I had a miscarriage at 17 weeks pregnant || My miscarriage story

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  • čas přidán 19. 10. 2020
  • This video was hard to make but I felt like sharing my story might help someone who is going through this.

Komentáře • 49

  • @alanawilson3063
    @alanawilson3063 Před 3 lety +4

    You are so brave to share! It’s so hard but so many of us go through loss. I can’t imagine what you went through! Love ya girl!

  • @michelleswaggerty1479
    @michelleswaggerty1479 Před 3 lety +5

    I’m so sorry for your loss miscarriage sucks and I have been through it as well. I got pregnant in 2014 after I had a tubal reversal I was so excited. And then when I went to my 16 week appointment they checked for the heartbeat and he couldn’t find it. So then he did a ultrasound to find the heartbeat and there was no heartbeat I was devastated. So if you ever need to talk I’m always here. God bless

    • @thecloudninefamily788
      @thecloudninefamily788  Před 3 lety

      Thank you! Miscarriage is such a heartbreaking experience! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @elainelofgren9813
    @elainelofgren9813 Před 3 lety +3

    You are so so brave to share your story to help others maybe through their own troubling time. The twins are your double rainbow babies! Love you K!

  • @meli-lynnjensen3573
    @meli-lynnjensen3573 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for sharing your story. It was very brave and your ability to share this left me in awe. I've had two miscarriages. But never been able to out it into words. Thank you again.

    • @thecloudninefamily788
      @thecloudninefamily788  Před 3 lety

      Aww thank you for saying that! Miscarriage is such an awful experience and only someone who has been through it can understand the heartbreak. Hugs to you! 🥰❤️

  • @sjay3089
    @sjay3089 Před 2 lety

    Thank you thank you thank for sharing! My heart goes out to you. I’m really really sorry for your husband and you. 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @justinakhonje5665
    @justinakhonje5665 Před 3 měsíci

    I totally understand, I had my miscarriage at 17 weeks as well in January 2022 we had to rush to the hospital which was 30 mins away. It’s really rough going thru this type of stuff. That u for ur courage for sharing.

  • @johnplace1606
    @johnplace1606 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I'm sorry for your loss, 45 years ago we loss our baby at 18 weeks, I still morn for him. Your twins are beautiful!

    • @thecloudninefamily788
      @thecloudninefamily788  Před 10 měsíci

      Thank you 😊 I’m so sorry you experienced that as well. Such a heartbreaking loss

  • @RosiePosey5150
    @RosiePosey5150 Před 3 lety +1

    I'm so sorry sis I wished I could have been there for you. I love you and your whole amazing family.

  • @nutrirebyanaluarrivillaga2646

    I can’t believe they just sent you home 😭 I’m so sorry

  • @shapeborn7010
    @shapeborn7010 Před rokem +1

    I’m so upset with your hospital experience and the doctor sending you home even with you already having contractions and just saying expect a lot of blood. You were too far along. I went to the ER pregnant at 9 weeks and no heartbeat but I didn’t have contractions. I had very light spotting. Thank you for sharing your story. I know it’s very hard. Your experience was very traumatizing and I’m so glad you are ok.

  • @muchlove9781
    @muchlove9781 Před 2 lety +2

    Expected management at 17 weeks! That’s
    💯 negligence 😤

  • @Nini-tc4iu
    @Nini-tc4iu Před rokem

    I ‘ve experienced a pregnancy loss at 17 weeks two weeks ago. I delivered at the hospital after going through the ER. The nurses and doctors at my hospital were very supportive of me and my husband. I can’t believe they sent you home to have your baby😢 ❤

    • @thecloudninefamily788
      @thecloudninefamily788  Před rokem +1

      My condolences for your loss. Such a heartbreaking experience. Yes it was awful that they sent me home , I’ll never understand why.

  • @grammajackie1
    @grammajackie1 Před 3 lety +3

    This video made me cry and I wanted to stop watching but I wanted to respect the fact that you shared such a painful experience. So I watched to the end. It affected me profoundly. I am so sorry for your loss. So sorry to the both of you. Sending love.

    • @thecloudninefamily788
      @thecloudninefamily788  Před 3 lety

      Thank you for your heartfelt comment, it means so much to me! Sorry I made you cry! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @harrietoneal1187
    @harrietoneal1187 Před 2 lety

    I hate that this happened to your family you are so brave...

  • @lindsyc.4680
    @lindsyc.4680 Před rokem +3

    It infuriates me that the doctor sent you home to have your miscarriage that late in your pregnancy. He should have been reported and made to take classes to learn not to dismiss women. Thank God you had good family, friends and a good partner. I'm sorry this happened to you.

  • @muslima2611
    @muslima2611 Před 2 lety +1

    Going through this did you take pain medication? And how long from the time you felt the strong
    Pain to the time the baby came out

    • @thecloudninefamily788
      @thecloudninefamily788  Před 2 lety

      I did not take any pain medication until I got to the hospital after the baby came out, but before the placenta came out. I was having painful cramping for 3-4 hours before the baby came out and they continued for 2-3 more hours until the placenta came out. It was a very painful and traumatic experience!

    • @CBRRR-eh3ky
      @CBRRR-eh3ky Před 2 lety

      @@thecloudninefamily788 sorry for your traumatic experience. You are courageous.
      Question: so every miscarriage of 17 weeks old and more will necessarily lead to some type of intervenrion to remove the embryo and placenta?
      Is it possible to have a missed miscarriage being 18 weeks pregnant?

    • @thecloudninefamily788
      @thecloudninefamily788  Před 2 lety

      Hi, I’m honestly not sure the answer to your question. In my experience I did need help to get the placenta out.

  • @alyciamarie4163
    @alyciamarie4163 Před 2 lety +1

    This just happened to me last Saturday. I literally sat down and my babu fell out. I told my husband, dr, mother that the only way I could explain it was that the baby literally fell out of my body. I said it was graphic and almost inconceivable.

    • @thecloudninefamily788
      @thecloudninefamily788  Před 2 lety

      Oh no I’m so sorry for your loss 😔

    • @CBRRR-eh3ky
      @CBRRR-eh3ky Před 2 lety

      Sorry for your pain. At 16 weeks, did you just bleed or did you see something big and shocking such the foetus or noticeable embryo.

    • @reinawilson5551
      @reinawilson5551 Před 8 měsíci

      Wow I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my baby this last Saturday. October 28, 2023. I woke up with some spotting and 30 mis later my baby's feet just came out while I was sitting on the toilet throwing up. Ambulance came and rushed me to the hospital with my baby hanging out of me. My baby was born sleeping. 💔💔😭😭 I don't know how to cope with this. I feel like I failed my baby. I'm beyond broken. I have 4 other children. And I need to be strong for them. I just wish there was something I could have done so my baby would still be here.

  • @febshowers
    @febshowers Před 9 měsíci

    Wow! That ER doctor was an idiot for sending you home! How awful!

  • @100michoacan8
    @100michoacan8 Před 2 lety

    So sorry for your loss did u keep baby?

    • @thecloudninefamily788
      @thecloudninefamily788  Před 2 lety +1

      No, the hospital took him to do an autopsy and find out the cause of death which they later told us was undetermined, possibly an infection

    • @shapeborn7010
      @shapeborn7010 Před rokem

      That was my question was if you found out any causes. 🙏🏻

  • @dbyrre10
    @dbyrre10 Před rokem +1

    Oh ny god. Same Winther in 17 weekend. But They tools u’s in. Sovsorry

  • @Hermitas
    @Hermitas Před rokem

    🌹💕☀️❤️🌷💐🌼🙏

  • @mikita1166
    @mikita1166 Před 6 měsíci

    WTF I can't believe they sent you home to give birth as if you were a stray animal,You could have died from an infection in addition to the trauma they caused you I'm so sorry

  • @Happytown7523
    @Happytown7523 Před 2 lety +1

    Did you have the jab? I think I can assume based on your content