How We Stayed Virgins Till Marriage // *Vulnerable* We Were Not Perfect | The Stalwart Lovers

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  • Hey Stalwart Fam,
    In this video, we share how we stayed virgins till marriage despite our vulnerabilities and weaknesses. This is an episode you don't want to miss.
    Do well to share this video with every young person who needs it.
    Don't forget to subscribe and click on the notification button to join our 'Stalwart Family'
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Komentáře • 552

  • @idayatumusa4485
    @idayatumusa4485 Před 2 lety +195

    I just loving watching this channel. Am a Muslim and I really appreciate your videos. Your wife is very beautiful by the way. Your understanding of relationships is quite rare. Nice to see and listen

    • @nabukenyadianamasengere391
      @nabukenyadianamasengere391 Před rokem +3

      Me I just saw it yesterday but wow may God bless you people and use you more by his holy spirit

  • @ajibayeosijinore9665
    @ajibayeosijinore9665 Před 2 lety +116

    This is beautiful, in a generation where things like this don't really matter. Hearing young people talk about is really encouraging. Thank you

  • @chiomanwabufo831
    @chiomanwabufo831 Před 2 lety +21

    Both of you look so alike, I wonder if I am the only one seeing this?

  • @joyjohn5117
    @joyjohn5117 Před 2 lety +69

    This is one of the best videos I've watched on CZcams 😍.
    I am a young Christian lady, single and trusting God for my purpose partner, I made a promise to God since my teenage days to keep my body till marriage..
    It has not been easy, so much pressure here and there, but God has helped me all these years, I have not succumbed to any kind of sexual temptation . I pray that God will also bless me with one of his sons as a purpose partner.. I honestly want to get it right when it comes to marriage, I am prayefully trusting God in that regards and I know that he'll never disappoint those who put their trust in him..
    Thank you so much for this video..
    God bless you too immensely 🙏

  • @erebiamughan4291
    @erebiamughan4291 Před 2 lety +82

    I love this. I and my partner also plan on having our first kiss on our wedding day. Thanks soo much for this!

  • @DelightfulEyewear-gi9eo
    @DelightfulEyewear-gi9eo Před měsícem +7

    I loved this video it gave me strength not to give in until marriage but things ain't easy every time i try to lay out those principles i end up single 😂😢 but i won't give in 🤞🙏 until God does it for me

  • @bloom4331
    @bloom4331 Před 2 lety +29

    Thank you so much for this video the stalwart lovers😍. Please if you are not in a relationship leading to marriage with a brother, do not tell him your weaknesses sexually. Thank you.

  • @giftmuswema8111
    @giftmuswema8111 Před 2 lety +128

    Its the raw honesty you have that always draws me to your channel

  • @arigyenancy-pr7hx
    @arigyenancy-pr7hx Před 21 dnem +2

    I have never lost faith in God.I chose and will choose and will always choose to follow God's way, biblical way, there's not a time that He wasn't faithful to His word.Am waiting on Him and I pray for the best.

  • @ob312100
    @ob312100 Před 2 lety +40

    Beautiful. Love the honesty. I've been married for over 7 years and was a virgin as well and I can identify with all you said. Excellent video . Great work guys. Your marriage is blessed.

  • @johnchiemela5261
    @johnchiemela5261 Před 2 lety +45

    Have been following up keenly, but have never commented, however I must attest that your words have been helpful to me...like you rightly said boundary is not enough, also seek for grace to keep to it....Another thing I found helpful is each time you overcome any temptation, always use it to advice others, keep talking about, it will help one to be strong and firm.

  • @olufunkeogunwole1683
    @olufunkeogunwole1683 Před 2 lety +3

    I love how vulnerable you are with sharing these lessons. Thank you, Stalwart lover!

  • @remithefirst
    @remithefirst Před 2 lety +53

    Thank you guys for this. Truly, if both partners set boundaries based on God, not what they feel they can handle, then they stand a better chance. This was the mistake I made the last time. Also, it's important to understand each other's weaknesses, not see it as an anomaly

  • @saintraphael94
    @saintraphael94 Před 2 lety +13

    To uphold yourselves in purity, be on the lookout for each others weaknesses and help each other in that regard!!. This is pinpoint!!

  • @GeorginaEsiTakyiAnnan
    @GeorginaEsiTakyiAnnan Před 2 lety +31

    The world needs more of such videos 😍 I’m glad to be part of this family

  • @Olaedo_Onah
    @Olaedo_Onah Před 2 lety +3

    God bless you for being so so honest.
    I'm glad I'm a part of this family!!

  • @Iyajesuoriginal
    @Iyajesuoriginal Před 2 lety +19

    I just love you both, I am glad to be part of this family. One thing I really agree with is being with a partner that is on the same page with you. If you're a Christian that feels kissing is wrong and you are with a Christian that feels there's nothing wrong with kissing then there's a problem

  • @tolulopekinlolase1656
    @tolulopekinlolase1656 Před 2 lety +16

    The fact that you guys are real and truthful is what keeps me to this channel. God bless you both.

  • @Nemydora
    @Nemydora Před rokem +1

    Hey I just love you guys!
    I am glad I stumbled on your channel here a couple of weeks here and have become a staunch lover.
    I can feel the transparency and realistic nature. You're doing absolutely well.

  • @favourfasanya3850
    @favourfasanya3850 Před 2 lety +10

    I did not enjoy the video alone, I love love it and the both of you. Thank you for being vulnerable with us. It is not taken for granted. You have been a blessing indeed. God bless you!

  • @brightolunusi6730
    @brightolunusi6730 Před 2 lety +6

    If I could have given this video numerous likes to meet up with the views, I would have done so. This is so on point. God bless you so much.

  • @ifechiezeanowi2987
    @ifechiezeanowi2987 Před 2 lety +8

    Newest subscriber! 🤗🤗🤗
    And I'm loving it here! Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability! ❤️
    I believe loving God and just wanting to honour Him is what helps us with such decisions... Letting the love of God compel you to live a life that glorifies Him.

  • @elizabethtai-ojuolape3171
    @elizabethtai-ojuolape3171 Před 2 lety +10

    This is so realistic! It’s like I’m the one sharing my struggles , this boundary thing is haaarrddd😩. Thank you so much, a new subscription!!🎊🎊

  • @ebereelizabeth2879
    @ebereelizabeth2879 Před 2 lety +9

    I can so relate. Sexual purity in a relationship takes a lotttt of discipline. God's grace is always sufficient.

  • @marlynrose114
    @marlynrose114 Před 2 lety +5

    I love the raw honesty in this video. May God continue to bless and strengthen this beautiful union

  • @pottersclaycrew9879
    @pottersclaycrew9879 Před 2 lety +2

    Kaiiiii, this is super amazing.
    God bless and keep your Union.
    This just served as a template, I'm grateful to you guys.

  • @Thejosephidowu
    @Thejosephidowu Před 2 lety +1

    Amazing. Thank you for this. And for setting boundaries, I think being accountable is very important most especially your pastor or a higher authority. Thank you guys so much

  • @gabriellajuma7719
    @gabriellajuma7719 Před 2 lety +6

    If there is something I love about you guys is how true and open you are ..it means a lot...

  • @animasauntitilayo2153
    @animasauntitilayo2153 Před 2 lety +2

    God bless you so much for this video. It strengthened my weakening convictions. You ironed out a whole lot of things. Thanks for being real and vulnerable.

  • @elainetomlinson9307
    @elainetomlinson9307 Před 2 lety +3

    I pray and hope that many young people are following ur chanel .there are so many things for them to learn god words are the solid rock and am loving every moment of how u both are depending on him.continue trusting and holding on him.

  • @PhilipThrives
    @PhilipThrives Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you for being unashamed enough to shared your vulnerabilities. May God continually uphold your home and Marriage.

  • @Ella_speaks16.01
    @Ella_speaks16.01 Před rokem +2

    This is so hilarious and very much educative.
    I didn't get it right at first, but thank God for the gift of you guys and others...
    Sometimes, I wish I got to know people like you earlier on, but I guess everything happens for a reason.
    Thanks so much for sharing this with us, I learned so much. Now I know it's okay to talk about how you feel when those urges comes and it's best to talk about eachother's weaknesses so as not make anyone fall into temptation and end up breaking their boundaries.
    Gush!!
    I love you guys so much ❤️
    Your videos are so inspiring.

  • @akanmukehindeelizabeth7923

    Thank you Stalwart lovers,you're a blessing!

  • @preciousbenta6079
    @preciousbenta6079 Před 2 lety +1

    Happy New Year from Kenya! I have been a silent follower. Nice content. Keep it up. Your helping many out here.

  • @osongmayah9867
    @osongmayah9867 Před 2 lety +10

    Wow when ever you couple speak it's like God talking through you. Thank you for sharing this things. It's important I love the part you said (I'm paraphrasing) keep walking with God and he will always help direct me on what is wrong and what us right

  • @mbaliphilisiwegudazi8875
    @mbaliphilisiwegudazi8875 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you for the Powerful content, The Body of Christ needs it!👐 Love all the way from SA🇿🇦

  • @jacklineayikoru4016
    @jacklineayikoru4016 Před 2 lety +4

    You guys are the best the big bro and sis i have never had...Thanks for the pep talk, thanks for your openness and the inspiration. Now I've learnt the importance to setting boundaries on day one, its not easy but i believe that when a couple understands and loves eachother, it is easier to walk the path of righteousness....Lots of love from Uganda

  • @rejoicemuvangua8944
    @rejoicemuvangua8944 Před 2 lety +55

    I can attest to it that it isn’t an easy journey courtship. Especially after the engagement for me it become tougher but glory to God. Keep up motivating fellow single Christians in the Lord on maintaining purity

  • @ntsakomavunda9018
    @ntsakomavunda9018 Před 2 lety

    We truly appreciate your vulnerability and openness in this channel🤝 truly and thank you.

  • @sirribeckline6844
    @sirribeckline6844 Před 2 lety

    I love your vulnerability here. I also admire the way you two open about your feelings to each other. You two are an example for others to follow

  • @Iamjohncaleb
    @Iamjohncaleb Před 2 lety +16

    Every single should watch this y'all!!!!
    Thank you guys 💚

  • @gbemierhabor2982
    @gbemierhabor2982 Před 2 lety +1

    Kudos to you guys for being very vulnerable in most of your videos and you are very right. I sincerely hope that young people like you will take the cue and work on their own relationships. God will continue to increase your wisdom

  • @manjidanjuma5978
    @manjidanjuma5978 Před 2 lety +5

    Thanks so much.
    Boundaries is not enough, we need the grace of God. I've learnt alot and I'm willing to set more Boundaries.

  • @unyimeudom9017
    @unyimeudom9017 Před 2 lety +8

    You guys are a great inspiration to me,thank u so much for being so vulnerable.I've learnt a lot & I trust God to help me apply all you av shared.

  • @happinessajayitv
    @happinessajayitv Před 2 lety +11

    It is good that both of you agreed.
    In a case where it is only one person that is intentional about it and the other person is not really intentional about it.
    It will be a tough one oo

  • @nzubeokeke1820
    @nzubeokeke1820 Před 2 lety +1

    You guys really did well. This is how beautiful things turn out when a couple shares same values. I admire you both.
    I'm a new subscriber and I enjoy watching your video.

  • @olusola_ayommieh
    @olusola_ayommieh Před rokem +1

    Whaooo...... I have always been looking for something like this and seriously this is more than enough. Thanks for being a channel of blessing to many relationship out there. The Lord keep you both🙌

  • @ngenweicolette3530
    @ngenweicolette3530 Před 2 lety +10

    I love u guys. If I could live my life again from afresh, I'll do 2 things differently. I'll give my heart to Jesus even while in the stomach n I'll marry as a virgin. Thanks for sharing this, God bless u both n ur union.

  • @dennisarkoh9427
    @dennisarkoh9427 Před 2 lety +3

    You guys are so real . May God genuinely bless you

  • @afolabiesther5669
    @afolabiesther5669 Před 2 lety +17

    Honestly I appreciate your vulnerability.
    We need people who can actually sacrifice their vulnerability for us to learn
    Thank you Stalwart lovers for being so real and honest

  • @olumuyiwaojo3532
    @olumuyiwaojo3532 Před 2 lety +6

    May the Lord perfect your marriage. You're a good example to follow and not a blunder to avoid. Just love you both.

  • @GistwithComphy
    @GistwithComphy Před 2 lety

    This is very helpful to me. I am one of the few at seeks to do only what makes God happy but trust me it hasn't been easy but under God we can do it. I'm so blessed by this video. I have been a longtime subscriber and a notification gang member but this I think is my first comment.

  • @ufuomawinner1688
    @ufuomawinner1688 Před 2 lety +1

    This is so enlightening, thank you so much! God bless your home.

  • @tijanikeyefunmi3788
    @tijanikeyefunmi3788 Před 2 lety +2

    Wow...thumbs up to the stalwarts...thank you for representing Christ in your marriage and serving as an example for us...I am encouraged honestly.

  • @abigailchepchirchir2829
    @abigailchepchirchir2829 Před 2 lety +5

    You are so much encouraging fam ❣️ Let blessings follow you in your marriage

  • @mopreciousajokanle9769
    @mopreciousajokanle9769 Před 2 lety +5

    I really love this. The Lord bless you guys and your family the more.

  • @poetrysavant
    @poetrysavant Před 2 lety +1

    God bless you guys for sharing your honesty and truth. We all fall short of the glory God but it’s God’s grace that keeps our paths straight.

  • @peacejames9667
    @peacejames9667 Před 2 lety +8

    It's the honesty for me. You keep being an inspiration to me.

  • @yomaibuje621
    @yomaibuje621 Před 2 lety +2

    Your honesty and vulnerability should be studied. Thank you for this. I am edified.

  • @kwanukamunjunga61
    @kwanukamunjunga61 Před 2 lety +1

    Well i just want to say that your ministry is such a blessing, encouraging young youths everywhere to walk in purity. its beautiful to see that living in purity is possible, thank you. May God bless you and I pray through your ministry may many be inspired to walk in purity.

  • @mojubafunsho7203
    @mojubafunsho7203 Před 2 lety +1

    This is really educative and highly instructive. More grace to you and your home.

  • @praiseokechukwu4021
    @praiseokechukwu4021 Před 2 lety +1

    Very great 👍💯
    This came at the right time, may the good Lord continue to bless you both AMEN 🙏.
    Thank you very much.

  • @jdrumhow
    @jdrumhow Před 2 lety +3

    There is freedom in sharing your actual thoughts. If you don't share those moments of weakness then it can sometimes grow into something deeper and be harder to overcome.

  • @Adeola-Ibukunoluwa
    @Adeola-Ibukunoluwa Před 2 lety +29

    This was really encouraging. I love how you guys are always vulnerable and honest with us💙.
    Y'all serving us kingdom marriage goals🥰

  • @thechiman
    @thechiman Před 2 lety +1

    This was very helpful. I am learning and enjoying watching your videos. Thank you two!!!

  • @alebiosuonaopemipo6571
    @alebiosuonaopemipo6571 Před 2 lety +15

    I feel like screaming!
    You know what guys, continue to do everything God instructs you. Very useful. Thank you

  • @G_attar
    @G_attar Před 2 lety

    I so much love that you always express yourself without reservation, thank you

  • @onosighoiroro297
    @onosighoiroro297 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you so much. When intending couples make mistakes, it's best to be real and honest ...get up immediately. I haven't just made mistakes in the best, but went even deeper (Thank God for coming to the rescue). I'm just glad I watched this. OMG, I'm actually becoming part of this family. Thanks for being HOT (Humble, Open and Transparent)

  • @DeBeliverinchrist
    @DeBeliverinchrist Před 2 lety +1

    These couples are my favorite and I love to watch their videos their conversation is plain, scriptural base and fun full conversation

  • @rosemaryifeyinwa7017
    @rosemaryifeyinwa7017 Před 2 lety +6

    Thanks Guys for this doing. I have learnt some valuable lessons for my next relationship. 💡📝🙏🙏
    And to think about it, I can hardly resist but look forward to watching your next video since I stumbled upon your channel this year. It's been an educative and inspiring journey. Thank you guys for all you do and God bless you load. 💯💥💥🔥🔥🔥✨🤗❤❤🌹

  • @lorenzokafita9083
    @lorenzokafita9083 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. I really learned alot from it and continue sharing good advice and being a good example for many. 👏👏👏

  • @akinyemitoluwaniyin6003
    @akinyemitoluwaniyin6003 Před 2 lety +64

    Sister Bae is literally glowing 😍. Thank you so much for this 🙏.

  • @abiodunjoy5819
    @abiodunjoy5819 Před 2 lety +2

    I'm a new subscriber here. I've watched like 4 of your videos today. I got alot of comfort watching your videos, You guys being real and all. Alot of questions I've been asking myself I got them here. Thank you so much for putting all these out for us to learn. I really appreciate. Personally, I do not take it for granted. Btw you two are so cute😊. Sister Bae is beautiful. God! her smile is a killer😍. Also, I'm following you guys on Instagram. Congratulations on your new location 🎉🎊🎊

  • @VictoriaAdeyeye26
    @VictoriaAdeyeye26 Před 2 lety +2

    This is so important! Thanks for sharing

  • @awotimehinfeyikemi8107

    This is great, I learnt alot from this video, thanks for being real and sharing with us, God bless and increase your wisdom

  • @Oluwabukola_Oni
    @Oluwabukola_Oni Před 2 lety +4

    Merry Christmas.. Thank you for always being real💕💕💕

  • @josephugochukwu1360
    @josephugochukwu1360 Před 2 lety +1

    Happy for you people. May God bless your home and uphold you to always stand firm in Him

  • @lovelyphebian9068
    @lovelyphebian9068 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you so much for this... would really go a long way
    God continually bless your union❤

  • @toluwalopeerioluwa1146
    @toluwalopeerioluwa1146 Před 2 lety +18

    This is the second time am watching you two
    And Indeed you are lovable people 😀😍😍
    The first video was the wedding night and you guys are TOO REAL
    I LOVE IT💓❤️❤️😍
    And this too, is amazing
    Thanks for being REAL, HONEST and REALISTIC
    I love you guys😍🥰🤩😍🥰
    And
    THANK YOU 👍👍👍

  • @lydiaogualiri750
    @lydiaogualiri750 Před 2 lety +8

    I really enjoyed this and learnt a lot. God bless you both and keep on using you both to bless lives😊

  • @roberttawal6196
    @roberttawal6196 Před 2 lety +24

    It was helpful to me who is a dad to a 17 years old girls...it will make sense when am sharing relationship matters with them... 🙏🙏🙏

  • @tolulopebayodegoldytee
    @tolulopebayodegoldytee Před 2 lety +1

    Wow, I love you guys for been so real. "Grace is what can help you"🙌🙌 God bless you so much for helping youths out there💗

  • @israelhiamaley5130
    @israelhiamaley5130 Před 2 lety +6

    I really loved 🥰 how honest both of you are with regards to your challenges with regards to purity before marriage. May your advice go a long way to help 1000s of young Christians who wants to honor Jesus with their bodies before marriage. Amen 🙏

  • @roseesham6356
    @roseesham6356 Před 2 lety +1

    Following you from Kenya....I wish more youth will come and listen to this

  • @janefrances6486
    @janefrances6486 Před rokem

    I wish I could give a double like☺️
    You people have always been aware of your assignment right from the onset...
    Thank you stalwart lovers 🙏

  • @elizabethazeh778
    @elizabethazeh778 Před 2 lety +7

    So beautiful to watch,I smiled through out 😁

  • @taiwoalalade4522
    @taiwoalalade4522 Před rokem

    So proud of you guys, keep making impact. God bless you real good.

  • @taiwosonoiki2607
    @taiwosonoiki2607 Před 2 lety +14

    I just love you both.
    It's as though I am receiving premarital counsel from you both just like the marriage counsellors in church..
    God bless and keep you in Jesus' name.

  • @akinsikuelizabeth5780
    @akinsikuelizabeth5780 Před 2 lety +7

    Inspiring 😁
    Thank you both for those words of knowledge.
    May God bless your marriage.
    I love you both ❤️

  • @destinyani755
    @destinyani755 Před 2 lety

    Awesome 👏 👏 👏
    Thank you so much for this.
    You two are amazing.

  • @olabisiogunbase1803
    @olabisiogunbase1803 Před 2 lety +10

    A fantastic video.....real, practical and as usual down to earth. Very useful suggestions.
    I see my own relationship in yours in more ways than one.
    God bless you both mightily in Jesus name. Amen.
    Luv u loads.
    Compliments of this joyous season dears.
    A blest and happy New year in advance.

  • @abiayinde6246
    @abiayinde6246 Před měsícem

    I was really blessed. What I could deduce from both of you though very young at the start of your relationship was ,you were mature , honest and you let friendship prevailed. I wish I was this brave, informed and matured at your age . Thank God for your life

  • @Phenomenal_Ifiok
    @Phenomenal_Ifiok Před 2 lety

    Thanks for being vulnerable. I love you guys😊

  • @iyanuolluwa
    @iyanuolluwa Před 2 lety +1

    THANKS SO MUCH FOR THIS. YOU ARE A GREAT INSPIRATION, GOD CONTINUALLY BLESS AND UPHOLD YOU. LOVE YOU BOTH GREATLY. WHAT A LOVELY COUPLE✨✨✨

  • @mariapattyy
    @mariapattyy Před 2 lety

    I subscribed because of how honest you guys are. Keep it up, it's inspiring ♥️

  • @joymusangi4149
    @joymusangi4149 Před 2 lety

    You guys you have been a blessing to many may God keep you

  • @dorcasgitari4125
    @dorcasgitari4125 Před 2 lety +38

    The realness in all your videos is on another level 😊😊
    You are always a blessing
    God bless you

  • @thelovebitug
    @thelovebitug Před 2 lety +6

    we are loving every bit of it, setting boundaries is key for remaining pure

  • @esungebernice9973
    @esungebernice9973 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for this video. You guys are a blessing to me.

  • @chibuikechime91
    @chibuikechime91 Před 2 lety

    Once God is involved, you will always know where and when to draw back from each other. I really admire your sincerity. You are just good.