Our Wedding Night Experience As Virgins // What YouTubers Don't Tell You

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  • Hey Stalwart Fam,
    Finally, we have it for you, our thrilling gist on how we did it for the first time as virgins. Have fun watching.
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  • @TheStalwartLovers
    @TheStalwartLovers  Před 3 lety +1275

    Hope you enjoyed the video 😍😅... Share! Share!! Share!!! Help us get this video everywhere 🙏🏽 let's grow our stalwart family ☺️😄😁

    • @adaramajaomotolani8104
      @adaramajaomotolani8104 Před 2 lety +28

      It’s the scriptural references for me😀😀
      Much love for you guys from here🥰

    • @leahkiratu8900
      @leahkiratu8900 Před 2 lety +1

      9o I'm okloo I'll look î I'll oo lol I'll l9o lokook I'l klo9kl I'll kill

    • @Aysquare
      @Aysquare Před 2 lety +9

      @@wakeup857 WAKE UP AND KEEP QUIET, IF YOU DON'T HAVE ANY POSITIVE THING TO SAY

    • @augustaofori1754
      @augustaofori1754 Před 2 lety +2

      We are really growing stalwart fam... the views are blowing wow 👏😍😳

    • @min.nancy.n7092
      @min.nancy.n7092 Před 2 lety +11

      The beauty of waiting 😍

  • @saintraphael94
    @saintraphael94 Před 2 lety +2712

    I find bliss when I listen to stories like this. I'm 27, virgin, single and searching. If you are reading this, be not ignorant of the truth that we still have Christian men who uphold purity and purpose in a world that tells them to do otherwise. Even as an advocate, it's a battlefield out here considering the events that we see and here every blessed day. Hitherto, it has been the grace of God!!

    • @natureworld295
      @natureworld295 Před 2 lety +19

      Hi , can I have your whatsapp number .

    • @thedietdiary
      @thedietdiary Před 2 lety +189

      There are non Christians that are virgins because they chose to keep themselves. It not particularly a Christians thing. It is morally right.

    • @thedietdiary
      @thedietdiary Před 2 lety +12

      @@natureworld295 😶😶

    • @nomkhosibiyela5131
      @nomkhosibiyela5131 Před 2 lety +3

      🔥🔥🔥

    • @maggief1851
      @maggief1851 Před 2 lety +64

      I'm the same, I am 25 stories like this give me hope.

  • @TronoMusiKafe
    @TronoMusiKafe Před rokem +225

    Wow! My wife and I had this same experience 11 years ago. We couldn't breakthrough until the 2nd day and we are happy and so proud to start our sex life as newbies ( virgins). Young people don't be deceived by lies going out there that being a virgin is outdated. It is a noble thing to keep yourselves till you are married. We did it, the Stalwart did it and many are still getting married as virgins, so join us to have such a good testimony.

  • @joyjohn5117
    @joyjohn5117 Před 2 lety +159

    No shame, no guilt, that's the beauty of waiting 😍😍.
    I'm 27 years still a virgin..
    No regrets what so ever..
    like I'm so proud of myself, in our world were premarital sex has become a norm, God has helped me to hold on to sexual purity 😍.
    My mum have birth to 3 of us all girls, my elder sister got married as a virgin, in fact her hubby threw a party literally..
    I and my younger sister are still virgins..
    I'm greatful to God for giving me godly parents who trained us in the way of the Lord. To God be the glory..

  • @dominicdestiny2914
    @dominicdestiny2914 Před 2 lety +227

    I'm 20 still a virgin and am being pressured by friends, almost giving in, until I saw this video,am so encouraged Love you guys ♥️♥️♥️

  • @royalprince9965
    @royalprince9965 Před 2 lety +846

    Ma guy you're a great story teller. Talking about sex in such a clean and hilarious way. You're smart.

    • @dorcasifeoluwakiitan7990
      @dorcasifeoluwakiitan7990 Před 2 lety +13

      As in ehnn😀....I still don't understand how I manage to understand everything

    • @WILMA_
      @WILMA_ Před 2 lety +13

      I truly cannot listen to what he is talking about without loving this dude! “Sister was in pain but I was still STANDING”! I love this couple!!!

    • @preciouschisom9582
      @preciouschisom9582 Před 2 lety +5

      As in eh!😂
      Laughed all through the video.
      Funny enough, I understood all the slangs used here.😂

    • @brightbutipemmanuel881
      @brightbutipemmanuel881 Před 2 lety +3

      When he said “get through dz door today”i lost it 😂🤣🤣like wtf bro

    • @marel2575
      @marel2575 Před 2 lety

      That is ur problem. When someone lies easy to know. U can't just understand

  • @joshuaadesina5466
    @joshuaadesina5466 Před 2 lety +1803

    I'm a virgin at 29, and my generation is so messed up that everyday I feel very odd. But watching this video literally warmed my heart, you can't understand how it feels. God bless you both and God bless your marriage!

    • @appituguemi
      @appituguemi Před 2 lety +102

      Same here o..
      26yrs.. and people keep trying to make me feel odd for keeping it.. God will keep strengthening us till we meet our partners.🙏🙏

    • @patiencenimmoh3956
      @patiencenimmoh3956 Před 2 lety +70

      At 24 and still waiting. I don't care how people will take it but yeah irriz what irriz...... I know and I can't to meet with him

    • @vcj8096
      @vcj8096 Před 2 lety +50

      You have a cloud of witness cheering you on. We did it and yes you can. It's worth the joy and respect you feel for yourself throughout life. It's one of the best thing that happened to me beside salvation experience.

    • @ogbonnayaphilomina9270
      @ogbonnayaphilomina9270 Před 2 lety +67

      Please don't feel odd, even though the world makes us feel odd.
      I am 27 and waiting for that night.

    • @likejesushere
      @likejesushere Před 2 lety +75

      I’m 28, and I’m a virgin! Whoop! Whoop!!! 🙌🏼😊

  • @patiencemwine4420
    @patiencemwine4420 Před měsícem +89

    I don't know how I bumped on this 10 years after our marriage. Hehe. We were virgins too at 26 both of us. 1st night, things didn't work out. 2nd day. No progress. 3 Rd day we tried again. It was during day. I clenched my teeth and allowed him to press several time. I was determined to have a break through. It was the most painful experience ever. After that. I cried but tried to be strong, there was too much fire. My hubby ran to the pharmacy and he brought pain killers. Hehe Tramadol. He was shaking and didn't know what to do. The Pharmacy person calmed him down. Unfortunately the Tramadol made me vomit non stop. I was like have I become pregnant😂😂 hehehe. With all the medical knowledge I had, we were confused. I actually remember we bought a pregnancy test kit which was negative of course. Oh my God, what an experience. I encourage.all young people to wait. Later on we went for our actual honeymoon. Every time I remember the experience, I laugh. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @mariammapunda5831
      @mariammapunda5831 Před 22 dny +1

      😂😂😂

    • @NateTheGreat265
      @NateTheGreat265 Před 22 dny +1

      😂😂😂That's hilarious

    • @emmadora7848
      @emmadora7848 Před 9 dny

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Chizzy007
      @Chizzy007 Před 18 hodinami +1

      Maybe you had vaginismus because before sex foreplay comes first to relax both you and your partner. But vaginismus it goes beyond foreplay

  • @oluyemiblessing2646
    @oluyemiblessing2646 Před 2 lety +487

    I will be 22 this year and I’m still a virgin. Listening to this makes me feel so good and with God by my side,I promise to keep myself till marriage
    I pray to come back here,years after to tell you that I actually kept myself till marriage 🥳🥳🥳

    • @aminajenny7868
      @aminajenny7868 Před 2 lety +3

      How are you doing my princess?
      I'm a mum of a handsome young man looking for a virgin daughter with a good upbringing good character for my son, age between 19-22.
      If you're still interested let me know
      Thanks

    • @nnekafavour1491
      @nnekafavour1491 Před 2 lety +21

      Yes it gives you confidence. I was 28 when I got married and was a virgin. I never regret it till today am still cherished

    • @oluyemiblessing2646
      @oluyemiblessing2646 Před 2 lety +5

      @@nnekafavour1491 thanks for this ma’am. God bless you home in jesus name

    • @PRAISEINSPIRES
      @PRAISEINSPIRES Před 2 lety +30

      You don't keep your self for marriage... You keep yourself beacause God said it... Holiness is for God not for a husband.

    • @oluyemiblessing2646
      @oluyemiblessing2646 Před 2 lety +2

      @@PRAISEINSPIRES true. Thanks for this sir

  • @alenielizabeth8942
    @alenielizabeth8942 Před 2 lety +446

    No shame, No guilt!.
    Thats the beauty of waiting.
    God bless you both.

  • @DoofanHiikyaa
    @DoofanHiikyaa Před 2 lety +244

    This guy is crazy in a good way🤣 I absolutely love how he looks for ways to refer to something in scriptures! The blood paved the way🤣🤣 The lady has a lovely smile. Great job!

    • @victoriavicky5728
      @victoriavicky5728 Před 2 lety +10

      Gorgeous smile! Very infectious. May God bless their beautiful union. 🥰🥳🥰

  • @ogalaali4439
    @ogalaali4439 Před 24 dny +35

    Im glad to see that so many are virgins from the comments. The devil wants us to believe that everybody is doing it and if you're not, then you're odd. Love you guys. Hope the passion is still there 3 years later

  • @debbieadeoye
    @debbieadeoye Před 2 lety +295

    It’s the honesty & openness for me. Thank you for openly and boldly showing the world that sexual purity is still of great value🧡

    • @BEE_Hall_
      @BEE_Hall_ Před 2 lety +1

      Amen 33 years old going on 34 I wish I waited.

  • @vanessaenyonam6949
    @vanessaenyonam6949 Před 2 lety +485

    It’s so refreshing hearing a Christian couple share a realistic story. I laughed so hard watching this 😂😂😂I also learnt a lot🤗

  • @kennedykoweshunjnr8534
    @kennedykoweshunjnr8534 Před 2 lety +374

    I'm so encouraged! Sometimes if feels like we're stupid to be virgins. This is encouraging. God bless you

    • @monicaruby8888
      @monicaruby8888 Před 2 lety +11

      You're definitely not stupid, stay strong, keep the faith, hold onto God's word, and wait until you're married! :-)

    • @ob_isaiah
      @ob_isaiah Před 2 lety +18

      I'm 32 and a virgin. I'm ever proud and rather than let others shame me, I pose a challenge to them

    • @thecatholicglee
      @thecatholicglee Před 2 lety +5

      You're not stupid. You're in fact more sensible than them. It takes a wise man/woman to know the dangers of premarital sex. And it takes a brave and disciplined person to hold his/her grounds on being a virgin. God bless you and continue to give you the strength not to fall into lustful temptations

    • @ScissorN
      @ScissorN Před 2 lety

      Ya we are stupid

    • @esperanzawanjiru2435
      @esperanzawanjiru2435 Před 2 lety +4

      Only Gods opinion matters imagine. Nobody else matters

  • @ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman

    I came across this video over a year ago and added it to my watchlist but never watched until now. I am not a virgin, but I’ve been abstinent over 7 years and I always joke about how I’m gonna feel like one again once I get married lol… I love how DETAILED yall were. I literally had flashbacks to my first time 🥴 The difference is that you both did it God‘s way and your story was beautiful and very entertaining. I can see the love between you two ❤️

    • @giftnwosu5931
      @giftnwosu5931 Před 2 měsíci +1

      But are you going to feel like it's a first time again??

    • @ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman
      @ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@giftnwosu5931 Are you a woman or a man? Have you had sex before? If you haven’t, I understand how you may not know this answer. Just to give you some context… The vagina is elastic; think of a rubber band. It is small, but stretches enough for a newborn baby to pass through during childbirth. After time passes, the vagina shrinks back to its normal size. I have a friend who is married, and she was abstinent for 7 years by the time she met and married her husband. She was married prior to that for almost 20 years and she has three grown children. On her wedding night she felt like she was having sex for the very first time because of the amount of time that had passed. So to answer your question, yes, physically it can feel like the first time again.

    • @manuella5177
      @manuella5177 Před 2 měsíci +22

      No she won't but will have an inner peace because she did the right thing by abstaining. It's easy to stay a virgin when you are a real virgin, but for someone who has done it before to abstain for 7 years is a real deal....she tried

  • @princesslaari8681
    @princesslaari8681 Před 2 lety +90

    I am 18 turning 19 this Yr n still a virgin. I don't understand the world nowadays young people who break their virginity think that because they were not able to keep them selves they think its not possible for others, thats y I don't explain my self when people tell me I am lieing cos God knows the truth n that is the most important thing. I pray I will be able to keep it till I get married 🙏 💯 thanks for sharing 👍 I am happy, someone actually told me that it was not worth keeping it n I should just break it cos people will make fun of me if they find out, but still I know he is just part of the devil's temptation 😊 pls God give me the strength to overcome amen 🙏

    • @temmy_jay
      @temmy_jay Před měsícem +6

      Amen,the Lord will give you the strength to overcome as He gave me till I got married over ten years ago as a virgin, I now have four wonderful boys. Please speaking from experience, never over trust yourself to play near what you don't want. Kissing and romancing are not healthy either. Ensure you have measures to prevent premarital sex intentionally. God bless you dear.

    • @Ik-ea-de
      @Ik-ea-de Před 29 dny +5

      You need, as a matter of safety, to stop trying to convince people and don't share this private information with just anybody.
      The world is wicked.

    • @ukonzeogochukwu8768
      @ukonzeogochukwu8768 Před 29 dny

      ​@@temmy_jay God bless you ma

    • @ukonzeogochukwu8768
      @ukonzeogochukwu8768 Před 29 dny

      ​@@Ik-ea-deGod bless you

    • @samuelidakwo2521
      @samuelidakwo2521 Před 26 dny

      Stop telling people, whenever the discussion comes up just be quiet or excuse yourself
      It's not everyone that have to know you're a virgin

  • @faith_ibings
    @faith_ibings Před 2 lety +419

    We didn't try on our wedding night as we had to travel down the next day, as soon as we got to hubby base, we tried and tried, I cried at some point too, infact I formed tired at some point like whenever hubby is making the move, I get scared, thank God hubby was calm and gentle with me. Hubby fingers worked the magic too, the veil was torn after the 3rd day (the blood encouraged us too) and on the 6th day, we got to Jerusalem. Glory 💃💃💃💃💃 #2weeks of marriage today

  • @anaskawsar1701
    @anaskawsar1701 Před 2 lety +730

    This is my first time here. I love u guys. I’m a virgin and a Muslim. This video has taught a lot. I think there’s beauty in waiting and being patient. May the lord help us through.

  • @winniekuria3234
    @winniekuria3234 Před 2 lety +159

    You just gave me the confidence to shine with my virginity in this weird generation ❤️❤️

  • @thando_t1723
    @thando_t1723 Před 25 dny +13

    I am 23 years old and I am wating 😊 and i will continue waiting for my God appointedhusband. Amen. I really learned a lot from your video❤

  • @sundayozioma4426
    @sundayozioma4426 Před 2 lety +1621

    This video is so hilarious, I am 36 still keeping my virginity hoping that God will bless me with my own hubby one day. Happy to see people like me in this demoralized world.

    • @nkwonkechianita160
      @nkwonkechianita160 Před 2 lety +84

      The God that did it for me and them will surely do yours in Jesus mighty name amen.

    • @nnamdiokwuosa9616
      @nnamdiokwuosa9616 Před 2 lety +44

      The LORD strengthen you and give you the husband that you deserve.

    • @estherpedro8378
      @estherpedro8378 Před 2 lety +59

      Soonest your husband will locate you! Congratulations in advance!

    • @naomimonicah2570
      @naomimonicah2570 Před 2 lety +48

      😂😂very hilarious. I thought am a weird girl...At 26 keeping mine too😂😂 i honestly dread that day

    • @sundayozioma4426
      @sundayozioma4426 Před 2 lety +13

      Thank you all. And I say amen to all that.

  • @jakarahporter
    @jakarahporter Před 2 lety +400

    The transparency, modesty, and HUMOR exuded in this video is priceless! You two are a beautiful couple. Blessings and favor on your God ordained marriage.❤️❤️❤️

    • @khonkhosilelihle7414
      @khonkhosilelihle7414 Před 2 lety +5

      True ey. I'm loving the video.

    • @princesscauldwell7311
      @princesscauldwell7311 Před 2 lety +6

      Omg its so good to hear young people speak about sex the way you both speak, I had hope I waited bcaz am 40years old and still not married I was in the church and came out I regret the decision I have made,nevertheless I will return to serving God hope to find a God husband and we both served God

    • @yemi5193
      @yemi5193 Před 2 lety +2

      I’m loving their content. They have similar attributes ie humour, beautiful smile, intelligence amidst many beautiful attributes they display on their channel. Keel up the good work

    • @faithFul_nheeKie
      @faithFul_nheeKie Před 2 lety +1

      @@princesscauldwell7311 God will perfect it, just keep trusting in HIM

  • @rehemamiriam588
    @rehemamiriam588 Před rokem +77

    No shame no guilt. It pays to wait. I love this couple. From Kenya🇰🇪

  • @estheramachree2829
    @estheramachree2829 Před rokem +86

    I'm 19 and I do believe in waiting till marriage but I will be honest with you I always fantasize about doing it with some random boy in school to just know how it is but discovering you guys and watching this video it just encourages me keep the veil closed and it shows me what a beautiful moment it would be to go through this with someone I love and to get through it together (the pain and anxiety) and also knowing that what I am doing is not wrong .
    Thanks.

    • @viviananku1315
      @viviananku1315 Před rokem

      Sure 👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️

    • @katherinenuel3827
      @katherinenuel3827 Před rokem

      My love keep yourself…it’s a beautiful thing

    • @SarjoJasseh
      @SarjoJasseh Před 3 měsíci

      Girl I am 19 too. Respect from your future husband is worth waiting. Please never let it go

  • @irisgraham7222
    @irisgraham7222 Před 2 lety +511

    This was very well done. It sounds very similar to my wedding night. My husband and I were both virgins. My husband was very patient as well. I feel better about our experience now that I have seen this. We' ve been married almost 15 years now and we are glad we waited and did it God's way. A lifetime of happiness to you both!

  • @giftij
    @giftij Před 2 lety +219

    Nice to see people who still have my "oldskul' mentality in a world where premarital sex is so normalised

    • @summera4019
      @summera4019 Před 2 lety +2

      @@Prettyscorp80 lol 😂 you should probably google social construct… something being a social construct doesn’t detract from its legitimacy. calling something out as a social construct is essentially useless because if the construct is harmful it will be eradicated eventually through social progression, so there's no real need to call out its constructed-ness….. And I’m anti marriage lool.

    • @andreaa.1393
      @andreaa.1393 Před 2 lety +7

      @@Prettyscorp80 it is not normal. Sexual ties are not normal

    • @margaretfoley5302
      @margaretfoley5302 Před 2 lety +2

      Yes you still have plenty of people who still have that mentality and it is good to talk about it and the couple can make it work for them.

    • @esperanzawanjiru2435
      @esperanzawanjiru2435 Před 2 lety +6

      true. the word of God will never change. even those fornicating know they are sinning and are insanely jealous of we virgins.

  • @happyseth9673
    @happyseth9673 Před 2 lety +41

    I just turned 28 this April and still a virgin, am proud of myself after hearing you people , sometimes I get tire of waiting and wanted to give it out but thanks to God my friends advise am strong,

  • @Fendifobs
    @Fendifobs Před 2 lety +40

    Her eyes , theres something about innocence, its so visible and sweet. love you sis. So happy to hear these stories. I didnt marry a virgin but that was my dream. My husband waited though, wish that for our lil one

  • @JephPrince1
    @JephPrince1 Před 2 lety +280

    THIS IS A MILLION DOLLAR STORY IN THIS CURRENT EVIL GENERATION. WE ADMIRE YOU PEOPLE. MAY GOD LEAD YOU TO DEVELOP MORE HELPFUL CONTENT.

  • @UniqueFood8861
    @UniqueFood8861 Před 2 lety +100

    Your story is similar to mine,though my hubby wasn't a virgin but i was at 30 years and i still remember the first night, the memory is as fresh as ever.I can't forget the pain and i hated sex too,just didn't want to do again.Just like you guys,we stopped and had to continue later but with so much pain.To worsen it,we didn't use any lubricant, i hated that night but i glad we pull through after trying and trying.And we like it now.Next month our marriage will be 10 years. It really pays to grow with the fear of God and keep one's self till Marriage. God bless your union 🙏

    • @nakiryowaclaire7264
      @nakiryowaclaire7264 Před rokem +2

      U have given me courage to stay keep my virginity till God say yes

  • @gillianjohnson876
    @gillianjohnson876 Před 2 dny +1

    This account was hilarious. God bless your marriage. You will inspire young people to wait. There is nothing more beautiful. I got married at 31, as a virgin too.

  • @me-zp7db
    @me-zp7db Před 2 lety +49

    Finally CZcamsrs that get to the point and not just say, "You'll be okay. It'll be messy but you'll know what to do." Like what do you mean I'll know??? 😭😭😭

  • @KristojayPaul
    @KristojayPaul Před 2 lety +86

    Wow this is different. Explicit but not raw and distasteful, funny with the Scripture. It is encouraging seeing the number of people commenting as virgins. Keep strong and continue to please the Lord.

  • @JesusMyIshi
    @JesusMyIshi Před 2 lety +317

    The purity of this video makes my heart smile!!!!!!! Lol May our generation go back to this. Celebrating marriage the RIGHT WAY! You guys are great. It’s sweet that you guys are being transparent like this for the sake of others. God bless your marriage. 😍💕

  • @kemiajiboye2220
    @kemiajiboye2220 Před 2 lety +39

    God bless your home. I am so proud of you and your story reminds me of me about 20yrs ago. My husband was not a virgin, yet we was worried and scared that he doesn’t hurt me. We are happily married with 3 kids and still being boyfriend/girlfriend. Waiting till marriage can never be over emphasized. Keep, Keeping Faith😍

  • @obinechelilianchioma8636
    @obinechelilianchioma8636 Před 2 lety +34

    I love this. Just came across this video. Thanks guys for lifting my spirit. I'm 35, still intact and that's my promise to God. It sounds weird especially in this our generation. Still believing God for my divine ordained husband. God bless and keep u both in Jesus name

  • @Moments_with_Ada
    @Moments_with_Ada Před 2 lety +168

    One thing I've come to understand is if you honour God, God will definitely honour you. I'm 24 and still a virgin...i feel honour. People keep saying is no more trendy but I smile because I know everyone feels good when they know they are the first to use a thing. My husband will be so proud of me this I know. Don't allow peer pressure push you to do what is not right. And if you have lost yours, you can still abstain and see what God will do in your life

  • @dorisbabz5719
    @dorisbabz5719 Před 2 lety +104

    "Brother was standing....sister was in pain"😂😂😂😂 You guys are so funny.
    I love you Sis.😍

  • @faithezienne4595
    @faithezienne4595 Před 24 dny +32

    Am 31 still a virgin hoping God give me my own husband, still ready to keep it,till the right one comes

    • @gloryginika2086
      @gloryginika2086 Před 22 dny +4

      The right one will come😊

    • @namiiroasha7060
      @namiiroasha7060 Před 18 dny +1

      Same to me same age as you but some times feeling giving up am sti single but praying God to bless me with a Goldy husband who will love me

    • @faithezienne4595
      @faithezienne4595 Před 17 dny

      God will do it for us🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @justicefortechambers6751
    @justicefortechambers6751 Před 2 lety +31

    An absolutely fantastic story line. In my case, patience was key. We both were virgins and couldn't break through the veil the first wedding night and had to leave it till weeks later. It was worth it afterwards.
    21 years later, my wife keeps thanking me for the patience of waiting for a better time after that first attempt.

  • @annibiteye9206
    @annibiteye9206 Před 2 lety +69

    CZcams has a way of randomly displaying videos, and this video happened to be the one displayed that caught my attention. I watched it and I was happy with it. Good to know you guys are virgins till wedding night. I also maintained mine till my wedding night, that was 24years ago...hmmm a mummy and a grandma in view😀. Yes I love what you two are doing, keep up the good work.
    The Lord shall expand your visions, and you shall continue to fulfill purpose.
    I'm wishing Faith a twinnie pregnancy 👫

  • @sammycokere
    @sammycokere Před 2 lety +233

    Absolutely loved the video! Pheww.. this one answered my questions. Lovely. I’m 22(23 by December), virgin & proud. I can’t tell you how many times the temptations have come , but my love for God and the will to wait has helped me overcome them. Being a virgin, especially for a guy, is NOT EASY, but it can be rewarding. I get asked why I’m still a virgin, and every single time, I give one answer : I simply haven’t found the girl who deserves my body just yet. It’s not pride, it’s respecting your body. It has spiritual benefits too FYI. Still okay if you’ve already cashed in though.
    Once again, thank you guys for making this video. (I actually edited this comment to add that) you guys are so adorable together, may this union last a lifetime Amen 😊

    • @oladepotemitope5843
      @oladepotemitope5843 Před 2 lety

      Wow! I can relate.
      I was not just tensed, I was afraid. The veil wasn't totally broken until few days afterwards,but it was worth the waiting!
      God bless you guys!

    • @athen4725
      @athen4725 Před 2 lety

      So true. I have learnt to field virginity questions anyway

  • @ifynath5050
    @ifynath5050 Před 2 lety +46

    It's encouraging that two people can develop a closeness that allows you to be free and open with each other even while having a non-sexual relationship. Kudos.

  • @adedoyinorowee3959
    @adedoyinorowee3959 Před 2 lety +15

    Wow, such a beautiful video. I remember i was a bit angry during my honeymoon that nobody told us that we should have lubricant with us, my hubby had not penetrated but the pain was bad. we could not continue even after applying olive oil that we had with us, eventually we had to go get lubricant from a pastor friend, we didn't even know where to buy one. That was 9years ago and by the way today is our anniversary. Glory to God for Christian marriages.

    • @Chizzy007
      @Chizzy007 Před 18 hodinami

      Is it that you people don’t know what foreplay is? Ha!!! Foreplay alone can get you naturally lubricated. Amazing grace children 🙄🙄

  • @stephthecreative6312
    @stephthecreative6312 Před 2 lety +311

    I don’t even you two, but I’m so proud of you! GOD is truly going to bless your marriage for staying the course.

  • @magdalenebahago5057
    @magdalenebahago5057 Před 2 lety +260

    I feel like crying after watching this. I'm determined to keep myself even at 34. It's so difficult staying chaste because the men coming around are not willing to wait. And they're all promising. With this video, I'm bent on waiting. Thank you. Please pray for me

    • @kennyaderemi03
      @kennyaderemi03 Před 2 lety +9

      Lord will keep empowering you

    • @jessicawest224
      @jessicawest224 Před 2 lety +12

      More grace dearie. I also felt like no one out there can wait but I found one. He was willing to wait. He waited for about 7years and now we are beautifully married. God will bring His son your way 🙏 Stay Encouraged

    • @estherokon8312
      @estherokon8312 Před 2 lety +13

      Same problem here. I am even called a pretender, a bisexual. God go help us Because the way the men of our generation cherish immorality ehhh.

    • @sarahclark8350
      @sarahclark8350 Před 2 lety +7

      You’re not alone...I believe virgins are worth the wait...there are virgins much older than you my dear...”...standfast..in Christ Jesus...”

    • @v.o.n3495
      @v.o.n3495 Před rokem +2

      The generation we are in was called ' adulterous generation! Ask GOD for more grace HE is faithful! & HE will".....keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy,
      (Amplified Bible) Now to Him Who is able to keep you without stumbling or slipping or falling, and to present [you] unblemished (blameless and faultless) before the presence of His glory in triumphant joy and exultation [with unspeakable, ecstatic delight]-"

  • @Rm-lb7ou
    @Rm-lb7ou Před 2 lety +1

    Awwwwn! My love for you guys just trippled! May God continue to keep you strong till the end of time!🙏

  • @daisyondiege6566
    @daisyondiege6566 Před 2 lety +4

    Just came across this video and decided to check it out and oh my...
    Its so encouraging to hear your story and this affirms that it really is possible in such a generation to still keep the veil shut until the right time in marriage
    Hearing from you guys just made me desire even more than I already do to please God with my body by maintaining purity until the right time comes
    Baraka tele!!! (Or blessings, as we say it in Kenya🖤🖤)

  • @yvonneobili2833
    @yvonneobili2833 Před 2 lety +249

    I just bumped into this and just fell in love with you both.
    I just remembered my wedding night🙄 the pain was so much, I cried with all the lubricant, honestly at a point I couldn't take it again o, infact I was running away from body contact with hubby 🤣 at a point I told hubby maybe I should take sleeping pills and he refused that he will feel like a rapist 🤣. It took 1week before we could finally press in(in your words🤣)
    Ah! I still laugh when I remember, it's 12years now. I love your video, God bless you

  • @KKLevy
    @KKLevy Před 2 lety +42

    Am 26 years old am still a virgin in August 2021. I pray God will help me find a right soul mate in Jesus Christ name. Youth Pastor Levy from Lusaka Zambia. Love you people 😍

  • @irankundajacob9579
    @irankundajacob9579 Před 2 lety +1

    Man I’m so glade with the information not just that but the ways y’all represented it! May Almighty Papa continue you guys and others through y’all!

  • @adeleemmanuella1394
    @adeleemmanuella1394 Před 2 lety +8

    Thanks for this. I'm turning 20 and I've had Pple and friends tell me I'm just being a child when all I want is to please God and keep my promise to myself to marry as a virgin. God bless you guys for real, I feel encouraged to continue. Thanks a lot.

  • @okpankunkechi1534
    @okpankunkechi1534 Před 2 lety +200

    Am crying seriously, I was loosing hope for Keeping mine till now. I thought it wasn't paying off and I had made out plans to just do it. I guess God brought me to your channel to remind me that he is still God. At 35 being a virgin with the guys we have now that want to taste isn't easy. It's as if am the odd one, thank you Jesus Christ for reminding me to hold on strongly, I will experience the sweet pain on my wedding night....

    • @danielekemycin6825
      @danielekemycin6825 Před 2 lety +8

      Don't give up , you own day of joyous pain is coming soon

    • @roselineonyii7892
      @roselineonyii7892 Před 2 lety +4

      Keep holding on Sis,it pays .You will testify soon in Jesus name Amen

    • @ScissorN
      @ScissorN Před 2 lety +2

      😂 35 years? Im 30 but if i don't get married this year then im done with this thing

    • @Qey6723
      @Qey6723 Před 2 lety +6

      Please hold on. I lost my virginity at 34 pleading to God to help me to keep my virginity- the sex was so awful and painful. I honestly was thinking sex was way better in my head then it was when I had it. It's more reasons why it turned out this way, but I was so horny and angry with my hormones that I just went out and lost it...

    • @nyashacharuza3428
      @nyashacharuza3428 Před 2 lety +1

      You are not alone..our God is watching us.......sometimes it really gets tough....

  • @JACOBAMAO-2
    @JACOBAMAO-2 Před 2 lety +138

    I would like to encourage the Marriage Counselors to download this video and show it to the would be couples during their counseling sessions.
    Bravo to this Couple. May God bless your home with divine goodness 🙏

    • @jubrilsonia6152
      @jubrilsonia6152 Před 2 lety +3

      Oh my goodness I just came across this video, and I must commend you two, I love you, this video made my day completely complete, May Jehovah the originator of marriage bless your home, thanks for being transparency with us in the video, your really good to imitate.

    • @balogunoluwabukola7733
      @balogunoluwabukola7733 Před 2 lety

      @@jubrilsonia6152 I know you are jw...... pleased to meet you

  • @Mariajohnson11
    @Mariajohnson11 Před 2 lety +7

    Omg exactly what I needed to hear, I have being going through same excruciating pain with my husband. He has being so patient, caring and kind with me. God brought this video to me, it can only be God. All in all it’s a beautiful experience

  • @richarddeborah3881
    @richarddeborah3881 Před rokem +5

    Awwwwnnn watching this made me glad and i am so happy for you both.One thing i can see in this is that you both are friends and there’s love,friendship,empathy,i can see the understanding. Look at the laughter
    Infact am so happy you met each other cos indeed it’s meant to be. God presence will never depart from your home.
    I thank God for grace upon my life and my time is close

  • @leaholu-king164
    @leaholu-king164 Před 2 lety +40

    It is my first time to be here and I am married for 30 years and this video took me back to 1991 when we got married and it is very beautiful waiting until you get married and your lovely husband will never forget that particular day because it is a very special day.

  • @rahablyonga5680
    @rahablyonga5680 Před 2 lety +34

    Approaching 39, difficult to keep oneself spotless from this world but possible. Keeping a clean conscience before God is the best feeling ever.🙏

  • @victoriaowumi3812
    @victoriaowumi3812 Před 2 lety +7

    This is educating. And I love it. Thank you for sharing your personal journey and lessons with us all. A lot of lessons were learnt.
    This is what the church is shying away from. It’s hightime Christian couples (who got married with the bed undefied) teach the upcoming couples how to go about it.
    I love you guys. God bless your home Amen 🙏

  • @bamikayy
    @bamikayy Před 2 lety +2

    You guys are so beautiful! I love that you both were being real. Thank you!❤️

  • @christieigene7139
    @christieigene7139 Před 2 lety +55

    Am 25years, sincerely sometimes I feel there is no need to continue keeping myself for that Mr Right, but after watching this video, am encourage not to give up in all good things, it has been God all way🙏🙏🙏

    • @monicagikonyo3126
      @monicagikonyo3126 Před 2 lety +3

      Maintain that purity girl and when your Hus comes,trust and honour will never depart in your home....talking out of experience for more than 10yrs in marriage now

    • @pejuodunlami238
      @pejuodunlami238 Před 2 lety +3

      I pray God makes it easy for you and bring unto you a very good man that seeks and knows the heart of God and treats you like a queen that you'll be

    • @firstbrilliantgold4919
      @firstbrilliantgold4919 Před 2 lety +1

      Don't have sex with any man before your marriage, I'm a male but telling you the truth, those that had messed themselves up before their time may not support this, first honor attach to it and God blessing also await you for simple obidient, so feel good and be happy about it, I'm 41 now and happy about myself

    • @lucyebiloma7996
      @lucyebiloma7996 Před 2 lety

      Please wait its worth it. Don't pray to handle guilt

    • @tiayahthompson1233
      @tiayahthompson1233 Před 2 lety +2

      Don't not waste something so precious on dogs who will not value something so beautiful.

  • @deleolukotun1196
    @deleolukotun1196 Před 2 lety +134

    May the Lord keep you both. You're impacting the generation of young Christians. God bless you. My marriage is 36years now and still counting. You are a blessing!

  • @Crey4you
    @Crey4you Před 2 lety +2

    Lol the best conversation about this I've heard! So funny and light and real info, thanks!! God bless y'all

  • @ezehadaezez7354
    @ezehadaezez7354 Před rokem +3

    Wow. I love this, I am 27,will be 28 in a month time and still in tact. I have been so scared on how my first night will be. Thank God for watching this.. I pray the Lord helps me and give me the strength..cos I can't endure things. Hearing of pains to feel on first day gets me nostalgia.
    Thanks alot

  • @EzekielBb
    @EzekielBb Před 2 lety +32

    The anointing broke the yoke and the blood paved the way… glory to God hallelujah 🔥😍♥️

  • @cliffidahosa
    @cliffidahosa Před 2 lety +70

    No guilt, no shame.. this is it for me. The experience for me and my wife wasn't funny cos we were on the matter for almost two weeks😃 Finally we made it and all glory to God 🙌😀. And for you both, I just love youuuu🤗🤗🤗🤗.

  • @langlaiscestfacile4375
    @langlaiscestfacile4375 Před 2 lety +2

    I really appreciate your video guys. In reality I didnt exactly know why I downloaded it. And then after school I got back to my room, I was very exhausted and I decided to watch it. I really enjoyed watching it. I am christian, I am also virgin and by watching it I am very encouraged to keep me till I get married. love you from Cote dIvoire

  • @gifted7492
    @gifted7492 Před rokem +1

    Wow!
    Speechless at this point. I love you guys. Talking about this with so much purity is a cool one. God bless you guys

  • @Dupesvlog
    @Dupesvlog Před 2 lety +100

    The anointing broke the yoke and the blood paved the way 🤣🤣🤣🤣
    Love you guysss.
    This matter ehhnnnnn😩😩😩. I've been praying for my wedding night and will continue to pray about it until the day comes.
    Cause, omo. 😩

  • @OwolabiEsther
    @OwolabiEsther Před 2 lety +85

    CZcams recommended me this gem, I do not regret it. I love the honesty in this video!

  • @brendonkline596
    @brendonkline596 Před 5 měsíci +14

    Thank you guys for making this video. I'm 27, engaged, and getting married to the most amazing blessing of a woman I could have asked God for. This night is something I'm very anxious about because I never want to cause my wife pain. But the way you guys described this was so biblical and beautiful. Thank you. 🙏

  • @genevievemwachia1434
    @genevievemwachia1434 Před 24 dny

    Just came across this video and I could not wait to watch it.
    Finally am here you earned a subscriber.
    Am 26 yrs old still a virgin waiting for the God sent husband.
    Am really encouraged with the story loving you from Kenya 🎉❤.

  • @audreysinclair3442
    @audreysinclair3442 Před 2 lety +172

    I applaud you for sharing this very intimate part of your life with us. It is a blessing to all Christian couples to know the honour of waiting until marriage. May God continue to bless you

    • @bragohannah4971
      @bragohannah4971 Před 2 lety

      Waw infact u ve really encourage mhi alot

    • @melisawisdom1140
      @melisawisdom1140 Před 2 lety

      Love this video
      Tell me, where did you go to get help for foreplay & such things

  • @mommynti3stewart391
    @mommynti3stewart391 Před 2 lety +163

    I laughed so hard watching this video 🤣 I love how you referred (everything) back to the word of God. God bless you Brother and Sister in Christ!

  • @allyson4801
    @allyson4801 Před 2 lety +1

    I love this video, thanks for sharing. It is a good resource for persons getting married to see their peers instead of listening to an old person giving advice on these matters.

  • @Selenadeetigris21
    @Selenadeetigris21 Před 3 měsíci

    Awwwe I loved this! The pure honesty, the humor it was so reassuring! I’m 26 and still a virgin waiting for my husband but I’m sooo afraid of the pain I’ll experience my first time and will I be able to make my husband happy but hearing testimonies like this makes me feel like I can overcome that fear! Amen! God is good!!!🥹🎉

  • @DreamAchieveLive
    @DreamAchieveLive Před 2 lety +87

    Just stumbled into this video and I'm watching it with my friends, who are actually not christians.
    But all they're saying rn is they want to be Christians and get married to Christian males so they can experience such, hear this scriptures and relate to them 😂😂😂😂
    This one is on a whole new level 😂😂😂😂

  • @eleanorayanamorgan5417
    @eleanorayanamorgan5417 Před 2 lety +166

    I really appreciate this lovely couple's testimony; however, I would have liked to hear more from his wife and her own words about her real experience. May God continue to bless you and your marriage.

    • @Mymamayama
      @Mymamayama Před 2 lety +12

      Lol I like this comment .. the wife needs to speak up ,beautiful couple tho!

    • @tyraannan3013
      @tyraannan3013 Před 2 lety +9

      Hope he brought you the icecream 🤣🤣🤣🤣 bless you both

    • @mem3769
      @mem3769 Před 2 lety +12

      She said she was in so much pain, she couldnt do it. She also said she had clothes in between her teeth like biting down to not scream out.

    • @beverleyhunter5174
      @beverleyhunter5174 Před 2 lety

      This is beautiful

    • @manikasakala5866
      @manikasakala5866 Před 27 dny

      me too

  • @christabelemeh4257
    @christabelemeh4257 Před rokem

    Thanks guys for being real that's the more reason why I stick to your channel. Shalom.

  • @nnedinsoabugu5640
    @nnedinsoabugu5640 Před 2 lety +4

    Just stumbled on the video, the title was what caught My fancy🥰. In a world where sexual immorality has become the norm leaving most virgins shy to own their truth, you both showed the 'Joy ' of waiting for the right time. I was honestly energized

  • @celishialarosa8216
    @celishialarosa8216 Před 2 lety +55

    My gosh. Dont know how I ended up here but as a wife for 7 years am lol from ear to ear. Love u guys. Please be each others best friend. Pray without ceasing. Have eyes only for each other. Avoid hearsay... it will work out.

  • @friendsofthesaviour4690
    @friendsofthesaviour4690 Před 2 lety +371

    This is one of the reasons rape should carry very, very heavy penalty.

  • @vinishagovender5767
    @vinishagovender5767 Před 2 lety +7

    You guys are just crazy and hilarious, thank you for encouraging words.

  • @tezetaaschalew6468
    @tezetaaschalew6468 Před 18 dny

    Awww! What a nice store. To god be the glory .The next generations need video's like this to encourage

  • @iTuneGee
    @iTuneGee Před 2 lety +108

    I consider myself blessed to see this... you guys are a beacon of light in a dark and perverse generation. Take that from a bro who went to his virgin bride a virgin himself some 17 years ago! Kudos Stalwart lovers!

  • @ihemmaduvictoria6382
    @ihemmaduvictoria6382 Před 2 lety +64

    This is one of the best videos I've seen lately... I feel like christians should talk about intimacy instead of shying away from it like it's not real... U guys are really encouraging..

  • @elizabethesho1029
    @elizabethesho1029 Před 2 lety +2

    Oh gosh! You guys are too cute! Thanks for sharing on the sensitive topic in such a funny and lighthearted way 😊❤️. Definitely has given me a new perspective on my future wedding night 😂. God bless you.

  • @tonyhalfelven376
    @tonyhalfelven376 Před rokem +2

    Well done. This is spot on. I wish we would have been taught this in premarital counseling. I thank God that He guided us through this in the same way as you two.

  • @chilombe
    @chilombe Před 2 lety +273

    Amen: I wish I heard this before my wedding night. It was a similar story for us. It took a few months and even going to a doctor before things became enjoyable. It is true that not even the church really talks about this. It is strange the church and parents expect is to be virgins, but after the wedding everyone expects us to be experts. It takes time.

    • @lamoyawilliams719
      @lamoyawilliams719 Před 2 lety +2

      Hello. I am a virgin also. How did the doctor help?

    • @chilombe
      @chilombe Před 2 lety +10

      @@lamoyawilliams719 My wife and I went together to see a gynecologist just to check if everything was good downstairs. Despite my wife screaming during the checkup, we were told that everything was good. So we found confidence to try again slowly with lots of lubrication and then we had a breakthrough moment.

    • @MsEss2011
      @MsEss2011 Před 2 lety +6

      @@lamoyawilliams719 You can ask for muscle relaxants like diazepam.

    • @millicentmosioma9834
      @millicentmosioma9834 Před 2 lety +6

      We almost went to the doctor as well,at some point I thought I was abnormal but thank God finally..after months of trying

    • @godwinc.timothy4187
      @godwinc.timothy4187 Před 2 lety

      Hahahaaa.

  • @emilyagbosu4766
    @emilyagbosu4766 Před 2 lety +90

    I just love how your hubby explain everything deeply May God bless your union

    • @godwinkosoko7633
      @godwinkosoko7633 Před 2 lety

      I am so proud of you as couples 💑 the communications of both of you is real and fantastic. I wish both of you good marriage life in Jesus mighty name 🙏🙌

  • @Purityadvocate
    @Purityadvocate Před rokem +1

    This is amazing,I believe in the marriage bed undefiled,it’s a season for me to study on this and i am glad to come across yours today,thank you❤ and God bless you 😊

  • @AudreyB_
    @AudreyB_ Před 2 lety +22

    This video just popped up in my feed and I watched. I just fell in love with you both. The way you told your story was funny and encouraging. I’m a new fan. God bless.

    • @TheStalwartLovers
      @TheStalwartLovers  Před 2 lety +3

      Welcome to the family 🥰. Please watch more videos, you'd be glad. Don't forget to subscribe. We love you ❤️

  • @tattehmuch6472
    @tattehmuch6472 Před 2 lety +96

    I am a virgin , and l just pray that my future husband will be this patient with me.

    • @nyashadzashemanyange4667
      @nyashadzashemanyange4667 Před 2 lety +5

      Me too sis

    • @judahwillgofirst7964
      @judahwillgofirst7964 Před 2 lety +3

      May God bless you with faithful,loving men for choosing what 'many see as embarrassing' these days,,may He guide and send you your partners,,for some us, we regret each and every day,,

    • @tattehmuch6472
      @tattehmuch6472 Před 2 lety

      @@judahwillgofirst7964 thank you so much

    • @gracemartha2437
      @gracemartha2437 Před 2 lety

      It is DONE my dear. He will definitely be patient 👌🏽

    • @9jaentertainment927
      @9jaentertainment927 Před 2 lety

      @@nyashadzashemanyange4667 that is if u met the Right one

  • @kate4realus
    @kate4realus Před 2 lety +621

    I can totally relate to this.😊 My honeymoon was in a beach house just by the beach, my own kind of fairytale, but the sexy times was anything but that. We couldn't get past 'the veil', it was a terrible kind of pain everytime we got to that part, and it was like that all through the 3 nights away from home, but we kept on trying every other day, i was too tiny, at a point, i was thinking i didn't have a hole* down there. Our 1st breakthrough was 20days after (yes i was counting), it was still really painful but we got somewhere, let's just say i was sore for the 1st few months... but things got better as the days went by. I'm thankful for a patient partner, that definitely helped and i wasn't pressured. They need to teach these things at counseling o, wedding nights are usually not all that, but yeah, you have the rest of your lives together to keep stepping it up. ... I need to stop typing now.😁

    • @chizobamuomah1846
      @chizobamuomah1846 Před 2 lety +21

      They really need to. So many things we didn't know. It wasn't a funny experience. For some of us it took weeks. At some point we were considering going to the hospital to know if everything was okay. Thank God for a patient and considerate husband. And even after the breakthrough, it still takes months to become enjoyable.

    • @carolinewanjera6775
      @carolinewanjera6775 Před 2 lety +17

      You have described my situation fully.I thought something was wrong down there.Day 25 on a Wednesday that's when we atleast managed.I was so glad and I felt like almost an expert 🥰🥰🥰🥰😆😆

    • @ndmacokereke4154
      @ndmacokereke4154 Před 2 lety +4

      Oh my God, I wish I saw this before my own experience, oh, oh, am just speechless, I saw my self crying like a baaaaabbbyyyy🤔🤔🤔

    • @cutiekay1000
      @cutiekay1000 Před 2 lety +19

      Thanks for your comment. I think we need to promote more sexual purity and chasity especially in men. I wish I would have waited. May God grant you the strength to endure. Take it from me. It is worth it. Wait patiently on the Lord. Dont be or feel pressured.

    • @ifeefee6964
      @ifeefee6964 Před 2 lety +13

      Thank you so much for sharing your testimony especially about a caring husband being patient with you. I am a virgin and I sometimes think about my wedding night and wonder will my husband be ok if it takes a minute and I am thankful for this video & y'all sharing your experience. It calms & encourages me!. 🥰🤗🥰🤗

  • @pianolessonswithcollins8756

    Wow ....lot of positive energy here...I'm highly encouraged...I needed to watch this video, considering all the pressure around.. I love you people so much

  • @taneledlamini9505
    @taneledlamini9505 Před 16 dny

    Nice video, and really encouraging. Smiles through out, may God keep your union under His grace forever

  • @ebenezeraina9133
    @ebenezeraina9133 Před 2 lety +48

    Love the groom's sincerity with diplomacy.

  • @adeolaade-alao7309
    @adeolaade-alao7309 Před 3 lety +248

    This has to be the most explicit video on this matter that I have watched. I celebrate you guys for doing this. Thanks for the enlightenment! Good jobs!

    • @TheStalwartLovers
      @TheStalwartLovers  Před 3 lety +11

      😅😉

    • @sweetsopcomedy1458
      @sweetsopcomedy1458 Před 2 lety +17

      It was well presented, no shame here at all. I appreciated them both....flying to Jerusalem...

    • @misswinnie4.8
      @misswinnie4.8 Před 2 lety

      Here's another Christian couple, there are several on YT czcams.com/video/d9tp2g27BMY/video.html

  • @mercyleonekwashix8366
    @mercyleonekwashix8366 Před 2 lety +5

    So true,got married three months ago,and am happy I waited,it was worth the wait,thanks for sharing this.