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  • @ameritino
    @ameritino Před 2 lety +15734

    “Minivan mafia”. Greatest family nick name of all time!!

  • @kameroncooper4458
    @kameroncooper4458 Před 2 lety +9920

    The freezer child is the smartest 😂

    • @Androidmatics
      @Androidmatics Před 2 lety +98

      I’m behind the freezer child

    • @GJ11266
      @GJ11266 Před 2 lety +181

      One of my family members told me that when I was little, after I lost my sight, I would open the fridge and just stay in the open fridge. They thought that I knew food was there, but all I wanted was some cold air because I was hot. Whenever I picture of the scene I just burst out laughing 😂

    • @abbytheredwolf174
      @abbytheredwolf174 Před 2 lety +58

      @@GJ11266 mindlessly stairs into fridge for cold air…. Me too bro

    • @micaylafeinner4191
      @micaylafeinner4191 Před 2 lety +48

      I used to put my baby blanket and sheets in the freezer during the summer. Only stayed cold for a little bit but it was heavenly when I was trying to sleep in a 98 degree house with zero AC

    • @melaninmonroe007
      @melaninmonroe007 Před 2 lety +5

      I thought it was brilliant lol

  • @desslou
    @desslou Před 2 lety +3091

    "In the freezer because your feet were hot" that's a life hack right there

    • @acelovesdiyschristopher7023
      @acelovesdiyschristopher7023 Před 2 lety +57

      Five minute crafts writers: write that down write that down!!

    • @theyluvshay7528
      @theyluvshay7528 Před 2 lety +10

      @@acelovesdiyschristopher7023 😭😭😭

    • @notbeingusedanymore4932
      @notbeingusedanymore4932 Před 2 lety +12

      Kid either watching 5 minute crafts or Troom Troom 💀

    • @theyluvshay7528
      @theyluvshay7528 Před 2 lety +7

      @@notbeingusedanymore4932 *immediately thinks of that episode of Martha speaks when TD kept putting his shoes in the freezer

    • @_JustJoe
      @_JustJoe Před rokem

      @@acelovesdiyschristopher7023 💀😭

  • @beans9544
    @beans9544 Před 2 lety +3543

    "The ants needed a home." 🥺

    • @Th3wh0l3c1rcus
      @Th3wh0l3c1rcus Před 2 lety +64

      HEY. THIS QUOTE WAS VERY WHOLESOME BUT I KNOW THIS IS GONNA SOUND WEIRD AS FUCK BUT I CLICKED ON YOUR CHANNEL AND HELLO I AM ALSO A STANDARD TRANS GUY NAMED FELIX WHO LIKES TO DRAW AND PLAY GUITAR I JUST THOUGHT I SHOULD SAY SOMETHING BECAUSE THAT WAS COOL HAVE A GOOD DAY

    • @beans9544
      @beans9544 Před 2 lety +43

      @@Th3wh0l3c1rcus I have met my clone

    • @Th3wh0l3c1rcus
      @Th3wh0l3c1rcus Před 2 lety +30

      @@beans9544 Indubitably

    • @frog0815
      @frog0815 Před 2 lety +32

      these are the most wholesome comments ive ever seen

    • @poultergeist
      @poultergeist Před 2 lety +18

      @@frog0815 they really are

  • @TC38Cole
    @TC38Cole Před 2 lety +5936

    I was watching the timer bar like, "you gonna have enough time to do the actual parenting bit???" I'm ashamed at my lack of faith in your conciseness. Brava!

    • @benirpierre2671
      @benirpierre2671 Před 2 lety +78

      Lol same! As soon as I looked at the timer and had that thought, she transitioned lol

    • @moonhunter9993
      @moonhunter9993 Před rokem +7

      Same

    • @ellaphx
      @ellaphx Před rokem +11

      We're just so used to being blueballed at the end of shorts.

    • @TC38Cole
      @TC38Cole Před rokem +2

      @ellaphx if a creator consistently posts multiple part videos just to explain or narrate one experience (in lieu of one long video post), I DNRC because I do not have the attention span, and lack the desire/motivation, to hunt down videos 1-4 because I stumbled across #5, only to realize there are 3 additional videos in total. Nah, just post that particular narrative in a long post, make it concise enough to fit the time frame, or don't address that particular event online.
      People seriously overcomplicate their own lives for attention from literal virtual strangers.

    • @Joc3lynb
      @Joc3lynb Před rokem +1

      ​@@ellaphxwow.. very good analogy

  • @carmentasha2789
    @carmentasha2789 Před 2 lety +1739

    In the 'real mom's' version we see her pulling out of the driveway and the dog 🐕 is the only one that made it into the minivan. 😂😂😂🤣

    • @EmbrysArt
      @EmbrysArt Před 2 lety +16

      Underrated

    • @AB_Evans
      @AB_Evans Před 2 lety +51

      So true!!! LOL 😂 And if the kids are anything like mine, they proceed to cry, run after the van, and scream "No, wait for me! No Mama, don't leave! Don't leave without us!" They thought they'd call my bluff! lol

    • @cherry-or2rk
      @cherry-or2rk Před 2 lety +4

      LMAO 😂😂🤣 love this!! " pleasant peasant" Soo funny& realistic!!

    • @abbybaker5900
      @abbybaker5900 Před rokem +2

      How do you find that video I want to watch it

    • @wrenreece
      @wrenreece Před rokem +1

      This 💯😂

  • @Antoinetteelean
    @Antoinetteelean Před 2 lety +1169

    “No we are not going to see grandma we’re going to see the store” I say this DAILY 😭

    • @leahwickline836
      @leahwickline836 Před 2 lety +15

      I love this for you guys....mine never ask to see the grandparents

    • @wetsocks9952
      @wetsocks9952 Před rokem +4

      That's honestly the most wholesome thing. One day there won't be that question, and I hope you and grandma enjoy every time they ask. Even if it is for the bajillionth time.

  • @insanity22185
    @insanity22185 Před 2 lety +371

    "I'm leaving are you coming?" Had always encouraged a full car. Less so now that they're teenagers but I'm actually fine with that.

    • @jessh7448
      @jessh7448 Před 2 lety +28

      I'm 28 and if someone ask "I'm going out are you coming?" The answer's always yes. 😂 The only time where I say no is when it's regarding seeing someone I don't wanna see or hear about anymore. 🤫

    • @merceduslong4486
      @merceduslong4486 Před rokem

      Smh me too. No car but if I'm doing a 'let's fill the deep freezer' trip they never want to go...so if they want stuff they had better be outside when my ride pulls up to get food in the house. If not momma keeps the receipt and will return all the 'fun stuff' I got for them.
      My boys don't like to grocery shop with me...I don't typically go down candy isles with them

  • @fallback3206
    @fallback3206 Před 2 lety +884

    Minivan mafia, my God you are amazing at creating names for your offspring.

  • @mswitch936
    @mswitch936 Před 2 lety +273

    I may or may not be known for the “1-2-3-4 get your butt on toward the store” to get my kids to head to the car. They dont really get the choice yet, they have to go with me and the little jingle makes it seem like a fun thing I guess

  • @LolGurrl91
    @LolGurrl91 Před 2 lety +17

    Gentle parenting should be about being assertive in a way that communicates to the child "I respect your growth, but you're still a small human who is not fully and responsibly capable of making responsible decisions all the time". If left to their own devices, most kids would choose to eat candy and icecream all the time, probably never bath and probably not learn kind and polite social cues. Children still need parents to guide them and help mold them into good people. Love the end one, it's direct, quick, and to the point 👍

  • @rousinrabble
    @rousinrabble Před rokem +20

    This whole time I've been scoffing at gentle parenting when in fact I'm a gentle parent 😂

  • @vailaw
    @vailaw Před 2 lety +210

    Our family nick name is “Law-firm” whenever we go somewhere 🤣😂 we are a family of 14

  • @jessewardrip6975
    @jessewardrip6975 Před 2 lety +95

    “Minivan mafia” YES i thought I was the only one who calls their family that

  • @heaven9094
    @heaven9094 Před 2 lety +35

    "Miniman Mafia" this shall be what I call all the kids I babysit 😂😂😂

  • @killuagonaenae
    @killuagonaenae Před 2 lety +2

    I love the “why are your shoes outside? Because the ants needed a home, okay.” Made me laugh too hard😂

  • @belletense3618
    @belletense3618 Před 2 lety +4

    If your kid is freezing their shoes to cool their feet they’re a god damn genius! I love that!

  • @mycrazylife2491
    @mycrazylife2491 Před 2 lety +162

    Minivan Mafia made me roll

  • @jadegalaxy5134
    @jadegalaxy5134 Před 2 lety +151

    what I was waiting for was the phrase that you ended it with. 😂
    and was why my mom hated taking me and my sister to do groceries LMFAO 😂😭🤣
    Always wanted to go wherever she was and complained after two minutes of being there 😂🤣

  • @stupidvampir
    @stupidvampir Před 2 lety +3

    You sound like an amazing mother, sadly I did not have such a lovely parent and I entered CPS at a young age, but it really warms my heart to see that there are good and responsible parents out there ❤️❤️❤️

  • @wyntersteele1a
    @wyntersteele1a Před 2 lety +77

    Your makeup is always on point. I have watched this so many times and the "yay" is perfect.

  • @lilyrose1581
    @lilyrose1581 Před 2 lety +2

    If I didn't already love my mom to pieces I would love to have a mom like you.

  • @christinapinaarpin2892
    @christinapinaarpin2892 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you for bringing humor and love to parenting. These are great alternatives

  • @blurryeyes316
    @blurryeyes316 Před 2 lety +14

    " The dog can't no come" can relate.

  • @bethanylovelace8684
    @bethanylovelace8684 Před 2 lety +4

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 oh and I kinda took what you said in the tooth brushing video and said it to my kid and holy crap he will actually brush his teeth and barely bites on the tooth brush now lol

  • @m3249
    @m3249 Před 2 lety +2

    “Minivan mafia!”😂😂😂❤️

  • @ceceslivinglife
    @ceceslivinglife Před 2 lety +1

    ‘Alright motivated movers’ 🤣🤣🤣🤣 you make me feel sane about momming 🥰🥰🥰

  • @aharrisbunches
    @aharrisbunches Před 2 lety +2

    I’m a mom of 5 toddlers this is exactly my life 😂😂

  • @strawberries0687
    @strawberries0687 Před 2 lety +2

    I just found her and I'm now in love her personality is amazing 👏 😍

  • @namjoons_bicycle
    @namjoons_bicycle Před 2 lety +3

    “Minivan mafia”
    *best parenting quote ever known to man*

  • @spiritedawayvalley
    @spiritedawayvalley Před 2 lety +1

    “Minivan mafia”!!! I love this!

  • @Sillygoose956
    @Sillygoose956 Před 2 lety +12

    “Mini van mafia” 😂

  • @macymae1448
    @macymae1448 Před rokem +3

    Minyan mafia got me on the floor laughing 😂

  • @Thasht.com_
    @Thasht.com_ Před 2 lety +20

    Man I wish you were my mom, I adore my mom but you seem so cool.

  • @karenlauer8890
    @karenlauer8890 Před 2 lety +2

    I like u!! U have an answer for everything. U tell it like it is. Happy child or not this is how it will be. Lol

  • @Porshayy
    @Porshayy Před 2 lety +1

    I show you to my sister a lot. She sees my gentle parenting and thinks the first version of your explanation and then gets so frustrated when her kids don’t listen. I learned that gentle parenting doesn’t come natural to everyone so want to motivate her to keep learning if things get hard and you help with that soooo much. Thank you and love you and your videos.

  • @auran404
    @auran404 Před 2 lety +7

    "Minivan mafia" I love all of the nicknames for the kids

  • @lizslilcorneroftheinstitution

    I absolutely adore you!! I LOVE seeing fellow women who can mother in a manner that has left Aunt Bea and Mayberry in the past while expressing love, protection and awe that can’t be questioned!! Keep it up!

  • @phoenixvenom7047
    @phoenixvenom7047 Před rokem +4

    My parents couldn't use the "whoever's in the van gets to come with" cuz I woulda been like "KAAAYAM BYEEEEEEEE NO NEED TO HURRY BACK"

  • @deeedwards5554
    @deeedwards5554 Před 2 lety +1

    The first scenario! I felt that to my core.

  • @charebear100
    @charebear100 Před 2 lety +2

    These skits have taught me so much like I gave up on gentle parenting but these have encouraged me to try again

  • @silviamattedi4966
    @silviamattedi4966 Před 2 lety +7

    You are amazing 😂 I laugh so hard, keep going like this!

  • @paymweaver5650
    @paymweaver5650 Před 2 lety

    You always make me feel like I really did do a good job while my son was growing up. Thanks for all you do!

  • @soimsha.
    @soimsha. Před rokem +2

    I say “If you’re coming put your shoes on and let’s go”😂

  • @garlicbread9248
    @garlicbread9248 Před 2 lety +1

    You have the best nicknames and metaphors for everything

  • @glorybladews
    @glorybladews Před 2 lety

    I haven't commented yet.. but I've been spam watching your videos for days and you are F***ING AMAZING! BOTH as a mom and a general human being! Blessed Be 🙌

  • @redbullraven
    @redbullraven Před 2 lety

    Thank you thank you...no dog cannot come! Thanks for realizing that a dog stays home. Your the best!! Luv your videos

  • @StephanieMelendez95
    @StephanieMelendez95 Před 2 lety +2

    Love the Starbucks collection!

  • @annekuperman4728
    @annekuperman4728 Před 2 lety +1

    You are awesome! After trying to be Little Miss sunshine, realized that it just had to be blunt and to the point if we were ever going anywhere… LOL. Thank you for your post!!!

  • @perfectlyimperfect_8528
    @perfectlyimperfect_8528 Před rokem +1

    Mini van mafia 😂😂. That makes me giggle every time I hear it ❤❤

  • @alexandrawalker2469
    @alexandrawalker2469 Před rokem +1

    "HEADEM UP MOVE EM OUT!" It was our rally call! Everyone in the car!

  • @Maaaddiiieee
    @Maaaddiiieee Před 2 lety +1

    Yep. Mine goes “Store time. 5 minutes. I cannot leave you here. It’s illegal. Find your shoes.” 😅

  • @sdsh990
    @sdsh990 Před 2 lety

    One of my favorite parts of your videos are I own so many of the cloths you wear!! Needless to say LOVE YOUR STYLE!!

  • @LostAngel907
    @LostAngel907 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for these videos! My entire parenting life I've had people question and/or criticize me for parenting like this, namely the talking to my mini humans like normal people and not like they are incapable of understanding or making decisions on their own... so thank you for helping me feel validated in my parenting choices and realizing that I'm not the odd one out on this

  • @JordanKitzmiller
    @JordanKitzmiller Před 2 lety

    No matter which mother you may be… You’re a SAINT! ❤️ How do they do it???? 😍

  • @zettagotbored9341
    @zettagotbored9341 Před 2 lety

    The "I am leaving, you can come or not. I don't care" is so EFFECTIVE. Even on ADULTS. If you want me to come I don't really care but if you don't that's clearly secret and special and exciting. I hate that it still works but it does

  • @missworkingitout8631
    @missworkingitout8631 Před 2 lety

    I love your sense of gentle parenting.

  • @Jennizemail
    @Jennizemail Před rokem

    This is one thing I learned a few years back from therapy with my son. Be direct and leave it to that. Don’t go on and on it just gives them more to get distracted by. Great videos I love them!

  • @-cMc-
    @-cMc- Před 2 lety +1

    "You do not need to bring iron man to the store" haha I felt that

  • @chuckandshasta
    @chuckandshasta Před rokem

    I just love your honesty!! 😊❤️

  • @J_Willis58
    @J_Willis58 Před 2 lety

    I’m a proud Nanna of 2 and I’ve learnt more from this lady than all my years as a parent.

  • @thecrullerdonut7376
    @thecrullerdonut7376 Před 2 lety

    It's always great to see these videos! It brings me hope that there are creative/funny people out there who are breaking the stereotype given to this personal style

  • @-_melloh.ello_-3650
    @-_melloh.ello_-3650 Před 2 lety +1

    The fact that the expectation part was 80% of the video is just🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @tishclemson2413
    @tishclemson2413 Před 2 lety

    Love seeing the thought it was and vs reality thank you! First time it makes bloody sense!!

  • @noracarreiro6242
    @noracarreiro6242 Před 2 lety

    Im grateful I found your channel. I wish I could have a redo with my children (now teenagers) and use your approach. Your kids are lucky to have you. keep up the great job Momma :)

  • @rannaluv
    @rannaluv Před 2 lety +1

    This is called patient parenting 😂👏👏

  • @theghostwithin4922
    @theghostwithin4922 Před 2 lety

    I love finally finding a mom like me!!!!!

  • @mspaint93
    @mspaint93 Před 2 lety +2

    Agghhhh this is too cute, I love how straight up you are

  • @kebuysse
    @kebuysse Před 2 lety +1

    Youre eyemake up is always great! Plus youre so funny! Love it!

  • @HandleNameBar
    @HandleNameBar Před 2 lety +4

    "Where are you're shoes, (outside) "Why" (because, the ant's needed a home)
    Me:.Reasonable.

  • @chrispaolello9740
    @chrispaolello9740 Před 2 lety

    I really love these vids makes me feel like a better dad (parent guilt leaves the building while I watch)

  • @Pineapple_Kween
    @Pineapple_Kween Před rokem +2

    No no no… the shoes in the freezer thing is low-key genius 👁👄👁

  • @pl4921
    @pl4921 Před 2 lety +1

    😅😅🤣 sounds like a conversation I have with my alzhiemers mom. All I want to do is pick up groceries. Love your content.

  • @benfir8920
    @benfir8920 Před rokem +1

    This. This is the hair I’ve always wanted to have. 🔥

  • @maggiebaxter610
    @maggiebaxter610 Před 2 lety

    Where were you when my kids were little lol! Love your videos; they’re so REAL!

  • @jamiebeeler6533
    @jamiebeeler6533 Před rokem

    Hair and eye makeup on point! Gorgeous

  • @rickirebeck8495
    @rickirebeck8495 Před 2 lety

    You always crack me up. I enjoy your videos and I look forward to seeing how your hair is always different.

  • @nicoleabbott5073
    @nicoleabbott5073 Před rokem

    She comes up with the greatest nicknames for her fam

  • @tylerwells7042
    @tylerwells7042 Před 2 lety +3

    Actually the kid who put the shoes in the freezer is a fucking genius

  • @blueirony4086
    @blueirony4086 Před rokem

    “Whoever is in the van when I pull out of the driveway, gets to come with” 😂 this was my mom 💯

  • @stacythomas1587
    @stacythomas1587 Před 2 lety

    I'm single wth no children but I get such a kick out of your videos lol. Keep'em coming!

  • @saraclouse
    @saraclouse Před rokem

    Love the end 😂 the final statement has been made and that’s that! Mom ain’t waitin 😂

  • @NelehLove9313
    @NelehLove9313 Před rokem

    Lmao! That's how I am anymore lol. Honestly mama I wanna say thank you tho, your videos have helped me rethink how I handle certain situations and do better the next time. I've really come along way with my anger and frustration and learning how to control them and have a better response to my children ❤️ thank you!

  • @micheledickey4066
    @micheledickey4066 Před 2 lety +10

    Hahaha. I love how you ACTUALLY get them in the car!

  • @anniioakley9765
    @anniioakley9765 Před 2 lety

    I love this woman.

  • @ladylouise5301
    @ladylouise5301 Před 2 lety

    😆😆 literally the best mom's channel I've seen to date! so funny an Tru 😆😆

  • @keymabess2338
    @keymabess2338 Před 2 lety

    You really crack me up, I love you!!!

  • @GreyGirl-um7uv
    @GreyGirl-um7uv Před rokem +1

    Mini mafia 🤣🤣🤣 I can’t I love that sm now

  • @samavery7969
    @samavery7969 Před 2 lety

    LOVE these videos, please don’t stop! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @tiffanystinson7558
    @tiffanystinson7558 Před rokem

    "Mini-van Mafia" I love that!!! ❤😂

  • @KalebForseen
    @KalebForseen Před 2 lety

    Thank you for all of these.

  • @kellybarr8463
    @kellybarr8463 Před rokem +5

    The dog cannot come, that's fabulous and I bet u say that alot!!! Ur a great oh you put candy in them. Lol

  • @hollycopenhagen1282
    @hollycopenhagen1282 Před 2 lety

    God I love your nicknames for the kids! I am definitely using Minivan Mafia 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Valsier
    @Valsier Před 8 měsíci

    Her delivery is the best! I love her humor! ❤ She cracks me up!

  • @jemieculp6847
    @jemieculp6847 Před rokem +1

    That first version drove me absolutely bonkers. And being that way with your kids is the EXACT way for your kids to drive you bonkers too.

  • @paisley_flamingo2
    @paisley_flamingo2 Před rokem

    Love the “Minivan Mafia”! When my kids were little I had minions, before “Minions” was a thing. Even though my kids are grown, your videos help me keep things in perspective.

  • @tenaoconnor7510
    @tenaoconnor7510 Před 2 lety

    I was more the “if your not in the van when I leave ya have to stay with dad” lol. That was enough motivation 🤣😂🤣

  • @vincentbarnett4222
    @vincentbarnett4222 Před rokem +1

    Long before Avengers, I used to yell "FAMILY ASSEMBLE!" and that was the clue that the family vehicle was leaving. Worked every time!

  • @Towanda99
    @Towanda99 Před 2 lety

    I just love this !!! I'm sure you have had to tell your kids "don't lick the cat" 🐈

  • @hogiebb1
    @hogiebb1 Před rokem

    Absolutely love ur channel and wish that you were doing videos decades ago😃.. Your parenting style is very reminiscent of the ideas and concepts in the book Love and Logic.. a great book for parents, teachers and anyone dealing with children. So glad that moms and mums and dads and grandparents of this generation have some strong parenting imagery and examples from your channel. Excited for your book ..and books..and all the great things coming your way!