My Miscarriage At 16 Weeks | You are NOT alone! Miscarriage Awareness*

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  • čas přidán 3. 04. 2019
  • Thank you for watching my late missed miscarriage storytime. Sending love, positivity and baby dust to all of you who are going through something similar. My heart is with you.
    This video is intended to bring awareness and shed light on something so hidden, dark and taboo. If this has helped you at all, please reach out to me. I would love to hear from you.
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Komentáře • 112

  • @nicoleparisi7855
    @nicoleparisi7855 Před rokem +8

    Thank you for making this video. I just went through the same, and it’s so hard finding similar stories. So happy you have your rainbow babies ❤

  • @briseidab7615
    @briseidab7615 Před 2 lety +13

    I truly appreciate you for posting this! I just went through this 3 weeks ago & I’m still grieving. Thank you for helping me see this differently & giving me hope.

    • @mandipalermo
      @mandipalermo  Před 2 lety +5

      You don’t understand how much that means to me. That’s exactly why I wanted to share my experience. I’m so sorry that you have to experience this pain, it never fully goes away. I pray that your heart gets filled with joy again soon ❤️❤️❤️

  • @HayleyFocsan
    @HayleyFocsan Před 5 lety +3

    iSo sorry you had to go through this. so brave of you to share your story. Sending lots of love 💕

  • @champagnegardening5182
    @champagnegardening5182 Před rokem +18

    Thank you for sharing. No one talk about the emotions with a miscarriage. Also no one talks about the anxiety with a pregnancy after a loss.

    • @malloryevans3424
      @malloryevans3424 Před rokem

      Most definitely agree… I found out that I was pregnant on the 23rd of January and miscarried the 25th I am devastated that was my very first pregnancy. 😩🥺🥺🥺🥺

    • @zamirakargar736
      @zamirakargar736 Před rokem

      @@malloryevans3424 I’m so sorry it happened to you, unfortunately I had a miscarriage yesterday it was my 15 weeks and few days. I’m so broken I feel they took off my heart.

    • @Bossmommas83
      @Bossmommas83 Před rokem +1

      I'm 39 an lost 6 babies in two years I'm currently 13 weeks today praying 🙏 I get through this I'm high risk but baby looks good so far. Sorry for your loss

  • @heyitsgeorgia
    @heyitsgeorgia Před 5 lety +10

    i’m so sorry you had to go through this. so brave of you to share your story. sending love to you💕

    • @mandipalermo
      @mandipalermo  Před 5 lety

      Gee & Alex thank you so much for your kind words. I appreciate it ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ameliaarnold6815
    @ameliaarnold6815 Před rokem +18

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m 16 weeks pregnant and my biggest fear is a miscarriage. I’m so sorry and sad to hear your story but thank you so much for being brave and sharing with other mommas ❤

  • @tracyfalconer478
    @tracyfalconer478 Před rokem

    You are a very strong person. I pray for your continued joy and happiness Mandi. I learned a lot from you. Thanks.

  • @sydney2236
    @sydney2236 Před 3 lety

    thanks so much for sharing. i’m so sorry for your loss

  • @terencenichols3756
    @terencenichols3756 Před rokem

    Your experience will educate and inspire many, including my family. Thanks for sharing.

  • @RomanKinq
    @RomanKinq Před 5 lety +7

    ❤️🙏🏽 your a strong person for sharing this

  • @nataliegodoy1421
    @nataliegodoy1421 Před 5 lety +9

    Thank you for opening up about this, everyone goes through miscarriages in different ways, but it’s good to open up and educate others.
    I feel like giving you a hug, I know I don’t know you but I’m so grateful you talked about this.
    You have the sweetest heart ❤️❤️❤️

    • @mandipalermo
      @mandipalermo  Před 5 lety

      Thank you for watching and appreciating the message that I'm trying to spread Natalie. Here's a virtual hug, lol xoxo

    • @joannajimenez1065
      @joannajimenez1065 Před 5 lety

      @@mandipalermo hello mandi I am going something stressful too with my pregnancy I am so scare too

  • @lealeija9722
    @lealeija9722 Před 2 lety +12

    I been there September last year, I lost my baby at 12 weeks d and c surgery your right I become open about it to my family and close friends. I still cried when I think about it and yes everything happens for a reason.
    After 6 months I found out I'm expecting again this time everything is going well.
    Sending prayers, love and hugs always ❤️

  • @lealeija9722
    @lealeija9722 Před 2 lety +2

    Sending prayers, love and hugs 💝

  • @reejuti
    @reejuti Před 2 lety +7

    Thankyou for sharing this. I just had a miscarriage at 15.3 weeks n my timeline is from August to December as well. Feels good to be able to relate to someone

  • @thatgirlyanara
    @thatgirlyanara Před rokem +1

    You are so brave and generous to share this with us! I had a miscarriage in January when I was 7 weeks and it was so painful and traumatic physically, mentally and emotionally... I actually pass out the fetus!6 months later I found out I am pregnant again and I am now 16 weeks and pregnancy after miscarriage is just as scary as miscarriage itself... I bled when I was 6 weeks but for barely a day and I say and heard my baby heartbeat at 13 weeks... I can not tell you the relief but I will never look at my children(I also have a 14 year old) the same!
    For me if I hasn't hold on to Yah like I am now I don't think I couldn't make it... Yah has gave me alot of revelations related to the miscarriage and has healed me in the most beautiful way! I pray for anyone who is going through miscarriage now that Yah will heal you and your heart and that He will use this difficult situation for good like He always does! In Yeshua name amen! Much love 🤍

  • @shakyrarosa
    @shakyrarosa Před 5 lety +7

    Wow you’re so strong about your situation, god bless you ❤️

  • @trvylynjohnson1618
    @trvylynjohnson1618 Před 5 měsíci

    God bless your heart ,Thank you being so strong& sharing . May God bless you abundantly ❤

  • @LittyNailz
    @LittyNailz Před 10 měsíci

    Sorry to hear that 😢 STAY STRONG 💪 MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL AGAIN

  • @justcuz9181
    @justcuz9181 Před rokem +2

    It's so hard breaking in the beginning to see you holding a puppy reflected both the pain you must have suffered and the comfort you get from the dog.... To all women who go through miscarriage you're all champs... my wife is 15 weeks now..

  • @sunnivs
    @sunnivs Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for sharing. I just went through missed miscarriage at 17 weeks. ❤ I'm so sorry you went through this.

  • @haleymoon657
    @haleymoon657 Před rokem

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. Feel very alone losing out baby so far along

  • @Violeta_Selva
    @Violeta_Selva Před rokem

    Thank you for your story and wonderful stregth you have within you to share. ❤❤

  • @marangelyrivera3670
    @marangelyrivera3670 Před 5 lety +4

    Wow I'm amazed on how opened you were on your miscarriage mandi. We don't know each other but have talked through IG. I loved your video and how you encouraging other women that went through this experience or are going through this, I'm admire you girl.
    I have never dealt with this situation, but it has happened in my family and I have been afraid with both my boys while pregnant with them and its hard to feel that way while carrying them cause you never know.
    Just found out I'm expecting another one and I'm due October 2019, just hopefully everything goes well and taking care of myself and doing the best as I can.
    When I watched this video I cried and I just wanted to hug you and be a friend. Keep it up girl you are strong-willed, lots of love your way love. God Bless you!!
    ❤❤❤

    • @mandipalermo
      @mandipalermo  Před 5 lety

      Omg congratulations on baby #3 So happy for you Marangely! And I appreciate your kind words, support and love. I can't wait to see your little blessing come October

  • @allifrau2146
    @allifrau2146 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for sharing. I hope to be as brave as you are during your experience. I am 15 weeks and I am scheduled to try hear my babies heart beat again in 2 days. I have been spiraling about what to do if something happened. ❤

  • @mybabyboyjaren1002
    @mybabyboyjaren1002 Před rokem

    I absolutely agree with you with everything you said and definitely hard to deal with this! Hugs and prayers my condolences. I lost my baby boy as well then god bless me bless with another baby boy now he's 12 yrs old. No worries god will give you strength and another opportunity for you to be the best mom you can be!

  • @maryellenblount6376
    @maryellenblount6376 Před rokem

    So sorry for your loss but appreciate you sharing your story. My daughter suffered miscarriages and she ended up having counseling which helped. Sharing stories about infant loss is so important and helps so many women.

  • @kasia251sz5
    @kasia251sz5 Před 2 lety +14

    I was 3 months and I can't stop crying. Next month my baby girl would be born, I miss her every day. Thank you for sharing your story ❤️

  • @choochie2003
    @choochie2003 Před rokem +3

    I just went through this two months ago, after 14 years we were finally blessed to have had our little boy. But unfortunately we lost him, 😢at 5 months. It’s still difficult to think about it and to even talk about. But I loved what you said in your video,” that no matter what I’m always going to be that’s mother”, and that is exactly how I feel.
    I really haven’t had time to mourn over my loss, and maybe it’s because I don’t want too, or I’m not ready yet. Either way I know my Son Carson is in a better place, and that’s he’s looking down on me, his dad and his big sister. Love ❤️ you son.

    • @dzunisanimakamu5739
      @dzunisanimakamu5739 Před rokem

      Sorry about your loss. I just lost my 21 weeks pregnancy 7 days ago. Im mourning and grieving every day. Worst part my boobs are dripping milk and very painful 😢😢

  • @garimasspace1413
    @garimasspace1413 Před 2 lety +7

    I know its 2019 video of yours... but saw it today... And I literally cried because I also went through this.. I was in my 17th week... when this happened with me... Its been 9 months but still I cry almost daily... I know how it feels :-(

  • @Rokluver
    @Rokluver Před rokem +4

    Thank you for sharing your story, your strength and healing are cathartic to me. I found out yesterday that I had miscarried our son at 18 weeks and had no idea until 20 week scan. We are broken but slowly will put the pieces back together. We will always love him and will always be his parents, we just didn’t get to have him for long - that’s the only thing that’s changed. I feel so lucky to have been able to carry him for 18 weeks and he was so loved already. I will never give up hope of having a healthy, full term baby that I hold in my arms. 🌈💓✨👼

    • @nicoleparisi7855
      @nicoleparisi7855 Před rokem +1

      I’m so sorry for your loss. I just went through the same. Lost my girl at 19 weeks, still no answers. Thinking of you

    • @maritzaherrera6878
      @maritzaherrera6878 Před rokem +1

      I also lost my baby boy at 18 weeks three weeks ago. We are so heartbroken. Praying for you as well

  • @HangoutwithSimone
    @HangoutwithSimone Před 2 lety +13

    I’m actually going through this right now. I lost my baby at 16 weeks. It’s so painful. Thanks for sharing!

  • @hailymelinowski1386
    @hailymelinowski1386 Před rokem +1

    I had a miscarriage at 16 weeks as well and also chose the surgery but I ended up losing 3 pints of blood and had to stay 2 nights in the hospital thank you sharing this helped me not feel as alone ❤

  • @RosaMartinez-zy3oe
    @RosaMartinez-zy3oe Před 5 lety +1

    ❤️ I love how strong you are baby . Titi baby in heaven . I love you guys

  • @brookeadams9764
    @brookeadams9764 Před 2 měsíci

    My baby boys heartbeat stopped at 16 weeks due to a crazy freak virus you can only get once in your life and show no symptoms until it's too late. My placenta was also in the front they sent it off. I went straight to CZcams for comfort. Thank you for sharing your story it still helps 🙏

  • @kitrieinspire9495
    @kitrieinspire9495 Před rokem +1

    Yes thank you for posting this video, I had a miscarriage the day before I turned 16 weeks. I was wondering if anyone had felt this before but I had really bad abdominal to back pain and then found out I had a uti but within the 3 days before I started bleeding the pain was worse but I kept telling myself that this is not normal pain but after the 3 days I had started bleeding and went to the hospital but what was concerning is that the hospital didn't keep me but they checked and didn't tell me maybe why I was bleeding. So we went home and I was having pain of what felt like contractions early the next morning and had the miscarriage but sadly I wish I was at the hospital so that the doctors could also tell me why or what caused the miscarriage. But I am thankful to have my fiance to help me and support me and me to him through this moment. But thank you so much I wanted to understand if others experienced this too.

  • @fatimaimran4456
    @fatimaimran4456 Před rokem

    Hi I am so sorry to hear about your loss and I listened your story is as same as mine I also went to for gender at 16weeks but they didn't see any heart beat nd it stopped on 14weeks plus 5days but i was at 16 weeks I didn't have any symptoms and only few days before I had headaches and then I deliver baby but my placenta didn't came out so they did D&C .

  • @dzunisanimakamu5739
    @dzunisanimakamu5739 Před rokem +6

    Sorry about your loss. I just lost my 21 weeks pregnancy 7 days ago. Im mourning and grieving every day. Worst part my boobs are dripping milk and very painful 😢😢

  • @ericareader714
    @ericareader714 Před rokem +1

    I'm currently experiencing this just found out today that my babies heart stopped I'm 16 weeks but the baby stopped developing at 15 weeks. I have my D&E this Thursday which is 2 days from now. I'm heartbroken scared and just hurt. Thank you for sharing

  • @santanafarley8687
    @santanafarley8687 Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much for this video… I’m 15 weeks pregnant now and the doctors are shoving the same options at me right now even though the baby still has a heartbeat. You are so strong.

  • @organizedwithme7347
    @organizedwithme7347 Před 3 lety +20

    my miscarriage in 32th week of pregnancy my baby girl found died inside me she was my first kid .. still i can’t get out myself from all of this .. still broken 😞

    • @gowsikitchen9705
      @gowsikitchen9705 Před 3 lety +1

      Me too lost my baby at 27 weeks 😭

    • @zenadavis4193
      @zenadavis4193 Před rokem

      That's not a miscarriage, that's a stillbirth, and I'm so sorry for your loss

  • @Queenbeautyyy
    @Queenbeautyyy Před 3 lety +4

    This makes me so sad! The scary thing is, is how do you even know something is wrong. Would you have ever known? It makes me so sad

    • @mandipalermo
      @mandipalermo  Před 3 lety +2

      It is really sad love! And super scary. You often hear of miscarriages being painful and bloody but I had NO idea. That’s part of why I wanted to share my experience. I feel like it’s less common but it does happen. I’m grateful that I had a scan when I did otherwise who knows what would’ve happened!

    • @KavitayeinKahaaniyaan
      @KavitayeinKahaaniyaan Před 3 lety

      @@mandipalermo I had the same experience did not know until 17 weeks that baby died at 14 weeks ,it's devastating experience 😭

  • @jacquelinejacobson6789
    @jacquelinejacobson6789 Před 11 měsíci

    Silent miscarriages are the worst. My heart goes out to you.

  • @zoegrei
    @zoegrei Před rokem +2

    I lost my baby girl that I prayed so hard for a week and a half ago. I have been devastated and their are several people that do not understand. I was 18 weeks and 3 days. I already have other children but, the loss of a baby is still not just something most women can get over. The doctor checked the heartbeat twice and then I had to see the sonographer and got the news of a fetal demise. The oxygen went out of my body. I felt her move I honestly thought the morning of my appointment.

    • @QueenLeeMi79
      @QueenLeeMi79 Před rokem +2

      Same with me yesterday. I started cramping badly and had clear fluid coming out and then I had a bad headache and started bleeding badly and passing clots. I was 16 weeks and I swore I felt the baby moving but when they did an ultrasound the doctor couldn't find my baby and asked if I was sure and I said yes he was so uncaring that I got up and walked out. My mom wants me to go back for a d and c.

  • @bariettaperez
    @bariettaperez Před 4 lety +1

    It doesn’t sound crazy to say that the good outweighs the bad. It’s very strong ❤️

  • @inyoungchoung
    @inyoungchoung Před 9 měsíci

    "I'll be still their mother" really hit me hard ❤

  • @Janetmarlen
    @Janetmarlen Před rokem +1

    So, during your gender reveal scan even though the baby stops developing there is still a heartbeat? I know personally i felt traumatized to get past the 3 months that I didn't even realize that at 16 weeks is considered 4 months and I was still telling people i was 3 months. I have gotten 2 ultrasounds, at 10 weeks and 14 weeks. I am patiently waiting for my 20 anatomy scan and hoping everything will turn out okay. Thank you so very much for sharing your beautiful story. Hopefully you will get your beautiful rainbow baby soon.

  • @squadofmunchkins
    @squadofmunchkins Před rokem

    God Bless you!

  • @angeleciapreiser4924
    @angeleciapreiser4924 Před 5 lety +5

    I am actually going threw this right now. My baby stopped growing at 16 weeks and I'm scheduled for the D&e

  • @galaxychamp500
    @galaxychamp500 Před rokem +5

    I have gone through late miscarriage in my 18th week of pregnancy. It was difficult but I am coping from it.

    • @mandipalermo
      @mandipalermo  Před rokem +1

      My heart goes out to you! I'm so glad to hear that you're coping. HUGS!

    • @galaxychamp500
      @galaxychamp500 Před rokem

      @@mandipalermo Thank You So Much 😊

  • @BlitzOfTheReich
    @BlitzOfTheReich Před rokem +1

    18:50 I saw another video by a gynecology specialist. Chromosomal issues are actually much rarer than we thought.

  • @romanasempio4017
    @romanasempio4017 Před rokem

    I lost mine at 12 weeks last Aug 2022. I thought I was a bit ok when I got pregnant again after 3 months. But it just hits you unexpectedly sometimes when you thought you have moved on... I

  • @shirin1625
    @shirin1625 Před rokem

    😢😭 I am @14week and I can feel the pain 💔

  • @lizzmorales7550
    @lizzmorales7550 Před 2 lety +2

    Going through this right know 😞💔👶🏻

  • @user-ir3zu5js9y
    @user-ir3zu5js9y Před 9 měsíci +1

    Hey i have a question.. My woman claims she had a miscarriage but i dont buy the story.. She was 6 months pregnant and she says she was alone in the house.. Is it possible that she survived and without any medical knowledge.. She never even went to the hospital after that.. Im just curious.. I jist want justice for my child😢.. I need information.. Im commenting from South Africa

  • @andreaarriaga27
    @andreaarriaga27 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I lost my baby girl at 15 weeks and it was the hardest thing ever I thought everything was going good until the baby heart stopped beating

  • @jamiekirkland7918
    @jamiekirkland7918 Před 10 měsíci

    Are you going to be ok with future pregnancies?

  • @arielredman9398
    @arielredman9398 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I hope I can be like this. I'm heading to the hospital. My babygirl is being delivered at 18 weeks today. It's absolutely heart shattering. Idk how I'm going to make it through honestly

    • @mandipalermo
      @mandipalermo  Před 8 měsíci

      My whole heart is with you, my friend! I pray strength and peace over you. You will get through it day by day. Feel everything you need to feel. Hugs! ❤️

    • @Lilly-ev7ll
      @Lilly-ev7ll Před 7 měsíci

      How are you doing? I went through the same 3 weeks ago at 19 weeks, I had a baby girl too. it's so hard isn't it. I'm still really struggling, I just hope it gets easier

  • @shelandamitchell3752
    @shelandamitchell3752 Před 5 měsíci

    New fear unlocked 😭

  • @princessjzebguwa809
    @princessjzebguwa809 Před rokem +1

    Because i have a fibroid i had 3 miscarriages

  • @hilahjohnsonpembleton2562

    I'm pregnant I feel flutters and movements

  • @comediccheffaith
    @comediccheffaith Před 3 měsíci

    God bless u

  • @nathalyy.a
    @nathalyy.a Před 5 lety +2

    ♥️

  • @allyssadigiovancarlo5878
    @allyssadigiovancarlo5878 Před 5 lety +1

    I love you 💕

  • @zenadavis4193
    @zenadavis4193 Před rokem +1

    I lost my 1st baby at 23.3 weeks, I had to give birth to her, she was born sleeping 😢❤

  • @jessicamorgan7104
    @jessicamorgan7104 Před rokem

    Feeling so sad. I lost my baby at 8+3 pw

  • @nikilion2445
    @nikilion2445 Před 3 lety +4

    I found out I lost my baby this month January 15th I would’ve been 15 weeks from my last period and it was my first ultrasound out of my whole pregnancy because of my health insurance problems but I got it all figured out in time the doctor told me I had a silent miscarriage they had to do a D&C on the 8th I was beyond devastated but I’m glad I had the support I didI just wanna say anybody who goes through this their very strong and it does get better with time this video has help me thank you!

  • @sanjinamahmud3181
    @sanjinamahmud3181 Před 3 lety +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @nehak6620
    @nehak6620 Před 5 měsíci

    Can you please tell me how fast you got pregnant again and the process. I just had a miscarriage and the emotional trauma and pain is quite intense.

    • @mandipalermo
      @mandipalermo  Před 5 měsíci +3

      I’m so sorry, I can totally relate and feel for you! That pain in something you never forget. I was advised to wait up to 9months to a year due to them initially suspecting that I had a partial molar pregnancy. However, I got pregnant the month after the miscarriage. It was a healthy and smooth pregnancy, Glory to God. My little boy is 4 years old now and I’ve had another child since then. Hold on to hope, always! ❤️ sending hugs and prayers

    • @nehak6620
      @nehak6620 Před 5 měsíci

      @@mandipalermo thank you. That really does give me hope. We had gotten pregnant via IUI. But we will try once again just naturally. Do you have any tips on ovulation tracking and how you times BD around it? Thank you

  • @hilahjohnsonpembleton2562

    I have a lot of health issues

  • @cleomwansa156
    @cleomwansa156 Před rokem

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @suki959
    @suki959 Před rokem

    How can you miscarriage?

  • @ekhelefkhel1284
    @ekhelefkhel1284 Před rokem

    You look like Mahira sharma

  • @xoxxxoooxo6643
    @xoxxxoooxo6643 Před 3 lety +1

    ❤️

  • @haselta.7544
    @haselta.7544 Před 5 lety

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ngaferg6042
    @ngaferg6042 Před 2 měsíci

  • @FellatiousWoman23
    @FellatiousWoman23 Před 5 lety

    ❤❤❤❤❤