But you can coupe by ignoring him and sticking to your lanes ...as a woman never argue with him..n never allow yourself to be misused Bora uhai.most married men are narssists but women chose not to talk about it .. if you ignore believe you me umemuzima kama taa...no ground to accuse u...but always trying to win you again.hata akikufanyia something good usimwonyeshe it's a big deal..but deep down in your heart you appreciate .. don't even ask ulikuwa wapi ama unaeda wapi...you minimise him and pole pole he will start telling you after you ignore him kabisa...have fun even without him..
Bora he's not violent also learn not to provoke him...when he is away or travels it's your tym to shine n never call him.that way he will start changing...from a distance let him know you celebrate his absentia😂😂😂 if you know you know
@@loicegatere3552worst womanizers unajua cervical cancer Nani carrier?? narcissist will never change and they never care they even don't care about themselves ,there bitter souls fighting demons ondokea huyo mnyama huwezi mu manage at all at all . otherwise outcome ni mogojwa untreatable
Thanks for the lovely show..Narcissists want to live in their own world and only do what suits him/her. @Monica,I was happy to meet you today evening in church ❤️.
That's true huku inje wao ni mazuri sana hata kama familia yako hawakujui vizuri wanaweza ona kama wewe ndio uko na shida,halafu hawapendi wives wafanye kazi 😢😢
Managing someone finances is not love it's called financial abuse. Am happy that people are now understanding about Narcissists. I have gone through this for many years with my ex. Narcissist is an adult in child skin.
Yes adult in a child mind I once called mine kihii out of anger because his argument was like dealing with a child with autism spectrum anarusha turntrums hey !! I almost went mad you sometimes confused whether he has mental health medicine ya hawa watu ni kuwaondokea and no contact.
Very true...im so bitter with men ju nlikua nkiona mamangu akichapwa almost daily i realy have bitterness ..pia me im that kind natakaga nigonge kitu au nikutusi ni make sure umeumia
Thank you so much for your show.Nii hikitio Ni Narcissist for 28yrs now but no one knows.I leave a fake life . pretending my marriage to be ok for my kids.But now my last born is 18yrs.But sasa ziwezi sema mipango Ile Niko nayo but weee nimechoka kabisa
Wakiamas explanation is a total definition of a narcissist..ave lived with one and every thing is a defination of him..the best way to deal with them is trying to put boarders, never allow them also to cross your boader, never cross theirs too...allow your yourself to love yourself more..❤than them..try not to call them when they are away, they like hurting you and lastly, they will never ever appreciate you, their family members ie parents, siblings, cousins, and also friend are their number one priority..😅
Nice, but I wish you could take time watch on you tube on Narcissist, that way you will realize there is still so much that you have not understood. This is a journey I have followed for the last 3 years I wanted to find myself again.
So that condition is developed and not born with. God help my kin so it a revenge strategy resulting from abandonment. My blackmail and manipulate to demand everything he wants. God help us from this evil spirit
Hehehehe! Love this session! I really look forward to it ...didn't see her last week, so was eagerly waiting. My weekly laughter therapy- " Kanau ena gakuo"❤😂😂😂😂😂
Yes, triangulation Is always having some else being put in the picture to be compared with and is always assumed to be better. In short we have a triangle which is the Narcissist, that other person and you.
Imagine my mom is a narcissist and then I ended up with a narcissistic husband but I thank God nindamenyire it's a mental condition so I control myself, you should control your anger whenever they annoy you❤
@@user-tq6zs1dh9gbut remember you could be hurting inside because you take all the blame speaking through experience so be careful I got sick until I realized it’s not okay but I’m over it I got help through counseling
Hugs, wakiama and kagoni. Narcissist will never change, can't change and will never. Running away from the Narcissist is the best option.
Exactly I know what you mean
But you can coupe by ignoring him and sticking to your lanes ...as a woman never argue with him..n never allow yourself to be misused Bora uhai.most married men are narssists but women chose not to talk about it .. if you ignore believe you me umemuzima kama taa...no ground to accuse u...but always trying to win you again.hata akikufanyia something good usimwonyeshe it's a big deal..but deep down in your heart you appreciate .. don't even ask ulikuwa wapi ama unaeda wapi...you minimise him and pole pole he will start telling you after you ignore him kabisa...have fun even without him..
Bora he's not violent also learn not to provoke him...when he is away or travels it's your tym to shine n never call him.that way he will start changing...from a distance let him know you celebrate his absentia😂😂😂 if you know you know
@@loicegatere3552so true...I concur with you
@@loicegatere3552worst womanizers unajua cervical cancer Nani carrier?? narcissist will never change and they never care they even don't care about themselves ,there bitter souls fighting demons ondokea huyo mnyama huwezi mu manage at all at all . otherwise outcome ni mogojwa untreatable
There is nothing that gives me joy like the awareness of narcissistic abuse. So many are suffering and struggling in silence. Keep up the good Job🙌🏾
@MethayaKagoni Any updates on Wachira, who went to India for treatmrnt with his sister Esther? 🙏🏽
People change when they want to, not when they are told to.
True, Narcissism develop from children who have grown up with bitterness.
What I went through in the hands of a narcissist weeeh Wacha tu love Bombing 💕💕mpaka inakufanya unaona nikama uko heaven not 🌎
Thanks for the lovely show..Narcissists want to live in their own world and only do what suits him/her.
@Monica,I was happy to meet you today evening in church ❤️.
Thanks for the topic. Let her finish the topic on how to deal with a narcissist.
Wakiama please consider opening an office upcountry. I love your work
Am a victim of Narcissitic Abuse and what wakiama is saying is true till i said enough is enough and i left for my own sanity
That's true huku inje wao ni mazuri sana hata kama familia yako hawakujui vizuri wanaweza ona kama wewe ndio uko na shida,halafu hawapendi wives wafanye kazi 😢😢
That's why wife of wa ki education is suffering saying nyumba hainaga Amani
We love u two great women of God, mungu awabariki na awafanye mema
Thank you Monica you have finally brought Mrs.Kiama! We missed her.Watching from Canada.
Thank you Wakiama, and Monica.
Managing someone finances is not love it's called financial abuse. Am happy that people are now understanding about Narcissists. I have gone through this for many years with my ex. Narcissist is an adult in child skin.
I have lived with a Narcissistic husband for over 3 decades, they pretend to be so good to the outsiders but behind closed doors, they are monsters👹
A child in an adult skin
Underline…. An adult in a child’s skin!! You’ve nailed it👏🏾
Yes adult in a child mind I once called mine kihii out of anger because his argument was like dealing with a child with autism spectrum anarusha turntrums hey !! I almost went mad you sometimes confused whether he has mental health medicine ya hawa watu ni kuwaondokea and no contact.
Wangu aliniambia no one can understand him expect me nikajua he is a narcissist
Wangu aliniambia nikae na yeye vile ako siwezi nilikataa juu staki magojwa
I wish u can talk abt narcissist toxic parents
Very true...im so bitter with men ju nlikua nkiona mamangu akichapwa almost daily i realy have bitterness ..pia me im that kind natakaga nigonge kitu au nikutusi ni make sure umeumia
Thank you so much for your show.Nii hikitio Ni Narcissist for 28yrs now but no one knows.I leave a fake life . pretending my marriage to be ok for my kids.But now my last born is 18yrs.But sasa ziwezi sema mipango Ile Niko nayo but weee nimechoka kabisa
28 yrs? You hate yourself that much?
Wakiamas explanation is a total definition of a narcissist..ave lived with one and every thing is a defination of him..the best way to deal with them is trying to put boarders, never allow them also to cross your boader, never cross theirs too...allow your yourself to love yourself more..❤than them..try not to call them when they are away, they like hurting you and lastly, they will never ever appreciate you, their family members ie parents, siblings, cousins, and also friend are their number one priority..😅
Nice, but I wish you could take time watch on you tube on Narcissist, that way you will realize there is still so much that you have not understood. This is a journey I have followed for the last 3 years I wanted to find myself again.
This is awesome and the office is looking great
So that condition is developed and not born with. God help my kin so it a revenge strategy resulting from abandonment. My blackmail and manipulate to demand everything he wants. God help us from this evil spirit
Hi there am a fan of both. Am married to one out their he's ok but when he comes back home he's something else
Today's wakiama's office decor is tops.👏👏
Good conversation Ladies. Keep up the good work
Excellent topic by 2 beautiful glowing ladies 👍🙏
Vile monica anasema " diraiguire marakuiya magacoka magaguikira durex nakûrîa"😅😅😅😅ukiwa umekondoa macho apo😅😂
Hehehehe! Love this session! I really look forward to it ...didn't see her last week, so was eagerly waiting. My weekly laughter therapy- " Kanau ena gakuo"❤😂😂😂😂😂
We also have narcist girl weuh they are very dangerous
If the narcissist is own child, what then be done to salvage the situation.especially if his company is a bad one.
Waaooh amazing, show🎉🎉❤
Manipulation is the order of the day
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Monica and wakiama God bless you
Monica and Wakiama, what are about ladies who are Narcissist?
They're dangerous
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The word is triangulation.
Yes, triangulation Is always having some else being put in the picture to be compared with and is always assumed to be better. In short we have a triangle which is the Narcissist, that other person and you.
My mother is a narcissist and we suffer alot
Imagine my mom is a narcissist and then I ended up with a narcissistic husband but I thank God nindamenyire it's a mental condition so I control myself, you should control your anger whenever they annoy you❤
You can help, make plans to leave her for your own mental health. Help her and limit you interaction with her but respect her.
@@user-tq6zs1dh9gbut remember you could be hurting inside because you take all the blame speaking through experience so be careful I got sick until I realized it’s not okay but I’m over it I got help through counseling
My mom and ex hubby are narcissists sai am away working they keep my dota away from me kuongea na yy ni shida it hurts me alot
Sorry I can understand what you go through sweet heart
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