'Don't leave just because you caught your husband cheating. You're the queen. Stay!' - Wanjiru K
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- čas přidán 11. 09. 2024
- When women are confronted by unfaithfulness from their husbands, Majority choose a hurried decision of packing and go! Only for them to return later. 'That's not what you should do,' says Wanjiru Kiama. Stay! You are the queen of the house!
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Hi Monicah . we do love this great job you're doing. Kagoni natafuta mum sana . she gave us her number but is like hana WhatsApp sijui nitamshika aje . if I decided to call from here direct phone call a minute is 1 dollar equivalent to 100ksh . sijui Monicah hapa utanisaidia aje nipate mum I really need her
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Mi nimeenda 🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️ huyu mama ananikasirisha I can't continue listening to her..this is a NO for me!!!! Nkttt!!!
Mrs Kiama I remember how your husband was handsome when he married you and you were equally beautiful.I can actually tell people that you are a strong lady coz you didn't abandon him when he got sick. Thumbs up.
This is the highest level of self hate...siwezi n I walked n guess what am still alive n doing better than best. There is no need to be in an emotionally abusive marriage, you'll die and leave your kids as mochokoras for a mere mortal man. If a man dishonours, disrespects and devalues you don't force issues...there is life after marriage tafadhali
Siwezingoja kuletewa kaswende na magonjwa kwa blanketi . I support your point 101%
I agree. I think this advice mag not be the best. Sometimes leaving is the best one can do for themselves if there is no respect.
By watching Metha ya kagoni, I have to acknowledge one thing. This channel has been teaching me a lot of lessons despite the fact that I have never been in marriage, this channel I believe that it has been of help to many who are in marriage, have been or will be in marriage later in life. Monica, you do a great job, the point here is to apply the power of the 3A's. Accept, Adjust and Advance. And Wanjiru K you've made my week. "I have learnt to fly above all nonsense"
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If a man doesn't treat you as the queen you are,leave. Staying does not change the situation.
I support u....I recall my mum inlaw used to tell me ata change lkn wapi ilifika wakati akawa violent nikaona nitakufia kwa ndoa juu ya kichapo...i can't force myself where things can't work....
Exactly that’s why I don’t listen to motivational speakers advice they are doing it for money or for fame I only listen to my parents who want the best for me for free and so far so good 💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼
Me I can't stay if he cheats! I can't!!!! I refuse totally
ALAFU UTAPATA KIJANA WA KUKUOA AMA ATA WEWE UTAANZA KUWA MPANGO WA KANDO.BUT IF YOU ARE READY TO REMAIN SINGLE ITS OK YOU CAN LEAVE HIM
@@victorysamuel8695 who ever died from being single?
@@thatchiqfaye9154no one but no separated woman Rema faithful when she needs a fuck ,she will also fornicate...so you are better when you remain with him for the sake of your children you sanctify them sexual sin s very dangerous
Every case is different. Kuri ungikora wohetuo njuiri akuhure utuku mugima. I think women should stand their grounds. Akipata mwigine my time is over and I accept that. I have 2 hands and I have God. I support what she did caring for him but Mambo ya usherati ya mabwana Mimi sitakaa Wacha Mari iende nituze roho yangu.
Hi my sister Eunice.
@@catherinewambui4595 Hi my sister Wambui
🤣🤣🤣🤣 she’s funny. With that said I don’t think her advice will work for many people of our generation and coming generations! Honestly who wears those things of ukimwi hauna kinga anymore? That is just an example of the many remarks she made but don’t apply to millennials nor coming generations.
This woman is taking comparing their generation with ours,things have changed mummy. Eti when he cheats don't leave.,nowadays that cheating is coming with a package of abuse, violence, or deadly disease. There is a total difference between then and now.men used to cheat and come back home peaceful, today they cheat and want to kill you,then men used to work.this generation has refused to work especially men and bitterness is allover .today if I give my marriage 100% then am likely to die of violence ,abuse, of HIV from a cheating husband. So we give only 40% in marriages na ukae rada,don't invest with him, anything wrong happens gerrr outer theeea.
That's true. If a man can cheat and come back peacefully and he treats me like a Queen.
You find a man hana kitu, hana job maybe ww ndio unamsupport but he cheats then disrespect and violence.
Very true.....
Aiiii sikubalii na yeye
i back u
You got issues which can't be solved with a tissue. If Am asked, marriage to you is slavery not a call.. Stay single young girl
Hivo ndio unaletewa magonjwa in the name of marriage . Better aoe second wife than kucheat from one woman to another
The Bible allows one to leave if the other partner is unfaithful....I don't think I will feel like a queen being treated of gonorrhea, syphilis and other diseases caused by unfaithfulness not forgetting emotional trauma caused by betrayal......If my love for him surpasses my love for myself I will try and worship him but as for now, wacha tuheshimiane tukishindwa kaihu na kwao😆😆
Twarwario turore naku na twina ciana 😳😳😳😳😳maundu ni machenjetie I pray I don’t get caught up in that mess. I won’t sit there watch him cheat
Wow, this lady has a very big heart ❤️! She got me thinking... punchline: “zuia mmomonyoko wa ujana!” Bring her back to the table soon.
#KenyansinTexas
This is Brilliant, very good advise for us the Married. Ati anavaa t-shirt imeadikwa "Ukimwi hauna dawa" 🤣🤣🤣
The homour was quite something...I have loved it ..plus thas a great heart ...haina wengi... truly a replica of someone who's truly born again..kudos Mrs Kiama
Nice advice my highschool Swahili teacher.... Was ever stunning younger each day
I can't watch this..... u don't want to feel bad for something I can avoid. Cos if I cannot forgive a cheating boyfriend..... what of a cheating husband.... siwexi acha nikae Na mama yangu
Congurats Madam Kagoni to bring mum, counselor, teacher,lecturer and all that . Kagoni really u always bring us great people who heals our broken hearts. Mum simjui na sijawahi msikia wala kumuona but she's talking to me am not married but am touched with this issue of love. Nii mum ningugwetha na makinya am outside the country but am sure will help me somewhere am lost . Nindakena ni mami muno na akwaria ota Wamurathaa maa. Ngai akurathime muno mum na akugitire mirimu yothe nigetha ugie na hinya wa gututhomithia. Again I thank you madam Kagoni and the media .
A successful marriage Is basically made by 2 people who are committed to make it work. Thank kagoni....you are doing a good job
Patience pays...ndugatige muthuri waku niundu niombana,uthii ukombwo.
To the men,don't leave because she cheat on you.
Stay!!You re the KING!!😅😂
This 😂😂
Yea ,why is it that its always us dont leave your man....pia hao wavumilie tudiscuss bei ya petroli😛
She's a lovely wise mum.. May God bless her
Wamama,mukuhoya Mia cia salon kinya ri.?I fully agree with you mama.theres a certain class of woman that beg from husbands. If you are working, separate accounts and have financial freedom. Nokahitha tibia twake.Muhiiki. arehwo, ndukehere mucii. Wakite.ihinda.inene.Reke. makiganie.nawe utumanage.china.kana guide. Murigo.china.na dubai ♥ 😍. Na umureke.aciare. ta wa Demathew.wendo wahuma anjie. Kwirwo agutiye.to uria wa demathew munyinyi eragwo aside uria mukuru.Naciana ciaima mucii witue free, ugaceera kinya America na Uganda
THE PROBLEM WITH MANY OF US WOMEN,WE CANT STAND THE MEN WHO CHEAT. BUT WHEN WE LEAVE YOU FIND THAT LIFE BECOMES HARD AND THERE ARE NO YOUNG BOYS THERE WAITING TO MARRY US.MAFISI NAYO (who are other women wenye wamevumilia husbands )NDIO WANAKUAGA MAMETUNGOJA NA TRUST ME THEY GET US.AND ACTUALLY MANY OF THOSE WHO ARE TOO PROUD TO VUMILIA KWA NDOA ZAO WANAENDANGA KUNYONYELEA ZA WENYE WAMEVUMILIA.I MEAN WENGI.SO WHY DONT YOU ACCEPT THE ADVICE
Mimi ciezi toka kwangu.come rain come sunshine.ukipedwa kaa nauko lkini kwangu ni kwangu
Monicah u never disappoint I like your show....wanjiru k n wamuratha their great persons majakaga ma
This is disturbing.
Wow I love Mrs Kiama 😂😂😂😂ati kunungia rurua uriri t-shirts ya segenge ni ng'ombe watching from Saudi Arabia
Monica cheka kabisa, 😂 😂 😂 I like the way you laughed ! you deserve it as sometimes you bring some very depressing shows. 👍👍
Niguo Mamie but mtu anacheat hadi ameshidwa kulipa rent, kula ni stress
Very encouraging words and I fully support you mum.those casting stones don't want to be counseld.shes talking and have walked the talk.basically out of experience.mnataka nini kama sio hio advise jameni
Untill i tried to act like it's a two way traffic, I was losing it. I knew we as women can never be equal. He is a king you are the helper. Treat him a king, he brings out the queen in you .
Wa kiama ameongea ukweli. Wangu namkubalisha aoe badala ya umalaya 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾.
Ain't no way I'm going to tolerate such disrespect from a man,siku hizi kuna magonjwa,il follow my heart siwezi kaa marriage is for two pple who are willing to walk the journey together WA tatu akiingia it will never work.
Seriously, what an advice, how about ukimwi std, cervical cancer? Who says allowing him to marry will satisfy? That is misleading information, imepitwa na wakati.
That’s the new norm in Kikuyu land, ati when he marry another, all will be well🤣🤣🤣 it’s not even funny! Meanwhile he can’t provide for both families, women are still toiling to bring something to the table.
Mum that's was ur days mzee aki cheat haikuwa kitu na labda alikuwa anahudumia familia yako....
....lkn kumebadilika kuna magonjwa na mtu hahudumii familia kwanini nijiwekee motoni...I can't support u on this...can you tell ur dota avumilia ndoa kwa ndoa hafurahii...jibu hii niskia
Huyu mama ana reason Kama wamama wa age yake.siku hizi cheat i cheat.if you can't take it toka uende mm Niko sawa
May God restore ur husband and give us husbands and family that lives forevermore
Wow....nyce advice mum but niharitu kumenya muthuri niarathie njaa nougakira tu ohau,love your advice ,she is talking like pastor Jane similar voice
I like it. Ho nìharitù no kaba gùkirìrìria
A very enlightening interview. A very candid lady. Big up MK
I agree,,Am not leaving if at all am not being beaten,if he wants to cheat a cheat,I'll have done my best,,,All men cheat
@Joy zee I second you.me too I can't leave bcoz of cheating only abusive and punching I can leave.because we all wicked unless we received Jesus Christ
Women mostly don't leave because of cheating.....its the abuse that goes with cheating.
He gets a girl, I get a boy
That truly 😁😂💃🏾 he get a girl a get boy too humans were equal 🪐☝🏽
Powerful words no one is perfect we are all role material just mode ur spouse to be what u want incase ukiona makoza from ur spouse just solve it by communicating
I love the wakiama ciugo njega na mataro mega.ati kuimba ta indathi ria mbama.mum +kagoni u made my night thank u
We are happy for our sister...ladies when we have rehearse roll in the family due to joblessness or loose of business be careful women...be wise in dealing with your husband...doing things in exaggeration...if you are shopping do things in moderation for sometimes they get scared and suffer low self esteem..don't keep reminding them so many big things you are doing,,do things in moderation no surprises of big big things they will get stressed up for they are reminded their failure to provide....so easy easy gals...
Love that lady!!!Please bring her back
She is misleading women. How can one stay. Then face death. If it's not once RIP, move out. Many are dying. Is she not seeing. Hapo, ameongea zero tupu. Kwako si kwa mwingine.
Peninah I think she said if you’re threatened, or he’s being aggressive or violent run for your dear life but if it’s about cheating people can try to sort it out that’s what I understand. I don’t know I might be wrong
This are the things killing our ladys.i totally disagree. If it doesn't work step out.
She already said if there is violence leave! She is only advising those who are not in violent homes to stay!
wanjiru kiama is my neighbour and a relative she was like our older sister. we got a strong Christian foundation. those who don't know our background are the ones who said she bewitched her husband but for us who grew up with her we know she is a God fearing lady.
@@gmai849 you are completely out of the topic. Mambo ya kwenu uchawi. Keep it somewhere else
mom Wanjiru Kiama i love you too much u lift my spirit high
Counseling is good but the counselors fee is quite high with the current economy. Can they do something about it?
Umuthi Monica ni watheka muno. Good piece
I loove your shows Monica. Lemie subscribe today. Kudos
Very good advice to women there.
Mimi hii githomo... I am not boarding.
Stay and die? Die from diseases and whatever else he will bring home. Die from depression. Die from violence eti," patience pays"?
Girl, if he can't treat you right, if you see the signs of violence, extra -marital affairs and you can't handle, just run for your life!
True ❤️
God bless you mom for a great inspiration. Your talk is a great help to many especially at times like this when people are going through a lot of suffering and pain because of what they encounter on daily basis. May God strengthen us spiritually so as to reason what the outcome would be before taking action against something. Learnt alot from the talk. Monica thank you for a good interview and God bless you both.
😂😂😂😂 this mum is funny....
Waah my mum ...Umeongea na me
Whaaaa, mam, I disagree with you. Have done all that you have said, good food, smart bedroom, smart everything, language and all what my mother and shosho had adviced me,.am in the 19th year waiting for him to change but he is going worse. What will i again to make him happy
terrible advise for people in a country where women are dying of HIV daily , because a man brought it home. Be careful whom you listen to . Take your children and leave and be there for your children or you will both die and leave your kids as orphans .
Uthalia ni ihitia lingitigithania mendaine,alafu kwina STDS na ,HIV plus guku nikuencourage men mathalie,mum.In our generation kwina maundu maingi,ndawa cia kulevya ,ukimulia kulia auma agakuoela kahiu ,hutangojea.
Woowww...Wakiama full of wisdom..
Personally I cannot stay. I can leave for good
Waiting for part three
This is pure wisdom
Interesting.
Thanks for bringing her on board.
Monica kagoni you are a beautiful lady and the show is fantastic. Tuned from UK
Nazuia mmomonyoko wa uzee🤣🤣🤣
Wise mum
Amazing lady.
You are great Mum
Ati mum kahiu mata meeri? Aaaai
Before you leave your marriage, ask yourself whether there is anything different you could have done to turn tables or interogate yourself to see if you may have caused the cheating or contributed to it. Many atimes we blame the other person but we ignore the fact that we are also human and that we may have contributed to a breakup or cheating. I hear some women and the church say "there is no justification in cheating" well, that's them. My view is, than hiding in deceitful lives where stereotypes and group incitement govern modern marriages, let us face reality and call cheating/breakups by their name and causes. Make-believe can't help you, but the truth on the ground does.
Attitude, venomous tongue, carefree style, complacency, contentmement, disrespect and strained bed matters are the main causes of cheating or divorce.
Oh Yes. I did leave and I know it was abusive. I also know I did my best to keep it but it was not working although it was a church wedding. Do I regret? NOO. With all humility and by God's grace I am happy with another almost 20 years of a happy marriage. If time was pushed back I would still choose my current husband. All glory to our God.. There is a time to stay and time to go ask the Holy Spirit to guide and protect you.
@@eunicemagira5731 wow, great Eunine. Count your blessings. Mine is 39yrs and in top bliss. I have never regretted one bit.
That why’s!! our generation woman’s we work hard to have our own money so that we don’t stay on men knees because of their his money ☝🏽
It was amazing to hear Mrs Kiama
have enjoyed, learned & much more 👏
I like mum's advice
Wise words,thank you Monicah.
Kagoni rehe wamuratha
HAPA NDO HUWA WASKIA MWALIMU WA MWANAMKE NI KIPOFU HAKI. 😂😂😂
Middle life crisis can really mess up a great marriage.
Middle age crisis has nothing to do with a decision to stay in marriage.
Lack of discipline and commitment
Very very true miaka 40 niri magambo
To ahiki me history ona arume nikuri mahana uguo
Monika you are great 👍
Poor advice, very misleading…Ladies, be very careful whose advice you buy. Married couples and those in stable relationships contribute highly to new hiv infections in Kenya. Disturbing.
Aheani a mbesha meku
Wise advise love this❤❤
Maombi kwa wingi,
I am not refusing to stay but not in this era and this century
Wa Kiama ena uhoro mwega muno
Thanks mama
Share youtube yake or facebook account we follow her
Mum nakupenda Bure ur so funny
Hi..WaKagoni...what did Yahweh say to David on this? We stand guided. .
This is total rubbish. Kagoni I love your channel, but please don't bring people with this kind of advice. It is misleading and can have dire consequences.
WAkíama wiwamagegania biúú 🙏🙏🙏
She is so funny
I am not sure I agree with these sentiments
Neither do I. There is a generational discrepancy I think. Just practically speaking, what she is advising is just not plausible for the current generation of young people. Luckily, I'd say most will probably disagree with her dated outlook.
aii hau tihega
Gladys 🤣🤣😂 hathùkira haa?
Good advice
Please stop spreading the gospel of men cheating in marriage. Gutharia kwa muthuri nokurehe mwana otoria gutharia kwa mutumia kungirehe.cheating is not a gender issue its a personal choice whether you are a man or a woman.