How to TALK TO A GUY When You're NERVOUS
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Do you ever get ready to talk to your crush and then the moment you do your nerves completely take over? We’re going to look at the best ways to stay calm, cool and collected while talking to our crushes and how to keep all of our nerves in check and avoid awkward conversations. Check out my list of the top eight ways to talk to your crush while dealing with nerves and help to stop any awkwardness between the two of you!
Whether you're a guy or a girl, or your crush is a guy or a girl, no matter what kind of relationships you're into, these tips should work for you. And don't forget, it's really normal and natural to feel nervous and excited when you like someone. Good luck! xoxo
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In this video we talked about: nerves, talking to your crush, how to flirt, flirting, being nervous, talking with nerves, relationships, tips, hacks, relationship hacks, awkwardness, awkward conversations, staying calm, calming tips
When your crush doesnt have social media...
Wtf ? Maybe they just blocked u from everything
VloggerGirl Cici same, his phone doesn't let him get it. He my boyfriend
VloggerGirl Cici haha that sucks I feel bad😂😂😂😂
Jessika Fun 😂😂😂😂
I found his moms... I didn't search... I just... found out a friend of mine is in his class, and decided that I'd look through her followers...
It's sad how fast I clicked on this.
PickleHead OMG Ye IK 😂😂
PickleHead me
PickleHead samee
So true!!
Honestly 😂😩
Me: Okay! I'm finally going to talk them today! Nothing can stop me! I know exactly what to say!
Anxiety: Honeyyy, you sure about that? ;)
Yoneno M. YES ME EVERY DAY
its actually easy for me cuz me and my crush are actually friends
If you them, I say go for it! Don't be afraid. Have confidence in yourself😉
Yoneno M. Same
Yoneno M. O my gosh same I gave wanted to talk to him for weeks
*Immediately starts looking up good conversation starters*
samee
Omg same
I’m doing this lmao
Haha same
Me lol
I have ZERO confidence with guys I'm pretty sure I'll just grow old alone
Lauren Lech I bet someone will actually like you unlike me no one will like me:(
You rnt alone girl..
no honey you will find love!!!!
Aw come on!
Same all the guys in my school think I am ugly idk y and plus I go 2 a small school
I make myself look like a fool everyday😂😂😂
Same....lol
VloggerGirl Cici same.Its every day bro😂😂
VloggerGirl Cici same just embrace it its fun
Same omg😂😂😂
I do that more than five tomes a day!
One time I accidentally said “i love you” to my crush 😂 So the volleyball teams were posted and I had a really good team and he had a bad one, so I was like “haha my teams gonna win” then he’s like “I hate you (in a joking way)” so then I blurt out “I love you!” 😂 both our faces turned red and I just walked away 😂😂😂
Amari Williams Sadly no....everyone knows we like each other but we are both too shy and awkward to do anything about it :(
girl if you know he likes you- of course he's going to say yes! ask him out!! you can do it over social media if you're scared. it takes five seconds of courage. i did it to my crush and i didnt even know if he liked me or not! don't waste your time and get out there and get your man
If I knew my crush liked me I'd ask him out ASAP do itttt
Everyone, trust me I really really really really really want to ask him out..it’s just I’m literally probably the most awkward person on the face of the planet...I wouldn’t be able to do it..and he doesn’t even have social media. We used to text all the time but he got his iPod taken away :(
Amari Williams YES he’s literally all I think about day and night! My grades are actually dropping cuz I daydream about him during class hehe..I also wrote some songs about him. I just need the courage to ask him out and it’s driving me insane I literally have 0 self confidence. The funny thing is, his parents already consider us a couple 😂
Talk to him? Nah man, I choose life
B r ø ø k l y n same !😂
Listen bud, don't make comments that are jokes this is serious and some of us need this.
l m f aoooooo
Me
ponyboy
I'll try this tomorrow, wish me good luck😂
Update: I tried and he called me to go with him in the park for the weekend😍😁
Andjela Queen Good luck!
Good luck!! You should update tomorrow!!!
B r ø ø k l y n I will! In my country it's 23:18 so I will update when I come back from school tomorrow
Good luck 💙💙💙💙hey I commented a couple mins ago could you see if you could find and maybe gimme some advice I’m not really sure if Kim will see so if not I’ll copy and paste it into the comments
Andjela Queen Good luck bro
Its amazing how she seems to upload these videos when I need them most ;D
Raspberry Malina ikr
Raspberry Malina init same
YA
Raspberry Malina ikr, I was making a big list on what to say to my crush and then BOOM! She uploads this video.
Is your username just raspberry in English and Polish? I'm sorry but I am Polish so I noticed.
My issue is when I get so nervous I start to act like I'm getting rid of the people I'm talking to, and give the impression that I'm not interested.
I worry a lot about saying something embarrassing, so I decide to keep silent (which is not a good decision) I'M STUCK !!
Btw, thanks for the tips Kimberly ❤
Mina Odile same! I literally act like I could not give a shit and then they dont want to talk to me anymore
SAME I RELATE SO MUCH TO THIS
Omg Samee except I turn into a tomato from all the blushing 😂
Don't worry. Learn to have control over your words. Also, learn to be comfortable around him.😉
same
I freeze up when I talk to my crush (we're good friends) and I panic and giggle a lot and I know he thinks it's weird coz I'm normally so confident around him but God I'm so weird
Queen C sounds like Marinette from miraculous ladybug 🤣
Claire Inkling omg yesss!
Claire Inkling That’s literally who I thought of 😂
You are not weird, it's perfectly normal to be nervous.
Allison Blais lmao
I don’t even have a crush rn and I’m still watching this 😂❤️
Lily Keime same
Me neither
Yeah, because Kimberly is awesome and you got to be prepeard for later...
Samee
Liselotte yass
How to tell if he hates you or is just awkward
I think she has a video, except it's called "How to tell if a shy guy likes you" or something like that, you should really watch it, it shows the difference between not interested,
and shy.
My crush doesn't even know who I am so......😭
l feel you
Same
I feel u I'm the same my crush doesn't even know I am even on this planet!
Ugh same ;( we talked only once but I for some reason really like him
Brianna Potts samee don’t worry
Yesss ! I am a nervous wreck 24/7 😂x
Esme Willis frsss
I once was sitting next to my crush and I blushed and he asked me why I always touch my face and I told him that my face feels hot and then he just layed his hand on my cheeks 😍😂and that did not help with my redness😂😂 very helpful video🙈❤
Here's the thing .My crush likes me back but he won't ask me out
Cerena Lozano hes probably to shy to if your sure he likes u and u like him try to get closer to him or ask him out if your sure he wants to be with you do it!
Ask him outt!1!
Sammmmmeeeee!!
Same these boys are pussies
SAME!
Best timing cause tomorrow we might talk and I'm soooo nervous
hope 16 mistake number one you're putting pressure on the conversation don't expect it to go anywhere but if it does you can be pleasantly surprised
I'll try some of these on Sunday, because I'll see him then. But good luck to you!
My crush said they wanted to hang out with me tomorrow... I’m so scared
I have said some thing embracing to my crush.... Kimberly you have helped me a lot with my crush.
Kaitlin McMahan Tell me about it! My crush was talking about the bed of his truck... and out of nowhere, I blurt out, “ yea, your bed is amazing,”
😳😳🤯🤬🤭😰
Doodle Cat nooooooo omg I feel u
Y-you embraced your crush? Is this rape?
embarrassing!!!!!
Kaitlin McMahan did it work
My crush talks to me but i never know what to say but he is so funny and i just smile and he picks on me for fun. Lol
“Nervous” is an understatement 😂
Yass, I NEED this so BAD! Thank you 😊 love you 💕💕😂💕
MY crush knows i like him and he flirts with me sometimes now but he says he dosent like me 😂😝
Twyla Thomas same but I think he likes me as well
Sorry to hear that... Who knows? Maybe he actually still likes you, but if not, there are plenty more fish in the sea!😉
Mama Squishy yeah..but I think he likes me
Wait, do u 2 go to the same school?
No
Very helpful vid! ♥
Anyone else thought she was going to say 'well if so, you are in LOVE.' Instead of 'well if so, you are in LUCK' at 0.23
OMG THANK YOU FOR THIS I NEEDED THIS TODAY!!!! THANK YOUUU 💕💕
Edit: after me watching your videos, me and my crush are actually dating :))) thank youuuuu
Zebrasushi :P congrats!!!
Congrats!!!
Good for you I still can’t walk up to my crush
Can’t relate
I Talk to my crush but i don't have a lot of time to do It since i'm always studying 🤦 but that makes my day and have me smiling non stop 😳
Tania Martínez Suárez exactly the same for me!!! 😄
If he makes you really happy, maybe sit with him at lunch, or get his number so you guys can call or text each other outside of school. But if your scared to ask for his number, just maybe come up with a different reason or excuse😉
Always here for Kimberly’s Advences ! Love you From France ❤️
Amelie B omg I live in Frace
Amelie B yeees des français 😂
Amelie B from Australia
Thanks for another video this is good!!! 😁😁😍😍
I had a crush back in 7 th grade... I was so shy that I couldn't even talk to him... He never talked to me but he used to make eye contact with me during class and I used to see him wherever I go... he even smiled at me once and I smiled back... I finally gave up on him as I never had the courage to talk to him... I was so shy and I am even now to this day... I know that was super silly but I just couldn't get the courage to strike up a conversation with him...
I'm having the same problem I'm probably going to give up since I'm moving soon
Great video! I learned a lot thank you so much!
Also i am always nervous around cute guys.....
Kimberly can you please do a video on how to get your crushes number without making it awkward or making people think you have a crush please ❤️ love your videos
Super Gaming Sunday I too want to gt my viruses number 😂😂 but I would actually *really* appreciate of she made a video like that too lol
Super Gaming Sunday YESSSS we NEED this!!! This is literally my predicament atm ×)
Make your friend get his number for you (or take his phone and tease him about it.. and ask if he has snap chat)
Thanks for this video Kimberly! To anyone who is nervous around their crush: Trust me, someday you'll realise that they're just human and you'll be able to talk to them as normally as you do with anyone! I used to have a confidence problem, but recently I've started to get more and more confident because I've realised that I don't care what people that I don't care about think of me - if someone whose opinion you don't value doesn't like something about you then that's their problem! You do you and don't let anyone tell you any different! ❤️
I was never nervous about any guy in the past,
But my new crush I just feel so nervous all the time like I have no chance.
SO THANK YOU I NEEDED THIS!!!!
I am happy i literally needed this video
Same!!!
All my crushes became my friend now lol so I find another crush again haha lmao
😥 don't have Facebook so I can't comment on Kimberly's page.
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I thank you Kimberly for doing so much giveaways thanks!!!
Kimberly i have a problem i have a crush and i found out that my bff has the same crush and i dont wanna make my bff sad by talking to the boy What to do?
Pikachu Videos same thing here talk to your friend first... then hope for the best DONT MAKE THIS A CONPETITION
Honestly same, she likes the same person. I am kinda jealous because she's talked to him before but I never had the confidence. :(
I have a crush on my friends boyfriend and it really sucks cause she doesn't even like him that much but she's real possessive. And idk he looks at me a bit and I feel so guilty.
Just talk to ur friend. Work it out,and if she’s all mad or upset then she’s not a good friend. If ur crush is like the #1 thing u think about and love then id say go for it(after ur all settled with ur friend).
Pikachu Videos if she's your bff she'll get it
'I'm going to help you talk to your crush when your a *little* bit nervous '
Me: 😱More like Nervous and you're about to faint!!😱
OMG thanks so much for this video!! ur literally a lifesaver! LOVE YOU!!!
THANK YOU GIRL. IVE MESSED UP A LOT THIS WEEK, AND NEEDED THIS
I really really needed this video thanks 😘😘 😍😍😍😘😘😍😘😘😘😘😍😍😘😘
THIS IS WHAT I NEED OMGGGG.I did texted my crush a long time ago and he ignore me.Which is acc sad and I think I'm going to do it again because he started staring at me.Thanks Kimberly so much you help me out so much.Love you lots.Merry Christmas❤🎄💍You helped me gain so much confidence....Thankyou
Glitz
Inesa S how'd it go?
I hope it went well
Me too, I texted my crush but he didn't answer, then I saw him in person twice and he totally came to say hi to me, kind of confusing, but it brings a little hope, I'm thinking about asking him out now.
Omg, this is a lifesaver!!!
Thankyou!!!
Ask Kimberly thank you so much for all of the tips! I love you and your videos so much! ❤
Great tips!❤️ My daughter needs to see this, it will be great if i’ll tell her all about you😍
NEED THIS!
Kimberly you are always so adorable and helpful! Thank you so much!
THANKS Kimberly.......this video is AWESOME......thank you so much🌹🌹🌹🌹
I was waiting for it ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I never can approach my crush. Oh God, the struggle is real. 😂😂😂
Thx for the advice kimberly!!!!💜💙💜💙💜💙💜💙💜
Thank you Kimberly for all your videos and advice 😘😘
Early! ILYSM Kimberly!!
Can you make a video in a scenario where you barely know you crush and they barely know you @AskKimberly
I love your videos there so helpful!! 🙃
This is really very helpful, Thanks Kimberly!
I love when you upload each video when i really need an advice 😍😍❤️❤️you’re looking so Bomb 💚💚
WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH❤
Perfect timing bc I was in 5th period with my crush and I didn't know what to say!
That Girl With The Afro my cru
Sh is also in my fifth period
OMGG every single time you upload on the right timeee❤ Love u and thank u so muchh❤❤
Love watching your videos! You can see how much you love doing these 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
Yes new video
U r the best u really r of good advice tysm
Oh my gosh I love that you made this video!!!💗This is PERFECT for me! 💕Thank you Kimberly!💖
thanks for the amazing tips kimberly ❤❤❤❤
My crush is on soccer team and when he scores(he plays forward) he always looks at me and I tried talking to him but he just looked down some times he stares at me but awhile ago they told me that his cousin liked me and there is about a 2 year age gap does he like me or not?
Esme R he might just be trying to feel you out by telling you his cousin likes you
Amberscupcakes OK I think you are right
Esme R he probably does like you. And probably sad that his cousin likes you too. So he most likely be having mixed feelings or confused on what he should do.
Leticia Perea OK Thx
I think everyone can be likeable. Don't worry! He's probably just nervous so give it time... In fact, I think he likes you by the sound of it!😉
I blurred out something before and now I regret it so much😂
Hey, it's okay to have blurted something out, you learned not to do that again, right? So learn and live. I doubt anyone remembers it.
I was so excited you linked your shirt but it's sold out!! Such good tips, the last one I would find so adorable if someone said that to me!
I just found this channel today and I am absolutely obsessed ❣❣❣
The moment I'd even say just "Hi", I would definitely faint.
Thought you said 'fart' 😂😂😂
Hahaha Tip#2 I already did that when I'm in high school 😍😂 its so embarrassing
thank you so much! This is going to help me so much with talking with my crush!!!!
Thanks for helping me I absolutely LOVE your videos and especially YOU!!!😘😘😘😘 This video helps a LOT!
So I Gave My Friends A Note To Give To My Crush And it Said What I Felt About Him I Told Her Not To Say My Name But She Did And What Broke My Heart Is That My Other Friend Told Me He Said "Who's (My Name)" So He Didn't Even Know Who I Am And I'm In 4 Of His Classes Should I Move On?
THANKS SO MUCH KIMBERLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think I’m a little too addicted to this channel. I’ve watched this channel so much I now have a sixth sense... I can tell when a guy likes me in an instant. Thanks for making your videos so fun to watch Kimberly!
Thank you .....your video is very helpful to me...thanks again✌
you are awesome
When you don't have social media
THANK You for these awesome tips.
Oh thank you! I will definitely use thisss
When ur crush won't add u back on social media........😑😑
I had a crush for two weeks after watching your video I now have a very affectionate boyfriend (my crush ) thank you soo much Kimberley
Hey just want to say thanks so very much. I tried some of these tips and i got over my nervousness 💕💖👍👍💖👍💕👍💞👍💞
This is really great advice. Also love the top it’s simple and cute
Perfect timing 😆😅😅
HANNAH Same here
Same, you could call be weird, but I have been waiting, and not a moment too soon because I'm planning on talking to him in two days, I've had enough of the staring contests and I think I need to introduce myself before I discover the ability to read minds.
When you & your crush both like each other but their friends hate you... :( also idk if it just me but I am 2 socially awkward to know how to stat a conversation with some one? how do you start a conversation / how do normal people have a conversation???
Well, find a topic that you are both passionate about. That will make for great conversation!😉
megan try's I’m just like u so I like som4one but my friend says he’s ugly but he is really cute like my other group of friends all agree that he’s cute
This is so great. I get so scared. I would love to get either one of the giveaways
Thanks for the advice
But I cannot ever go talk to my crush. No matter what. I'll die right there and then 😂😂
When I try to talk to my crush im afraid I come off as a bit ride because I'm super nervous
Kim, thank you for being so helpful for me!!! 😍 Love you soooooo much!!! 💋
Can't wait until the next video!!!!!!!!! 😋
you just saved my life I used to be unattractive to guys but now you help me out thank you for your help
I was just listening to zara larson and then i just listen to her intro ......lol
KIMBERLY!!!!
I'm gonna say it once again!!
Please, make, advice, for, men..
Plz..
Love your top.. And I already did like the tip number two before
Thanks for the help, I needed it!!