How To Flirt With A Girl - LGBT Edition

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  • čas přidán 27. 08. 2019
  • How to flirt with a girl/woman, or pretty much anyone you like - here is our best advice! We break it down for you into a few simple steps so that anyone can master the art of flirting :)
    Also, we share a few personal stories of how Lilian used to suck at flirting, and what tricks Alexis pulled on Lilian when we first met.
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    Thank you for watching!
    Please subscribe and give this video a like if you enjoyed it, it helps us a lot :)
    And now it's time for you to share YOUR flirting tips - how do you go about chatting up your crush, what's the best advice you can give?
    Let's learn from each other ;)
    Love,
    A + L
    / one99four
    / liliangessner
    / alexisandlilian

Komentáře • 435

  • @AlexisLilian
    @AlexisLilian  Před 4 lety +362

    It's nice to be back! We missed you guys! So, do tell - any flirting tips or stories to share? ☺

    • @eeee3110
      @eeee3110 Před 4 lety +3

      Alexis and Lilian no, I’m terrible at flirting, either genders... 😂

    • @jordanvannadier2266
      @jordanvannadier2266 Před 4 lety +8

      I dont know how to start a conversation with a Cashier haha honestly i like her but is just weird if there is a fucking line behind me 😭 she is nice amd maybe a feel a lil vibe but im unsure... Public flirting no good... Ugh but i do really like her, any advice?!

    • @valerierails3283
      @valerierails3283 Před 4 lety +5

      I like this girl in one of my classes at the community college i go to. I know she has a baby but i dont know if she is still with the father. How do i find out? How do i know if she may like me? She seems to only talk to me in class and always sits by me. She asks my opinions on whats going on in class and we even follow each other on insta. Any advice or tips?

    • @dxaxnxi8277
      @dxaxnxi8277 Před 4 lety +2

      Just that twice now I’ve had a girl flirt with me and I was completely oblivious to it until a friend of theirs happened to tell me later that that’s what they were doing. Twice. 🙃 Two different groups of people. Moral of the story I’m a dummy . 😂

    • @hammy_yamma
      @hammy_yamma Před 3 lety

      I was able to find though my crush likes me and I'm lesbian so thank

  • @Delphini_Zucchini
    @Delphini_Zucchini Před 3 lety +900

    “You’re a human, their a human”
    My crush is an angel and I am a toad.

  • @katietaylor9140
    @katietaylor9140 Před 4 lety +852

    The video:
    The ad: Hey women, don't you want to know how to make any man fall for you?
    That's not... why I'm here

  • @jordanelizabethsaldua1292
    @jordanelizabethsaldua1292 Před 4 lety +1474

    The way you look at each other omg the chemistry

    • @chazzmania7738
      @chazzmania7738 Před 4 lety +8

      Ikr

    • @readygi
      @readygi Před 3 lety +12

      literally. this video made me so happy

    • @alanaban1840
      @alanaban1840 Před 8 měsíci

      We know who is the man 😢/ man and woman a perfect couple

  • @Elle-qb4qq
    @Elle-qb4qq Před 4 lety +654

    “ no pick up lines “
    Straight boys:👁👄👁

  • @justkatierose
    @justkatierose Před 4 lety +1079

    When you’re femme and into femmes and all the cuties think you’re straight. 😢

  • @kathyshoeshop2324
    @kathyshoeshop2324 Před 3 lety +429

    My wife and I are 65 and love watching you 2!

  • @JimmyR2023
    @JimmyR2023 Před 4 lety +513

    Always approach flirting with friendliness, respect and mutual consent and go from there.

    • @78hundred2
      @78hundred2 Před 3 lety +9

      This is always the way to go 👏

  • @moist7302
    @moist7302 Před 4 lety +891

    How to flirt with a girl:
    bE cOnFiDeNt

  • @mayaella5865
    @mayaella5865 Před 4 lety +358

    I love how Alexis is looking at Lilian when she talks, it seems like she is really listening
    Also you can sense their energy so intensely

  • @CL-je6sv
    @CL-je6sv Před 4 lety +155

    I literally just took notes.

  • @walther2492
    @walther2492 Před 4 lety +647

    A few weeks ago. After a really bad day, i was sitting in a bar. A girl aproached me. "Hi, i am Michelle. And you are?..." "...not interested."
    The face she made was priceless. 😅
    After a few minutes, i payed her bill to apologize for my behavior.
    We spent the complete last weekend in the bed.

  • @fish_toes
    @fish_toes Před 4 lety +229

    In high school i had a crush on this girl that barely knew i existed and i was rarely able to talk to. The one time i got that chance, i tried complimenting her triforce necklace but panicked and forgot the word "necklace" for a hot minute and just awkwardly stood there for like ever just trying to remember the word 😖

    • @remi1279
      @remi1279 Před 3 lety +11

      Ahhh I’m in the exact same situation!

    • @lilylovedchild
      @lilylovedchild Před 3 lety +27

      The gay panic was real 😅

    • @cerealkillerrxD
      @cerealkillerrxD Před 2 lety +2

      Me in high school I had this huge crush on a Girl and asked her the time LMAOO she didn’t even hear me either djsjsjs

    • @teashe
      @teashe Před 8 měsíci +1

      Thats cute tho

    • @wysgit9829
      @wysgit9829 Před 8 měsíci

      @@cerealkillerrxD oh damn I feel you on another level lol

  • @ansleybrittingham822
    @ansleybrittingham822 Před 4 lety +201

    This is the same way my girlfriend and I flirted when we first met! She kept giving me the eyes and I had to kiss her! Which was crazy for me because I had never been so assertive but it just felt natural with her in that moment. ☺️

  • @aimeecarr5977
    @aimeecarr5977 Před 4 lety +132

    You ladies are super good at flirting!! there something that girls really like that you didn't mention but that Lilian does often, is looking at a girls lips... you said the non verbal flirting which is super powerful but also breaking eye contact and looking at places on HER that'll make her feel wanted. Immediately breaks the barrier. You Ladies are insanely awesome!!

  • @MisaAmaneSupremacy
    @MisaAmaneSupremacy Před 3 lety +50

    A girl literally flirted with me I literally panicked and ran away 😖 I’m taking notes 📝

  • @finalbraincell460
    @finalbraincell460 Před 4 lety +54

    „It’s hot in here, maybe it’s you” 🤣🤣🤣

  • @MlleNnCo
    @MlleNnCo Před 4 lety +253

    Appreciate seeing that you two really take the time to help the rest of us still hustling that single life.😖🤣

  • @hannahh.
    @hannahh. Před 4 lety +37

    9:10 I haven't heard anyone pronounce 'bag' that way for so long after moving out of Minnesota. Legit gave me instant nostalgia, especially for the first funny moment I had when I wasn't pronouncing it the same as people from other areas.

  • @SV-fc3px
    @SV-fc3px Před 3 lety +23

    "think of it as someone you really wanna be friends with" but then how do you make it clear you're also interested romantically?

  • @AkitaMix
    @AkitaMix Před 3 lety +21

    flirting is easy, maintaining the kind of relationship where you end up being serious with each other is another story

  • @chaoticsofea999
    @chaoticsofea999 Před 3 lety +44

    My worse thing i ever said to a girl is...your hand is so pretty babe
    I swear i died a little right after i said that

  • @BruhMoment-kk2kb
    @BruhMoment-kk2kb Před 4 lety +39

    Opposite of my problem, i need to learn how to stop flirting less.
    Its like a second nature to me,
    I too also flirt without realizing it 😳

  • @emilyscloset2648
    @emilyscloset2648 Před 4 lety +23

    gotta say this was a masterclass in eye movements and facial expressions

  • @mirali3162
    @mirali3162 Před 4 lety +86

    you don't know how much the both of you remind me of her..
    we were such an amazing couple just like you...
    please keep uploading videos the way you look at each other makes me believe in love again
    great love from Syria.. ❤️🇸🇾🌈

  • @janoxz2101
    @janoxz2101 Před 4 lety +21

    even if i am Muslim i support whatever you do and whatever you like its very person choice to be himself as you guys said best of luck in your life.

  • @CelticGinger
    @CelticGinger Před 4 lety +52

    Thank you so much. I have a anxiety disorder and been out the loop with dating women so I’ve had absolutely no idea how to ask my crush out. This helps 💕

    • @AlexisLilian
      @AlexisLilian  Před 4 lety +15

      Yay! Go get her! 😊♥️

    • @emilymarsh9883
      @emilymarsh9883 Před 4 lety +1

      What happened??

    • @CelticGinger
      @CelticGinger Před 4 lety +8

      So I told her how I felt and I didn’t get really much of a response out of her.. anxiety is so high because she’s still giving me signals

    • @emilymarsh9883
      @emilymarsh9883 Před 4 lety +5

      Elizabeth S I’m so proud of you for telling her my dude!! I wonder what’s going on. Maybe she just didn’t want it to be awkward bc she still wants to be friends OR maybe she likes you too and wanted to take it slow??? I’m sorry your anxiety is so high because of it. Of course you should do whatever you think is right, but I say just take it slow but if your anxiety keeps getting worse or stays like this, tell her about it. I feel like I would want to know if I was causing someone I cared about (even as a friend) more anxiety

    • @CelticGinger
      @CelticGinger Před 4 lety +11

      Emily Marsh so what happened was she was supposedly uncomfortable by me but only told our friends. I was completely out the loop and found out from a friend of a friend.. needless to say things got me towards me when I confronted them for hiding this detail . Felt like such a idiot & day drank when I found out. The bright side of the story is even though it was painful I found out that woman isn’t for me ; a week later one my navy pals confessed her feelings. We’re waaay more compatible =,)

  • @artemismoonrose
    @artemismoonrose Před 3 lety +11

    The girl I like recently slipped into our conversation that she “loves” me, but it didn’t sound romantic, but even before, and since, she always finds reason to touch me. Also, our hugs have gotten longer and tighter. However, she seems like she doesn’t like me to reciprocate in the same ways, like flirty comments, casual touches, she kinda pulls away. Does she want to be the pursuer but not the pursued? But when we go shopping, in which the last time was the occasion she told me that she loves me, we act like a couple, it feels different than just shopping with someone who’s “just” a friend. She knows I have a crush on her, and stated at the time that she isn’t ready to be in another relationship again. But every time we’re together we seem to get physically closer. She’s super busy all the time, but will make time for me, without me asking for it. We’re friends, but it just feels like there’s something else there too, like we’re unofficially a thing. If we end up being official, she’d be my first lesbian relationship, since I’m MTF transgender and only ever dated cis het women, so I have no idea what I’m doing. Any additional advice you two have?

  • @Mx.Lucinda
    @Mx.Lucinda Před 4 lety +93

    Omg I love you guys!! 🥰 I’m brand new to the LGBTQ community so I don’t have a lot of experience with this... at all. And I’m really appreciative of these videos! Thank you!

    • @AlexisLilian
      @AlexisLilian  Před 4 lety +19

      Aw thank you! And that’s exciting, welcome to our amazing community! 😊

  • @conniehsu5110
    @conniehsu5110 Před 4 lety +51

    How to flirt with a gal?
    Be good looking first....

  • @bbi1965
    @bbi1965 Před 3 lety +8

    'Kiss me' eyes is great! What about alternating looking into her eyes and looking at her mouth? That's what Alexis and Lilian do but they didn't mention it. She'll notice that you're looking at her mouth and pick up on what you're thinking. Also, being a little touchy-feely is good, too, but not too so much as to be offputting.

  • @scubagoldfish45
    @scubagoldfish45 Před 4 lety +22

    I get so many good tips from you! Now I just have to remember to go where people are to use them! 😆

  • @ipshita154
    @ipshita154 Před 4 lety +13

    It was good to see you guys after such a long time. Happy to see that you are doing well. ❤

  • @alanna9497
    @alanna9497 Před 4 lety +86

    How everybody else flirts with their girlfriend: uR sOoO pReTtY! ;)
    How me and my girlfriend flirt: *UR GREATER THAN BUBBLE GUPPIES EPISODE 23*

  • @hfortenberry
    @hfortenberry Před 4 lety +6

    This was so fun! Y'all are so dang CUTE! The main thing is to just be yourself. Then you will attract the person who likes you for you. And I really love the advice about think of the person as a friend. I learned to do that as well and that is a great way to make it feel less pressure and more playful. Great advice!

  • @xhappyyme
    @xhappyyme Před 4 lety +3

    It's so fine to see you back!!! Thank you for sharing these tips! :)

  • @mayaella5865
    @mayaella5865 Před 4 lety +16

    I love you guys so much, you are one of the few youtubers I really enjoy watching... Quality content, thank you so so much for putting all that work into the videos

    • @AlexisLilian
      @AlexisLilian  Před 4 lety +4

      Thank you!! Happy to have you watching ♥️🙌🏻

  • @christinas5990
    @christinas5990 Před 4 lety +22

    I m straight, but it's always nice seeing people being good and happy with each other. You're such a nice couple and I really enjoy your videos. Good job!🤙💚

  • @stephanietitler6318
    @stephanietitler6318 Před 4 měsíci +2

    You guys are both adorable! I love how playful you both are together, which in itself is flirting.
    I do believe that confidence is important with regards to flirting as well as eye contact . have practiced the four second eye contact rule when flirting , you look at someone, make eye contact for four seconds, maybe a smile, and then look away..

  • @yaymbo
    @yaymbo Před 4 lety +13

    A NEW VIDEO!!! YAY THIS IS A GREAT DAY!!!!! I discovered your channel a few months ago and it really helped me finding out who I really am 🌞

    • @jaylyn1065
      @jaylyn1065 Před 4 lety

      Yeah it helps me find you also :D

  • @sarahlizze865
    @sarahlizze865 Před 4 lety +1

    I love when Lilian says "Basta"😂💓 you guys are my everything, I mean it!

  • @oliviars1757
    @oliviars1757 Před 3 lety +1

    binge watching all of your videos rn xx

  • @loveella941
    @loveella941 Před 3 lety +38

    I once made a girl bi without realizing it- I’m proud of myself
    👁 👄 👁
    YUHH

  • @mariasaojose1955
    @mariasaojose1955 Před rokem +1

    You are helping me a lot! I am so thankful!

  • @poppyfowler8760
    @poppyfowler8760 Před 3 lety

    I NEEDED THIS SO MUCH THANKYOU

  • @jessnek5046
    @jessnek5046 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you guys! You’re amazing🙏🥰

  • @rami5608
    @rami5608 Před 4 lety +3

    Loved the make lilian nervous eyes 🤣

  • @alyssav8839
    @alyssav8839 Před 4 lety +88

    *Hey good looking what's cooking* I died 😂

  • @amandamartinez4267
    @amandamartinez4267 Před 4 lety +26

    I love watching your videos because I recently came out as bisexual and your videos have helped me a ton❤️ so thank you and also you guys are such a cute couple!!!🥺❤️

  • @smile_faker2607
    @smile_faker2607 Před 3 lety +10

    I literally searched "how to flirt like a lesbian with a girl" and I got the results I wanted

    • @BeaNeedsADrink
      @BeaNeedsADrink Před 2 lety

      Saaaame here I am. And I’m married to a man. LOL.

    • @villanevatrice
      @villanevatrice Před rokem

      @@BeaNeedsADrink then why are you looking this up

  • @lingartalks
    @lingartalks Před 4 lety +1

    it is always so sweet to see how u gals interact with each other😍

  • @maiaautumne2167
    @maiaautumne2167 Před 4 lety +1

    Hooray you’re back

  • @aliyandacobbinah
    @aliyandacobbinah Před 4 lety +4

    this is such a precious relationship! 😍

  • @ghenaalhadwah1523
    @ghenaalhadwah1523 Před 4 lety +15

    😍😍😍😍😍
    Am i the only one who checks your channel every day for a new vedio!!!!
    You guys are the best ❤️
    Love u boottthhh ❤️❤️

    • @AlexisLilian
      @AlexisLilian  Před 4 lety +4

      aww! sorry to keep you waiting ♥️

    • @ghenaalhadwah1523
      @ghenaalhadwah1523 Před 4 lety +2

      No Please Don't be..
      I suggest you to make a FB page.. To reach the arabic world
      They need to get know u❤️
      All love from syria! ❤️❤️

  • @mariacimpan4286
    @mariacimpan4286 Před 4 lety +4

    You girls are back! Welcome haha! :))) 💙💙💙💙

  • @ph.d.r3334
    @ph.d.r3334 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you! It really helps me so much with my date!

  • @LadyElaineFairchilde
    @LadyElaineFairchilde Před 4 lety +18

    You two are so adorable together!

  • @lenaofthevalley
    @lenaofthevalley Před 4 lety +1

    you guys are so chill wow

  • @kristibernard7641
    @kristibernard7641 Před 4 lety +10

    Missed you two so much. You guys have such great chemistry and no matter the topic I enjoy your videos immensely!

  • @tanyatigermarshall7878
    @tanyatigermarshall7878 Před 4 lety +1

    subbed!!! New to your but I felt total relaxation when I started watching yiur video!

  • @monnniiieee9130
    @monnniiieee9130 Před 4 lety +7

    This came at such a good time 🙂

  • @choalcazar7516
    @choalcazar7516 Před 4 lety +15

    They are look alike. They are meant for each other 😍

  • @analiciarosa7843
    @analiciarosa7843 Před 3 lety

    omg i loved this THANK YOU GUYS!!

  • @anisia792
    @anisia792 Před 4 lety +2

    THANKS! It's really helpful:)

  • @braydened9451
    @braydened9451 Před 2 lety +4

    There's this girl... She's really pretty, we look at each other and smile and we give each other compliments every minute. We follow each other around n shit shes so pretty :)

  • @lilvolcano3311
    @lilvolcano3311 Před 4 lety +1

    You two are the best! Love!

  • @FlowerofDissolution
    @FlowerofDissolution Před 4 lety +9

    It's just sad to see that few likes to this fabulous video. I'm rewatching it because you guys are just great! You are exactly the type of people I need to navigate my queerness. But it has to bi some kind of "social" attack that has diminished this video from having thousands of likes. The people that has their only option of feeling good about themselves by hating other people is behind this for sure, denying everything, of course,
    Ignoring this: I love you two! You are super cute together and I love how you both interact as a couple. It's lovely. I'm far from creating this fairytail-ending of my life., I'll just hope for some betterment of my current situation.

  • @samtheexplorer
    @samtheexplorer Před 4 lety +1

    Thanks so much for this! :) Love your content.

  • @lisevdb9523
    @lisevdb9523 Před 4 lety

    Loving this! This is so helpful. And hopeful cause you two are the cutest! Could you maybe do another edition about online flirting? Because of corona dating is kinda hard. I met this girl and she asked me to videochat. And I will! But it’s hard if you’re new to the dating world and not sure she’s into you or just wanting to be your friend ... Thanks for your posts! Stay healthy!!

  • @TunaMayoSandwhich.
    @TunaMayoSandwhich. Před 3 lety +2

    O my goodness I need this so bad

  • @MichelleECKHU8
    @MichelleECKHU8 Před 4 lety +1

    You two are darling! Great videos! Thank you!!!! 😊

  • @karenstevens7861
    @karenstevens7861 Před měsícem

    Omg. You two are sooooo cute..thanks for all the good advice!!

  • @jayden__4209
    @jayden__4209 Před 4 lety +1

    u guys are so cute together and ur vids really help me out i luv u guys so much :3

  • @amityblight143
    @amityblight143 Před 3 lety

    I needed this

  • @dnnla7460
    @dnnla7460 Před 3 lety +2

    My favorite part are the examples 😂💜

  • @seekinghappy
    @seekinghappy Před 3 lety +1

    This was SUPER helpful!!! Thank you!!!

  • @Vi-qg7pu
    @Vi-qg7pu Před 3 lety

    I’m going on a second date this Saturday. Here to learn! 🤞🏽

  • @Sam-uy7oq
    @Sam-uy7oq Před 4 lety +20

    You ladies are so cute. I just can’t. I’m in love with both of you lol 🥰

  • @picassosdaughter3626
    @picassosdaughter3626 Před 2 lety

    You can tell they really love each other. ❤️

  • @caseymaree4370
    @caseymaree4370 Před 3 lety

    I love you two!! I hope I find this one day. 🤣💗

  • @malinakoschier3874
    @malinakoschier3874 Před 3 lety +4

    them: always talking about "getting what you want"
    me: not knowing what I want bc of dating anxiety
    .
    .
    i love your videos tho

  • @clayin_it_
    @clayin_it_ Před 3 lety

    Your video helped me a lot

  • @ShannonStumbaugh
    @ShannonStumbaugh Před 4 lety

    ahh love you guys! i was in berlin a couple weeks ago... wish i ran into you guys !! :)

  • @annaparrilha
    @annaparrilha Před 3 lety +1

    omg you made me feel so better because I feel so awkward and strange someimes

  • @lilithfairxo7068
    @lilithfairxo7068 Před 4 lety +15

    Alexis's eyes truly are mesmerizing. What a 🦊 foxie.

  • @Peppermintytea
    @Peppermintytea Před 4 lety +1

    You two are so cute! Love your channel.

  • @flyingcat3170
    @flyingcat3170 Před 3 lety

    make a part 2 please. I need this

  • @fairyfay30
    @fairyfay30 Před 4 lety

    thanks for the tips. u guys are so cute together!

  • @TunaMayoSandwhich.
    @TunaMayoSandwhich. Před 3 lety

    I really need this

  • @leograce7734
    @leograce7734 Před 4 lety +5

    Ahhhh I love watching your videos, just swarming in a puddle of love, respect and humour HAHA. Can y’all make a video on a girlxgirl relationship tips/advices?? I’m recently seeing a girl (and I rly like her) and it’s also both of our first time being with a girl and I just thought if you guys had any advices on that!! 😂

    • @emilymarsh9883
      @emilymarsh9883 Před 4 lety

      Grace Lim this would be soo great

    • @emilymarsh9883
      @emilymarsh9883 Před 4 lety

      It’s also a natural next step with how these videos have been progressig

  • @jphappy5300
    @jphappy5300 Před 3 lety

    you guys look very good together!

  • @tudormiller8898
    @tudormiller8898 Před 4 lety

    💗 you two. Watching from London UK. 🇬🇧

  • @PK-uh2yz
    @PK-uh2yz Před 4 lety +19

    For some reason, girls get scared towards the end. They say they are gay but then freak out.
    I'm too old to play childish games. Let's get to the point,
    0r Don't waste my time 😒
    Awesome video 💗

  • @jenvieira4866
    @jenvieira4866 Před 3 lety +2

    You two are so much fun & I love your videos. Thanks, too for being so bi-positive ❤

  • @thegothsista444
    @thegothsista444 Před 4 lety

    I love you guys 🥺

  • @andreapreston2121
    @andreapreston2121 Před rokem +1

    Love this bc you are both stunning 😍😍

  • @tianapitesr8553
    @tianapitesr8553 Před 4 lety

    Very into this one. Thinks she knows what I feel. Wanted to make her laugh tonight though sort of froze!

  • @dominoplay3712
    @dominoplay3712 Před 9 měsíci

    omg you two are so cute! 💜💜

  • @yamisanti4510
    @yamisanti4510 Před 4 lety

    You guys are so cute together 😭😭😍😍❤️🙌😩

  • @vanyagoldsmith5263
    @vanyagoldsmith5263 Před 4 lety +3

    the way you guys look at each other drives ME crazy