HOW I LOST MY VIRGINITY BEFORE MARRIAGE AND HOW IT AFFECTED MY SEX-LIFE || Unashamed Episode 1

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  • čas přidán 16. 06. 2024
  • Hey beautiful people! welcome to unashamed season 1. On this episode, Miriam shared her story about how she lost her virginity before marriage and how it affected her sex-life.
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Komentáře • 289

  • @Adaeze_Nwachukwu
    @Adaeze_Nwachukwu Před rokem +250

    This is such an important conversation you're having! Most people shy away from these topics & it ends up causing more harm than good. Just like Miriam, it was based on the education my mum gave me while I was yet so little that made me decide to keep myself for my husband. Initially I was doing well because I hard a strong resolve & I love the Lord until I turned 24 and the temptations became intense! That was when the realization dawned on me that a man is kept only because the Lord keeps him. I started crying out to God to help me remain faithful. I just turned 25 a week ago & by the help of the Holy Spirit everyday just gets better. I am still keeping my commitment to God because he helps me to do so. No one can keep themselves relying on their natural strength but we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us! Thank you Miriam for sharing.

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Před rokem +7

      This is so apt. Thank you so much for sharing ❤️

    • @Adaeze_Nwachukwu
      @Adaeze_Nwachukwu Před rokem +1

      You're most welcome!!

    • @bodebabalola780
      @bodebabalola780 Před rokem +1

      God bless you bro.

    • @learningtolearn3883
      @learningtolearn3883 Před rokem +3

      Hmmm is not easy, I'm 23 the temptations is not easy at all not only the ladies but numerous people advising to
      Lord help me and keep me🙏

    • @LoveGrace-tg2bl
      @LoveGrace-tg2bl Před 5 měsíci +2

      You ladies stay strong. M 37 and a virgin never had a boyfriend but my journey has been easy because I don't watch ( lovy dovy movies), no friends at all, refuse to be in a secluded place w the opposite sex. Above all it is the grace of God that kept me

  • @mr.increediblle7964
    @mr.increediblle7964 Před rokem +95

    I do not practice Christianity but really wish i kept myself till marriage. I took part of hook up culture and it left me feeling void. I respect people who are able to shun the pressures of the world and kept themselves till marriage

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Před rokem +2

      ❤️❤️

    • @victorayodele2577
      @victorayodele2577 Před rokem +7

      Having sex with the right person will Neva make u void actually.Even if u decide to keep urself till marriage, having sex in marriage with the wrong person still makes one feel void.

    • @franciskojo2559
      @franciskojo2559 Před rokem

      ​@@victorayodele2577 don't gratify fornication and something which is an alien to Africans. The fact that you couldn't control yourself doesn't mean it is normal. You don't know even implications of having sex with people not married to. Stop this evil slogan of having sex with good person. A good person will marry you before sex . Please stop that debauchery.

    • @Kingdomambassadors36
      @Kingdomambassadors36 Před rokem +9

      Jesus is the answer. I am encouraging you to come to Jesus and experience the presence of the lord . Bless 🙏🏾

    • @m.o.1859
      @m.o.1859 Před rokem +2

      You can heal through and through if you come to Jesus Christ.

  • @nuriamusase
    @nuriamusase Před rokem +10

    We live in a promiscuous era that makes us think that being virgin or chaste is something unacceptable for young people while God created sex to be only enjoyed inside the marriage. Sex is sacred that's why we need to be wise before using it in the wrong way.

  • @funmio4892
    @funmio4892 Před rokem +97

    Hi Victoria I am so happy that you are having this conversation, I married as a virgin quite alright, but I had a couple of near misses, my marrying as a virgin was all God. However, I still dealth with the issue of guilt for over 5 years of my marriage. This is my 11th year now. The Good thing about this conversation is that it is making make certain connections, I never associated the guilt I felt after sex with all the smooshing that happened while we were dating. I always felt guilty anytime I found myself in those situations, me and my husband had a long distance relationship so it was always hard getting out hands off each other when we saw, it took God himself. Your guest has really given me an answer to a long time problem because I never understood it, I will get so upset and guilty after sex and I will keep reminding myself that I am now married and God is not upset with me. I had to start praying a lot about it and involved the Holy Spirit, and finally, I got delivered. Sex is a beautiful thing, but the devil will do everything to make you think otherwise. Especially for children of God who want to do things right and please God with our bodies.

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Před rokem +12

      Wow! Thank you so much for sharing! I'm so glad you were delivered from that. Sex is a gift, and we're to enjoy it in marriage. The devil is a liar!
      If you'll like to share your story on the channel, please contact me! See the description box.
      Thanks so much ❤

    • @Temitope_Lawal
      @Temitope_Lawal Před rokem +2

      Absolutely!

    • @Caroline_Takon
      @Caroline_Takon Před rokem

      Thank you ma

  • @semakulazaitun6818
    @semakulazaitun6818 Před rokem +3

    ❤👏👏 its not easy to forgive yourself for breaking your committment. It hunts you each time. Thank you for this wisdom

  • @eluanmark4204
    @eluanmark4204 Před rokem +7

    I’m really enjoying this series, let me keep watching☺️. Your guest is amazing, she did so well by being vulnerable, God bless her.
    This is nice Mrs Fash 🥰.

  • @iamrising7176
    @iamrising7176 Před rokem +20

    That's how it happens. You hold on to a point that you might start feeling confident IN YOURSELF. That's how I got involved in it after waiting for 23 years. The secret is to always see each day as a new day to depend on God and never lean on your own understanding.

  • @aderinolaoni5085
    @aderinolaoni5085 Před rokem +16

    A very wholesome conversation. Almost like therapy 😊
    Now I understand my journey a lot better, especially since I had an almost similar experience.
    First time on your channel and I loved it👍🏽

  • @berthaanku
    @berthaanku Před rokem +46

    What a conversation 🔥🔥🔥 Mrs.Fash you are doing the most for our generation... Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @Favoured_Favour45
    @Favoured_Favour45 Před rokem +10

    This is my first time here and I enjoyed every bit of it. Thank you for being vulnerable

  • @sochydiara7029
    @sochydiara7029 Před rokem +5

    I enjoyed this!... I'm glad alot of people are still interested in upholding God's standard...I just subscribed

  • @godwinoki9866
    @godwinoki9866 Před 11 měsíci +1

    You two look like twins and the atmosphere is really exhilarating. Miriam is a very lively and magnetic personality.

  • @winstonk400
    @winstonk400 Před rokem +4

    love the candid conversations on this channel. subbed!!!

  • @angelinesgodfrey5931
    @angelinesgodfrey5931 Před rokem +3

    It's beautiful listening to this, it has made me tell my self i can still do it, i can keep myself to marriage,,, this discussion is very crucial and impacts many people ❤❤,

  • @talatubako3047
    @talatubako3047 Před rokem +45

    Hi Victoria. You are doing a greatly needed ministry in the Kingdom. Thank you! 🙏🏽 Being married for nearly 39 years, the issues are still the same except that now, we are able to talk about them more openly and freely. Pain and discomfort for first-timers in marriage may be the result of inadequate premarital counselling especially as well, first time of the physical exertion involved. Most counselling on marital sexual relationship is not as in-depth as it should be. Men and women respond to sex differently. New husbands and all ignorant husbands and wives must learn that men are like the gas cooker, easily aroused and quickly satisfied while women are like the electric stove. They take longer to get aroused, which is where foreplay is critical, and also take longer than men to be satisfied after intercourse. New husbands, therefore, need to learn to be sensitive, patient and gentle with their bride. They have all their life together to grow in their sexual relationship. We need to do our homework very well. Thanks once again Vic and Miriam. God bless you more.🙏🏽👏🏽❤️

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Před rokem +2

      Love the analogy, thank you so much for your comment ❤️

    • @amandlaawethu1538
      @amandlaawethu1538 Před rokem +6

      39 years of marriage in todays world. Great job

  • @tanyakadi3445
    @tanyakadi3445 Před rokem +8

    ❤❤❤wow Victoria. I love this content. Its awesome 👌. You are great at interviewing . Much appreciation to your guest for her openness. ❤️

  • @olorunfemitinuade
    @olorunfemitinuade Před rokem +6

    Thank you ma's for this insightful conservation🤗. There are times when peer pressure pushs us to do things we ought not to do as young people. God bless you😌

  • @chineduogbonnaya465
    @chineduogbonnaya465 Před rokem +2

    Such a beautiful conversation. You and your guest are amazing especially because of the realness in the conversation. Is my first time on your channel and I loved it. You just got a new subscriber😊

  • @samefedi7131
    @samefedi7131 Před rokem

    I stumbled into this channel, just to see what's up and I end up finishing the video.
    More grace for the great work

  • @joyscestarchi556
    @joyscestarchi556 Před rokem +1

    Wow! What a great talk.
    Really enjoyed the whole conversation. I'm really blessed❤

  • @johnistifanus5107
    @johnistifanus5107 Před rokem +5

    I am super impressed seeing beautiful young christian women speaking with wisdom

  • @the_nurse_influencer
    @the_nurse_influencer Před rokem +13

    Example of Conversations that we should be having😊 thank you so much ma'am for this enlightenment.

  • @ggg-kh4ze
    @ggg-kh4ze Před rokem +6

    This my first time here and...wow I'm thrilled, 25 and still a virgin barely talked Abt. On my side though but didn't think complacency can cause stuff that to happen...thank u 4 this tnx 4sharing❤

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Před rokem

      I'm really glad you found this helpful. Thanks for shared

  • @essysworld9360
    @essysworld9360 Před rokem +9

    Am super excited for this series Mrs Fash , and thank you Mirriam for sharing your story 🤗.

  • @conversationswithnimat
    @conversationswithnimat Před rokem +4

    Oh my 🔥My first time chancing on your channel! This is some wholesome content. Thank you both for this. God bless you. You got a new sub😊💕😁

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Před rokem +1

      Thank you so much for watching! You're very welcome!

  • @atohtenguhsamuella7769
    @atohtenguhsamuella7769 Před rokem +2

    This video definitely helped me a lot . I now understand better that we need God's help even in situations liké this; preserving one's self until marriage and even the sex life in marriage, WE should seek Him always and in every situation. This gave me liberty!! Thank You! God bless❤

  • @katealuko3464
    @katealuko3464 Před rokem +7

    This is a very rare topic people discuss online. Well-done ma

  • @onyinyechiogbonna6386
    @onyinyechiogbonna6386 Před rokem +13

    It was so nice listening to this convo between you two amazing women... You both kept it so real and wholesome... So much I learnt from here🙌... God bless you both🙏🙏💯

  • @acino_official5194
    @acino_official5194 Před rokem +1

    Awesome page. Why am I just seeing this page now.? Thanks Victoria

  • @oluwatosinakinyemi8348
    @oluwatosinakinyemi8348 Před rokem +3

    I enjoyed every bit of the video
    The smiles, joy on your faces and much more

  • @dereknayramagbenyo3840

    This awesome... So inspiring and educative.

  • @olaniyanmayowa1934
    @olaniyanmayowa1934 Před 11 měsíci +4

    As I'm seeing this video, is just like you're sharing my own situations 😢. At 28😢😢. I see it as what marital delay can cause. It's so so painful, I tried, I didn't want this to happen, wasn't intentional at all but then, the deed has been done.
    Thanks so much sis Victoria for doing this.
    It gives courage, strength and lot more.
    Keep the fire burning ma.
    @sis Miriam, I celebrate you👏.
    #Sexual urges are not needs 👌📌

  • @julietsonga1832
    @julietsonga1832 Před rokem +4

    Thank you dearest Victoria, God bless your guest & continue to lead & protect her marriage. She was venerable & not many people can❤ you both look beautiful by the way😊❤

  • @bridgetmicheal418
    @bridgetmicheal418 Před rokem +4

    ❤ I love 💕 the last words "advice" , Mrs Fash thanks God bless you.

  • @iamtalo
    @iamtalo Před rokem +5

    Waouh what a small world, to think I went to secondary school in Cotonou with her! Thank to both of you for sharing 🙏

  • @myzgod
    @myzgod Před rokem +7

    Sex is not a sin. It is only a sin when we do it outside marriage. We should look forward to it.

  • @havinghope1412
    @havinghope1412 Před rokem +33

    This pain happened to me too! Loosing my V b4 marriage was a horrible mistake it took years of spiritual work for me to forgive myself so I could enjoy intimacy in marriage. Thx for ur courage to share/encourage

  • @TheAdedolapo.
    @TheAdedolapo. Před rokem +5

    I really love this series and I’m looking forward to more of it. Thank you Miriam❤

  • @pagieshalom5551
    @pagieshalom5551 Před rokem +1

    Am so glad for this session,😊 I love hiw you kept pointing us back to yhe Holy spirit I know its very important

  • @winfridahchibale5281
    @winfridahchibale5281 Před rokem

    Wow.... this is great... continue doing this Vicky

  • @BukolaRY_TV
    @BukolaRY_TV Před rokem +3

    Beautiful story.....God bless her and her husband 🙏🙏

  • @havinghope1412
    @havinghope1412 Před rokem +8

    Biggest mistake I made! period! Stay the course and be safe not sorry is best for man/woman before marriage

  • @alexanderfaith7659
    @alexanderfaith7659 Před rokem

    What a conversation…. Thanks for sharing 🙏🙏🙏

  • @adejumoadebisi5567
    @adejumoadebisi5567 Před rokem +2

    I couldn't view this video since I saved it and tonight is such a perfect time to watch.
    Thank you so much Mrs Fash for all you do for me personally with all your videos.
    This particular one is what I can relate with pretty well. The guilt I went through after waiting 25years and I eventually lost it casually.
    Thanks to the Spirit of God that never leaves nor forsake us. Understanding the love of God also helps the healing.
    I strongly believe the same strength of God that made me rise again is the only one that can carry me through the journey...

  • @oyindamolafalana5151
    @oyindamolafalana5151 Před rokem

    Loved this video used it as a wake up call❤

  • @mobileconnectprofessionals925

    This is a good one. Alot to learn

  • @leonardagbleyjnr1445
    @leonardagbleyjnr1445 Před rokem +9

    Just discovered this channel ,i am astonished as to how open your guest is I've got a million dollar question, later i would like to know what her husband's reaction was when he realized she wasn't a Virgin and how they both came together to navigate the situation

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Před rokem +2

      We'll look into this... Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @toyin_afolabi
    @toyin_afolabi Před rokem +13

    I love her vulnerability, interesting conversation too

  • @favourose9611
    @favourose9611 Před rokem

    Thanks for this Vicky...God bless you

  • @fionamilanoi5957
    @fionamilanoi5957 Před rokem +1

    This is so wholesome ❤

  • @ogunlekeolayinka8722
    @ogunlekeolayinka8722 Před rokem

    Beautiful!
    You gat this, keep it up.

  • @enitanakinsanya294
    @enitanakinsanya294 Před rokem

    Welldone sis....you are going a good job

  • @princessaifuwa
    @princessaifuwa Před rokem

    Wonderful discussion

  • @bellajeremiah9966
    @bellajeremiah9966 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for sharing. such an insightful video.

  • @niceyenuf1
    @niceyenuf1 Před rokem

    Thanks for your transparency❣

  • @yourfavonlineneighbor
    @yourfavonlineneighbor Před rokem +4

    Thanks for the vulnerability
    Can't wait for the next episode.

  • @HRL.
    @HRL. Před rokem +11

    Switching off the mindset on sex and emotions isn't easy to switch back on, as one may have thought.
    It isn't easy at all to gain back the emotions/feelings should one meet the right person, and that's if that person is patient enough to understand that it would take some time and process to get back in tune.

  • @chidieberejoshua5988
    @chidieberejoshua5988 Před rokem +1

    I learned alot.. thank you, thank you 🎉

  • @mmachi477
    @mmachi477 Před rokem

    I can't say so much but I really appreciate this video. Thank you both ❤️

  • @euniceolawoyin1041
    @euniceolawoyin1041 Před rokem

    This content is super 👌 👌from you and the invite, more inspiration from your end Vicky, God be with🙏⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘.Yes ,it's good to enrich yourself spiritually when still single, so you can be a mature woman when you finally get married and be well equipped to weather the storm of married life.

  • @abigailakindele575
    @abigailakindele575 Před rokem +1

    God bless you and Miriam

  • @YemiAyodeji
    @YemiAyodeji Před rokem +7

    Please this is welcome to the unashamed series 😅🎉.

  • @UwaumaTSP
    @UwaumaTSP Před rokem

    Inspiring video. More Grace Victoria

  • @leonelfonju9884
    @leonelfonju9884 Před rokem +4

    Two weapons the devil uses against believers are: Doubts and guilt. He makes you feel guilty when you unwillingly commit a sin, then he starts making you doubt your salvation , and the fact that we have been justified in Christ. Remember Christ paid the price, but just remember to sincerely repent when you find yourself in a sinful situation.

  • @Egobekee
    @Egobekee Před rokem

    Thank you do much for this❤

  • @lateefatinuke9783
    @lateefatinuke9783 Před rokem

    I'm grateful for this video........Thanks for sharing ma'am😍😍

  • @folasexytv448
    @folasexytv448 Před rokem

    Vicky darling , to be sincere with you I love this tik tags you've been doing for couple of weeks now . I love it keep it coming gurllll we are enjoying every conversations ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @osawesocials
    @osawesocials Před rokem +6

    This is my first time here! I was shocked when I even saw this video topic. Because obviously most young christian women shy away from this topic even though they may be guilty of it.

  • @Amamystry
    @Amamystry Před rokem +3

    I really love your guest...God bless her

  • @97VIRTUESHEART
    @97VIRTUESHEART Před rokem +22

    I love this show. Women should keep their virginity because of God and it relationship not for the purpose of your husband cause himself might not be a virgin. He might have destroy other people future wife,he can't be a purpose for keeping it.

    • @mariamalfa7026
      @mariamalfa7026 Před rokem +20

      It’s not women. It’s everyone that is supposed to be a virgin. I don’t know why we turn it into a gender thing. Thou shall not fornicate is for all

    • @lydiadaramola785
      @lydiadaramola785 Před rokem +9

      WOMEN AND MEN!!! Emphasis on both genders

    • @nnennaonuzuruike7776
      @nnennaonuzuruike7776 Před rokem +1

      @@mariamalfa7026 thank you for the …thou shall not fornicate

  • @ifeoluwafola7726
    @ifeoluwafola7726 Před rokem

    This is so beautiful.

  • @aramideahmed6937
    @aramideahmed6937 Před rokem

    You just got a follower. Thank you!

  • @janetemmanuel7975
    @janetemmanuel7975 Před rokem

    God bless you ma for this...

  • @ogomsseries
    @ogomsseries Před rokem

    Lovely conversation❤❤

  • @blessedamarachitv
    @blessedamarachitv Před rokem

    I really enjoyed this teaching

  • @nathanreggie
    @nathanreggie Před rokem +4

    GOD bless you Mrs Fash. This is awesome and insightful, btw my regards to Mr Fash 😂😂. Am loving this series mehn❤. Maryam did well too kudos ladies

  • @ajayitobiphebe8308
    @ajayitobiphebe8308 Před rokem +2

    My first time here. I already subcribed.
    What an insightful conversation. 😢😢😢the guilt and shame for loosing my v* at 26 too. I kept asking myself, "why couldn't I wait?" 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Před rokem

      My dear, let it go. God does not hold it against you, so why should you? Commit to keep honoring God with your body

  • @ejechidorothy6108
    @ejechidorothy6108 Před rokem

    Thank you ma'am for sharing, God bless you 🙏

  • @Chuko_Joash
    @Chuko_Joash Před rokem +5

    I cannot wait to see and learn from all that this series have to offer.
    Thank you Victoria for yielding to the Holy Spirit.
    Thank you Mariam for sharing ❤️

  • @oyeshidemary8983
    @oyeshidemary8983 Před rokem

    Wow... thanks for this. You're greatly blessed!

  • @marianuruneed5375
    @marianuruneed5375 Před rokem

    Well done sister

  • @tabokadube4424
    @tabokadube4424 Před rokem

    Very informative

  • @nellymungu5501
    @nellymungu5501 Před rokem +11

    Is there any virgin man in this comment session for me? Am 32 and still a virgin cuz am waiting for the right man from God

    • @ikejosiah7214
      @ikejosiah7214 Před rokem +1

      Here I'm dear!!!

    • @andrewopp.4554
      @andrewopp.4554 Před rokem

      Yh I am 23

    • @righteousphoenix781
      @righteousphoenix781 Před rokem

      Chale we dey

    • @princessegreene6217
      @princessegreene6217 Před 9 měsíci

      It's quite hard to meet virgin men because hook up culture makes it seem like men who "indulge in sex" are studs and they're "learning" to please their future spouse... Which is really sad because sex between married people is about exploration and learning each other... Not outside the marriage...

  • @Egobekee
    @Egobekee Před rokem

    This is wholesome

  • @peterrichard9769
    @peterrichard9769 Před rokem +1

    Beautiful ladies:you are lovely nice conversation

  • @careeyam8873
    @careeyam8873 Před rokem +1

    Thanks for this video, I enjoyed every bit of it. I will back to share my experience when I get married.. my husband wait I'm coming ooo or come and get me ...😊😊😅😊
    Well done ma'am

  • @cynthiaonyinye7238
    @cynthiaonyinye7238 Před rokem

    I really love what you do here cuz am seeing myself in your shoes

  • @hubbahulu7349
    @hubbahulu7349 Před rokem +1

    Educational conversation. I enjoyed your course. Your guess was great. When she said,"Jokes on me" I lol. I just enrolled in your class. Thank you both.

  • @marianuruneed5375
    @marianuruneed5375 Před rokem +2

    ❤❤ I'm from benin republic too

  • @lavinatieno5906
    @lavinatieno5906 Před 11 měsíci

    Wow great vedio....so nice...❤

  • @kristianlightmusic8746

    how i even got here... Thank you Lord!

  • @preciousobazogbon9598
    @preciousobazogbon9598 Před rokem +3

    First time on your channel. I’m not a virgin but have been practicing celibacy via the help of the lord …..

  • @abigailimah
    @abigailimah Před rokem +6

    Ma i was thinking you will ask her how her husband felt at first when she told him she was no longer a virgin.
    I really wanted to get that part

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Před rokem +1

      Well.... maybe next time

    • @abigailimah
      @abigailimah Před rokem +1

      Ok no prob ma

    • @abiolaolatoye7269
      @abiolaolatoye7269 Před rokem

      Thanks highlighting this, it would have been the icing on the cake to a wonderfully open and wholesome conversation.
      I've found that time and time again another hinderance to ' openness in relationships', is the fear of how the partner would deal with the news/information.
      Having your guest comment on how they were able to bring themselves to get help is good, seeking Holy spirits help is also good, now going a step further to overcome the fear and then sharing with the partner and being open to share how the partner dealt with it, the steps and all, if any, would be a good help to many. The broken and hurt out there are many and those who don't even know how to navigate these waters abound.
      Thanks for this platform, and may God engrace you to reach more. Shalom

  • @seunthomas6495
    @seunthomas6495 Před rokem +2

    Hello ma'am. Thank you for this video. I'm 28, single and a Christian. I would like to ask if you hold counseling sessions?
    I was going to share my story here but I just felt the comment section is not safe enough. I would appreciate it if you have a session with me. Thank you ma.

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Před rokem +1

      Please send me a DM on Instagram or email. See the description box

  • @InChrist2024
    @InChrist2024 Před rokem

    Following the video with volume at 0 coz am with colleagues at work, listening will follow later when alone in the house🙂

  • @jeniepha
    @jeniepha Před rokem

    Please how do u make this kind of video where u hv discussions with someone and share screen? Pls?

  • @angelamartekimarkwei8608

    Thanks.

  • @SISTERSCREED
    @SISTERSCREED Před rokem +18

    Victoria said Holy Spirit has seen something 🤣🤣🤣. I got married as a virgin, I was 27 and it’s been 2months now I still feel like whenever we are down.I feel like he hits something inside of me and it makes me shrink in pain but I wouldn’t want to stop because of him and most times after the act I feel pain in my abdomen. I really taught something was wrong with me I kept asking Google questions, and for the pleasure for me sometimes I like it but some other times I’m just not feeling it but I just kinda remain there just for my husband. I’m still in the process and trust me I still cry out to the HolySpirit most times during penetration when I’m grabbing the sheets I’m like help me oh Lord!!. It can be a lot but it’s worth it.

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Před rokem +10

      I don't know know if I should laugh or feel sorry you.. my dear, we all go through it. It will get better. Soon, you'll be the one asking for it 😋

    • @damiyussuf7565
      @damiyussuf7565 Před rokem +18

      see a gynaecologist though

    • @Temitope_Lawal
      @Temitope_Lawal Před rokem +3

      Jesus! I'm scared already 😢😢😢

    • @VictoriaAdeyeye26
      @VictoriaAdeyeye26 Před rokem +4

      Please see a gynecologist; it shouldn’t hurt that bad

    • @SISTERSCREED
      @SISTERSCREED Před rokem +3

      @ Victoria Adeyeye Nah!! It doesn’t hurt that bad, it’s like a feeling of discomfort which will fade away with time. Not excruciating pain

  • @ikevalentine4085
    @ikevalentine4085 Před rokem +4

    My fiancee is 29, a virgin, and a doc. She is just determined to marry as a virgin

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Před rokem

      That's good for her

    • @_trust9994
      @_trust9994 Před rokem

      She is lying to you brother. Women can NOT wait that long. However, I dont mean to ruin your relationship just telling you the reality of western women.

    • @ikevalentine4085
      @ikevalentine4085 Před rokem +3

      @@_trust9994 I wouldn't argue with you on this because I doubted her the day she made it open after a year of our relationship, it was a long-distance relationship. I never knew she was, it sounds bizarre at the age, right? I want to tell you today that she is still a virgin

    • @chikaemebo6262
      @chikaemebo6262 Před rokem +3

      With my own experience, if a lady close to you tells you she's a virgin, there's every chance that she really is. The sad bit is that being a virgin doesn't guarantee a good or better wife than other women.

    • @teethart9865
      @teethart9865 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@ikevalentine4085why are you dating someone you don’t trust? There are 40 years old virgins. Believe it or not, religion aside some people can stay off sex.

  • @kinjajemima9380
    @kinjajemima9380 Před rokem +1

    😂😂 I was smiling, laughing through out the video ❤😅❤😅