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  • Today we will discuss what is the cognitive attitude of the Critic function
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  • @Retrogamer71
    @Retrogamer71 Před 5 lety +334

    Jump back in again. 05:22 .. Fi critic ISFJ/INFJ 10:29 ,Te ESTP/ENTP critic 15:12, Fe critic ESFP/ENFP 17:33, Ti critic ISTJ/INTJ 24:36, Se critic ESTJ/ESFJ 29:00, Ni critic INTP/INFP 33:20, Si critic ISTP/ISFP 39:23, Ne critic ENTJ/ENFJ 44:56

    • @Darkblade0l
      @Darkblade0l Před 5 lety +31

      thank you very much for taking the time to put out the time stamps

    • @andreaduranova5938
      @andreaduranova5938 Před 3 lety +7

      Thank you for making it easier to find the part where he talks about Ni critic. I was deciding whether I should ask someone if they want to get coffee with me but I kept thinking it was a bad and irresponsible thing to do. But now I am sure I should just go up to them and ask them out.

    • @smilinazzdoggy825
      @smilinazzdoggy825 Před 3 lety +1

      Thanks I needed that

    • @alisonfisher1877
      @alisonfisher1877 Před 3 lety +1

      @Jaden Merrick liar

    • @MoskusMoskiferus1611
      @MoskusMoskiferus1611 Před 2 lety

      I see a Pattern in This Comment

  • @max-fj7np
    @max-fj7np Před 5 lety +46

    INTP here... its not that I dont WANT anything, its that I dont know what I want

    • @dppool456
      @dppool456 Před 3 lety +2

      Well said

    • @marinoaristy5659
      @marinoaristy5659 Před 3 lety +5

      You basically summed up my issue as an INTP as well! I have four different options to pick for my career but I don't know what to pick. I'm overly critical of some of the options even though they may be good for me.

    • @jamesgrey13
      @jamesgrey13 Před 3 lety +5

      Wants lead to actions, but sometimes you need to look at your actions to figure out your wants!

    • @toastypuppy4042
      @toastypuppy4042 Před 3 lety +1

      Same. Life can be scary lol

  • @freezeblaster15
    @freezeblaster15 Před 5 lety +165

    Your Fe child is having the time of its life helping people out in this video i.e. lighting them on fire haha

    • @yustinushalim1146
      @yustinushalim1146 Před 5 lety +17

      This is my (haven't totally) educated guess. There are 4 functions that makes him enjoying this lecture. Ti parent, Fe child (both of them to tell the truth so people can be better), Si inferior (recalling all the stories in the past) and Se demon (don't matter whether people say he gives bad experience or not) to give them bad experience to stop being hypocritical FOR ALL OF THE CRITIC FUNCTIONS. These factors may be why, he is enjoying this lecture.

  • @mrdamavandiii
    @mrdamavandiii Před 4 lety +25

    As an intj, whenever i want to do something, my ti critic says, yo just dont have enough knowledge to do this and read more, search more

    • @bohdanpohorilets
      @bohdanpohorilets Před 3 lety +4

      Do I have enough knowledge to write this comment - no. Will you ever have enough knowledge to do anything - no. So either you will be stuck in analysis paralysis or learn from a failure - your call =)

  • @aleesiadae382
    @aleesiadae382 Před 5 lety +66

    "STOP JUMPING TO CONCLUSIONS ON OTHER PEOPLE'S INTENTIONS"

  • @mireilleuribe2999
    @mireilleuribe2999 Před 5 lety +173

    Your honesty is my fav it’s so raw that some people might think it’s dark, but that’s the level of honesty I can’t seem to get enough of 😂

    • @Emily.J.
      @Emily.J. Před 3 lety +5

      Same, love me some painful truth 😆no one else will be this honest with me😅

    • @RaximusPrime
      @RaximusPrime Před 3 lety +2

      His rawness is actually quite funny 😂.
      I love how he bags out the INFJs 😂
      This coming from an INFJ

    • @someonesomewhere6123
      @someonesomewhere6123 Před 2 lety +1

      Some love it some don't. People are different.

    • @sheepdog03
      @sheepdog03 Před 2 lety +2

      What type are you? I’m an INTP, I also appreciate being called out 💁🏼‍♀️

    • @stephanieabc6530
      @stephanieabc6530 Před rokem

      And then they got married.

  • @knotlock
    @knotlock Před 5 lety +66

    21:37 I laughed out loud at the hammer 🔨 and bug 🐜 analogy 😗👏🏻

    • @fenrirsilver6441
      @fenrirsilver6441 Před 5 lety +2

      Lol me too

    • @yustinushalim1146
      @yustinushalim1146 Před 5 lety +1

      So do I, especially his sound effect, my goodness, so funny.

    • @jadaleewallace8566
      @jadaleewallace8566 Před 4 lety

      Oh yes, that has happened to me. I was the bug 🐜 and just doubled down on my galaxy brained moral hypocrisy 👼

  • @teardropsonroses6120
    @teardropsonroses6120 Před 5 lety +57

    The ending left me speechless. Thank you for all that you do.

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  Před 5 lety +13

      Teardrops on Roses you are most welcome

  • @NB-qy7ku
    @NB-qy7ku Před 2 lety +33

    1:28 cognitive functions John Beebe
    4:39 Critic Function is 6th function
    5:23 6th function is like the Parent function (2nd function) 6th function 5:32 attitude is like a grandparent
    5:48 like someone who is wise beyond their years or 5:52 wise within their years 5:54 if you develop your critic function early you can become wiser beyond your years
    6:06
    7:06
    10:00
    10:12
    10:25 Fi (ISFJ, INFJ)
    15:11 Te (ESTP, ENTP)
    17:30 Fe (ESFP, ENFP)
    24:34 Ti (ISTJ, INTJ)
    27:31 Se (ESTJ, ESFJ)
    33:17 Ni (INTP, INFP) 38:47 advice
    39:22 Si (ISTP, ISFP) are forgetful only recall important stuff advice write down what they said. They get mad if you dont recall. They can be loyal people
    Advice
    44:56 Ne (ENTJ, ENFJ)
    Wont allow anyone to commit to them. Just assume you will betray them. Afraid of abandonment. Afraid of being betrayed
    52:30 meaning of life

  • @cynthiadaniel2412
    @cynthiadaniel2412 Před 5 lety +17

    “Man, I’m loving this lecture! I get to light everyone on fiire!!” - C.S Joseph after putting everyone on their designated lanes 😂😂😂😂

  • @SCREAMOguy413
    @SCREAMOguy413 Před 5 lety +54

    "That's fine. Don't Care. Because you're wrong. And uh there you go." - C.S. Joseph

  • @Austiin_vdw
    @Austiin_vdw Před 5 lety +31

    The INTP one was like a roundhouse kick to the guts man, but in a good way. It was exactly what I've needed to hear for years, so thank you.

  • @williamcompitello2302
    @williamcompitello2302 Před 3 lety +33

    I like how hype you got on Ni critic. This is why INPs need ENJs: someone who isn't afraid to raise their voice at them when Ni critic becomes a problem. GET A DAMN JOB, BOY!😄

    • @someonesomewhere6123
      @someonesomewhere6123 Před 2 lety +4

      That would only make me feel worse. I am an INFP and my ni is the source of anxiety and much pain for me. Preassure only makes it worse for me. I seriously want to kill myself after christmas and one of the reasons is that the process of looking for/applying for a job is so painful to me and because it is so difficult to me to find a job.

    • @amerjoud6527
      @amerjoud6527 Před 2 lety +4

      @@someonesomewhere6123 Dont let society rush u into a career u don't want unless ur out of options. Instead...try + find urself. Tht way u will find a purpose, not a job

  • @tempest-tom9180
    @tempest-tom9180 Před 5 lety +11

    Man, si critic explains my commitment issues. I really need to figure that out.

  • @sunnieA
    @sunnieA Před 4 lety +5

    The infp critic thing gave me stress but thanks for the constructive criticism

  • @nachiketpargaonkar8646
    @nachiketpargaonkar8646 Před 5 lety +20

    It's fun to watch you genuinely enjoy every time you go "oh I love it!" :D

  • @indybun64570
    @indybun64570 Před 5 lety +9

    As an isfp I must admit that my memory is about as useful and detailed as a dog. It's hilariously short lived and I deeply appreciate when people write me lists lol

  • @cadencecaddie5551
    @cadencecaddie5551 Před 5 lety +11

    My INTJ dad often says that our wisdom is like a drop in the ocean :)
    The ENFJ Criitc makes me really sad, since I only now realize how much I've hurt one in my past and I have no idea how or if I could ever make it right :(

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  Před 5 lety +12

      Legit write them a letter explaining and apologizing and make sure it is handwritten and mailed to them to engage their Se child. They will appreciate it for the amount of effort you put into the letter.

    • @quentinlp3174
      @quentinlp3174 Před 4 lety

      Lets do this

  • @JamminWithJake
    @JamminWithJake Před 5 lety +28

    You seem to be in a good mood tonight!

  • @FoxyRoxyReviews
    @FoxyRoxyReviews Před 5 lety +28

    I identify as an INFP and like CS Joseph content for its direct / no nonsense appoarch. All I would say is move forward in actualising, self love and development is the winning ticket for a stable base. The more knowledge I hoover up when I encounter an issue, the more aware I become, which can then be past onto others. I see new challenges now almost like old fables, which can be past on when someone else counters a similar issue. So take notes when internally running towards the fear I already know you can overcome. Because I have learnt one of my “functions” to be other people’s catalysts. This is an amazing gift, just know your already amazing and learn more about yourself to give more of this gift to others. I must admit I see humans interacting with each other, so rather than always intentional causing pain. It’s difference in mindsets and how we interact. By deep understanding of what sets up these internal differences is what can bring us closer together as a whole. But I am a “fluffy” / deep thinking INFP than using more to the point cutting logic.

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  Před 5 lety +11

      I too, enjoy the fluffy. Cannot live without it.

  • @hedgeearthridge6807
    @hedgeearthridge6807 Před 5 lety +7

    Wow.... I am speechless.... You know that feeling, when you learn something so incredible, such a Paradigm shift, that is feels that your life is forever changed? This video, all the way.
    "Forgive us our sins, as we forgive those who sin against us"

  • @andrewpaterson860
    @andrewpaterson860 Před 4 lety +8

    C S J's SE Demon ironicly giving one of the best presentations of my life

  • @noraflood6482
    @noraflood6482 Před 3 lety +16

    OMG this is the first time I've heard Ni-critic explained to me (as an INFP). So true! We don't dare 'want' anything for real. I think it's even worse when you've been hurt before (because Fi gets hit so hard). And Ne-parent seems to avoid this inaction by taking too many actions (or worse: imagining too many actions) - although avoiding any real commitment deep down. It's like we run around with a thousand personas but don't dare be real to ourselves anymore. we hide the 'real' inside but just wander around on the outside. Why INFPs seem to take on different personas all the time. 2020 resolution: dare to take action! [This is why we love INTJs so much lol bc their Ni takes on our Ne

    • @judael5605
      @judael5605 Před 9 měsíci

      The function stackings of a type all play in tune with each other. They don't individually exist, they can't. They exist because of each other. Just like the Ni critic exists because of Ne parent priority and critical of itself or everyone else's Ni because you think them(or yourself) being selfish so you saying you like INTJs really makes me really doubt it espcially with Ni critic(it could go either way, either a hypocrite or wise) but since INJs is all about what they want no matter what, the INPs will far more often than not dislike them and view them as the most selfish person ever (especially the INTJ) despite it being far from the truth, unlike the responsible Ni parent of the ENJs the Ni hero of the INJs is more about the Ego/Heroic than responsibility etc., thus being less responsible(often very much so than not) so yeah, the INPs will not like the INJs more often than the ENJs on that specific aspect.
      Edit:
      Also speaking of "getting hurt so hard," the child function will get hurt the hardest ever, that's why we need to take care and be mindful of them, not the Hero function, the hero/first function gets "hurt" but it's hurt in the Ego/reputation sense, the child gets hurt genuinely and truly, so anyone hurting the child function knowingly, deserves hell but the ones who hurt the Hero function is fine. The INPs' child is Si, it's nothing about Fi, Fi is the IFPs Ego/hero/reputation, it gets hurt but can't compare to the hurt of the child function. Btw ITJs are the ones who have Fi child, their feelings too fragile but they never show it its because how fragile it is, the IFPs outwardly displays their Fi hero being hurt by moaning outwardly and actively but the Fi child just goes to bed and cries themselves to sleep but no one in the world will ever know that, so yeah

  • @kuronuma002
    @kuronuma002 Před 5 lety +61

    I really enjoyed this video. I'm an INFP and I have a hard time allowing myself to want things, and to take action. I didn't realize this was an infp thing. Thanks for the advice. I'll try harder to initiate action. 🙂

    • @smartcatcollarproject5699
      @smartcatcollarproject5699 Před 4 lety +6

      Every time I chose action, it went down in flames after years of efforts. Now 20 years later I still know what I want, I just don't know how to get it...

    • @zzulm
      @zzulm Před 3 lety +1

      The law of attraction not working sometimes bc we don't know that we are responsible for desiring things. The universe wants to give us what we want we just need to express it.

    • @Robidu1973
      @Robidu1973 Před 2 lety

      @@smartcatcollarproject5699 The key to success here is to take one of your goals and then just do it. It can be a pain to get out of this comfy rut and get going, because it is so awfully comfortable (I'm admittedly guilty of this as well).
      However, actually getting crap _done_ is more than enough to offset the initial inertia, and while you are at it, use the momentum that you are gaining from getting something done to get started on the next thing. Plus keep in mind that you don't have to be perfect with it as viable is always good enough, and if you feel the need to improve anything, you can still do it.

    • @someonesomewhere6123
      @someonesomewhere6123 Před 2 lety

      Being an INFP is almost hell for me. Just telling myself to change doesn't change the problem.

  • @maryemhossam2761
    @maryemhossam2761 Před 2 lety +2

    OMG!!! That's a wakeup call for INFP
    Why am i like you yelling at me and throw the truth on my face like this?? It hurts but seems it's exactly what i need RN :(

  • @ethanuro8103
    @ethanuro8103 Před 5 lety +50

    MY GOD THIS WAS SO GOOD. The genuine excitement talking about these was amazing, & thanks for the heads up on waking up in my 40s as an INTP finally overcoming failure to launch syndrome, I'll actually try to do that before I hit 20

  • @kennethc.2921
    @kennethc.2921 Před 5 lety +16

    As a ENFJ, how would I stop criticizing the intentions of other people; when in the past I had to deal with a narcissist who manipulated me into thinking I was crazy and assholes who stole my belongings back in middle school. Although, their are a few people who I trust such as my family and close friends, is it really that bad to keep your guard up most of the time? Especially since we are prone to subtle manipulation.

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  Před 5 lety +8

      just verify their intentions before making decisions on said intentions.

  • @Ncoherent369
    @Ncoherent369 Před 5 lety +13

    I almost jumped right up to get to work on my current project as soon as you got to Ni critic and pointed out the inactivity and failure to launch syndrome.
    But I've got to finish Si and Ne before i get right to work haha.
    Thank you and your Ti parent, for pointing out the extremely relevant truth behind Ni critic.
    Definitely motivated after watching this

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  Před 5 lety +2

      Awesome, this is why I do this.

  • @alexandralenzinger8482
    @alexandralenzinger8482 Před 4 lety +5

    This is so true especially when I was younger I used to think everyone was stupid and my best friend would think everyone’s a bad person. We had such a hard time making real friends as teenagers

  • @aomafura3374
    @aomafura3374 Před 5 lety +15

    17:19 That fire SFX is perfect! hahaha

  • @robertpotts8032
    @robertpotts8032 Před 5 lety +4

    That little nugget about Ni nemesis for ENTP’s really hit home.

  • @TechReviewTom
    @TechReviewTom Před 5 lety +73

    Grats on taking care of the kids

  • @Lordbloodwolf7
    @Lordbloodwolf7 Před rokem +3

    Thanks Chase, actually needed to hear this as an ENJ so i can practically improve myself 👊🏽.
    This Bible verse came to mind in this vid, not sure if you’d agree but i cant help but think of: “Do not judge so that you will not be judged. For in the way you judge, you will be judged; and by your standard of measure, it will be measured to you.” Matthew 7:1-2 (NASB).

  • @ParadoxEngineer
    @ParadoxEngineer Před 5 lety +4

    Thank you for willing to critique people. True love does not except people as imperfect, true love seeks to make others better. True love isn't afraid of offending someone, it is hopeful that it will inspire someone. And you have inspired me.

  • @wanderer2589
    @wanderer2589 Před 4 lety +6

    I really appreciate your enthusiasm teaching this subject. I love when the teacher is so excited about their lectures
    The Ne critic is so accurate about me... sigh. I always grew up thinking why am I like that 👀.

  • @willskyfe3969
    @willskyfe3969 Před 2 měsíci +1

    You are a really good teacher. So many people on the platform talk about the MBTI typing with the letters and vaguely go over the cognitive functions, but you've even seemingly taken it a step further and now its all beginning to make sense. It's no longer wishy, washy. I still cant determine my type that well and im constantly changing my type based on my thoughts and actions, but the point is, im getting closer to the truth of who I am and how to help connect with people, and how to understand peoples movements, what makes them uncomfortable or angry, what brings them joy(even when it seemingly can go unacknowledged on the surface). It helped out when talking to certain types of women and peoples work styles. Gives a sense of relatability to the people around you and helps recognize that the people around us and ourselves are human. Thank you for all of your teachings....(can you tell im informative yet?)

  • @argent-kestrel90
    @argent-kestrel90 Před 2 lety

    I love how blunt and well researched you are. I love it when people are direct and honest. 👍

  • @runninginsept
    @runninginsept Před 5 lety +6

    Can Fi critic also largely be the cause why INFJs always automatically assume responsibility / guilt for what goes wrong with loved ones?

  • @dtrupl
    @dtrupl Před 5 lety +33

    Well there goes my plans to sleep early lmao but finally we got to the critic....been waiting for this for a while
    Fi critic 10:25
    Fi wisdom

  • @williamthe3rd222
    @williamthe3rd222 Před 2 lety

    Brought a tear to my eye at the end Mr C.S Joseph, Thank you 💛

  • @oliviathatcher1459
    @oliviathatcher1459 Před 2 lety +2

    This is your best lecture ever, Chase. Thank you so much. I wish every soul could hear this…

  • @grimmseti
    @grimmseti Před 2 lety +2

    INFP here. Just learning myself about the reasons behind my "failure to launch syndrome" as you call it. But your videos are really helping me out! I feel called out, but it's what I needed to hear, so thanks for that. Also, an ISFP exfriend I'm still getting over TOTALLY meets your description of Si critic disloyalty. I heard you talking about that and I was like "THANK YOU!" I feel so validated even though I feel so attacked haha
    and the "He was waiting for you, but you have to have the GUTS to ask for forgiveness. Maybe YOU need to have some honour for once!" SPOT ON DUDE! SPOT ON!

  • @stickydrop
    @stickydrop Před 5 lety +6

    What an amazing vid! I have become addicted to this channel and I am slowly making my way through other videos... enough to keep me going for a while!

  • @fiaesguerrafggop
    @fiaesguerrafggop Před 4 lety +2

    thank you for this lecture.. very enlightening. i used to be one of those people who just have a surface understanding about all this until ive watched your videos and started to question the type i thought i am. thank you for your hard work. God bless!

  • @briangonsalez2173
    @briangonsalez2173 Před 5 lety +6

    Amazing lecture! One of my favorites, but then again; all your lectures are my favorite

  • @mr.g6177
    @mr.g6177 Před rokem +1

    Every information is correct information until proven wrong. - Ti critic

  • @kimberlysmith3390
    @kimberlysmith3390 Před 5 lety +4

    On behalf of Isfjs I'm sorry for what we put people through. I'm greatful that for every arch type there are people they can relate well to. I went through the critical stage with people and am still not all the way out of the woods with that but I have grown a lot and am not the same as I once was I understand better that its hard to measure up to the moral compass of myself and I believe that God wants us to try our best and he knows when we are. But he is more merciful than we are, we have to learn mercy with others and ourselves.

  • @stephanietherese
    @stephanietherese Před rokem +2

    I love how deep this is going... Your CZcams account is like a treasure trove to my brain.

  • @wolf_dragon_aa8037
    @wolf_dragon_aa8037 Před 3 lety +1

    Oh wow,what an episode,just left me speechless👏🤐👏🤐👏🤐.

  • @JB-qg3iw
    @JB-qg3iw Před 3 lety +3

    Wow, as an entj this really helped. I never knew that was a problem i could do something about
    This channel never ceases to amaze me

  • @JimmysJourney1
    @JimmysJourney1 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you x 1,000,000! I very much so did find this video enlightening, entertaining, insightful, and every other good thing!! Love you Chase!!!!

  • @HuKayers
    @HuKayers Před 5 lety +5

    🔥🔥🔥 Ow Ow Owww!! The truth burns!! But so true about Si critic. You know me so well, CS Joseph 😏.
    Loved this lecture bro!

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  Před 5 lety +2

      thanks dude, glad to see ISXPs are watching and listening and applying this. I keeps me going.

  • @nmorg1616
    @nmorg1616 Před 2 lety +1

    The bit about not being able to get mad at ppl has 100% been me since learning this my Ti critic would always get so mad at my infj friends ti child but learning this has made me so much more accepting of them and everyone else I meet love ur content

  • @faerieborn
    @faerieborn Před 5 lety +5

    Thank you! I am pretty sure that I am an ENFJ. You hit things right on the nose.

  • @kristindawn
    @kristindawn Před 5 lety +3

    Another really beautiful lecture. Thanks Chase.

  • @MMM-bb7sb
    @MMM-bb7sb Před 4 lety +1

    Thank GOD you exist mr joseph

  • @freezeblaster15
    @freezeblaster15 Před 5 lety +7

    Style is on point!

  • @salehryan2906
    @salehryan2906 Před 5 lety +8

    I think we need a summary after we went through all of the cognitive functions

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  Před 5 lety +4

      good point, I will look into it.

  • @0halibut0
    @0halibut0 Před 5 lety +5

    Nice singing! It made my night. LOL Have fun with your family.

  • @PsiCorps85
    @PsiCorps85 Před 5 lety +18

    Almost 10k subscribers you have, coolness. Hope you feel better soon.

  • @mayhawthorn5092
    @mayhawthorn5092 Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much. This is brilliant and what everyone needs to know

  • @tasenova2717
    @tasenova2717 Před 3 lety +1

    this video is crazily real and I love that you are so Blunt with it, it's weird though. I'm an INFJ male based on all the functions but the Ni Critic sounds really relatable. I did grow up with an INFP bro my entire life, so maybe it comes off as almost as a part of me.
    I loved it so much that I made a audio clip just for him to listen to with one of my favorite songs so that maybe he'll pick it up and listen attentively knowing that I cared about him.

  • @june5801
    @june5801 Před 5 lety +3

    I'm glad to see that you are taking the chance to enjoy life a little with your family. I hope you have a great time and get lots of rest. As always I enjoyed the lecture and can't wait for the next, but I don't mind waiting if it means you are taking care of yourself.

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  Před 5 lety +2

      the trip was awesome and definitely full of drama.

  • @larysk227
    @larysk227 Před 5 lety

    I appriciate the work You put out here. I've been learning about the MBTI for something around a month, and you have a very good resource. Thanks for sharing the knowledge.

  • @khgdlqgsds4528
    @khgdlqgsds4528 Před 4 lety +2

    This channel is GOLD!!!!! Thank you so much. - INFJ

  • @taniabordy3791
    @taniabordy3791 Před 3 lety +1

    I recently started to watch your videos and I am already your fan! I feel like I have found the answers to it all! I am deeply interested in to understanding people and learning to type people and how to treat them and help them is what I was longing for ❤️❤️❤️ I specially love the connections you make to the Bible with for me is the truth, the source of wisdom ❤️❤️love your lectures CS Joseph and thank you so much for sharing this ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @LeowEeWhye
    @LeowEeWhye Před 5 lety +7

    Thanks for doing this lecture chase, as an ISFP I always struggled to comprehend why I could never commit to people in the Long run, and I struggled to understand, to put it into words for myself but this was rather enlightening for myself(: thanks for making this videos really learning about myself more and others as well (:

  • @lauralopez3676
    @lauralopez3676 Před 5 lety +6

    This lecture was fierce, fiery, and a total kick in the pants! Nicely done, Mr. Joseph. We all have weaknesses which must be explored, exposed, and remedied. Unfortunately our inner critics are rooted in fear, ignorance, and pride, which makes finding an antidote difficult at best. Reguardless, we all must strive to be our best, authentic, compassionate self’s so as a collective culture we can help mitigate suffering for the human race.
    Thank you for your content!

  • @egobridge
    @egobridge Před 4 lety +2

    The Critic video, in which Te critic has a ball criticizing all the other types about how critical they are.

  • @SpectreTheHorseman
    @SpectreTheHorseman Před 5 lety +1

    Good stuff, I'm calling the 2 sides of the Critic (Deceiving and Discerning) just for my own ease of remembering.

  • @lizacavanaugh5959
    @lizacavanaugh5959 Před 4 lety +1

    Ouch, that was some tough love that I needed to hear...and you paralleled my favorite quote from Scrubs - summed up, nothing worth having comes easy so get off your keister and do the work. I’ve always been afraid of failing because of feeling the shame for it. But I’ve failed plenty of times before and have survived so why the hell am I still not trying. Not to figure out what I want is I can allow myself to want it. As always, thanks for your videos! The best part of being late to your videos is that I can just keep watching more and don’t have to wait. (INFP)

  • @veYron198
    @veYron198 Před 5 lety +3

    My enfj assumed the one that loyal to him will betray him. And the one that doesn't have the intention to stay will be loyal to him lol.

  • @underwaterpanther
    @underwaterpanther Před 4 lety +1

    Not much on this topic on CZcams that I’m aware of. Thank you!

  • @evilallensmithee
    @evilallensmithee Před 5 lety +2

    Thank you for the summaries 😍
    Also I think your enunciating better, well done

  • @BotondKuti
    @BotondKuti Před 5 lety +6

    My theory about the meaning of life is "it's what you give it". I loved the video and I can't wait to have all your teachings internalised and be aware of these things in others all the time. This knowledge is what makes other people interesting to me tbh. It still annoys me a lot though that many people just don't care to develop themselves.

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  Před 5 lety +2

      well said and thank you.

  • @hawke312
    @hawke312 Před 3 lety +1

    So that's why I intentionally go out of my way to look stupid and fail. That's why I need to force myself to just say what I want to say. Ni Critic. It took a massive blow to my self esteem in the military and to intentionally give up to realize there's no perfect answer to anything. You are always going to piss somebody off, but there's no way to progress without taking a risk. Every time I have a suggestion for my job I run into this crippling fear that I'm going run out my welcome because of past experiences. < All internal dialogue don't mind me.

  • @intagliooglethorpe8434
    @intagliooglethorpe8434 Před 5 lety +2

    Congratulations on 10K!

  • @tracesofthemoon6523
    @tracesofthemoon6523 Před 5 lety +2

    Brilliant. As always.

  • @dianadias3
    @dianadias3 Před 3 lety +1

    This... This is true knowlegde.. Such wisdom.. Your are changing my whole perspective on life..

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  Před 3 lety +1

      Glad I can do that for somebody

  • @tabby705
    @tabby705 Před 5 lety +1

    Need to hear that. Thanks, ISFP.

  • @tajmarie1329
    @tajmarie1329 Před 5 lety +2

    Great lecture as usual. Enjoy your Thanksgiving and time with children. Take time to recharge ... and congratulations on your 10K subscribers in advance.

  • @elypelowski5670
    @elypelowski5670 Před 4 lety +2

    You nailed Fe critic. That was the missing piece for me with someone close to me, once I learned to challenge this person on their selfishness this opened doors and it broke them out of being lazy and selfish.

  • @eminemstrash2021
    @eminemstrash2021 Před rokem

    Seeing the joy on his face before roasting the ENFJ and ENTJ cracked me up.
    -ENTJ

  • @david_oliveira71
    @david_oliveira71 Před 5 lety

    Wow, seriously you NEED to teach that on Quora, @CS Joseph!
    People really need to hear this.

  • @haihai5293
    @haihai5293 Před 2 lety

    Super knowledge like always CS Joshep.
    The ending reminded me a lot of what you said in the video on your website about infp wisdom and destroying ignorance. Thank you very much for your efforts. Greetings.

  • @SCREAMOguy413
    @SCREAMOguy413 Před 5 lety +5

    Looking sharp!

  • @abdallahls7673
    @abdallahls7673 Před rokem +1

    What an episode 😅 thank you Joseph

  • @chorizo2115
    @chorizo2115 Před 5 lety +1

    Love the miming of lighting crap data on fire!

  • @zenaslep1027
    @zenaslep1027 Před 2 lety

    I remember first finding your channel and stumbling upon this video. As an ISFP I will admit I originally thought my memory was the best memory out of the people I knew. Then I watched this video and on one hand I was pretty mad and annoyed, but on the other it got me thinking. Add in a couple other experiences in the middle of it all and I was able to analyze myself in that regard and realize I can be pretty forgetful. I hope to understand my Critic just as I want to with the rest of my mind so thank you :)

  • @michellelivaditis2929
    @michellelivaditis2929 Před 5 lety +3

    #wisdom=love My mind is once again blown! I don't know how you do it. Your vision is beautiful and the fact that you work so hard to get others to realize what you already know is incredible. Thank you for sharing your wisdom 😉 (even as you're yelling at us all 😂)

  • @annel4305
    @annel4305 Před 5 lety +5

    Again, very insightful. Great final quote. Thank you. INFJ

  • @AliceDiamondWisdom
    @AliceDiamondWisdom Před 4 lety +1

    intp/infp here, one way I got around the fear of desire is realizing the desire itself is not bad, but the attachment to the desire is what trips people (or at least me up). This mindset helped me SO much, I now have a career in my chosen field, people who doubted me before apologized to me and went no contact with toxic family. In a few short years I managed to undo years of self sabotage and failure to launch. I still struggle with judging other peoples desires lol, but that's because I see their "wants" as mostly coming from adherence to traditions, or desperately needing security/safety. I really need to work on my instinct to harshly lecture them about how "unconcious" they are, it probably comes off as judgemental and disagreeable af.

  • @abbynormal7525
    @abbynormal7525 Před 5 lety +3

    If people would watch your videos on personality types, I believe that more understanding would happen.
    Have fun with the kids over Thanksgiving and even though you are getting over being sick you are still so animated. I hope no one calls me while I’m recording cause that would suck. I know you are being dead serious but so damn funny . Keep up the good work.

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  Před 5 lety +2

      awesome, much appreciated

  • @Emily.J.
    @Emily.J. Před 3 lety +1

    Wow its really fun to watch you roast all of humanity 😆 especially knowing that its a roast for the sake of betterment rather than senseless criticism 🙏

  • @dianadias3
    @dianadias3 Před 3 lety +2

    Yeah, that thing on not letting ourselves wanting things.. Or others.. I used to make my sister feel guilty for always asking my mother things.. And the thing is my mother gave her, and I would be so pissed, because I actually wanted the same things.. I just felt it was wrong-..

  • @Istpmom
    @Istpmom Před 4 lety +1

    This is so funny! The first thing I stated to learn when developing my se was pool! 😂 That’s amazing!

  • @zenzpsem
    @zenzpsem Před 5 lety +1

    you look really good here - hairstyle and outfit - cut and color - perfect!

  • @idiotslife8508
    @idiotslife8508 Před 3 měsíci +1

    As an isfp, I have never thought I have a good memory. The opposite of it. I always knew I have the worst memory. Actually I even thought I suffer from adhd or something like that just because of my memory problem.

  • @EskeAndersen
    @EskeAndersen Před měsícem

    I agree that we (INxPs) probably are afraid to want something, but there's something else going on too. There's a spiritual component too. The Buddha's 1st Noble Truth is "Life is suffering", but the actual meaning of that is "nothing will satisfy you." You think kids will make you happy? Wrong. You think a relationship will make you happy? Wrong. You think money and fame will make you happy? Wrong. Nothing outside of yourself will make you truly happy. There's always gonna be a downside. The real problem, seen from a spiritual perspective, is that wanting itself is what is making us unhappy.

  • @Brickwilliams
    @Brickwilliams Před rokem +1

    That is funny, my mom would always say I was the easiest child because I wouldn’t ask for anything or complain bc of my fi critic