God Is NOT Removing Your Feelings for Someone Because . . .
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- Why won't God just remove your feelings for someone? Does God want you to be with this person one day? Here are 4 possible reasons for why God is not removing your feelings for someone.
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1. It it’s the right person but the wrong time, God won’t remove your feelings for this person.
2. God is allowing these feelings to remain so you are motivated to do something about them.
3. He is taking away these feelings, it’s just taking longer than you thought.
4. He’s using these feelings to help train your heart for a new relationship you know nothing about yet.
Thank you for this!!!
...i didn't get any Direction out of your Numerical Posts, Darling...
...you Knead a whole 'nother perspective on this topic to get to Prince Charming.
Amen
I find this helpful. Thank you God
@@Live_for_God123
...nothing has been answered here; only possibility of SOMETHING...SOMEWHERE ... coming out of SOMETHING??
...I don't understand the Benefit you Received, Darling !
Feelings are one thing, actions are another. If there's no communication or activity, feelings add up to a big pile of nothing.
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In my case, he is married. So, I couldn't say I did like you. To him. He had several people ask me how I felt for him.
@@Tinyfurball So you're an unmarried woman who has feelings for a married man, I think.
@@Strive1324L Unfortunately.
@Send that chicken To the police Well, that's tough to deal with. We are not to covet another man's wife, for women it would be husband, when someone is married they are off limits. I think it was the old show Dragnet where the policeman said ""Just the facts, maam". It's hard to shift gears but I try to look at it in black and white, if a woman is married she's DQ, disqualified. Doesn't matter how attractive she is. Our commitment to God and Jesus MUST take top priority, Jesus said if we follow him we should deny ourselves, take up our cross daily and follow him. So to deny ourselves something in the long run which will hurt us is actually a good thing.
I think God can also use these feelings to remind you to pray for that person. It's never a waste of time to pray!
Absolutly. I prayed earnestly for every single men I was ever in love with. And I know God used those feelings so I could have done that.
@@jumafaro I did pray too. But I no longer want to. I was treated badly, why am I holding on to it still..? It’s really hard to get over your pride and pray for someone who told you you’re a piece of crap.
@@Scoop2380 I no longer want them either. As a matter of fact, I am going to the wedding of one of them. In my case, I wasn't misstreated by any of them. It just didn't happened that none of them were part of God's plans for my life. But I saw one of them recently carrying his newborn son, and I was genuinely happy for him. He has the life he've always dreamed. But is not my life. And that's ok. As for you, keeo on working on your devotional life and sanctification, and don't lower your standards. A truly Godly man wilk treat you with love and kindness and you will feel safe with him.
How you can pray saying?? May be he is not meant for you and God has other plans??
@@UmwariC0DY well of course you can pray anything you want, but you know him well and you may know the things he needs prayer for. I just see it as a more constructive way to handle when those feelings come up rather than obsessing.
Ohh yeah..
I broke up with my bf of 3 years and until then I was unsure about him being my life partner.
After breaking up, I started developing stronger feelings for him, so strong that I would tell people that I am engaged when in reality I was single but in my head we were together.
I loved him to death in his absence.
We had zero contact, in fact I didn't use my cellphone for 5 months. Didn't see each other on social media either.
I was loving him more and more each day.. but never knew if we would ever get back.
One fine day we just happened to talk and reconnected.. it had been 10 months by then since we hadn't heard about each other.
3-4 months later we were together again.
We have been together for 8 years now.. would get engaged this year..❤️
That is awesome to hear. Take it and cherish it. Because it's hard to find people you really care about and would do anything for.
I also block someone whom I respect the most to whom I love most. Someone who inspired me most. He is one of the most wonderful human being for me I ever meet in my life. I believe if we are meant to be our relationship will find way. I am waiting for my dream day to get married with him❤😇
I’m so happy for you both ❤
I want a love story like that.
@@shaunwalsh85 Me too! I listened to a video last night after seeing this, and until we heal our self from all the trauma we’ve been through, we won’t find that kind of love.
It’s all in God’s timing
Beware: demons can make you feel amorous feelings for the wrong people as well.
I agree with you
For sure. But on what basis do we determine when that's the case? From practical personal experience, and a psychological understanding of this, uniting that with a grasp of the definition of love within Scripture, it's good to think about whether if it's entirely centered on ourselves and consists of a more lustful and impatient quality; or if there's a rather inherent one of selflessness, integrity and compassion/willingness to understand on both ends about it. The former of which would determine the opposite, that is; demonic. Or something akin to it.
So true
Oh yeah? Prove it
No because if you ask God to remove those feelings the will of a evil spirit can not stop the will of God to change it God is above everything
sometimes the suffering is intended to provide building of character and humility to prepare you for the person who is truly meant for you. No suffering is ever wasted.
This is the last reason in the video
I’ve learned so much and became a greater person with each lonely night, not even realizing it was teaching me. I’m so grateful and appreciative to the creator. Now, I have someone new to build with. happened right after I moved on.
😭😭😭
no suffering is wasted....?
why the fuck does ANYBODY HAVE TO SUFFER....
for some megalomaniac, narcissist sky-God....?
I really needed this. Thank you. 🙏🙏💖
Dear person whoever reading this, we may not know each others but I wish you all the best in life ! Stop blaming yourself, accept things and go forward. Your smile is precious 🥰
All the keys of happiness is in your hands, so open it up 🔓🔑
Thanks a lot ❤🥹 you and your smile are precious too 🥹❤️✨️
Thank you friend, may you be blessed with peace and love in your life, and all the things you need for a bright and abundant life
Thankyou 😢
Thank you 😢
Being in love with someone you don't want to be in love with hurts.. I've put it in my mind that "If you haven't fallen in love with God first, then don't fall in love because there is no real love here on Earth."
Yup, and we learn it the hard way lol.
@@saulcarvajal7911 AMEN TOO true
@@saulcarvajal7911 TRUE.
That’s deep & that’s how I’m feeling.. Wow!! I didn’t have balls to say that..
*"If you haven't fallen in love with God first, then don't fall in love because there is no real love here on Earth"*
I to once fell in love with an imaginary character like god, it was Jessica Rabbit. But I grew up and realised how irrational I was as a child...it's weird when adults continue to do that to be honest
I never thought I would meet the woman that God has ordained for me but I prayed and applied faith and now she is around growing with me spiritually
@@suzymoon2067 I started my ministry and the rest is history...😄😄🇯🇲
I'm so happy for you, may it some day happen for me too.
Congratulation
I have fought hard to stop loving my ex of 11 years after 18 years of marriage. He has remarried and that still doesn't stop the pain I feel. I have prayed dozens of times to remove the feelings because I know he wasn't right for me. He stood for things I abhor and detest. But I can't let the feelings go even though I really want to. I'm 70 years old now and don't have any prospects for love again but I don't want to have these feelings anymore. Please pray for me to forget this man.
Focus your prayer more on you. Pray for peace of mind, for your heart to be healed completely and to get closer to God. Keep your prayers on you, don't even mention him. Pray for guidance and order for your next steps. Pray for God to release you of any ties and bonds that are not of Him. In Jesus name. Amen.
Maybe you just don't want to let go of your past.
@@nuttybar9
Feelings just don’t disappear.
@@korger1481 Maybe not ,But it's time she let go and found herself somebody new.
Only Jesus can set you free. Pray for your deliverance. Begin to go to a Christian church and if you really want to let go and accept Jesus into your life which is the man who has truly been waiting for you then you will be free. But always ask the Holy Spirit to guide you to the right church. What you have is a soul tie but you also have Jesus and he will set you free. I know he will.
We must love without attachment. Only then we can be free.
Yup. Too much attachment in my last relationship. It was suffocating. 😩
@mirela... you look like a friend of mine, but her name has two L's
@@thomasgrabowski2202 I GREVED THE holy Spirit and feel sick and miserable i don't want to wasttr my life and feel aau off I don't want to rot. I had feeling and I shouldn't have gotten back into sins. Satan tricked me
@@TriciaRP hey Trisha how are you now?
That is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard.
It happened with me once, and right now I know why I prayed to Him to remove the feelings that I have for one person, but it didn't happen... But it was the reason number one, and right now he is my fiance and take care of me a lot. Nice video.
Hey can you give me advice please
Where y’all both believe in God or only one? Did one convert? Or did y’all both already believe in God
Sigh. I be trying to
Congratulations 🎉🥂
Wow
I have same issues right now, especially when i see the person, the feelings keep increasing whether i set eyes on him or not, i keep praying that it be taking away, but its still there, hmmm
Its well
If you love someone, let them go. For if they return, they are yours. If not, then it was never meant to be.
Its been 22yrs of thinking about her. This year it has gotten SO much worse! Please bring her into my life or release me from suffering like this! Please.
Good lord !! I pray you are joking !! 22 years??
I’m just in my 1st year and everyday , I pray to forget her or to do something to bring her back even though , I know it will never happen ! I go in circles for a like 5 minutes a day, the come back to reality -
I can’t imagine 22 years of that !
I am a cheater though ! And a liar !!!
@@tommartinez7101😂😂😂God will forgive you tho. You aware of your flaws. You deserve mercy!
4 weeks of no contact. I personally believe God wants us to work on ourselves individually, love ourselves and will rekindle our relationship and be stronger than ever the second time around.
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It’s been a journey and extremely hard to not reach out to her. I’m just respected her decision.
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In the meantime I’m doing my best to learn from my mistakes to make permanent change, learning who I am better, hitting the gym, getting closer to God, doing my daily affirmations and manifestations.
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You can call me delusional but i love this woman and she does love me! It’s a fact.
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I just know we will be back together eventually and if we do, I can guarantee that God will be the center and guide of our relationship moving forward. He was the ultimate missing piece in my opinion 🤞🏾.
Are you guys together now?
@@Cheelives in short NO.
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But it’s not necessarily a bad thing. During this time I’ve grown so much especially in my faith, self development and with my patients.
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I’ve come to the conclusion that God is still working on her and for good reason and I wouldn’t want to interfere with that. He’s working on her and he’s working on me still.
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Lastly, I still have hope however I’ve created some really good questions for myself that have allowed me to not worry so much and just trust in God during this time that has made things 30x easier for me.
If you’re in the same position as me or similar and want those questions to ask yourself, let me know. I’m just more at peace right now.
I'm going through the exact same thing with the exact same predicament
I do want those questions to ask myself
And I'm so proud of you for not taking it out on yourself and having a different perspective
@@Haise8 I know it’s tough so hang in there. Here are the questions:
1. If your ex or whomever does come back today. Right now this very moment.. has there been enough time for you to make a drastic change or improvement since they left?
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2. Ask yourself am “I” a better version of myself today than I was last time we were together.
3. Ask yourself Am “I” in a place where improvement is obvious to the other person as well?
4. Am “I” truly happy with myself. After this breakup. (When you look in the mirror are you proud of who you are/what you see?)
Basic questions but also tough. They make you look within ( even if you believe you were perfect in the relationship).
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So for me, I’m well off as a single male but I’m not truly happy and not walking in my purpose (whatever that may be) and I don’t think I can make someone happy if I’m not complete within. I hope this makes sense and helps. It’s definitely saved me from sending a few texts or looking too hard into social media etc.
I believe feelings will fade away with time . Meanwhile feelings help us become more patient and stronger ☺️
I dont think feelings ever go away.
@@thomasgrabowski2202 that is also true but you learn to live with it
I am 71 and in to 50+ years into deep hurting feelings for someone who it did not work out with even tho I am in a 43 year marriage with a wonderful person. I have asked God to remove this other person from my heart and mind but his answer is always the same-( my grace is enough for you) Does not seem to help tho even tho I am a born again Christian, Will ask God why when I meet him!
Reality true😊☺
@@thomasgrabowski2202 I gave up on this. Feelings will never go away. I have prayed and nothing.
This was right on time. I've been praying about this for forever! Having feelings for someone even if God may want you together is tough! Especially if you're not good at handling those emotions without them being reciprocated! Great vid brother!
So glad this was useful!
Youre very kind....💖💖🙏
It took God 2 years and 10 months to remove my feelings for this person. Up till now I can't believe that for two days now I could be very fine without him on my mind. This is so exciting to know that I am finally free from this undying passion that feels like imprisonment literally. It's so incredible to be this emotionally free from my longtime hater. God thank you for finally relieving my soul from the firm grip of that guy called williams. I pray I will continue to do without him effortlessly
ONCE again Mark You are on time!! For 2 months I’ve been going through a breakup and for some reason I cannot remove this person from my heart but through this video so much confirmation has been given!! Thank you so much man God bless you 🙏🏾
I'm so glad this was useful to you Chris!
GOD bless Sir... But if you'd broken up from this person,your probably just going through the stages of a break up... Withdrawal and it's gonna take time to get over the person... Otherwise just give your self some time and pray about it
Don’t forget to pray about it
I'm 13 months into the break up and praying hasnt help, miss her as much as ever
This has been a journey for me as well, as some of you have shared. I've had a crush on a beautiful woman for quite some time now. I opened myself to her, and she said it was beautiful that I am capable of expressing myself. Then she said that what is meant to be will be. We haven't talked in about 4 months, but i think of her all the time and just pray that she is happy and healthy. I've had 4 dreams about her, but not sure if they come from our Creator - or are just random dreams. In one of my dreams a beautiful woman appeared, and a voice told me - this woman in your dream is the same woman you like, she is your woman, but she is around the corner. I have no idea if this is coming from God or if my dreams are just random. I've learned to move on and just pray and wish her well every time I think of her. No expectations now, just complete trust in Christ. It would feel amazing to have her in my arms one day though.
Man I know how you're feeling rn. I haven't talked to the woman I've been thinking of in a while. I had a dream that she got in a car accident and needed money. Next time I talked to her, she said she was in a car accident. Then, I asked God if she's someone I should be with, could he have her appear in a dream and she did. Lol we don't know if it's God or just our dreams reflecting our thoughts.
How beautiful.😍 May God answer
your prayers 🙏 🙌 ✨ 🧎♀️
@@WriterofWorlds Wow. I understand your subtle confusion, frustration, sadness, and pain. Know that you are not alone. It is probably, you and I, as well as many more who are trying to understand these same things. There is a section in Jeremiah, that says how God talks to us through our dreams. But I know how difficult it is to know which dreams are an actual message from above, and which ones are of our own making. I'm learning to pray more and more, and I think this is the purpose of these situations. To come closer to our Creator, and to also learn how to trust in him completely. Time will tell whether my dreams came from Christ or not. I've prayed that if this woman comes to me, that she may come with Christ in her heart, and in her hands. If she comes in this manner, I will know my prayers have been answered. Stay joyful cultivating the fruits of the spirit, my brother. May our Creator be with you and may he fulfill the desires of your heart.
@@mmmotiv8ed Thank you for your kind sentiments. May you be well. Christ loves you.
@@antonionavarrojr2848 thank you for your response. I definitely need to pray more and not rely on just my understanding. God bless yall
Nothing is more painful than broken love! Nothing!
Nothing is more painful than Unrequited love😢 I'm in love with this guy but he doesn't love me! Thatza nother painful situation. He didn't want a relationship But he enjoyed the benefits of it. As if we were in a relationship. I was being used & I knew he was using me But the feelings are so strong & overwhelming. But now I had to pray and hopefully *God hear my painful plea to be set free from this heart break. And can you believe that guy still try and stay in touch? Using me because he knows How I feel for him. He better be careful because how you treat people & what you put others do come back to you. But I wished him well. He never valued me which means he never cared. I was just a piece of a** But I'm on my way to a journey of being without him. Itz just so painful. 3 years I wasted great love on someone who didn't feel the same😭💔
@@lynncoop4022 pray the Lord brings you what you need. I am sorry for the painful time you r having.
I have a strong attraction for this man and somehow I'm feeling that he feels the same way, I can see in his eyes. But, we just can't do anything about it, because we both have a partner. I want the feelings to go away, I prayed, and prayed about it so far is not going away and it has been a year. To those who read this; please pray for me. Thank you advance. May God bless you all...
Does he know about your feelings ? Has he told you about how he feels ? Aaaaahhh can relate to the pain you feel 💔😉
You both have partners? Why are you boasting about this situation lol Adultery is sinful… even by looking at someone with lust is a sin!
@@bealright834 Hey, bud. She wants God to take the feelings away.
Also, adultery only pertains to when you are married. She never said that she or the guy were married to other people.
Always be wary of feeling strong attraction to someone/ Sentimentalism about it also hypnotically fools us into believing that lust is love/
Was saved after my divorce. My prayer was to bring her back or allow me to let go. Over those few months He showed me that she would never change. Almost 10 years later, the same still holds true.
😭😭 I asked if it was wrong to remove my feelings 😅 a day later I got a FLOOD of emotions and - feelings-…. God told me to be patient and kind for him
He’s sad and afraid…
He's stalling.
Same, there's a feeling of me to be kind for him.
As an older woman who's both developmentally and physically challenged I have never ever ever had any romantic feelings towards anyone ( reason being because I believe that God wants me to be single forever) and I'm perfectly OK with that
I Think I needed this. I’ve been kinda in this situation after a breakup and I just dont wanna feel anymore. But I’m trusting in Him and that he’s working with my heart during this situation
I have been asking God to take away the feelings I have for someone for a long time now even some hours ago and this video came my way. Thanks a bunch for this.
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Been working at this gym for 2 years now. This girl was working part time in the pool, never thought twice about her. Then one day I just got started getting massive fellings for her, I don't know if she has feelings for me but i've taken control of my life and health cause I want to be good enough for her and God.
I really needed to watch this video, thank you Lord for guiding Mark to make this video. This one and your last most recent one, I only read the title for the last one and I knew it was confirmation from the Lord for what I had been praying for. God always has a plan and he’s doing his will in all of our lives. ❤️
I prayed for release from the feelings. I wanted to be free from them and release him as well. It went well then all of a sudden, I’m thinking of him again! Like I still love him and enjoyed his company and friendship…I miss him…❤😢😮
Same😐
Same!!❤
Same 😔💔
Why did yall break up?
@@blesstalks his boyfriend wanted him back! …😲…we were just friends…but we loved each other…😍😍
On point mark. Now for me it was I'm not meant to be with this person. The feelings that I have for this person, the Lord is allowing it because it's preparing me for a relationship in the future.
I have been needing this video for a few years now. While I do wish it had been made sooner I know that God's timing is everything and that this was the best time to listen to it 🧡 thank you for sharing and making this video. God bless you 🙏
I need god to bring her back or let me forget her soon, I can't keep living like this, I want to end my life I don't get how this could be God's will
It's funny because I am not in communication with the person, and we haven't actually had a real conversation, but my feelings are getting stronger. There's just something that pulls me towards this person. I'm pretty sure the feelings are mutual. But my real focus is God, when God says it's time He will make it happen. For now, I'm praying for the discernment to understand God's plan.
I pray every day so God can remove someone from my heart and feelings still there. I’m so tired 😢I feel God is not even hearing me .
Sit in it, keep trusting God and do what you think is pleasing to him. I'm experiencing the same right now. 🙏🏾
Same thing here ugh 😪
Same situation🥺💔
The nature of God is unknowable, notwithstanding the Incarnation of God in Jesus Christ/ I've been through endless crisis of my faith in the Church that I'm praying to God who loves to hate me/ God's ear to hear me and God does not hear me/ I'm now doubting that God desires to fulfill His Promises in the Beatitudes/
@@FabzRoma-is3sq 😞 there is a lot of things I don’t understand from God. I know the Bible and I always ask him to bless me. I know he is a good God but I just don’t understand why I’m not getting blessed like a lot of people I see. I can’t say I don’t believe because I have seen a lot of miracles in other people I know. He is real I just don’t understand him.
Amen so true thank you for this sermon I agree listen to God instructions and follow where he wants you to go 😍🙌❤️
God really led me to this I was studying and watching car videos and stumbled on this which I have been struggling with for about two months. 😭😭needed this.
The timing of this particular video is impeccable🙌
This hits home so much. I was so mad that i started having feelings for this person because i didnt want to but we have SO much in common. I'm looking for a reason that this person isn't the right one so I can move on but its proving to be a difficult task. Idk if I need more information or more time to see how it will turn out
This is where I'm at and have been fasting and praying about it. I have a peace from God either way but definitely want to make sure that I heed to His directive because this person and I do business' together and I don't want to mess up that aspect of it. Not quite sure what to make of my liking him at this point but again I've given it over to God and trusting he'll reveal it in His timing!!! Pray he does that same for you and your situation!
@@ldwoods3237 oh wow. Talk about being stuck between a rock and hard place. I used to work with the woman I've been talking to. It just happened naturally I guess. Thanks for the prayer. I pray God reveals the answer for you too. "Hope deferred makes the heart sick" Proverbs 13:12
@@ldwoods3237 Amen 🙏
Over 40 years ago, we broke up, and never said goodbye. Now within the past three years, she is back in mind and I have burning desire just to see her face again. I have prayed and ask God about this issue. Just waiting now
Same, Charles, same.
My heart burns for this one girl ,i even dream about her and her family sometimes. God lead me ❤
Can u tell me her name???
@@SANATAN_GURL Aone
@@DangeistYTsoon you'll be together this is my prayer 🙏 ❤😊
I am in shock with this explanation, so accurate. 😳
When is not the right person we all need to learn to forget
Feelings will disappear with time, make the right decision and move on.
There was this girl I made a move on but she told me she wasn’t ready because she had a lot of struggle going on in her life, this was almost two years ago. The start of this year we started talking again and got closer because we both have been struggling with loss of family members. We went out a couple times even ended up holding hands which we’ve never done before. Then one day it all stopped once her aunt passed away. It’s been a few weeks since we last talked I just can’t seem to let go of the meaning of everything, deep down I still care for her and want the best but sometimes it’s overwhelming. I feel like it’s bad timing again
God is not removing feelings for someone because God wants you to do it. Lessons in life is to learn to let go.
I don't know. It seems like God has plenty of different reasons
@@austinroberts6229 here is a way to look at it. We are all here for a purpose. Children are not our purpose they are a gift from God. A temporary assessment. Spare the rod and spoil the child. Train them up right, they won't be a permanent assessment. Spouses are not are purpose that's why we have to take it to the alter and ask God to bless this marriage that we only get one chance at. Two most important days of our life one, the day you were born and two the day you find out why. It is not our children nor are spouse. It's are purpose are calling. We were called to be born for that purpose. ❤
Absolutely right... In God's time all will just be fine... Thank God fot this msg . It enlightens my heart and helps me to moved on.. I offer all to you .. i know i just deserve a better someone in thy will... Let it be done..this i pray .. Amen. 🙏
This hit home really hard, I've been ignoring (better said: rejecting) my feelings for someone and we're very good friends to be honest and I'm somehow convinced that he has feelings for me also, I know because of the way he acts around me and what he does for me, I feel more than a friendship there. I've been trying to ignore it because I'm just so uncomfortable, I myself don't know how feelings and love work, I've never really cared for relationships. I have a huge urge to tell him, but I'm kinda lost in this haha. If you have any tips on what to do, I'll gladly read them, thank you Mark so much, God bless❤
God bless you too Lenka!
Be honest. Being honest in relationships solves every communication issue, God is honest with us, we owe it to others to be honest even if it’s uncomfortable.
Either you two like each other or you don’t.
@@CarlosC77 I'm being very honest, I'm very honest person. However, when it comes to feelings and love itself, I don't know what to do. I've been praying about that for some time and I know, that it just doesn't happen overnight, I believe in process and that God has His plans and purposes🙏🏻I think, I don't know how to adress those feelings, I've never done that before. I'll continue praying and I'll always seek Jesus. One of my biggest insecurities is expressing emotions, I believe that overcoming that is being a part of this process also🙏🏻❤Thank you for your answer, God bless you❤
@@whoislenka Listen, I know emotions and feelings are hard but you have to look at what God says.
Express your interest in a kind way, and leave the rest to him.
Im in a situation where I like a girl I met from another country a LOT and Ive expressed interest, she hasn’t really replied but Im putting my faith in God to be sovereign and work things out for me! If he is for us, and we are seeking him who can be against us!??
@@CarlosC77 Thank you for your kindness, I guess I'll give him a chance. I'll give that relationship a chance. After all, you don't know if you don't try. I've never dated before, so this is probably gonna be my first time haha. Also, I wish you all great, may God be with you and thank you again, that question at the end of your comment really resonated in me🙏🏻God bless❤
Thank you I have been dealing with a break and letting go over a year!😢
But this is finally what I need number 3/4 for are for my soul thank you 🙏🏾
Wow what a timely message! Wonderful video as always!
Years ago, I asked God to remove my feelings and thought about someone, and He gave me the ability to turn my feelings off, especially since life went in a different direction for that other person. I haven't had feelings for anyone else since then.
Wow. I had this question i spoke to a friend about today. And cant blame cell phone listening to my convo because, i didnt have my phone with me... definitely a reason this message is on time.
There's this friend I work with that I've been thinking about a lot. She knows how I feel about her, but she's also going through a very hard time and has experienced relationship trauma in the past. I asked that when she was ready for a relationship again that she would let me know, she told me yes. I would like to believe her and wait on her, but I also don't want to waste time not exploring other options.
It's hard, I've never met another woman like her, I have strong feelings for her and I'm convinced God is directing me towards her for a specific reason. It just might not be because she's the one. I don't even know if she even thinks of me even remotely close to the same way.
I thank you Mark, for uploading this video today. God Bless.
So glad this was timely for you!
Hmmm, if she has relationship trauma and needs to heal that will take sometimes long time. Also someone with a lot of baggage is usually better off being single and getting healthy mentally before entering a relationship. Ask God for wisdom. He will guide you but also being with someone who has trauma can be very toxic. Be careful. Move on and explore other options
My advice would be for u to move on
@@suzymoon2067 Appreciate the advice.
Since I made my comment though, the friend I mentioned became involved in an affair and I've since moved on.
Thank the Lord for helping me dodge that bullet.
Thank oh for this message, it's like it was heaven sent to me right at this moment
He may not even be right for me! But it was him who woke up feelings and emotions that I thought were dead & non existent…I guess I liked feeling like that and wanted more! 😲🤗😉
Same 🥲
Great to know. God is in control. I will follow his lead. And work his plan. Thanks.
Our faith is not based on feelings!
I met this girl on social media we started talking and getting to know each other by hearing our testimony’s and this girl has really encouraged me to seek God than ever before reading his word daily and praying constantly throughout the day and singing praise and worship in the midst of all that I’ve began catching feelings about her so I had expressed to her about them she had apologized and told me she’s not ready yet but in the future she wants to be with me and she wants to take this time of being single strengthing her relationship with God than ever before like I have been as an example she told me she wants to have a strong relationship with God like I do with him since we last spoke I haven’t heard from her I’ve tried calling and texting to even leaving a few voicemails I don’t understand I’m confused what just happened when we last spoke everything seemed great it’s like she disappeared I just keep praying for her and I hear a voice tell me be patient she’ll come back just focus on me and that’s what I’m doing
I feel so strongly and deeply for someone right now, I think about him day and night. Its complicated as I don't know him personally or socially. I have known him for many years as he is someone I see at appointments. As I picked up vibes last time, if anything it's intensified my feelings that show absolutely zero signs of going anywhere at all..... ❤
I really needed to hear this brother, was in a friendship which was i trusting the Lord that it would progress into courtship/ marriage but it did not turn out that way, and i think about this person almost everyday waiting to see what God does.
Same here
I was assured that "IT'S NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN". So the advice to stop looking at/for them is wise counsel. Thank you.
This is so timely! There’s someone who I never dated but only interacted with them at the gym, and I’ve seemed to have “fallen” for this guy. I’ve prayed multiple times for the feelings to be taken away, but it’s been months and they’re still here. I’m not sure how God wants me to approach this, but I’ll pray about it soon.
make sure they love Jesus though!!!!
@@rajdow1923 it seems that he does, based on a few things I know about him. Either way, we may not be for each other, so I’m praying God brings clarification.
...its an Obvious " NO " to me Jessica...you are not ready for a Relationship.... God Forbid, Marriage ...
@@jamesdelopst4699 hmmm
@@blessed-joyamadi
...its an Obvious NO WAY!
Here are the Reasons , Joy: a person at the gym is a Loser; who buys every convenience to take away all work from their life...and then Realizes that he isn't getting any Exercise ...and has to buy a gym membership? Better to just push their car over a cliff and walk everywhere, Right? Of COURSE so...now there is no car or gym payments!
If a person doesn't act like this...then they are a Worldly minded person who will be trouble in your life - so DONT marry them!
I don’t want feelings for anyone anymore. However, you can’t help who you love only who you marry💯 I’m over people & love…
I've literally prayed that prayer 😅
Don't know which of the 4 points I resonate with
Thanks for the video, Mark. Timely, as always
Thank you for this video. I enjoy your channel very much.
I am requesting prayers over my current situation please. I have never been able to let go of my feelings for my ex wife. I believe the Lord spoke to me regarding she and I one day being back together, however I am struggling to remain patient. Prayers for this situation, for my patience to be strengthened, that her heart may be opened, and that the coming together of us one day again soon. Thank you. And of course, any other prayers of any kind are greatly appreciated.
If he was the right person he wouldn’t make me feel like I’m not good enough and he wouldn’t need to control me
This is definitely what I needed to hear
So glad!
This is a very painful journey. You move on yet you never forget them. Its like they aren't replaceable. The heart struggles to love someone else.
It’s weird. I pray one morning and your videos always pop up the very first things when I turn in this app in my current situation.
I’ve helped my crush significantly, but sadly, she’s with someone who doesn’t respect her and she can’t see that.
Me and her have built a great friendship until he had enough and told me to stop and she agreed but was saddened by it.
I prayed why because I cried and cried why.
Then these messages, at these times, “wait, now’s the wrong time.”
I did pray about it one time when I was calm, and I was at peace. But my answered prayers can sometime turn to doubt by my emotions.
Thank you again. For everything.
God bless as you seek the Lord's leading!
One night I told God that if weren't meant for each other I don't wanna see him anymore or heard his name to anyone but when the moment I was on my way to deactivate my account he chats me and still pops up to anywhere I don't know I don't wanna give myself a hope and another disappointment again
Oddly I just realized maybe that’s it,
21 years and just realized
my husband will never have feelings, I have been going though an awakening for years and
maybe this is it.
Thank you
Every time, Mark! God is usually by you!
God is good!
#1 is very convicting to me right now. There's currently a girl at my church I have strong feelings for. We spend a lot of time together, and many of my friends, pastor, and family agree that she's interested in me based on how they see us interact.
She recently got out of a bad relationship and I know she's going through a hard time. After I asked her out on a date, she said she wasn't ready to start dating again.
For clarity, I asked her if it was possible to ever be more than friends and if I could take her on a date once she was in a better position. She said that she wasn't sure, and was sorry she couldn't give me a better answer.
Really hoping I am taking the right path by waiting for her to heal, and still investing in a potential future relationship.
Even if the relationship doesn't happen, being an amazing friend will help bring healing to her and propel her towards Christ, as well as bring the possibility of relationship closer. All that matters is becoming like Jesus.
Also, just straight up ask God! He will give dreams and prophetic and direction. He is a Good Father that has the best one in store for you.
@deweyonpoint5765 Thank you for the wisdom. I'd really like to be with her, but I haven't looked at it that way before as you explained. Thanks for the perspective. God bless.
We know from 1 Corinthians that love is patient 😁 just be there for her and be her friend for now. Ive gone through a similar experience as her and healing and Jesus is definitely what she needs right now. If it’s in Gods will you two are together he’ll bring you guys in union in his perfect timing!
@sarahwweber Sorry you went through a similar experience. Definitely not easy. I guess for me it's just really hard not knowing one way or another, but that's where faith comes in. Anyways, thanks for the encouragement and advice. I really appreciate it. And yes, love is patient. I definitely need to remember that.
It sounds like yes, healing is what she needs and wants! But that also hinders movement forward for you and her. Only time will tell and God will answer through what happens. Don't close other options if another woman is great. Shutting down other women is dangerous if you want one specific woman. You need to decide if you are willing to wait. As you wait, you will eventually see other great options or not. I would say right now move on, be content just being a friend, shes made it clear she is not wanting a relationship so that may not leave room for you both to get to know eachother either. God is good, God bless
Thank you so much Lord Jesus Christ for restoration in my marriage with my husband Floyd
I loved someone with all my heart and was to be married, but I was too needy and pushed them away. I tried my best and was good intention but I made mistakes and they left me. This was right before the Covid pandemic and I did not get to see them again.
I felt such guilt and pain for two years and then prayed I would see them again to apologise. And low and behold that very week they were sat alone on a bench on my path to work eating lunch. I sat with them and was able to say sorry and get their forgiveness. We got along as old friends but sadly they didn’t show interest in restarting. I felt better for a time and then I had some hardships and sadness.. so I prayed again, I needed to see them again and have them back in my life. And the very next day I did, from a bus window and they were with someone new, smiling and happy.
My heart was destroyed and I thought it was a cruel joke. For two weeks. At which point I realised something. God had given me the chance to make peace. God had given me the time and solitude to work on myself and overcome my dependence on another. God had helped my ex and made them smile again. And God had shown me that it was time to forgive myself and move on. I prayed a third time, it was selfish but I asked for a blessing and good fortune for me.
And now a month later I have met someone new after 3 long years of hurt. In that time I have been promoted in my job. I have gained confidence. A much better understanding of love and attachment. I was taught lessons and I grew. And while I will not presume the new relationship is the one nor ever rule out reconciliation with my ex, I feel strongly that this is Gods plan for me right now. My faith was tested and throughout these years I haven’t always felt him, but whenever I’ve asked he’s given me what I needed ☺️.
You are my spiritual mentor. Thank you for taking time to follow God’s Word.
May the good Lord Jesus CHRIST BLESS your heart ♥ AMEN
My exes mean a lot to me though I know they might not know it. I’ve grown a lot slowly through each heart break. Maybe even more it what I’ve learned about myself after all of it. When I come up I will bring them up with me because they are good people who have been dealt hard hands. My hand hasn’t been easy but I’m waking up to my greater mission in life.
Ps: I talk to them a few times of year atleast.
She has to love the Lord our God as I do AMEN!!!
Thank you for sharing this amazing message now I'm understand I feel it know ...thank you lord AMEN 🙏🙏🙏
Uncle Mark, always on time. God bless you 🙏
I ignore them all the time. Especially, for the guy who turned out to be married.
So true, I keep my feelings strong since the right time matters
Thank you God for another day, amen 🙏♥️🙏 Your will be done, it's in your hands. Amen 🙏♥️🙏
Precisely on time man. dang. Thank you.
MARK, your precision in covering a subject is amazing. Now all I have to do is sort out and clarify the ideas you have presented. Thanks for being there. - john
So glad this was useful John! All glory to God!
Also you can be attracted to someone to fulfill parental woundings… sometimes the longing for a romantic relationship is to fix old hurts we often aren’t aware of to be seen, heard, loved, accepted, valued etc… I think sometimes when you can’t let go of a person it’s also leading you to old wounds that need healing.
I know this is the case with me and one big reason why i crave true closeness with someone and acceptance and all that you have stated. Because i never got that from my own family and i live in constant wounds from them, old and in present too. It never ends and never gets better 😰😥 but i never found that one person for relationship who will give me all i never got from them. I doubt i ever will honestly. It's very sad and painful
@@Anonymous-gt1eq i feel you. Its me also. Very me.
Im living alone, trying to survive myself with unstable income.
And is still longing for someone to come back home even if I know there's a little chance. That person is my biggest love of my life I cant find it from another. I disappoint myself.
@@swordstifyfolk5032 You mean u are looking for a life partner?💜🙏🙏😔
@@Anonymous-gt1eq yes,because after my divorce,I wanted to have and be with someone but unfortunately,it isnt what I expected to be since my current partner's estranged wyf wont set him free. They're no longer together for such a long tym,she dont love him anymore but wont agree for a divorce.
I just cant move on even if im trying to accept the fact and forget about us,he isnt willing to break up with me but its too complicated for us.
@@swordstifyfolk5032 Yeah I understand. Maybe he will be able to divorce her...If not and you want to marry him and cannot, or do not want to live with him unless he gets a divorce first...Maybe u will find someone else. I don't know, you know what's best for you 💖
Hope you resolve the issues and do what's best for you
😭😭😭😭😭 i really needed this still sending tears 😭😭 thankyou for this video
Thank you I needed this! #4 is me
I know one thing, if your intentions are kind, and if you truely want that person, God will make a way for you and them to be together. Just know that, God loves everyone, and respects everyone’s wishes.
I also believe if you fornicated with that person you'll have feelings you cant get rid of hence why we're asked to guard our heart and wait until marriage. ❤
Yes, it's called a soul tie...& they can be hard to break.
I didn't cry over my exwife not one single time, I cried over this girl I had been with for four months and we never had sex, This is a false statement.
True…100%
This is false
I’m working in getting over someone I was in love with. I don’t want to feel these feelings anymore, but I’ll be patient and wait.
I need to understand this now before it's too late.
Sometimes God is using those feelings to make a drastic change in you and your heart or the other person's.
9 years?
@@freespiritpearl89 Sometimes, yes. 30 for me. And I would never have believed where I ended up. It was worth every bit of it. I wouldn't have the knowledge or skills I have now if it weren't for it either. Not saying it doesn't feel screwed up, but how can I argue with things I barely understand. I couldn't have done better, I know that much.
I went thru a very long abusive relationship. A year after this ended I got in a relationship with a wonderful man. Had strong wonderful feelings for him and him for me. A year into our relationship he was killed. I asked God why give us these feelings just for him to be taken away. Asking for peace and healing. Still feel the loss, the loneliness, and heart broken
My heart breaks for you. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
Praying for you ❤
True i kept praying to remove him but i think has the reason for me to stay loving him.
This is great, thank you❤ I needed this.
I had someone which I had a connection with for 5 years. We would always bump into each other all the time. Until the last year where I explained to him and apologized for not expressing my feelings back then. Then I stopped bumping into him.
I just need strong prayer regarding a tough heartache I have been going through. There was a man that stepped in my life 5 years ago but after knowing the real truth, he turned not very Godly. I still have feelings as much as I cannot find more friends to connect with. It's hard spending Christmas alone for the past 5 years after my separation from my longtime boyfriend. However, this situation has left me confused, and lonely. Please pray for God's clear direction and to make something brighter than what has been sinking me below the surface.
@Marlene
He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.
Psalm 147:3
"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future"
Jeremiah 29:11
"In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”
John 16:33b
I'm sorry you've been going through such hard times
Our God is faithful,He will show you the path He has for you
I'm praying for you my friend
❤️
Get involved in a church close to you, seek advice from elders of the church, attend every Sunday and God will work through your life. Having good christian community is a must for everyone. it can be hard but trust God that he will bring godly people in your life and you won't be lonely on christmas anymore! God bless
He’s plan is better than my plan I believe
Thank you, I really resonated with this video.
This is so practical, yet so good! Even before you got to your fourth point, I was thinking you might go in that direction. I know I've mentioned before that I need prayer, but my mind and brain are a mine field, and I find myself getting confused at times(that autistic swing) yet thankfully, I am depending on God more than ever to keep a pure mind and heart.
God bless as you keep close to the Lord!