10 Things GUYS Find UNATTRACTIVE: Teen Edition Back to School Giveaway
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- Hey Guys! As many of you know, a HUGE part of impressing your crush is understanding what NOT to do! What behaviours should you avoid? What actions make you seem unattractive and turn your crush off? How can you make your crush want you and get him to like you for good?
Don't worry ladies, I've got you covered. This video is the top 10 things that guys find unattractive, and the psychology behind them. I am a real relationship and dating expert with a doctoral degree in psychology, and I understand the basics of love and romance, especially when it comes to teen relationships.
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Hello, everybody. I hope you are all having an amazing week. So a huge part of being successful with the person that we like is understanding what behaviors to avoid, and research shows that there are certain behaviors that turn guys right off before you even had a chance to show them who you really are. So if you don't want to send your guy crush running for the hills I have got you covered, because this week’s video is the top 10 things that guys find unattractive.
This week, I’m doing a giveaway for something that I know every single one of you wants. It is the new Ariana Grande perfume, Sweet like Candy, and it smells just like marshmallows. You guys know how much I love sweet scents, so this will be the perfect scent for back to school. The only requirement to enter is to be subscribed to ask Kimberly here on CZcams and follow me on Instagram here and the winner is going to be announced on August 31st. All right you guys let's get right into the video.
Number one is fidgeting with or adjusting your clothes. From a psychological perspective, the reason why fidgeting with your clothes is problematic is that it's the opposite of a confident person’s stance. People typically fidget with our clothes when their uncomfortable or they're wearing something too tight and making adjustments to your clothes indicates that there's something wrong in the first place and that you're trying to fix it or make it look better. Confident people typically don't fidget with their clothes because they know they look great and they don't feel that anything needs to be adjusted. So if you are having clothing mishap or you feel uncomfortable on a certain date, just go to the bathroom to make your adjustments and then come out feeling and looking confident and make sure you stop the adjustments there.
Number two is TMI, too much information. Just because you like someone, does not mean you need to spill every minute to detail of your life to them. The last time I got my period, it was a really heavy flow. Sure, you might be looking for conversation, but it should always be strategic. It was like I was Rose on the Titanic. So decide how much you're going to divulge in advance, but generally anything involving like bodily fluids are too much like behind the scenes stuff that you don't really talk about is best saved for like way later in the relationship.
Number three is too much makeup. Now I kind of hate this one, because as you guys know I absolutely love wearing makeup and I know a lot of you do too, but this is research and you can't shoot the messenger. I think really though where this comes from is that guys just don't want to see like gobs of makeup on your face to the point where it becomes like clownish or were it would interfere with them actually kissing you. They don't want to get any on their face. The interesting thing about this one is that even though most guys say they hate makeup and that they prefer a girls who can like rock a natural look, that nine times out of ten according to research a guy will choose a girl who's wearing makeup over who's not wearing makeup, specifically somebody who has red lips. So since that research is super contradictory anyway, I would just say if you love makeup, if it makes you feel confident, if that's like your look, then just freakin rock it anyway.
The fourth thing that guys find unattractive is bad hygiene. Hygiene is the act of taking care of yourself to keep yourself clean and to prevent disease and even the most basic hygiene practices might seem obvious, sometimes there is a gray area, and it's hard to know. Here's the real deal. Even though it might be super stressful and you would be super tired getting ready for school in the morning.
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isn't it ironic how guys hate bad hygiene yet they have worse hygiene😄
Unpretty Rapstar HAHAHA
I agree with this, if you are looking for something in a partner than you should be able to bring that same thing to the table.
AHEM that’s stereotypical AHEM lol jk tru tho 😂
Biased af
Unpretty Rapstar ikr
I know one thing that turns guys off
ME.
if you are under the age of 13 you have a ways to go.
Aww:(
O d e l i a SAME
Same
Don't digitally self harm yourself - start with Self love!
Would everyone stop hating her?! She's not telling u to change yourself, if u had a huge crush on a guy and did all this and he was disgusted DONT come crawling to HER cause SHE won't help u! Kimberly ur awesome and you've helped me so much in the past, DONT listen to these haters!! 😠👏🏻
she needs to listen to the haters. dont reply or then u will be a hater too lol
AGLovePug uh she kind of is
AGLovePug yea
American Girl for life!
lorelei jeannotte lol
I was like "hey I am not any of these things yay!" Then it got to insecurity and I was like "shit."
HannahVlogs same
HannahVlogs sammeee
Sameeeee!!!
HannahVlogs Saaame
same
why am I even here I'm a lesbian
sAmE
same omg
What does having a kanye profile pic have to do anything with sexuality??
Awe OMG I SUPPORT YALL SO MUCH!! it makes me legit so happy that people are taking pride in what they like! You guys rock! Like legit I want to be your friends so bad😩😊💖
Madison Fields aww thank you 😄
Or you could be yourself and the RIGHT guy will come..?
Exactly omfg
Thank you for this comment my god
youre like 40 years old with caked makeup why are you giving me info
yaas
Amen.
i keep rewatching this video bc i keep getting new crushes lmao
SAMEEE😂
Your profile picture kills me 👍
Ok me 2 😂
You are like 8 years old
didyouseemybagtan MEEE TOO
tbh, girls or boys, be yourself. and the right one will come along
(EDIT) i'm so sorry i had no clue that this comment even existed until you commented Maddie. Imma go and change my password. Thanks Maddie.
The Cringe ???
Manicmess xox I've heard that so many times I'm starting to believe it's BS. 😪😑😞😒
But the one I want DOESNT WANT ME
Lizyuppy IKRR
-I always fidget with whatever I'm wearing
-Sometimes I blab out random questions, to try to start a conversation
-I don't really wear makeup
-my. Hair. Doesn't. Want. To. Be. Brushed
-I'm not clingy... Heck, I don't have anyone to cling onto.
-I don't gossip, I don't have anyone to gossip to
-I'm not "trendy" I like to dress comfy
-I've never been in a relationship... In my life
-i don't make promises
-I AM THE MOST INSECURE PERSON IN THE WHOLE WNTIRE UNIVERSE!
Damn, I guess I'm single forever... Oh well, I'm gonna go find my cats now.
Same.
I relate to your comment on so many levels!
amber r I feel u
I wish I can like your comment more than one time 😂😂😂
amber r im the 90th like
Idk as a gay woman I think this is really helpful in making sure guys don't talk to me
Lol
Lol
Same 🌚🌚
or you could make like Megan trainer and say No everytime a syllable comes out of there mouth lol
*you're
Also OMG are you really tryna correct how I label myself? Do you know other lesbians/gay women? Cause a lot of us call ourselves gay. Bi women sometimes call themselves gay, pan women sometimes call themselves gay. Sooooo many people call themselves gay so you can't stop me.
screw this I'm wearing sweats to school
ameli menalieva same😭😭
Yes girl you slayyyy❤️😂
I have to wear a uniform
We don't care I like sweets
MOOD!!! 😇❤
The thing the boys in my school like about me is my ability to ROAST PEOPLE'S ASSES. There's this one mean girl who's always following me because she hates me. Every time I roast her, all the boys around scream "OOOOOOOOOH!!!!!" They're constantly asking me to roast them.
ALunarAnimation 312 😂😂
ALunarAnimation 312 😂😂 this is so me lol
This. Is. So. True.
UsoppFanGirl SAME ASFFFF 😭😭😭😭
UsoppFanGirl lmao same like I just roast a guy in my class because he bullied me and then everyone goes "OOOOOH" and laughs
WHO TF CARES WHAT GUYS THINK???
I'm sorry but This video was so stupid 😂
exact sentence I was going to type as soon as I saw the title of the video! smh !!
Exactly!!! 🙌🙌🙌
ME UGH
+Fayvonne Lin why tho
"Wear anything you find comfortable and feel confident in"
"Also don't wear this, this or that"
Lmao
Look guys she's not forcing these tips upon you, she's not saying you have to do these or that guys will only like you if you wear makeup and brush your hair.
These are statistics. Like subconscious things that don't go for everyone
Kat Rad but why make that for a teen? All she's doing is making young girls insecure about who they are. Screw statistics.
Nana Nana it confuses me as to why you think that people should act a certain way for a boy. If someone is clingy. they're clingy. You may find it annoying but not everyone has the same opinion. Yes confidence is key but a lot of girls don't have confidence and they aren't gonna see this grown woman tell them they need it otherwise they're not attractive and think "wow I'm confident now" second of all being a teenage girl what would you know what men or boys like? Teen years are full of ignorance yes but learn from this
Kat Rad same idea
Once I got hit in the face with a ball (in the eye) in front of my crush...
Eagle Child omg me too!
Eagle Child one time my crush kicked me in my stomach (by accident) lmfao I was crying and he hit me in the face with a Ball sooooo many times .... lol
One time I cried in front of my crush...... for a stupid reason
once upon a time i was playing baseball with my crush and he threw the ball which accidentally hit my head.. yup #singlepringle
_.fern._ 13 I cried and he won't let it go. Like its positive because he says "yeah, you had the right to be frustrated from MK" or "you compose yourself so fast, like the time you cried because of Mk doing *thing*" (along those lines)
It annoyes the fuck out of me.
Um I don't think I pull my pants up because I'm not confident. I pull them up so they won't fall off and show my butt soooooo
I feel u!!
Right?
I agree. Don't be big on fashion. But don't adjust your clothes either. I mean really?
And if I'm wearing a v-neck and my boobs are about to show, I can't pull my shirt up? Like? I don't get it
That doesn't make sense. You should be able to fix yourself if you're not comfortable
are you actually confident if you're changing yourself to get a boy?
Truth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
just change for the better! like the hygiene one
true
HELL NAW
the lucky guy will have to like me the way i am or he won't get me >:)
slay
My crush was asking me if i like cats
I said: Yes i do but im allergic to them
Does that count as TOO much info??
Kpop Is My Lifeu no
Kpop Is My Lifeu not at all, I tell my crush way more than that but I'm not clingy
Noo it’s great to just chat about small stuff like that. It’s fun when you tell them you like something and then keep the convo going by saying something about things like allergies or whatever.
No
Exsy Dream nah
I feel like Kimberly deserves more subs.
Honestly, these are the things my mum tells me, and she DEFINITELY doesn't want me to have a bf. So just do this shit for yourself, not a guy
No hate to the messenger tho, just saying😂😝
Wait, are u maab?
exactly... I like ur mom
+Random Person ummm, who u are?
QueenMamo 28 i know where u live and who u are i used to live in nojoud compound too
i couldnt give a flying f*** if a guy doesnt like that i wear "too much" makeup
same
you do you girl!
Fuck yeah
Me too
preach dat shit
And im hear having a crush on her beautuful hair 😍
Alice Jensen and I’m here questioning you’re BEAUTIFUL grammar
Xx BlueBeatBox xX omg lol 😂😂😂😂😂 Get rekted 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Xx BlueBeatBox xX *your
Not being rude but that’s gay
@@fluffypandagirl1106 Complementing someone doenst mean you like them. Also whats wrong being gay! You're rude.
The hate on this is surreal. All of you are changing this into something it's not. This video is simply explaining how to look and feel your best when the time comes for you to make a first impression. Thank you, I'll take a clean person over a person with flies over their head any day.
This video never says "change yourself", it says improve things like smell. Smelling good doesn't equal personality change. Never change your personality, but certainly being confident never hurts. So please stop posting butt hurt comments.
you don't have to wear makeup to look your best because I honestly only feel like myself and I truly feel like I look best when I have nothing on my face and I am who I am
Diana Fernandes Hi lol this comment was posted a while ago but here's my answer:
I never said anything about makeup, and if you feel most confident without it, awesome! I'm the same way. I'm only saying that being clean and confident is not, "changing yourself for a guy". It's just hygenic.
these comments give me so much hope omfg❤️
same
NO MAN CAN EVER TELL ME I'M WEARING TOO MUCH MAKEUP.
right?
YAZ
mE
Yas slayy ! And if he says "take a girl swimming on the first date" that's why I have waterproof makeup fuck you !
YES SLAY
I'm ALWAYS fidgeting even when I fix my clothes. Welp, I'll be dying alone.
"Number ten: Insecurity"
Me: *Well, fuck.*
"Don't be too trendy guys want a real girl"
"Any sign of insecurity can turn a guy off"
Just a little contradictory, don't you think? What human has zero insecurities?
i think she means try not to make a big deal out of them. everyone has their insecurities but it can be a turn off when someone can't accept a compliment or is constantly bashing themselves. it's alright to have insecurities, just don't let them interfere with your love life
+Aoife Porter, I don't accept compliments. Yet I still have a boyfriend who really likes me, as he claims. He knows I don't like compliments, for my own reasons, yet that doesn't matter to him. It doesn't matter to any of my guy friends either. I'm not trying to argue, but some guys, and people in general, are just different.
Me :)
Nah Ill just keep being my self. Like they say, there are plenty of fish in the sea
Same :)
yup- 🙇
And if not. I'll become a cat lady. Lol
+
Same
#8
Me: HAHAHAHHAHAAHAHAHAA what are those....? never had one so I'm good! I think...
😭😭😭💀
Welp I am going to be single for life, I have depression and anxiety and I show it all the time so there I have it
Same
If you have to change yourself or the way you act around your crush in order for him to like you, hes not the right guy for you.
couldn't agree more 👌👏
yasss
exactly👏
true
very true
being insecure is just how I am. I love myself but I don't always feel right. It isn't my fault
We all feel insecure sometimes. If someone says they are and never were insecure they are lying.
Everyone feels like that sometimes. It's okay
💕
It's okay, honey. Honestly don't listen to this video. It's the dumbest shit ever. Even if there was truly some magical "do this and a guy will like you" trick, ALL guys are different anyway and have different preferences, and tbh you should NEVER change yourself to please someone else. Period. Don't pay attention to this video.
+cia d. voldova thanks so much
A girl who's insecure is ALWAYS better than a girl who's way too sure about herself! I know for shure you'll be a way more atractive girl than a girl who's throwing herself to any boy just because she 'knows' she's pretty! Boys don't like that kinda girls! You should be proud of yourself!
+Marina De Muinck she should be proud of herself bc she is insecure?? wtf is wrong with you? being insecure is not smth to be proud of, it hurts to not like urself u dumb
Me: **Does 7/10 of the things on this list**
My crush: **Moves uncomfortably close to me**
Still my crush: "Heyy, wanna get cupcakes and talk about your problems?"
The twenty other people that also like my crush: **Crickets chirping**
please she is giving advice from her own point of view, if you Dont like it you Dont have to be mean smh
people are so rude y will you watch this if you are so CONFIDENT
She is giving advice from a professional point of view she is a relationship expert
I know this video was just a light hearted video but honestly, this type of message is very hurtful to girls. Especially girls with low self esteem, as this is telling them that in order to be a girl, they have to change certain things they do in order to attract guys. This teaches them that the only important thing in life is to attract guys, that our main purpose should be to do so. It's not. We shouldn't care if guys find adjusting clothes or being clingy or wearing what they think is "too much" makeup or sharing too much unattractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If something you do displeases some random guy, find someone who likes it. Find someone who likes you for you, warts and all.
+
exactly
+Ava Johnson bless
She meant scientifically,people really need to stop getting so offended
Totally. And any girls out there anxious about things they do already are only more agitated trying to remember "what to do" and "what not to do".
We can't control whether or not we are insecure about ourselves. If a guy is turned off by that, they're not worth our time. Am I right?
Phantastic speech. :') crafting.
+Maggie Hall and you are my new favourite person... Phan and Hogwarts FTW!!
Praise 🙏🏼
we should all be confident not for boys but for ourselves
Phandom!
And I agree! Loving yourself takes time and they should accept that.
(But being confident is great as well!)
Thank god im gay this is too complicated
That One Glabella OMG preach same girl same
XxChicken NuggetsxX error 3654 the person you are trying to reach is univaluble dues to BS try calling 1-800-getalife for more information
Aubrey's Animals sorry don’t wanna come off rude I’m
Bisexual so sorry xd
XxChicken NuggetsxX ya know what i get it sometimes i am a little rude too
the number is 111 i dont wanna make it 112 the OCD in me
Guys she is just doing g a freaking video, don't hate! If u have nothing nice to say don't say anything at all?!
I'll just be me around guys. I don't want to show a false personality
I LIKE THAT. SAME
you go!!!!!!! Preach!!!!!! :)
SAME BOO SAME
Same!
You got it girl
Or... You know..... Just find a guy who likes you no matter what your flaws are
Or not even flaws, just have them like you for you
Really though, if he really likes you you shouldn't have to hold back XD
yaaaasssss girl
yeah that's what I was thinking but
i was thinking that
all the guys that i know say that girls shouldn't wear makeup but when im one of the only girls that doesn't wear makeup they call me ugly and that i will die alone
Oh
gossip?? 10 out of 16 girls gossip like all the time
Videos like these are ridiculous, how about just be your damn self and don't worry about what other may or may not like, fuck that that's not your problem.
but these are good tips! sure, they might not be for everyone, but some people actually want to try to be attractive, often times because they're at the age where they're wanting to meet people or they have a huge crush on someone, and it's just nice to have a little insight into how you might come across as a more alluring persona.
+CHRISTINA well I think we should be teaching girls not to please boys, instead of how to feel better about yourself by gaining boys attention. no. your points invalid
aliz obs this isn't to "please boys", this is to get boys. It's not like she's saying "wear make up and starve yourself," she's just telling girls to have good hygiene, don't be a fucking bitch, don't be clingy, etc. which are completely valid. Not everyone has to follow these, fine, but this is a video for people who want tips on how to be more attractive to boys. That's all. This is the exact same as telling guys to not be douches, to "treat their woman right", etcetra which is said ALL THE TIME.
+CHRISTINA Being yourself will attract someone eventually, if you change yourself just to please boys then it's not you they fell in love with now is it?
Like I said, be yourself and fuck everyone who doesn't like that, the right one will come along.
Leave her alone don't watch the videos if u don't like them
I'm a male and I really don't care what women do. Honestly if a guy doesn't like what you do then he doesn't deserve you. People in general shouldn't give a f*** what other people think. If your into this kind of stuff, great. If a guy doesn't like you for you then leave. Just a tip.
People of the internet! This is a sensible guy ^ find guys with this wisdom
Thank you xD
wow I agree and I'm a girl tbh I've never been in a relationship but you prove a point I don't judge people unless I have to.
+ShyLoDragon Gaming same that guy has sense
lets clap our hands for this guy
OMG I love you!! I literally take notes on EVERY ONE of your vids!! Thank you so much Kimberly
OMG Kim!!!♥♥thanx A LOT for giving me detailed advice!!It's been a huge help!!:)
When she said "don't wear to much makeup" I stopped giving any fucks lmaoo
TRUE AF
But did you hear what she said after?
Especially looking like she does
she literally said that she disagreed with that one omfg
why dont you actually listen to what she said after
If you meet the right guy he would find everything attractive about you (including your quirks)
And why should we care what they find attractive anyway? I wear makeup for myself. I do it for me and me only, not for the sake of guys finding me attractive.
haha sorry I didn't even watch the video. I just saw the title and I just had to click on it and comment this and get it off of my chest. I know Kimberly makes good videos because I've watched her other videos.
I ain't changing who I am just for a guy.. it's like putting on a false personality SORRY I'M COMMENTING A LOT IT'S PROBABLY ANNOYING BUT I HAVE A LOT TO SAY ON THIS MATTER.
oh and one more thing: this is probably really discouraging for young girls watching this everywhere. This video could cause insecurities that someone hasn't even noticed before. Not trying to be disrespectful but is this really the message you wanna send to teenage girls?
Most of these can apply to both sexes because everyone likes people with hygiene and people who don't give too much info or talk about exes
Just saying I'm a guy and I don't think girls need to Follow these I prefer girls to be themselves
Tyler Dahlman I think her main point is if a girl is happy with herself and well put together, she might be considered more attractive to people who prefer people that are confident about themselves (which is normally most people)
I like how all these tips are about appearing as aloof and confident as possible as you make calculated changes and decisions to make him like you
I personally think that if you have to change yourself even in the tiniest bit for a guy hes not worth it. I would rather be myself and show my true self and have someone like me for me instead of not doing something i would usually do or do something i usually dont and have them like me for someone who im not.
yesss this is soo important🙌
EXACTLY! and she should keep in mind that posting videos like this could really hurt young girls self esteem :( we need to teach girls to be who they are & not change for guys
There are a few things I disagree on. I myself have learned a lot from experience. It wasn't me changing who I am, it was me changing how I went about certain things in a relationship. For example, I used to get jealous easily but I learned over time that I need to replace that with trust and it's really helped a lot. The message you gave out was so much better and I'm so glad you used it because you are right 😊❤
I'm gonna be myself, I'm not going to change Myself for a Guy.
yeah you should probably brush your teeth anyway...
+Ronald Crump Lol true.
way to fucking go
Minionlover 77 ur really just copying everybody else
Ronald Trump LMAO WTF
I love the video and makeup is so pretty I just can't get over how great it looks especially the eyeshadow!
Go watch James charles😂
But I agree with u tho
Everyone here in the comments just hating on this video lmao. I'm pretty sure Kimberly makes videos that other people request a lot. So clearly a lot of people did want to see this video and thought they might benefit from it, and maybe they did. If y'all didn't like the video, that's cool, just don't rain on other people's parades.
Me scrolling trough the comment section and not seeing a single hate comment...
@@penciljkimnotapencil7684 Maybe because it’s been 4 years.....
@@EmaMalik and u STILL care about this notification?
@@penciljkimnotapencil7684 It’s almost like CZcams notifies you when you receive a comment 🤔
Yikes...another person drilling insecurities into the minds of young girls.
TRUUUU GIRL
That's what I thought too....
***** No shes not?? She's hurting people. This entire video is about changing yourself to fit someone else's standards. You should never, NEVER do that.
***** It doesn't matter what her intention is, she's harming people with ideas like this.
+Queen Tomato she's also trying to make young girls act like someone they aren't by saying what a guy doesn't like in a girl.
me: *does all of these things so that they stay away*
Same especially 10
YOUR FUCKING USERNAME GIVES ME LIFE
lol
Lol, I don’t have to do anything so that they stay away
*VIRGINITY PROTECTED*
Lmao number 4 bad hygiene 😂 I’m pretty clean but I rarely have time to brush my teeth unless I NEED TO 🤧🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
love your videos they are a big help!!
this video's mindset is so disgusting. with the platform you have, you should be teaching girls to learn to love THEMSELVES and take care of THEMSELVES because it benefits THEM. why the fuck does everything have to be for a guy? not every girl is attracted to a guy, and girls certainly weren't put on this planet to be eye candy for boys. if a girl WANTS to look good for her man that's another story, but this is just making it seem like girls **have to** do these things. it's just completely wrong and a horrible message for young girls
The video came off as women should restrict do what they love to naturally do just because a guy wont agree with it.
That's exactly what I thought when clicking this video was how degrading will this video be? Why just targeted at just girls why do we feel the need to down grade girls why can't it be more neutral to gender and not targeted at girls.
agreed
AMENN
AMEN!
The first one is kinda stupid. What if my ass crack is one step away from showing, do i not pull my pants up?
So true . I guess you just let your butt show 😂
to add onto that, fidgeting with clothes is how people show they like whom they are talking to. It's usually a bit of a give away if the person you're talking to has a crush on you.
its not insecurity, it's being a blushy cinnamon bun.
+Maple Callicarpa Right! Like if a guy fixes his shirt when he's around you it might mean he likes you
Lol For real tho😂😂😂😂
All of these are stupid 😂
Omg I love the expression that you used
running do the hills 😂
I really appreciate your advice in the last Part Kimberly 😅 I love it. 💗💗💗
Number 1. Don't watch this video
Number 2. Be yourself
Number 3. If he doesn't like you for yourself then find someone better.
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Thanks. I wasn't really sad or something like that, but in a weird way, that made me feel better. So have a nice day, you're a nice person.
first of all I love your pic and Yeh I agree if he don't like stuff you do the ditch him.
Thank you all 💕
Just saying if you are confident, don't listen to her because you shouldn't change how you act for guys. If he actually likes you then he would like you for you!
Preach 👏🏼
He won't be like "oh no she pulled up her pants" I do not like her anymore df😂
Yes thank you!!
+Shay Wray YES!! 😂
+Shay Wray right! LOL 😂😂
OMG KIMBERLY THIS ADVICE WAS SO HELPFUL!!!!!!!! AND THE PERFUME LOOKS SO PRETTY!!!!!!! YOU TRULY HAVE TO BEST GIVEAWAYS EVER!!!! ILYSM!!!!!!
im actually commenting on a video, which means i enjoyed it, and its actually giving advice instead of playing around the topic. good job
Um let's not care about what guys think if they think you are that weird and gross then they are worth any of your time and this is fucking shallow and teaching girls they need to be perfect for guys😡
+tiny planet explorer my partner and I are extremely forward and strange gals (opposites do not attract), so I'm not following her advice. :)
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+tiny planet explorer, but really, it depends on the person. I agree with hygiene myself--but what about a Grunge Girl? Should she start washing more to attract a guy? or should she just keep being herself and find a Grunge Guy who matches?
*sigh* 😐 it's just giving advice if you didn't want to hear it than why'd you click on it?
Sahhhh
*watches this video*
1-800-Did-I-Ask
Why'd you click on the video then? If you didn't want to know or didn't care what was the point in you watching the video? XD
+Sara Cupcakes honestly if she was like me, she clicked on it cuz she knew it was going to be dumb and wanted to see how ignorant people can be. Because it's funny
+Sara Cupcakes, the better question is... "Why did you watch the video"?
If you clicked it and watched it , yes you asked
+Cupcake Cake, guilty by association?
I think you miss why girls are so angry. Do men go around telling other men how to be ideal for women?
I'm really into this guy and your videos have been such a big help. thank you so much
Yaasss Kim another great vid❤
I thought the title was gonna be a joke and this would be about being yourself and not caring about what anyone else thinks
Same !!
+PercyK Well, hon, no one should have to change who they are. Doesn't matter if you're a boy or a girl.
Well, ThatRandomChick, _Self-change_ (changing one's personality) is entirely different than _self-improvement_ (stopping bad habits and starting new ones).
The girl who made this video is talking about self-improvement, advising girls to stop _doing_ certain things, not to stop _being_ a certain way. There is a night and day difference.
Ik it's kinda sad. This is probably an outlook on her life.
I just like being myself accept me however I am
You should be clean regardless of who you want to attract. Take a shower and brush your teeth people. That should go without saying.
lmao exactly what I was thinking
I was thinking tjat
right like its not some way to get attention, it's necessary
Kimberly, i just wanted you to know that your videos are cool and i love love love your channel. Keep up the good work .
Woooow I finally found a channel that is actually helpful!!! 😊
And just in time for school tysm 💖
What the hell? Why am I going to care what a man is going to find unattractive about me? If they don't like me, they don't like me, so i don't have to change myself for that asshole. I may get comments about "cRaZy FeMiNiSt!!1!!" I don't really give a shit. This needs to be addresed.
why does it need to be addressed when no one said anything about how you should change yourself. you don't care, other people do. no one's telling you to change.
+C.C No, i'm saying that if he doesn't like you for the way you are and he wants to change you. (not your personality, the way you act.) He's mest up, he shouldn't tell you that you wear too much makeup or too little you wear as much makeup as you want. And if he hates it so be it. But he shouldn't tell you how you're supposed to act just because you're going out with him, or you have a crush on him.
this stuff is just what people like in general. why is he messed up for having a preference of how someone acts. i have preferences too. i dont like it when girls wear too much make up either. i dont like when guys focus on their looks too much. no one's telling how you're supposed to act, it's just a preference. this is for those people who want guys to find them attractive and are willing to change. what's wrong with that? she also said if you want to wear more or less makeup, you do you. why are you getting so offended over nothing...?
Then why the hell did you click this video when you don't care
I agree 100% y should we care what people think if they don't like us the way we r tough on them it's there loss
WHO CARES about what guys fin unattractive? uh
yeah. if a guy wants you, he'll come get you.
we obviously dont wanna be guy magnets.
+Creative Retards hahaa nuhh we dont want to be guys magnets hahaha
well if I'm trying to get a guy then yea xD I want to not annoy them
apparently you, since you clicked on the video
thank u
inspiring to change some of my ways :) thank you x
Love the last one. Gave me a boost of confidence
Once on an group chat I changed the group name to "Ava is ugly" (Ava is me) and my crush just suddenly changed it to "Ava is beautiful 😘" and that's how me and him are dating. 2 years strong
yazzzz
That is so sweet!
omg goal 😍😍
gooaaaalzz ♡
THATS ADORABLE! 😍
BC all guys are exactly the same and they're all gonna hate me unless I stop being insecure and anxious? ok got it ty
Like, if a guy can't handle my natural fidgeting and chatter then he's after the wrong girl
Exactly! My boyfriend thinks my nervousness and fidgeting and nervous hiccup ticks are "cute" and "adorable"
So don't listen to these type of videos :) they're all so inaccurate and pointless
Lol same honesty I don't give a crap what a guy thinks of me 😂
+Cora Howe actual same😹😹
+Christyna G yea true.
love this so much! 💜
thanks for the help Kimberly =D
Ok let me change everything about myself just to please a guy. I think I'd like to be myself thank you.
Amen
She said to rock yourself. Do that don't change fuck whoever dosent love you
Shes not telling you to change yourselfs shes telling you what might help get the boy you like like you back
Shes not telling you to change yourselfs shes telling you what might help get the boy you like like you back
jasmine provvedi why do I have to fit a guy's standard? I don't see them doing anything so girls like them back.
idk why this was in my reccomended but it's disgusting bye
***** lol yeah it wouldn't let me put special characters so i used an I it looks a little off ik
Same here
same fren
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Ikr
I tend to put myself down a lot, but so do the two people I like so I help them feel better about themselves and they help me
LADIES I HAVE A TIP! You can be yourself, you shouldn't try to be someone you're not. Then you'll find a right boy.
100% right
Why was this recommended to me? I don't give a shit what guys think. . .
that makes no sense
Same
Same
+Mosope Ajegs how?
💗💗💗 GREAT advice!!
Ok, so I really *love* your eye makeup in this video!!
This made my self esteem level from 78 to 3 in 1 minute 😭
Trust me this isn't how most guys think...
Me too :/
this is what girls think what guys think. adjust your clothes yooooo
Don't listen to this sexist advice. Only sexist men require such things. Instead, use this as a red flag warning. If someone wants you to become their ideal woman, they don't value you as you are... those men do neglect and abuse women.
if guys don't like it, screw um. you don't need those people in your life. You do you, boo 😚😎
Wow this video should be called "how to turn teenage girls into carbon copies of eachother"
Yes.
No, we need a much lighter and stronger material.
Ha ha ha
Yes.
I agree. If every girl took her advice then all would be the same and everything would be boring. Just be yourself people and the right guy should come. God damn it, all of this is just messed up.
me and my guy are just completely honest with each other. he is more like a best friend that I can be completely myself around. be yourself! someone will love you for who you truly are xx
your makeup in this video is flawless
disgusting. why would you encourage young girls to somehow "fix" themselves for a man.
that's exactly what I thought.
I watched it all and she defo. isnt asking any girl to fix herself .. what she is saying is pretty normal and common sense stuff..
there are so much better more important topics to stress onto young girls. how men think or perceive them should not be on any agenda. it's feeding a monster.
yheass!!
I agree with you, but she says multiple times that you can rock your own style, she's just trying to guide people. Even though I don't agree with most of her points, other people can find it helpful.
girl, i know this video was meant to be an innocent video, but these type of videos are conditioning young girls that they must act a certain way to receive attention from men. there is more to life than impressing men- women don't wear makeup and dress a certain way for guys, it's for themselves. you can't preach confidence and self love if you're literally telling girls what not to wear / do.
LADIES- dress however you want, wear as much or as little makeup as you want, be yourself and don't worry about what men or others are thinking. the only guy that's worthy of your relationship with him is the type of guy who accepts who you are.
I like the message you're showing here, and I agree about self love and being yourself but these are just tips. She never said that you HAD to use these tips or nobody would like you. When someone gives you a tip it doesn't mean you have to use it.
I actually thought the video gave girls advice that would help them love themselves more, therefore attracting more boys. Like the hygiene, trendy clothing, makeup, etc. She also almost always pointed out that you can do whatever makes you feel confident. Also, there is nothing wrong with wanting to be attractive to boys or not wanting to. Using tips to make you more attractive to the opposite sex dosen't always bring you down, but many times if you are attracting the right kind of boys it can actually make you feel great also.
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PREACH
amen
Congrats on 500K!! WOW...that's amazing. I entered your giveaway. I would love to win the glam giveaway set
ask kimberly I am a late subscriber but your videos are awesome!they actually help me for once and they make sense
or.... you could wear sweats and sleep all day and then see who wants you for you?
you'll be surprised at how many of us dont judge.
yasssss
Ellie Fieldhouse Thats what I do...lmao😂
And watch CZcams all night 😏
Ellie Fieldhouse If you didn’t want to hear results why click on the video?