USE FEAR TO YOUR ADVANTAGE - Powerful Motivational Video | Jordan Peterson
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- čas přidán 13. 11. 2019
- "You want to get fear behind you, where it’s pushing you forward, instead of in front of you, where it’s stopping you."
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One of the things you see with people, all the time, is that maybe they’re trying to stumble forward, towards their ideal, as poorly defined as it might be, but then they’re afraid, right? They’re afraid about what they might encounter, and that stops them, because fear does stop people. It freezes you, like a prey animal. People move ahead, but then they get afraid, and then they stop moving ahead, and that’s not so good. Negative emotion is a really powerful motivator, so we’re more motivated by negative emotion than positive emotion, quantitatively speaking. Quantitatively speaking, you can measure that. That’s, I think, because we can only be so happy, but we can really be suffering and dead. You have to pay more attention to the negative, and that’s bad, because the negative can stop you.
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So then you think, ok, ‘I’m trying to make this decision. I’m going to try to do something difficult, and isn’t that terrifying.’ And then you think, ‘yeah, but wait a minute. What’s really terrifying is not doing it.’ And then you think about the cost of not doing it. In the Future Authoring Program, we have people do this little meditative exercise, which is, ok, think about your insufficiencies, by your own definition, the way that you don’t do what you know you should do-about the things that you do, that you shouldn’t do, that you know you shouldn’t do beyond a shadow of a doubt. There’s some things like that. That’s bad habits, and poor aim, and resentment, and hatred, and aggression, and unresolved conflicts, and all those things that are dementing and warping you. And then think, ok, those things get the upper hand, man. They get the upper hand, and they take you to the worst possible place you could go in the next three to five years. What exactly does that look like? And so you sketch all that out, and you think, ‘hey, I don’t want to go there.’ The next time that a temptation comes up, you think, ‘well, it’d be a lot better for me if I didn’t succumb to this temptation.’ That’s kind of weak, eh? You’d look a little better if you didn’t eat like a cheesecake a day, or something like that. That’s something, but it’s not the same as, I’m going to have diabetes, and I’m going to lose my damn leg in five years if I don’t get my eating under control. That’s motivating. So then the temptation comes along, and you think, ‘oh, how about no?’ Seriously-how about no? Not just because a higher good would be obtained if I avoided it, but because a terrible catastrophe would be averted if I didn’t.
Well, so you want to get your fear behind you, right? You want to get it behind you, where it’s pushing you forward, instead of in front of you, where it’s stopping you. You get your fear behind you, pushing you forward, by actually thinking through the consequences of not putting your life together, and that the least of those is that you waste it, and suffer. You’re going to suffer anyways, man, so you waste it, and suffer. That’s a bad deal, because, maybe, if you’re going to suffer, you could at least do something noble, glorious, upright, powerful, honourable, admirable, helpful, and difficult. That’s just so much better, and maybe that’s good enough so that you think, ‘hey, a little suffering; it’s basically worth it. At least it’s a way forward.’
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Listening to this man is saving my life.
Mine too brother ♥️
Mine too
Me too he’s like the dad we all wanted lol
Me too man 💙🙏
Well said. In a world that is filling itself with emptiness I’m so happy Jordan Peterson is here.
Dr. Peterson is the father millions of young people they never had
Oh don’t be so daft; he is not anyone’s father but to his own kids. He is simply offering advice based on his experience and opinions - that is NOT fatherhood
Gujudhur Harish Kumar silly comment _ I am a father
Gujudhur Harish Kumar best band I ever draw was Lindesfarn in Camebridge - totally awesome man; lively and charming.
I have three of my own children and they are wonderful individuals
I have also fostered over 40 other children
So listen to some Lindesfarn
Gujudhur Harish Kumar get yummy headphones on and chill out to Lindesfarn: meet me on the corner - check it out on Spotify and report back
Mike - thank you for your words of advice- I will check out “meet me on the corner@ and will report back
“ You’re gonna suffer anyway man!”
Memento Mori
I literally started laughing loudly when he made that statement.
@@LS_LS_LS_LS i dont know its actually pretty scary for me
I felt so free when he said that
I love that thought process at the end
Truly one of the most articulate, impactful, legendary, transforming speakers of our generation. I am blessed to be alive at this moment in history.
Perfectly said my friend! We must protect this great man at all costs from the retarded far left! 👊🏼
I used to think fear was a bad thing until I realised fear is your friend, it is a tool you must utilise in order to push yourself forward and use as motivation, you need to be scared in order to get yourself to work, fear builds resilience. Now the only thing I’m truly scared of is God🙏 czcams.com/video/3FaGZ7Yom8w/video.html
"Get your fear behind you pushing you forward instead of putting it in front of you where it's stopping you!" Damn JP!
Staying home too much and doing nothing is a catastrophe.
This comment hasn't aged well ;)
@@arjun-iv4wr keep on keeping on and good fortune to you
Nothing works. I pursued purpose most of my life and got nothing in return. Its all mostly just luck.
@THE REAL L.C Well, Im in the system (UK) for depression and other things, but teally it's not a chemical imbalance, just a bad life circumstance - hence why I did the future programme so as to plan a way out towards a better life. And in that sense it worked - I definitely have a clear plan of action to get to where I need to go. However, my real problem is insoluable - and, yes, I was brutally honest - what I truly desire is impossible, and the next best realistic option is depressing because it is not good enough. Good enough so that I am willing to strive for it, but not good enough for me to ever believe I will be truly happy or he really motivated to obtain it.
@THE REAL L.C I say its impossible because it involves the literally inpossible (breaking laws of physics etc).
''You want your fear behind you, pushing you forward, instead of in front of you, stopping you''.........Sage wisdom indeed.
I wonder if thats what was meant inTao te ching when they say it is truly best to lead from behind
I used to think fear was a bad thing until I realised fear is your friend, it is a tool you must utilise in order to push yourself forward and use as motivation, you need to be scared in order to get yourself to work, fear builds resilience. Now the only thing I’m truly scared of is God🙏 czcams.com/video/3FaGZ7Yom8w/video.html
"Suffering and not doing anything is a bad deal.. So basically if you gonna suffer you can do atleast something glorious, noble and powerful, admirable, honourable, healthful and difficult.. and that's so much better and maybe good enough that you can say 'hey you know.. little suffering it's basically worth it' atleast it's a way forward"
- Jordan Peterson
I used to think fear was a bad thing until I realised fear is your friend, it is a tool you must utilise in order to push yourself forward and use as motivation, you need to be scared in order to get yourself to work, fear builds resilience. Now the only thing I’m truly scared of is God🙏 czcams.com/video/3FaGZ7Yom8w/video.html
Have no fear your Lord is with you! Even throug suffering.
Jordan Peterson always legendary
Love Jordan Peterson!!!
I used to think fear was a bad thing until I realised fear is your friend, it is a tool you must utilise in order to push yourself forward and use as motivation, you need to be scared in order to get yourself to work, fear builds resilience. Now the only thing I’m truly scared of is God🙏 czcams.com/video/3FaGZ7Yom8w/video.html
Just talking to my sister about something like this, starting our diet.
Being healthy is hard. Being fat is hard. Pick your struggle.
This video is a perfect description of J. Peterson’s best quote
“You're going to pay a price for every bloody thing you do and everything you don't do. You don't get to choose to not pay a price. You get to choose which poison you're going to take. That's it.” -J.Peterson
Man as far as i can tell i’m gonna look back 3-5 years from now and say jordan peterson was the most forthright catalyst to many of the good things going on in my life. Its just so amazing how he demonstrates the breadth of language/thought. I love you man thank you for letting us peer into your beautiful mind/soul, you are a treasure to humanity. :)
Matt Orosco HE IS AND HES UNWELL & HIS WIFE IS DYING - BUT WE’RE HERE AND THINK OF HIM
Agreed, hope we see him back to teach us all again soon.
I used to think fear was a bad thing until I realised fear is your friend, it is a tool you must utilise in order to push yourself forward and use as motivation, you need to be scared in order to get yourself to work, fear builds resilience. Now the only thing I’m truly scared of is God🙏 czcams.com/video/3FaGZ7Yom8w/video.html
I'd recommend be careful of using fear. For me, coming from whatever you want to call my upbringing. I pushed myself for fear of going back to where I started. In all honesty, I was maybe also afraid of what success would be and to lose that. I feel that fear of having to go back to where I started kept me from taking risks. I just did my very best to get by. Not to blossom or make something of myself. I ain't shit and I know I dont come from much. My sister was murdered and I lost 3 brothers to drug over doses. Alexander the Great said that the chain of love is an easy chain to break. It's broken on a whim, for greed or jealous. The chain of fear is the strongest. Men who fear you will not cross you for fear of what you may do. It's high time we talk about fear and love and how to use then to motivate, not just be a feeling. Thank you to anyone hearing this. I appreciate you taking a little of your time.
When he talks about his patients' depression, you can hear the sincerity of his sadness for them.
To all of you that watched this video. I was brought up as a child to be fearless and live great fully. I had made many mistakes and when the collapse comes? I have noticed that the fracking of the moment? Is where you are able to better see threw things. As it goes in repetitions you realize that now you are making less and less mistakes. Wisdom is born. Just practice give it your best shot with out the fear of failure. It will make you! God bless Dr. Peterson
Father God would rather us try an fail then do nothing at all. Bless you all an have a great day!
Fear is a man's best friend
Let there be peace on earth and let it begin with me !
This speech is what I need to take a risk . it’s true it’s better to take the shot and find out what happens , then to just regret what you could have done or achieved
Jordan Peterson doesn't need inspirational music
I LOVE THIS GUY.
He’s so accurate and inspiring. We should cherish him whilst he’s here
This man needs to be remembered forever!
How can a man be such a good orator. Seriously I shudder at the magnificence and beauty of verbal aptitude
This man literally changed my life
I love this guys mind more than I can describe
Exactly its hard to tell or explain people ABOUT him. You have to feel it and see it yourself to understand
Fear is huge motivator for those that believe in a god that punishes offenders. “I act as if God exists, and I’m terrified he might.” ~ Jordan Peterson
He`s my go to guy when fear and doubts comes creeping
I used to think fear was a bad thing until I realised fear is your friend, it is a tool you must utilise in order to push yourself forward and use as motivation, you need to be scared in order to get yourself to work, fear builds resilience. Now the only thing I’m truly scared of is God🙏 czcams.com/video/3FaGZ7Yom8w/video.html
This man speaks straight up truth we all need to hear
This man has changed my life.
This man has enriched my life with his deep understanding.
I really needed to hear this. Not making a decision is worse than making a risky decision.
Now that was beautiful
Wow this one video I feel like changed my life. Positively because I'm gonna die anyway I might as well do what I love
At least its a way forward
Like the aggregate of the emotions traits and behaviour patterns of mental phenomena.....God bless Professor Jordan Peterson.
“At least its a way forward”
Negative emotions motivate us more than positive emotions!!
yes for exmpl u are more motivated by the fear of being broke than the want of being rich
To not make a decision also has a cost
Put God in your life 🙏 you will find a lot more than you can imagine 🙏✨♥
Thanks Jordan. I'm in a rut at the moment anxiously waiting on an outcome but I'm just staying in everyday not exercising or really looking after myself. I need to try more . Not doing stuff isn't doing me any favours is it . I can't live in fear of the unknown forever .
How are you doing?
I used to think fear was a bad thing until I realised fear is your friend, it is a tool you must utilise in order to push yourself forward and use as motivation, you need to be scared in order to get yourself to work, fear builds resilience. Now the only thing I’m truly scared of is God🙏 czcams.com/video/3FaGZ7Yom8w/video.html
My parents taught me to face fear & deal with it, for which I am forever grateful. As Roosevelt ( & probably others ) have said--'the only thing to fear is fear itself'.
I used to think fear was a bad thing until I realised fear is your friend, it is a tool you must utilise in order to push yourself forward and use as motivation, you need to be scared in order to get yourself to work, fear builds resilience. Now the only thing I’m truly scared of is God🙏 czcams.com/video/3FaGZ7Yom8w/video.html
JP: Changing lives, one speech at a time.
This man is a genius
The Enemy of my enemy is my friend. Failure of not doing anything is my ultimate enemy so fear is really my friend
I'm not working for a very long times ago. It's because of the fears I had. And now I want to try to get a job in this pandemic days. Even though I'm still afraid to work. To be honest with people also a difficult things. Some can accept, most aren't. God, help me.
Talking from my own experience.
Make small adjustments every day.
Talk to someone.
There is Peace. You will win.
And belive in yourself, there are people beliving in you right now, you must belive it yourself.
I belive in you. :)
"It's a way forward "
Thank you Jordan B Peterson
Thank you Mr Peterson.
What I like about him is he tells it like it is. He breaks things down to the lowest common denominator. Easy to comprehend. Very motivational and suffering. Jordans videos are helping me in a time of crisis right now.
Thank you Jordan Peterson, you have truly found your calling.
When you listen to him you know what he says is true and great advice. It's not surprising advice but somehow I need to listen to what he says to bring it to the forefront of my thoughts.
Jordan Petersen allowed me to see others in a more positive and compassionate way ! And a better understanding of my own self thoughts
Face ur fears & have da courage to go past it. Once u fail to go thru, u will now know what it is u fear & gain knowledge with da tools needed to achieve ur way past ur fears.
"Don't be a hater, put a beer in my refrigerator" Jordan Peterson
"Get behind me, Fear! You are a stumbling block to me; you do not have in mind the concerns of greatness!
"The Cost of Doing Nothing"
So no matter what you do, what *path you pick you'll still suffer; OK then I ask the Universe for the STRENGHT to endure all obstacles and to learn how to use FEAR TO PUSH MYSELF FORWARD !
This video made me cry
it feels so true
Your damned if you do and damned if you don't
I'm able to detach from both, where is it that my
being goes?
Thank you for another
insightful view,🤔💛♦
I think it is a way forward, i feel suffering
so intensely, does that suffering turn into depression for some ppl
What is depression why does it happen to some
and does it have some worth??
Again thank you for your
knowledge ♦
"All my life, been running from a pain in me. A feeling I don't understand - holding me down.
So rain on me. Underwater, all I am, getting harder: a heavy weight, I carry around."
"Fear" by Blue October
Fear of the Unknown
*you wasted and suffered, that's a bad deal* absolutely true, well said Dr Jordan
Incredible.
I am going to finish my Business plan now. Thank you Dr. Peterson.
One of the best lectures I've heard yet from Dr. Peterson. Thank you so much! You speak to my soul!
LOVE YOU DR PETERSON
Love you Jordan Peterson!
You always are there Dr Peterson to comfort the lost souls in our world
I'm so grateful to receive your videos, thank you
🕯⚖👏
Jordan Peterson is like the dad never had
I am very thankful this man exists.
Greetings from South Africa 🇿🇦 .... as Muslim we always put our trust in God before making a decision and after ... God bless you with guidance...👳🏻♂️
Muhammad Hassim one thing I can say about the Muslims I know is that they are more devoted than most Christians I know. I am a Christian but I do have a lot of respect for how my Muslim brothers follow the teachings of their God.
On a side note may peace be with you my friend, South Africa from what I’ve learned is a rough place.
Benjamin Goulet I’ll second that too actually. A lot of Muslims are admirable for their faith and devotion to it.
Benjamin Goulet thank you sir well not all Muslims are devote ... I’ve met some very devoted Christians here in South Africa 🇿🇦 a priest is my friend as well ... anyways as Muslims we believe there’s One personal God who created the universe and the unseen realm so He is not only our God but the God of the whole creation 😇
Snake Pliskin thank you sir may God increase our love and devotion to Him
Had listened to this many times...today it was what I needed
What i really like about Dr. Jordan Peterson are his hands gestures and body language that he does when he's speaking or telling a story! It makes him more interesting to watch.
God bless Dr Peterson thank you
The problem with using fear as a motivator is that it increases anxiety and sometimes limits the potential outcomes.
At least it's a way forward
My main fear is I'm 33 and have a 2 year old kid and I'm only now just starting to try and make something of my life, I've been a mess for so long, but I'm quite determined now. Let's see what happens.
Wow. This was heavy...
Thanks Jordan.
At least it's a way forward!
God is Source, He make Order out of Chaos, Satan is rebelling against God, Striving backwards through time, through the actual world, "To Fear God is the beginning of Wisdom", Set out toward the future and place God behind you, Fear God.
Let Prometheus overcome Epimetheus.
Soooo very helpful 🙏🏻
Love this man ...thanks ❤️
Every talk is a mine of gold information. On the topic, there are no guarantees in life, may as well live each day and do the things you love to do while you have the chance, because some say you may not have the chance.
BRAVO LOVE YOU ❤ THANKS FOR THE VIDEO
Thanks 😊 man,for uploading....it's better feeling to watch him speak with background music.......
The mind accepts the message better when theres music!!...
Advertise his personality assessment and future authoring programme it's worth it.!!
Jordan peterson, the founder of the yellow lanterns.
💖💖YOU MAKE ME SO FEEL SO BETTER JORDAN PETERSON, U ARE SOOOO COMMONSENSE 💖💖
This was such a great choice of a concept to make into one of your videos! Solid, solid choice. I think it's one of the most important concepts or ideas he discusses (and honestly I needed to hear this!). Thanks again for your great work. Looking forward to the future ones!
I used to think fear was a bad thing until I realised fear is your friend, it is a tool you must utilise in order to push yourself forward and use as motivation, you need to be scared in order to get yourself to work, fear builds resilience. Now the only thing I’m truly scared of is God🙏 czcams.com/video/3FaGZ7Yom8w/video.html
His message and wisdom is so powerful , and it comes not just from his brain but from his heart. Care for the human beigns is so profound and the highest good. God bless and keep you Jordan. Bendiciones
"At least its a way forward!"🤗🌻🌻🌻🌻🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊
Right on Jojo!
What a concept of embracing the Fear, so deep man. Holy mother!
You're gonna suffer anyway Man... Enlightened me, respect ❤️🙏
I have bad ocd way overcome slowly what I notice walk towards fear don't back off and new mind set will happens ... fear doubts start to fade away over time
This is my MaN 👍.... i was in awe of few motivational speakers & life coaches but ....this guy ...... he's my MAN 💪
Jordan Peterson the sith lord
Amazing 👏👏
Looking forward to the generation of great thinkers coming out 20 years from now inspired by JP
Thank you for uploading this exerpt from Jordan Peterson's speeches and AMAZING VIDEO TITLE by the way !
I suffer from Severe anxiety & chronic depression (dysthymia), I take meds : THEY HELP (but my expectations were far too high : I expected them to solve all my mental problems and 100% free me from pain.. I was soo naïve, but that seems to happen often when someone is in severe pain..)
Good habits you have to work at, bad habits are just lazy.
EXCELLENT
Fear is the greatest illusion ~ Lao Tzu
At least it is the way forward