Many men are responsible for breaking their marriages then they start complaining in their old age

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  • čas přidán 22. 08. 2024
  • From keeping 'mpango wa kando', wasting away the family finances, irresponsible alcohol intake to beating up their wives, most men are breaking their marriages and destroying the lives of their own children. It's in their old age they are realising their mistakes when their wives already left and they have been left with no one to take care of them.

Komentáře • 83

  • @highlyfavouredblessedchild5022

    Was married for 20 yrs man bought 6 plots with his individual names while hiding the titles in his parents home we later parted ways marriage was bitter and unbearable...almost 5 yrs later he remarried squandered everything with the woman who came with 2 kids and they got 1 together..meanwhile the Lord openned a door for me to go abroad using the same man before we separated... by God's special grace I own 8 plots that are even more valuable than what he had😊 ..glory to God He serves justice to those that patiently wait upon Him...wamama chanukeni mjipange kama mzee niwa raha na vituko most importantly put God at the centre of your life live a holy life that honors Him and surely He will reward you

    • @nancymuriuki5931
      @nancymuriuki5931 Před rokem +2

      Hi blessed child would you please advise me on jobs available abroad coz am also going through hell.Kindly

    • @highlyfavouredblessedchild5022
      @highlyfavouredblessedchild5022 Před rokem +3

      @@nancymuriuki5931 my dear Nancy pray to the heavenly Father to give you devine connection with destiny helpers and surely He will great is His faithfulness...where I am you only go as a tourist or work permit its visa free...Ngai gùtirì undu umuremaga wahuhoya na umwitikie...wishing you nothing but the very best!

    • @nancymuriuki5931
      @nancymuriuki5931 Před rokem +1

      Thank you Nancy our God is truely a miracle working God

    • @mariannanjoki4662
      @mariannanjoki4662 Před rokem +1

      Pewa soda kwa bill yangu

    • @soniroberts6865
      @soniroberts6865 Před 10 měsíci

      God rewards us

  • @gladwellgathara1632
    @gladwellgathara1632 Před rokem +14

    Yes yes
    Been married for 18 yrs. Everything was in man's name. He threw us out. I came out worse than a Church mouse. Was depressed and traumatized.
    Took only the love of God to be alive. Women outside there,let's open our insights.

  • @elizabethbutiko6608
    @elizabethbutiko6608 Před rokem +7

    Wow! A wake up call for women. Act according to how your man treats you. If you do not know where his money goes to, be mysterious with your finances as well. Great insights.

  • @annemuthoni1781
    @annemuthoni1781 Před rokem +18

    Was married for 22 yrs lost everything and now in Saudi Arabia starting all over again, never give up or look back, God is indeed faithful 🥰

    • @wanjiruciru6237
      @wanjiruciru6237 Před rokem

      He will restore tenfold.

    • @annemuthoni1781
      @annemuthoni1781 Před rokem

      @@wanjiruciru6237 Amen 🙏 trusting the process, thanks dear 🥰

    • @soniroberts6865
      @soniroberts6865 Před 10 měsíci

      God is not yet done with our marriages, He'll restore it, just wait..Saudi Arabia is a learning institute,it's a class, you'll come back well established and firm... he's also in school...you'll graduate with wisdom and knowledge to the Glory of God my sister...It's not yet over

  • @bilhahnjeri6427
    @bilhahnjeri6427 Před rokem +3

    Wa Kiama is the best she gives us the best advice

  • @puritygichuki353
    @puritygichuki353 Před rokem +1

    I love this lady free of charge ,have seminar with men wanatuhangaisha.all the way Mrs Kiama my Kiswahili teacher back at high school .

  • @felkadumas9863
    @felkadumas9863 Před rokem +5

    Nie ma nyendete mutumia uyu na ngoro yakwa yothe .. your kids are lucky thanks for educating women

  • @babieuniya
    @babieuniya Před rokem +4

    Today's show is an eye opener to many women, personally I have learnt something. I have suffered kwa meli ya mapenzi😢😢😢

  • @bethmwas5963
    @bethmwas5963 Před rokem +8

    I love Wakiama,she was my kiswahili and CRE teacher back then in secondary school Dr. kamundia Gathuthi girls, tulimpenda sana she was our role model.we loved her dressing code.big up.I love your advice

  • @veronicandirangu3637
    @veronicandirangu3637 Před rokem +9

    I think Wakiama should have a seminar with men and talk to them so they can change their behaviors .

  • @realstoriesmedia
    @realstoriesmedia Před rokem +3

    I love WaKiama, could listen to her all day

  • @lizzysnest3913
    @lizzysnest3913 Před rokem +4

    Do joint investments if your man is responsible otherwise invest on your own. A lady's wealth belongs to the family but for men the family can starve when he has wealth.

  • @marymugwe7150
    @marymugwe7150 Před rokem +3

    This lady is so practical. Your family is lucky to have you as their matriarch. Tunakupenda

  • @beckyshii4805
    @beckyshii4805 Před rokem +6

    Mûthoni u r very beautiful n always looking under 18 muishie huyo Mungu

  • @janekamau6681
    @janekamau6681 Před rokem +6

    Wakiama I support u 100%, aki some men have made women to go mad 😡 or get sick 🤢, u have a very good counseling. You talk the truth.

    • @eunicemuthua3435
      @eunicemuthua3435 Před rokem

      Many women develop mental health issues

    • @bancymunene3436
      @bancymunene3436 Před rokem

      Not some, aaaaallllll ....😢. It's the degree of mental issues that are different.

  • @bernardkiarie5662
    @bernardkiarie5662 Před rokem +4

    looking good everyday.and doing an awsome job.

  • @marthamacharia310
    @marthamacharia310 Před rokem +5

    At that time (before 1979) women were not issued with National IDS & hence could not buy property in their own names.

    • @elizabethngotho4165
      @elizabethngotho4165 Před rokem

      Your work is awesome teacher and wakagoni doing great jobs to enducate our women's to
      Keep the marriage safe.

    • @winniemathu3168
      @winniemathu3168 Před rokem

      Yes both women and men had no IDS. Always buy in your name ID or not.

  • @johnrerai6134
    @johnrerai6134 Před rokem +2

    A good show. Very helpful. Always inspiring. Be Blessed

  • @lizkiarii9279
    @lizkiarii9279 Před rokem +3

    Wakiama you look so beautiful the hairstyle is On point and suits you.

  • @florahsoila
    @florahsoila Před rokem +2

    why do men feel they are the one who have the last stay? why do they give their mothers a chance to enter into their marriages? they disgust me alot!

  • @Mwalimdan8494
    @Mwalimdan8494 Před rokem +1

    …can listen to you all day long, women are great starting with my mum🇰🇪🇹🇿

  • @jemimahjemimah5525
    @jemimahjemimah5525 Před rokem +2

    Karibu nchelewe weuh, tuned in team Gulf

  • @njorogekamau5078
    @njorogekamau5078 Před rokem +2

    Hi beautiful kagoni. I love following your interviews. But can you bring interviews on men too. They too go through a lot silently. Thank you and good work. Your future is bright

  • @eunicemuthua3435
    @eunicemuthua3435 Před rokem +1

    Well put....using common sense !

  • @emilynyambura959
    @emilynyambura959 Před rokem +4

    Mum wakiama,u alway looking good, sweet 16

  • @wambuinderitu2461
    @wambuinderitu2461 Před rokem +1

    Aki you ladies are blessed ❤n you're both glowing 😊

  • @rebeccaetter1104
    @rebeccaetter1104 Před rokem +1

    Wakiama you're beautiful, Monica too. Lovely show

  • @nelaswanjiru1209
    @nelaswanjiru1209 Před rokem +1

    @ Margaret Mwangi.Kama ako hivyo ni sawa.Ucio nì mùthuri ngatha.👍

  • @maryakajj4127
    @maryakajj4127 Před rokem +2

    Me am still young woman and I take lone for him300k in Kenya women aki what I went through because of that ngaii

  • @susanngugi2489
    @susanngugi2489 Před rokem +1

    True our first plot he wrote himself secretry so no more buying together

  • @zipporahwangechi7031
    @zipporahwangechi7031 Před rokem +3

    Wow ❤❤ congrats 👏

  • @nancygeorge2110
    @nancygeorge2110 Před rokem

    Ukweli wakiama I salute you, you have educated me alot,

  • @beatricenjeri740
    @beatricenjeri740 Před rokem +3

    Mutumia kuma tene onangiagire mburi mucii niyo yambaga guthinjwo niguo indo ciake ihuke ndagakiragie muthuri Ati niari indo! Mundu niehithire twake.

  • @peninahkabugi7173
    @peninahkabugi7173 Před rokem

    Thanks kagoni n wakiama for enlightening us.your videos makes me laugh mpaka machozi inatoka.God bless you.

  • @patriciajones9747
    @patriciajones9747 Před rokem +1

    Support you 100%

  • @eldoretvictory4595
    @eldoretvictory4595 Před rokem +1

    THEY SHOULD STOP COMPLAINING AND HARVEST WHAT THEY PLANTED.

  • @estherwanjiku3235
    @estherwanjiku3235 Před rokem +2

    Tuned from qatar ❤

  • @reachelnjeri2390
    @reachelnjeri2390 Před rokem

    Mama Sharon doing good job.

  • @irenewanjugu221
    @irenewanjugu221 Před rokem

    Kagoni mko wathaka sana....thankyou for this beautiful advice......may God give us wisdom...

  • @bettynjoki3115
    @bettynjoki3115 Před rokem

    Very well said

  • @hezekiahmaina8711
    @hezekiahmaina8711 Před rokem +1

    What if a man doesn't want to work, kazi yake ni kukaa kwa nyumba akingoja, bibi anafanya kazi anajenga, anasomesha watoto, then jamaa anajigamba kila kitu ni chake, huyo mama hata akipeana mwili ni makosa?

  • @joycemaina2126
    @joycemaina2126 Před rokem

    Love wa kiama n Monica...show Iko moto.

  • @lucywambui7398
    @lucywambui7398 Před rokem +1

    My mum was thrown out after 40 yrs.

  • @elizabethmuringa152
    @elizabethmuringa152 Před rokem

    May God help us to overcome this,they are much much painful

  • @leahwambui8694
    @leahwambui8694 Před rokem +1

    Wakiama the you are talking is like you were listening outside my house 😂😂 you and your money are mine.

  • @margaretmwangi217
    @margaretmwangi217 Před rokem +5

    What about a husband who buys everything in the house. Anajua ile kitu iko na ile imeisha

    • @warugurumurimi1259
      @warugurumurimi1259 Před rokem +2

      If you have a job please ensure you have some investments by yourself please. That type wants to leave you penniless and make sure you fully depend on him. That is a way to control you

    • @marthawanjiru4911
      @marthawanjiru4911 Před rokem

      ​@@warugurumurimi1259 ❤❤😊😊

    • @catherinew3115
      @catherinew3115 Před rokem +2

      That’s a control freak. He can simply give the wife the cash to buy what’s needed unless she is extremely wasteful.

    • @annem2980
      @annem2980 Před rokem +4

      @Margaret Mwangi, in this case you look for something you can do to make your money. My cousin is like this Ata niyeye anaendanga soko.His wife is a hse wife I told her to be doing some vibarua ,joined kumbato amefanya mambo mengi ya investment na bwana hajui.

    • @sophianjenga8120
      @sophianjenga8120 Před rokem

      Huyo anaweza kukupea heart attack

  • @susanngugi2489
    @susanngugi2489 Před rokem

    And always looking for way to sell what is under your name

  • @jamesnganga1418
    @jamesnganga1418 Před rokem +4

    Kabisa

  • @maggyfire774
    @maggyfire774 Před rokem +3

    Qatar in house 😂😂

  • @njorok7368
    @njorok7368 Před rokem

    Hahahahaa 😂😂😂 hakuhanda.tuboga.haduthura.mitheko ona video itathirite.😅😅😅

  • @felkadumas9863
    @felkadumas9863 Před rokem +1

    Someone tag samidoh and jimal roho mbaya 😂😂

    • @njorok7368
      @njorok7368 Před rokem +1

      I thought about Him all through

  • @faithwairimu9428
    @faithwairimu9428 Před rokem

    Wakiama is the best

  • @petergitau1632
    @petergitau1632 Před rokem +1

    Hi monoca... boy child wa hii show yako huwa ndio mwenye makosa juu ...u only interview mwenye kukusewa.... ebu siku moja jaribu utafte mwanaume mmoja amewai achna na mkewake...akuelezee about his marriage na ikafika wakaachana au ni nini kiichangia ndoa kuvunjika....