Critic Ni: "I want" Child Si: "to sleep in;" Trickster Se: "they won't even notice" Demon Fi: "because you are no use to them." Hero Ti: "Why are you guys like this" Parent Ne: "Good question"
My Ti is just possibilities ....so I hated it that people stopped me from doing it , it's so fun to me to use my ti in my head, until now I'm trying to fix me more and I recognised why I had these reactions from others ( they just don't get then I won't even look at their side ). So I hope I'd improve more and more inchallah ( I'm still stuck tho but it will better inchallah)
Discipline comes first (catalyst) > forming productive habits > increasing confidence & self awareness > becoming natural to regularly anticipate greatness & success. Motivation is the poster child/mask of discipline
Intp female here...I feel so trapped sometimes because of that stupid Ni critic and Si child...comfort and procrastination and this false idea that we don't deserve to get anything that would add value to our lives... It's a cage we crawl into without realizing sometimes. This channel has saved my life in the last 2 weeks. My life is better now because of you, Sir!
It is scary to know deep inside you are willing and capable of going psycho. I call it Hulk. It is my most destructive self and those who have experienced it full force cannot handle it at all. Better keep it in 😇
One more thing, you mentioned “use your Ti to override Ni critic” let me tell you that I was successful in overcoming severe Narcissistic abuse by using my Ti hero. I studied like crazy and used logic to heal. After looking at every angle of the problem I was able to answer each question, overcome emotions and find my way out. I am proud of my Ti
Into everytime they be in fe moods they need to use logic ti and they will heal every problem in their life.. Apart of that is studying emerging yourself into new knowledge and studying
INTJ here. Ni hero. It’s funny that you bring up the Ni critic for INTP. I find that I keep asking him... “What do you want? Why aren’t you taking the steps to get it?” He will always respond by saying, “I don’t feel I deserve it. I should (deny myself) do this first or that instead.” Then I would tell him, “That’s not really what you want. Why not create a plan to get what you actually want?” So my Ni hero has been helping him but it’s like pulling taffy... it just takes so long to get him to action. We do compliment each other well. His strengths are my weaknesses and my strengths are his weaknesses. We have so much potential together. And he’s, he is extremely and fiercely loyal to me! He’s a great INTP bf!
I love INTJs! Yes an INTP should be very compatible with you, especially if you can understand each other like it sounds you do. I would suggest to keep on him to improve these lesser traits. It will likely make him feel better and move towards reaching his potential.
I find this so incredibly amusing because I keep coming across INTJ females with INTP partners, but never the other way around -which is my case! I am an INTP female that has been married to an INTJ male for almost 18 years. We are certainly ‘the good couple’.
I definitely saw when he was talking about it and I've seen it in my life, just got to keep reminding myself of it all the time. And like you said below we have unlimited potential because of the Ti hero I guess you're saying.
Good advice. Ti is about logic. Logic states if logic can't solve the problem you need to go to the tool in your stack that can. When I was looking for a girlfriend I knew logic and Si comfort weren't going to get me what I wanted, but Fe charisma and Ne humor might. If we can transition to our ESFJ subconscious we have all the tools, just less developed.
Brilliant. I love how you justify self development based on your internalized logic. I’m an INFP and Im drawn to personality type development in search for meaning and understanding myself and others. But I have the same Ni critic problem y’all have so that’s why I’m here. I appreciate your perspective.
Unfortunately we are more worried about the problems we have than the qualities we have. 😔 I struggle I fail everyday trying to win procrastination. It's like I have the power to win the battle but somehow I let the enemy win. I mastered the art of criticising myself. I have to stop this or I won't have a future. 😑
Yes you need to reject it. This is something I think is VERY important for INTPs but just know you can do it, if you just use your Ti to CONFIRM you need to do this, and then use Ne to find ways to do this. Thanks for watching!
Great video and analysis. You're right about Ti as a hero function. When paired with Ne, it is like a gift from the gods. Like any INTP, I've always struggled to get started or to see something to the finish by sheer willpower alone. What I've found helps is essentially leaping into an activity when my Ne-interest is peaking and then binding myself with Fe-like social commitments that I feel I can't back out of, especially if I've tied them to my self identity, which is bound to Ti (i.e. "yes, of course I can draft that paper and get it to you by x deadline - this stuff is easy for me..."). There's a little braggadocio going on there, but there's also no way I'm going to fail in the task if it means the Fe tribe is going to think I'm stupid or not gifted. I'm an INTP, so of course it means that it takes me two weeks of procrastinating and watching videos on CZcams and then working furiously through the night the day before it's due, but I've learned to trust that powerful Ti/Ne combo to do what it does best in the sub-conscious, so when I'm up against a deadline I can just crank out the work. Eventually it becomes habit and you can rise above the pointless, menial jobs and tasks that young INTPs think will forever be their lot in life. There's a great poem by Charles Bukowski that I think gets right to the heart of your message in this video... good stuff for any INTP or INFP to consider: The Laughing Heart by Charles Bukowski your life is your life don’t let it be clubbed into dank submission. be on the watch. there are ways out. there is light somewhere. it may not be much light but it beats the darkness. be on the watch. the gods will offer you chances. know them. take them. you can’t beat death but you can beat death in life, sometimes. and the more often you learn to do it, the more light there will be. your life is your life. know it while you have it. you are marvelous the gods wait to delight in you.
That’s kind of how I quit smoking. I set the quit date several months into the future and then went around spouting off to every single person I saw in the course of my work day, that I was quitting on such and such day. I knew that I’d have to follow through just to save face 😂
Man... You are in my mind. Ni critic does hold me back. Willpower is tough. And the one thing that really resonated was being critical of my own intentions. Like, I analyze why I do what I do. I tell myself my intention or motivation is selfish or misguided or wrong etc. So... If I feel like if my intention isn't "good" then I shouldn't pursue it
@@TheCasualCosmonaut consider if it will cause harm to others, vs inconvenience. That's a good start. Being inconvenient to others is okay! Harming others is not okay.
my husband is an INTJ. best relationship evarrr! we push each other to constantly improve. and we talk about emotions as much as analysis or strategies or perspectives. - intp
CS Joseph says that INTP watches others being irresponsible about their lives and decisions that we avoid making those clear mistakes. I totally agree I learned with time to practice self control and not telling others what is going to happen and just let them crash. 🤐
People seldomly listen to Intp, the only way and easiest way for them to listen is not telling them they will fall and let them fall and then u swoop in like a hero. Then they will sort of listen 😂
You're probably the best INTP channel on youtube, and it's definitely cool to hear from another INTP named Tyler. I'd like to hear your thoughts on a topic, specifically the idea of figuring out what, as an INTP, one would truly want. I can come up with solutions all day, but it's one question that vexes me every day, overcoming the idea of "what exactly is it that I truly want?" It's probably Ni causing so much self doubt, but I was wondering if you might have some wisdom on that front as well, perhaps in a video of yours I just haven't watched yet.
Would be great to here your thought on using Ni is a positive way (specifically the INTP way) to help us figure out what we DO truly want. I've had problems with this, as when I ask myself "what do I really want?" I can immediately ask "but why should i want that?". I guess it's the Ti/Ne combo looking at every possibility and second guessing any desires with an Ni critic. How do you go down the existential rabbit hole with Ti logic and return with a good answer that is actually motivating for action in real life? Just a simple little problem!
Nice-- this helps me get the whole self abnegation thing-- CONSTANT self abnegation. Then the avoidance of all personal preferences is amplified by tier 8 Fi, so self knowledge is distant (or right in front of me if I LOOK). And the Ni critic stuff is cool to hear because I've always looked very closely at my own shortcomings, and give other people room in arguments, which is a luxury they take advantage of. If they lack wide cognition, they won't even realize they're dominating the conversation because I'm allowing them to, despite knowing every problem I see in their approach. They don't realize my silence comes from intense analysis of personal conceits I'm avoiding. Ni also makes me fail to say things because I think they'll be obvious, since I devalue my thinking. But every time I'm vocal about simple ideas, they're mindblowing to others. If you're an INTP and can be matter of fact about saying your thoughts (be nonchalant!), they're usually completely insightful to others even though they're banal to you. But nothing is grosser than displaying smartness, especially with benign thinking, so be conversational always. Have your thinking be an insane superpower with a completely simple/6th grade level verbalization. Go for ease and say the first thing. Don't hesitate for words or verbiage either.
I kept telling myself, I'm not worthy of love. The more and more that I watch these videos, the more and more tears that start forming in my eyes. I have so much of self hate and I don't think I can come out of it
Great stuff man. I'm really enjoying this series of videos. I can't believe how incredibly useful and important it is to pay attention to your shadow functions. And from my experience, the community has tended to be a bit stingy about information like this until quite recently. I only realized after just watching this video, how much I've been criticizing my wants, desires, and intentions. I thought it was just me living in a Ti-Si loop and being too lazy. But it may actually be the reason we get stuck in the loop in the first place is because of the Ni critic. Maybe we should call it the Ti-Si-Ni Loop. So many missed opportunities and wasted time... Not anymore. And I know it's not a pep talk (I hate pep talks if they aren't backed by logic), but it really lit a fire up my ass! So thank you again. I look forward to your next video.
Glad for lighting that fire. Now the goal is to not let it fizzle and get back into your old ways. Once you realize your potential there is nothing that can hold us INTPs back. Thanks for watching and commenting highly appreciated
I love the introduction that always reminds us of our worth .. with repetition it will turn into an Affirmations that gets into our subconscious mind . Yes we can solve any existing problem in the world and think outside of the box about solutions that no one thought of .. our imagination is what make us special and uncommon breed . We can see what others can't see
According to Socionics the strength of the INTP Ni is 4/4, the same as Ti. But whereas Ti is conscious, trusted, and under control, Ni is not. Hence we are critical of it.
Interesting. Lately i have been listening to my ni more and my oh my it absolutely knows its stuff. In the past, my ti always suspicious of it so ni always was dimissed
Thank you for pointing out that good friends won't care if you tell them you like them. I might've had that thought before, but I just couldn't be sure.
How to kill the critic: - How dare I desire this. I don't deserve this. I am a bad person. + No, you are not a bad person. What you desire is perfectly normal, and it is something other normal humans desire too. So, it is only logical for you to desire it.
THANK GOD FOR THIS VALIDATION OF MY IDEAS: I REALLY NEEDED TO OVERCOME MY INNER CRITIC, woop woop! I DESERVE JUST AS GOOD OF A LIFE AS I DESIRE FOR MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY
Oh boi I have been through hell with my Ni critic...Especially in my teen years.I would overthink most things,especially in video games and chess,and when I made the slightests of mistakes I would go on self-esteem full on attack "Why didnt you do this,why cant you think better".Also,I wanted to become a professional chess player,but when my parents insisted that it was wrong,I kept getting demotivated to act on my goal.Ofc I didnt have a concreet training and I was mostly self-taught..This video really hits hard on me because of my past.
Sounds like many INTP situations I have heard over the years. Follow your dreams. I bet INTPs make excellent chess players. I use to play myself but never got into it fully
@@intpsurvivalguide2473 We already do that with emotions. It's all about tradeoffs. Sometimes you will have to reconsider those toughts you have deemed of no use.
Thank you for this. It really touched a nerve with me to bring light to it and heal it. - I held myself back in the day not fully pursuing this amazing girl back in high school with that exact "I don't deserve her." thoughts. - I'm glad I can finally logically classify this now for myself. - I AM worthy, and DO DESERVE the future I want!
Thank you for shedding light on this. This is exactly my dilemma and why it’s so hard to move forward. Ti is definitely key. We need to have strong reasons in order to stay motivated. We’re not meant to rely solely off faith and hope. We need more evidence that we will get the results we are looking for. Having a solid game plan for all aspects of life can help us to let go and trust the process more. Ultimately, we can just be in the moment and hammer out work once we trust that we’ve made that right decisions.
As a female I always feel bad I will make others feel bad by being right. I always think people will stop liking me because I made them feel dumb or something. Thanks for the videos, I did not realise how good it would feel to know that some people understand what i am feeling.
Don't give up, I think that can be easily eased by practicing empathy, the way you say things can come off as harsh or soft from your choice of words, tone, body language etc, it takes time and practice but it can be done
I went to therapy and it's was so frustrating, I explained everything in detail so she could help me and then she said she didn't understand what I wanted from her. Understanding my problem perfectly doesn't mean I can solve it. I know I have flawed convictions (like "no one is trustworthy") but that doesn't mean my instinct will ever let me trust people
The best thing I’ve gotten out of therapy as an INTP is recognizing and challenging my cognitive distortions, literally analyzing them with my therapist an logic-ing my way out of them. You have to change your mindset, that’s truly the only way to solve your problems
This notion about our Ni critic is very informative and a great teaching moment. That even reminds me of the time when I was this timid INTP girl and would always assume that certain hot guys in my school were way out of my league due to my backward social skills
Do other people also feel that actually finishing things brings you closer to death? Not crossing things from the to-do-list of life makes you feel kind of younger.. For instance never having married in your forties seems like you‘re still adolescent and therefore old age and death seem far away.
Great video, very informative and structured. I wanted to make a comment on the fact that you kept repeating how Ni critic is probably the worst critic function. I am also an Si child (INFP), and I relate heavily to the struggles you mentioned regarding Ni critic. However, we have to be aware of the innate solipsism that accompanies Si child, we are entirely unaware of what other people are experiencing. I believe that each of the cognitive attutides are condusive for every type. Sure, society may accept some than others, like an Se critic for example. But nonetheless, they all provide the same frustration & hardship to the individual. The person I am dating has Ne critic, and it manifests in OCD-esque behavior, and lots of paranoia. Everything really is just a different side of the same coin!
I've had some success in the past by becoming the critic's stenographer. It works because our self-critique is on permanent 24/7 seemingly infinite loop. When you write them down you realize their number is finite, and thus manageable.
A great solution on several levels...virtual high 5! It jogged my memory of something Abraham Lincoln did during the Civil War. He was intensely frustrated with a general's performance. Lincoln penned a letter to the general in which is voiced his frustrations plainly and clearly. Lincoln didn't send out the letter. It was found in his desk after his death. Ole Abe gave his frustrations a safe space to be expressed and could move on to other things and that energy wouldn't hijack him at some random moment. On another level -- this practice puts one in an observer mode with the critic. Kinda sitting side-by-side with part of ourselves. In Carl Jung's pyschology, we have a cast of inner character who all need to be heard...and when they are ignored or suppressed they revolt directly or indirectly. Kudos for coming up with this solution. Ole Abe and Dr. Jung are giving you *the nod*
I've been trying to find solutions to procrastination and perfectionism bc I see how much it is holding me back. I feel the potential I have inside me and I was thinking that maybe I'm depressed and I can't do anything about it but after learning more about cognitive functions I believe I can work on myself. Thank you.
Ne casts a broad net. Ni drills a hole. As an INTP I've read half the world book Encyclopedia but only one novel on my own (Lord of the Rings, which took me 9 months.)
It's not that I am not confident, it's that I despise the emotions that having a single failure or a getting a "talking to", e.g. being reprimanded at work, would make me feel with the burning hatred of a billion red hot suns.
Hi...I am an INTP also and the way that I work through my willpower problem is that I make a person my target...I need to be better than him/her...I need to make more videos than him/her....I need to show to show that I am better than hin/her. That has always given me the drive to be better and do better...that is a goal or target that I make for myself and that fuels me to pursue or be diligently apply myself every day to become better at what I set or want to set myself out to do...if I want to read more...study more..train more. That is the TI trick that I use to motivate myself. Have a pleasant day Sincerely,
If Ni is the source of willpower . From where do we get our willpower ? Because sometimes we get some burts of willpower that make us move the mountains .
@@intpsurvivalguide2473 We don't use Ni except when we would give up but the problem is urgent, we use Si and think that it's Ni, and because we misidentify our Si as Ni we treat it as a new idea that needs Ne run on it anyway, not realising our Ne and Si already made the idea some time ago but we'd forgotten about it. By the very nature of it, genuine Ni is both shocking to an INTP, and usually very poor due to lack of Se. This exact process is how we update our Si patterns The smarter you are as an INTP, the more this false Ni that is actually incredibly deep Ne converted into Si, usually with ideas we rejected or deemed unimportant. But think about it, we've all thought about almost everything at one time or another and analysed it. It doesn't just cease to be because the actual idea isn't consciously accessible, the pattern that the brain recognised is still there. INTPs tend to be the best type at pattern recognition on IQ tests for a reason. The only time an INTP gets true Ni is when something is so foreign or confusing we do not have an Si pattern to use and Ti and Ne have no answers. You know that rare feeling when you just don't get "why" in a class and it feels like your IQ dropped by 50 points and you get a headache because you're trying to focus really hard on the material and just get it instead of being able to work it out? That's Ni and Se trying (usually very poorly) to get the information Ti needs to solve the problem because Ne and Si have failed and it needs to be done now. I get this all the time with physical tasks I don't conceptually understand
I've been holding off watching this video. How stupid I've been! This just helped me process what is currently happening in my life. I've been crippled by NI critic for so long and wondering for longest time how do I silence this guilt.
Oh boy my Si and Ni are in war with each other sometimes because of this: "Ok we do what you want even if I do not feel good about it" But there is also this: "Damn I got what I want but nobody else enjoys it "
It's really amazing to come across another INTP who came to so many of the same conclusions as me. Do you act them out in practice? My fellow INTP friends often make me question my own typing, seeing them trapped in a lot of the INTP pitfalls that I somehow managed to (mostly) avoid. I think a motivated INTP can find success in anything they choose to do, as long as they actually _do_ it.
I think all traits are positive and negative... and both at the same time sometimes. Yes, I am my own worst critic and a do a lot of the things in this discussion. But I don't see it as the Ne critic being wrong, just out of balance. The world would be a much better place if more people hesitated before acting on what they want. Stopping and thinking how this action will affect other people is a good thing. But out of balance it is paralyzing. That is not good either.
I wonder if this is why there's quite a lot of INFJs and INTJs working for themselves - I've seen several on CZcams. I want to do it (not (YT) but can't seem to do it and I am now blaming my NI critic. Thanks for another informative video :)
I want to call you on being a doctor. I'm probably not the only INTP that is a slow reader because they get sidetracked fully digesting what they read and probably not being able to cover everything needed for a doctorate. Or even to get through the topics that hold no special interest to our intellectual curiosity.
Thank you! I appreciate the positive video so much. I feel like a lot of MBTI information emphasizes liabilities, and idk how helpful that is esp for INTP! ❤
Here are some benefits from chat GPT Providing a sense of direction and purpose for the INTP’s exploration of ideas and possibilities with Ne and Ti. Helping the INTP to narrow down options and make decisions based on their long-term vision and goals. Allowing the INTP to critique and improve their own or others’ work by pointing out flaws, inconsistencies, or gaps in logic. Enhancing the INTP’s creativity and imagination by generating alternative scenarios, perspectives, or interpretations of reality.
I think this is most destruktive in combination with inferior fe. It sometimes makes me far to willing to sacrifice what I want dor others. One step for me has been to at least say what I want even if I let the other person have it there way. Then at least the other person knows I made a sacrifice for you.
Listen friend. I really appreciate you discussing this topic. However, I don’t see the fact that we lack in a function, to be a flaw. Just because we can improve something does not mean that we should. I only watched till minute 12 so maybe that’s the reason we are not on the same page. The reason why I feel strongly about this, is that for quite some time, I tried to improve my fe strongly, because I felt there’s something “wrong” with me. The Ni critic actually saved my life. It told me that what I was going after is not what I should go after. Without it... to this day I would probably be chasing Fe development which is not so good, because we should learn to embrace our strong points more than try to improve ourselves. I know you try to teach with perfect intentions. I just wanted to share this information with you as a person, so that you can maybe learn to embrace all your functions AND the way that they are stronger than one another. I’d focus on just living and accepting myself than just trying to improve a “flawed?” sense of self. We are great the way we are. Ni may be a good wake up call to us, as nothing in the world really matters. NJ’s have high Ni because they do in fact believe that things really matter. I don’t think we do. For example... if I ask you how important your channel is to your life goals right now, and what it would take you to remove it. An NJ would be like “no way on earth because ___ ___ ____”. I’m sure if you aren’t working on function development, you would answer closely to saying it’s not really essential to anything. Because you don’t need anything other than food and water. Even that can be hacked. :)
Beautiful another fellow INTP here and this is clear some things I’ve overcame from personal experience but others I’m still stuck on... time to grow and learn!💪🏽🙇🏽♂️🥰😔🏩🥲🏥🏦
hello ive just recently found out about the Ni critic yes it is very detrimental it doesnt let us trust our instinct, doesnt let us even try to predict whats behind, we didnt want the assuming part. Ni, though is assuming. it is willpower as u said. and this willpower is supposed to project onto us how we will achieve stuff. it is the great intuition of jumping to conclusion, so im not sure if im being wrong here, but im still seeing a bit of reason to be careful in jumping in conclusion. next, PLEASE i would like to see an INTP to ENTJ trandformation guide. I believe the ENTJ shadow will help to be an executor of (heads) the project we will deem worthy. NxJ is the side of personalities that executes. now, im requesting for you to share something maybe a how to be ENTJ as INTP etc. Thank you this was great content.
Pretty easy, you just need a force from outside. For ex, your family need your money support and the responsibility has to fall on only you and you must do it no matter what. You will then have to come up with best solution then a plan to execute and execute it like an entj.
Thank you for your video. I'd like to add some perspective to your video because I don't think some of the info is right. For instance you talked about INTJ and the relationship between introverted intuition and willpower. However, the willpower doesn't come from the cognitive function itself, it comes from the individual accepting its pull. Just like other types, many INTJs feel stuck, procrastinate, suffer from diseases and mental health fluctuations. A person grounded in themself and their cognitive preferences will come off as confident and/or unapologetic regardless of the type.
_"Why the Ni critic that INTP's have is so detrimental to our lives, Ways to reject the Ni critic using your Ti hero and Ne parent..."_ _"I apologize for how long this video is. Did not intend for it to be this long."_ The struggle is real.
One small challenge, you mentioned one time that you don't want to study, to finish those books that you had started, because you didn't want to do the work. Later I think you said because you didn't think you were worth it. But you did mention because you didn't want to do the work. Is not wanting to do the work also a function of the Si child, who doesn't want to leave his comfort zone? Or maybe I don't understand the Ni-critic properly...
It is more the Si child I believe.. but Ni is also about finishing something once you start it. Ni dominants will see something through to the end because they almost have to. I think it is a bit of both. Good question
audiobooks and text-to-speech software are very good ways to listen to books/articles without reading (can be doing something else at the same time and learning in the background)
I think we should be critical of many of our dreams as unrealistic. We should only go with our Ni dream if it is the best Ne option. If we are Si capable and/or should be doing it. If we are Fe helping others and making sufficient Te $ while doing it. Then if it falls within those categories can our dream become reality.
Where did you find this information man? I've been working a little bit every day but knowing how to use NE to override the critic would be a great video :)
Funny he says that Ni critic is usually self inflicted, my Ni critic makes me think the worst of people and even one mistake can make me unhealthily assume the worst of someone and sadly I can be really hard on people unecassarily, I struggle with it a lot and trying to assume the best of people is really hard, and sometimes I even just hypothesize how bad a conversation is gonna go if I vent my feelings
Critic Ni: "I want"
Child Si: "to sleep in;"
Trickster Se: "they won't even notice"
Demon Fi: "because you are no use to them."
Hero Ti: "Why are you guys like this"
Parent Ne: "Good question"
My Ti is just possibilities ....so I hated it that people stopped me from doing it , it's so fun to me to use my ti in my head, until now I'm trying to fix me more and I recognised why I had these reactions from others ( they just don't get then I won't even look at their side ). So I hope I'd improve more and more inchallah ( I'm still stuck tho but it will better inchallah)
@@BksRadjae It gets better with age don't worry.
We all serve our purpose, insha'Allah you will find yours 👍
The INTP, a near-complete recipe for success that comes missing the most vital ingredient,
motivation.
Swear to god every INTP video has the most fire quotes in the comments
@@Mjkey_M soooo true, too much wisdom in some comments
Ifkr!
Discipline comes first (catalyst) > forming productive habits > increasing confidence & self awareness > becoming natural to regularly anticipate greatness & success. Motivation is the poster child/mask of discipline
It’s not natural for INTPs - but it can. Use Ti & Ne to find the best ways to form discipline
Intp female here...I feel so trapped sometimes because of that stupid Ni critic and Si child...comfort and procrastination and this false idea that we don't deserve to get anything that would add value to our lives...
It's a cage we crawl into without realizing sometimes. This channel has saved my life in the last 2 weeks. My life is better now because of you, Sir!
Sounds like depression, and this is coming from another INTP which is less than happy
@@diamocube5048same here was definitely in depression, intp that found help through Jesus.
The Fi demon is when you rage or are frustrated at something you don't understand
well, I can relate
We have all been there
It is scary to know deep inside you are willing and capable of going psycho.
I call it Hulk. It is my most destructive self and those who have experienced it full force cannot handle it at all.
Better keep it in 😇
@@damanodrama The instant I read "HULK" my old boss came to mind.
As a dumbass (because I don’t know shit) I am constantly in this state :)
One more thing, you mentioned “use your Ti to override Ni critic” let me tell you that I was successful in overcoming severe Narcissistic abuse by using my Ti hero. I studied like crazy and used logic to heal.
After looking at every angle of the problem I was able to answer each question, overcome emotions and find my way out.
I am proud of my Ti
Into everytime they be in fe moods they need to use logic ti and they will heal every problem in their life.. Apart of that is studying emerging yourself into new knowledge and studying
Literally same
How did that narcissist operate? Was he taunting you into quarrel?
Same here....on my way out using NiTi as an INFJ....
Same lol
INTJ here. Ni hero. It’s funny that you bring up the Ni critic for INTP. I find that I keep asking him... “What do you want? Why aren’t you taking the steps to get it?” He will always respond by saying, “I don’t feel I deserve it. I should (deny myself) do this first or that instead.” Then I would tell him, “That’s not really what you want. Why not create a plan to get what you actually want?”
So my Ni hero has been helping him but it’s like pulling taffy... it just takes so long to get him to action.
We do compliment each other well. His strengths are my weaknesses and my strengths are his weaknesses. We have so much potential together. And he’s, he is extremely and fiercely loyal to me! He’s a great INTP bf!
I love INTJs! Yes an INTP should be very compatible with you, especially if you can understand each other like it sounds you do. I would suggest to keep on him to improve these lesser traits. It will likely make him feel better and move towards reaching his potential.
I am a female INTP and I have described myself as fiercely loyal.
I find this so incredibly amusing because I keep coming across INTJ females with INTP partners, but never the other way around -which is my case! I am an INTP female that has been married to an INTJ male for almost 18 years. We are certainly ‘the good couple’.
@@cross-eyedmary6619 Yes! We are indeed fiercely loyal -INTP
literally me watching this "this is really helpful I want to fully watch the video and at the same I just don't feel like watching it".
thats insanely peak aint it, why are we even smart like fr, what this change
Simply says that, be confident in who you are and believe in yourself.....lack of confidence is the main problem of intps
Very true. But we really should not be. We have unlimited potential IMO
I definitely saw when he was talking about it and I've seen it in my life, just got to keep reminding myself of it all the time. And like you said below we have unlimited potential because of the Ti hero I guess you're saying.
@@davspa6 I started to drink alot arround 15yo.
It helped more than hurted me 15 years later? Idk, but i can talk to people now.
Instablaster.
Good advice. Ti is about logic. Logic states if logic can't solve the problem you need to go to the tool in your stack that can. When I was looking for a girlfriend I knew logic and Si comfort weren't going to get me what I wanted, but Fe charisma and Ne humor might. If we can transition to our ESFJ subconscious we have all the tools, just less developed.
Brilliant. I love how you justify self development based on your internalized logic. I’m an INFP and Im drawn to personality type development in search for meaning and understanding myself and others. But I have the same Ni critic problem y’all have so that’s why I’m here. I appreciate your perspective.
The founder of Wikipedia is an INTP. We love the broad knowledge of Encyclopedias.
Read/Listen to "The Shallows" to see why this "hyperlinks abound" thing may be a big enemy if your mind. Even the few ones in Kindle, for example!
Unfortunately we are more worried about the problems we have than the qualities we have. 😔 I struggle I fail everyday trying to win procrastination. It's like I have the power to win the battle but somehow I let the enemy win. I mastered the art of criticising myself. I have to stop this or I won't have a future. 😑
Yes you need to reject it. This is something I think is VERY important for INTPs but just know you can do it, if you just use your Ti to CONFIRM you need to do this, and then use Ne to find ways to do this. Thanks for watching!
Great video and analysis. You're right about Ti as a hero function. When paired with Ne, it is like a gift from the gods. Like any INTP, I've always struggled to get started or to see something to the finish by sheer willpower alone. What I've found helps is essentially leaping into an activity when my Ne-interest is peaking and then binding myself with Fe-like social commitments that I feel I can't back out of, especially if I've tied them to my self identity, which is bound to Ti (i.e. "yes, of course I can draft that paper and get it to you by x deadline - this stuff is easy for me..."). There's a little braggadocio going on there, but there's also no way I'm going to fail in the task if it means the Fe tribe is going to think I'm stupid or not gifted. I'm an INTP, so of course it means that it takes me two weeks of procrastinating and watching videos on CZcams and then working furiously through the night the day before it's due, but I've learned to trust that powerful Ti/Ne combo to do what it does best in the sub-conscious, so when I'm up against a deadline I can just crank out the work. Eventually it becomes habit and you can rise above the pointless, menial jobs and tasks that young INTPs think will forever be their lot in life. There's a great poem by Charles Bukowski that I think gets right to the heart of your message in this video... good stuff for any INTP or INFP to consider:
The Laughing Heart by Charles Bukowski
your life is your life
don’t let it be clubbed into dank submission.
be on the watch.
there are ways out.
there is light somewhere.
it may not be much light but
it beats the darkness.
be on the watch.
the gods will offer you chances.
know them.
take them.
you can’t beat death but
you can beat death in life, sometimes.
and the more often you learn to do it,
the more light there will be.
your life is your life.
know it while you have it.
you are marvelous
the gods wait to delight
in you.
Great comment and poem. Thank you for sharing!
That’s kind of how I quit smoking. I set the quit date several months into the future and then went around spouting off to every single person I saw in the course of my work day, that I was quitting on such and such day. I knew that I’d have to follow through just to save face 😂
Man... You are in my mind. Ni critic does hold me back. Willpower is tough. And the one thing that really resonated was being critical of my own intentions. Like, I analyze why I do what I do. I tell myself my intention or motivation is selfish or misguided or wrong etc. So... If I feel like if my intention isn't "good" then I shouldn't pursue it
Need to start rejecting that! Thanks for watching
@@intpsurvivalguide2473 Advice on moderation? Wholesale rejection seems unreasonable.
@@TheCasualCosmonaut consider if it will cause harm to others, vs inconvenience. That's a good start. Being inconvenient to others is okay! Harming others is not okay.
You need Ayn Rand in your life.
Start by reading "Atlas Shrugged" and "The Fountainhead".
my husband is an INTJ. best relationship evarrr! we push each other to constantly improve. and we talk about emotions as much as analysis or strategies or perspectives. - intp
An intj willing to talk about emotions. Wow. Its hard to find 😅
CS Joseph says that INTP watches others being irresponsible about their lives and decisions that we avoid making those clear mistakes.
I totally agree
I learned with time to practice self control and not telling others what is going to happen and just let them crash.
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Interesting point. Maybe they can be our guinea pigs so to speak lol
People seldomly listen to Intp, the only way and easiest way for them to listen is not telling them they will fall and let them fall and then u swoop in like a hero. Then they will sort of listen 😂
You're probably the best INTP channel on youtube, and it's definitely cool to hear from another INTP named Tyler. I'd like to hear your thoughts on a topic, specifically the idea of figuring out what, as an INTP, one would truly want. I can come up with solutions all day, but it's one question that vexes me every day, overcoming the idea of "what exactly is it that I truly want?" It's probably Ni causing so much self doubt, but I was wondering if you might have some wisdom on that front as well, perhaps in a video of yours I just haven't watched yet.
Great idea I will have to think about that. Thanks!
Would be great to here your thought on using Ni is a positive way (specifically the INTP way) to help us figure out what we DO truly want. I've had problems with this, as when I ask myself "what do I really want?" I can immediately ask "but why should i want that?". I guess it's the Ti/Ne combo looking at every possibility and second guessing any desires with an Ni critic. How do you go down the existential rabbit hole with Ti logic and return with a good answer that is actually motivating for action in real life? Just a simple little problem!
We are the storm that is approaching
that not finishing awesome books thing, man. as cliche as it is, i thought it was just me.
Yeah tough for us to see things through for sure. Just something we have to work on. Thanks for watching!
Nice-- this helps me get the whole self abnegation thing-- CONSTANT self abnegation. Then the avoidance of all personal preferences is amplified by tier 8 Fi, so self knowledge is distant (or right in front of me if I LOOK). And the Ni critic stuff is cool to hear because I've always looked very closely at my own shortcomings, and give other people room in arguments, which is a luxury they take advantage of. If they lack wide cognition, they won't even realize they're dominating the conversation because I'm allowing them to, despite knowing every problem I see in their approach. They don't realize my silence comes from intense analysis of personal conceits I'm avoiding.
Ni also makes me fail to say things because I think they'll be obvious, since I devalue my thinking. But every time I'm vocal about simple ideas, they're mindblowing to others.
If you're an INTP and can be matter of fact about saying your thoughts (be nonchalant!), they're usually completely insightful to others even though they're banal to you. But nothing is grosser than displaying smartness, especially with benign thinking, so be conversational always. Have your thinking be an insane superpower with a completely simple/6th grade level verbalization. Go for ease and say the first thing. Don't hesitate for words or verbiage either.
I kept telling myself, I'm not worthy of love. The more and more that I watch these videos, the more and more tears that start forming in my eyes. I have so much of self hate and I don't think I can come out of it
Leaving a comment so ya vid gets more traction.
All you Intps need to see this
Thank you!!
Wow, just bought a car and experienced exactly what you described.
Definitely the best description of Ni critic I've come across, keep it up!
Thanks for watching!
Great stuff man. I'm really enjoying this series of videos. I can't believe how incredibly useful and important it is to pay attention to your shadow functions. And from my experience, the community has tended to be a bit stingy about information like this until quite recently. I only realized after just watching this video, how much I've been criticizing my wants, desires, and intentions. I thought it was just me living in a Ti-Si loop and being too lazy. But it may actually be the reason we get stuck in the loop in the first place is because of the Ni critic. Maybe we should call it the Ti-Si-Ni Loop. So many missed opportunities and wasted time... Not anymore. And I know it's not a pep talk (I hate pep talks if they aren't backed by logic), but it really lit a fire up my ass! So thank you again. I look forward to your next video.
Glad for lighting that fire. Now the goal is to not let it fizzle and get back into your old ways. Once you realize your potential there is nothing that can hold us INTPs back. Thanks for watching and commenting highly appreciated
I love the introduction that always reminds us of our worth .. with repetition it will turn into an Affirmations that gets into our subconscious mind .
Yes we can solve any existing problem in the world and think outside of the box about solutions that no one thought of .. our imagination is what make us special and uncommon breed .
We can see what others can't see
According to Socionics the strength of the INTP Ni is 4/4, the same as Ti. But whereas Ti is conscious, trusted, and under control, Ni is not. Hence we are critical of it.
Interesting. Lately i have been listening to my ni more and my oh my it absolutely knows its stuff. In the past, my ti always suspicious of it so ni always was dimissed
Thank you for pointing out that good friends won't care if you tell them you like them. I might've had that thought before, but I just couldn't be sure.
It is so true though. It could be kind of a test in a way if she is a true friend. Either way you win honestly. Thanks for watching!
How to kill the critic:
- How dare I desire this. I don't deserve this. I am a bad person.
+ No, you are not a bad person. What you desire is perfectly normal, and it is something other normal humans desire too. So, it is only logical for you to desire it.
THANK GOD FOR THIS VALIDATION OF MY IDEAS: I REALLY NEEDED TO OVERCOME MY INNER CRITIC, woop woop! I DESERVE JUST AS GOOD OF A LIFE AS I DESIRE FOR MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY
Oh boi I have been through hell with my Ni critic...Especially in my teen years.I would overthink most things,especially in video games and chess,and when I made the slightests of mistakes I would go on self-esteem full on attack "Why didnt you do this,why cant you think better".Also,I wanted to become a professional chess player,but when my parents insisted that it was wrong,I kept getting demotivated to act on my goal.Ofc I didnt have a concreet training and I was mostly self-taught..This video really hits hard on me because of my past.
Sounds like many INTP situations I have heard over the years. Follow your dreams. I bet INTPs make excellent chess players. I use to play myself but never got into it fully
the problem is that my Ti has to find a sense where logically the Ni critic is wrong and that's exausting
Still worth it my opinion. I have kind of trained myself to when I start questioning if I deserve something I just automatically reject it.
@@intpsurvivalguide2473
We already do that with emotions. It's all about tradeoffs. Sometimes you will have to reconsider those toughts you have deemed of no use.
Thank you for this. It really touched a nerve with me to bring light to it and heal it. - I held myself back in the day not fully pursuing this amazing girl back in high school with that exact "I don't deserve her." thoughts. - I'm glad I can finally logically classify this now for myself. - I AM worthy, and DO DESERVE the future I want!
Very helpful. Thank you.
Glad it was helpful. Thanks for watching!
Thank you for shedding light on this. This is exactly my dilemma and why it’s so hard to move forward. Ti is definitely key. We need to have strong reasons in order to stay motivated. We’re not meant to rely solely off faith and hope. We need more evidence that we will get the results we are looking for. Having a solid game plan for all aspects of life can help us to let go and trust the process more. Ultimately, we can just be in the moment and hammer out work once we trust that we’ve made that right decisions.
As a female I always feel bad I will make others feel bad by being right. I always think people will stop liking me because I made them feel dumb or something. Thanks for the videos, I did not realise how good it would feel to know that some people understand what i am feeling.
May be it's not deliberate....some statements intp 's say...like universal truth and it appears to be insensitive.Fellow introvert.
Don't give up, I think that can be easily eased by practicing empathy, the way you say things can come off as harsh or soft from your choice of words, tone, body language etc, it takes time and practice but it can be done
I went to therapy and it's was so frustrating, I explained everything in detail so she could help me and then she said she didn't understand what I wanted from her. Understanding my problem perfectly doesn't mean I can solve it. I know I have flawed convictions (like "no one is trustworthy") but that doesn't mean my instinct will ever let me trust people
The best thing I’ve gotten out of therapy as an INTP is recognizing and challenging my cognitive distortions, literally analyzing them with my therapist an logic-ing my way out of them. You have to change your mindset, that’s truly the only way to solve your problems
From my point of view, it is not about a will, but about the right moment when to start (or to continue).
This notion about our Ni critic is very informative and a great teaching moment. That even reminds me of the time when I was this timid INTP girl and would always assume that certain hot guys in my school were way out of my league due to my backward social skills
Doing things for myself, helps me to do things for others.
Was currently heading down a trail of thought that I never have an original thought... Then this popped up in my feed
Thanks
Thank you for watching!
Do other people also feel that actually finishing things brings you closer to death? Not crossing things from the to-do-list of life makes you feel kind of younger.. For instance never having married in your forties seems like you‘re still adolescent and therefore old age and death seem far away.
Yes. I would be interested in exploring this idea, would you?
Not following rat races helps a lot
I think you can also satisfy the ni critic.. sometimes we aren’t able to get certain things and we need to do something to be able to (ti)
Great video, very informative and structured.
I wanted to make a comment on the fact that you kept repeating how Ni critic is probably the worst critic function. I am also an Si child (INFP), and I relate heavily to the struggles you mentioned regarding Ni critic. However, we have to be aware of the innate solipsism that accompanies Si child, we are entirely unaware of what other people are experiencing.
I believe that each of the cognitive attutides are condusive for every type. Sure, society may accept some than others, like an Se critic for example. But nonetheless, they all provide the same frustration & hardship to the individual.
The person I am dating has Ne critic, and it manifests in OCD-esque behavior, and lots of paranoia. Everything really is just a different side of the same coin!
I've had some success in the past by becoming the critic's stenographer. It works because our self-critique is on permanent 24/7 seemingly infinite loop. When you write them down you realize their number is finite, and thus manageable.
great insight, thank you, I will try this
A great solution on several levels...virtual high 5! It jogged my memory of something Abraham Lincoln did during the Civil War. He was intensely frustrated with a general's performance. Lincoln penned a letter to the general in which is voiced his frustrations plainly and clearly. Lincoln didn't send out the letter. It was found in his desk after his death. Ole Abe gave his frustrations a safe space to be expressed and could move on to other things and that energy wouldn't hijack him at some random moment.
On another level -- this practice puts one in an observer mode with the critic. Kinda sitting side-by-side with part of ourselves. In Carl Jung's pyschology, we have a cast of inner character who all need to be heard...and when they are ignored or suppressed they revolt directly or indirectly.
Kudos for coming up with this solution. Ole Abe and Dr. Jung are giving you *the nod*
I've been trying to find solutions to procrastination and perfectionism bc I see how much it is holding me back. I feel the potential I have inside me and I was thinking that maybe I'm depressed and I can't do anything about it but after learning more about cognitive functions I believe I can work on myself.
Thank you.
Ne casts a broad net. Ni drills a hole. As an INTP I've read half the world book Encyclopedia but only one novel on my own (Lord of the Rings, which took me 9 months.)
Thank you. Keep up the good work! Greetings from Ukraine
Thank you very much!
you improve my life single handedly with this channel. ty for that
Your channel is a bless. I was so desperate, i needed this so much...
So glad you find it helpful! Thanks for watching
Just figured out that I’m INTP, you don’t know how much I appreciate your work.
Much thanks, personality mate!
Tyler, thank you for inspiring and supporting us INTP's!
It's not that I am not confident, it's that I despise the emotions that having a single failure or a getting a "talking to", e.g. being reprimanded at work, would make me feel with the burning hatred of a billion red hot suns.
dude me too. try letting go technique by David Hawkins, changed my life
Bro look up RSD
Hi...I am an INTP also and the way that I work through my willpower problem is that I make a person my target...I need to be better than him/her...I need to make more videos than him/her....I need to show to show that I am better than hin/her.
That has always given me the drive to be better and do better...that is a goal or target that I make for myself and that fuels me to pursue or be diligently apply myself every day to become better at what I set or want to set myself out to do...if I want to read more...study more..train more.
That is the TI trick that I use to motivate myself.
Have a pleasant day
Sincerely,
If Ni is the source of willpower . From where do we get our willpower ?
Because sometimes we get some burts of willpower that make us move the mountains .
Ni is actually not too low for INTPs it is just something we criticize.
Ne and Si does it all, new ideas that feel exciting but make sense based on our Si patterns and that we feel comfortable with the steps.
@@intpsurvivalguide2473 We don't use Ni except when we would give up but the problem is urgent, we use Si and think that it's Ni, and because we misidentify our Si as Ni we treat it as a new idea that needs Ne run on it anyway, not realising our Ne and Si already made the idea some time ago but we'd forgotten about it. By the very nature of it, genuine Ni is both shocking to an INTP, and usually very poor due to lack of Se. This exact process is how we update our Si patterns
The smarter you are as an INTP, the more this false Ni that is actually incredibly deep Ne converted into Si, usually with ideas we rejected or deemed unimportant. But think about it, we've all thought about almost everything at one time or another and analysed it. It doesn't just cease to be because the actual idea isn't consciously accessible, the pattern that the brain recognised is still there. INTPs tend to be the best type at pattern recognition on IQ tests for a reason.
The only time an INTP gets true Ni is when something is so foreign or confusing we do not have an Si pattern to use and Ti and Ne have no answers.
You know that rare feeling when you just don't get "why" in a class and it feels like your IQ dropped by 50 points and you get a headache because you're trying to focus really hard on the material and just get it instead of being able to work it out? That's Ni and Se trying (usually very poorly) to get the information Ti needs to solve the problem because Ne and Si have failed and it needs to be done now. I get this all the time with physical tasks I don't conceptually understand
This video was amazing
Just wanted to say thank you this changed somethings..
Good to hear. It has been a week since this comment I hope the changes have stayed!
I have very strong willpower, doesn't help you figure out what you want. Not even a little.
I've been holding off watching this video. How stupid I've been! This just helped me process what is currently happening in my life. I've been crippled by NI critic for so long and wondering for longest time how do I silence this guilt.
Oh boy my Si and Ni are in war with each other sometimes because of this: "Ok we do what you want even if I do not feel good about it" But there is also this: "Damn I got what I want but nobody else enjoys it "
It's really amazing to come across another INTP who came to so many of the same conclusions as me. Do you act them out in practice? My fellow INTP friends often make me question my own typing, seeing them trapped in a lot of the INTP pitfalls that I somehow managed to (mostly) avoid. I think a motivated INTP can find success in anything they choose to do, as long as they actually _do_ it.
you changed my mind almost after 3 years of being single minded
I think all traits are positive and negative... and both at the same time sometimes. Yes, I am my own worst critic and a do a lot of the things in this discussion. But I don't see it as the Ne critic being wrong, just out of balance. The world would be a much better place if more people hesitated before acting on what they want. Stopping and thinking how this action will affect other people is a good thing. But out of balance it is paralyzing. That is not good either.
Well you just have to be smart enough to know what is right and wrong. I think the Ni critic hurts us more than helps
This video started to open up the skies for me.
Thank you.
super useful & informative, great content.
Thank you sir
I think Ni is actually very useful in causing that frugal lifestyle you describe, I wouldn't get rid of that personally, even with the negatives.
11:10 I resonated with this so much. It's always blown my mind when people are just like, "Let's surrender to this horrible BS."😂
I absolutely love the presentation style videos, keep up the amazing work. You have helped me immensely in some areas of my life!
I wonder if this is why there's quite a lot of INFJs and INTJs working for themselves - I've seen several on CZcams. I want to do it (not (YT) but can't seem to do it and I am now blaming my NI critic. Thanks for another informative video :)
I want to call you on being a doctor. I'm probably not the only INTP that is a slow reader because they get sidetracked fully digesting what they read and probably not being able to cover everything needed for a doctorate. Or even to get through the topics that hold no special interest to our intellectual curiosity.
Thank you for these videos brother
My pleasure. Hope they are helpful
thanks so much sir.you solved a big puzzle and feeling I didn't know to solve and self sabotaged.but it's never late.thanks💜🌼
Thank you! I appreciate the positive video so much. I feel like a lot of MBTI information emphasizes liabilities, and idk how helpful that is esp for INTP! ❤
This is so useful .. waiting for your next videos ☀️
Happy to hear that!
@@intpsurvivalguide2473 how to earn money using Ti and Ne ??
Your a g bro👊 and your content is sick
Where did you learn so much about our type? And in so much depth, it’s crazy
Here are some benefits from chat GPT
Providing a sense of direction and purpose for the INTP’s exploration of ideas and possibilities with Ne and Ti.
Helping the INTP to narrow down options and make decisions based on their long-term vision and goals.
Allowing the INTP to critique and improve their own or others’ work by pointing out flaws, inconsistencies, or gaps in logic.
Enhancing the INTP’s creativity and imagination by generating alternative scenarios, perspectives, or interpretations of reality.
I think this is most destruktive in combination with inferior fe. It sometimes makes me far to willing to sacrifice what I want dor others.
One step for me has been to at least say what I want even if I let the other person have it there way. Then at least the other person knows I made a sacrifice for you.
Wow, interesting explanation of Ni. As an INFJ female, I feel attacked yet reassured about my personality hahaha
You INFJs are an interesting bunch! Thanks for watching!
Listen friend. I really appreciate you discussing this topic. However, I don’t see the fact that we lack in a function, to be a flaw. Just because we can improve something does not mean that we should. I only watched till minute 12 so maybe that’s the reason we are not on the same page.
The reason why I feel strongly about this, is that for quite some time, I tried to improve my fe strongly, because I felt there’s something “wrong” with me. The Ni critic actually saved my life. It told me that what I was going after is not what I should go after. Without it... to this day I would probably be chasing Fe development which is not so good, because we should learn to embrace our strong points more than try to improve ourselves. I know you try to teach with perfect intentions. I just wanted to share this information with you as a person, so that you can maybe learn to embrace all your functions AND the way that they are stronger than one another. I’d focus on just living and accepting myself than just trying to improve a “flawed?” sense of self. We are great the way we are. Ni may be a good wake up call to us, as nothing in the world really matters. NJ’s have high Ni because they do in fact believe that things really matter. I don’t think we do. For example... if I ask you how important your channel is to your life goals right now, and what it would take you to remove it. An NJ would be like “no way on earth because ___ ___ ____”. I’m sure if you aren’t working on function development, you would answer closely to saying it’s not really essential to anything. Because you don’t need anything other than food and water. Even that can be hacked. :)
Beautiful another fellow INTP here and this is clear some things I’ve overcame from personal experience but others I’m still stuck on... time to grow and learn!💪🏽🙇🏽♂️🥰😔🏩🥲🏥🏦
Omg great video, thanks!
Appreciate the kind comments! Thank you so much!
God bless you! Incredible video! I feel so empowered!
Good stuff, thanks! I feel encouraged by your channel.
I'm actually looking to build my willpower. Can't agree more that practice makes progress.
All you want in the end is a smile on your face
Nailed it on the critic part. I hate it!
I loved this video. It gave me peace. Thank you.
Bro thank you so much for your videos and research! Ur helping me with my life in such a big way. U are appreciated
hello ive just recently found out about the Ni critic yes it is very detrimental it doesnt let us trust our instinct, doesnt let us even try to predict whats behind, we didnt want the assuming part.
Ni, though is assuming. it is willpower as u said. and this willpower is supposed to project onto us how we will achieve stuff. it is the great intuition of jumping to conclusion, so im not sure if im being wrong here, but im still seeing a bit of reason to be careful in jumping in conclusion.
next, PLEASE i would like to see an INTP to ENTJ trandformation guide. I believe the ENTJ shadow will help to be an executor of (heads) the project we will deem worthy. NxJ is the side of personalities that executes.
now, im requesting for you to share something maybe a how to be ENTJ as INTP etc.
Thank you this was great content.
Pretty easy, you just need a force from outside. For ex, your family need your money support and the responsibility has to fall on only you and you must do it no matter what. You will then have to come up with best solution then a plan to execute and execute it like an entj.
Thank you for your video. I'd like to add some perspective to your video because I don't think some of the info is right. For instance you talked about INTJ and the relationship between introverted intuition and willpower. However, the willpower doesn't come from the cognitive function itself, it comes from the individual accepting its pull. Just like other types, many INTJs feel stuck, procrastinate, suffer from diseases and mental health fluctuations. A person grounded in themself and their cognitive preferences will come off as confident and/or unapologetic regardless of the type.
_"Why the Ni critic that INTP's have is so detrimental to our lives, Ways to reject the Ni critic using your Ti hero and Ne parent..."_
_"I apologize for how long this video is. Did not intend for it to be this long."_
The struggle is real.
One small challenge, you mentioned one time that you don't want to study, to finish those books that you had started, because you didn't want to do the work. Later I think you said because you didn't think you were worth it. But you did mention because you didn't want to do the work. Is not wanting to do the work also a function of the Si child, who doesn't want to leave his comfort zone? Or maybe I don't understand the Ni-critic properly...
It is more the Si child I believe.. but Ni is also about finishing something once you start it. Ni dominants will see something through to the end because they almost have to. I think it is a bit of both. Good question
One of my three kids is an INTP, and I kind of envy him, because I didn't have an INTP parent to identify with. 😬😂
It's so true, you earned yourself a sub. Cheers!
Thank you!
audiobooks and text-to-speech software are very good ways to listen to books/articles without reading (can be doing something else at the same time and learning in the background)
13:32 our*
otherwise, your videos are very helpful and enlightening, friend. Thanks.
I think we should be critical of many of our dreams as unrealistic. We should only go with our Ni dream if it is the best Ne option. If we are Si capable and/or should be doing it. If we are Fe helping others and making sufficient Te $ while doing it. Then if it falls within those categories can our dream become reality.
yes, I feel this all the time.
Man's exterior actions (Se) are caused by the soul (Ni) as first mover. St. Thomas Aquinus
I almost cried at 22:55
Leaving a comment. Don't mind me
I over used my Ti panicking and doing everything at last minute now I can’t finish anything
Thanos might be an INTJ too. Makes sense
Where did you find this information man? I've been working a little bit every day but knowing how to use NE to override the critic would be a great video :)
Leaving this comment so I get notified once someone's respons with an anwser
John beebe's books are good
C S Joseph's videos
Depth in typology
Funny he says that Ni critic is usually self inflicted, my Ni critic makes me think the worst of people and even one mistake can make me unhealthily assume the worst of someone and sadly I can be really hard on people unecassarily, I struggle with it a lot and trying to assume the best of people is really hard, and sometimes I even just hypothesize how bad a conversation is gonna go if I vent my feelings