God Is NOT Removing Your Feelings for a Man Because . . .

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  • čas přidán 31. 12. 2023
  • Why won't God take away your feelings for a man? Here are 4 possible reasons for why God is not removing a woman's feelings for a man she really likes.
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Komentáře • 373

  • @dama_shares
    @dama_shares Před 4 měsíci +254

    Anyone who’s experiencing strong feelings for someone, you’re not alone❤

    • @schoolofenlightenment8449
      @schoolofenlightenment8449 Před 3 měsíci +3

      I became so helpless after meeting somone..his thoughts are constantly on my mind why why 😓😓😓

    • @SueEllenSmith-ju4ot
      @SueEllenSmith-ju4ot Před 2 měsíci +1

      time.... follow, God knows best

    • @maybetts4662
      @maybetts4662 Před měsícem

      @@schoolofenlightenment8449 this happened to me a few months ago. I couldn't stop thinking about him and was experiencing much heartache and sorrow. I was completely lost in him and all I wanted was just to see him. I suffered for a few months, then realised I didn't want to be miserable anymore. Yesterday I decided I would go back to the happiness I had before I met him. I remembered how I felt - free and at peace, and have now returned to that freedom. I am feeling so much better - no more craving for him, no more attachment, and back to my natural and happier self. I hope this helps ❤

    • @maybetts4662
      @maybetts4662 Před měsícem

      @@schoolofenlightenment8449 how are you now?

  • @sylvie060
    @sylvie060 Před 5 měsíci +411

    So many times I thought he was the "one" and he wasn't. Looking back, I've always been glad that it wasn't, the next is always better. What IS meant for you will not pass you by.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Před 4 měsíci +19

      I wouldn't say the next one. I've had many next ones. This time it's going to be the ONE God chooses.

    • @PoppyMogorosi
      @PoppyMogorosi Před měsícem

      I for one no longer knows what to believe, I'm exhausted because men are the ones who needs to persue us .

  • @P55999
    @P55999 Před 3 měsíci +111

    Don't believe everything, you see/read on the internet. If a man wants to be with you, he will let you know, its that simple.

  • @carlaandrews1110
    @carlaandrews1110 Před 6 měsíci +157

    WoW!!! 2024, God remove anything thats not like u! Help me to wait on u Lord God🙏

  • @juanderuano8969
    @juanderuano8969 Před 3 měsíci +213

    Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

    • @juanderuano8969
      @juanderuano8969 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @juanderuano8969
      @juanderuano8969 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @vkayysmoto
      @vkayysmoto Před 3 měsíci +10

      A little advice idk wat u did to push her away but keep chasing her. Woman want to feel like the only one. They wanna be chased by someone they love. Unles your relationship was very toxic then from experience she probably mentally checked out a long time before she actually ended the relationship with you and it will take a lot of work for her to feel like she might let u back in again.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Před 3 měsíci +4

      5 years is too long. Why didn't he marry her. I got two words. SOUL TIE.

    • @angelinacerna
      @angelinacerna Před 3 měsíci +13

      Pray to Jesus! Enter a fast. Give the Lord your petition. You're in a vulnerable situation and only He can help you right now.

  • @andreajorden1706
    @andreajorden1706 Před 6 měsíci +254

    I'm empowered not to chase, call or text. My heart is mending yet my mind is still on this " man of faith" that found & pursued me. I thought God lead him to me.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  Před 6 měsíci +41

      God bless as you seek the Lord's leading!

    • @shonnyboyy5284
      @shonnyboyy5284 Před 6 měsíci +2

      He didn’t

    • @shonnyboyy5284
      @shonnyboyy5284 Před 6 měsíci +11

      Don’t gaslight yourself

    • @Tatianarain
      @Tatianarain Před 6 měsíci +9

      @@shonnyboyy5284God told you that himself? About another person’s life and not yours?😂 rough

    • @hadassaheritage
      @hadassaheritage Před 6 měsíci +10

      With you my friend. Many messages had felt from the Lord, and I was extremely careful as I didn't want to be hurting as I am now.

  • @EOGW826
    @EOGW826 Před 6 měsíci +243

    There was a time ⌚ when I was interested in a guy and we basically had "small talks" over a year's time. Eventually, he stopped coming around me and communication. I was confused! I was like...God, what happened? The spirit of God said, "allow him to pursue you then you will know." Well, that was 10 years ago and nothing has changed. I not only had to move on physically but mentally and emotionally as well. A soul tie was formed and it not sexual! God revealed to me how my desire of wanting to be with this guy consumed me!!! After praying 🙏🏾 and fasting, I no longer have any interest in him because he is my brother in Christ and not a crush. Yep, God told me that also. All praises to the Most High God for my deliverance and breakthrough!!! 😭🙏🏾🙌🏾 Thanks Mark for sharing this powerful message.

    • @Billy-bc8pk
      @Billy-bc8pk Před 6 měsíci +10

      That's an interesting development; it's good you were able to move on. And good you were able to recognise his actual role in your life without it being what you thought it was.

    • @madeleinee7
      @madeleinee7 Před 6 měsíci +9

      well this catched me. i can relate with the soul tie soo bad. i have a crush on a very beautiful soul and if feels like a heartache when he says goodbye after the shift (we work at the same place) i really enjoy talking to him and we share the same humour. i only want what God has for me.. i feel like i should make the first move but this video helped me to realise i should give it more time and pray even more about him. thank u for ur story, may God bless u ♡

    • @tabbylove86
      @tabbylove86 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Same situation right now.but he touched me and it made me uncomfortable since I had an emotional tie with him,not physical.he is my twin flame.but I am traumatised so much that I want to press charges.its never going to happen.bit I am trama bonded and when I see his face i just want to love him so much.god why are you doing this to me

    • @fawn_the_fairy5721
      @fawn_the_fairy5721 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Can relate to this in some aspects but esp. with the (non-sexual) “soul tie”

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Před 4 měsíci +1

      ​I went thru something similar with my ex. Trauma bond. He was a witch though. This man probably put a spell on you. I'm here to support you. God will help you.

  • @kareenashavonne4308
    @kareenashavonne4308 Před 4 měsíci +57

    I actually do want to move on from these feelings, it’s hard , so imma just pray on it , God knows best 🙏🏻

  • @bekkah7618
    @bekkah7618 Před 6 měsíci +70

    “In the end if you do follow God faithfully. You will be able to look back in those past trials went through be able to see that God really knows best” 👏

  • @zbros.journey3848
    @zbros.journey3848 Před 5 měsíci +147

    I thought it was because God wants me to stay with the person but then I realised it was TRAUMA BOND from a narcissistic abuse.

    • @PoojaG_PG
      @PoojaG_PG Před 3 měsíci +5

      Underrated comment. ❤❤❤❤

    • @tonneliahayes9420
      @tonneliahayes9420 Před 3 měsíci +5

      I thought I was the only person experiencing this!

    • @Kristylynnlong
      @Kristylynnlong Před 2 měsíci

      Agree 😢

    • @Unknownuserhtps
      @Unknownuserhtps Před 2 měsíci

      See if they change after some time, weeks or months
      People change

  • @thesoulfoodpodcast
    @thesoulfoodpodcast Před 6 měsíci +86

    “God knows best.” I trust you Lord 🙏🏾

  • @dietmode847
    @dietmode847 Před 5 měsíci +31

    Let the feelings be, by observing it. You are not your emotions

  • @Cheedynma
    @Cheedynma Před 6 měsíci +168

    This message is for me!! I just had a convo along this topic with a friend today, and I’ve decided to move on and let God do His thing🙌

  • @kimbae11
    @kimbae11 Před 6 měsíci +71

    This was definitely one of my prayers to let go of. I received a message from him 12 am New Year’s Day after not talking to him for about a week and a half. I just seem to can’t get him out of mind. But I am currently fasting praying to God to cease my lust of my flesh from ppl, places, and things. I will actively to continue to live my life but be patient to see what God will is for this connection.

  • @xcobyxzei
    @xcobyxzei Před 6 měsíci +96

    I have continuous feelings for a non Christian. It sucks! But I’m reminding myself to put God first daily ❤

    • @Gill-linto
      @Gill-linto Před 6 měsíci +10

      So difficult for you, I'm praying for you as I've been in your situation a few times 🙏🏼🤗

    • @sheryllknapp9803
      @sheryllknapp9803 Před 6 měsíci +24

      Pray for his salvation. We are called to pray for the salvation of others. Why not pray for someone you care about?

    • @xcobyxzei
      @xcobyxzei Před 6 měsíci +4

      @@Gill-lintothanks that’s very sweet of you ❤

    • @linal3489
      @linal3489 Před 6 měsíci +18

      First time ever I truly felt in love with someone. The only issue is that he's not a christian, although he thinks he is but he doesn't live a christian lifestyle. I started praying for his salvation and leaving for God to do the rest.

    • @sheryllknapp9803
      @sheryllknapp9803 Před 6 měsíci +16

      @@linal3489 yes, the Holy Spirit is the only One who can change a person.

  • @jescapaulo6298
    @jescapaulo6298 Před 6 měsíci +36

    Currently going through this but I am trusting that God is in control

  • @Jam00130
    @Jam00130 Před 5 měsíci +19

    He hasn’t contacted me in almost 5 months now. I try my best to meet new people and move on from him, but I just can’tttt. Sometimes I even pray to God to help me not look back but I just end up think about him more and more. I don’t know what to do anymore I am so tired mentally and emotionally

    • @mariahnicole5332
      @mariahnicole5332 Před měsícem

      I will be praying for you❤

    • @crestalee6968
      @crestalee6968 Před 16 dny

      I'm sorry that is happening to you. Spend time knowing Jesus more and love Him more. Remind yourself that your purpose on Earth is far more than being with a person. It's running this race of life for a crown that doesn't rust nor be stolen and grabbing as many people as you can to run toward the same goal. Run to Jesus.

  • @walkingministries5803
    @walkingministries5803 Před 6 měsíci +165

    As I’m listening to this and being two minutes in, you’re absolutely right!!! This is why it’s important to hear from the Holy Spirit because he will guide and lead us into his will for us. The Holy Spirit will definitely reveal whether someone should wait or not because I’ve had the Lord tell me to be still and know that he is God. Many times God will give us a vision but it’s for an appointed time. Anyone reading this I would recommend you to fast and pray and the lord will align you in his will and purpose. Close out the voices of others and go to your Heavenly Father for confirmation ❤ I’m a living testimony that God can absolutely show you who your future spouse it. Stay connected to your father. He has a perfect will for you.

  • @lindaedgar5897
    @lindaedgar5897 Před 6 měsíci +45

    No he's not. God had a True genuine Godly kingdom spouse for me. The feelings are Mutual between Man & Woman. It's not a one way street. No more wolves in sheep's clothing. Having the form of Godliness but denial the power within this is Scriptual & Biblical. No more fake or flakes. No more Pharisees nor pretenders.🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😅😅😅😅😅😅. Thank you Lord.

  • @confusedwhynot
    @confusedwhynot Před 4 měsíci +6

    I am just praying for God to direct my path forward. I need peace!!!

  • @lindaedgar5897
    @lindaedgar5897 Před 6 měsíci +50

    God has saved me. Thank you Lord you have a better person for me. Amen.

  • @geieffect6698
    @geieffect6698 Před 4 měsíci +12

    God truly knows who is right for us' Amen ❤

  • @raquelhernandez6190
    @raquelhernandez6190 Před 5 měsíci +13

    I just pray that god will heal me from that guy. Give me strength to move on and let go. I just leave it in gods hand . I am thankful for bringing him into my life. Thank god for the good and bad. 😊

    • @NicoleBeepath
      @NicoleBeepath Před 5 měsíci

      Before this I watched two videos of a psychologist dealing with a couple that should not be engaged and a man miserable in a marriage he felt forced into. Then this came video follows. I get it loud and clear God! 😂

  • @ndinaselma7967
    @ndinaselma7967 Před 4 měsíci +26

    I actually thought I was alone in this but after reading some comments I’ve just realize that there is a lot going on, father save us, I have feelings for a guy that just does not wana go away, I have asked god several times that father if this feelings are not from you please remove this man from my mind I at times feel exhausted, when I wake up the next morning boom! this guy is back in my mind
    I am glad I came across this video, I’m understanding things on a different level now, Atleast it will take away the exhaustion and make me wait a little longer, god will never leave us nor forsake us

  • @sell3100
    @sell3100 Před 6 měsíci +12

    Just as I'm looking to move on from this guy friend...THIS comes up!

  • @80sbabyruth
    @80sbabyruth Před 6 měsíci +32

    Right on time message, thank you Mark🙏🏾 Happy New Year all! God is going to bless exceeding and abundantly above all we could think. Keep pressing towards the mark. God will never leave or forsake us! Praise be to God!❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @GDaEssence
    @GDaEssence Před 6 měsíci +25

    Thank you! 🙌🏾 I always tell women to get a man’s perspective when it comes to relationships and understanding men’s behavior. We have a tendency to run to our girlfriends and it’s the blind leading the blind! Lol! Thank you for the biblical references as well to help us moving forward according to God’s Word and will! Glory to God! 🙌🏾😊 I wish I could like this video more than once! 😄
    Happy New Year to you and your family, Mark! 🎊💕

  • @CyclingKCV
    @CyclingKCV Před 6 měsíci +10

    Perfect timing for my current situation. God knew and brought me to your video ministry. Bless you for what you bring to us!

  • @kimvroom310
    @kimvroom310 Před 6 měsíci +2

    THANK YOU Brother Mark!! ❤️🙏✨️ For this clarity 🙏🙏🙏🤍 God bless you ministry🙏🤍✨️

  • @jelenahristov4094
    @jelenahristov4094 Před 6 měsíci +11

    The video is right on time. I have romantic feelings for this guy for more than a year, I was inviting towards him and I am still waiting for him to pursue me. But then again, maybe God wants me to give up on him and move on. I am a little confused but I am hoping and praying God has a right man for me in His time.

  • @user-on7mj6bd8p
    @user-on7mj6bd8p Před 5 měsíci +1

    Wow ! This completely resonates with me . Good guidelines!
    😊

  • @VonnaBlessed
    @VonnaBlessed Před 6 měsíci +23

    God knows best..looking back I realize God SAVED me..Amen 🙏

  • @Reidanders
    @Reidanders Před 5 měsíci +1

    This came up on my CZcams feed just when I need it the most.

  • @mookeystinks190
    @mookeystinks190 Před 6 měsíci +9

    Thank you God! This is what I needed to think about. Great videos!❤

  • @christinajacobson82
    @christinajacobson82 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Trust God only and don’t rely on your own understanding. Also be careful when you pray the devil is also listening. 🙌🏼💜

  • @lindamolyneux3536
    @lindamolyneux3536 Před 5 měsíci

    This really speaks to me and will help so many! Thank you for your quality and Word-of God sharings!

  • @josephross7936
    @josephross7936 Před 6 měsíci +12

    I wish I saw this 1 or 2 years ago (as a guy). I try to pursue my crush but never got a green light to date her. I understand she probably was getting over her college relationship but could've been a little more persistent. Try to get over her now after hear of her engagement.
    I start to make changes in Dec. after hear about the news to improve myself starting in 2024 (new job) and hopefully the right partner come in the upcoming days or weeks.

  • @godswordevangelism
    @godswordevangelism Před 5 měsíci +5

    However, we must also remember that God has given us free will and a man might be feeling deep feelings for a woman but he could be choosing to run from those feelings because he's scared. Past relationship traumas may be causing him to not be willing to reciprocate for fear of getting hurt.

  • @erengee8778
    @erengee8778 Před 3 měsíci

    Just what I needed to hear. Thank you and thank God for you.

  • @LadyAwesome03
    @LadyAwesome03 Před 4 měsíci +4

    I have emotionally let go of him but there’s always been a bit of feelings that remain and keep growing… i speak to other people and it doesn’t last long before my heart longs for him deep down. But I refuse to connect with him if he’s on the low vibrational level he’s on at the moment. I pray for myself in this connection and tell god I trust him with any destiny he has for me. What is meant for me will come. Who is meant for me will surface. And I shall not turn anyone down who I see a potential future with

  • @jessabelles2875
    @jessabelles2875 Před 2 měsíci +1

    This is very helpful in my current situation. Thank you!

  • @MaryellenS.13
    @MaryellenS.13 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Where together for 7 years. I saw red flags 🚩 I put him in the Friend zone because of these, but continued for a few more years to enjoy his company as a friend.
    I walked away in April of 2022 when I saw no changes happening with the red flags….
    Now, almost 2 years later I still sob cry 😭 almost every day and I’m more than heart sick and heart broken 💔 without him. I so loved every thing about him except for the red flags 🚩 that were more than apparent.
    I have been praying for God to boldly show him these red flags, and heavily convict him to change them for good, and to come back to me 💔❤️‍🩹❤️‍🔥❤️

  • @user-xn7pt5op4k
    @user-xn7pt5op4k Před 6 měsíci +10

    I can't help but bless him in small ways. I would regardless of how he feels about me. He is so awesome. He walks in the spirit so seamlessly. There is no man better than him. I have peace when he is around.

  • @salmabeevi1987
    @salmabeevi1987 Před 2 měsíci

    I seriously LOVE this..Thank you sir for giving me a wonderful insight..Having strong feelings for a man who doesnt reciprocate

  • @user-vj7jd9ui5u
    @user-vj7jd9ui5u Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thank you for this. I still think of him everyday but Your advice is wise. I shall cast my faith on God.

  • @gloriaray3084
    @gloriaray3084 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Thank you that's conformations for me I needed that word today.

  • @Elizabeth-hj5sx
    @Elizabeth-hj5sx Před 5 měsíci +1

    Thank you, much appreciated message!

  • @desireerichardson5644
    @desireerichardson5644 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I was like this video isn’t for me. Then number 4 showed up 😅😅 I feel called out

  • @ISing4Jesus6353
    @ISing4Jesus6353 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Wow! So true! Since this man has told me he is not attracted to me that way I have totally stepped away…trusting God. However, it’s been difficult since we attend the same church and see each other every Sunday and every Wednesday in choir practice. But I’m totally committed to the Lord’s will and have tried sitting away from him at all times. But it is he who is always initiating conversations at church and through text and phone calls.

    • @Billy-bc8pk
      @Billy-bc8pk Před 6 měsíci +14

      That's a weird situation. If he's not attracted to you that way and has no plans to move things forward, maybe you should put a hard stop on his behaviour?

    • @pj9425
      @pj9425 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Wasting your time. Next...

    • @sell3100
      @sell3100 Před 4 měsíci +5

      Stop answering his calls and stop responding to texts, emails, IM's etc.
      Show him that you're a high value woman who will not settle for crumbs and scraps.

  • @beautysecrets6395
    @beautysecrets6395 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Thank you for this beautyful video ❤

  • @Abigail-cj6dn
    @Abigail-cj6dn Před 6 měsíci +10

    I haven’t been able to get the same guy out of my mind for years (at least not for very long,he always comes back). We’ve never had anything other than being friends. I started talking to another guy who I like but that got complicated. 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @user-ht6id1qe1j
    @user-ht6id1qe1j Před 2 měsíci

    I feel peace when hearing the answer of 4.. Is mean maybe that the right answer for my issue.. Thanks God 😊❤

  • @tinag8774
    @tinag8774 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you for this message
    Amen 🙏🙌🙏

  • @arizakarlekr9897
    @arizakarlekr9897 Před 5 měsíci

    Just what I need to hear today.Thank u

  • @ariannecornell6270
    @ariannecornell6270 Před 5 měsíci +2

    This video is very timely and experiencing it right now...i fell inlove with this man and accepted him despite of what he was before we met...i shared Jesus to him in our daily conversation, we do devotional and pray...12 days being in a relationship he decided to go on a rehab as what i always asked for him but 4 months now he's out from the rehab and haven't heard anything from him we lost our communication...and now i was trying to move on from him but still love him and it's hard to let go my feelings towards him😢

    • @confidence9078
      @confidence9078 Před 5 měsíci

      If he is not born again, please do not enter any type of marriage relationship with him. God is displeased when His child marries a non believer.

  • @RS-bn1ty
    @RS-bn1ty Před 3 měsíci +2

    Yup 3 years going strong now, I’m honestly sick of it 😂

  • @onlythetruth88_
    @onlythetruth88_ Před 3 měsíci

    4th point was 👌🏼 🔥

  • @rabiyarazaq5070
    @rabiyarazaq5070 Před 4 měsíci

    Wow! This explains why

  • @Kidicaruslover
    @Kidicaruslover Před 5 měsíci +7

    I prayed that I would be able to move on from someone who doesn’t pursue me. But the feelings are still there and very strong…He always wants to talk to me at work, would buy me small things, (snacks) buy lunch and share with me, texts me everyday, but when it comes to hanging out outside of work he says he’s just too busy or that he’s not ready yet and wants to pursue his goals in life. Just recently he told me he would take me to this cafe but I know he’s not going to actually do it…

    • @renitasaldanha8244
      @renitasaldanha8244 Před 5 měsíci +4

      @Kidicaruslover same thing happened with me. This man is not worth your feelings. I suggest you ignore him at workplace as well. Don't accept his gestures or the little things he gives you.

    • @pj9425
      @pj9425 Před 4 měsíci

      Has a gf?

    • @Kidicaruslover
      @Kidicaruslover Před 4 měsíci

      @@pj9425 he doesn’t. His last serious relationship his gf cheated on him and this was like 3ish 4 years ago.

  • @BibleJourneyMinistries
    @BibleJourneyMinistries Před 6 měsíci +3

    An answered prayer.

  • @user-ix8ff7ik1r
    @user-ix8ff7ik1r Před 6 měsíci +1

    Happy new year ❤ y'all..and thank you for the word Mark 🙏may God continue blessing u abundantly and exceedingly

  • @Anggg8708
    @Anggg8708 Před 6 měsíci +10

    prayed about this on NYE…thank you ❤

  • @aquafina6544
    @aquafina6544 Před 4 měsíci

    It's been 10 yrs and he keeps coming back playing in my face

  • @christalhardy8771
    @christalhardy8771 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for this insight

  • @shannonsaunders8229
    @shannonsaunders8229 Před 4 měsíci

    Thanks for the information.❤

  • @Amberkay862
    @Amberkay862 Před 5 měsíci

    I really needed to hear this! New subscriber! 💛💛

  • @janellafrancisco2151
    @janellafrancisco2151 Před 6 měsíci +10

    Happy New Year Mark and to your fam! Thanks for doing what you do! Your videos are always helpful 🤍

  • @autism_mommy_3t
    @autism_mommy_3t Před 6 měsíci +3

    HAPPY NEW YEAR.
    Thanks for creating these videos. As I'm sitting here in silence and prayed for God's direction about a relationship, your video shows up randomly. Is it a sign from God?
    I don't know, but I will patiently wait for more direction and stand in faith.

  • @destinixshakur
    @destinixshakur Před 6 měsíci +14

    Mark, I just don’t see this generation being a generation for marriage , love etc . Especially being a blak women …. I just don’t see a man caring enough about me that much . I have marriage as a desire but I just don’t believe these men in my generation will ever want to be that traditional man . Honestly, I just want GOD to take all this from my heart . I don’t want the desire because it comes with too much pain

    • @Joy_M507
      @Joy_M507 Před 6 měsíci +8

      Don’t lose hope, sister. I’m 35, never married with no children, so I understand the concerns of never having my desires met. But I’m remaining faithful that God is able to provide me with a husband if He wills. What looks impossible to us isn’t for God. I respect your stance but I’m truly praying you do not lose hope or the desire for marriage. Continue waiting on The LORD. His timing is perfect. God bless! 💜

    • @Billy-bc8pk
      @Billy-bc8pk Před 6 měsíci +1

      It's not that men don't want to be traditional (they do) it's that women don't want to be traditional (most don't). You have to look at it from the perspective of the man -- what happens if you get bored, find someone better, or decide to divorce for whatever reason? Everything he worked hard for to build up is taken away or destroyed, and now the time he invested in himself and in you are all gone. There are a LOT of men suffering through this right now, so most men (including myself) have checked completely out of the dating and potential marriage scene, because realistically there are no upsides for us, but tons of risks.

    • @user-mg1no2ux5g
      @user-mg1no2ux5g Před 6 měsíci +7

      ​@@Billy-bc8pk
      More context is needed: As someone who is a generation older, at that time it definitely was men who would not stick long with a girl/woman who would not sleep with him fairly quickly. This included so called "nice guys".
      The young women who could not be pressured into sleeping with men quickly found out no man was going to stick around and she was on her own.
      So, she needed to focus on a career an/or go to college etc. She had to depend on herself.
      Meanwhile, it was not uncommon for these guys to get someone pregnant, when they went with a girl/woman who would sleep with them easily.
      At the time, the pressure still was on to actually marry a woman who got pregnant.
      These marriages often did not go well and ended in divorce, with a whole lot of dysfunction during and in the aftermath. Many men reaped what they sowed.
      So a generation of men rejecting good women led to a subsequent generation of Red Pill woes, and older Red Pill men not acknowledging that it was not women rejecting good guys in favor of bad boys, but many if not most guys rejecting good girls and going for whomever was easy that got the ball rolling in the wrong direction.

    • @sixteen.candles.4644
      @sixteen.candles.4644 Před 5 měsíci +2

      ​@@Joy_M507 The key word is if God wills.

    • @Joy_M507
      @Joy_M507 Před 5 měsíci

      @@sixteen.candles.4644 Amen!

  • @kiasing9731
    @kiasing9731 Před 4 měsíci

    I needed to hear this ❤

  • @blessedsoul949
    @blessedsoul949 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I have feelings for this man an ex of mine...we fellowship in the same church...I have prayed to God so many times to take the feelings away but it's like they keep getting stronger.We don't communicate/interact much but whenever we do or I see him I always feel this excitement within me and my heart beats fast.I often find myself thinking about him and even dream about him at night.Someone else is interested in me but I don't seem to love them,my mum also disapproved of us dating.Am quite confused at the moment.I pray for God's leading in this matter 🙏🙏

  • @realmucoy
    @realmucoy Před 2 měsíci

    I really liked what you said about, is he showing God like qualities. I think that's an important part and a great way to distinguish if this is someone you're really meant to be with. My person does not believe in God but yet exhibits God like qualities to myself and others. So although I'm waiting, I know he is my future husband. I appreciate what you shared and it only further validated my experience and feelings around the situation.

  • @imbonnie
    @imbonnie Před 3 měsíci +1

    notice that no one in the comments said they just waited longer and everything changed? Most are still waiting.

    • @daffodil4500
      @daffodil4500 Před 2 měsíci

      They are tied up in the spirit realm to a spirit spouse and videos like these won't ever help them notice that and bring them deliverance. That's so sad and unfortunate.

  • @penguinfreak1002
    @penguinfreak1002 Před 5 měsíci

    Good advice

  • @Pray24
    @Pray24 Před 2 měsíci

    So good yes God is good

  • @user-ix8ff7ik1r
    @user-ix8ff7ik1r Před 6 měsíci +4

    Still struggling to get over a less serious christian 😔

  • @__.angel1111.__
    @__.angel1111.__ Před 4 měsíci

    3:13 Makes sense. “He wants those feelings in you to motivate you to do something to spark his interest and pursue”

  • @lupecruz269
    @lupecruz269 Před 3 měsíci

    Your absolutely right Maybe it's not the right time but the right man of course he is humble everything about him is just right

  • @FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz
    @FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz Před 3 měsíci

    Seriously this message is about me... exactly what is happening to me now and am indirectly doing something that he is pursuing me but i won't know about my actions until he talks about it. sometimes I really feel exhausted wanting to let go of the feelings, praying, leaning back, deleting his numbers etc..booms he will appear and make me angry an talk to him instantly.. although am still letting God's to lead me and also make him to commit to me if he's really the One because I don't really know what he really wants.

  • @ariane123ization
    @ariane123ization Před 6 měsíci +27

    He broke up with me even though God gave me words that confirmed and continue to confirming that he is my person. Sometimes I question if I heard the Lord correctly because one year and a few months has passed and he hasn't gotten back and nothing happened ... I'm tired emotionally, tired of wait and I don't understand why do I still love him. Today i decided to let it go , guess it's the best decision for my mind cause I don't want to be stuck with this non-reciprocal love feeling

    • @Billy-bc8pk
      @Billy-bc8pk Před 6 měsíci +9

      People still have freedom of choice, and even if someone is supposed to be for you, they can still choose not to be with you, and it sounded like he simply chose not to be your person. It can happen, but it's good you chose to move on.

    • @ariane123ization
      @ariane123ization Před 6 měsíci +3

      @Billy-bc8pk You're totally right, that's why I decided to let it go

    • @sixteen.candles.4644
      @sixteen.candles.4644 Před 5 měsíci +3

      ​@Billy-bc8pk This is very true. We have freedom to choose.

  • @f.sjoyce646
    @f.sjoyce646 Před 4 měsíci

    Thanks, I was totally disturbed. I was waiting for the person whom I loved for the past 5 months, he never responded me so i was shattered and down . I couldn't distract myself or think of some else . Just wondering why he is quite... i got this encouraging msg at right time. Thank you

  • @OkJess0404
    @OkJess0404 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank God he sent me the amazing gift of my man I have now! He is always on time!

  • @dawnstonerock4253
    @dawnstonerock4253 Před 2 měsíci

    What about looking back and being glad you listened to God and waited for Him to move on your behalf with this man. ❤

  • @5erirox
    @5erirox Před 6 měsíci +3

    I am in this same situation but I just know I want him to be happy and strong in his relationship with God and I just want him to reciprocate in the long friendship we have had over the years. He does know he wasn’t a good friend to me this last few months but now is hearing me out and we talk from time to time but if I am the only one to reach out to him.

  • @zaraim6238
    @zaraim6238 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Happy New Year to you and your family, brother Mark! May the LORD bless you and continue to use you and grow your ministry! Thank you for these videos. God bless you! 🙏

  • @Chiyembekezo
    @Chiyembekezo Před 21 dnem

    Even if my crush pursued me, I’d be too scared to try. Too close to the family and it’d be messy and awkward if things went left. I know I was created with a spirit of power, love and sound mind so I’m taking this fear as me not being ready. Feelings feel, but I’m the master of my feelings not the other way round.
    Master, pilot my ship! ❤

  • @robertdouglas8895
    @robertdouglas8895 Před 6 měsíci +8

    1.God is not our puppeteer. ...Pinocchio-like.
    Ask God for wisdom so you can make the right decisions that determine your life.

  • @indigoTwilight1967
    @indigoTwilight1967 Před 6 měsíci +35

    Right when I make the resolution to not keep hoping for a relationship with the guy who I have feelings for, this video shows up.
    I'm still going to invite other guys who I know like me to pursue as I am tired of still loving a guy who can't love me back due to past wounds. It will be hard, but I know if I put action into other relationships, my thoughts about him will be pushed out and new love will form, God willing.
    Still praying that God's will be done. Please pray for me too in this new year.

  • @2thedivine944
    @2thedivine944 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Hi ladies this is very very hard because the enemy is tricky.. ask God to remove the feelings if you and this person fit any characteristics of a trauma bond!!! We have to fight against the flesh sometimes! You have to be willing and wanting to stop the feelings and continuously pray for it to go away, also worship in the process and say thank you in advance to give God the power to remove any lies!

    • @NikkaKriss
      @NikkaKriss Před 2 měsíci +1

      I 100% agree with you…not all connections are from God. Trauma bonds are real and exceptionally toxic and difficult to break. Some of these relationships also come to distract us from God’s purpose for our lives.
      I like to use God’s love for us, which is simple and safe, as a benchmark to determine if this love is truly of God.
      Any relationship that’s complicated, filled with waiting games and mind games are generally the ones to run (not walk) away from! Fast and pray to break heavy yokes the Bible says! Just my thoughts 🙏🏾

    • @2thedivine944
      @2thedivine944 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@NikkaKriss yesss the absence of Peace is a big NO NO.. Gods warning ‼️

    • @NikkaKriss
      @NikkaKriss Před 2 měsíci

      Amen!!!! 🙏🏾

    • @maryrice5873
      @maryrice5873 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@NikkaKrissobviously he's not talking about trauma bonds SMH

  • @Truth_teller724
    @Truth_teller724 Před 4 měsíci +1

    tysm for this video! there is a particular guy that has caught my eye for a few years now- he's originally from poland but is in the us rn for school. he's really cute and has a lot of masculine traits but his personality is kind of goofy, just based on the things i've seen from him (however, it also be very possible that he just acts like that around his school friends and acts completely different at home). he has a gf and has had one for a few yrs, but she lives in poland. he plans on proposing to her and marrying her after high school graduation (mind you, we're seniors). although i don;t know for sure whether or not he's a christian, i have a feeling he identifies as one and respects those who walk with the Lord, but he doesn't really do so himself. i've been trying to stop thinking abt him but i literally can't, i always have romantic daydreams abt him, specifically abt us getting married and having a family. i honestly don't know if it's even in the will of God for me to be with this guy, which means i should pray abt it more. He works in mysterious ways so it's good to gain more knowledge and discernment from Him. if he's not the guy for me, oh well, i won;t take it too personal bc ik God probably has someone better in store for me. if he is for me and i just have to wait, then i'll be more than willing to do that. i'm a patient woman. whatever is a part of God's will.

  • @cmbhalupowski
    @cmbhalupowski Před 6 měsíci +10

    No one’s gonna talk about it possibly be lust or witchcraft?

    • @lucyindaskyyy
      @lucyindaskyyy Před 2 měsíci

      This!!

    • @daffodil4500
      @daffodil4500 Před 2 měsíci

      Same thing I'm saying. These stories in the comments sounding like soul ties and spirit spouses. And I'm speaking from experience.

  • @purplebear445
    @purplebear445 Před 2 měsíci

    Omg I can relate . I was in love with someone who wasn’t ready for marriage for 4 yrs hoping that one day he will be ready and thinking I’d never want anyone else and god doesn’t have anyone else for me . But then recently his put someone better in my life and he is now actively pursuing marriage with me

  • @S_Blunt
    @S_Blunt Před 3 měsíci

    Sir, you are out of order. May God bless you and give you clarity about his Word and his promises

    • @maryrice5873
      @maryrice5873 Před 2 měsíci

      😮😮😮😮😮😮😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @AriBerry27
    @AriBerry27 Před 6 měsíci +7

    I am currently going through this.

  • @karronwyntercunningham1914
    @karronwyntercunningham1914 Před 3 měsíci

    I found this, I been trying to unloved my husband. After 18 years this is what I been praying for

  • @Wench1888
    @Wench1888 Před 4 měsíci

    I just don’t know what he wants from me and I pray God shows me 🙏❤️

  • @karenoyama8950
    @karenoyama8950 Před 4 měsíci

    Give me patience Lord, but hurry!

  • @elanna2392
    @elanna2392 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Will give time a bit longer... many signs I've seen about how he could be my future husband but reality is glaring that we have a huge significant age differences which could be hard to ignore. I will still cling on to be more patient about the possible connection.
    May God help me during the waiting period.. temptations to undertake my own will is creeping slowly in.. it scares me really😢

    • @Sacred.Charms
      @Sacred.Charms Před 5 měsíci +2

      I’m in the same boat 😅 sister we got this let’s pray, trust and wait on God!

  • @dianaaavula4306
    @dianaaavula4306 Před 6 měsíci +9

    Master I will be waiting for you still

  • @drippedinglory
    @drippedinglory Před 2 měsíci

    THANK YOU! Q