How to Tell if a Guy is SHY or JUST NOT INTERESTED!!

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    Is my crush shy or not into me?
    Is your crush ignoring you or just too nervous to say anything? There’s a fine line between telling if your crush is shy or just not into you. In this video I’m going to tell you about the signs to tell if your crush is shy or if they aren’t interested. Make sure to subscribe to Ask Kimberly and follow me on Instagram and Snapchat so you don't miss the next Q&A:-)
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  • @hannahcook6444
    @hannahcook6444 Před 5 lety +1336

    He acts like he likes me one day and the next he doesn't

    • @gayfrogs4206
      @gayfrogs4206 Před 5 lety +151

      He knows what he’s doing ;)
      Trust me

    • @erakuralightning-bolt1492
      @erakuralightning-bolt1492 Před 5 lety +68

      Player omg

    • @tatianat.9959
      @tatianat.9959 Před 5 lety +31

      I'm still confused with the other responses no it's horrible if he dose that

    • @irenerufus1090
      @irenerufus1090 Před 5 lety +44

      Well so my old crush messaged me one day we would talk for a really long time on the phone then the next month I get ignored until i go over when i go to where they live we have a great time then i get ignored I'm being ignoring right now so I'm over it

    • @karlenechelsea7858
      @karlenechelsea7858 Před 4 lety +8

      Same :(((

  • @Linda-vq8oq
    @Linda-vq8oq Před 6 lety +939

    What if you're awkward and they're awkward?

    • @emmagarciiaa1953
      @emmagarciiaa1953 Před 6 lety +165

      Linda THEN YOU CAN BE IN A PERFECT AWKWARD RELATIONSHIP!

    • @scenerybyv5902
      @scenerybyv5902 Před 5 lety +38

      @@emmagarciiaa1953 so awkward that they can't even celebrate their monthsarries or anniversaries lmao

    • @niko-oy1cq
      @niko-oy1cq Před 5 lety +23

      What if I'm awkward and they aren't :(

    • @itzrinonline1359
      @itzrinonline1359 Před 5 lety +36

      So akward that ur not talking to him and he's not talking at u att all BC he's shy? Yea... Idk..

    • @grubbiechirp5695
      @grubbiechirp5695 Před 5 lety +23

      What if the entire world is awkward, I think there wouldn’t be overpopulation

  • @karlavelazquez6167
    @karlavelazquez6167 Před 5 lety +928

    What if we’re *both* shy and don’t know how to start the conversation

    • @ioannak.4690
      @ioannak.4690 Před 4 lety +94

      1. Have a common friend and Give the common friend to start the conversation.
      2. Talk to him via Text
      3. Smile at him often & hold a little bit the eye contact (hold the eye contact as long as possible)
      4. You're Amazing, in somebody's other Eyes. Never forget that, even if sb rejected you in the Future.

    • @annmariedean9270
      @annmariedean9270 Před 4 lety +21

      I am on the same boat

    • @dilarafataliyeva2904
      @dilarafataliyeva2904 Před 4 lety +3

      Karla Velazquez same

    • @reilynnpo
      @reilynnpo Před 4 lety +4

      OMG SAME

    • @Yasmeii
      @Yasmeii Před 4 lety +6

      Sis im struggling

  • @komaltoor5517
    @komaltoor5517 Před 6 lety +768

    I don't have a crush....this is just interesting to me

  • @amalia4842
    @amalia4842 Před 6 lety +1911

    Can u do this but with outgoing guys?
    *How do you tell if someone is just being nice or if they actually like you?*

    • @amalia4842
      @amalia4842 Před 6 lety +97

      My crush is a 100% extrovert 😂😭😭😭

    • @mylescardenas5341
      @mylescardenas5341 Před 6 lety +17

      how??😂😂 im wondering too😂😂

    • @ayla4908
      @ayla4908 Před 6 lety +43

      CreativeAmalia in a texting situation
      Being nice: they will probably just say hi, hello or something, when you ask how they're doing they will give an answer but not as long they would if they like you, like this "not bad"
      If they actually like you: they will probably text you something like hey, hiya stuff like that. And if you ask how they're doing they will give you a more in detail answer instead, like this: "I'm great, how about you?"
      This is how I found out that this guy liked me when he was texting because he was really trying to make conversation, so this is from my experience

    • @elinesimons5922
      @elinesimons5922 Před 6 lety +1

      Yes please

    • @shaleahcrawford5454
      @shaleahcrawford5454 Před 6 lety +2

      CreativeAmalia right

  • @alyssaong6139
    @alyssaong6139 Před 6 lety +750

    I'm still really confused cause sometimes he seems like he likes me and sometimes he doesn't

  • @toruoikawa1153
    @toruoikawa1153 Před 5 lety +132

    What's funny is that every time a boy has a crush on me, I don't like them back. But every time I like a boy, they don't like me back.

    • @yasminstb497
      @yasminstb497 Před 3 lety +2

      Same 🙂

    • @whome6081
      @whome6081 Před 2 lety +7

      I know what you mean lol. Or we like each other at different times.🙈

    • @Kreznir
      @Kreznir Před 2 lety +1

      Not me I have his friends ask him if he likes me but there also my friend case there gay

    • @marigold1311
      @marigold1311 Před 2 lety +1

      I swear your me😭

    • @squidwardtentacles7189
      @squidwardtentacles7189 Před rokem +1

      Literally so draining

  • @isabelv9408
    @isabelv9408 Před 4 lety +224

    I think he’s just shy and unitrested ✌️🥺

  • @user-ie1ei3mi8r
    @user-ie1ei3mi8r Před 6 lety +533

    But whenever I walk through the halls and see my crush I become over confident and pretend I don't notice him and try not to make eye contact at all😂

  • @abbyyoung8005
    @abbyyoung8005 Před 6 lety +464

    My crush acts shy around me but he is definitely not shy

  • @1SUBPAR
    @1SUBPAR Před 5 lety +289

    Hack!
    Crush: do u have a crush?
    You: yeah u
    Crush: sorry I don't feel the same way
    You: no u meant do u have a crush?
    Crush: u scared me and yes I have a crush!😅☺️

    • @Kindahalawi
      @Kindahalawi Před 4 lety +13

      lindsay gomez smart

    • @krissnamartin
      @krissnamartin Před 4 lety +11

      That’s how I respond lol.
      But let’s change crush with best friend lol. I wasn’t informed that that was how they interpreted my answer so the person’s very possessive best friend started distancing her best friend from me. That was annoying. Hahaha.

    • @HY-dh3if
      @HY-dh3if Před 4 lety +2

      lindsay gomez i don’t understand

    • @layniecrabill7358
      @layniecrabill7358 Před 4 lety +7

      lindsay gomez smart bitch how do you get your crush to ask if you ahve a crush to do this

    • @Gurpreet-A
      @Gurpreet-A Před 4 lety +1

      👏

  • @amberwalsh7450
    @amberwalsh7450 Před 6 lety +214

    I was in a texting relationship with my crush for 4 months straight every day, and then we confessed we liked each other. Best day ever! ♡

  • @itslit2390
    @itslit2390 Před 6 lety +193

    I just realized I am a shy guy lmfaoo

  • @shelbyjoneff
    @shelbyjoneff Před 6 lety +193

    This actually helped me as a shy girl to know how to show someone I'm interested!!

  • @Thecallmemisterajp
    @Thecallmemisterajp Před 5 lety +33

    Speaking as a shy guy, texting can be just as tough, if not tougher, than a face to face interaction, because you have more time to think and over analyze with someone you like. I’ve got a jokey personality for instance, but I’ve had instances where it’s taken me 15-20 minutes to text someone I liked because I was worried about offending her. So yeah I wouldn’t necessarily say the guy who’s not responsive on text should be ruled out as liking you.

  • @-mackenzie-2035
    @-mackenzie-2035 Před 6 lety +363

    I have a way if u like them but don't know if they like you:
    You: i like u
    Crush: what!/I DON'T LIKE YOU
    you: u as in the vowel
    Ta daaaaaa hack for being rejected

  • @macscorner3729
    @macscorner3729 Před 6 lety +66

    YESSSS! He likes me!!!!!!! Most applicable... My crush was on his phone and slouched over.. When I walked up to where he was sitting he: made eye contact, smiled, put his phone away, sat up straight, and started to come alive. Thank you SO MUCH Kimberly!! I loved this and it was VERY helpful!

    • @tonekagrigsby-green769
      @tonekagrigsby-green769 Před 6 lety +1

      Mac's Corner mine too my crush actually walked with me and my friends out of class

    • @puregodd
      @puregodd Před 6 lety +2

      I wish I knew exactly how to tell if he likes me but at least Kimberly helped me out so good luck with it crushes ppl 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @kaylar5178
    @kaylar5178 Před 5 lety +83

    I'm definitely the shy person to my crush but sometimes I pretend that I don't like him just to see if he really cares about me or not

    • @Hawaiiansky11
      @Hawaiiansky11 Před rokem +2

      Pretending, to 'test' him is a manipulation, and you're going to lose if you keep playing games like that.

  • @zohalfazli
    @zohalfazli Před 6 lety +157

    Mt crush isn't even shy? Why am I watching this😂

    • @positivejasmijn6431
      @positivejasmijn6431 Před 6 lety

      Zohal Fazli hahaha same

    • @bahjamoh6196
      @bahjamoh6196 Před 5 lety +2

      Hhhhh this actually made my day 😂😂😂😂

    • @randjnation4562
      @randjnation4562 Před 5 lety

      Zohal Fazli she means shy towards you my crush is an extrovert and he acts shy around me

    • @brit518
      @brit518 Před 4 lety

      😂 same

  • @niko-oy1cq
    @niko-oy1cq Před 5 lety +100

    So my crush has said that he actually has a crush on me. Why am I here lmao

  • @alogarcia8008
    @alogarcia8008 Před 6 lety +95

    Kimberly is like an older sister i've never had with love advice😂❤️

  • @jaylareed3059
    @jaylareed3059 Před 6 lety +95

    Ok so let's call him Daniel. Me and Daniel have PE together. We stand next to each other in the line up for that class. He's quiet but he's not entirely awkward or anything, more just to himself, but he's super nice and we share the same humor. So one day he played this Pe warmup with me and was teasing me, then he caught up with me and my friend while we were walking home, offered to fight someone when he thought they hurt my feelings, went up to me and asked me what happened & if I was alright after my anxiety attack, walked again with me home, made deadass eye contact for 6 seconds, said hey to me at my locker, blushed when I complimented him, said "this ones for you" and tried to make a basketball shot but adorably failed. But my issue is that he pushes and teases this other girl but idk... I feel like he likes me but like I don't know how to get him to ask me out because I like him a lot too. I only have Pe every other day so I hardly see him but idk how to get him to ask me out. We haven't been speaking too much Idk how to keep him interested, so girls could you help a sister out? :)
    UPDATE: 9/15/17
    We walked again and had a 15 minute conversation about random things and it was sweet they were telling me stories and I was telling them stories ugh😍

    • @mcna220
      @mcna220 Před 6 lety +6

      Jayla Reed omg that's so cute!!! idk much abt guys and all that so I don't know enough to help:/

    • @ashleyarriaga7830
      @ashleyarriaga7830 Před 6 lety +12

      Jayla Reed so cute, uhh boys are so complicated

    • @randommm5580
      @randommm5580 Před 6 lety +1

      Jayla Reed boys are complicated,But in my opinion I think he likes you because he teases you

    • @ryla3794
      @ryla3794 Před 6 lety +2

      Jayla Reed Maybe you're in a situation where he likes both of you. Or maybe you're in a situation where he's trying to make you or her jealous. BOYS ARE SO FREAKING COMPLICATED

    • @vicg0212
      @vicg0212 Před 6 lety

      Jayla Reed I would suggest doing a bit of flirting with him. Watch a bunch of Kim's vids and you will be schooled on so much about guys. Her videos are very helpful, if you haven't watched her "bend and snap" video, you should. Its a very flirty technique that I can't wait to use on my boyfriend at the right time lol. Hope this helped you!!!

  • @neutralas8136
    @neutralas8136 Před 5 lety +56

    when i know that my crush will never like me back :'))))

  • @lovemecom3832
    @lovemecom3832 Před 6 lety +188

    It's really hard to differentiate between shy guys and the guys that are just not interested in you because they both not showing clear signs that they are into you. Why not tell the guy about your feelings anyways we're in the modern world where women are equally priviledged to men.

    • @tayen
      @tayen Před 5 lety +19

      LoveMe,com cuz it’s SCARRRYYYY

    • @sparklyxshine4796
      @sparklyxshine4796 Před 4 lety +3

      @@tayen but ugh,even the girl has told you she like him... he told me he cant say anything to it^^ im sure he isnt that sure what he want,because I think he coukld had say no insead of this! & left me with this :( also he could had so,no feels^^

    • @swahiliranger1022
      @swahiliranger1022 Před 4 lety +1

      Pfffffttt hahahaha

    • @nofybn7794
      @nofybn7794 Před 4 lety +4

      Sorry women are NOT equally priviledged. Guys are "more visual" A guy moves a girl 1 point for personality, a girl moves a guy 4. Big difference. So a girl has to be very attractive from the start. Also girls can not make the first move. They are seen as masculine and they resent her for it eventually. Or "thirsty".

  • @hellenroeser7349
    @hellenroeser7349 Před 6 lety +538

    Kimberly I am still confused sorry, when we see each other he shows all body signs he is interested but he rarely initiated the talk in texts and never call me😠😂

    • @user-pf5ej4qb4j
      @user-pf5ej4qb4j Před 6 lety +33

      Hellen Roeser The exact same thing is happaning to me every time

    • @hellenroeser7349
      @hellenroeser7349 Před 6 lety +3

      Илияна Радова my friend I feel you😂

    • @keirawalkowiak5907
      @keirawalkowiak5907 Před 6 lety +26

      Hellen Roeser sorry but if a guy doesn't talk to u it's not a good sign bc your crush if they like you they would go out of their way to talk to u sorry girl their are plenty of fish in the sea

    • @keirawalkowiak5907
      @keirawalkowiak5907 Před 6 lety +20

      Well maybe he's shy

    • @alanaisagoat9884
      @alanaisagoat9884 Před 6 lety +3

      Hellen Roeser same

  • @nataliebates6201
    @nataliebates6201 Před 6 lety +106

    I love you Kimberly. I watch your videos. I followed you my crush... well a dance was a few days ago. He asked me! He was my first dance! I know sounds silly but yeah. Well he moved school which is sad. My brothers gf is his cousin weird right? Well my best friends is also their cousin small world! We hang out at the lake/ pond things are going well! We are both not aloud to date buuut we may do couple things anyway. Or maybe we are dating... ok yes thanks to you I got my best friends I had a crush on for so long! Thank you sooo much!

  • @Linda-oy6em
    @Linda-oy6em Před 5 lety +27

    I’m confused because his body language tells me that he is interested, but I always have to be the one to text him

  • @daniellecruz2570
    @daniellecruz2570 Před 6 lety +36

    See that’s where I’m conflicted, he does the things when the shy crushes do but when we text, I’m always the one who starts the convo. :/

  • @emmaevie2362
    @emmaevie2362 Před 6 lety +51

    You should do a "how to tell a guy you don't like them without hurting them" please

    • @noname-jo2fc
      @noname-jo2fc Před 6 lety

      Emma Visser tell him he's like your older brother

    • @klaus_ali
      @klaus_ali Před 6 lety

      You can never tell someone that you dont like them without hurting them. But say it as soon as possible so theu could move on fast and stop liking you, to make the pain lesser

    • @puregodd
      @puregodd Před 6 lety

      If I could tell u what to say it would tell u to say: hey, look I know that you like me and it's really nice of you but I'm sorry I can't return the feelings I'm so so so so so sorry...
      But idk what to do

    • @oreo3850
      @oreo3850 Před rokem

      Just say "I have a crush on this guy...." he'll know for sure...

  • @thorn2374
    @thorn2374 Před 6 lety +23

    As a shy person I can confirm these action are how I act when I like someone. *tums up*

  • @rileyborden2909
    @rileyborden2909 Před 6 lety +65

    Ok, so here's my problem. So, I have a crush and I see him everyday. In class, we talk so much and we barely stop talking. He is always being really silly and funny and is always blushing and smiling. He sometimes gets nervous around me and when I first met him, he was very nervous and shy but not since we became friends. But as soon as we leave class, he barely talks to me and I will catch him looking at me every so often. But he kinda gives me an intense sorta look but I'm not sure if he likes me or he does and he is also very shy.

    • @kornilious
      @kornilious Před 6 lety +15

      I think he does but he just doesn’t have the courage to come up to you outside of the classroom. It’s a different environment inside a class than it is outside.

    • @imgonnafillall50characters36
      @imgonnafillall50characters36 Před 2 lety

      Seems like he has a crush on u

  • @nicollereyes1722
    @nicollereyes1722 Před 6 lety +3

    Kimberly was so right about the texting. I was so connected to everything she was saying in the texting category.

  • @beccabee1958
    @beccabee1958 Před 6 lety +13

    Kimberly, I would like to thank you because u helped me gain enough courage to tell my crush that I like him, and although it's not going to lead to anything right now, the layer of awkwardness is gone and were back to normal, so thank you.

  • @korinasibenik3162
    @korinasibenik3162 Před 6 lety +58

    Do how to become friends with guy friends

    • @hatepixie5127
      @hatepixie5127 Před 6 lety +4

      Korina Cullen I want guy friends too but they seem to have the wrong idea about friendship if u feel me

  • @Hawaiiansky11
    @Hawaiiansky11 Před rokem +6

    I asked my college crush one day if I should go out with someone else who had asked me out. I was HOPING to get a response to the effect of "No, he's not right for you," or something like that. He basically said, "Sure, if you like him, why not?" Turns out, my crush really did like me, but was too shy to ask me himself! Then, years later, after we had established a friendship, he called me up one day to ask about a girl he wanted to date. (WHY DO GUYS DO THIS?!?) I presumed that he had put me in the 'friend / tolerable human' zone, so I offered him friendly advice. I remember saying to him, "You should date a girl who likes you for you, not for what you can buy for her," going on about not spending a lot of money on a first date, because it was setting the bar too high, and the girl would have an expectation of him spending all sorts of money on her and he would have a hard time (being a broke-ass college student like me) keeping up with that. He sounded a little disappointed when he hung up the phone. DECADES later, a mutual friend told me, "Oh yeah he had these concert ticket he bought to take you out, but then he ended up giving them to me and another guy." Damn it, if I had any idea that he wanted to date me, I'd have jumped at the chance!!
    Well, here we are some 30 years later. He's single, I'm single and we're talking again. If he starts that sh** of asking for dating advice from me again, I'm going to be totally blunt and say, "Why are you not asking someone else about dating ME?!?" Dang, guys, please don't "Mr. Rochester" my Jayne Eyre. Not all of us pick on on those hints.

    • @sabrineghali6230
      @sabrineghali6230 Před 5 měsíci

      Giiirl why dont just give him signes a obvioud ones or tell him directly because you too have already wasting too much Time when a cute love story coule be liké Come un

  • @balqissumi
    @balqissumi Před 5 lety +11

    now i see my crush isn't into me at all and he keeps avoiding me . imma move on

  • @caracarabonitaa
    @caracarabonitaa Před 6 lety +90

    Lol, everything opposite from what Kimberly said, got me the guy ahaha

  • @naomianderson1321
    @naomianderson1321 Před 6 lety +31

    I am the really shy one who sees the person i like but dont have confidence to do so. And when if i did i wouod probably be so nervous my hands shake.

    • @makennamorrow8072
      @makennamorrow8072 Před 6 lety

      Naomi Anderson same

    • @puregodd
      @puregodd Před 6 lety

      Same but it's my leg when I'm nervous. the more nervous i am the shaking will literally be from my foot to the entire leg annnnnnd I think during a presentation he say that so.....

  • @AlandraDale
    @AlandraDale Před 6 lety

    You literally go so in-depth and i love it!

  • @taylork329
    @taylork329 Před 6 lety

    Great video... I've liked this guy for quite a while and didn't think he'd feel the same, assumed he'd be straight, but the more I see him the more it seems mutual. I thought he was disinterested initially, but the last point of the video is exactly what brought me around.. he's kinda awkward and has a hard time starting conversations, but when we do get talking his face just lights up so brilliantly, and he gets really excited and extends conversations as long as possible, laughs quite a lot at my bad jokes, goes out of his way to help me with things, etc. It's adorable, I'm trying to be clear with my signals but it's difficult for such a delicate situation, I know he has anxiety and am just trying to not be too abrasive, but also think a nudge in the right direction would help ease some of the pressure. He has said some stuff that comes off as non-platonic as well, but it seems like he's so shy he literally can't look me in the eye and instead, always looks down or at something he's showing me while we talk. (And yes, he can maintain eye contact with everyone else just fine.)

  • @latejuly9883
    @latejuly9883 Před 6 lety +35

    I love her look in this! 😍

  • @GiannaChristine
    @GiannaChristine Před 6 lety +77

    Your videos are so interesting!💗

  • @galinaioffe2250
    @galinaioffe2250 Před 6 lety +2

    #5 VALID. 9 of 10 the point of conversation with your crush is to get to know them and if they are not asking you type of question you are asking, they are definitely not interested.

  • @miisakajaste5897
    @miisakajaste5897 Před 5 lety

    Omg i am loving that hairband you look gorgeous!!

  • @sakshi5520
    @sakshi5520 Před 6 lety +33

    I love your flower crown! 😍

  • @sharanya8645
    @sharanya8645 Před 6 lety +7

    Omg thank you Kimberly!! This video is literally so helpful👍😘

  • @frappedelimon4351
    @frappedelimon4351 Před 5 lety

    omg i love the way your ayebrows move, and also your background!!!

  • @puregodd
    @puregodd Před 6 lety +1

    Evidence he likes you based on what I've learned so far thx to Kimberly:
    1 eye contact
    2 keep conversation going
    3 finds ways to touch you
    4 awkwardness
    5 you catch him looking at you
    6 makes a big change in something example:likes the things you like all of a sudden
    7 helps you if you ask
    Anymore I've missed?

  • @gianinaanne
    @gianinaanne Před 6 lety +10

    this is so spot on, as a shy person. I absolutely love your videos

  • @Mm-ig5zr
    @Mm-ig5zr Před 6 lety +56

    Hey guys I heard when u are early Kimberly replies

    • @roromsp7499
      @roromsp7499 Před 6 lety +6

      LUKE BRYAN FAN OMG SHE LOVED THISS😛

    • @Mm-ig5zr
      @Mm-ig5zr Před 6 lety +5

      Love you Kimberly

  • @alexismartin4470
    @alexismartin4470 Před 5 lety +3

    Honestly this helped a lot! I was told he was shy but this really made it clear that he might actually be interested just not as confident lol Thanks Kimberly!😊

  • @lucalives96
    @lucalives96 Před 6 lety

    OMG kimberly thank you! Thanks to you I was able too notice that my crush... DOES ACTUALLY LIKE ME THANK YOU!!!

  • @jeniskaduplain5407
    @jeniskaduplain5407 Před 6 lety +22

    😍😍 love this you slayyy😍💕

  • @notava6601
    @notava6601 Před 6 lety +25

    The struggle when your crush “doesn’t believe in social media” (that’s just what mine said to me)

    • @wanderingbelleasmr1054
      @wanderingbelleasmr1054 Před 5 lety

      the struggle when you don't believe in social media:)

    • @thinkingofaname6233
      @thinkingofaname6233 Před 5 lety +3

      Ava Is Trashy social media is trash, never used it, never will. Idk why that suddenly makes you unattractive. *ong u don’t use online cancer? I hate u*

    • @exmachina8475
      @exmachina8475 Před 4 lety +1

      Thinking of A Name You’re probably baiting but just in case you’re legit, YT technically counts as a social media platform.

  • @Kata_Rin
    @Kata_Rin Před 5 lety +1

    Ahhh I’m so glad that this video literally came up when I needed it most. My crush is kind of my friend and I have known him for three months but recently he started ignoring me. I’m sooo in despair but number 2 reassured me a little bit.

  • @julialange9558
    @julialange9558 Před 5 lety

    This is the first video I've seen of yours and it was VERY helpful! Subscribed!

  • @multixgrazer929
    @multixgrazer929 Před 6 lety +94

    Hey girl! Love the flower crown! 😆😆🌹🌹🌸🌸🌷🌷

    • @Emma-wh7fg
      @Emma-wh7fg Před 6 lety +1

      Why Don't We Fan my lime lights!

    • @multixgrazer929
      @multixgrazer929 Před 6 lety +2

      Sally Wynter Yes hey limelight!!!

    • @hallo_1251
      @hallo_1251 Před 6 lety +1

      Why Don't We Fan Same! It looks so good on her... I am a fan to, my favorite is Daniel and Zach, who is your favorite?😊💙

    • @multixgrazer929
      @multixgrazer929 Před 6 lety +1

      Hi People Zach!! I met him recently and i hugged him twice and got a picture with him!! Best day of my life!! 😂😂😂😍😍😍💖💖💖

    • @hallo_1251
      @hallo_1251 Před 6 lety +2

      Why Don't We Fan I want a picture with Daniel😊

  • @mehaksharma2210
    @mehaksharma2210 Před 6 lety +332

    I'm not even having my crush phone number 😢😢btw my crush is elder than me 2 yrs doesn't matter, but he is talkative n not talkative in front of me... But he is very friendly with every boy I know but not with me 😑😑he doesn't speak with me... Any one having any ideas or something?? So kindly share

    • @mehaksharma2210
      @mehaksharma2210 Před 6 lety +8

      Da gamertag ummm ur having a good idea but he is not at all intelligent . Even though I'm younger than him I'm having much knowledge than him.. And he.. Oh god he fails so many of his assignment 😩😩and I got pass in every subject.. He is in ninth but he can't even give the examination of seventh standard... 😥he will fail.. I'm sure 😂😂and if I will taught by him I will be fail too 😂

    • @candyluna2929
      @candyluna2929 Před 6 lety +55

      He's gay

    • @lucyrobin280
      @lucyrobin280 Před 6 lety +12

      La Dama del Caribe I DIED WHEN I READ THIS COMMENT

    • @mehaksharma2210
      @mehaksharma2210 Před 6 lety +3

      Lucy Robin why

    • @Seraphina434
      @Seraphina434 Před 6 lety +4

      Probaley not interested

  • @uyennguyen5741
    @uyennguyen5741 Před 5 lety

    Omg. I need this video!! I was confused by my crush that way and this helps so much

  • @giannakopoulousofia8605

    I love the way you talk!thank you for all the tips❤️

  • @xXIsopodAngel69805Xx
    @xXIsopodAngel69805Xx Před 4 lety +4

    This is actually very helpful! I’m interested in a guy and I’m currently working up the confidence to speak to him! Mainly because I’ve been in this situation before and without this advice, it DID NOT go well. He was uninterested when talking to me and sucked at texting so yeah I got turned down but uh I’ll give this new one a shot

  • @jessicamichele71
    @jessicamichele71 Před 6 lety +9

    I love you! You helped me through so so much!😘😘😘😍😍😍💕💕

  • @allisonkrumm3006
    @allisonkrumm3006 Před 5 lety

    You have clarified so much, I know now if he is or maybe might be interested but aaaah you made my day thank you so much❤️!!!!

  • @nadycage2965
    @nadycage2965 Před 5 lety

    I’m super duper late and I’ve been looking for a video like this for weeks now! This is really insightful.

  • @kayceemee6129
    @kayceemee6129 Před 6 lety +4

    My favorite back to school flirting hack is the sticky notes or games! I swear, amazing

  • @ryleereagan1858
    @ryleereagan1858 Před 5 lety +52

    I’ve never spoken to my crush lmao I don’t know what to do

  • @madisonstorer414
    @madisonstorer414 Před 6 lety +1

    Your amazing Kimberly I love your advice it works for me every time😊

  • @skylarhaimes9650
    @skylarhaimes9650 Před 6 lety

    Kimberly your videos are the best thanks so much for the advice love you and your vids!!

  • @secilperkins
    @secilperkins Před 5 lety +5

    Literally i’m thinkin’ bout this quesiton for about 2 years

  • @kendyll8483
    @kendyll8483 Před 6 lety +3

    Kimberly I took some of your advice from fellow videos!!! I used a conversation starter and we love the same band!!! We talk about it all the time now and we text and he leans around the person that sits in between us in class to talk to me!! Thank you for the advice!! I hope you at least see this or respond!! ❤️

  • @MusiqueEnchantment
    @MusiqueEnchantment Před 6 lety

    Im-
    You just earned a new subscriber I literally am so thankful! Thank you!!

  • @bohottest
    @bohottest Před 5 lety +1

    The 4th is helpful for me. Thank you so much 😍

  • @dilarakarabulut1243
    @dilarakarabulut1243 Před 6 lety +6

    I love you so much, thank you for everything 💖

  • @Just_Stop
    @Just_Stop Před 4 lety +15

    Well this isn’t for all boys. I am shy and when I do see my crush walking down the hall I literally am tempted to make eye contact or say hi but I hold my self back because I don’t like anyone knowing who my crush is unless I tell them so I try not to give any hints. But most of what she says is relatable.

  • @flowerglow8262
    @flowerglow8262 Před 6 lety +2

    This was really helpful! I had so many mixed feelings whether my crush liked me or not. But, after watching this, I figure he really is a shy guy.
    Whenever we pass each other, we look at each other's eyes and then give a very quick and awkward smile to each other. That happens everytime we have this chance.
    One time, I mean most of the time, at lunch, he tends to be with his pals and Im with my gals. He is very talkative around them; of course, I am the same with mine. After lunch, whenever we line up in the hallways with the same class, we are in the usuals lining up literally back to back from each other. This, he kind of becomes quiet and he seems like he wants me to look at him and start a conversation. The problem is, Im not a very sociable person with guys... I feel tense whenever Im around a lot of the guys he is friends with. I guess I didn't want to feel judged around them. Come to think of it, his groups is quite similar to my groups of friends... I should talk to him, but Im too nervous. Another problem is, what should I say?

  • @demi6845
    @demi6845 Před 5 lety +1

    Your eyelashes are so fluffy and cute I love them!

  • @palesachimanyi7330
    @palesachimanyi7330 Před 6 lety +3

    Thanks Kimberly. You helped me so much and now my crush and I are now dating.

  • @sailorcandy6633
    @sailorcandy6633 Před 6 lety +56

    I want to give my crush signals that I like him without it being uncomfortable. But it's really hard. When I see him on the halls I make 1 second of eye contact and look away and not greet them. Plus when he asks for help I walk away pretending I don't hear him. And I try avoiding him. It is probably just me or do I act like I hate him or is not just interested

    • @jekesan4221
      @jekesan4221 Před 5 lety +4

      A.D.M ! You are being too conscious,you like him but you want him to initiate the contact first lol

    • @exmachina8475
      @exmachina8475 Před 4 lety +3

      You might accidentally give him the wrong signs, just be careful of what you’re doing.

  • @donnicathornburg5959
    @donnicathornburg5959 Před 6 lety

    Thank u so so much most people say that my crush is shy but I didn't know if that was true until now. Thank u again. Ur videos really really help me.

  • @aliyabrackenridge4673
    @aliyabrackenridge4673 Před 5 lety

    omg thank you so much I see so much clearer now! i am currently having a mental break down... I just realised something, and I've been so oblivious, for a year!

  • @teohyaosheng4213
    @teohyaosheng4213 Před 6 lety +5

    i am literally watching another video and then a new ask kimberly is posted so i am here lol

  • @edensophia2139
    @edensophia2139 Před 6 lety +23

    Hey Kimbery I Hv a quick question
    How do u say to a guy that ur not interested in the nicest way because our two families r very close so it would be awkward if I just shut him down xxx

  • @gracegunawan5215
    @gracegunawan5215 Před 6 lety

    hi, kimberly would you please do a video of the difference when a shy guy just trying to be nice or does he really likes you and also signs when your barista is flirting with you. thank you :)

  • @jamestoro2228
    @jamestoro2228 Před 6 lety

    Love these tips all of them worked also thanks you are the best.

  • @maichoua6367
    @maichoua6367 Před 6 lety +3

    I wish I discovered you sooner when I was having trouble figuring out if the guy I had a crush on liked me or not. It was totally confusing, but after watching this it totally related to how he acted towards me & yes he liked me back and we’re together now!

  • @mochichks6075
    @mochichks6075 Před 6 lety +77

    so when me and my crush pass each other in the hall we would make eye contact but then when I walk into the room i don't want to look at him becuz u know ♡_♡ but when he enters the room i literally just sat straight up⬆ like???? Sometimes when I enter the room he does change his body language but sometimes he doesn't? Leik I have so many mixed signals 0_0

    • @avam3245
      @avam3245 Před 6 lety +12

      Omg same, my crush is always late, so I wonder if he watches these types of videos, and knows that when I change my posture, it means I like him.

    • @sparklyxshine4796
      @sparklyxshine4796 Před 4 lety

      me too :(

    • @shanmugapriya6303
      @shanmugapriya6303 Před 4 lety

      You're kai anime 💞😍

  • @rlxcrl2022
    @rlxcrl2022 Před 5 lety +1

    "they will be way more fun and engaged via text message than in person", this has helped me so much because when I see him in person I feel like he doesn't like me but then again he is quite shy

  • @BabyDuckie321
    @BabyDuckie321 Před 5 lety

    I love your channel so much the advice you give is amazing❤

  • @meowmeowmeowmeow2017
    @meowmeowmeowmeow2017 Před 6 lety +13

    This video really cleared up a lot of stuff 😔😔😔

  • @toptaemin1278
    @toptaemin1278 Před 5 lety +17

    You will feel it guys if they are into you
    You will also feel it if they are not into you😀
    End of conversation.

  • @bonniemenard4108
    @bonniemenard4108 Před 6 lety

    Thank u for the videos! They r lifesavers!

  • @velvety.dreams
    @velvety.dreams Před 6 lety +1

    This was very helpful! Thank you ❤!

  • @cherine3229
    @cherine3229 Před 6 lety +8

    The one when he changes his posture/body language is the one which I noticed with my crush, I was late to class, so when I went to sit down, he was staring at me and smiled, then carried on with his work, to me, It was EVERYTHING

    • @avam3245
      @avam3245 Před 6 lety +2

      Same, if I get even a glance if him smiling at me, I freak out inside.

  • @ilovemakeup_xoxo3913
    @ilovemakeup_xoxo3913 Před 6 lety +68

    Does Kimberly reply when you are early? ✌

    • @AskKimberly
      @AskKimberly  Před 6 lety +65

      ilovemakeup_ xoxo sometimes I do!!!! 😘😘😘

    • @ilovemakeup_xoxo3913
      @ilovemakeup_xoxo3913 Před 6 lety +13

      Ask Kimberly omg omg omg thank you ily😘😘😘😘😘😘✌✌✌

    • @mahekmajithia7039
      @mahekmajithia7039 Před 6 lety +1

      Ask Kimberly your eyeshadow is on point

    • @reganmatthews1193
      @reganmatthews1193 Před 6 lety

      Ask Kimberly omg I love your videos and my favourite one of your hacks is the pen drop

    • @lizzlifes9356
      @lizzlifes9356 Před 6 lety

      Ask Kimberly okay so I rly need help I have 3 guys in my social studies class and 2 of them like me a lot but one is rly shy and I’m not exactly interested in him the other guys calls me the wrong name all the time on purpose and he always talks to me and sometime it’s rly annoying bec we aren’t suppose to talk. The 3rd guy came up to me 2 weeks ago and asked what my name was and I told him and then I went in early for school and he came up to me and started talking to me so I think he likes me a little but he likes another girls who I’m kind of friends with OML Kimberly Please help me what should I do

  • @dollylove4992
    @dollylove4992 Před 5 lety

    I love Kimberly this is awesome!🌸

  • @snowjasmine9644
    @snowjasmine9644 Před 5 lety

    You are sooo sweet and kind!! You deserve all the love in the world (;

  • @sofisoyi
    @sofisoyi Před 6 lety +27

    So is it true that if you're early Kimberly likes and comments on your post? 💜
    P.S. my crush (whos shy) and me are dating now tysm Kim!!❤️😘ily!!

  • @ilovemakeup_xoxo3913
    @ilovemakeup_xoxo3913 Před 6 lety +57

    heyyy kimberly❤❤❤ i am earlyy

    • @nialawes9606
      @nialawes9606 Před 6 lety +7

      Hi kimberley! Your videos are AMAZING!

  • @RichaKumariGMSTelipuraJagadhar

    Today I am damn sure that he likes me . I was really confused for so many months that he likes me or not because he is a shy guy . But you made it clear for me that he definitely likes me secretly and he's just unable to gather up some courage to talk to me openly. Anyway, thank you so much acknowledge people about love and their crush .

  • @MrMaria481
    @MrMaria481 Před 6 lety

    I love your videos they are so usefull to me!!thank you very much!! ❤