20 Signs He DEFINITELY Likes You! (SHY GUY EDITION)

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    Do you have a crush on a shy person (guy or girl) but you just can't figure out if they like you back? You've come to the right place, because shy people have a different way of behaving around their crush that's actually very different than how an outgoing person would act! You've seen my videos on how to tell if a guy likes you, but this video goes into great detail on the specifics of shy guys and girls. Make sure to subscribe to Ask Kimberly and follow me on Instagram and Snapchat so you don't miss the next Q&A:-)
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  • @wsarah416
    @wsarah416 Před 7 lety +3752

    When you realize this Is more you than your crush

  • @hellocharlieebarley
    @hellocharlieebarley Před 7 lety +3809

    When two shy people like one another, it is not easy... :(

  • @lexyy7665
    @lexyy7665 Před 5 lety +333

    1. Creepy, Intense Vibe
    2. Watches All Your Stories
    3. He Bumps Into You
    4. You Get An Out Of The Blue Invention
    5. Follow
    6. They Seem Different On Social Media
    7. They Go With The Flow
    8. Stuttering
    9. Out Of The Blue Statements
    10. Sit Near You But Never Beside You
    11. Red Face/ Blushing
    12. No Yawning
    13. They Use Your Name
    14. They Have A Staring Problem
    15.Commets That Allude To Liking You
    16. He Gets Seriously Rattled By Friends
    17. One Word Answers
    18. Change In Personal Grooming
    19. They Remember Details
    20. Goes Out Of His Way
    Your Welcome If You Don't Have Time.

  • @catlady9933
    @catlady9933 Před 6 lety +818

    My crush does all of these and I'm still not sure if he likes me or not. -_-

  • @palesachimanyi7330
    @palesachimanyi7330 Před 7 lety +1923

    Hey stranger reading this have a marvelous day or night.

  • @ricecake8680
    @ricecake8680 Před 7 lety +2195

    comment how old you were when you had your first kiss and like if you didnt yet!! 😘

  • @demi6845
    @demi6845 Před 5 lety +317

    I’ve seen my crush give me the most intense glance I’ve ever seen. He looked at me for about a second with just this intensity.
    I loved it.

    • @hopesesay9598
      @hopesesay9598 Před 4 lety +10

      SAME

    • @vviperbeehumble1410
      @vviperbeehumble1410 Před 4 lety +6

      Same here

    • @trash810
      @trash810 Před 4 lety +11

      Same, my crush is INTENSE with his eye contact sometimes

    • @lexipaige6078
      @lexipaige6078 Před 4 lety +5

      i feel like what i imagined isn’t what you meant but i’m gonna pretend that it is bc it kinda made my day

    • @Erosophany
      @Erosophany Před 4 lety +3

      Honest to God, eye-contact from my crush is LETHAL. We're in a play together and there's this part where my character is interrogating his, and when he looks me in the eye... gAHHH! O(≧∇≦)O

  • @ishyyy7742
    @ishyyy7742 Před 6 lety +254

    My crush should watch this bc this is literally meee

  • @prajarahman5216
    @prajarahman5216 Před 7 lety +424

    He stares at me but he doesn't dare to talk to me at all. Why the hell is so shy? and why the hell am I shy too ?

  • @livbrown5221
    @livbrown5221 Před 6 lety +732

    Whenever I stare at people I like and they catch me looking, I just keep staring. I mean, it's already awkward, so why not?

  • @creativedreaming2739
    @creativedreaming2739 Před 3 lety +30

    I don't talk to him. He doesn't talk to me. He literally won't stop staring at me. Like EVERYTIME I look up he is acting like he is hanging out and talking with his friends, but he is looking at me the whole time-

    • @MexicanCrusader
      @MexicanCrusader Před 2 lety

      Whats his name?

    • @boldyg5966
      @boldyg5966 Před 2 lety

      It feel like you are
      talking about of me Lol😄

    • @ummmmno411
      @ummmmno411 Před měsícem +1

      I think these two guys who responded are scared it’s them 💀💀

  • @xmariax3186
    @xmariax3186 Před 6 lety +138

    *my "crush" is shy and he likes me but he's so shy like oml*

    • @salihawda2081
      @salihawda2081 Před 5 lety +16

      SAME but I think he doesn't like me one day the likes me then the other day the doesn't wtf he's so FREAKING SHY

    • @boandkelly6003
      @boandkelly6003 Před 3 lety

      Sali thats a good sign. As a guy he is in to you. Trust me.

  • @isaacdaileyiii6322
    @isaacdaileyiii6322 Před 7 lety +1143

    If you talked to me I'm shy in the beginning
    When you get to know I open up and I get weird 😂

  • @CozySage
    @CozySage Před 7 lety +731

    I wldnt say that im shy but im definitely awkward 😂😂

  • @samanthavialpando4050
    @samanthavialpando4050 Před 6 lety +227

    My crush is super outgoing but around me he stares and and gives one word answers. And he knows that I like him but he doesn’t engage and it’s really hard for me because I’m really shy. Does he like me or not??!!
    Please like this so she can see my comment

  • @gabenewell3955
    @gabenewell3955 Před 4 lety +41

    If two shy people like each other it’s ww1

  • @jediarcher6944
    @jediarcher6944 Před 7 lety +149

    well boys we have been exposed...

    • @user-mt5zl4rp5h
      @user-mt5zl4rp5h Před 6 lety +12

      Shit they found us

    • @Sk8foxx
      @Sk8foxx Před 6 lety +1

      Oddly enough I watch these (if a guy likes you vids) to find as MANY passive ways to show my crush (im still not talkative so talking after being in the same class gor a few months so far, ehh yeah). Just hope I dont come off as creepy, but Im not gonna like purposely stutter lol, but more the body language stuff.

    • @lovelycats5723
      @lovelycats5723 Před 6 lety +7

      "Smile and wave boys smile and wave" lol

    • @bnr.1998
      @bnr.1998 Před 6 lety

      😂😂😂

    • @d.s.2636
      @d.s.2636 Před 6 lety +2

      Why do I find this conment so cute :)

  • @helenficalora2597
    @helenficalora2597 Před 7 lety +879

    Thanks Kim!! I have a recommendation for a next video; signs a flirty guy genuinly likes you and is not just flirting for fun:)

  • @kirstenmargaret5659
    @kirstenmargaret5659 Před 4 lety +43

    My crush: Always starts conversations in person
    My crush on snap: Leaves me on seen

  • @gretchenkluby7883
    @gretchenkluby7883 Před 6 lety +72

    My crush isn’t Shy anyway , at least around me
    I’m not shy either. While I’m waiting in between classes, I run around screaming

  • @jesse_4571
    @jesse_4571 Před 7 lety +454

    I'm sad. My crush only does like 2 things. Criii edit: HE SAID HE LIKED ME IM SCREAMINGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG

  • @paunda
    @paunda Před 7 lety +550

    omg, why am I watching this? my crush doesn't even know me 😂

  • @JulieanaLexus
    @JulieanaLexus Před 6 lety +43

    My crush always waits for me in classes before walking out and always holds the door open for me. I don't know if he's just being polite or something more 😊

  • @makenac2130
    @makenac2130 Před 5 lety +77

    Heres a tip
    Try to look into his eyes if his eyes widen he likes you❤😍
    If his eyes get smaller he's not into you
    This goes for EVERY PERSON IN THE WORLD

    • @katielamborghini3551
      @katielamborghini3551 Před 5 lety +5

      His eyebrows are always raised around me, and his eyes are usually wide
      (This is only me talking about 👁 and eyebrow stuffs)

    • @rayadosheva1367
      @rayadosheva1367 Před 4 lety +2

      What if he is wearing glasses😂😂

    • @hihi-og6nm
      @hihi-og6nm Před 4 lety +4

      What if their eyes are black? 😂😂😂

    • @zoeh.4421
      @zoeh.4421 Před 4 lety +8

      Do you mean pupils? Our pupils dilate when we look at people we like.

    • @naeemahmed3710
      @naeemahmed3710 Před 4 lety +1

      He went 👁️⭕👁️

  • @sunnyskodlerova6819
    @sunnyskodlerova6819 Před 7 lety +1533

    What if we both are shy? Around my friends I feel like Im the boss of the group, but once he enters the room, Im like oh holy potato. Friends even started to call me by his surname.. And literally even our headmaster knows that I like him. We are a tiny school, dont judge. #AskKimberly

  • @deborahflynn2793
    @deborahflynn2793 Před 7 lety +389

    I have a problem...
    We are both shy.. it won't go anywhere ;-;

  • @carelpiong8973
    @carelpiong8973 Před 6 lety +106

    my crush likes me but i am waiting for him to make a move. 😂😄

  • @RatuLubis
    @RatuLubis Před 6 lety +95

    15/20. bcus he doesn’t do social media and I never have classes with him... Oh GAWD!!! 🙈

  • @user-gc8zb1gk4k
    @user-gc8zb1gk4k Před 7 lety +338

    I'm not shy I'm just awkward

  • @elenavigo4948
    @elenavigo4948 Před 7 lety +322

    I BLUSH SO MUCH AGGHH

  • @tiffanyfitzgerald9088
    @tiffanyfitzgerald9088 Před 4 lety +14

    "shy guys are very specific breed' 🤣 Im dying💕

  • @katluvr5176
    @katluvr5176 Před 6 lety +48

    My crush isn’t a really shy person unless he is around me. I always catch him looking but he looks away when I look back. He doesn’t have social media so some of those tips don’t apply. He always is awkward around me, he does blush too, and all my friends notice, plus he talks to my friends but doesn’t talk to me. He used to like me but one of my friends said something as a joke, and I told my other friends, and they told him, and he took it as an insult and his feelings were hurt. So now I don’t know if he still likes me or hates me! Help 😫

  • @ashleyperceval918
    @ashleyperceval918 Před 7 lety +164

    How many girls are watching this can trying to think of a guy who ever done one of these signs but you don't think of any guy 👋👋😫😫

    • @ogshitler220
      @ogshitler220 Před 5 lety +1

      Lol poor u xd

    • @Bubby2509
      @Bubby2509 Před 5 lety +1

      meh Most of these Describe the Kiddo that likes me

    • @kaitlyn3386
      @kaitlyn3386 Před 5 lety +1

      My crush actually does many of these signs, except all of the online ones because he doesn't have a phone I think

    • @thetaksgf
      @thetaksgf Před 5 lety

      Ashley Perceval MEEEE

  • @candygirl828
    @candygirl828 Před 7 lety +655

    Please do a video on what to do if you're crush doesn't use social media/bad texter and it's hard to talk outside of school/work/church/etc???

    • @alondraholland6118
      @alondraholland6118 Před 7 lety +14

      candygirl828 I feel you. Like a few months ago the kid I like told my friend that we liked each other and so I tried to text him, but he sucks at responding after a while. Everyone kept asking me how everything was going with us and I decided to give up bc he is beyond horrible at texting. Then last week out of the blue he texted me and now we have assign seats at the same table in class. Everyone is trying to get us to go to Prom together but he might not be able to go so he doesn't wanna ask me. There's also this trip next week that we can go on and one of our friends is trying to get me to go bc the kid I like is going. Idk if I should though bc I'm about as shy as him and I don't wanna ruin anything especially if I won't have my best friend with me to get through whatever might happen. Sorry for this long comment lol

    • @milicazivkovic6132
      @milicazivkovic6132 Před 7 lety +7

      candygirl828 Yes i have th same thing happening girl

    • @yourbiggestfangirllivv
      @yourbiggestfangirllivv Před 7 lety +8

      candygirl828 lol I only see my crush in certain places at certain times too, we don't even go to the same school and they're older than me so that won't be true for long but still😩Idk really what to do to start a conversation😩

    • @redvelvetsprinkles
      @redvelvetsprinkles Před 7 lety +1

      candygirl828 YES! Please!!

    • @Chocolate__Barbie
      @Chocolate__Barbie Před 7 lety +3

      redvelvetsprinkles I just love that your name is redvelvetsprinkles haha 😁

  • @val-rj6hj
    @val-rj6hj Před 5 lety +44

    Having a crush is beautiful. I can't wait to see my crush and I can't wait for the weekend to end. Weird right? 😂💞💚💘

  • @iklilqatrunnada1991
    @iklilqatrunnada1991 Před 6 lety +39

    My crush does most of the things like you mentioned and it took a long time for both of us to admit but I confessed and he did too:))

  • @diyspacepanda2560
    @diyspacepanda2560 Před 7 lety +239

    What if you're both horribly shy and don't talk to eachother or anyone like at all.

    • @milicazivkovic6132
      @milicazivkovic6132 Před 7 lety +16

      DIYspacePanda u don't have to u can sometimes look at him he will now i promise you...but u have to sometimes make a move on him (and i now it's hard i am shy potato too) #shypotaosreunited

    • @diyspacepanda2560
      @diyspacepanda2560 Před 7 lety +5

      Pixie xoxo thanks but it will be hard. #shypotatoesunite!

    • @angelabermudez4566
      @angelabermudez4566 Před 6 lety

      Same with me

    • @elizabethl7439
      @elizabethl7439 Před 6 lety

      oh no

    • @Natiebear67
      @Natiebear67 Před 6 lety

      DIYspacePanda meee toooo

  • @Arakh007
    @Arakh007 Před 7 lety +44

    When you're friend zoned

    • @xobrianna5169
      @xobrianna5169 Před 7 lety +1

      Tragic Joshler umm... well that's awkward XD

    • @alxna518
      @alxna518 Před 6 lety

      Tragic Joshler Same. Its 4 years now

  • @Anushka_Gupta
    @Anushka_Gupta Před 4 lety +4

    This is not what he does! This is what I DO!! Sitting a seat away from him, intense stare, going out of my way to be in the same class with him, red face, out of the blue lines, friends teasing, using his name all the time.. EVERYTHING!!!

  • @senembardakci2298
    @senembardakci2298 Před 6 lety +177

    But what if your`re crush and you are not friends or barely talk to each other then how can you get closer to him like be friends with him and make him notice you bc like what if you and your crush are like two strangers but sometimes only sometimes has some eye contacts? cuz sometimes i feel like no he doesn`t like me because i dont know he talks with some girls as friends but me and him we never really talk to each other.... maybe is bc im too shy and im not that open but... what am i suppose to do?

    • @iridiscent6993
      @iridiscent6993 Před 6 lety +18

      Senem Bardakci very similar situation to mine

    • @HereForTheShips
      @HereForTheShips Před 6 lety +6

      Ugh. me too. :(

    • @ashleyy3812
      @ashleyy3812 Před 5 lety +5

      Im in the same thing

    • @nurlyananajla3248
      @nurlyananajla3248 Před 5 lety +3

      same goes to me though sme how i just forget about everything but he just keep on approaching me with a coincidence terribly annoying

    • @AshiAilurus
      @AshiAilurus Před 5 lety

      samee

  • @heldyz3174
    @heldyz3174 Před 7 lety +67

    We're both shy so it's always awkward. But when im with our friends its less awkward and we have fun (today).

  • @julieschultzknudsen4315
    @julieschultzknudsen4315 Před 7 lety +305

    Who is watching this in 2027?

  • @amyl9735
    @amyl9735 Před 5 lety +21

    But I'm shy and like a shy person :((

  • @milqvetoast
    @milqvetoast Před 6 lety +69

    There is this dude in my class who is super shy. One day he sent me an email saying that he had a crush on me. He said oops wrong person, but then he sent it to me again, and he doesn't have any other girl's email. But about 15 minutes later, he sent another email saying that he didn't actually like me and it was just a joke.... I asked him why he sent the email so late after it, and he said he went to go play GTA 5... before he sent me the other email I was like.... really?? Also... later his friends said they were talking to him, and they told me he liked me, but he completely denied it. That was last year, and this year he stares at me A LOT and looks away when I look at him. Also, when I'm talking to his friend in Algebra, he sits there and listens to our conversations, and he tries to join in on the conversation. It's a little annoying. But, what's funny is the dude I'm talking to, COMPLETELY ignores him, even though they are like best friends, and he just keeps talking to me. So I don't know if the dude who sent me the email likes me or not... But, we also danced with each other at our school dance last year the entire time because nobody else wanted to dance with us, and he was super short last year (not anymore). So, yeah, it was kinda awkward. He was SUPER nervous. His palms were sweating and stuff the whole time, and he kept taking pictures of his pants so he could see what they looked like, because he thought they looked weird. Also, after the dance, he told his mom he danced with me. His mom didn't even ask him who he danced with. Would a 13 year old boy really care about that enough to tell his mom? And do you guys think he could like me? He never talks to me or anything very much. I know I wrote so much, I'm just curious. XD

    • @Lol-st7sk
      @Lol-st7sk Před 6 lety +5

      Bluestar Thecool I think he likes youuu

    • @golummcsmeagolhomie2396
      @golummcsmeagolhomie2396 Před 6 lety +2

      Sounds like a real fuckboi. Move along

    • @TW-vx9kf
      @TW-vx9kf Před 6 lety

      Meag don't even need to think

    • @TW-vx9kf
      @TW-vx9kf Před 6 lety

      Golum McSmeagolHomie he is totally in love with u

    • @sistershook5719
      @sistershook5719 Před 5 lety +2

      I feel like the both boys like you who wins dun dun dunnn!!!!

  • @maritzafarrera2640
    @maritzafarrera2640 Před 7 lety +40

    if my crush sees this , he is going to know that i like him.i have a staring problem

  • @neonfox7810
    @neonfox7810 Před 7 lety +78

    I'm just too shy around him that when he tries to come closer, I rush away (he likes me)
    he usually tries to come closer....And I rush away Like a Potato with pickle toping
    😜

  • @thischannelisshitd7764
    @thischannelisshitd7764 Před 6 lety +206

    My crush gave me a chocolate bar. What does that mean?!?!?😱
    Edit: We are both SO shy and he stared at me. But he follows me on Instagram. I don't know what this means, but he's SUPER nice. He's so cute and on a ski trip he sat with me on the chair lift. When he fell in gym, I gave him my hand, and he grabbed it but held it a little longer even after he got up!!! What does THIS mean?!?!

  • @verifiedfangirl6107
    @verifiedfangirl6107 Před 5 lety +33

    Who else's crush is outgoing with their friends and "shy" anywhere else?

  • @Lili___306
    @Lili___306 Před 7 lety +128

    now I'm confused

    • @Lovecatsss
      @Lovecatsss Před 7 lety +3

      vitajmin 95 I SEE JIMIN.
      YAS ARMYYYY.

    • @Lili___306
      @Lili___306 Před 7 lety +1

      BTS SLAY DEM BITCHES we are every where 😂

    • @lizettepied329
      @lizettepied329 Před 7 lety +2

      I see you guys everywhere wth 😂

    • @Briseyda28
      @Briseyda28 Před 7 lety +1

      vitajmin 95 Armyyyyy😀💕

    • @leeannk3052
      @leeannk3052 Před 7 lety +1

      vitajmin 95 your pfp killed me

  • @desireegarza8425
    @desireegarza8425 Před 7 lety +37

    But Kimberly my shy guy crush isn't tech savvy... he doesn't have snapchat or instagram and he's rarely ever on facebook or his phone

  • @kids4fun950
    @kids4fun950 Před 5 lety +9

    I'm in middle school and I really hope my shy crush likes me! 🙏🏼

  • @caitlainrose5880
    @caitlainrose5880 Před 6 lety +4

    We were in a group setting today, and we were all talking. The two other people were talking to each other, kinda debating, and I was turning my head to look at both of them. From the corner of my eye, I could see my crush looking at me, and not the actual people who were talking. When I looked at him, he looked away, kinda smiling I think.

    • @Je11keng
      @Je11keng Před rokem +1

      I think same for me lol

  • @katarinabjegovic6825
    @katarinabjegovic6825 Před 7 lety +286

    im usually not the quiet friend, but around my crush..... I wont even say a word. Same thing goes with him. I caught him staring at me like 6588518748965189 times. He never tried to talk to me, neither did I. Because during the break in our school, we have to go buy something to eat, i find that if he hears me and my bff saying where we wanna go eat, he immediately goes to that place.I am 8 months older but he never had a girlfriend that is younger than him. He is one of the CUTEST guys in school. I would looooveee to know if he likes me back. If any of u have any tips, please reply.

    • @diananguyen6465
      @diananguyen6465 Před 7 lety +8

      Katarina Bjegovic SAME SITUATION when you see each other outside of school and build from there and say something like "hi nice seeing you here"
      Blush a little and be prepared even if you mess up laugh it off I bet he will find it cute! Good luck!☺😘

    • @milicazivkovic6132
      @milicazivkovic6132 Před 7 lety +2

      Katarina Bjegovic i have th same problem but maybe try to look at him or maybe bump into him and start up conversation... my crush isn't shy around his friend's but when i'm around him he is totally another person.Try talking to your friend at that place you are eating and maybe your friend can leave you and you two can talk a little bit or invite him to sit with you when you are eating and have a group conversation... If you have a school trip try sit next to him that help's a lot (my crush did that with me and we talked a lot) u can see if he's looking at you then and it's normal to talk with person near you so your friends cant tease you..hope that helps ...crossing my fingers for you and remember YOU ROCK

    • @hannahbaker7028
      @hannahbaker7028 Před 7 lety +4

      I'm 6 months older than my crush,that stuff isn't really important to me

    • @trollgold6011
      @trollgold6011 Před 7 lety +2

      Katarina Bjegovic what grade and age are you in?😷

    • @emilyvalchack6861
      @emilyvalchack6861 Před 7 lety +2

      If you are scared to tell him then get one of your friends to try to get you guys alone or for them to hint towards the fact you like them. I'm kinda in the same boat but we have talked and I think I have seen him looking at me but it's probably that force thing that you can tell when someone is looking at you. Good Luck! Ooo try to get your friends and his friends to hang out or something and if one of them plans something they might invite the other then you can see that at that event. Eek feelings r scary, Good luck!!!

  • @LemooZ
    @LemooZ Před 7 lety +5

    FINALLY some real advice, like.. I'm a shy girl and all the videos I've been seeing always be like "they stare and look at a freaking clock" and I'm like yeaaahhh anything else???

  • @jaylynnb5995
    @jaylynnb5995 Před 6 lety +3

    this honestly helped a lot, i like my best guy friend and just realized it, i’ve been really “protective” and there for him cause he’s had a lot of struggles in the past and i’m the person he goes too, i just realized i like him and i’m realizing him doing these things and i can’t figure out wether he’s been doing it for a while or i’m just over thinking it cause now i like him but from what i’ve seen and thought about and been told i think he might like me back i’m just too scared to ask him out cause he’s shy on the outside and only goes out if he just around his friend group( me and a few other girls and guys) but this definitely helped!!

  • @kimberlyhernandez5018
    @kimberlyhernandez5018 Před 5 lety +6

    Omg my crush is so shy and hes pretty introverted but I think he might like me cause i always talk to him and he seems to be really happy when I talk to him, im happy :D

  • @alianaliz2210
    @alianaliz2210 Před 7 lety +143

    Welp, only like 2 of these signs apply to my crush....

    • @ygcat6303
      @ygcat6303 Před 7 lety

      Colorgirl 16 is he shy? The less shy they are the less of these qualities they will have

    • @alianaliz2210
      @alianaliz2210 Před 7 lety +16

      Cookie Games Ya, he is shy, but he isnt. It's really weird and hard to explain. We are friends and sometimes it seems like he likes me, and sometimes it feels like he only sees me as a friend.

    • @sihemamara3147
      @sihemamara3147 Před 7 lety +26

      Colorgirl 16 Maybe he is confused and not sure of his feelings towards you?

    • @theteaartist4399
      @theteaartist4399 Před 7 lety +3

      чσur prσfílє pícturє íѕ mч wαllpαpєr σn mч phσnє 😝

    • @katcrawford4776
      @katcrawford4776 Před 6 lety +2

      Colorgirl 16 all of them applied to mine 😂😂

  • @miapaul6749
    @miapaul6749 Před 7 lety +312

    Guess what I liked this guy names Max and he told me he liked my friend so I acted happy but I was sad and she liked him back but he didn't know. Then the next day he said that it was a prank and he doesn't like her and I told him I like him the next day and he said he liked me back and I was like omg really and he was like yea then he sent me a pic saying its a prank bro.Now everyone from my class hates him :) love your vids :3

    • @Lovecatsss
      @Lovecatsss Před 7 lety +14

      Good Songs ugh what a jerk !
      i hate those type of guys

    • @miapaul6749
      @miapaul6749 Před 7 lety +11

      BTS SLAY DEM BITCHES I hate that jerk so much he thinks that he can prank me hurt my feelings and just walk off like nothing happened he does not know who he's messing whit btw thanks for answering :)

    • @miapaul6749
      @miapaul6749 Před 7 lety +5

      With*

    • @MaiThor_
      @MaiThor_ Před 7 lety +12

      BTS SLAY DEM BITCHES I like your username lol

    • @willowjayce9
      @willowjayce9 Před 7 lety +12

      Good Songs that's just a prof that he doesn't deserve you and that he's not the one for you and he's not worth your time it's his loss ☺😁

  • @ivonafilipovic1162
    @ivonafilipovic1162 Před 6 lety +16

    this described my crush literally!!

  • @davidthomspson9771
    @davidthomspson9771 Před 4 lety

    This is so right.It sucks being shy,but you can open up to the right person just fine

  • @Brenda-qj9xc
    @Brenda-qj9xc Před 6 lety +382

    I know for a fact that nobody like me

  • @lpslyna3743
    @lpslyna3743 Před 7 lety +66

    10 sings you and your crush will end up together???

    • @user-xc3zr4il6g
      @user-xc3zr4il6g Před 7 lety +3

      Lps Lyna you won't lol studies have shown that only 1% get to date their crushes

    • @cellothere5723
      @cellothere5723 Před 7 lety +2

      Lps Lyna there is on a channel called the Talko.

    • @noelko2483
      @noelko2483 Před 7 lety +1

      영음수 I had a crush for years and then i found out that he liked me too for the past few years, and we were together too cuz even tho he is shy, he made the first move. Even though we broke up few months ago, we r still very good friends and we still hang out sometimes :)

    • @christina9828
      @christina9828 Před 6 lety +5

      1% get to date their crushes...but how do people get into relationships then

  • @DoloEnArgentina
    @DoloEnArgentina Před 6 lety

    i can't believe i've sunk low enough to search for videos like this but i'm desperate THANK YOU

  • @viagrace4515
    @viagrace4515 Před 6 lety +1

    I’m in a really odd situation with my crush so I’m basically watching every ask Kimberly video trying to find something that might help

  • @dwightschrute3712
    @dwightschrute3712 Před 6 lety +11

    I'm a shy-(ish) guy, and I'm only watching this to see how accurate it is.
    And I really must commend you for your spot-on accuracy.

  • @breezsfavmusic7744
    @breezsfavmusic7744 Před 7 lety +89

    So what if the boy you like likes you, and he knows you like him. But he chooses not to ask you out after like a month and you two continue being friends, is he not interested in a relationship, or wanting you to make the first move?

    • @shivaanyparthiparajan6208
      @shivaanyparthiparajan6208 Před 7 lety +25

      Make the first move. He'll love it.

    • @hayean03
      @hayean03 Před 6 lety +2

      I made the first move and it worked out >

    • @iluvu.6161
      @iluvu.6161 Před 6 lety

      ... then he doesn’t like you.

    • @Black-yq3eh
      @Black-yq3eh Před 6 lety

      He might be scared

    • @user-vc5rp7nf8f
      @user-vc5rp7nf8f Před 6 lety +2

      if he knows you like him for sure, then he should be more comfortable asking you to do stuff together. in general though, shy guys don't rush into things, so he's probably taking his time to get to know you, and you him.

  • @thatgirl1795
    @thatgirl1795 Před 6 lety +63

    My friend told him I liked him

  • @renloh0775
    @renloh0775 Před 3 lety

    The walking by a lot is spot on 100%.

  • @sophiechatfield4844
    @sophiechatfield4844 Před 7 lety +68

    I wouldn't say I'm normally shy but when he walks in I'm just like jelly. I asked my friend if he was looking at me coz I had a feeling. So she was on the look out. She said he would look at me every 10 seconds. So I tested him by turning around and almost instantly he looked away.. is this a sign?? X

    • @yooy3694
      @yooy3694 Před 7 lety +3

      firstly, you might have some anxiety issue around him but I'm not too sure. (probably hormones lol)
      secondly, he might have an interest in you, especially if he keeps looking at you every few seconds. (you also said that when you looked at him, he looked away. a sure sign is if he just doesn't look at you the rest of the time in class and tries to avoid you for a [sometimes long] period of time).
      This can vary between shy guys though. some will actually not look at you/avoid you after you catch them due to simply being mindful of others (and not seeming like a total creep). (I don't think this is the case with him though, he might have an interest in you.)
      if you feel like he's the one, I wish you best of luck!
      we are like one of those 1000+ piece puzzles. granted it will take some time but (hopefully) the end result with be favorable for both of you. just show patience and some sort of interest for him as well :))

    • @livanimations6425
      @livanimations6425 Před 6 lety

      Sophie Chatfield Yeah it probably is

    • @melabellashow4258
      @melabellashow4258 Před 6 lety

      Yup😌

    • @smolpeepee9756
      @smolpeepee9756 Před 6 lety

      SuperCookielove21 hahahahaha😂😂

  • @theradiantgal3431
    @theradiantgal3431 Před 7 lety +20

    Can you please do a video on toxic friends and how to deal with them? I have a friend that is ignoring me. How should I react? please post part of this comment on this weeks q and a.

    • @gackisenla2544
      @gackisenla2544 Před 7 lety +1

      Jeka Films I would confront them. If you don't feel safe having a conversation or are scared that a physical fight will occur write a letter (not a text because people get to confident and can insult you making you loose self esteem) then find the people that make you feel better not worse and genuinely care about you and treat you equally. This recently happened to me and my friend was spreading rumors about me so I confronted her saying I didn't want to be friends nor enemies and I stuck around with the people who cared about me and treated me well.

    • @thefriendlyneighbourhoodra5396
      @thefriendlyneighbourhoodra5396 Před 7 lety +1

      Jeka Films I'm in the same situation... Leave your friend and make new friends. They will try replace you but ignore them it will piss them off even more. #sorrynotsorry

  • @stewarthazeldine4321
    @stewarthazeldine4321 Před 4 lety +9

    when Kimberly calls shy guys a 'breed' 😂😂

  • @mircelyrodriguez
    @mircelyrodriguez Před 4 lety +9

    So my crush was staring at me I stared at him back I smiled and waved and he looked away...either he doesn’t like me or it was too awkward ;-;

  • @natassja1379
    @natassja1379 Před 7 lety +63

    My crush shows almost all the signs but I can't tell if he blushes, his skin tone is dark so I can never tell

    • @SaltySev
      @SaltySev Před 7 lety +4

      Natassja Upton Omg SAME I HAVE THAT CRSUH!!! Hes really dark to so its reallllly difficult

    • @trollgold6011
      @trollgold6011 Před 6 lety +11

      Natassja Upton you're babies will look beutiful

    • @sarahill7166
      @sarahill7166 Před 6 lety +5

      Natassja Upton I've had a crush like that, the trick is to see if he smiles and looks away cause it's almost the exact same reaction as turning red.

  • @Kwitzy
    @Kwitzy Před 7 lety +86

    i think this describes me... lol

  • @karleyshanel
    @karleyshanel Před 4 lety +5

    On messages * he acts like I don’t exist * in person * talks to me a lot playfully hits me sits next to me treats me like the world let’s me stare in those blue eyes*

  • @Bane180
    @Bane180 Před 6 lety +2

    I am one of those shy guys, and i got to say you are pretty spot on, with your signs, another key sign that at least i do often, is once the conversation has started up, we will keep looking away through out it, but we cannot keep our eyes off our crush for any real length of time, but we also dont want to come across weird, by staring at you , for the entire conversation

  • @elikim2279
    @elikim2279 Před 7 lety +148

    How do u get a shy guy to ask u out??

    • @louisasteigenberger8538
      @louisasteigenberger8538 Před 7 lety +20

      Elizabeth Kim I have the same question, hbu just ask him? I think that's what I've decided to do. You can always just go for it :)

    • @louisasteigenberger8538
      @louisasteigenberger8538 Před 7 lety +21

      I did!! He said "I can't, maybe another time" I'm not sure if that was a rejection or if he thought I meant right away. At least I did it and put myself out there! Hbu?? :)

    • @louisasteigenberger8538
      @louisasteigenberger8538 Před 7 lety +10

      Omg, I was so nervous lol. It took me a while too, you got this! Who knows, maybe he'll ask you ;)

    • @ashmilautan3668
      @ashmilautan3668 Před 7 lety +2

      I know how you feel X_X

    • @kiwimelon5070
      @kiwimelon5070 Před 7 lety +7

      Wtf you can ask him out. It doesn't have to be him to ask you out!! Sexist person

  • @ms.kaylarose1338
    @ms.kaylarose1338 Před 7 lety +51

    My crush is not shy, more like popular. But he is shy around me, why so???

  • @anwynolds3661
    @anwynolds3661 Před 5 lety +2

    I didn't know this, but apparently I am a shy girl. I can relate to A LOT of things in this video.

  • @syph8086
    @syph8086 Před 4 lety +4

    As a shy guy, I can agree with everything said besides 16 and 17. Most points read me way too well though, especially the looking part. To be honest, I have such a hard time talking in real life with most people that I never even talked with my friends about my crush. Also, I don't know if that's the same with all shy people, but at least I have crushes for a super long time. I've been crushing on a girl for over 10 months now and I barely got any closer to her. Besides that, even just initiating a conversation on a messenger (no matter what way; I started with a question about fucking maths to get the conversation a bit starting then went on) really is a "Going out of his way" thing sometimes, for me at least.
    Hope I was able to help anybody, if you have any kind of questions, I am online most of the time so just ask.

    • @syph8086
      @syph8086 Před 4 lety

      @Sam Tu sorry that it took me so long thought I already answered lol

  • @itsnaimi
    @itsnaimi Před 7 lety +143

    I need someone to talk to about my crush T~T

  • @chuu614
    @chuu614 Před 6 lety +26

    So there's this guy I like. I'm a freshman and he is too but I saw him at the freshman orientation and for some reason he attracted me. I've liked guys all my life but not once have I wanted to make a move. Like I talked to him during lunch last week on Monday cause I pulled the "excuse me do you know where this class is" card but I don't know, there's just something about him that makes me chase after him. I grew tired of not making a move so that could be why? But anyways the assembly was yesterday and as he performed (He's in band) I saw him looking my way a good handful of times. I also went to the football game after school and cheered as band performed. My friend Vanessa and I were the only ones standing up cheering so I'm sure he noticed me. I was planning on complimenting him to get a conversation going but it's so hard, due to how we're both shy. He's Chinese and I'm Filipino so I'm kinda trying to do things to make him comfortable with me right now. Any tips, advice, donts or dos? #AskKimberly

  • @saltyweed9745
    @saltyweed9745 Před 6 lety +2

    Thank you so much I’m going to tell my crush I like them tomorrow!!! You made me so much calmer!

  • @mellanieeg
    @mellanieeg Před 5 lety +16

    Hes too shy to even follow me 😂

  • @chrissy8855
    @chrissy8855 Před 7 lety +7

    When you don't even talk to your crush

  • @Brenda-qj9xc
    @Brenda-qj9xc Před 7 lety +61

    my crush always look down or hides behind his friends when I walk pass him, Is that a sign ?

    • @UrbanL
      @UrbanL Před 6 lety +14

      Brenda Romero he likes you, when a guy hides from you the only reason is he feels awkward or embarrassed and wants to hide

    • @user-vc5rp7nf8f
      @user-vc5rp7nf8f Před 6 lety +11

      you make him nervous cause he likes you

    • @areggiusado3621
      @areggiusado3621 Před 6 lety +2

      True, this is really I did!

    • @leak.9822
      @leak.9822 Před 5 lety +3

      lmfao that's exactly what i do around my crush, so YES IT IS

    • @baileybarrows8292
      @baileybarrows8292 Před 5 lety +2

      YES GIRL HE LIKES U

  • @midknight3350
    @midknight3350 Před 3 lety +1

    Shy guy here. My gracious, this is so true! I remember back in high school, I sat close to my crushes. It is unfortunate for me none of them panned out. I would be so over the moon if a woman asked me out as I am often too afraid to initiate. I try to overcome my fear, it is not easy, and if a woman can take the goose walk out of it instead of me, I would be so very happy.

  • @toricoppola6248
    @toricoppola6248 Před 6 lety +1

    OMG Your sooooooo close to 500k I freaking love you KIMBERLY

  • @dragonfireartstudios8051
    @dragonfireartstudios8051 Před 7 lety +40

    I have a bit of a dilemma. There is this boy who sits next to me at school and I go to a school for kids with behaviour problems and there's 8 maximum to a class. I'm the only girl in the class and I think he and few other boys may be hitting on me. What do I do!?!?! Please help!

    • @dragonfireartstudios8051
      @dragonfireartstudios8051 Před 7 lety +2

      And yes the guys who sits next to me is the prime suspect. He does do odd things like make weird jokes and we get kids kick off in my class and they target me cause I'm the only girl and when they like threaten to throw things once he kinda like put his arm behind my head to shield me. Plus they are like 3 guys I suspect! And I'm in the same taxi as one. I'm in the taxi for and hour and a half before I get to school and half an hour of that is spent with one of the boys. He's kinda flirty and does weird stuff sometimes and I'm so confused. And I don't know what to think!

    • @zoe5053
      @zoe5053 Před 7 lety

      Keeley Brown just ignore them

    • @dragonfireartstudios8051
      @dragonfireartstudios8051 Před 7 lety

      Wolfy 300 really? But there's about three boys who are acting weird all of a sudden. Plus one sits behind me the other sits next to me and the last sits across from me so it's kinda difficult to ignore them. I always catch them staring at me.

    • @halien6384
      @halien6384 Před 7 lety +3

      Keeley Brown if he's protecting you he probably likes you. Just report the guys who are being rude to you and focus on the nice guy if you like him back

    • @dragonfireartstudios8051
      @dragonfireartstudios8051 Před 7 lety +2

      Hey its Haley the thing is all of the boys are unreliable the guys who is protecting me is more of a Candidate then the others. I think the boy in my taxi is just being friendly as he is a good friend of mine and the other boy I don't know. But I will try to focus on him. Thanks for the advice.

  • @jaycantalejo1946
    @jaycantalejo1946 Před 7 lety +11

    If you are really shy to talk to your crush just sent her/him a note that you like her and make sure put everything that you felt for her/him Trust me it will work because i tried it to my crush before and it worked..... And know she knows that i like her so much lol

    • @avadv.7087
      @avadv.7087 Před 6 lety

      Jay Cantalejo I did that and my crush was like "yeah what am I supposed to do now?" and left LOL that was a year ago got a new crush now hahhaha

  • @duronk96
    @duronk96 Před 6 lety

    This is EXACTLY what I needed!!

  • @alyssahubbs5143
    @alyssahubbs5143 Před 5 lety +1

    Thank you Kimberly!! This helped so much. 🤗😍😍😍

  • @xenpaii7397
    @xenpaii7397 Před 7 lety +9

    One time my crush told me "Hey, I like you." except his voice was quiet so when I asked him to repeat what he said all he said was "It's nothing, just forget about it." and the problem is we're both shy so I don't know if that was his way of telling me or if he was just joking with me.

  • @user-ie1ei3mi8r
    @user-ie1ei3mi8r Před 7 lety +7

    We just stare at each other, smile at each other, bump into each other and I started seeing him around the school more often AND his mom followed me on instagram.

    • @leak.9822
      @leak.9822 Před 5 lety +1

      omg same lmao, how is it going?

  • @joywilson5351
    @joywilson5351 Před 6 lety +15

    I really like my crush but then my friend and I were talking and someone was eavesdropping so that person told my crush and after that I always see him looking at me and a lot of times when I blush or look at him giggle or talk to my friends he smiles at me but then a few days ago someone started pushing me to talk to him and I almost cried at school their was like 30 people around me and like ten people was forcing me to talk to him and a lot of people started screaming that I liked him or were we dating and my friend asked him if he was mad at me and he said kinda and she asked him does he have a crush on me and he said not really
    What should I do .... 😫😫😫😫😫😫😫

    • @bookinitwithsav
      @bookinitwithsav Před 6 lety +1

      i know how you feel these kids started making up rumors about how i choked on my crush and i almost cried too

  • @CommitmentTriggersDShen
    @CommitmentTriggersDShen Před 6 lety +1

    Awesome video and Great content! Keep up the good work! :)

  • @kylaflanagan5847
    @kylaflanagan5847 Před 7 lety +15

    i now think im the shy one i do all of these in front of my crush🤔🤔

  • @maiali512
    @maiali512 Před 7 lety +83

    guys I need help I had a group friends suddenly they started to hate me and yalling at me with no reason and embaress me all the time in front of people so I've discovered that they are fake even my best friend left me and go with them please I need help what should I do and how to be friendly.. please I'm alone and weak 😭😭

    • @watermelonboba5221
      @watermelonboba5221 Před 7 lety +7

      Mai Ali Ditch them. If you know other people you should try and hang out with them instead. Don't act too clingy or they might be annoyed. Just be friendly. I believe in u 😊

    • @yourbiggestfangirllivv
      @yourbiggestfangirllivv Před 7 lety +1

      Mai Ali If you sit around different people in class u might find a nice person in between to become friends with and if your old friends are being mean to you at least make them give you a reason and resolve it if possible or if they won't give it up it's unfortunately time to move on

    • @electrabeats1580
      @electrabeats1580 Před 7 lety +1

      Mai Ali One of them said shit about you and made them hate you.

    • @MsTitan
      @MsTitan Před 7 lety +1

      Mai Ali thats what is happening to me right now. and they want to tell my crush i like him!!!!!!!😞😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @vain_0
      @vain_0 Před 7 lety +1

      Mai Ali you'll be okay this happened to my now bestfriend , you'll be better off without them , you'll find a better group of friends.

  • @puripatakacricketdaily1983

    im shy and i feel like an alien species that is being observed

  • @gabriellecolston395
    @gabriellecolston395 Před 6 lety +3

    Hey Kim!
    Could you make a video about how to tell if an awkward/uncomfortable guy likes you?
    I know awkward and uncomfortable aren't the best words to use, but there's this boy who I think likes me and he seems very awkward when it comes to social interaction.