Lonely Fathers of Central Kenya: their wives are leaving them for abroad to be with their children

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  • čas přidán 22. 08. 2024
  • You must have seen The Lonely Fathers of Central Kenya. They are in their 60s, 70s, leaving all alone.
    They are lonely because their wives are leaving them for abroad to be hosted by their children. Some could be paying for the reckless lives they lived while they were younger while others, it’s total abandonment.
    Just why is this happening?. .

Komentáře • 85

  • @Ki-l7s
    @Ki-l7s Před rokem +25

    Very true. Men should cherish their wives more. They treat their wives badly when their children are growing up, & then wonder when the children only cherish their mum 😂. But it's not only in Central, the problem is nationwide across all tribes 😢

  • @carolinemukundi4918
    @carolinemukundi4918 Před rokem +8

    Such a timely topic,most central kenya men do not know how to love,there hooked to alcohol and women.Women from central kenya deceided to workhard..

  • @susanngugi2489
    @susanngugi2489 Před rokem +16

    They have been leaving us alone so pay back time

  • @muthonimungaanne6742
    @muthonimungaanne6742 Před rokem +17

    I was once a teacher and one day i cried in my office...fm2 student was so stressed cos his father's mistress son was in the ssme class with the boy....the mistress son was paid for all school levies while this boy is sent home....to make matters worse the boy knew it was his father who was catering everything for mistress and his children as the mother went kibarua ya kufua nguo.😢😢

    • @Perry_1234
      @Perry_1234 Před rokem

      😢😢😢

    • @irenenjoki6862
      @irenenjoki6862 Před rokem +1

      You see the future of that boy is bright may God bless him n his mum he will be a blessing to his mum

    • @irenenjoki6862
      @irenenjoki6862 Před rokem

      You see the future of that boy is bright may God bless him n his mum he will be a blessing to his mum

    • @maryw7789
      @maryw7789 Před rokem +3

      Soo sad, n you say they r lonely it's pay back time,you reap what you sow.

  • @mercyk2672
    @mercyk2672 Před rokem +11

    I'm guilty as charged 😅😂. I said you two are like mother and daughter 😅. I love watching you. I never miss any episode. It makes me feel like I'm back in Kenya with my sister and aunt

  • @kickinspice
    @kickinspice Před rokem +5

    MAKE YOUR WIFE YOUR FRIEND EARLY IN LIFE, because later you will enjoy that bond. The tree which you water will provide you fruit, shelter etc later😮😮😮😮😮 Wakusikia.......

  • @wanjiruwairia4300
    @wanjiruwairia4300 Před rokem +4

    Men leave their wives when the kids are young...they go 'eat life' with young girls while the woman struggle to raise the kids alone...all the kids know and see as the provider is the mom...
    What do you expect in future?
    Every man who neglected their families in their younger years deserve everything they are going through in their old age

  • @kweliyake5212
    @kweliyake5212 Před rokem +6

    My dad waa alcoholic and violent every Friday and Saturday but an angel other days. He changed when we became teenagers " i had to change so as to educate my 7 kids" which he did, everything changed about us, great. Thank God he did, i was not going to help him other than with very basic and a few visits too.
    I was devoted to help him in his old age. passed away last year 84yrs old, Covid.

    • @Ki-l7s
      @Ki-l7s Před rokem

      May he rest in peace 🙏🏽

  • @wambuimuchai4230
    @wambuimuchai4230 Před rokem +2

    I love the humor and the connection between Wakiama and Monica.
    May God continue to give you more wisdom, Wakiama .Nakupenda bure.

  • @marggy1619
    @marggy1619 Před rokem +7

    I was so eager to hear your view on these topics. To be honest, as much it hurts 😢 knowing, dad is lonely and cooking for himself. He pushed us to take our mama to 🇺🇸 my parents, separated at the age of 66, and dad 71, now it's 5 years we have no idea how to solve this issue. Both getting old 72 and 76

    • @mzuribeauty4287
      @mzuribeauty4287 Před rokem +3

      My dad kicked my mum out after retirement. It was such turmoil in the family for 10 years. He got another woman who stressed him to death 😢

  • @winniemathu3168
    @winniemathu3168 Před rokem +5

    Love this beautiful show

  • @kenIrungu
    @kenIrungu Před rokem +5

    Love this show very insightful.😎

  • @christinekamau9122
    @christinekamau9122 Před rokem +5

    Onanie ndirauga kiura ruga ndi mwena wa Texas!😊

  • @ja9293
    @ja9293 Před rokem +9

    Most Kikuyu men are arrogant and don't show love to their wives. They come back when they are frail and needing help......utavuna ulichopanda X100

  • @nighthoodgaming8662
    @nighthoodgaming8662 Před rokem +6

    A big number of people abroad were taken there by their mums. They took loans and also borrowed from their rich friends in the village. Their dads were out gallivanting.

    • @mercymwangi907
      @mercymwangi907 Před rokem +2

      True am a real example

    • @mura5615
      @mura5615 Před 10 měsíci

      THAT IS A SELFISH GENERALISING.
      NOT ALL DADS ARE OUT GALLIVATING.SORRY.

  • @nancymungai451
    @nancymungai451 Před rokem +4

    What about men who left their wives and went abroad and have not been home for more than 20 years.

  • @nancykamotho7019
    @nancykamotho7019 Před rokem +1

    Your conversations are very educative.

  • @stephenmacharia3174
    @stephenmacharia3174 Před rokem +1

    Just bear in mind, as our Father serve their pay back time, our time will also come and we will also pay back. Children should leave pay back time be effected by God.
    For we know him who said, “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” and again, “The Lord will judge his people.”
    Hebrews 10:30 NIV

  • @priscaht5927
    @priscaht5927 Před rokem +2

    I love this show kagoni thumbs up say hi to mom wa kiama I love her so much from Seattle

  • @annewandati3751
    @annewandati3751 Před rokem +2

    I have no problem forgiving anyone but it doesn't always mean reconciliation...
    Wise counsel though...

  • @milcahwanjiru4561
    @milcahwanjiru4561 Před rokem +1

    That's true my father in law used to stay in town with those ladies even without shame on him amakunja na muhiki nakwambia watoi wake ati mamake haongi wee. Wataki aliacha job ata hakumaliza three yrs maisha ya ushagu na alipass. Na bado mathe ako Sawa anaendelea vizuri

  • @agnesnjeri8402
    @agnesnjeri8402 Před rokem

    I really appreciate your teaching.. always learning from you amazing ladies

  • @annwangui743
    @annwangui743 Před rokem +6

    Its called karma.most.of them.were absentee fathers ni kugetha maragetha.kiria mahandire

  • @margaretchege3071
    @margaretchege3071 Před rokem +5

    😂😂Your discussions are totally enlightening, but the humour...!

  • @stayhappykidheko179
    @stayhappykidheko179 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Tractor ikimaliza kazi unaondolewa kwa barabara gari zipite😢😢

  • @bilhahnjeri6427
    @bilhahnjeri6427 Před rokem

    Always look forward to listen to Wa Kiama she is amazing I love her❤

  • @winniemathu3168
    @winniemathu3168 Před rokem +3

    It's good to forgive. But God said Father's do not provoke your children.

  • @wanjikuroki2688
    @wanjikuroki2688 Před rokem +5

    I said I will never settle with a guy from central, from what i witnessed from my uncles. Talking of black Americans, ukipata mzuri🎉🎉 wako poa

    • @EstellNEssy
      @EstellNEssy Před rokem

      You're better than me. I wouldn't settle for any african man. Nobody teaches boys to be good husband or what it takes to be a good husband, but as soon as a girl is born, everyone is teaching her how to cater to a man! African American men, is a throw! 😂😂😂

    • @agnesnderitu9978
      @agnesnderitu9978 Před rokem

      Had 2 wonderful friends.

  • @salomekimani7152
    @salomekimani7152 Před rokem +6

    Most men take there wives as a project not a human being.

  • @naomimunyao1881
    @naomimunyao1881 Před rokem

    Amaizing speech

  • @rosebellmaina464
    @rosebellmaina464 Před rokem

    Interesting conversation. 😂😂😂. May the Lord remember mercy upon our men

  • @bethmathenge2678
    @bethmathenge2678 Před rokem +3

    Wangu siezi kumuacha juu hajawai niachilia

  • @gracewanjiru6144
    @gracewanjiru6144 Před rokem +2

    Wakwa twina miaka 43 in marriage na thengiu iria aranjirire ni kuga ndina mukingo thutha wa gukoruo ndi ngombo yake all those years

    • @Njitagwo_Shiro
      @Njitagwo_Shiro Před rokem

      Ucio nī arita biuu

    • @mura5615
      @mura5615 Před 10 měsíci

      HARI UNDU WEKIRE MUURU WIRORE URIA WEKAGA MAIAKA YA NATHUTHA MUGAIKARA WEGA.

  • @winniemathu3168
    @winniemathu3168 Před rokem +5

    Please put English sub titles because things are the same all over kenya

  • @IanStanLex
    @IanStanLex Před rokem +2

    Before their mother about the sidechick , the children knew longtime ago. Their friends are their informers. I learnt this from high school kids. I usually make sure my childrens friends can talk to me. I learnt a lot.
    So your child will be sitting there acting up. The information they have is atomic bomb.

  • @ruthwaweru1284
    @ruthwaweru1284 Před rokem +1

    Its better to be your wife's friend first of all ndio usijipate umetengwa later

  • @justinanthenge619
    @justinanthenge619 Před rokem +1

    I hope the men are listening

  • @shikobig3591
    @shikobig3591 Před rokem +1

    Ona ndingiaria tondu nie nderaga ciakwa ndi wiki. Mzee alikataa kazi akaenda kuishi na mamake. Nilimsamehea but siwezi rudiana naye na ti nauru

  • @tabby53
    @tabby53 Před rokem

    Monica if you think central has most single mothers,tembea nyanza there so many here

  • @mura5615
    @mura5615 Před 10 měsíci

    ANDU A CENTRAL NI GWITUA OOGI MUNO KURI ANDU ARIA ANGI .NA UGUO NI MWIIRO WA NGORO.THUTHAINI NI MACOKAGA KWIRIRA.

  • @winniemathu3168
    @winniemathu3168 Před rokem +3

    What if the children see the other woman and also beat their mom before the children.

  • @marthawachuka9110
    @marthawachuka9110 Před rokem

    This is happening even to ladies,when you divorce at very early age of marriage.when children are grown up,later you find yourself very lonely

  • @kenkairu2100
    @kenkairu2100 Před rokem +1

    We got “saved” tugite mîtugo na ûthingu wa maithe maitu

  • @jedidahmuthoni3274
    @jedidahmuthoni3274 Před rokem

    Kagoni reke ngwire,muthuri agutige riria urarera,tubeca twake arie na miitu yake,ona ciana ndanarera,agekora wike.Mutumia nake,gwi thina kana gutari,ari ona twana twake,hau hatiri undu wagwiciria,

  • @teresaotieno141
    @teresaotieno141 Před rokem +1

    I have question if mothers works in gulf and she sending money to her kid's and his DAD don't tell this money is mummy send so kid's knows it's only DAD money children will understand her mum ????

    • @Njitagwo_Shiro
      @Njitagwo_Shiro Před rokem

      How will the child know? Maybe when they’re grown

  • @mercymwangi907
    @mercymwangi907 Před rokem

    Pay back time now. Even me I will bring my mum for holiday

  • @stephenmacharia3174
    @stephenmacharia3174 Před rokem +1

    As you advise remember Heaven and hell is real.

  • @johnstonekimani687
    @johnstonekimani687 Před rokem

    This is very true

  • @WakarimaWaKariri
    @WakarimaWaKariri Před rokem +1

    Monica, ndì hau mùno nawe ha ùkristiano, nìùtùritùhagìria mùtùrìre mùno.
    Husbands and wives should be best friends, there'll be less problems and less need to go out and look for gacungwa. But some people are never satisfied no matter how good you are.

  • @goldenbazaars
    @goldenbazaars Před rokem

    When the children were young, they were busy prostituting around, little did they know the children will grow up and become stable, women, let's work on our children when they are little, let us not give up because of the day's to day struggles, God will bless our children.

  • @joycemaina2126
    @joycemaina2126 Před rokem

    I love wakiama n Monica..

  • @shelmithnduta2058
    @shelmithnduta2058 Před rokem

    Does this justify the ladies who are now getting moango wa kando under the argument mzee alienda nairobi.....and how would you help children in such a situation and the dad was supportive even though mlevi

  • @joycemaina2126
    @joycemaina2126 Před rokem

    Absent Father its ua time sow..God help us.

  • @decoloniz_afro
    @decoloniz_afro Před rokem

    Religion psychosis is another sickness in africa......that question of forgiving a criminal and abuser is reason africans has to rethink what they embrassed from colonial master

  • @vannessanaomi
    @vannessanaomi Před rokem +1

    No kama wazee wa ta pull up their socks .wasiachwe nyuma.😂

  • @judynjogu4468
    @judynjogu4468 Před rokem +1

    This is so true 😢

  • @janeweru-oy7ci
    @janeweru-oy7ci Před rokem

    Hau he na key"ki jeans na gi shirt githunukuranie

  • @rachealkibaiya7593
    @rachealkibaiya7593 Před rokem

    Welcome to Atheism Miss Kagoni!

  • @naomi4007
    @naomi4007 Před rokem +1

    Sio central pekee enda Western they are worse

  • @irenewanjugu221
    @irenewanjugu221 Před rokem

    Soo much to be done

  • @polykawira
    @polykawira Před rokem

    Waiting

  • @sjyfett7878
    @sjyfett7878 Před rokem

    Na vijana wadogorretti pia wanatuonyesha maneno

  • @annewaithera2498
    @annewaithera2498 Před rokem

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @janejanenjeri8350
    @janejanenjeri8350 Před rokem

    My ex is now married 3rd time and he is white

  • @catherinewangari963
    @catherinewangari963 Před rokem

    Ve7kd0dii

  • @catherinewangari963
    @catherinewangari963 Před rokem

    😅

  • @catherinewangari963
    @catherinewangari963 Před rokem

    Pòo 4p

  • @bethmathenge2678
    @bethmathenge2678 Před rokem +3

    Wangu siezi kumuacha juu hajawai niachilia