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Hey, beautiful people! Get ready to dive deep into the world of weddings with a story that will leave you shook! In this video, we're delving into the dramatic tale of the ultimate bridezilla, the Karen of all bridezillas!
Join me, Charlotte Dobre, as we unravel the jaw-dropping saga of a bride whose demands reached astronomical levels. From outrageous requests to full-blown tantrums, this bride takes the cake (pun intended) when it comes to wedding drama!
You won't believe the lengths this Karen goes to in order to make her special day absolutely "perfect." From insisting on exotic flowers flown in from halfway across the globe to demanding last-minute changes that would make your head spin, her antics will have you on the edge of your seat.
But that's not all! We'll also explore the reactions of the wedding party, vendors, and even unsuspecting guests who found themselves caught in the crossfire of this bridal storm. Trust me, you'll be clutching your pearls as we uncover each twist and turn.
So, if you're ready for a rollercoaster ride of wedding insanity, hit that play button and buckle up! Don't forget to like, subscribe, and ring that notification bell to stay tuned for more jaw-dropping stories right here on [Your Channel Name]! Let's dive in, shall we? đŹđđ°
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Hi, I'm Charlotte Dobre. I'm an actor, reactor, singer and sometimes (not really) comedian. On this channel I do reactions, commentary and occasionally I make a joke or two. I love poking fun at social media, weddings, entitled people, tiktok and OF COURSE petty people. I upload daily, usually 7 days a week, unless life gets crazy or I get lazy. Come hang out, it's a good time.
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The pastor to the groom: âI will be praying for youâ
Iâm dying!!!đđđ
Prayers were answered.
đ so funny I bet he was thinking that though haha
I hope he knows that his prayers have been answered. đ
I nearly choked on the water I was drinking. đ
I'm not religious, but I SCREAMED bc yea, I'd be praying too.
My mother, bless her spiky little heart, used to say, "Just because you sit in a garage doesnât make you a Cadillac, any more than sittinâ in church makes you a christian."
That's a great quote! I'm writing that down.
Very true!
@@taryndancer29 same!
I love it!!
@@taryndancer29 It's usually used in the other order: Sitting in church doesn't make you a Christian anymore than sitting in a garage makes you a car.
When you put more effort into a wedding ceremony than the relationship
DING! DING! DING!
Bingo!
I got married late in life and am so glad I waited. Two days before the wedding, my elderly mother was in a serious auto accident. My wife REFUSED to let the wedding go on unless my mother was there. We had to arrange for a medical 'cabulance' at the last minute, but got it worked out. We had someone 'portray' my mother at the rehearsal so we could figure out how to overcome obstacles as they made themselves known. One was how to get mom into the best position to see everything. We decided the thing to do was bring her in as everything started. But we made a plan. Instead of one of the groomsmen pushing her in, my wife to be and myself pushed her down the aisle as the wedding march played. We were concerned how she would feel when the two groomsmen lifted her to her seat. She had it planned, however, and turned to everyone and said that, if she knew this was the way to have two 'studly' men carry her around, she would have broken her hip YEARS ago. We had a fun wedding and still together after 13 years. What I want to know is why the groom went through this. he MUSt have known she was a raging problem WAY before all of this. And the tragedy of the family paying for this when they KNEW it would last only a few months. Surprising it made it six months. In our case, my mother absolutely MADE the wedding an intimate affair, as it should be.
Selfies as you walk down the aisle? Are you.... No, you are not kidding.
That's just wonderful! My sons also married late in life (to the point that I doubted I'd live to see grandchildren) although the oldest had no "ceremony" to speak of. The youngest, though, had to plan theirs on a tight budget, so one of her co-workers agreed to have the wedding at her house, very generous I thought, and a lovely home. Anyway, her father is a musician so he played his fiddle for the ceremony. When it came to seating, in addition to folding chairs, they pushed a sofa close to the spot where the ceremony would be, because both my mother and I are profoundly disabled--she's an amputee and 87, while I walk with forearm crutches so can't walk very far. When some of the guests tried to sit on this sofa, I overheard the bride's mother telling them to move, that the sofa was reserved for "the groom's family". She's such a lovely person! And postscript--I did live long enough to see a grandchild, she has three children from a previous marriage, and my only "blood grandchild" is now three years old! Anyway, I'm very glad you are very happily married to this day, sir.
Some people are......truly blinded by love to the point they ignore loved ones warning, they may feel pressured by family, money or spouse to go through with it, then some actually wake up if the mean person hurts family. No matter, at the very least both men got out.
What your wife did is such a green flag! And your mom is hilarious! Thanks for sharing that story!
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A neighbor was going with her mother for a couple last minute. Thank god the groom got out. Best ending.
I've been engaged for a little while now and it baffles me how crazy people can get over a wedding. We saved some money, could of had a hell of a wedding but we put a deposit on a house instead. A wedding is just one day, a house is for our future. We're probably just going to go away somewhere, quietly get married, and have a party when we get back with the people we love.
Yes! Common sense: a wedding is a day; a marriage is a lifetime. Sacrifice short-term for long-term gain. Finally: the couple could always have a renewal of their vows (in a lavish ceremony) once their finances are more stable. Plus: she may have a bigger ring đ đ
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@kerryberryb8199 First of all, my married name is Berry. đ Second of all, you've made the right decision. My husband and I eloped to Vegas including a mini vacay and we'll be celebrating our 27th anniversary this year. It's definitely about the marriage and not the wedding. Finally, I wish you and your husband many years of love and happiness together.
Agreed, unless your super rich, spending more than a few thousand (maybe 2 or 3 months of your combined income) on a wedding is insane.
I ended up never being married, but what you did is what I told my parents since I was 13 years old. I'd rather have help with buying a house then a huge ceremony.
I think the younger guy leaving and divorcing his daughter gave the father the confidence he needed to do the same and finally be freed from his atrocious wife.
Hitmen have a purpose.
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â@marciaspiegel5280 so do good divorce lawyers.
This made my day. 15 years ago I played keyboard for a wedding where the bride/groom were in their early 90s. The song they had me play was "Let's Misbehave" -- damn those people know how to party and they were so cute.
A couple in my hometown who had never been married got together in their '60. The pastor had them go through the same counseling he gave young couples as a well received joke. On the morning of the wedding, the groom got a knock on the door. It was the bride's brothers. With $hotgun$. He was then "escorted" to the church. They said their vows, and then Bride and Groom rode off into the sunset on their Harleys.
I am a pastor who has done lots of weddings. This one was a prize winner.
Here are some highlights I have experienced:
1. The bride arrived 45 minutes late to a backyard wedding, so we started the reception so people could get a little food and drink.
2. The time the "flower girl" was a Basset Hound. The wedding march was done by a bagpiper. Basset Hounds love to "hound" to bagpipes.
3. The time the groomsmen had been drinking booze outside and started weeving and bobbing during the ceremony, one passed out.
4. When the mother of the bride and the wedding coordinator got into a shouting match.
Bet u awaken saying silent prayers on days you officiate weddings bc you know anything can happen. And probably use prayer throughout. I'm not a pastor but the silent pleas often save me when dealing with mortals at their worst.
Must say tho I'd have loved to hear the Bassett with the bagpipes baying đ.
It had to be great.
Blessings to you pastor when you pray for patience and understanding đ.
I bet you could write a book about your wedding experiences. I can't even imagine. đ
I'm a wedding minister. The oddest processional I've seen/heard was as the bride walked down the aisle, a guest stood up and sang, "She's Your Queen To Be" from Coming To America. It was all I could do to not break my professionalism & crack up laughing.
Oh I would of loved that! đ
Ran to find the song on yt. lol Now to rewatch the movie. lol. thanks.
OMG!!!!!! I wanted this but I was told no. đđđđ. Thatâs the greatest thing ever!
Ok but we need to know: was this planned or did someone just take it upon themselves to improve the processional?
No way would I have kept a straight face during that!!! đđđđ
I love the dynamic between the coordinator and the organistđđ€
and the wedding singer. LOL
The cherry on top! đšđ
And the soloist! What a trio!
Real friends.
Organist mentioned almost 500 weddings⊠my guess is a good number were in that church with that wedding coordinator.
We called everyone on Monday & told them we were getting married on Friday (everyone thought it was a have to situation, but it wasn't).
My aunt bought my beautiful wedding dress at a store going out of business, my cousins made the flowers, my husband just wore a regular suit. We got married in my childhood church that I was a member of. My uncle was the deacon of the church, so he performed the wedding. My other 2 aunts made my cake. It was a very fast & cheap wedding. But we just celebrated our 29th wedding anniversary, we've been together for 31 years. Total cost, including the dress, flowers, & cake ingredients, was less than $300. To us, it was beautiful. We had our family there & we promised to love each other, and we're still keeping that promise. If I had the chance to go back & change anything, I wouldn't.
Our cheap, rushed, little wedding did its job & still continues all these years later.
One of the most beautiful weddings I've ever been to was thrown together in a week. $2500.
Sounds great :D I would have loved to get married in my childhood church, but out of all times, in my wedding year it was closed due to renovation đ”âđ« Small weddings are very nice, but I think, today you would have paid more than that. It's crazy how much the prices have risen in the last 4 years ... (friends of me got married in 2015 for 3000 âŹ, today they would have paid at least double of that)
Similar to my wife and I...very low key ceremony, just family and friends, in grandma & pop's backyard surrounded in
beautiful blooming Dogwood trees...grandma made Lynn's dress...Pop grilled ribs and smoked a brisket...mom made all the sides, mint julep iced tea...dad drought his "homemade beer" .. and I paid the pastor a hundred dollar bill đwe've been married 54 years !!
Grandma & pop had willed their home to me, and after their passing, we moved in...live there to this day...we have been blessed every day of our lives, two daughters & eight grands đ
I LOVE this story!! A wonderful bromide to what I just watched. Even more blessings to you both!
How wonderful! đ That's the type of wedding we had too, 26 years ago!!
"My flabbers are gasted" has me SHOOKETH!!! Charlotte, you are my new favorite person! đđ€Łđđ€Ł
My Lady Wife came up with a good one the other day. "GASP! Where are my pearls? I must clutch them!"
Packing the bags at a glacial pace to not miss out on the drama is soo relatable đ
Ikr? đ that's me as a Petty Observer...đ
Like when the police show up in the neighborhood. Suddenly everyone is mowing the house, painting the grill. Boo Radley is popping his head out to see what's up.
Last fall I was working at an event space that had hosted a drag show the day before. When I arrived to start working on my event, the queens were in the adjacent room to me packing up their things. After packing, they sat down and gossiped for *at least* an hour!! You best believe I worked real quiet so I could hear đ
Me watching this video when I need to get ready to go out. đ
start pretending to look around for anything you might have forgetten... check your pockets a few times for no reason... rummage through a bag, take everything out and then put it back in...
The pastor's prayers paid off. He was praying for the groom and God saved him.
God does good work up thereâ€
@@normablake2748 Amen to that
And even the brides Father is saved aswell. đ
@@ChristinaOskarWilson amen double mode!
Really?
Oh Boy, I was laughing so hard at this whole thing. Our wedding was at the courthouse. Which was already decorated for Christmas. Our reception was at a sweet local restaurant. It was an amazing day. We bought some furniture with the money we were going to use for the fuss and fru fru. Iâll always be grateful for the love we shared. He was and always will be the love of my life.
I love this!
You've been fortunate to be able to say that. This life is not always so kind. You'll see him again.
@@jguenther3049I was blessed to find him so late in life. Iâve was worth the wait.
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this was so sweet to read. i promise you that you two will meet again, and it will be just as beautiful as it was the first time.
The soloist should have sung "Highway to Hell" by AC/DC for the groom.
I was thinking "Cold hard b***h" by Jet.
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Yes!!! đ€đ»đ€đ» đž Or Stuck in the Middle by Steelerâs WheelâŠ
That's the first thing I thought of.
Another one good one would be the gold digger song
I paid the organist. And I asked her what might be good to play as I didn't like "here comes the bride". She gave me a couple of ideas of things she plays regularly and we agreed and it was lovely. She didn't charge much for what I feel she provided and I was very happy with it all. Church organists are great.
I did the same with mine. I didnât know her very well, but her daughter was a year ahead of me, we had both attended the adjoining school to the church. Anyway, she pulled out some beautiful music that Iâd heard played in movie weddings and scenes and it was perfect. The marriage wasnât (lol), but I have nothing to complain about regarding the wedding itself.
When my daughter was getting married, she happened to mention that Wagner was an anti-semite. Which is why she chose Pachelbel's Canon. It's really perfect for a processional.
I've always wanted a harpist for my wedding, it's so angelic and beautiful. The music really sets the whole mood and energy!
â@jjww1 I had a harpist at my wedding, she played me down the aisle and it was perfect. I also paid her to play for an hour as guests arrived at the reception and had canapes. Sadly I missed that as we were having photos but I feel happy that my guests got to chat with a harp in the background.
A trumpet-player friend played my hubby and me back up the aisle at the end of the ceremony đ
I don't remember what we had for our wedding, but I remember that my older sister, who was a professional organist and was playing for us, gave us a cassette of pieces to listen to and pick from. That worked very well. (The church was between organists at the time. )
The Church's wedding coordinator is killing it! I love her, she is all for the drama! This girl brought popcorn and tea for all to enjoy!
My nephews wedding was GREAT. We got the local rec center, it was new & huge. MoG works catering, best friend is fancy Chef, Grooms best buddy wanted to be a DJ when he grew up... Of course, he was the DJ. Groom was studying to be a pastor, has a great mentor. We all love crafts. Groom fell in love with Bride on the 1st day of 6th grade. He got off the bus & said he was going to marry this girl â€. We spent $1500 on food & prepared it ourselves. There were about 200 guests. The Wedding was so much fun & about $5000. The dress cost $1000. The Brides daddy would've given his princess ANYTHING. They had their DREAM WEDDING AND DIDN'T GO INTO DEBT.... They've been married 10 yrs & have a 4yr old & a 1 yr old. They're great together. I'm so proud of the Man & Father he's become. He thinks thru every detail. â€â€â€ H & M....
We had no money for a big wedding. 1981. I made my dress and my little sister's bridesmaid dress. I made the cake, we made the food, my husband wrote some music and his auntie played the church organ, he also made mixed tapes for the party and we walked to mums house after church because it was close. It cost without the grooms suit, just ÂŁ250. every payday for months l bought 2 bottles of fizzy wine. It was a great success. Still together. Still in love.
2024 is a completely different market. Even if you cook your own food, it's probably not going to be under 500 USD. Inflation...
It seems that the more spent on the wedding, the shorter the marriageđą! Of Course that may just be an illusionđ...
We had a wonderful wedding, 2007. It was not the first for either of us. My wedding dress was bought online, on sale, for about $40. Cream-colored knit gown and could be worn again, because it was more of a cocktail dress than a wedding dress...very simple and very nice. I already had a pair of great shoes. My hairdresser did my hair, and it was gorgeous, with pearls and tiny flowers...free, as a wedding gift. Since we had met at an Agape Feast, and since the wedding was held in the evening in lieu of Vespers, we served Israeli finger food; lots of it and wonderful variety. It was catered by some of my Sisters in Christ...as a gift. The flowers to decorate the church were given to me by another Sister in Christ; they had been used for her daughter's Quinceana a month previous. I had the florist deliver fresh flowers earlier that day for the service; they complemented the silk ones and we used them that night for the wedding. I think I paid about $35 for a gorgeous bouquet. My Sister in Christ, Nives, took me to Sam's Wholesale as her guest, and I was able to buy all the food and the non-alcoholic champagne...I think the food was about $50 and the beverages were $75. It was beautiful, and most of all, even though our pastor was officiating...we were joined by Christ.
@@lyndaehrich5809 LOL! My Lady Wife's wedding dress is a tea-length white dress with some lace. I bought a blue pinstripe three piece suit. Years later, we wore our wedding outfits (with some accessories) to a costume party as a Gangster and his Moll.
Me hearing Charlotte talking about the snapped shoe heel down the aisle: "Jesus tripped her."
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I thought the very same thing! Like a kid having a fit and bonking their head. Godâs way of saying, âhey, stop that!â
so glad the new husband and the father of the bride left those 2 karens, those men deserve much better
I agree. And those 2 Karens deserve each other.
Agree! I don't understand why he married her in the first place. He knew what she was like. Maybe she bullied him into it. I know someone that happened to.
I'm wondering how soon father filed for divorce after he unloaded his daughter since she was no longer his problem.
When it came out that Dad had started to look years younger it really made me happy. Good!
@@Lynn-kh5rs That makes a lot of sense! Considering the mother and daughter "could be twins" means they must be very close in age, as in, teen pregnancy. He might have married her out of a sense of obligation...
And now that his obligation has been fulfilled...
I married 14yrs ago. Every so often it will hit menhow many people made my day so special without acknowledgment. Ive reached out yrs later to thank some. We all have to remember our wedding day is most important to us and less important to everyone else!
Wow. My daughter got married last fall and there was no drama at all. Groom's father and stepmother had to leave shortly after the service because she has serious health issues that just exhaust her quickly. My daughter made accommodations for her and for another guest who is confined to a wheel chair because that what civilized people do. Nobody was asked to pay for anything. Presents were welcomed but not required. There was a lot of homemade wine and mead. I was exhausted because I just finished the final touches on the gown that morning and added gussets to the groom's shirt. She was stunning. He was handsome. It was lovely and everyone had a happy drama free day.
May I ask what condition the groom's mother has? I ask because I struggle with chronic pain and lack of energy.
I did wedding cakes for yrs. You were very lucky and likely have common sense and know the word NO.
@katewalchle6704 she has some sort of heart condition but I don't know any details.
@TheDulcigirl both my daughter and son in law have worked in the food industry. They had lots of connections and friends that helped them. My husband made the mead. They have very chill friends. My daughter is not afraid to say no and mean it.
My father is a Minister and he is very particular about the weddings he officiates for exactly the above reasond. He also requires all couples he marries to meet with him in advance to ensure they have their priorities right (Marriage, not just ceremony). He also refuses to preform a wedding ceremony if any of the wedding party are drunk. It is a solemn occasion of commitment, not a frat party! He asks them to save the alcohol for the reception. He warns them not to test the boundaries as he will hold firm. In 35 years he has only had one wedding test the "drunk" rule....
Did he refuse to actually marry them?? That is awesome if he did. I always think it is ridiculous for any bride or groom to get drunk before the ceremony, regardless of if they are marrying in a church or not. Having a drink or two before is one thing, but to not be in the right frame of mind to commit to their vows is ridiculous, and says they aren't taking it seriously. I really wish more officiants would be like your dad. I feel like we would have less divorces that way, because if they can't show up sober to their wedding then they would never get married at all.
Sounds like a great policy. My pastor got us to do prewedding counselling so we could be entering marriage with a clear head.
Both my husband and I have credited this for our marriage doing well after so many years, it helped a lot
My husband is a pastor as well and his process is very similar! The only exception was to marry his brother and SIL, and now theyâre done for đ Itâs good to be picky!
â@@jeanams07How can you complete any kind of contract if one or both of the parties is drunk?
I actually think it's not exactly legal to officiate a wedding with either the bride or groom drunk.
Both parties have to be "of sound mind."
The rest of the party not so much but come on! Be sober for the hour.
After 2 failed marriages I re-found the love of my life. (I had never had a BIG wedding but had had weddings with the first 2). My love and I went to the justice of the peace with a couple of friends and immediate family as witnesses. I wore my best dress and he his nicest Hawaiian shirt. It was the best wedding ever. No pressure and lots of laughter. We went home and had brie and crackers, fruit, champagne and carrot cake. It was a wonderful day. People need to remember that weddings are about sharing and celebrating your commitment with friends and family. It's NOT about perfection and should be a fun day!
This is wonderful! If my life partner and I ever get married we plan to do the same. I used to think him saying that most weddings are Narcissistic was really cynical, but I am starting to agree with him. Not only from hearing stories like the ones that Charlotte has in these types of videos, but also from some weddings I have been a part of or heard of friends being a part of. I feel like, especially in this day and age where people are struggling to even be able to buy a house and not live for decades with student loan debt, that having a big expensive wedding is just plain dumb. Especially if you expect people to travel for it and what not. My sister did a pretty low key wedding, especially compared to the crazy Instgram worthy ones, but it still cost me over $4k to be a Bridesmaid.
The idea of trying to plan a huge ordeal stressed me out significantly more than the idea that I would be with the person I love for (ideally) the rest of my life, so I didn't so much as begin to try for a wedding ceremony; just me, my love, and a few good friends with a meal after was MORE than enough to make it a good day. I don't know why more people don't plan a good day for celebrating their union. Whatever their good day looks like, THAT should be your wedding. It's not a pinterest board, it's your life, you have to live that aesthetic and all these aesthetic-vibe curators leave out all the life mess it took to set it up for a reason.
Well it's a good thing you never spent on a big wedding đđđđđ
One evening a few years back, I was in downtown Minneapolis on my way to a friendâs retirement party at a breweryâs tap room. I was in front of the courthouse by the fountain and a couple a little younger than me (early 50s?) asked me if Iâd take their picture. Theyâd just gotten married. I said, âGladly!â They introduced themselves and I found a spot with the fountain in the background that looked good and snapped a couple of pictures with their phones. They were so excited. I congratulated them from one Lisa to another and her handsome husband. Of course, it was all so wholesome, I posted about it on my Facebook.
Every year when it comes up in my Memories, I repost it and send them a âHappy Anniversary!â out into the world. I hope theyâre still as happy and giddy as they were the day I helped them celebrate by taking a few pictures.
In 87 spent $500 for wedding
Was married 35 yrs my love passed last year. My engagement ring was $248 amethyst 6 small diamonds. Our wedding rings were $120
My dress, 3 tuxes, pbotographer and cake were included in $500
Hubby sang at front of church as I was at the back. Longer by Dan Fogelburg
I think it was a fitting revenge from the soloist, she must have charged double the price and wondered if her former bully would pay for it with money she clearly doesn't have. Watching the entire thing plus knowing she's bleeding her dry must have made her week.
Lol, the soloist - "Hello my baby, hello my honey, hello my ragtime girl.."
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I was thinking of the "Christmas" song by the Pogues. The ones where they are cheating & calling each other names, if you listen to the lyrics closely apart from the chorus.
I'm picturing it just full of long, dramatic riffs đž
I was once at a wedding and the band was playing "Making Love Out of Nothing at All" by Air Supply as part of the dinner music. That might have been a nice choice. đ
As a PK (Preacherâs Kid), the Pastor missing the wedding was completely valid. They said that the reunion had been planned FOR YEARS. Iâm sure that when the wedding date was brought up, he told them about his obligations. So if it was far enough in advance, they could have moved the wedding date⊠otherwise it was either last minute or they were being buttholes about that too. Yes, he is the Pastor, but he also has a family. I canât tell you how many family events we had to miss out on growing up due to obligations with the church⊠If Christmas Eve or Christmas was on Sunday, we had to make other plans around the Church for the holidays. Easter with the rest of the family? Didnât happen because itâs Easter Sunday and our family lives 3 hours away. Heck, weâve been gone on vacation all the way across the country and had to cut it short 3 days in when our Sheriff who was also a church member died in the line of duty⊠so I 100% stand with the Pastor regardless of other issues
Also as a PK, I too stand with the Pastor đŻ
PK3 here, and I agree.
Pastorâs wife here, can relate!
PK here as well đ Most definitely đŻ đŻđŻđŻ
Not related to a pastor - 100% agree - pastor had a valid reason for missing the wedding.
Oh my gosh. This organist had a front row and got all the tea. I LOVE this happy ending for the sad and the husband. And she told the story so well.
The fact that this one story took the whole episodes just speaks volumes on how crazy these ladies are. Stay sane and hydrated my friends.
How someone can be willing to marry people like this is just beyond me đđ
yeah, I don't understand it either.
â@@SpamEggSausageProbably because she's a "good" manipulator and abuser
A shared belief in the utterly fantastical notion that they can change the other person!
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I've always been perplexed when sincerely nice people are the would-be spouses. Their courting would have been filled with red flags.
Right!
The soloist should have sang who let the dogs out as the bride was coming down the aisle! đ
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There are so many good choices. I'd choose Evil Woman by ELO, or The B*tch Is Back by Hall and Oates.
I was thinking "50 ways to leave your lover" Slip out the back jack, make a new plan stan, don't need to be coy roy...
@@jengsci8268 yes definitely
That organist is so great. I wish her all the best things in life!
Being engaged only highlighted for me that I didnât want to be shackled to my fiancĂ© for the rest of my life. Best decision Iâve ever made.
I absolutely love that quote âLook itâs Jesus!â Lol best movie ever.
I was SO invested in this, and laughing like a maniac. Just where the bride flipped them off, an ad popped up and I darned near fell out of my chair! Longest 5 seconds to that skip button ever! This was too good!
youtubepremium is so worth it
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This video of the church organist, as well as the Pastor and soloist is Everything! You can't Make This Up! So happy that both the groom and the father escaped from the Chaos that would have been the ret of their lives. Thank you for this video and your reaction to it.
It would be fun to hear the "JAWS" theme when the bride walks in. The guys would bust up laughing.
Chances are I will neeeeeever get married but if I do, I totally want to walk the isle to the imperial theme. But jaws would be a great alternative.
How the future bride or groom behaves under the stress of wedding planning is G-dâs way to give their potential spouse one last chance to escape. I wish more people took it.
It also is a pretty clear indication of how long the marriage is going to last.
I wish I'd listened and ran off with our back up cook after my husband-to-be screamed at our original cook and she quit.
The way the spouse treats the hired help is how you will be treated. Pay attention.
The âIâll pray for youâ made me CACKLE
đđ im a hairstylist and honestly 100% have dealt with these kind of people on the regular! One turned up nearly 50 minutes late for their 8am wedding hair appointment, was very unimpressed when i said i dont have time to do what we trialled because you are nearly an hour late, no apology, no call, nothing! She absolutely blew up and her mother...but im sorry, i had a regular client booked in for a colour appointment so nope! Rude and entitled
We organists all have wedding hell stories, but this one is way, way above most.. Glad the story got out so someone will hopefully realise we musicians and church folk aren't doormats to be trodden upon all the time. Thank you, Charlotte for bringing this out.
I especially love when you react to posts where you get to read the story (instead of watching videos). Your reactions are always priceless, but when we get to hear the whole story in your voice *alongside* the reactions, it's extra fun!
Agree , I sometimes don't even understand what the people on the video clips are saying or the way they speak is just annoying đ
Glad you like them!
These are my favorite too!
Same ! I'm not that fluent in english and sometimes people in videos have accents or slangs that I cannot understand, and often there is no subtitles (and the automatic ones from yt are not always accurate).
This is so much better when Charlotte is reading the story, plus she puts her acting in it, I love that!
Yes Yes Yes, I thought I was the only one. I love posts not tiktoks!!
i got married in my neighbors backyard, had costco food as appetizers (meatballs etc, not like the food court food lol) spent 125 dollars on an officiant and 150 on food and drinks... best wedding EVER. 30 people showed, 15 stayed to party..used a boombox from 1980s to play music (it was 1994 at the time lol) we danced on my neighbors lawn for a few hours, got drunk, and went home,,, went to a giants baseball game the next day hungover AF but it was the best time ever
Selfies as you walk the aisle!! That says it all.
âMy Flabbers are Ghasted!â Is my new catchphrase!đđ€Łđđ„°đđ»
Story time: A long time ago I stood up in my cousins wedding ; 13 bridesmaids, 13 groomsmen, 8 ushers. Regardless of that many people in the wedding party everything went according to plan w/one very minor hiccup.
Mother of the groom did not attend rehearsal. She stayed home and cooked a three course rehearsal dinner so big I thought the appetizers were the main course. I'm not joking!!!!
The exact details for the wedding day were conveyed to her by the family. She showed up on time did exactly what she needed to do and did it with đŻ % class and zero drama. It was a beautiful thing.
Your cousin's MIL is an absolute mvp-
She definitely was!!!!
Because she was a real mother!!!
I'm not a trained musician or professional organist, but I did have a chord organ when I was younger, and when one of my cousins was going to get married and couldn't afford to hire an organist for the wedding, I agreed to play the wedding march, the bridal chorus and their song (A Time For Us) for nothing. It was my gift to them. I practiced those songs daily for several months, until I could have played them, without the sheet music, in my sleep. It was held on the 4th of July, in the bride's parent's yard, and it was beautiful, followed by a potluck reception and cake cutting.
I wish I still had that old organ, but I eventually donated it to a charity auction several years later because I couldn't play it at the apartment I was living in at the time.
Wait -- wasn't "A Time For Us" the theme song for the Leonard Whiting/Olivia Hussey version of _Romeo and Juliet?_ I think I'd choose a song which isn't associated with such a tragic tale!
A beautiful gift for the bride & groom!â„
Excellent
The soloist should have belted out "Ding Dong the Witch is Dead"! LOL
It's not "people" that go crazy during a wedding year. It's usually a very specific type of person that goes bridezilla. I have worked many wedding parties, and you can spot the bridezilla before they speak. Just the way they move can tell you what kinda crazy you are in for.
0:58 we scheduled our wedding 3 months earlier than we originally planned so our pastor could marry us - he was going on sabbatical for over 2 months that summer.
It was important to us that he marry us (he knew us both really well), so WE scheduled around HIM. Then we built the reception around the ceremony day, etc.
Thatâs what you do if having a particular officiant is so important to the couple. You donât pitch a fit because a years-in-advance-planned event conflicts with the day you originally picked.
This! The reunion was planned YEARS in advance, it said. Move your wedding, or have the other minister. Period. You schedule with the availability of those most important to you (site, officiant, etc).
Yup!!! My pastor married my parents and my husband and I. He was getting ready to retire when my sister was getting married so she moved her wedding date and we moved the date of our daughter's baptism so he could officiate both before he retired.
This line of thinking should really be the same for anyone people want to be in their wedding. Obviously pregnancies and that sort of thing sometimes can't be helped, especially if the wedding date was picked and venue booked, well before a Bridesmaid gets pregnant. But if someone who the Bride or Groom wants to be a part of their wedding has something major planned well before they pick their date, than it is up to them to schedule around them if it is that important to them for that person to be part of their wedding party or part of the ceremony in any way.
THIS! If I want a specific pastor/priest/person who married me to be there then I will do anything it takes for that to happen
The best revenge the soloist could have done was to break out into "Cruella DeVil, Cruella DeVil" right in the middle of the Selfie processional.
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@@kimberlyakin8908 Better yet Johny B ;)
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My 16 year old Pit passed a couple of months ago. It ripped my heart. I found 2 rescue Rotties last week. I will be picking them up tomorrow. They are a bonded pair and the owners have thoughtfully decided to find them better circumstances. It was hard for them to make that decision. It is painful to lose a dog but never say you don't want another dog. There is a dog out there desperately waiting for you. No it's not fair because they don't get to live long enough. But there's too many that need a good human. They are waiting.đą
Rotties are lovely affectionate dogs. You will be blessed having two of them.
Thank _God_ for this lovely organist who got ALL THE TEA for us!!!
The pastor had the best line "I'll be praying for you".
His prays worked too. Grandma was showing the brides true colours, it took a while for it to take effect though. Glad the groom wised up. A lot of time when people hook up with toxic people they start to become toxic as well. So sad.
My husband and I were planning a huge wedding. All the bells and whistles, think groomsmen with swords type stuff. It took about a week of wedding talks and we said screw that, and drove to Las Vegas. Best $50 ever. Still married 32 years later â€
We live in Las Vegas and I absolutely love that! If my life partner and I ever get married we plan to do the same.
I live in Germany. Still married in Vegas to avoid the stress. It was so cool and relaxed.
We tried to plan a wedding 3 times. Family had too many conflicts and we didn't want to leave some out while others could be at one or another time and location. So we eloped. We had close friends stand up with us. Not Vegas, just in a Pastor's office. We are still very happily married over 40 years later. Never once regretted eloping.
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The absolute best story I've heard was about a bridezilla who wanted the same priest that her grandmother and mother used during their own ceremonies all tgose years ago. The only problem? He was already dead and had been for years. She had a major meltdown and demanded to see proof right then and there. Later she wanted the ceremony to be held at/on the priest's grave.
That groom didn't leave. He ran for his dear little life lmao đ€Ł đ€Ł đ€Ł đ€Ł đ€Ł
Was at work and one of my coworkers was narrating a Karen client we had today! I mimicked âHow are you not embarrassed!?!â in the tone you do so. My new coworker immediately recognized it and we chatted about how much we love your videos!â€
So thank you for starting a great friendship!!
Awesome!
That soloist SHOULD have called her cell!! Revenge, best served cold!!! đđđđ
That would have been hysterical!
"My flabbers are ghasted!" đđâ ïž
I've seen a few of those kind of weddings. I used to play piano every Sunday in church you'd be amazed with crazy things go on
All rise for the HONORABLE Judge Charlotte!!! You may now sit and ENJOY!!! â€đ
Here yee here yeee...enjoy yourself as well kind personđ
@@ConniesCountryLivin thanks bestie!!! You toooo!!!! â€ïžđ«¶đŒâ€ïž
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Itâs a shame that the groom went through the whole wedding before deciding this was a mistake-very expensive mistake-but Iâm glad heâs escaped. Same with the father of the bride. I wish these men nothing but love and happiness for the rest of their lives. â€
at least it was soon after the wedding so I bet they got an annulment (much easier process than a divorce)
I hope he kept the house
The father is just as responsible for raising an entitled child as the mother, whether by active or passive parenting. So, no, no pass for him.
@@carolynhunt7333 - Okay, but I wasn't talking about how entitled the bride was or that the father "deserves a pass" for not teaching her to be a better person. He still deserves to be in a relationship that makes him happy.
That was great!! I've had uncomfortable experiences when singing at weddings too. Thanks for sharing.
Gosh, Charlotte, i just love to watch your reactions to these crazy stories and vids. I laugh my A off đ.
(Minister here!)
This is why when i agree to officiate a wedding i make sure the planner, bride, groom, and family know that
1. Since i agreed to officiate, I'm not going to charge them.
2. I don't agree to officiate just any wedding.
3. I reserve the right to pull rank and put my foot down.
For those reasons the bride's mother treating the organist like crap would not fly with me. I would be calling out the mother during a service by name and explain how she had treated and disrespected the organist, the congregation, and the Lord Jesus.
I'd also be well aware of the clock and would be making sure the bride and her family would be aware of the clock.
Bottom line, I'm not a hireling. I'm a servant of God. I am also a very gritty, no-nonsense minister. Bridezillas will whimper and limp away from me. The marriage is what is important, not the ceremony. The ceremony is a wonderful, beautiful thing but it is not as important as the marriage and not an excuse to treat people bad.
Exactly! đ There is no excuse to ever treat others poorly.
We need more of you in this world.
@@magdolyn i don't know about that. I'm pretty weird! Lol. Thank you for the compliment!
Good for you!! â€
Good on you. Entitled families and brides/grooms are vile for pushing around the people that are HELPING THEM fulfill the fantasy they seemingly want so desperately to have be PERFECT.
This is one wild story!
Not only did the daughter get dumped, but her father took a page from his ex SIL and dumped his wife too đđđđ I love it!!
The Soloist could sing Like A Prayer
This story is so juicy!! And YOU are hilarious. I will be watching you from now on.
âMy flabbers are gasted!â †love you Potato Queen!
The mother and daughter can take selfies at family court now! #Winning đ€Ł
the best videos on the internet are charlotte reading reddit stories, her story telling is amazing and just so fun to watch
Charlotte, your hair and makeup are FLAWLESS! Definitely stay with the eye and lip colors, they are bee-u-ti-ful!
Omg! And I thought I was a bridezilla, when I asked the farmer next door to our venue, to not fertilize the field behind the place, the day of our wedding due to smell. (He was out, spreading manure the day we looked at the place).
I didn't demand I just asked politely.
It still made me feel a little bridezilla/karen just to ask.
He didn't work that field on my wedding, because he and his lovely wife where actually guests (me and my hubby desided to invite them).
That's absolutely no bridezilla behaviour, that's normal conversation. You can always ask, you didn't demand, did you? Actually the world would be a better place if more people would speak out on what they wish instead of being secretly upset.
Not a bridezilla at all. You asked politely and you invited them. That was pure human kindness. Hope you and your loved one stay safe, happy and in love.
â@@greenie2390 We shure do....that was 15 years ago btw.
Sounds like a win win.đ
Best thing to do.....ELOPE! I never wanted a big wedding, but hubby is Italian, and his family insisted on paying for the whole big deal, Catholic mass, band, cookie table......the whole works. I was grateful, but it definitely wasn't what I wanted and honestly don't remember much more than one or two minutes of the whole day. That was 51 years ago.....still married.
Thanks. That filled the daily giggle quota brilliantly đ
This is by far the best story i have heard you tell so far!! đ€Łđ€Łâ ïžâ ïž
Between this story and that one with the bridesmaid who had to use her big clunky scooter cuz the bride hid her cane, i am so blessed. I have two amazing sisters. One of which is married and i was her moh. And i use a walker for short distances. Guess who had no problem whatsoever with me using it on her wedding day. Not only that but a cousin of mine got married recently and had me in her wedding photos with said walker. If there is a family event and accommodations need to be made, my family makes them. No questions asked. No entitlement.
I remember the scooter story, and thought of it also. You obviously know how blessed you are to have a family who cares about you so much!
Did they help you decorate it too? My SIL broke her knee the evening before their wedding. Her crutches were decked to the nines.
@@ItsJustLisa Holy cats! She must have been in horrible pain! But when you have everything all set, what else can you do but try to carry on?
@@ItsJustLisa no I didn't decorate it. Just attached my bouquet to it.
"I will pray for you" đ That's a pastor version of a mic-drop if I've ever seen one.
T hat's what my Therapist says at the end of my Sessions LOL
LMAOđ Thank you Charlotte for this amusing story and your embellishments. You started my day with a laugh.đ
Charlotte, it has been too long not seeing one of your clips. Brava! You are a funny long winded comedienne, keep it up!.
PUT THE PHONE DOWN.
Words to live by.
Selfies. ? Really. ? While she's walking down the aisle ? All I can do is shake my head. !
Amen!
The soloist should have started singing "You ain't nothin' but a hound dog, crying all the time"! đ
I SAID THE SAME THING đđđđ
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I was thinking more on the lines of the theme song from a disaster movie.
I would have sung to the groom an old song "Hit the road jack" !
i worked at a large church in a large city and the stories I could tell!!! this was great to listen to. â€â€â€
I love this for you / is one of my favourite Charlotte sayings đ great video thx Charlotte
I hope you are going to say "How are you not embarrassed"đđđđđđđđđđđ gets me everytime
I have been a wedding coordinator at my Catholic parish for 23 years. Boy, the stories I can tell you⊠one of my memorable rehearsal sessions is when the mother of the bride arrived to the church rehearsal a drunken mess đ„Ž
Please, more storie..anonymous, of courseâŠđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
Two victims of narcissists, one whoâd been in sustained devaluation for years, and one who barely made it past the golden period, GOT AWAY - Yeah! đ
I'm so happy for both of these guys! I hope they enjoy their very deserved freedom & happiness!
When Charlotte said the couple has separated my faith in humanity was restored. I am 61 and when I hear about brides like this, I feel like I dodged the proverbial bullet. I hope that woman grows old alone, it would serve her right.
I was an amateur photographer. With my then boyfriend, now husband we shot a wedding of a friend of a friend. 8 hours the day of 16 hours of photoshopping and the bride had the AUDACITY to act like we never talked about her paying us. Got a letter finally with a $50 check and a âthanks for what you did.â
Had contracts for the handful of weddings we did after that. Until the mature bride we shot had her daddy come after us after she printed her pictures from Facebook! Done after that!
It is insane how people can do this! I would be willing to bet money that those couples aren't together anymore.
@@jeanams07 lololol I canât tell because I blocked them both BUT from what I can see both women have $hitty low res versions of their wedding pics up on their pages STILL to this day! I saw both of them shared them at some point! The older one worked for the limo company that was there too. And sheâs a big boss too. The limo driver had a the audacity to rush us in the church. And the vendor coordinator tried to make me find her at the venue because he was familiar with us (we did a wedding there before) and he was afraid of the bride! Like she had a whole Photo Booth set up she expected us to use/control. And wanted artsy, Magazine style photography set up same day! Ugh! I stepped away before I lost my love for it though!
Dayum, this one was priceless!! I so enjoy your videos,, keep up the good work!
As a professionally trained musician myself, the fact that the soloist's response was "I'm being paid" is a million percent the vibe. And $2500 for the wedding and probably a couple grand more for the people paying the soloist's travel cost... I wish the soloist had charged more.
Absolutely! The revenge of getting paid by your bully because she just hasss to have you would be pretty sweet too.
Charlotte, I just love when you say âmy flabers are gastedâ. Please please would you make t-shirts with that phrase on it? I feel like all you fans would want one đ
$2500 plus accommodations for two days, enough for me. I'd do it. As an added bonus, all eyes would be on me in admiration instead of my bully. Awesome.
And it sounds like they were put up in some seriously fancy schmancy digs for those two (petty?) days. Iâd do it, too lol
Are you as curious as I am about who the mystery soloist was?
If she was in LA, there are a quite a few really nice hotels to choose from. Hopefully she picked THE MOST lavish one, and went for a full massage and spa treatment after the wedding.
2,500 JUST for the two songs, then pay for airfare, hotel, meals and transportation would've been appropriate to charge the rabid bullies
@@blizz2795 OMG IM SO CURIOUS! I only came to the comments section to see if anyone has figured it out, but surprisingly not many comments about the soloist or their identity.đ
Imagine the soloist just breaks into a good ole fashioned âWHERE DID YOU COME FROM, WHERE DID YOU GO? WHERE DID YOU COME FROM COTTON EYE JOE?â
OMG!!!!! This was so hilarious. Loved it. đ . Now I get to watch your videos in 2 places. đđđYAY