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unrelated but your hair looks absolutely beautiful!!

Just cause it's in Spanish doesn't change the meaning lmao

So many of us know this song. Family of the sorrowful wind. Mine was the trees and the blizzard outside blowing. Not realising, my mom had abandoned my sister and I, and the next day I'd have to try and hike along the back roads to the nearest village in 3 1/2 feet of snow. To call my Dad to let him know, cause the phone line in the house was dead, and the power would be gone by morning.

I’m sorry he hurt you 😢

Ive adapted to leaving myself visual cues where i can, and sometimes my subconscious physically cues me as well. Examples: leaving my bag on the bed to remember to grab the things that go in it before i leave, or me subconsciously touching my face for the face wash step in my shower routine

Story of my life ❤😂

😂😂😂

Fancy food in a nut shell

I always had hope but it was never recognised and will never be. So I let it go.

My first apartment name takes the cake... Renaissance Saint Andrews Apartments. No, there wasn't an abbreviation. I suppose the shortened version could have been Renaissance Saint Andrews. You best bet my happy DND and Renfair heart was skipping beats like a child frolicking those meadows you mentioned all the way home. I would open the doors in the most dwarven voice possibly of Hello fellow traveler, and welcome to the Dwarven Fortress! I had my dice ready to go. It's sad that those apartments went downhill fast after our moving in and leaving.

Reasons why I won't have kids but will watch them like crazy on CZcams😂😂❤ if one ever randomly pops out of me I will happily give it to somebody LOL anybody want it that's a joke people there's the one of the sticks in my arm it ain't happening.

Why do people post this very personal stuff on social media lmfao. Random peoples validation wont make it better

Ohhhhh that’s really smart

I know the feeling all to well all that is me on a daily basis 😅

Man, is it that hard to boil and mash some potatoes?

Your makeup is flawless ✨️✨️✨️

Lore episode. You are a great parent.

He didn't decide that you didn't get to be his daughter. He decided to not be your father. I'm sorry you went through that Momma. You are loved.

This is hauntingly beautiful. Take good care of yourself ❤

Such a gift of comedy, wit and song! 🥰

My mom left when I was 15. She just left after telling me she was going to travel without a way to contact me. She missed so much of what I used to think was important. Then she came back in my life with stage 4 cancer and got to meet my son. She’s been gone since 12.25.15. I let her back just to have her passing blow my whole life up in a good way. Without her coming back into my life idk if I would have left my dv abuser. I wouldn’t have met the man I’m with today who is kind and caring. He makes me speak the hard things. He doesn’t make me feel small and it doesn’t hurt to love him. It always hurt to love my mom, you never knew what mom you were going to get. It hurt to stay with my ex as long as I did.

Terrible parenting!

We getting on the spectrum with this one

I have over a doze different wild natural berries growing on my property and that is just that one thing. Why am I being yelled at for not shopping at grocery stores lol

ever since hearing this sound i follow all my sarcastic comments with "I fear"

The hair is selling it ngl

Ha! I'm 23 and my parents STILL use my bday as pins and passwords. My dad'll give me his card for something and go "Do you need my pin?" "It's my birthday. I'm your ONLY child." . . . Fair point."

Ok but your makeup looks SO GOOD.

This is considered as CPTSD, is it? Please correct me when I'm wrong. I had moments like this where I started to disassociate & pulled back into certain memory and relive the despair once again. But there are also triggers that pulls me back to the memories of comfort and peace, allowing me to unwind and remember that the child in me still deserve the protection and love. I've been trying to collect data on the triggers for each moment, trying to pinpoint the stimulus, so that I can be prepared to control the spiral when it is triggered. But also, to rewrite them with good ones that can help me stay grounded and in control.

No one tell her about Gillette Castle!

I have the same issue & my build is different (petite) while still having curves for days. I think some of us just radiate “I wield swords/I-throw-axes-not-hands” type energy. Honestly, I’m not mad at it.

That eyeshadow is A-MAZ-ING!🎉 Go Queen!

When I became a parent it was one of the most triggering things for this reason. You just can’t come up with any “logical” excuses for them anymore and you really understand how bad they really were because you would NEVER do that to your own children.

Babe! You are looking Marvelous! ❤❤❤❤

It’s just a girl harmonizing with her fan. No. It’s the goddess in the back of my brain when I was in the psych ward for seven days singing me to sleep in my isolation

If this wonderful channel has taught me anything, it's that gentle parenting isn't about being condescending and coming to a fast resolution, but rather having a regular conversation with your child... Allowing the room for an exchange to occur, and listening to their input before asserting a solution. I wish more adults in my childhood would've implemented these techniques lmao

Crying. My first husband married me the week I turned 18, I was 15 and he was 23 when we were first dating. I had 2 kids with him. Didn’t end til my chair was wedged under the bathroom knob and I was on the phone in the bathtub with my baby and toddler with me crying for help because I was beaten so hard I couldn’t see straight and was bleeding. It fucks me up so bad seeing him at visitation. Hearing my kids tell me how much they hate him and asking me why I didn’t love them enough to keep him away from them. I was a child raising children and thank God alone that I ran when it was just me being hit, not them.

Idk I’ve been to very very pretty quarry lakes (once the quarry isn’t active lol)

im getting Titanic vibes

I have teeth socks and teeth sunglasses but never once thought about teeth earrings!!! I’m not a dentist but my OCD also involves a compulsion to rip my teeth out and only have soft smooth gums. It’s so fun.

My 4 year old pressed buttons till the laptop keypad was disabled. Thankfully a mouse plugged in still works, but I've done so much Googling and I still can't reactivate it 😵‍💫

"Shun the non believers sshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhuuuuuuunnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn"

That is a very common parent password.

You are looking stunning!!

Not gonna lie I’m crying. Just had therapy and talked about how my autistic 7 year old is stuck to me like Velcro, how I’m supposed to track my kids emotional regulation but I had them all before I was 21 and am a victim of long term CSA and a DV marriage, so now I’m therapying and medicating my dissociation and learning healthy coping skills but am terrified my tiny kids are passing me up until I’m roped in to be the mediator AGAIN because for the love of God I can enforce safety so well but I cannot enforce a single boundary to protect my time or space or energy so I’m burnt out. Thank you. I’m gonna go cry and try to force myself to eat now because we are broke as fuck and I’m allergic to too much shit to buy myself anything but rice and vegetables.

I'm still getting over the trauma of when my dad used to miss his turns to pick me up. I remember wearing my colorful sweatshirt that matched my luggage, two weekends in a row, just so he could see it. He never got to see the sweatshirt. I always sat on the same couch waiting by the door. Those memories don't go away, they randomly pop up in my head every now and again.

As a celiac, cauliflower crust ain’t it. I haven’t had real bread in over a decade and I can still tell you I’d rather eat plain olives and a corn tortilla than a fucking cauliflower crust because I’m ALSO ALLERGIC TO DAIRY AND TOMATOES HURT MY TUMMY

We do “fuel levels” and I just name off the vitamins in foods (autistic, can you tell?) and no calories bc my mom was a calorie addict dieting almond mom and I was the failure to thrive child force fed until vomiting. My kids know you can’t start the day without good fuel and candy isn’t good fuel. Sweets are delicious but give you diarrhea if you eat too much. We bake most of our own sweets and share them with anyone who will take them and it’s given them a wonderful friendship and surrogate grandparents with our neighbors over the years. But for us, seeing vitamins as fuel has helped my oldest with his ARFID and me with ARFID and eating avoidance because I have celiacs and ulcerative colitis and freak out about things that *could* hurt my stomach, so the only “bad” foods are “bad for mama because she’s allergic” or “bad because it’s rotten/expired” or “wow this tastes bad I’m glad you like it but it’s not for me where are dino nuggets”.

LOL😂❤🤪

This was my house growing up! My mom always wanted our house to be the most fun and always had the best snacks probably to encourage us to hang out under supervision or in a safe place and I’ve always loved it too!