The nail thing I think with bi girls is a mystery because like any other hetro girl they like to get long acrylic nails look at melanie Martinez for example you would never know she was bi because of her long acrylic nails and very girl style. But like to think most bi girls have their fingernails cut to a medium.
CRUSH ON ENGLISH TEACHER CHECKS OUT. I KNEW IT WASN'T ONLY ME
Aries